Treats youas inferior toothers(negativecomparison)Doesn'trespectyourboundariesDoesn'tsee therelationshipas a unityYou aretheir mentalsupport (onedirectional)Is someoneelse than theperson youfell in lovewithMakes clearthat theyhave a plan B(sees you asreplaceable)AvoidstouchesDoesn'tvalue timespendtogetherTakesyou forgrantedGaslightingDoesn'tappreciategifts ofemotionalvalueFallseasily inlove withothersIsolatesyou fromyourfriendsIs alwaysmentallyabsent whenbeing withyouAvoids opencommunicationand takingresponsibilityPromisesare notkeptYou arenever enoughfor theirsexual needsand fantasiesDoesn't trustyou - isuntrustworthyNitpickingIs alwaysdefensiveHas noenergy foryou left,rather investsit elsewhereTalks a lotaboutpastcrushesCan't betheirauthenticselfTakesyourautonomyTreats youas inferior toothers(negativecomparison)Doesn'trespectyourboundariesDoesn'tsee therelationshipas a unityYou aretheir mentalsupport (onedirectional)Is someoneelse than theperson youfell in lovewithMakes clearthat theyhave a plan B(sees you asreplaceable)AvoidstouchesDoesn'tvalue timespendtogetherTakesyou forgrantedGaslightingDoesn'tappreciategifts ofemotionalvalueFallseasily inlove withothersIsolatesyou fromyourfriendsIs alwaysmentallyabsent whenbeing withyouAvoids opencommunicationand takingresponsibilityPromisesare notkeptYou arenever enoughfor theirsexual needsand fantasiesDoesn't trustyou - isuntrustworthyNitpickingIs alwaysdefensiveHas noenergy foryou left,rather investsit elsewhereTalks a lotaboutpastcrushesCan't betheirauthenticselfTakesyourautonomy

Relationship Red Flags - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Treats you as inferior to others (negative comparison)
  2. Doesn't respect your boundaries
  3. Doesn't see the relationship as a unity
  4. You are their mental support (one directional)
  5. Is someone else than the person you fell in love with
  6. Makes clear that they have a plan B (sees you as replaceable)
  7. Avoids touches
  8. Doesn't value time spend together
  9. Takes you for granted
  10. Gaslighting
  11. Doesn't appreciate gifts of emotional value
  12. Falls easily in love with others
  13. Isolates you from your friends
  14. Is always mentally absent when being with you
  15. Avoids open communication and taking responsibility
  16. Promises are not kept
  17. You are never enough for their sexual needs and fantasies
  18. Doesn't trust you - is untrustworthy
  19. Nitpicking
  20. Is always defensive
  21. Has no energy for you left, rather invests it elsewhere
  22. Talks a lot about past crushes
  23. Can't be their authentic self
  24. Takes your autonomy