TakesyourautonomyAvoids opencommunicationand takingresponsibilityFallseasily inlove withothersAvoidstouchesIsolatesyou fromyourfriendsGaslightingTalks a lotaboutpastcrushesDoesn'tappreciategifts ofemotionalvalueCan't betheirauthenticselfIs alwaysmentallyabsent whenbeing withyouYou aretheir mentalsupport (onedirectional)Treats youas inferior toothers(negativecomparison)Is someoneelse than theperson youfell in lovewithYou arenever enoughfor theirsexual needsand fantasiesPromisesare notkeptHas noenergy foryou left,rather investsit elsewhereDoesn'trespectyourboundariesDoesn't trustyou - isuntrustworthyDoesn'tvalue timespendtogetherMakes clearthat theyhave a plan B(sees you asreplaceable)Takesyou forgrantedDoesn'tsee therelationshipas a unityNitpickingIs alwaysdefensiveTakesyourautonomyAvoids opencommunicationand takingresponsibilityFallseasily inlove withothersAvoidstouchesIsolatesyou fromyourfriendsGaslightingTalks a lotaboutpastcrushesDoesn'tappreciategifts ofemotionalvalueCan't betheirauthenticselfIs alwaysmentallyabsent whenbeing withyouYou aretheir mentalsupport (onedirectional)Treats youas inferior toothers(negativecomparison)Is someoneelse than theperson youfell in lovewithYou arenever enoughfor theirsexual needsand fantasiesPromisesare notkeptHas noenergy foryou left,rather investsit elsewhereDoesn'trespectyourboundariesDoesn't trustyou - isuntrustworthyDoesn'tvalue timespendtogetherMakes clearthat theyhave a plan B(sees you asreplaceable)Takesyou forgrantedDoesn'tsee therelationshipas a unityNitpickingIs alwaysdefensive

Relationship Red Flags - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Takes your autonomy
  2. Avoids open communication and taking responsibility
  3. Falls easily in love with others
  4. Avoids touches
  5. Isolates you from your friends
  6. Gaslighting
  7. Talks a lot about past crushes
  8. Doesn't appreciate gifts of emotional value
  9. Can't be their authentic self
  10. Is always mentally absent when being with you
  11. You are their mental support (one directional)
  12. Treats you as inferior to others (negative comparison)
  13. Is someone else than the person you fell in love with
  14. You are never enough for their sexual needs and fantasies
  15. Promises are not kept
  16. Has no energy for you left, rather invests it elsewhere
  17. Doesn't respect your boundaries
  18. Doesn't trust you - is untrustworthy
  19. Doesn't value time spend together
  20. Makes clear that they have a plan B (sees you as replaceable)
  21. Takes you for granted
  22. Doesn't see the relationship as a unity
  23. Nitpicking
  24. Is always defensive