TakesyourautonomyGaslightingYou aretheir mentalsupport (onedirectional)Doesn't seetherelationshipas a unity -you vs. themIsolatesyou fromyourfriendsTakesyou forgrantedIs someoneelse than theperson youfell in lovewithIs alwaysdefensiveAvoids opencommunicationand takingresponsibilityTalks a lotaboutpastcrushesDoesn'tappreciategifts ofemotionalvaluePromisesare notkeptNitpickingHas noenergy foryou left,rather investsit elsewhereDoesn'trespectyourboundariesIs alwaysmentallyabsent whenbeing withyouAvoidstouchesDoesn'tvalue timespendtogetherCan't betheirauthenticselfDoesn't trustyou - isuntrustworthyYou arenever enoughfor theirsexual needsand fantasiesFallseasily inlove withothersTreats youas inferior toothers(negativecomparison)Makes clearthat theyhave a plan B(sees you asreplaceable)TakesyourautonomyGaslightingYou aretheir mentalsupport (onedirectional)Doesn't seetherelationshipas a unity -you vs. themIsolatesyou fromyourfriendsTakesyou forgrantedIs someoneelse than theperson youfell in lovewithIs alwaysdefensiveAvoids opencommunicationand takingresponsibilityTalks a lotaboutpastcrushesDoesn'tappreciategifts ofemotionalvaluePromisesare notkeptNitpickingHas noenergy foryou left,rather investsit elsewhereDoesn'trespectyourboundariesIs alwaysmentallyabsent whenbeing withyouAvoidstouchesDoesn'tvalue timespendtogetherCan't betheirauthenticselfDoesn't trustyou - isuntrustworthyYou arenever enoughfor theirsexual needsand fantasiesFallseasily inlove withothersTreats youas inferior toothers(negativecomparison)Makes clearthat theyhave a plan B(sees you asreplaceable)

Relationship Red Flags v2 - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Takes your autonomy
  2. Gaslighting
  3. You are their mental support (one directional)
  4. Doesn't see the relationship as a unity - you vs. them
  5. Isolates you from your friends
  6. Takes you for granted
  7. Is someone else than the person you fell in love with
  8. Is always defensive
  9. Avoids open communication and taking responsibility
  10. Talks a lot about past crushes
  11. Doesn't appreciate gifts of emotional value
  12. Promises are not kept
  13. Nitpicking
  14. Has no energy for you left, rather invests it elsewhere
  15. Doesn't respect your boundaries
  16. Is always mentally absent when being with you
  17. Avoids touches
  18. Doesn't value time spend together
  19. Can't be their authentic self
  20. Doesn't trust you - is untrustworthy
  21. You are never enough for their sexual needs and fantasies
  22. Falls easily in love with others
  23. Treats you as inferior to others (negative comparison)
  24. Makes clear that they have a plan B (sees you as replaceable)