NitpickingDoesn'trespectyourboundariesIs alwaysmentallyabsent whenbeing withyouYou arenever enoughfor theirsexual needsand fantasiesYou aretheir mentalsupport (onedirectional)Isolatesyou fromyourfriendsDoesn't seetherelationshipas a unity -you vs. themDoesn't trustyou - isuntrustworthyTreats youas inferior toothers(negativecomparison)Avoids opencommunicationand takingresponsibilityPromisesare notkeptCan't betheirauthenticselfDoesn'tvalue timespendtogetherGaslightingAvoidstouchesHas noenergy foryou left,rather investsit elsewhereTalks a lotaboutpastcrushesMakes clearthat theyhave a plan B(sees you asreplaceable)Takesyou forgrantedTakesyourautonomyIs someoneelse than theperson youfell in lovewithIs alwaysdefensiveFallseasily inlove withothersDoesn'tappreciategifts ofemotionalvalueNitpickingDoesn'trespectyourboundariesIs alwaysmentallyabsent whenbeing withyouYou arenever enoughfor theirsexual needsand fantasiesYou aretheir mentalsupport (onedirectional)Isolatesyou fromyourfriendsDoesn't seetherelationshipas a unity -you vs. themDoesn't trustyou - isuntrustworthyTreats youas inferior toothers(negativecomparison)Avoids opencommunicationand takingresponsibilityPromisesare notkeptCan't betheirauthenticselfDoesn'tvalue timespendtogetherGaslightingAvoidstouchesHas noenergy foryou left,rather investsit elsewhereTalks a lotaboutpastcrushesMakes clearthat theyhave a plan B(sees you asreplaceable)Takesyou forgrantedTakesyourautonomyIs someoneelse than theperson youfell in lovewithIs alwaysdefensiveFallseasily inlove withothersDoesn'tappreciategifts ofemotionalvalue

Relationship Red Flags v2 - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Nitpicking
  2. Doesn't respect your boundaries
  3. Is always mentally absent when being with you
  4. You are never enough for their sexual needs and fantasies
  5. You are their mental support (one directional)
  6. Isolates you from your friends
  7. Doesn't see the relationship as a unity - you vs. them
  8. Doesn't trust you - is untrustworthy
  9. Treats you as inferior to others (negative comparison)
  10. Avoids open communication and taking responsibility
  11. Promises are not kept
  12. Can't be their authentic self
  13. Doesn't value time spend together
  14. Gaslighting
  15. Avoids touches
  16. Has no energy for you left, rather invests it elsewhere
  17. Talks a lot about past crushes
  18. Makes clear that they have a plan B (sees you as replaceable)
  19. Takes you for granted
  20. Takes your autonomy
  21. Is someone else than the person you fell in love with
  22. Is always defensive
  23. Falls easily in love with others
  24. Doesn't appreciate gifts of emotional value