its not you itsme/ i am notready for arelationshipyet/they try tocontrol whatyou arewearingYour family (orclose friendgroup) is vocalabout not likingthemmet ononlinedatingappdrug/alcoholabuselowkbipolarbadhygienetalksbehindyour backthey talkaboutthey're ex othe first datethey get madif you don'ttell themwhere youare goingThey rely onyou as theirsole support forserious mentalhealth strugglesor past traumasconstantlyfighting/alwaysblaming youcompulsiveliarTOXICphysicalabusecheatingthey try tocontrol whoyou hang outwith/jealousyrude topeople inserviceindustrybreadcrumbingthey dontlisten to you/brush youoff /not caredo not care ifyou are busy/want 24/7 ofyour time/dependentpickmewants poly/threesomeverbal abuse/manipulative/gaslightymarried /hasanothersignificantotherits not you itsme/ i am notready for arelationshipyet/they try tocontrol whatyou arewearingYour family (orclose friendgroup) is vocalabout not likingthemmet ononlinedatingappdrug/alcoholabuselowkbipolarbadhygienetalksbehindyour backthey talkaboutthey're ex othe first datethey get madif you don'ttell themwhere youare goingThey rely onyou as theirsole support forserious mentalhealth strugglesor past traumasconstantlyfighting/alwaysblaming youcompulsiveliarTOXICphysicalabusecheatingthey try tocontrol whoyou hang outwith/jealousyrude topeople inserviceindustrybreadcrumbingthey dontlisten to you/brush youoff /not caredo not care ifyou are busy/want 24/7 ofyour time/dependentpickmewants poly/threesomeverbal abuse/manipulative/gaslightymarried /hasanothersignificantother

RED FLAGS - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. its not you its me/ i am not ready for a relationship yet/
  2. they try to control what you are wearing
  3. Your family (or close friend group) is vocal about not liking them
  4. met on online dating app
  5. drug/alcohol abuse
  6. lowk bipolar
  7. bad hygiene
  8. talks behind your back
  9. they talk about they're ex o the first date
  10. they get mad if you don't tell them where you are going
  11. They rely on you as their sole support for serious mental health struggles or past traumas
  12. constantly fighting /always blaming you
  13. compulsive liar
  14. TOXIC
  15. physical abuse
  16. cheating
  17. they try to control who you hang out with/ jealousy
  18. rude to people in service industry
  19. bread crumbing
  20. they dont listen to you /brush you off /not care
  21. do not care if you are busy /want 24/7 of your time /dependent
  22. pick me
  23. wants poly /threesome
  24. verbal abuse /manipulative /gaslighty
  25. married /has another significant other