ToohyperfixedCausedtheventIgnores youtowrite/roleplayActivelyencouragesneg thingsExpects you tocaretake nomatter what,even if in abreakdown/veryvulnerableDoesn'tshowappreciationCompletelyuselesstemplatesTells tobreathewhenventingSays listento musicwhenventingHyperfixates ontrigger mediaand makes youlisten toramblesDoesn'trespondto ventsTalks aboutyou behindyour back ina neg waySays/Doessomethinginappropriatewhile ventingAdmits theydon't knowduring aventUnreasonabletriggerexpectationsFamily/Partnerssays hello butwon't frontBaselessclaims(noevidence)Makes lightofpersecutorsDoesn'tdeal withpersecutorsMakestheirproblemsyoursGoes tosleephalfwaythrough aventFlirts in a waythat is notplatonic/Leadssomeone onLittles frontstuck forunreasonableamount of time,sometimes withpersecutorsUnderminesvent"Can't you justchange — tosomethingdifferent?"When ventingLittlerespondsto ventMakesexcuses ifventingabout them"Sorry Ididn't getthemessage"Insinuatesyou're theproblemDenieswhenofferedhelpGets distractedhalfwaythrough/doesn'ttake it seriouslywhen ventingActsaggressiveCheatsCausestheir ownproblemsBlamesothers out ofsystem fortheirproblemsInappropriateTone TagsMakes youdeal with apersecutorwhile ventingor notTries to dosomething theyare not skilledenoughfor(Singing,writting poems,etc.)Feelsanti-socialVentsoveryouPlaysthevictimGives huginresponseto ventsYour childrespondsto ventsToohyperfixedCausedtheventIgnores youtowrite/roleplayActivelyencouragesneg thingsExpects you tocaretake nomatter what,even if in abreakdown/veryvulnerableDoesn'tshowappreciationCompletelyuselesstemplatesTells tobreathewhenventingSays listento musicwhenventingHyperfixates ontrigger mediaand makes youlisten toramblesDoesn'trespondto ventsTalks aboutyou behindyour back ina neg waySays/Doessomethinginappropriatewhile ventingAdmits theydon't knowduring aventUnreasonabletriggerexpectationsFamily/Partnerssays hello butwon't frontBaselessclaims(noevidence)Makes lightofpersecutorsDoesn'tdeal withpersecutorsMakestheirproblemsyoursGoes tosleephalfwaythrough aventFlirts in a waythat is notplatonic/Leadssomeone onLittles frontstuck forunreasonableamount of time,sometimes withpersecutorsUnderminesvent"Can't you justchange — tosomethingdifferent?"When ventingLittlerespondsto ventMakesexcuses ifventingabout them"Sorry Ididn't getthemessage"Insinuatesyou're theproblemDenieswhenofferedhelpGets distractedhalfwaythrough/doesn'ttake it seriouslywhen ventingActsaggressiveCheatsCausestheir ownproblemsBlamesothers out ofsystem fortheirproblemsInappropriateTone TagsMakes youdeal with apersecutorwhile ventingor notTries to dosomething theyare not skilledenoughfor(Singing,writting poems,etc.)Feelsanti-socialVentsoveryouPlaysthevictimGives huginresponseto ventsYour childrespondsto vents

Eclipse Bingo /Neg - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Too hyperfixed
  2. Caused the vent
  3. Ignores you to write/roleplay
  4. Actively encourages neg things
  5. Expects you to caretake no matter what, even if in a breakdown/very vulnerable
  6. Doesn't show appreciation
  7. Completely useless templates
  8. Tells to breathe when venting
  9. Says listen to music when venting
  10. Hyperfixates on trigger media and makes you listen to rambles
  11. Doesn't respond to vents
  12. Talks about you behind your back in a neg way
  13. Says/Does something inappropriate while venting
  14. Admits they don't know during a vent
  15. Unreasonable trigger expectations
  16. Family/Partners says hello but won't front
  17. Baseless claims(no evidence)
  18. Makes light of persecutors
  19. Doesn't deal with persecutors
  20. Makes their problems yours
  21. Goes to sleep halfway through a vent
  22. Flirts in a way that is not platonic/Leads someone on
  23. Littles front stuck for unreasonable amount of time, sometimes with persecutors
  24. Undermines vent
  25. "Can't you just change — to something different?" When venting
  26. Little responds to vent
  27. Makes excuses if venting about them
  28. "Sorry I didn't get the message"
  29. Insinuates you're the problem
  30. Denies when offered help
  31. Gets distracted halfway through/doesn't take it seriously when venting
  32. Acts aggressive
  33. Cheats
  34. Causes their own problems
  35. Blames others out of system for their problems
  36. Inappropriate Tone Tags
  37. Makes you deal with a persecutor while venting or not
  38. Tries to do something they are not skilled enough for(Singing, writting poems, etc.)
  39. Feels anti-social
  40. Vents over you
  41. Plays the victim
  42. Gives hug in response to vents
  43. Your child responds to vents