You arenever enoughfor theirsexual needsand fantasiesYou aretheir mentalsupport (onedirectional)Doesn'tsee therelationshipas a unityIs alwaysdefensiveIs alwaysmentallyabsent whenbeing withyouTalks a lotaboutpastcrushesTakesyou forgrantedCan't betheirauthenticselfMakes clearthat theyhave a plan B(sees you asreplaceable)Avoids opencommunicationand takingresponsibilityHas noenergy foryou left,rather investsit elsewhereFallseasily inlove withothersIsolatesyou fromyourfriendsAvoidstouchesTreats youas inferior toothers(negativecomparison)Promisesare notkeptDoesn'trespectyourboundariesGaslightingDoesn'tappreciategifts ofemotionalvalueIs someoneelse than theperson youfell in lovewithDoesn't trustyou - isuntrustworthyTakesyourautonomyNitpickingDoesn'tvalue timespendtogetherYou arenever enoughfor theirsexual needsand fantasiesYou aretheir mentalsupport (onedirectional)Doesn'tsee therelationshipas a unityIs alwaysdefensiveIs alwaysmentallyabsent whenbeing withyouTalks a lotaboutpastcrushesTakesyou forgrantedCan't betheirauthenticselfMakes clearthat theyhave a plan B(sees you asreplaceable)Avoids opencommunicationand takingresponsibilityHas noenergy foryou left,rather investsit elsewhereFallseasily inlove withothersIsolatesyou fromyourfriendsAvoidstouchesTreats youas inferior toothers(negativecomparison)Promisesare notkeptDoesn'trespectyourboundariesGaslightingDoesn'tappreciategifts ofemotionalvalueIs someoneelse than theperson youfell in lovewithDoesn't trustyou - isuntrustworthyTakesyourautonomyNitpickingDoesn'tvalue timespendtogether

Relationship Red Flags - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. You are never enough for their sexual needs and fantasies
  2. You are their mental support (one directional)
  3. Doesn't see the relationship as a unity
  4. Is always defensive
  5. Is always mentally absent when being with you
  6. Talks a lot about past crushes
  7. Takes you for granted
  8. Can't be their authentic self
  9. Makes clear that they have a plan B (sees you as replaceable)
  10. Avoids open communication and taking responsibility
  11. Has no energy for you left, rather invests it elsewhere
  12. Falls easily in love with others
  13. Isolates you from your friends
  14. Avoids touches
  15. Treats you as inferior to others (negative comparison)
  16. Promises are not kept
  17. Doesn't respect your boundaries
  18. Gaslighting
  19. Doesn't appreciate gifts of emotional value
  20. Is someone else than the person you fell in love with
  21. Doesn't trust you - is untrustworthy
  22. Takes your autonomy
  23. Nitpicking
  24. Doesn't value time spend together