Doesn't seetherelationshipas a unity -you vs. themDoesn'tvalue timespendtogetherTakesyourautonomyIs someoneelse than theperson youfell in lovewithIs alwaysmentallyabsent whenbeing withyouYou arenever enoughfor theirsexual needsand fantasiesGaslightingHas noenergy foryou left,rather investsit elsewhereDoesn'tappreciategifts ofemotionalvalueTalks a lotaboutpastcrushesTreats youas inferior toothers(negativecomparison)You aretheir mentalsupport (onedirectional)Can't betheirauthenticselfIs alwaysdefensiveAvoids opencommunicationand takingresponsibilityNitpickingPromisesare notkeptDoesn't trustyou - isuntrustworthyFallseasily inlove withothersDoesn'trespectyourboundariesAvoidstouchesTakesyou forgrantedIsolatesyou fromyourfriendsMakes clearthat theyhave a plan B(sees you asreplaceable)Doesn't seetherelationshipas a unity -you vs. themDoesn'tvalue timespendtogetherTakesyourautonomyIs someoneelse than theperson youfell in lovewithIs alwaysmentallyabsent whenbeing withyouYou arenever enoughfor theirsexual needsand fantasiesGaslightingHas noenergy foryou left,rather investsit elsewhereDoesn'tappreciategifts ofemotionalvalueTalks a lotaboutpastcrushesTreats youas inferior toothers(negativecomparison)You aretheir mentalsupport (onedirectional)Can't betheirauthenticselfIs alwaysdefensiveAvoids opencommunicationand takingresponsibilityNitpickingPromisesare notkeptDoesn't trustyou - isuntrustworthyFallseasily inlove withothersDoesn'trespectyourboundariesAvoidstouchesTakesyou forgrantedIsolatesyou fromyourfriendsMakes clearthat theyhave a plan B(sees you asreplaceable)

Relationship Red Flags v2 - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Doesn't see the relationship as a unity - you vs. them
  2. Doesn't value time spend together
  3. Takes your autonomy
  4. Is someone else than the person you fell in love with
  5. Is always mentally absent when being with you
  6. You are never enough for their sexual needs and fantasies
  7. Gaslighting
  8. Has no energy for you left, rather invests it elsewhere
  9. Doesn't appreciate gifts of emotional value
  10. Talks a lot about past crushes
  11. Treats you as inferior to others (negative comparison)
  12. You are their mental support (one directional)
  13. Can't be their authentic self
  14. Is always defensive
  15. Avoids open communication and taking responsibility
  16. Nitpicking
  17. Promises are not kept
  18. Doesn't trust you - is untrustworthy
  19. Falls easily in love with others
  20. Doesn't respect your boundaries
  21. Avoids touches
  22. Takes you for granted
  23. Isolates you from your friends
  24. Makes clear that they have a plan B (sees you as replaceable)