Avoids opencommunicationand takingresponsibilityGaslightingTalks a lotaboutpastcrushesHas noenergy foryou left,rather investsit elsewhereIsolatesyou fromyourfriendsTakesyou forgrantedYou aretheir mentalsupport (onedirectional)Makes clearthat theyhave a plan B(sees you asreplaceable)Treats youas inferior toothers(negativecomparison)Fallseasily inlove withothersDoesn't trustyou - isuntrustworthyCan't betheirauthenticselfPromisesare notkeptIs someoneelse than theperson youfell in lovewithDoesn't seetherelationshipas a unity -you vs. themIs alwaysdefensiveAvoidstouchesDoesn'trespectyourboundariesIs alwaysmentallyabsent whenbeing withyouNitpickingYou arenever enoughfor theirsexual needsand fantasiesDoesn'tvalue timespendtogetherDoesn'tappreciategifts ofemotionalvalueTakesyourautonomyAvoids opencommunicationand takingresponsibilityGaslightingTalks a lotaboutpastcrushesHas noenergy foryou left,rather investsit elsewhereIsolatesyou fromyourfriendsTakesyou forgrantedYou aretheir mentalsupport (onedirectional)Makes clearthat theyhave a plan B(sees you asreplaceable)Treats youas inferior toothers(negativecomparison)Fallseasily inlove withothersDoesn't trustyou - isuntrustworthyCan't betheirauthenticselfPromisesare notkeptIs someoneelse than theperson youfell in lovewithDoesn't seetherelationshipas a unity -you vs. themIs alwaysdefensiveAvoidstouchesDoesn'trespectyourboundariesIs alwaysmentallyabsent whenbeing withyouNitpickingYou arenever enoughfor theirsexual needsand fantasiesDoesn'tvalue timespendtogetherDoesn'tappreciategifts ofemotionalvalueTakesyourautonomy

Relationship Red Flags v2 - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Avoids open communication and taking responsibility
  2. Gaslighting
  3. Talks a lot about past crushes
  4. Has no energy for you left, rather invests it elsewhere
  5. Isolates you from your friends
  6. Takes you for granted
  7. You are their mental support (one directional)
  8. Makes clear that they have a plan B (sees you as replaceable)
  9. Treats you as inferior to others (negative comparison)
  10. Falls easily in love with others
  11. Doesn't trust you - is untrustworthy
  12. Can't be their authentic self
  13. Promises are not kept
  14. Is someone else than the person you fell in love with
  15. Doesn't see the relationship as a unity - you vs. them
  16. Is always defensive
  17. Avoids touches
  18. Doesn't respect your boundaries
  19. Is always mentally absent when being with you
  20. Nitpicking
  21. You are never enough for their sexual needs and fantasies
  22. Doesn't value time spend together
  23. Doesn't appreciate gifts of emotional value
  24. Takes your autonomy