GaslightingIs someoneelse than theperson youfell in lovewithCan't betheirauthenticselfIs alwaysdefensiveAvoids opencommunicationand takingresponsibilityYou aretheir mentalsupport (onedirectional)Promisesare notkeptTalks a lotaboutpastcrushesDoesn'trespectyourboundariesDoesn'tappreciategifts ofemotionalvalueDoesn'tvalue timespendtogetherDoesn'tsee therelationshipas a unityFallseasily inlove withothersTreats youas inferior toothers(negativecomparison)Is alwaysmentallyabsent whenbeing withyouMakes clearthat theyhave a plan B(sees you asreplaceable)NitpickingYou arenever enoughfor theirsexual needsand fantasiesTakesyourautonomyDoesn't trustyou - isuntrustworthyTakesyou forgrantedIsolatesyou fromyourfriendsAvoidstouchesHas noenergy foryou left,rather investsit elsewhereGaslightingIs someoneelse than theperson youfell in lovewithCan't betheirauthenticselfIs alwaysdefensiveAvoids opencommunicationand takingresponsibilityYou aretheir mentalsupport (onedirectional)Promisesare notkeptTalks a lotaboutpastcrushesDoesn'trespectyourboundariesDoesn'tappreciategifts ofemotionalvalueDoesn'tvalue timespendtogetherDoesn'tsee therelationshipas a unityFallseasily inlove withothersTreats youas inferior toothers(negativecomparison)Is alwaysmentallyabsent whenbeing withyouMakes clearthat theyhave a plan B(sees you asreplaceable)NitpickingYou arenever enoughfor theirsexual needsand fantasiesTakesyourautonomyDoesn't trustyou - isuntrustworthyTakesyou forgrantedIsolatesyou fromyourfriendsAvoidstouchesHas noenergy foryou left,rather investsit elsewhere

Relationship Red Flags - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Gaslighting
  2. Is someone else than the person you fell in love with
  3. Can't be their authentic self
  4. Is always defensive
  5. Avoids open communication and taking responsibility
  6. You are their mental support (one directional)
  7. Promises are not kept
  8. Talks a lot about past crushes
  9. Doesn't respect your boundaries
  10. Doesn't appreciate gifts of emotional value
  11. Doesn't value time spend together
  12. Doesn't see the relationship as a unity
  13. Falls easily in love with others
  14. Treats you as inferior to others (negative comparison)
  15. Is always mentally absent when being with you
  16. Makes clear that they have a plan B (sees you as replaceable)
  17. Nitpicking
  18. You are never enough for their sexual needs and fantasies
  19. Takes your autonomy
  20. Doesn't trust you - is untrustworthy
  21. Takes you for granted
  22. Isolates you from your friends
  23. Avoids touches
  24. Has no energy for you left, rather invests it elsewhere