Fallseasily inlove withothersTreats youas inferior toothers(negativecomparison)Doesn'tvalue timespendtogetherPromisesare notkeptGaslightingAvoidstouchesYou aretheir mentalsupport (onedirectional)Is alwaysmentallyabsent whenbeing withyouTakesyou forgrantedDoesn'trespectyourboundariesIs someoneelse than theperson youfell in lovewithIs alwaysdefensiveHas noenergy foryou left,rather investsit elsewhereYou arenever enoughfor theirsexual needsand fantasiesDoesn'tappreciategifts ofemotionalvalueTakesyourautonomyIsolatesyou fromyourfriendsAvoids opencommunicationand takingresponsibilityCan't betheirauthenticselfMakes clearthat theyhave a plan B(sees you asreplaceable)Doesn't trustyou - isuntrustworthyTalks a lotaboutpastcrushesDoesn't seetherelationshipas a unity -you vs. themNitpickingFallseasily inlove withothersTreats youas inferior toothers(negativecomparison)Doesn'tvalue timespendtogetherPromisesare notkeptGaslightingAvoidstouchesYou aretheir mentalsupport (onedirectional)Is alwaysmentallyabsent whenbeing withyouTakesyou forgrantedDoesn'trespectyourboundariesIs someoneelse than theperson youfell in lovewithIs alwaysdefensiveHas noenergy foryou left,rather investsit elsewhereYou arenever enoughfor theirsexual needsand fantasiesDoesn'tappreciategifts ofemotionalvalueTakesyourautonomyIsolatesyou fromyourfriendsAvoids opencommunicationand takingresponsibilityCan't betheirauthenticselfMakes clearthat theyhave a plan B(sees you asreplaceable)Doesn't trustyou - isuntrustworthyTalks a lotaboutpastcrushesDoesn't seetherelationshipas a unity -you vs. themNitpicking

Relationship Red Flags v2 - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Falls easily in love with others
  2. Treats you as inferior to others (negative comparison)
  3. Doesn't value time spend together
  4. Promises are not kept
  5. Gaslighting
  6. Avoids touches
  7. You are their mental support (one directional)
  8. Is always mentally absent when being with you
  9. Takes you for granted
  10. Doesn't respect your boundaries
  11. Is someone else than the person you fell in love with
  12. Is always defensive
  13. Has no energy for you left, rather invests it elsewhere
  14. You are never enough for their sexual needs and fantasies
  15. Doesn't appreciate gifts of emotional value
  16. Takes your autonomy
  17. Isolates you from your friends
  18. Avoids open communication and taking responsibility
  19. Can't be their authentic self
  20. Makes clear that they have a plan B (sees you as replaceable)
  21. Doesn't trust you - is untrustworthy
  22. Talks a lot about past crushes
  23. Doesn't see the relationship as a unity - you vs. them
  24. Nitpicking