Can't betheirauthenticselfYou arenever enoughfor theirsexual needsand fantasiesMakes clearthat theyhave a plan B(sees you asreplaceable)Talks a lotaboutpastcrushesYou aretheir mentalsupport (onedirectional)Is alwaysdefensiveTakesyou forgrantedTakesyourautonomyHas noenergy foryou left,rather investsit elsewhereAvoids opencommunicationand takingresponsibilityDoesn'tvalue timespendtogetherAvoidstouchesIs alwaysmentallyabsent whenbeing withyouDoesn'tappreciategifts ofemotionalvalueIs someoneelse than theperson youfell in lovewithNitpickingPromisesare notkeptDoesn't trustyou - isuntrustworthyTreats youas inferior toothers(negativecomparison)Isolatesyou fromyourfriendsFallseasily inlove withothersDoesn'trespectyourboundariesDoesn't seetherelationshipas a unity -you vs. themGaslightingCan't betheirauthenticselfYou arenever enoughfor theirsexual needsand fantasiesMakes clearthat theyhave a plan B(sees you asreplaceable)Talks a lotaboutpastcrushesYou aretheir mentalsupport (onedirectional)Is alwaysdefensiveTakesyou forgrantedTakesyourautonomyHas noenergy foryou left,rather investsit elsewhereAvoids opencommunicationand takingresponsibilityDoesn'tvalue timespendtogetherAvoidstouchesIs alwaysmentallyabsent whenbeing withyouDoesn'tappreciategifts ofemotionalvalueIs someoneelse than theperson youfell in lovewithNitpickingPromisesare notkeptDoesn't trustyou - isuntrustworthyTreats youas inferior toothers(negativecomparison)Isolatesyou fromyourfriendsFallseasily inlove withothersDoesn'trespectyourboundariesDoesn't seetherelationshipas a unity -you vs. themGaslighting

Relationship Red Flags v2 - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Can't be their authentic self
  2. You are never enough for their sexual needs and fantasies
  3. Makes clear that they have a plan B (sees you as replaceable)
  4. Talks a lot about past crushes
  5. You are their mental support (one directional)
  6. Is always defensive
  7. Takes you for granted
  8. Takes your autonomy
  9. Has no energy for you left, rather invests it elsewhere
  10. Avoids open communication and taking responsibility
  11. Doesn't value time spend together
  12. Avoids touches
  13. Is always mentally absent when being with you
  14. Doesn't appreciate gifts of emotional value
  15. Is someone else than the person you fell in love with
  16. Nitpicking
  17. Promises are not kept
  18. Doesn't trust you - is untrustworthy
  19. Treats you as inferior to others (negative comparison)
  20. Isolates you from your friends
  21. Falls easily in love with others
  22. Doesn't respect your boundaries
  23. Doesn't see the relationship as a unity - you vs. them
  24. Gaslighting