Pressures youinto sexualactivities you'reuncomfortablewithOften lies orwithholdsimportantinformationDoesn'trespectyourboundariesShows signs ofpossessivenessor obsessionShows signsof excessivemood swingsor angerissuesHas asubstanceabuseproblemTries tocontrol whatyou wear orhow you lookConstantlycriticizesyou or putsyou downMakes majordecisionswithoutconsideringyour inputDoesn't showinterest inmeeting yourfriends orfamilyIsolates youfrom yoursupportnetworkDismissesyourfeelings orconcernsDoesn't showinterest inmeeting yourfriends orfamilyHas ahistory ofabusivebehaviorGaslights ormanipulatesyouDemonstratesa lack ofempathyIs overlyjealous orpossessiveHas a historyof legal orcriminalproblemsDoesn't takeresponsibilityfor theiractionsExhibitscontrollingbehaviorMakes youfeel guilty forspending timewith friends orfamilyIs unreliableandfrequentlybreakspromisesHas a historyof cheatingin pastrelationshipsDoesn'tcommunicateopenly orhonestlyAvoidsdiscussingthe future oftherelationshipPressures youinto sexualactivities you'reuncomfortablewithOften lies orwithholdsimportantinformationDoesn'trespectyourboundariesShows signs ofpossessivenessor obsessionShows signsof excessivemood swingsor angerissuesHas asubstanceabuseproblemTries tocontrol whatyou wear orhow you lookConstantlycriticizesyou or putsyou downMakes majordecisionswithoutconsideringyour inputDoesn't showinterest inmeeting yourfriends orfamilyIsolates youfrom yoursupportnetworkDismissesyourfeelings orconcernsDoesn't showinterest inmeeting yourfriends orfamilyHas ahistory ofabusivebehaviorGaslights ormanipulatesyouDemonstratesa lack ofempathyIs overlyjealous orpossessiveHas a historyof legal orcriminalproblemsDoesn't takeresponsibilityfor theiractionsExhibitscontrollingbehaviorMakes youfeel guilty forspending timewith friends orfamilyIs unreliableandfrequentlybreakspromisesHas a historyof cheatingin pastrelationshipsDoesn'tcommunicateopenly orhonestlyAvoidsdiscussingthe future oftherelationship

Red Flags Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Pressures you into sexual activities you're uncomfortable with
  2. Often lies or withholds important information
  3. Doesn't respect your boundaries
  4. Shows signs of possessiveness or obsession
  5. Shows signs of excessive mood swings or anger issues
  6. Has a substance abuse problem
  7. Tries to control what you wear or how you look
  8. Constantly criticizes you or puts you down
  9. Makes major decisions without considering your input
  10. Doesn't show interest in meeting your friends or family
  11. Isolates you from your support network
  12. Dismisses your feelings or concerns
  13. Doesn't show interest in meeting your friends or family
  14. Has a history of abusive behavior
  15. Gaslights or manipulates you
  16. Demonstrates a lack of empathy
  17. Is overly jealous or possessive
  18. Has a history of legal or criminal problems
  19. Doesn't take responsibility for their actions
  20. Exhibits controlling behavior
  21. Makes you feel guilty for spending time with friends or family
  22. Is unreliable and frequently breaks promises
  23. Has a history of cheating in past relationships
  24. Doesn't communicate openly or honestly
  25. Avoids discussing the future of the relationship