Doesn'trespectyourboundariesIsolatesyou fromyourfriendsFallseasily inlove withothersDoesn'tvalue timespendtogetherDoesn'tappreciategifts ofemotionalvalueCan't betheirauthenticselfMakes clearthat theyhave a plan B(sees you asreplaceable)Is alwaysmentallyabsent whenbeing withyouAvoids opencommunicationand takingresponsibilityPromisesare notkeptDoesn't trustyou - isuntrustworthyTreats youas inferior toothers(negativecomparison)Doesn't seetherelationshipas a unity -you vs. themGaslightingTakesyou forgrantedIs alwaysdefensiveHas noenergy foryou left,rather investsit elsewhereTalks a lotaboutpastcrushesIs someoneelse than theperson youfell in lovewithYou arenever enoughfor theirsexual needsand fantasiesAvoidstouchesNitpickingTakesyourautonomyYou aretheir mentalsupport (onedirectional)Doesn'trespectyourboundariesIsolatesyou fromyourfriendsFallseasily inlove withothersDoesn'tvalue timespendtogetherDoesn'tappreciategifts ofemotionalvalueCan't betheirauthenticselfMakes clearthat theyhave a plan B(sees you asreplaceable)Is alwaysmentallyabsent whenbeing withyouAvoids opencommunicationand takingresponsibilityPromisesare notkeptDoesn't trustyou - isuntrustworthyTreats youas inferior toothers(negativecomparison)Doesn't seetherelationshipas a unity -you vs. themGaslightingTakesyou forgrantedIs alwaysdefensiveHas noenergy foryou left,rather investsit elsewhereTalks a lotaboutpastcrushesIs someoneelse than theperson youfell in lovewithYou arenever enoughfor theirsexual needsand fantasiesAvoidstouchesNitpickingTakesyourautonomyYou aretheir mentalsupport (onedirectional)

Relationship Red Flags v2 - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Doesn't respect your boundaries
  2. Isolates you from your friends
  3. Falls easily in love with others
  4. Doesn't value time spend together
  5. Doesn't appreciate gifts of emotional value
  6. Can't be their authentic self
  7. Makes clear that they have a plan B (sees you as replaceable)
  8. Is always mentally absent when being with you
  9. Avoids open communication and taking responsibility
  10. Promises are not kept
  11. Doesn't trust you - is untrustworthy
  12. Treats you as inferior to others (negative comparison)
  13. Doesn't see the relationship as a unity - you vs. them
  14. Gaslighting
  15. Takes you for granted
  16. Is always defensive
  17. Has no energy for you left, rather invests it elsewhere
  18. Talks a lot about past crushes
  19. Is someone else than the person you fell in love with
  20. You are never enough for their sexual needs and fantasies
  21. Avoids touches
  22. Nitpicking
  23. Takes your autonomy
  24. You are their mental support (one directional)