Doesn'trespectyourboundariesTakesyourautonomyDoesn't seetherelationshipas a unity -you vs. themTreats youas inferior toothers(negativecomparison)NitpickingTakesyou forgrantedAvoidstouchesHas noenergy foryou left,rather investsit elsewhereDoesn'tvalue timespendtogetherAvoids opencommunicationand takingresponsibilityFallseasily inlove withothersIs alwaysmentallyabsent whenbeing withyouTalks a lotaboutpastcrushesCan't betheirauthenticselfIs alwaysdefensiveDoesn'tappreciategifts ofemotionalvalueGaslightingPromisesare notkeptIsolatesyou fromyourfriendsYou aretheir mentalsupport (onedirectional)Is someoneelse than theperson youfell in lovewithDoesn't trustyou - isuntrustworthyYou arenever enoughfor theirsexual needsand fantasiesMakes clearthat theyhave a plan B(sees you asreplaceable)Doesn'trespectyourboundariesTakesyourautonomyDoesn't seetherelationshipas a unity -you vs. themTreats youas inferior toothers(negativecomparison)NitpickingTakesyou forgrantedAvoidstouchesHas noenergy foryou left,rather investsit elsewhereDoesn'tvalue timespendtogetherAvoids opencommunicationand takingresponsibilityFallseasily inlove withothersIs alwaysmentallyabsent whenbeing withyouTalks a lotaboutpastcrushesCan't betheirauthenticselfIs alwaysdefensiveDoesn'tappreciategifts ofemotionalvalueGaslightingPromisesare notkeptIsolatesyou fromyourfriendsYou aretheir mentalsupport (onedirectional)Is someoneelse than theperson youfell in lovewithDoesn't trustyou - isuntrustworthyYou arenever enoughfor theirsexual needsand fantasiesMakes clearthat theyhave a plan B(sees you asreplaceable)

Relationship Red Flags v2 - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Doesn't respect your boundaries
  2. Takes your autonomy
  3. Doesn't see the relationship as a unity - you vs. them
  4. Treats you as inferior to others (negative comparison)
  5. Nitpicking
  6. Takes you for granted
  7. Avoids touches
  8. Has no energy for you left, rather invests it elsewhere
  9. Doesn't value time spend together
  10. Avoids open communication and taking responsibility
  11. Falls easily in love with others
  12. Is always mentally absent when being with you
  13. Talks a lot about past crushes
  14. Can't be their authentic self
  15. Is always defensive
  16. Doesn't appreciate gifts of emotional value
  17. Gaslighting
  18. Promises are not kept
  19. Isolates you from your friends
  20. You are their mental support (one directional)
  21. Is someone else than the person you fell in love with
  22. Doesn't trust you - is untrustworthy
  23. You are never enough for their sexual needs and fantasies
  24. Makes clear that they have a plan B (sees you as replaceable)