constantlyfighting/alwaysblaming youdo not care ifyou are busy/want 24/7 ofyour time/dependentdrug/alcoholabuseThey rely onyou as theirsole support forserious mentalhealth strugglesor past traumascheatingtalksbehindyour backpickmeTOXICbadhygieneYour family (orclose friendgroup) is vocalabout not likingthemmet ononlinedatingappthey try tocontrol whoyou hang outwith/jealousyits not you itsme/ i am notready for arelationshipyet/they try tocontrol whatyou arewearingthey talkaboutthey're ex othe first daterude topeople inserviceindustryverbal abuse/manipulative/gaslightybreadcrumbingthey dontlisten to you/brush youoff /not carelowkbipolarthey get madif you don'ttell themwhere youare goingcompulsiveliarwants poly/threesomemarried /hasanothersignificantotherphysicalabuseconstantlyfighting/alwaysblaming youdo not care ifyou are busy/want 24/7 ofyour time/dependentdrug/alcoholabuseThey rely onyou as theirsole support forserious mentalhealth strugglesor past traumascheatingtalksbehindyour backpickmeTOXICbadhygieneYour family (orclose friendgroup) is vocalabout not likingthemmet ononlinedatingappthey try tocontrol whoyou hang outwith/jealousyits not you itsme/ i am notready for arelationshipyet/they try tocontrol whatyou arewearingthey talkaboutthey're ex othe first daterude topeople inserviceindustryverbal abuse/manipulative/gaslightybreadcrumbingthey dontlisten to you/brush youoff /not carelowkbipolarthey get madif you don'ttell themwhere youare goingcompulsiveliarwants poly/threesomemarried /hasanothersignificantotherphysicalabuse

RED FLAGS - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. constantly fighting /always blaming you
  2. do not care if you are busy /want 24/7 of your time /dependent
  3. drug/alcohol abuse
  4. They rely on you as their sole support for serious mental health struggles or past traumas
  5. cheating
  6. talks behind your back
  7. pick me
  8. TOXIC
  9. bad hygiene
  10. Your family (or close friend group) is vocal about not liking them
  11. met on online dating app
  12. they try to control who you hang out with/ jealousy
  13. its not you its me/ i am not ready for a relationship yet/
  14. they try to control what you are wearing
  15. they talk about they're ex o the first date
  16. rude to people in service industry
  17. verbal abuse /manipulative /gaslighty
  18. bread crumbing
  19. they dont listen to you /brush you off /not care
  20. lowk bipolar
  21. they get mad if you don't tell them where you are going
  22. compulsive liar
  23. wants poly /threesome
  24. married /has another significant other
  25. physical abuse