Fallseasily inlove withothersYou arenever enoughfor theirsexual needsand fantasiesIsolatesyou fromyourfriendsIs someoneelse than theperson youfell in lovewithTakesyourautonomyAvoids opencommunicationand takingresponsibilityTalks a lotaboutpastcrushesCan't betheirauthenticselfDoesn't trustyou - isuntrustworthyGaslightingHas noenergy foryou left,rather investsit elsewhereDoesn'trespectyourboundariesMakes clearthat theyhave a plan B(sees you asreplaceable)AvoidstouchesPromisesare notkeptDoesn't seetherelationshipas a unity -you vs. themTakesyou forgrantedDoesn'tappreciategifts ofemotionalvalueYou aretheir mentalsupport (onedirectional)Is alwaysmentallyabsent whenbeing withyouIs alwaysdefensiveTreats youas inferior toothers(negativecomparison)Doesn'tvalue timespendtogetherNitpickingFallseasily inlove withothersYou arenever enoughfor theirsexual needsand fantasiesIsolatesyou fromyourfriendsIs someoneelse than theperson youfell in lovewithTakesyourautonomyAvoids opencommunicationand takingresponsibilityTalks a lotaboutpastcrushesCan't betheirauthenticselfDoesn't trustyou - isuntrustworthyGaslightingHas noenergy foryou left,rather investsit elsewhereDoesn'trespectyourboundariesMakes clearthat theyhave a plan B(sees you asreplaceable)AvoidstouchesPromisesare notkeptDoesn't seetherelationshipas a unity -you vs. themTakesyou forgrantedDoesn'tappreciategifts ofemotionalvalueYou aretheir mentalsupport (onedirectional)Is alwaysmentallyabsent whenbeing withyouIs alwaysdefensiveTreats youas inferior toothers(negativecomparison)Doesn'tvalue timespendtogetherNitpicking

Relationship Red Flags v2 - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Falls easily in love with others
  2. You are never enough for their sexual needs and fantasies
  3. Isolates you from your friends
  4. Is someone else than the person you fell in love with
  5. Takes your autonomy
  6. Avoids open communication and taking responsibility
  7. Talks a lot about past crushes
  8. Can't be their authentic self
  9. Doesn't trust you - is untrustworthy
  10. Gaslighting
  11. Has no energy for you left, rather invests it elsewhere
  12. Doesn't respect your boundaries
  13. Makes clear that they have a plan B (sees you as replaceable)
  14. Avoids touches
  15. Promises are not kept
  16. Doesn't see the relationship as a unity - you vs. them
  17. Takes you for granted
  18. Doesn't appreciate gifts of emotional value
  19. You are their mental support (one directional)
  20. Is always mentally absent when being with you
  21. Is always defensive
  22. Treats you as inferior to others (negative comparison)
  23. Doesn't value time spend together
  24. Nitpicking