TOXICphysicalabusethey try tocontrol whoyou hang outwith/jealousythey get madif you don'ttell themwhere youare goingpickmerude topeople inserviceindustrythey dontlisten to you/brush youoff /not carecompulsiveliarthey talkaboutthey're ex othe first datebadhygieneThey rely onyou as theirsole support forserious mentalhealth strugglesor past traumasbreadcrumbingmarried /hasanothersignificantotherdo not care ifyou are busy/want 24/7 ofyour time/dependentYour family (orclose friendgroup) is vocalabout not likingthemthey try tocontrol whatyou arewearinglowkbipolarits not you itsme/ i am notready for arelationshipyet/verbal abuse/manipulative/gaslightymet ononlinedatingappcheatingconstantlyfighting/alwaysblaming youdrug/alcoholabusewants poly/threesometalksbehindyour backTOXICphysicalabusethey try tocontrol whoyou hang outwith/jealousythey get madif you don'ttell themwhere youare goingpickmerude topeople inserviceindustrythey dontlisten to you/brush youoff /not carecompulsiveliarthey talkaboutthey're ex othe first datebadhygieneThey rely onyou as theirsole support forserious mentalhealth strugglesor past traumasbreadcrumbingmarried /hasanothersignificantotherdo not care ifyou are busy/want 24/7 ofyour time/dependentYour family (orclose friendgroup) is vocalabout not likingthemthey try tocontrol whatyou arewearinglowkbipolarits not you itsme/ i am notready for arelationshipyet/verbal abuse/manipulative/gaslightymet ononlinedatingappcheatingconstantlyfighting/alwaysblaming youdrug/alcoholabusewants poly/threesometalksbehindyour back

RED FLAGS - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. TOXIC
  2. physical abuse
  3. they try to control who you hang out with/ jealousy
  4. they get mad if you don't tell them where you are going
  5. pick me
  6. rude to people in service industry
  7. they dont listen to you /brush you off /not care
  8. compulsive liar
  9. they talk about they're ex o the first date
  10. bad hygiene
  11. They rely on you as their sole support for serious mental health struggles or past traumas
  12. bread crumbing
  13. married /has another significant other
  14. do not care if you are busy /want 24/7 of your time /dependent
  15. Your family (or close friend group) is vocal about not liking them
  16. they try to control what you are wearing
  17. lowk bipolar
  18. its not you its me/ i am not ready for a relationship yet/
  19. verbal abuse /manipulative /gaslighty
  20. met on online dating app
  21. cheating
  22. constantly fighting /always blaming you
  23. drug/alcohol abuse
  24. wants poly /threesome
  25. talks behind your back