Treats youas inferior toothers(negativecomparison)Promisesare notkeptIs someoneelse than theperson youfell in lovewithAvoidstouchesYou arenever enoughfor theirsexual needsand fantasiesDoesn'trespectyourboundariesNitpickingCan't betheirauthenticselfFallseasily inlove withothersAvoids opencommunicationand takingresponsibilityTakesyou forgrantedGaslightingDoesn't trustyou - isuntrustworthyDoesn'tappreciategifts ofemotionalvalueIsolatesyou fromyourfriendsYou aretheir mentalsupport (onedirectional)Doesn'tvalue timespendtogetherIs alwaysdefensiveDoesn't seetherelationshipas a unity -you vs. themIs alwaysmentallyabsent whenbeing withyouMakes clearthat theyhave a plan B(sees you asreplaceable)Talks a lotaboutpastcrushesTakesyourautonomyHas noenergy foryou left,rather investsit elsewhereTreats youas inferior toothers(negativecomparison)Promisesare notkeptIs someoneelse than theperson youfell in lovewithAvoidstouchesYou arenever enoughfor theirsexual needsand fantasiesDoesn'trespectyourboundariesNitpickingCan't betheirauthenticselfFallseasily inlove withothersAvoids opencommunicationand takingresponsibilityTakesyou forgrantedGaslightingDoesn't trustyou - isuntrustworthyDoesn'tappreciategifts ofemotionalvalueIsolatesyou fromyourfriendsYou aretheir mentalsupport (onedirectional)Doesn'tvalue timespendtogetherIs alwaysdefensiveDoesn't seetherelationshipas a unity -you vs. themIs alwaysmentallyabsent whenbeing withyouMakes clearthat theyhave a plan B(sees you asreplaceable)Talks a lotaboutpastcrushesTakesyourautonomyHas noenergy foryou left,rather investsit elsewhere

Relationship Red Flags v2 - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Treats you as inferior to others (negative comparison)
  2. Promises are not kept
  3. Is someone else than the person you fell in love with
  4. Avoids touches
  5. You are never enough for their sexual needs and fantasies
  6. Doesn't respect your boundaries
  7. Nitpicking
  8. Can't be their authentic self
  9. Falls easily in love with others
  10. Avoids open communication and taking responsibility
  11. Takes you for granted
  12. Gaslighting
  13. Doesn't trust you - is untrustworthy
  14. Doesn't appreciate gifts of emotional value
  15. Isolates you from your friends
  16. You are their mental support (one directional)
  17. Doesn't value time spend together
  18. Is always defensive
  19. Doesn't see the relationship as a unity - you vs. them
  20. Is always mentally absent when being with you
  21. Makes clear that they have a plan B (sees you as replaceable)
  22. Talks a lot about past crushes
  23. Takes your autonomy
  24. Has no energy for you left, rather invests it elsewhere