drug/alcoholabusethey try tocontrol whatyou arewearingtalksbehindyour backverbal abuse/manipulative/gaslightyTOXICpickmethey talkaboutthey're ex othe first datemarried /hasanothersignificantothercheatingthey try tocontrol whoyou hang outwith/jealousyconstantlyfighting/alwaysblaming youbadhygienephysicalabusethey dontlisten to you/brush youoff /not carebreadcrumbingdo not care ifyou are busy/want 24/7 ofyour time/dependentYour family (orclose friendgroup) is vocalabout not likingthemcompulsiveliarmet ononlinedatingappits not you itsme/ i am notready for arelationshipyet/lowkbipolarThey rely onyou as theirsole support forserious mentalhealth strugglesor past traumasrude topeople inserviceindustrythey get madif you don'ttell themwhere youare goingwants poly/threesomedrug/alcoholabusethey try tocontrol whatyou arewearingtalksbehindyour backverbal abuse/manipulative/gaslightyTOXICpickmethey talkaboutthey're ex othe first datemarried /hasanothersignificantothercheatingthey try tocontrol whoyou hang outwith/jealousyconstantlyfighting/alwaysblaming youbadhygienephysicalabusethey dontlisten to you/brush youoff /not carebreadcrumbingdo not care ifyou are busy/want 24/7 ofyour time/dependentYour family (orclose friendgroup) is vocalabout not likingthemcompulsiveliarmet ononlinedatingappits not you itsme/ i am notready for arelationshipyet/lowkbipolarThey rely onyou as theirsole support forserious mentalhealth strugglesor past traumasrude topeople inserviceindustrythey get madif you don'ttell themwhere youare goingwants poly/threesome

RED FLAGS - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. drug/alcohol abuse
  2. they try to control what you are wearing
  3. talks behind your back
  4. verbal abuse /manipulative /gaslighty
  5. TOXIC
  6. pick me
  7. they talk about they're ex o the first date
  8. married /has another significant other
  9. cheating
  10. they try to control who you hang out with/ jealousy
  11. constantly fighting /always blaming you
  12. bad hygiene
  13. physical abuse
  14. they dont listen to you /brush you off /not care
  15. bread crumbing
  16. do not care if you are busy /want 24/7 of your time /dependent
  17. Your family (or close friend group) is vocal about not liking them
  18. compulsive liar
  19. met on online dating app
  20. its not you its me/ i am not ready for a relationship yet/
  21. lowk bipolar
  22. They rely on you as their sole support for serious mental health struggles or past traumas
  23. rude to people in service industry
  24. they get mad if you don't tell them where you are going
  25. wants poly /threesome