Doesn't trustyou - isuntrustworthyDoesn'tvalue timespendtogetherCan't betheirauthenticselfTakesyourautonomyGaslightingYou arenever enoughfor theirsexual needsand fantasiesMakes clearthat theyhave a plan B(sees you asreplaceable)Doesn'tappreciategifts ofemotionalvalueDoesn't seetherelationshipas a unity -you vs. themIsolatesyou fromyourfriendsPromisesare notkeptDoesn'trespectyourboundariesIs someoneelse than theperson youfell in lovewithAvoids opencommunicationand takingresponsibilityTreats youas inferior toothers(negativecomparison)Is alwaysmentallyabsent whenbeing withyouTalks a lotaboutpastcrushesAvoidstouchesIs alwaysdefensiveYou aretheir mentalsupport (onedirectional)Takesyou forgrantedNitpickingFallseasily inlove withothersHas noenergy foryou left,rather investsit elsewhereDoesn't trustyou - isuntrustworthyDoesn'tvalue timespendtogetherCan't betheirauthenticselfTakesyourautonomyGaslightingYou arenever enoughfor theirsexual needsand fantasiesMakes clearthat theyhave a plan B(sees you asreplaceable)Doesn'tappreciategifts ofemotionalvalueDoesn't seetherelationshipas a unity -you vs. themIsolatesyou fromyourfriendsPromisesare notkeptDoesn'trespectyourboundariesIs someoneelse than theperson youfell in lovewithAvoids opencommunicationand takingresponsibilityTreats youas inferior toothers(negativecomparison)Is alwaysmentallyabsent whenbeing withyouTalks a lotaboutpastcrushesAvoidstouchesIs alwaysdefensiveYou aretheir mentalsupport (onedirectional)Takesyou forgrantedNitpickingFallseasily inlove withothersHas noenergy foryou left,rather investsit elsewhere

Relationship Red Flags v2 - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Doesn't trust you - is untrustworthy
  2. Doesn't value time spend together
  3. Can't be their authentic self
  4. Takes your autonomy
  5. Gaslighting
  6. You are never enough for their sexual needs and fantasies
  7. Makes clear that they have a plan B (sees you as replaceable)
  8. Doesn't appreciate gifts of emotional value
  9. Doesn't see the relationship as a unity - you vs. them
  10. Isolates you from your friends
  11. Promises are not kept
  12. Doesn't respect your boundaries
  13. Is someone else than the person you fell in love with
  14. Avoids open communication and taking responsibility
  15. Treats you as inferior to others (negative comparison)
  16. Is always mentally absent when being with you
  17. Talks a lot about past crushes
  18. Avoids touches
  19. Is always defensive
  20. You are their mental support (one directional)
  21. Takes you for granted
  22. Nitpicking
  23. Falls easily in love with others
  24. Has no energy for you left, rather invests it elsewhere