Takesyou forgrantedYou aretheir mentalsupport (onedirectional)Has noenergy foryou left,rather investsit elsewhereDoesn'tsee therelationshipas a unityIs alwaysdefensivePromisesare notkeptNitpickingDoesn'trespectyourboundariesDoesn'tvalue timespendtogetherTakesyourautonomyAvoidstouchesTreats youas inferior toothers(negativecomparison)Avoids opencommunicationand takingresponsibilityIsolatesyou fromyourfriendsFallseasily inlove withothersCan't betheirauthenticselfGaslightingIs someoneelse than theperson youfell in lovewithDoesn'tappreciategifts ofemotionalvalueTalks a lotaboutpastcrushesDoesn't trustyou - isuntrustworthyIs alwaysmentallyabsent whenbeing withyouYou arenever enoughfor theirsexual needsand fantasiesMakes clearthat theyhave a plan B(sees you asreplaceable)Takesyou forgrantedYou aretheir mentalsupport (onedirectional)Has noenergy foryou left,rather investsit elsewhereDoesn'tsee therelationshipas a unityIs alwaysdefensivePromisesare notkeptNitpickingDoesn'trespectyourboundariesDoesn'tvalue timespendtogetherTakesyourautonomyAvoidstouchesTreats youas inferior toothers(negativecomparison)Avoids opencommunicationand takingresponsibilityIsolatesyou fromyourfriendsFallseasily inlove withothersCan't betheirauthenticselfGaslightingIs someoneelse than theperson youfell in lovewithDoesn'tappreciategifts ofemotionalvalueTalks a lotaboutpastcrushesDoesn't trustyou - isuntrustworthyIs alwaysmentallyabsent whenbeing withyouYou arenever enoughfor theirsexual needsand fantasiesMakes clearthat theyhave a plan B(sees you asreplaceable)

Relationship Red Flags - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Takes you for granted
  2. You are their mental support (one directional)
  3. Has no energy for you left, rather invests it elsewhere
  4. Doesn't see the relationship as a unity
  5. Is always defensive
  6. Promises are not kept
  7. Nitpicking
  8. Doesn't respect your boundaries
  9. Doesn't value time spend together
  10. Takes your autonomy
  11. Avoids touches
  12. Treats you as inferior to others (negative comparison)
  13. Avoids open communication and taking responsibility
  14. Isolates you from your friends
  15. Falls easily in love with others
  16. Can't be their authentic self
  17. Gaslighting
  18. Is someone else than the person you fell in love with
  19. Doesn't appreciate gifts of emotional value
  20. Talks a lot about past crushes
  21. Doesn't trust you - is untrustworthy
  22. Is always mentally absent when being with you
  23. You are never enough for their sexual needs and fantasies
  24. Makes clear that they have a plan B (sees you as replaceable)