Doesn'trespectyourboundariesNitpickingTakesyou forgrantedTakesyourautonomyGaslightingFallseasily inlove withothersYou arenever enoughfor theirsexual needsand fantasiesIs someoneelse than theperson youfell in lovewithTreats youas inferior toothers(negativecomparison)Can't betheirauthenticselfIs alwaysdefensiveAvoids opencommunicationand takingresponsibilityYou aretheir mentalsupport (onedirectional)Doesn'tvalue timespendtogetherDoesn't trustyou - isuntrustworthyMakes clearthat theyhave a plan B(sees you asreplaceable)Is alwaysmentallyabsent whenbeing withyouPromisesare notkeptDoesn'tappreciategifts ofemotionalvalueAvoidstouchesTalks a lotaboutpastcrushesDoesn't seetherelationshipas a unity -you vs. themIsolatesyou fromyourfriendsHas noenergy foryou left,rather investsit elsewhereDoesn'trespectyourboundariesNitpickingTakesyou forgrantedTakesyourautonomyGaslightingFallseasily inlove withothersYou arenever enoughfor theirsexual needsand fantasiesIs someoneelse than theperson youfell in lovewithTreats youas inferior toothers(negativecomparison)Can't betheirauthenticselfIs alwaysdefensiveAvoids opencommunicationand takingresponsibilityYou aretheir mentalsupport (onedirectional)Doesn'tvalue timespendtogetherDoesn't trustyou - isuntrustworthyMakes clearthat theyhave a plan B(sees you asreplaceable)Is alwaysmentallyabsent whenbeing withyouPromisesare notkeptDoesn'tappreciategifts ofemotionalvalueAvoidstouchesTalks a lotaboutpastcrushesDoesn't seetherelationshipas a unity -you vs. themIsolatesyou fromyourfriendsHas noenergy foryou left,rather investsit elsewhere

Relationship Red Flags v2 - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Doesn't respect your boundaries
  2. Nitpicking
  3. Takes you for granted
  4. Takes your autonomy
  5. Gaslighting
  6. Falls easily in love with others
  7. You are never enough for their sexual needs and fantasies
  8. Is someone else than the person you fell in love with
  9. Treats you as inferior to others (negative comparison)
  10. Can't be their authentic self
  11. Is always defensive
  12. Avoids open communication and taking responsibility
  13. You are their mental support (one directional)
  14. Doesn't value time spend together
  15. Doesn't trust you - is untrustworthy
  16. Makes clear that they have a plan B (sees you as replaceable)
  17. Is always mentally absent when being with you
  18. Promises are not kept
  19. Doesn't appreciate gifts of emotional value
  20. Avoids touches
  21. Talks a lot about past crushes
  22. Doesn't see the relationship as a unity - you vs. them
  23. Isolates you from your friends
  24. Has no energy for you left, rather invests it elsewhere