Takesyou forgrantedPromisesare notkeptIs someoneelse than theperson youfell in lovewithMakes clearthat theyhave a plan B(sees you asreplaceable)Talks a lotaboutpastcrushesDoesn't trustyou - isuntrustworthyTreats youas inferior toothers(negativecomparison)Can't betheirauthenticselfIs alwaysmentallyabsent whenbeing withyouYou aretheir mentalsupport (onedirectional)You arenever enoughfor theirsexual needsand fantasiesHas noenergy foryou left,rather investsit elsewhereFallseasily inlove withothersIs alwaysdefensiveDoesn'tvalue timespendtogetherDoesn'trespectyourboundariesDoesn'tsee therelationshipas a unityAvoidstouchesNitpickingAvoids opencommunicationand takingresponsibilityGaslightingIsolatesyou fromyourfriendsDoesn'tappreciategifts ofemotionalvalueTakesyourautonomyTakesyou forgrantedPromisesare notkeptIs someoneelse than theperson youfell in lovewithMakes clearthat theyhave a plan B(sees you asreplaceable)Talks a lotaboutpastcrushesDoesn't trustyou - isuntrustworthyTreats youas inferior toothers(negativecomparison)Can't betheirauthenticselfIs alwaysmentallyabsent whenbeing withyouYou aretheir mentalsupport (onedirectional)You arenever enoughfor theirsexual needsand fantasiesHas noenergy foryou left,rather investsit elsewhereFallseasily inlove withothersIs alwaysdefensiveDoesn'tvalue timespendtogetherDoesn'trespectyourboundariesDoesn'tsee therelationshipas a unityAvoidstouchesNitpickingAvoids opencommunicationand takingresponsibilityGaslightingIsolatesyou fromyourfriendsDoesn'tappreciategifts ofemotionalvalueTakesyourautonomy

Relationship Red Flags - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Takes you for granted
  2. Promises are not kept
  3. Is someone else than the person you fell in love with
  4. Makes clear that they have a plan B (sees you as replaceable)
  5. Talks a lot about past crushes
  6. Doesn't trust you - is untrustworthy
  7. Treats you as inferior to others (negative comparison)
  8. Can't be their authentic self
  9. Is always mentally absent when being with you
  10. You are their mental support (one directional)
  11. You are never enough for their sexual needs and fantasies
  12. Has no energy for you left, rather invests it elsewhere
  13. Falls easily in love with others
  14. Is always defensive
  15. Doesn't value time spend together
  16. Doesn't respect your boundaries
  17. Doesn't see the relationship as a unity
  18. Avoids touches
  19. Nitpicking
  20. Avoids open communication and taking responsibility
  21. Gaslighting
  22. Isolates you from your friends
  23. Doesn't appreciate gifts of emotional value
  24. Takes your autonomy