Has their own hobbies/activities separate of you love bombing lack of empathy Shares feelings checks phone - needs passwords spends to much time with family or friends open & honest Can't be friends with the gender you are attracted to isolates you from family/friends controlling self- centered gaslighting defensive manipulative or controlling behavior broke listens being critical supportive breaks promises shares decision- making thoughtful negotiates demands all of your time Controls who you follow similar values emotionally safe criticizes your posts balanced giving and receiving values independence active listener Stonewalling has self- directed goals have fun together tells you what you can/can't wear sincere apologizes when wrong Blames you "you made me" not expressing feelings Not respecting your religious values Has their own hobbies/activities separate of you love bombing lack of empathy Shares feelings checks phone - needs passwords spends to much time with family or friends open & honest Can't be friends with the gender you are attracted to isolates you from family/friends controlling self- centered gaslighting defensive manipulative or controlling behavior broke listens being critical supportive breaks promises shares decision- making thoughtful negotiates demands all of your time Controls who you follow similar values emotionally safe criticizes your posts balanced giving and receiving values independence active listener Stonewalling has self- directed goals have fun together tells you what you can/can't wear sincere apologizes when wrong Blames you "you made me" not expressing feelings Not respecting your religious values
(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
O-Has their own hobbies/activities separate of you
G-love bombing
O-lack of empathy
N-Shares feelings
B-checks phone -needs passwords
B-spends to much time with family or friends
O-open & honest
G-Can't be friends with the gender you are attracted to
G-isolates you from family/friends
I-controlling
B-self-centered
N-gaslighting
G-defensive
I-manipulative or controlling behavior
N-broke
O-listens
O-being critical
N-supportive
I-breaks promises
G-shares decision-making
O-thoughtful
G-negotiates
B-demands all of your time
I-Controls who you follow
B-similar values
I-emotionally safe
O-criticizes your posts
B-balanced giving and receiving
N-values independence
G-active listener
B-Stonewalling
O-has self-directed goals
I-have fun together
I-tells you what you can/can't wear
G-sincere
B-apologizes when wrong
N-Blames you "you made me"
I-not expressing feelings
N-Not respecting your religious values