thoughtful self- centered controlling emotionally safe Shares feelings open & honest demands all of your time Has their own hobbies/activities separate of you listens Can't be friends with the gender you are attracted to negotiates shares decision- making defensive active listener criticizes your posts tells you what you can/can't wear lack of empathy Stonewalling similar values have fun together supportive has self- directed goals balanced giving and receiving not expressing feelings Controls who you follow spends to much time with family or friends breaks promises Blames you "you made me" gaslighting values independence isolates you from family/friends manipulative or controlling behavior Not respecting your religious values being critical broke love bombing sincere apologizes when wrong checks phone - needs passwords thoughtful self- centered controlling emotionally safe Shares feelings open & honest demands all of your time Has their own hobbies/activities separate of you listens Can't be friends with the gender you are attracted to negotiates shares decision- making defensive active listener criticizes your posts tells you what you can/can't wear lack of empathy Stonewalling similar values have fun together supportive has self- directed goals balanced giving and receiving not expressing feelings Controls who you follow spends to much time with family or friends breaks promises Blames you "you made me" gaslighting values independence isolates you from family/friends manipulative or controlling behavior Not respecting your religious values being critical broke love bombing sincere apologizes when wrong checks phone - needs passwords
(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
O-thoughtful
B-self-centered
I-controlling
I-emotionally safe
N-Shares feelings
O-open & honest
B-demands all of your time
O-Has their own hobbies/activities separate of you
O-listens
G-Can't be friends with the gender you are attracted to
G-negotiates
G-shares decision-making
G-defensive
G-active listener
O-criticizes your posts
I-tells you what you can/can't wear
O-lack of empathy
B-Stonewalling
B-similar values
I-have fun together
N-supportive
O-has self-directed goals
B-balanced giving and receiving
I-not expressing feelings
I-Controls who you follow
B-spends to much time with family or friends
I-breaks promises
N-Blames you "you made me"
N-gaslighting
N-values independence
G-isolates you from family/friends
I-manipulative or controlling behavior
N-Not respecting your religious values
O-being critical
N-broke
G-love bombing
G-sincere
B-apologizes when wrong
B-checks phone -needs passwords