Is someoneelse than theperson youfell in lovewithDoesn't trustyou - isuntrustworthyDoesn'tappreciategifts ofemotionalvalueIsolatesyou fromyourfriendsDoesn'tsee therelationshipas a unityAvoids opencommunicationand takingresponsibilityDoesn'tvalue timespendtogetherYou arenever enoughfor theirsexual needsand fantasiesPromisesare notkeptIs alwaysmentallyabsent whenbeing withyouCan't betheirauthenticselfFallseasily inlove withothersHas noenergy foryou left,rather investsit elsewhereTakesyou forgrantedTakesyourautonomyGaslightingAvoidstouchesYou aretheir mentalsupport (onedirectional)Talks a lotaboutpastcrushesMakes clearthat theyhave a plan B(sees you asreplaceable)NitpickingTreats youas inferior toothers(negativecomparison)Doesn'trespectyourboundariesIs alwaysdefensiveIs someoneelse than theperson youfell in lovewithDoesn't trustyou - isuntrustworthyDoesn'tappreciategifts ofemotionalvalueIsolatesyou fromyourfriendsDoesn'tsee therelationshipas a unityAvoids opencommunicationand takingresponsibilityDoesn'tvalue timespendtogetherYou arenever enoughfor theirsexual needsand fantasiesPromisesare notkeptIs alwaysmentallyabsent whenbeing withyouCan't betheirauthenticselfFallseasily inlove withothersHas noenergy foryou left,rather investsit elsewhereTakesyou forgrantedTakesyourautonomyGaslightingAvoidstouchesYou aretheir mentalsupport (onedirectional)Talks a lotaboutpastcrushesMakes clearthat theyhave a plan B(sees you asreplaceable)NitpickingTreats youas inferior toothers(negativecomparison)Doesn'trespectyourboundariesIs alwaysdefensive

Relationship Red Flags - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Is someone else than the person you fell in love with
  2. Doesn't trust you - is untrustworthy
  3. Doesn't appreciate gifts of emotional value
  4. Isolates you from your friends
  5. Doesn't see the relationship as a unity
  6. Avoids open communication and taking responsibility
  7. Doesn't value time spend together
  8. You are never enough for their sexual needs and fantasies
  9. Promises are not kept
  10. Is always mentally absent when being with you
  11. Can't be their authentic self
  12. Falls easily in love with others
  13. Has no energy for you left, rather invests it elsewhere
  14. Takes you for granted
  15. Takes your autonomy
  16. Gaslighting
  17. Avoids touches
  18. You are their mental support (one directional)
  19. Talks a lot about past crushes
  20. Makes clear that they have a plan B (sees you as replaceable)
  21. Nitpicking
  22. Treats you as inferior to others (negative comparison)
  23. Doesn't respect your boundaries
  24. Is always defensive