Preferssocialgatheringsover "us"timeDifferentiatesbetween youand them whentaking aboutthe relationshipAlwaysneedsvalidationMakesclear thatthey havea plan BTalks a lotaboutpastcrushesIs someoneelse than theperson youfell in lovewithDoesn'tappreciategifts withemotionalvalueIs never inthe hereand nowCan't betheirauthenticselfAvoidsconflicts andtakingresponsibilityGaslightingNitpickingFallseasily inlove withothersLostthemagicAvoidstouchesHas noenergy foryou leftDoesn't trustyou - isuntrustworthyComparesyou withothersPromisesare notkeptDoesn'tstopworryingPrioritizestextingothers whilebeing at yourplaceTakesyou forgrantedYou aretheirmentalsupportYou are notenough fortheir sexualneeds andfantasiesPreferssocialgatheringsover "us"timeDifferentiatesbetween youand them whentaking aboutthe relationshipAlwaysneedsvalidationMakesclear thatthey havea plan BTalks a lotaboutpastcrushesIs someoneelse than theperson youfell in lovewithDoesn'tappreciategifts withemotionalvalueIs never inthe hereand nowCan't betheirauthenticselfAvoidsconflicts andtakingresponsibilityGaslightingNitpickingFallseasily inlove withothersLostthemagicAvoidstouchesHas noenergy foryou leftDoesn't trustyou - isuntrustworthyComparesyou withothersPromisesare notkeptDoesn'tstopworryingPrioritizestextingothers whilebeing at yourplaceTakesyou forgrantedYou aretheirmentalsupportYou are notenough fortheir sexualneeds andfantasies

Relationship Red Flags - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Prefers social gatherings over "us" time
  2. Differentiates between you and them when taking about the relationship
  3. Always needs validation
  4. Makes clear that they have a plan B
  5. Talks a lot about past crushes
  6. Is someone else than the person you fell in love with
  7. Doesn't appreciate gifts with emotional value
  8. Is never in the here and now
  9. Can't be their authentic self
  10. Avoids conflicts and taking responsibility
  11. Gaslighting
  12. Nitpicking
  13. Falls easily in love with others
  14. Lost the magic
  15. Avoids touches
  16. Has no energy for you left
  17. Doesn't trust you - is untrustworthy
  18. Compares you with others
  19. Promises are not kept
  20. Doesn't stop worrying
  21. Prioritizes texting others while being at your place
  22. Takes you for granted
  23. You are their mental support
  24. You are not enough for their sexual needs and fantasies