GaslightingDoesn'tvalue timespendtogetherYou arenever enoughfor theirsexual needsand fantasiesTakesyou forgrantedAvoidstouchesIs alwaysdefensiveIsolatesyou fromyourfriendsDoesn'trespectyourboundariesDoesn't seetherelationshipas a unity -you vs. themNitpickingAvoids opencommunicationand takingresponsibilityTreats youas inferior toothers(negativecomparison)Promisesare notkeptDoesn't trustyou - isuntrustworthyDoesn'tappreciategifts ofemotionalvalueCan't betheirauthenticselfTakesyourautonomyTalks a lotaboutpastcrushesIs someoneelse than theperson youfell in lovewithFallseasily inlove withothersYou aretheir mentalsupport (onedirectional)Makes clearthat theyhave a plan B(sees you asreplaceable)Is alwaysmentallyabsent whenbeing withyouHas noenergy foryou left,rather investsit elsewhereGaslightingDoesn'tvalue timespendtogetherYou arenever enoughfor theirsexual needsand fantasiesTakesyou forgrantedAvoidstouchesIs alwaysdefensiveIsolatesyou fromyourfriendsDoesn'trespectyourboundariesDoesn't seetherelationshipas a unity -you vs. themNitpickingAvoids opencommunicationand takingresponsibilityTreats youas inferior toothers(negativecomparison)Promisesare notkeptDoesn't trustyou - isuntrustworthyDoesn'tappreciategifts ofemotionalvalueCan't betheirauthenticselfTakesyourautonomyTalks a lotaboutpastcrushesIs someoneelse than theperson youfell in lovewithFallseasily inlove withothersYou aretheir mentalsupport (onedirectional)Makes clearthat theyhave a plan B(sees you asreplaceable)Is alwaysmentallyabsent whenbeing withyouHas noenergy foryou left,rather investsit elsewhere

Relationship Red Flags v2 - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Gaslighting
  2. Doesn't value time spend together
  3. You are never enough for their sexual needs and fantasies
  4. Takes you for granted
  5. Avoids touches
  6. Is always defensive
  7. Isolates you from your friends
  8. Doesn't respect your boundaries
  9. Doesn't see the relationship as a unity - you vs. them
  10. Nitpicking
  11. Avoids open communication and taking responsibility
  12. Treats you as inferior to others (negative comparison)
  13. Promises are not kept
  14. Doesn't trust you - is untrustworthy
  15. Doesn't appreciate gifts of emotional value
  16. Can't be their authentic self
  17. Takes your autonomy
  18. Talks a lot about past crushes
  19. Is someone else than the person you fell in love with
  20. Falls easily in love with others
  21. You are their mental support (one directional)
  22. Makes clear that they have a plan B (sees you as replaceable)
  23. Is always mentally absent when being with you
  24. Has no energy for you left, rather invests it elsewhere