GaslightingDoesn'tvalue timespendtogetherTreats youas inferior toothers(negativecomparison)Can't betheirauthenticselfIsolatesyou fromyourfriendsIs someoneelse than theperson youfell in lovewithPromisesare notkeptAvoids opencommunicationand takingresponsibilityDoesn'trespectyourboundariesYou aretheir mentalsupport (onedirectional)Is alwaysdefensiveFallseasily inlove withothersIs alwaysmentallyabsent whenbeing withyouTakesyou forgrantedTakesyourautonomyDoesn't trustyou - isuntrustworthyHas noenergy foryou left,rather investsit elsewhereNitpickingAvoidstouchesYou arenever enoughfor theirsexual needsand fantasiesTalks a lotaboutpastcrushesDoesn'tsee therelationshipas a unityMakes clearthat theyhave a plan B(sees you asreplaceable)Doesn'tappreciategifts ofemotionalvalueGaslightingDoesn'tvalue timespendtogetherTreats youas inferior toothers(negativecomparison)Can't betheirauthenticselfIsolatesyou fromyourfriendsIs someoneelse than theperson youfell in lovewithPromisesare notkeptAvoids opencommunicationand takingresponsibilityDoesn'trespectyourboundariesYou aretheir mentalsupport (onedirectional)Is alwaysdefensiveFallseasily inlove withothersIs alwaysmentallyabsent whenbeing withyouTakesyou forgrantedTakesyourautonomyDoesn't trustyou - isuntrustworthyHas noenergy foryou left,rather investsit elsewhereNitpickingAvoidstouchesYou arenever enoughfor theirsexual needsand fantasiesTalks a lotaboutpastcrushesDoesn'tsee therelationshipas a unityMakes clearthat theyhave a plan B(sees you asreplaceable)Doesn'tappreciategifts ofemotionalvalue

Relationship Red Flags - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Gaslighting
  2. Doesn't value time spend together
  3. Treats you as inferior to others (negative comparison)
  4. Can't be their authentic self
  5. Isolates you from your friends
  6. Is someone else than the person you fell in love with
  7. Promises are not kept
  8. Avoids open communication and taking responsibility
  9. Doesn't respect your boundaries
  10. You are their mental support (one directional)
  11. Is always defensive
  12. Falls easily in love with others
  13. Is always mentally absent when being with you
  14. Takes you for granted
  15. Takes your autonomy
  16. Doesn't trust you - is untrustworthy
  17. Has no energy for you left, rather invests it elsewhere
  18. Nitpicking
  19. Avoids touches
  20. You are never enough for their sexual needs and fantasies
  21. Talks a lot about past crushes
  22. Doesn't see the relationship as a unity
  23. Makes clear that they have a plan B (sees you as replaceable)
  24. Doesn't appreciate gifts of emotional value