Talks a lotaboutpastcrushesIsolatesyou fromyourfriendsDoesn't seetherelationshipas a unity -you vs. themGaslightingYou aretheir mentalsupport (onedirectional)Takesyou forgrantedHas noenergy foryou left,rather investsit elsewherePromisesare notkeptCan't betheirauthenticselfDoesn'tvalue timespendtogetherDoesn't trustyou - isuntrustworthyIs alwaysdefensiveMakes clearthat theyhave a plan B(sees you asreplaceable)Fallseasily inlove withothersYou arenever enoughfor theirsexual needsand fantasiesIs someoneelse than theperson youfell in lovewithDoesn'tappreciategifts ofemotionalvalueAvoids opencommunicationand takingresponsibilityDoesn'trespectyourboundariesNitpickingIs alwaysmentallyabsent whenbeing withyouTakesyourautonomyAvoidstouchesTreats youas inferior toothers(negativecomparison)Talks a lotaboutpastcrushesIsolatesyou fromyourfriendsDoesn't seetherelationshipas a unity -you vs. themGaslightingYou aretheir mentalsupport (onedirectional)Takesyou forgrantedHas noenergy foryou left,rather investsit elsewherePromisesare notkeptCan't betheirauthenticselfDoesn'tvalue timespendtogetherDoesn't trustyou - isuntrustworthyIs alwaysdefensiveMakes clearthat theyhave a plan B(sees you asreplaceable)Fallseasily inlove withothersYou arenever enoughfor theirsexual needsand fantasiesIs someoneelse than theperson youfell in lovewithDoesn'tappreciategifts ofemotionalvalueAvoids opencommunicationand takingresponsibilityDoesn'trespectyourboundariesNitpickingIs alwaysmentallyabsent whenbeing withyouTakesyourautonomyAvoidstouchesTreats youas inferior toothers(negativecomparison)

Relationship Red Flags v2 - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Talks a lot about past crushes
  2. Isolates you from your friends
  3. Doesn't see the relationship as a unity - you vs. them
  4. Gaslighting
  5. You are their mental support (one directional)
  6. Takes you for granted
  7. Has no energy for you left, rather invests it elsewhere
  8. Promises are not kept
  9. Can't be their authentic self
  10. Doesn't value time spend together
  11. Doesn't trust you - is untrustworthy
  12. Is always defensive
  13. Makes clear that they have a plan B (sees you as replaceable)
  14. Falls easily in love with others
  15. You are never enough for their sexual needs and fantasies
  16. Is someone else than the person you fell in love with
  17. Doesn't appreciate gifts of emotional value
  18. Avoids open communication and taking responsibility
  19. Doesn't respect your boundaries
  20. Nitpicking
  21. Is always mentally absent when being with you
  22. Takes your autonomy
  23. Avoids touches
  24. Treats you as inferior to others (negative comparison)