they try tocontrol whatyou arewearingthey dontlisten to you/brush youoff /not caredo not care ifyou are busy/want 24/7 ofyour time/dependentTOXICThey rely onyou as theirsole support forserious mentalhealth strugglesor past traumasdrug/alcoholabusebreadcrumbingmarried /hasanothersignificantotherYour family (orclose friendgroup) is vocalabout not likingthemlowkbipolarthey talkaboutthey're ex othe first datewants poly/threesomeconstantlyfighting/alwaysblaming youbadhygienemet ononlinedatingappphysicalabusetalksbehindyour backits not you itsme/ i am notready for arelationshipyet/compulsiveliarcheatingthey try tocontrol whoyou hang outwith/jealousythey get madif you don'ttell themwhere youare goingverbal abuse/manipulative/gaslightyrude topeople inserviceindustrypickmethey try tocontrol whatyou arewearingthey dontlisten to you/brush youoff /not caredo not care ifyou are busy/want 24/7 ofyour time/dependentTOXICThey rely onyou as theirsole support forserious mentalhealth strugglesor past traumasdrug/alcoholabusebreadcrumbingmarried /hasanothersignificantotherYour family (orclose friendgroup) is vocalabout not likingthemlowkbipolarthey talkaboutthey're ex othe first datewants poly/threesomeconstantlyfighting/alwaysblaming youbadhygienemet ononlinedatingappphysicalabusetalksbehindyour backits not you itsme/ i am notready for arelationshipyet/compulsiveliarcheatingthey try tocontrol whoyou hang outwith/jealousythey get madif you don'ttell themwhere youare goingverbal abuse/manipulative/gaslightyrude topeople inserviceindustrypickme

RED FLAGS - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. they try to control what you are wearing
  2. they dont listen to you /brush you off /not care
  3. do not care if you are busy /want 24/7 of your time /dependent
  4. TOXIC
  5. They rely on you as their sole support for serious mental health struggles or past traumas
  6. drug/alcohol abuse
  7. bread crumbing
  8. married /has another significant other
  9. Your family (or close friend group) is vocal about not liking them
  10. lowk bipolar
  11. they talk about they're ex o the first date
  12. wants poly /threesome
  13. constantly fighting /always blaming you
  14. bad hygiene
  15. met on online dating app
  16. physical abuse
  17. talks behind your back
  18. its not you its me/ i am not ready for a relationship yet/
  19. compulsive liar
  20. cheating
  21. they try to control who you hang out with/ jealousy
  22. they get mad if you don't tell them where you are going
  23. verbal abuse /manipulative /gaslighty
  24. rude to people in service industry
  25. pick me