NitpickingCan't betheirauthenticselfDoesn'trespectyourboundariesMakes clearthat theyhave a plan B(sees you asreplaceable)Talks a lotaboutpastcrushesDoesn'tappreciategifts ofemotionalvalueTakesyourautonomyAvoidstouchesIs alwaysmentallyabsent whenbeing withyouIsolatesyou fromyourfriendsDoesn'tsee therelationshipas a unityFallseasily inlove withothersIs alwaysdefensiveIs someoneelse than theperson youfell in lovewithTakesyou forgrantedAvoids opencommunicationand takingresponsibilityHas noenergy foryou left,rather investsit elsewhereDoesn'tvalue timespendtogetherTreats youas inferior toothers(negativecomparison)You arenever enoughfor theirsexual needsand fantasiesPromisesare notkeptGaslightingYou aretheir mentalsupport (onedirectional)Doesn't trustyou - isuntrustworthyNitpickingCan't betheirauthenticselfDoesn'trespectyourboundariesMakes clearthat theyhave a plan B(sees you asreplaceable)Talks a lotaboutpastcrushesDoesn'tappreciategifts ofemotionalvalueTakesyourautonomyAvoidstouchesIs alwaysmentallyabsent whenbeing withyouIsolatesyou fromyourfriendsDoesn'tsee therelationshipas a unityFallseasily inlove withothersIs alwaysdefensiveIs someoneelse than theperson youfell in lovewithTakesyou forgrantedAvoids opencommunicationand takingresponsibilityHas noenergy foryou left,rather investsit elsewhereDoesn'tvalue timespendtogetherTreats youas inferior toothers(negativecomparison)You arenever enoughfor theirsexual needsand fantasiesPromisesare notkeptGaslightingYou aretheir mentalsupport (onedirectional)Doesn't trustyou - isuntrustworthy

Relationship Red Flags - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Nitpicking
  2. Can't be their authentic self
  3. Doesn't respect your boundaries
  4. Makes clear that they have a plan B (sees you as replaceable)
  5. Talks a lot about past crushes
  6. Doesn't appreciate gifts of emotional value
  7. Takes your autonomy
  8. Avoids touches
  9. Is always mentally absent when being with you
  10. Isolates you from your friends
  11. Doesn't see the relationship as a unity
  12. Falls easily in love with others
  13. Is always defensive
  14. Is someone else than the person you fell in love with
  15. Takes you for granted
  16. Avoids open communication and taking responsibility
  17. Has no energy for you left, rather invests it elsewhere
  18. Doesn't value time spend together
  19. Treats you as inferior to others (negative comparison)
  20. You are never enough for their sexual needs and fantasies
  21. Promises are not kept
  22. Gaslighting
  23. You are their mental support (one directional)
  24. Doesn't trust you - is untrustworthy