TakesyourautonomyIs alwaysdefensiveIs someoneelse than theperson youfell in lovewithMakes clearthat theyhave a plan B(sees you asreplaceable)Isolatesyou fromyourfriendsTreats youas inferior toothers(negativecomparison)Takesyou forgrantedDoesn't trustyou - isuntrustworthyAvoidstouchesDoesn'trespectyourboundariesNitpickingYou arenever enoughfor theirsexual needsand fantasiesPromisesare notkeptDoesn'tappreciategifts ofemotionalvalueCan't betheirauthenticselfDoesn'tsee therelationshipas a unityAvoids opencommunicationand takingresponsibilityIs alwaysmentallyabsent whenbeing withyouFallseasily inlove withothersYou aretheir mentalsupport (onedirectional)Talks a lotaboutpastcrushesDoesn'tvalue timespendtogetherGaslightingHas noenergy foryou left,rather investsit elsewhereTakesyourautonomyIs alwaysdefensiveIs someoneelse than theperson youfell in lovewithMakes clearthat theyhave a plan B(sees you asreplaceable)Isolatesyou fromyourfriendsTreats youas inferior toothers(negativecomparison)Takesyou forgrantedDoesn't trustyou - isuntrustworthyAvoidstouchesDoesn'trespectyourboundariesNitpickingYou arenever enoughfor theirsexual needsand fantasiesPromisesare notkeptDoesn'tappreciategifts ofemotionalvalueCan't betheirauthenticselfDoesn'tsee therelationshipas a unityAvoids opencommunicationand takingresponsibilityIs alwaysmentallyabsent whenbeing withyouFallseasily inlove withothersYou aretheir mentalsupport (onedirectional)Talks a lotaboutpastcrushesDoesn'tvalue timespendtogetherGaslightingHas noenergy foryou left,rather investsit elsewhere

Relationship Red Flags - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Takes your autonomy
  2. Is always defensive
  3. Is someone else than the person you fell in love with
  4. Makes clear that they have a plan B (sees you as replaceable)
  5. Isolates you from your friends
  6. Treats you as inferior to others (negative comparison)
  7. Takes you for granted
  8. Doesn't trust you - is untrustworthy
  9. Avoids touches
  10. Doesn't respect your boundaries
  11. Nitpicking
  12. You are never enough for their sexual needs and fantasies
  13. Promises are not kept
  14. Doesn't appreciate gifts of emotional value
  15. Can't be their authentic self
  16. Doesn't see the relationship as a unity
  17. Avoids open communication and taking responsibility
  18. Is always mentally absent when being with you
  19. Falls easily in love with others
  20. You are their mental support (one directional)
  21. Talks a lot about past crushes
  22. Doesn't value time spend together
  23. Gaslighting
  24. Has no energy for you left, rather invests it elsewhere