Is alwaysmentallyabsent whenbeing withyouDoesn'trespectyourboundariesYou aretheir mentalsupport (onedirectional)You arenever enoughfor theirsexual needsand fantasiesNitpickingTakesyourautonomyCan't betheirauthenticselfTalks a lotaboutpastcrushesDoesn't trustyou - isuntrustworthyIsolatesyou fromyourfriendsDoesn'tvalue timespendtogetherAvoidstouchesIs alwaysdefensiveTakesyou forgrantedFallseasily inlove withothersIs someoneelse than theperson youfell in lovewithDoesn'tappreciategifts ofemotionalvalueDoesn'tsee therelationshipas a unityMakes clearthat theyhave a plan B(sees you asreplaceable)Has noenergy foryou left,rather investsit elsewhereGaslightingTreats youas inferior toothers(negativecomparison)Avoids opencommunicationand takingresponsibilityPromisesare notkeptIs alwaysmentallyabsent whenbeing withyouDoesn'trespectyourboundariesYou aretheir mentalsupport (onedirectional)You arenever enoughfor theirsexual needsand fantasiesNitpickingTakesyourautonomyCan't betheirauthenticselfTalks a lotaboutpastcrushesDoesn't trustyou - isuntrustworthyIsolatesyou fromyourfriendsDoesn'tvalue timespendtogetherAvoidstouchesIs alwaysdefensiveTakesyou forgrantedFallseasily inlove withothersIs someoneelse than theperson youfell in lovewithDoesn'tappreciategifts ofemotionalvalueDoesn'tsee therelationshipas a unityMakes clearthat theyhave a plan B(sees you asreplaceable)Has noenergy foryou left,rather investsit elsewhereGaslightingTreats youas inferior toothers(negativecomparison)Avoids opencommunicationand takingresponsibilityPromisesare notkept

Relationship Red Flags - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Is always mentally absent when being with you
  2. Doesn't respect your boundaries
  3. You are their mental support (one directional)
  4. You are never enough for their sexual needs and fantasies
  5. Nitpicking
  6. Takes your autonomy
  7. Can't be their authentic self
  8. Talks a lot about past crushes
  9. Doesn't trust you - is untrustworthy
  10. Isolates you from your friends
  11. Doesn't value time spend together
  12. Avoids touches
  13. Is always defensive
  14. Takes you for granted
  15. Falls easily in love with others
  16. Is someone else than the person you fell in love with
  17. Doesn't appreciate gifts of emotional value
  18. Doesn't see the relationship as a unity
  19. Makes clear that they have a plan B (sees you as replaceable)
  20. Has no energy for you left, rather invests it elsewhere
  21. Gaslighting
  22. Treats you as inferior to others (negative comparison)
  23. Avoids open communication and taking responsibility
  24. Promises are not kept