You aretheir mentalsupport (onedirectional)Has noenergy foryou left,rather investsit elsewhereDoesn'tappreciategifts ofemotionalvalueDoesn'tvalue timespendtogetherPromisesare notkeptTreats youas inferior toothers(negativecomparison)AvoidstouchesTakesyou forgrantedIs someoneelse than theperson youfell in lovewithFallseasily inlove withothersTakesyourautonomyDoesn'tsee therelationshipas a unityGaslightingDoesn'trespectyourboundariesIsolatesyou fromyourfriendsNitpickingCan't betheirauthenticselfIs alwaysdefensiveMakes clearthat theyhave a plan B(sees you asreplaceable)You arenever enoughfor theirsexual needsand fantasiesAvoids opencommunicationand takingresponsibilityDoesn't trustyou - isuntrustworthyTalks a lotaboutpastcrushesIs alwaysmentallyabsent whenbeing withyouYou aretheir mentalsupport (onedirectional)Has noenergy foryou left,rather investsit elsewhereDoesn'tappreciategifts ofemotionalvalueDoesn'tvalue timespendtogetherPromisesare notkeptTreats youas inferior toothers(negativecomparison)AvoidstouchesTakesyou forgrantedIs someoneelse than theperson youfell in lovewithFallseasily inlove withothersTakesyourautonomyDoesn'tsee therelationshipas a unityGaslightingDoesn'trespectyourboundariesIsolatesyou fromyourfriendsNitpickingCan't betheirauthenticselfIs alwaysdefensiveMakes clearthat theyhave a plan B(sees you asreplaceable)You arenever enoughfor theirsexual needsand fantasiesAvoids opencommunicationand takingresponsibilityDoesn't trustyou - isuntrustworthyTalks a lotaboutpastcrushesIs alwaysmentallyabsent whenbeing withyou

Relationship Red Flags - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. You are their mental support (one directional)
  2. Has no energy for you left, rather invests it elsewhere
  3. Doesn't appreciate gifts of emotional value
  4. Doesn't value time spend together
  5. Promises are not kept
  6. Treats you as inferior to others (negative comparison)
  7. Avoids touches
  8. Takes you for granted
  9. Is someone else than the person you fell in love with
  10. Falls easily in love with others
  11. Takes your autonomy
  12. Doesn't see the relationship as a unity
  13. Gaslighting
  14. Doesn't respect your boundaries
  15. Isolates you from your friends
  16. Nitpicking
  17. Can't be their authentic self
  18. Is always defensive
  19. Makes clear that they have a plan B (sees you as replaceable)
  20. You are never enough for their sexual needs and fantasies
  21. Avoids open communication and taking responsibility
  22. Doesn't trust you - is untrustworthy
  23. Talks a lot about past crushes
  24. Is always mentally absent when being with you