Counselor Watch for non verbal communication Anything I'd get in trouble for Be argumentative or defensive Say "it's all your fault" Spritual conflicts Help clarify Set aside your prejudices Being safe from violence Interrupt Medical issues Give your full attention Be genuine and straightforward If able, remove distractions Find good physical space Keep the conversation going Share concerns before things get out of hand Call people names or label Be open- minded Step- family Grandparents Principal Team members Know what's important to you Use profanity Talk down to the other person Say "you never listen" Give feedback Pretend you know how someone feels Clergy Listen patiently Being different Express interest Build trust Conflicts Abusive situations Make eye contact Guilt Friends Be judgemental or critical Think before you talk Engage in a two-way conversation Drugs Think about the other person Fears Neighbors Spread gossip or rumors Listen for main ideas Co- workers Raise your voice Teachers Parents Peers Find a good time to talk Communicate your expectations Ask relevant questions Siblings Work it out Finish listening before you speak Best friend Sadness Ask questions Use interested body language Siblings Notice signs of moods Healthcare professional Reflect feelings Be assertive and respectful Express interest Relationships Intimidate someone Family problems Jump to conclusions Counselor Watch for non verbal communication Anything I'd get in trouble for Be argumentative or defensive Say "it's all your fault" Spritual conflicts Help clarify Set aside your prejudices Being safe from violence Interrupt Medical issues Give your full attention Be genuine and straightforward If able, remove distractions Find good physical space Keep the conversation going Share concerns before things get out of hand Call people names or label Be open- minded Step- family Grandparents Principal Team members Know what's important to you Use profanity Talk down to the other person Say "you never listen" Give feedback Pretend you know how someone feels Clergy Listen patiently Being different Express interest Build trust Conflicts Abusive situations Make eye contact Guilt Friends Be judgemental or critical Think before you talk Engage in a two-way conversation Drugs Think about the other person Fears Neighbors Spread gossip or rumors Listen for main ideas Co- workers Raise your voice Teachers Parents Peers Find a good time to talk Communicate your expectations Ask relevant questions Siblings Work it out Finish listening before you speak Best friend Sadness Ask questions Use interested body language Siblings Notice signs of moods Healthcare professional Reflect feelings Be assertive and respectful Express interest Relationships Intimidate someone Family problems Jump to conclusions
(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
G-Counselor
O-Watch for non verbal communication
I-Anything I'd get in trouble for
N-Be argumentative or defensive
N-Say "it's all your fault"
I-Spritual conflicts
O-Help clarify
O-Set aside your prejudices
I-Being safe from violence
N-Interrupt
I-Medical issues
O-Give your full attention
B-Be genuine and straightforward
B-If able, remove distractions
B-Find good physical space
B-Keep the conversation going
B-Share concerns before things get out of hand
N-Call people names or label
B- Be open-minded
G-Step-family
G-Grandparents
G-Principal
G-Team members
B-Know what's important to you
N-Use profanity
N-Talk down to the other person
N-Say "you never listen"
O-Give feedback
N-Pretend you know how someone feels
G-Clergy
O-Listen patiently
I-Being different
O-Express interest
B-Build trust
I-Conflicts
I-Abusive situations
O-Make eye contact
I-Guilt
G-Friends
N-Be judgemental or critical
O-Think before you talk
B-Engage in a two-way conversation
I-Drugs
B-Think about the other person
I-Fears
G-Neighbors
N-Spread gossip or rumors
O-Listen for main ideas
G-Co-workers
N-Raise your voice
G-Teachers
G-Parents
G-Peers
B-Find a good time to talk
B-Communicate your expectations
O-Ask relevant questions
G-Siblings
B-Work it out
O-Finish listening before you speak
G-Best friend
I-Sadness
B-Ask questions
O-Use interested body language
G-Siblings
O-Notice signs of moods
G-Healthcare professional
O-Reflect feelings
B-Be assertive and respectful
O-Express interest
I-Relationships
N-Intimidate someone
I-Family problems
N-Jump to conclusions