Preferssocialgatheringsover "us"timeAlwaysneedsvalidationAvoidstouchesLostthemagicIs never inthe hereand nowDifferentiatesbetween youand them whentaking aboutthe relationshipCan't betheirauthenticselfHas noenergy foryou leftIs someoneelse than theperson youfell in lovewithYou aretheirmentalsupportFallseasily inlove withothersTakesyou forgrantedNitpickingGaslightingYou are notenough fortheir sexualneeds andfantasiesDoesn't trustyou - isuntrustworthyComparesyou withothersAvoidsconflicts andtakingresponsibilityDoesn'tappreciategifts withemotionalvalueTalks a lotaboutpastcrushesDoesn'tstopworryingPromisesare notkeptPrioritizestextingothers whilebeing at yourplaceMakesclear thatthey havea plan BPreferssocialgatheringsover "us"timeAlwaysneedsvalidationAvoidstouchesLostthemagicIs never inthe hereand nowDifferentiatesbetween youand them whentaking aboutthe relationshipCan't betheirauthenticselfHas noenergy foryou leftIs someoneelse than theperson youfell in lovewithYou aretheirmentalsupportFallseasily inlove withothersTakesyou forgrantedNitpickingGaslightingYou are notenough fortheir sexualneeds andfantasiesDoesn't trustyou - isuntrustworthyComparesyou withothersAvoidsconflicts andtakingresponsibilityDoesn'tappreciategifts withemotionalvalueTalks a lotaboutpastcrushesDoesn'tstopworryingPromisesare notkeptPrioritizestextingothers whilebeing at yourplaceMakesclear thatthey havea plan B

Relationship Red Flags - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Prefers social gatherings over "us" time
  2. Always needs validation
  3. Avoids touches
  4. Lost the magic
  5. Is never in the here and now
  6. Differentiates between you and them when taking about the relationship
  7. Can't be their authentic self
  8. Has no energy for you left
  9. Is someone else than the person you fell in love with
  10. You are their mental support
  11. Falls easily in love with others
  12. Takes you for granted
  13. Nitpicking
  14. Gaslighting
  15. You are not enough for their sexual needs and fantasies
  16. Doesn't trust you - is untrustworthy
  17. Compares you with others
  18. Avoids conflicts and taking responsibility
  19. Doesn't appreciate gifts with emotional value
  20. Talks a lot about past crushes
  21. Doesn't stop worrying
  22. Promises are not kept
  23. Prioritizes texting others while being at your place
  24. Makes clear that they have a plan B