Isolatesyou fromyourfriendsDoesn'tvalue timespendtogetherTreats youas inferior toothers(negativecomparison)You arenever enoughfor theirsexual needsand fantasiesTalks a lotaboutpastcrushesDoesn'trespectyourboundariesFallseasily inlove withothersDoesn'tsee therelationshipas a unityNitpickingAvoids opencommunicationand takingresponsibilityDoesn'tappreciategifts ofemotionalvalueIs alwaysmentallyabsent whenbeing withyouPromisesare notkeptTakesyou forgrantedDoesn't trustyou - isuntrustworthyTakesyourautonomyGaslightingYou aretheir mentalsupport (onedirectional)Makes clearthat theyhave a plan B(sees you asreplaceable)Is someoneelse than theperson youfell in lovewithAvoidstouchesCan't betheirauthenticselfHas noenergy foryou left,rather investsit elsewhereIs alwaysdefensiveIsolatesyou fromyourfriendsDoesn'tvalue timespendtogetherTreats youas inferior toothers(negativecomparison)You arenever enoughfor theirsexual needsand fantasiesTalks a lotaboutpastcrushesDoesn'trespectyourboundariesFallseasily inlove withothersDoesn'tsee therelationshipas a unityNitpickingAvoids opencommunicationand takingresponsibilityDoesn'tappreciategifts ofemotionalvalueIs alwaysmentallyabsent whenbeing withyouPromisesare notkeptTakesyou forgrantedDoesn't trustyou - isuntrustworthyTakesyourautonomyGaslightingYou aretheir mentalsupport (onedirectional)Makes clearthat theyhave a plan B(sees you asreplaceable)Is someoneelse than theperson youfell in lovewithAvoidstouchesCan't betheirauthenticselfHas noenergy foryou left,rather investsit elsewhereIs alwaysdefensive

Relationship Red Flags - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Isolates you from your friends
  2. Doesn't value time spend together
  3. Treats you as inferior to others (negative comparison)
  4. You are never enough for their sexual needs and fantasies
  5. Talks a lot about past crushes
  6. Doesn't respect your boundaries
  7. Falls easily in love with others
  8. Doesn't see the relationship as a unity
  9. Nitpicking
  10. Avoids open communication and taking responsibility
  11. Doesn't appreciate gifts of emotional value
  12. Is always mentally absent when being with you
  13. Promises are not kept
  14. Takes you for granted
  15. Doesn't trust you - is untrustworthy
  16. Takes your autonomy
  17. Gaslighting
  18. You are their mental support (one directional)
  19. Makes clear that they have a plan B (sees you as replaceable)
  20. Is someone else than the person you fell in love with
  21. Avoids touches
  22. Can't be their authentic self
  23. Has no energy for you left, rather invests it elsewhere
  24. Is always defensive