Isolatesyou fromyourfriendsHas noenergy foryou left,rather investsit elsewhereTreats youas inferior toothers(negativecomparison)Is alwaysmentallyabsent whenbeing withyouDoesn'tvalue timespendtogetherYou arenever enoughfor theirsexual needsand fantasiesNitpickingTakesyourautonomyDoesn't seetherelationshipas a unity -you vs. themAvoids opencommunicationand takingresponsibilityAvoidstouchesDoesn'tappreciategifts ofemotionalvalueFallseasily inlove withothersDoesn'trespectyourboundariesPromisesare notkeptYou aretheir mentalsupport (onedirectional)Is alwaysdefensiveDoesn't trustyou - isuntrustworthyMakes clearthat theyhave a plan B(sees you asreplaceable)Can't betheirauthenticselfTalks a lotaboutpastcrushesGaslightingIs someoneelse than theperson youfell in lovewithTakesyou forgrantedIsolatesyou fromyourfriendsHas noenergy foryou left,rather investsit elsewhereTreats youas inferior toothers(negativecomparison)Is alwaysmentallyabsent whenbeing withyouDoesn'tvalue timespendtogetherYou arenever enoughfor theirsexual needsand fantasiesNitpickingTakesyourautonomyDoesn't seetherelationshipas a unity -you vs. themAvoids opencommunicationand takingresponsibilityAvoidstouchesDoesn'tappreciategifts ofemotionalvalueFallseasily inlove withothersDoesn'trespectyourboundariesPromisesare notkeptYou aretheir mentalsupport (onedirectional)Is alwaysdefensiveDoesn't trustyou - isuntrustworthyMakes clearthat theyhave a plan B(sees you asreplaceable)Can't betheirauthenticselfTalks a lotaboutpastcrushesGaslightingIs someoneelse than theperson youfell in lovewithTakesyou forgranted

Relationship Red Flags v2 - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Isolates you from your friends
  2. Has no energy for you left, rather invests it elsewhere
  3. Treats you as inferior to others (negative comparison)
  4. Is always mentally absent when being with you
  5. Doesn't value time spend together
  6. You are never enough for their sexual needs and fantasies
  7. Nitpicking
  8. Takes your autonomy
  9. Doesn't see the relationship as a unity - you vs. them
  10. Avoids open communication and taking responsibility
  11. Avoids touches
  12. Doesn't appreciate gifts of emotional value
  13. Falls easily in love with others
  14. Doesn't respect your boundaries
  15. Promises are not kept
  16. You are their mental support (one directional)
  17. Is always defensive
  18. Doesn't trust you - is untrustworthy
  19. Makes clear that they have a plan B (sees you as replaceable)
  20. Can't be their authentic self
  21. Talks a lot about past crushes
  22. Gaslighting
  23. Is someone else than the person you fell in love with
  24. Takes you for granted