Doesn'tvalue timespendtogetherTalks a lotaboutpastcrushesYou arenever enoughfor theirsexual needsand fantasiesIs alwaysdefensiveMakes clearthat theyhave a plan B(sees you asreplaceable)Is alwaysmentallyabsent whenbeing withyouAvoids opencommunicationand takingresponsibilityDoesn'tsee therelationshipas a unityDoesn'trespectyourboundariesYou aretheir mentalsupport (onedirectional)Treats youas inferior toothers(negativecomparison)NitpickingFallseasily inlove withothersDoesn't trustyou - isuntrustworthyAvoidstouchesTakesyourautonomyIs someoneelse than theperson youfell in lovewithTakesyou forgrantedGaslightingHas noenergy foryou left,rather investsit elsewhereCan't betheirauthenticselfIsolatesyou fromyourfriendsDoesn'tappreciategifts ofemotionalvaluePromisesare notkeptDoesn'tvalue timespendtogetherTalks a lotaboutpastcrushesYou arenever enoughfor theirsexual needsand fantasiesIs alwaysdefensiveMakes clearthat theyhave a plan B(sees you asreplaceable)Is alwaysmentallyabsent whenbeing withyouAvoids opencommunicationand takingresponsibilityDoesn'tsee therelationshipas a unityDoesn'trespectyourboundariesYou aretheir mentalsupport (onedirectional)Treats youas inferior toothers(negativecomparison)NitpickingFallseasily inlove withothersDoesn't trustyou - isuntrustworthyAvoidstouchesTakesyourautonomyIs someoneelse than theperson youfell in lovewithTakesyou forgrantedGaslightingHas noenergy foryou left,rather investsit elsewhereCan't betheirauthenticselfIsolatesyou fromyourfriendsDoesn'tappreciategifts ofemotionalvaluePromisesare notkept

Relationship Red Flags - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Doesn't value time spend together
  2. Talks a lot about past crushes
  3. You are never enough for their sexual needs and fantasies
  4. Is always defensive
  5. Makes clear that they have a plan B (sees you as replaceable)
  6. Is always mentally absent when being with you
  7. Avoids open communication and taking responsibility
  8. Doesn't see the relationship as a unity
  9. Doesn't respect your boundaries
  10. You are their mental support (one directional)
  11. Treats you as inferior to others (negative comparison)
  12. Nitpicking
  13. Falls easily in love with others
  14. Doesn't trust you - is untrustworthy
  15. Avoids touches
  16. Takes your autonomy
  17. Is someone else than the person you fell in love with
  18. Takes you for granted
  19. Gaslighting
  20. Has no energy for you left, rather invests it elsewhere
  21. Can't be their authentic self
  22. Isolates you from your friends
  23. Doesn't appreciate gifts of emotional value
  24. Promises are not kept