Fallseasily inlove withothersTakesyourautonomyDoesn'tvalue timespendtogetherYou aretheir mentalsupport (onedirectional)Is alwaysmentallyabsent whenbeing withyouPromisesare notkeptAvoids opencommunicationand takingresponsibilityNitpickingAvoidstouchesTalks a lotaboutpastcrushesDoesn't seetherelationshipas a unity -you vs. themDoesn't trustyou - isuntrustworthyIs someoneelse than theperson youfell in lovewithMakes clearthat theyhave a plan B(sees you asreplaceable)You arenever enoughfor theirsexual needsand fantasiesCan't betheirauthenticselfHas noenergy foryou left,rather investsit elsewhereTakesyou forgrantedTreats youas inferior toothers(negativecomparison)GaslightingIsolatesyou fromyourfriendsDoesn'tappreciategifts ofemotionalvalueIs alwaysdefensiveDoesn'trespectyourboundariesFallseasily inlove withothersTakesyourautonomyDoesn'tvalue timespendtogetherYou aretheir mentalsupport (onedirectional)Is alwaysmentallyabsent whenbeing withyouPromisesare notkeptAvoids opencommunicationand takingresponsibilityNitpickingAvoidstouchesTalks a lotaboutpastcrushesDoesn't seetherelationshipas a unity -you vs. themDoesn't trustyou - isuntrustworthyIs someoneelse than theperson youfell in lovewithMakes clearthat theyhave a plan B(sees you asreplaceable)You arenever enoughfor theirsexual needsand fantasiesCan't betheirauthenticselfHas noenergy foryou left,rather investsit elsewhereTakesyou forgrantedTreats youas inferior toothers(negativecomparison)GaslightingIsolatesyou fromyourfriendsDoesn'tappreciategifts ofemotionalvalueIs alwaysdefensiveDoesn'trespectyourboundaries

Relationship Red Flags v2 - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Falls easily in love with others
  2. Takes your autonomy
  3. Doesn't value time spend together
  4. You are their mental support (one directional)
  5. Is always mentally absent when being with you
  6. Promises are not kept
  7. Avoids open communication and taking responsibility
  8. Nitpicking
  9. Avoids touches
  10. Talks a lot about past crushes
  11. Doesn't see the relationship as a unity - you vs. them
  12. Doesn't trust you - is untrustworthy
  13. Is someone else than the person you fell in love with
  14. Makes clear that they have a plan B (sees you as replaceable)
  15. You are never enough for their sexual needs and fantasies
  16. Can't be their authentic self
  17. Has no energy for you left, rather invests it elsewhere
  18. Takes you for granted
  19. Treats you as inferior to others (negative comparison)
  20. Gaslighting
  21. Isolates you from your friends
  22. Doesn't appreciate gifts of emotional value
  23. Is always defensive
  24. Doesn't respect your boundaries