Fallseasily inlove withothersTalks a lotaboutpastcrushesIs alwaysdefensiveYou aretheir mentalsupport (onedirectional)Treats youas inferior toothers(negativecomparison)TakesyourautonomyDoesn'trespectyourboundariesMakes clearthat theyhave a plan B(sees you asreplaceable)AvoidstouchesPromisesare notkeptDoesn'tsee therelationshipas a unityIsolatesyou fromyourfriendsGaslightingDoesn't trustyou - isuntrustworthyAvoids opencommunicationand takingresponsibilityDoesn'tvalue timespendtogetherCan't betheirauthenticselfIs alwaysmentallyabsent whenbeing withyouNitpickingHas noenergy foryou left,rather investsit elsewhereDoesn'tappreciategifts ofemotionalvalueTakesyou forgrantedIs someoneelse than theperson youfell in lovewithYou arenever enoughfor theirsexual needsand fantasiesFallseasily inlove withothersTalks a lotaboutpastcrushesIs alwaysdefensiveYou aretheir mentalsupport (onedirectional)Treats youas inferior toothers(negativecomparison)TakesyourautonomyDoesn'trespectyourboundariesMakes clearthat theyhave a plan B(sees you asreplaceable)AvoidstouchesPromisesare notkeptDoesn'tsee therelationshipas a unityIsolatesyou fromyourfriendsGaslightingDoesn't trustyou - isuntrustworthyAvoids opencommunicationand takingresponsibilityDoesn'tvalue timespendtogetherCan't betheirauthenticselfIs alwaysmentallyabsent whenbeing withyouNitpickingHas noenergy foryou left,rather investsit elsewhereDoesn'tappreciategifts ofemotionalvalueTakesyou forgrantedIs someoneelse than theperson youfell in lovewithYou arenever enoughfor theirsexual needsand fantasies

Relationship Red Flags - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Falls easily in love with others
  2. Talks a lot about past crushes
  3. Is always defensive
  4. You are their mental support (one directional)
  5. Treats you as inferior to others (negative comparison)
  6. Takes your autonomy
  7. Doesn't respect your boundaries
  8. Makes clear that they have a plan B (sees you as replaceable)
  9. Avoids touches
  10. Promises are not kept
  11. Doesn't see the relationship as a unity
  12. Isolates you from your friends
  13. Gaslighting
  14. Doesn't trust you - is untrustworthy
  15. Avoids open communication and taking responsibility
  16. Doesn't value time spend together
  17. Can't be their authentic self
  18. Is always mentally absent when being with you
  19. Nitpicking
  20. Has no energy for you left, rather invests it elsewhere
  21. Doesn't appreciate gifts of emotional value
  22. Takes you for granted
  23. Is someone else than the person you fell in love with
  24. You are never enough for their sexual needs and fantasies