Promisesare notkeptTreats youas inferior toothers(negativecomparison)NitpickingDoesn'tappreciategifts ofemotionalvalueIs alwaysdefensiveFallseasily inlove withothersYou arenever enoughfor theirsexual needsand fantasiesTakesyou forgrantedHas noenergy foryou left,rather investsit elsewhereDoesn'tvalue timespendtogetherYou aretheir mentalsupport (onedirectional)Doesn'tsee therelationshipas a unityCan't betheirauthenticselfGaslightingDoesn't trustyou - isuntrustworthyAvoids opencommunicationand takingresponsibilityIs alwaysmentallyabsent whenbeing withyouDoesn'trespectyourboundariesTalks a lotaboutpastcrushesMakes clearthat theyhave a plan B(sees you asreplaceable)Isolatesyou fromyourfriendsTakesyourautonomyAvoidstouchesIs someoneelse than theperson youfell in lovewithPromisesare notkeptTreats youas inferior toothers(negativecomparison)NitpickingDoesn'tappreciategifts ofemotionalvalueIs alwaysdefensiveFallseasily inlove withothersYou arenever enoughfor theirsexual needsand fantasiesTakesyou forgrantedHas noenergy foryou left,rather investsit elsewhereDoesn'tvalue timespendtogetherYou aretheir mentalsupport (onedirectional)Doesn'tsee therelationshipas a unityCan't betheirauthenticselfGaslightingDoesn't trustyou - isuntrustworthyAvoids opencommunicationand takingresponsibilityIs alwaysmentallyabsent whenbeing withyouDoesn'trespectyourboundariesTalks a lotaboutpastcrushesMakes clearthat theyhave a plan B(sees you asreplaceable)Isolatesyou fromyourfriendsTakesyourautonomyAvoidstouchesIs someoneelse than theperson youfell in lovewith

Relationship Red Flags - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Promises are not kept
  2. Treats you as inferior to others (negative comparison)
  3. Nitpicking
  4. Doesn't appreciate gifts of emotional value
  5. Is always defensive
  6. Falls easily in love with others
  7. You are never enough for their sexual needs and fantasies
  8. Takes you for granted
  9. Has no energy for you left, rather invests it elsewhere
  10. Doesn't value time spend together
  11. You are their mental support (one directional)
  12. Doesn't see the relationship as a unity
  13. Can't be their authentic self
  14. Gaslighting
  15. Doesn't trust you - is untrustworthy
  16. Avoids open communication and taking responsibility
  17. Is always mentally absent when being with you
  18. Doesn't respect your boundaries
  19. Talks a lot about past crushes
  20. Makes clear that they have a plan B (sees you as replaceable)
  21. Isolates you from your friends
  22. Takes your autonomy
  23. Avoids touches
  24. Is someone else than the person you fell in love with