Family/Partnerssays hello butwon't frontPlaysthevictimIgnores youtowrite/roleplayUnderminesventBlamesothers out ofsystem fortheirproblemsDoesn'tshowappreciationTells tobreathewhenventingBaselessclaims(noevidence)Causestheir ownproblemsLittles frontstuck forunreasonableamount of time,sometimes withpersecutorsInsinuatesyou're theproblemMakestheirproblemsyours"Sorry Ididn't getthemessage"Activelyencouragesneg thingsGives huginresponseto ventsFlirts in a waythat is notplatonic/Leadssomeone onMakes youdeal with apersecutorwhile ventingor notExpects you tocaretake nomatter what,even if in abreakdown/veryvulnerableTalks aboutyou behindyour back ina neg wayMakes lightofpersecutorsCausedtheventDenieswhenofferedhelpDoesn'tdeal withpersecutorsLittlerespondsto ventToohyperfixedAdmits theydon't knowduring aventFeelsanti-socialUnreasonabletriggerexpectationsCheatsTries to dosomething theyare not skilledenoughfor(Singing,writting poems,etc.)VentsoveryouDoesn'trespondto ventsGoes tosleephalfwaythrough aventYour childrespondsto ventsInappropriateTone TagsCompletelyuselesstemplatesActsaggressiveHyperfixates ontrigger mediaand makes youlisten toramblesSays listento musicwhenventingMakesexcuses ifventingabout them"Can't you justchange — tosomethingdifferent?"When ventingGets distractedhalfwaythrough/doesn'ttake it seriouslywhen ventingSays/Doessomethinginappropriatewhile ventingFamily/Partnerssays hello butwon't frontPlaysthevictimIgnores youtowrite/roleplayUnderminesventBlamesothers out ofsystem fortheirproblemsDoesn'tshowappreciationTells tobreathewhenventingBaselessclaims(noevidence)Causestheir ownproblemsLittles frontstuck forunreasonableamount of time,sometimes withpersecutorsInsinuatesyou're theproblemMakestheirproblemsyours"Sorry Ididn't getthemessage"Activelyencouragesneg thingsGives huginresponseto ventsFlirts in a waythat is notplatonic/Leadssomeone onMakes youdeal with apersecutorwhile ventingor notExpects you tocaretake nomatter what,even if in abreakdown/veryvulnerableTalks aboutyou behindyour back ina neg wayMakes lightofpersecutorsCausedtheventDenieswhenofferedhelpDoesn'tdeal withpersecutorsLittlerespondsto ventToohyperfixedAdmits theydon't knowduring aventFeelsanti-socialUnreasonabletriggerexpectationsCheatsTries to dosomething theyare not skilledenoughfor(Singing,writting poems,etc.)VentsoveryouDoesn'trespondto ventsGoes tosleephalfwaythrough aventYour childrespondsto ventsInappropriateTone TagsCompletelyuselesstemplatesActsaggressiveHyperfixates ontrigger mediaand makes youlisten toramblesSays listento musicwhenventingMakesexcuses ifventingabout them"Can't you justchange — tosomethingdifferent?"When ventingGets distractedhalfwaythrough/doesn'ttake it seriouslywhen ventingSays/Doessomethinginappropriatewhile venting

Eclipse Bingo /Neg - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Family/Partners says hello but won't front
  2. Plays the victim
  3. Ignores you to write/roleplay
  4. Undermines vent
  5. Blames others out of system for their problems
  6. Doesn't show appreciation
  7. Tells to breathe when venting
  8. Baseless claims(no evidence)
  9. Causes their own problems
  10. Littles front stuck for unreasonable amount of time, sometimes with persecutors
  11. Insinuates you're the problem
  12. Makes their problems yours
  13. "Sorry I didn't get the message"
  14. Actively encourages neg things
  15. Gives hug in response to vents
  16. Flirts in a way that is not platonic/Leads someone on
  17. Makes you deal with a persecutor while venting or not
  18. Expects you to caretake no matter what, even if in a breakdown/very vulnerable
  19. Talks about you behind your back in a neg way
  20. Makes light of persecutors
  21. Caused the vent
  22. Denies when offered help
  23. Doesn't deal with persecutors
  24. Little responds to vent
  25. Too hyperfixed
  26. Admits they don't know during a vent
  27. Feels anti-social
  28. Unreasonable trigger expectations
  29. Cheats
  30. Tries to do something they are not skilled enough for(Singing, writting poems, etc.)
  31. Vents over you
  32. Doesn't respond to vents
  33. Goes to sleep halfway through a vent
  34. Your child responds to vents
  35. Inappropriate Tone Tags
  36. Completely useless templates
  37. Acts aggressive
  38. Hyperfixates on trigger media and makes you listen to rambles
  39. Says listen to music when venting
  40. Makes excuses if venting about them
  41. "Can't you just change — to something different?" When venting
  42. Gets distracted halfway through/doesn't take it seriously when venting
  43. Says/Does something inappropriate while venting