AvoidstouchesPromisesare notkeptMakes clearthat theyhave a plan B(sees you asreplaceable)TakesyourautonomyIs alwaysmentallyabsent whenbeing withyouDoesn't seetherelationshipas a unity -you vs. themTalks a lotaboutpastcrushesHas noenergy foryou left,rather investsit elsewhereIs someoneelse than theperson youfell in lovewithNitpickingIsolatesyou fromyourfriendsYou arenever enoughfor theirsexual needsand fantasiesGaslightingCan't betheirauthenticselfYou aretheir mentalsupport (onedirectional)Takesyou forgrantedFallseasily inlove withothersDoesn't trustyou - isuntrustworthyDoesn'trespectyourboundariesDoesn'tappreciategifts ofemotionalvalueDoesn'tvalue timespendtogetherTreats youas inferior toothers(negativecomparison)Avoids opencommunicationand takingresponsibilityIs alwaysdefensiveAvoidstouchesPromisesare notkeptMakes clearthat theyhave a plan B(sees you asreplaceable)TakesyourautonomyIs alwaysmentallyabsent whenbeing withyouDoesn't seetherelationshipas a unity -you vs. themTalks a lotaboutpastcrushesHas noenergy foryou left,rather investsit elsewhereIs someoneelse than theperson youfell in lovewithNitpickingIsolatesyou fromyourfriendsYou arenever enoughfor theirsexual needsand fantasiesGaslightingCan't betheirauthenticselfYou aretheir mentalsupport (onedirectional)Takesyou forgrantedFallseasily inlove withothersDoesn't trustyou - isuntrustworthyDoesn'trespectyourboundariesDoesn'tappreciategifts ofemotionalvalueDoesn'tvalue timespendtogetherTreats youas inferior toothers(negativecomparison)Avoids opencommunicationand takingresponsibilityIs alwaysdefensive

Relationship Red Flags v2 - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Avoids touches
  2. Promises are not kept
  3. Makes clear that they have a plan B (sees you as replaceable)
  4. Takes your autonomy
  5. Is always mentally absent when being with you
  6. Doesn't see the relationship as a unity - you vs. them
  7. Talks a lot about past crushes
  8. Has no energy for you left, rather invests it elsewhere
  9. Is someone else than the person you fell in love with
  10. Nitpicking
  11. Isolates you from your friends
  12. You are never enough for their sexual needs and fantasies
  13. Gaslighting
  14. Can't be their authentic self
  15. You are their mental support (one directional)
  16. Takes you for granted
  17. Falls easily in love with others
  18. Doesn't trust you - is untrustworthy
  19. Doesn't respect your boundaries
  20. Doesn't appreciate gifts of emotional value
  21. Doesn't value time spend together
  22. Treats you as inferior to others (negative comparison)
  23. Avoids open communication and taking responsibility
  24. Is always defensive