AvoidstouchesGaslightingDoesn'trespectyourboundariesDoesn'tappreciategifts ofemotionalvalueYou arenever enoughfor theirsexual needsand fantasiesTalks a lotaboutpastcrushesPromisesare notkeptIs someoneelse than theperson youfell in lovewithDoesn'tvalue timespendtogetherDoesn't trustyou - isuntrustworthyAvoids opencommunicationand takingresponsibilityFallseasily inlove withothersCan't betheirauthenticselfYou aretheir mentalsupport (onedirectional)Has noenergy foryou left,rather investsit elsewhereDoesn't seetherelationshipas a unity -you vs. themTreats youas inferior toothers(negativecomparison)NitpickingTakesyourautonomyIs alwaysdefensiveIsolatesyou fromyourfriendsIs alwaysmentallyabsent whenbeing withyouTakesyou forgrantedMakes clearthat theyhave a plan B(sees you asreplaceable)AvoidstouchesGaslightingDoesn'trespectyourboundariesDoesn'tappreciategifts ofemotionalvalueYou arenever enoughfor theirsexual needsand fantasiesTalks a lotaboutpastcrushesPromisesare notkeptIs someoneelse than theperson youfell in lovewithDoesn'tvalue timespendtogetherDoesn't trustyou - isuntrustworthyAvoids opencommunicationand takingresponsibilityFallseasily inlove withothersCan't betheirauthenticselfYou aretheir mentalsupport (onedirectional)Has noenergy foryou left,rather investsit elsewhereDoesn't seetherelationshipas a unity -you vs. themTreats youas inferior toothers(negativecomparison)NitpickingTakesyourautonomyIs alwaysdefensiveIsolatesyou fromyourfriendsIs alwaysmentallyabsent whenbeing withyouTakesyou forgrantedMakes clearthat theyhave a plan B(sees you asreplaceable)

Relationship Red Flags v2 - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Avoids touches
  2. Gaslighting
  3. Doesn't respect your boundaries
  4. Doesn't appreciate gifts of emotional value
  5. You are never enough for their sexual needs and fantasies
  6. Talks a lot about past crushes
  7. Promises are not kept
  8. Is someone else than the person you fell in love with
  9. Doesn't value time spend together
  10. Doesn't trust you - is untrustworthy
  11. Avoids open communication and taking responsibility
  12. Falls easily in love with others
  13. Can't be their authentic self
  14. You are their mental support (one directional)
  15. Has no energy for you left, rather invests it elsewhere
  16. Doesn't see the relationship as a unity - you vs. them
  17. Treats you as inferior to others (negative comparison)
  18. Nitpicking
  19. Takes your autonomy
  20. Is always defensive
  21. Isolates you from your friends
  22. Is always mentally absent when being with you
  23. Takes you for granted
  24. Makes clear that they have a plan B (sees you as replaceable)