Doesn'tappreciategifts ofemotionalvalueTakesyourautonomyIs alwaysdefensiveMakes clearthat theyhave a plan B(sees you asreplaceable)Treats youas inferior toothers(negativecomparison)NitpickingDoesn't trustyou - isuntrustworthyHas noenergy foryou left,rather investsit elsewhereYou arenever enoughfor theirsexual needsand fantasiesIsolatesyou fromyourfriendsPromisesare notkeptCan't betheirauthenticselfAvoidstouchesFallseasily inlove withothersDoesn't seetherelationshipas a unity -you vs. themDoesn'trespectyourboundariesIs someoneelse than theperson youfell in lovewithTakesyou forgrantedDoesn'tvalue timespendtogetherGaslightingTalks a lotaboutpastcrushesAvoids opencommunicationand takingresponsibilityYou aretheir mentalsupport (onedirectional)Is alwaysmentallyabsent whenbeing withyouDoesn'tappreciategifts ofemotionalvalueTakesyourautonomyIs alwaysdefensiveMakes clearthat theyhave a plan B(sees you asreplaceable)Treats youas inferior toothers(negativecomparison)NitpickingDoesn't trustyou - isuntrustworthyHas noenergy foryou left,rather investsit elsewhereYou arenever enoughfor theirsexual needsand fantasiesIsolatesyou fromyourfriendsPromisesare notkeptCan't betheirauthenticselfAvoidstouchesFallseasily inlove withothersDoesn't seetherelationshipas a unity -you vs. themDoesn'trespectyourboundariesIs someoneelse than theperson youfell in lovewithTakesyou forgrantedDoesn'tvalue timespendtogetherGaslightingTalks a lotaboutpastcrushesAvoids opencommunicationand takingresponsibilityYou aretheir mentalsupport (onedirectional)Is alwaysmentallyabsent whenbeing withyou

Relationship Red Flags v2 - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Doesn't appreciate gifts of emotional value
  2. Takes your autonomy
  3. Is always defensive
  4. Makes clear that they have a plan B (sees you as replaceable)
  5. Treats you as inferior to others (negative comparison)
  6. Nitpicking
  7. Doesn't trust you - is untrustworthy
  8. Has no energy for you left, rather invests it elsewhere
  9. You are never enough for their sexual needs and fantasies
  10. Isolates you from your friends
  11. Promises are not kept
  12. Can't be their authentic self
  13. Avoids touches
  14. Falls easily in love with others
  15. Doesn't see the relationship as a unity - you vs. them
  16. Doesn't respect your boundaries
  17. Is someone else than the person you fell in love with
  18. Takes you for granted
  19. Doesn't value time spend together
  20. Gaslighting
  21. Talks a lot about past crushes
  22. Avoids open communication and taking responsibility
  23. You are their mental support (one directional)
  24. Is always mentally absent when being with you