Dismissesyourfeelings orconcernsTries tocontrol whatyou wear orhow you lookDoesn't showinterest inmeeting yourfriends orfamilyIs overlyjealous orpossessiveMakes youfeel guilty forspending timewith friends orfamilyDoesn't showinterest inmeeting yourfriends orfamilyDemonstratesa lack ofempathyIs unreliableandfrequentlybreakspromisesDoesn'tcommunicateopenly orhonestlyAvoidsdiscussingthe future oftherelationshipShows signs ofpossessivenessor obsessionConstantlycriticizesyou or putsyou downPressures youinto sexualactivities you'reuncomfortablewithMakes majordecisionswithoutconsideringyour inputHas a historyof legal orcriminalproblemsShows signsof excessivemood swingsor angerissuesGaslights ormanipulatesyouHas asubstanceabuseproblemOften lies orwithholdsimportantinformationHas a historyof cheatingin pastrelationshipsDoesn't takeresponsibilityfor theiractionsHas ahistory ofabusivebehaviorIsolates youfrom yoursupportnetworkExhibitscontrollingbehaviorDoesn'trespectyourboundariesDismissesyourfeelings orconcernsTries tocontrol whatyou wear orhow you lookDoesn't showinterest inmeeting yourfriends orfamilyIs overlyjealous orpossessiveMakes youfeel guilty forspending timewith friends orfamilyDoesn't showinterest inmeeting yourfriends orfamilyDemonstratesa lack ofempathyIs unreliableandfrequentlybreakspromisesDoesn'tcommunicateopenly orhonestlyAvoidsdiscussingthe future oftherelationshipShows signs ofpossessivenessor obsessionConstantlycriticizesyou or putsyou downPressures youinto sexualactivities you'reuncomfortablewithMakes majordecisionswithoutconsideringyour inputHas a historyof legal orcriminalproblemsShows signsof excessivemood swingsor angerissuesGaslights ormanipulatesyouHas asubstanceabuseproblemOften lies orwithholdsimportantinformationHas a historyof cheatingin pastrelationshipsDoesn't takeresponsibilityfor theiractionsHas ahistory ofabusivebehaviorIsolates youfrom yoursupportnetworkExhibitscontrollingbehaviorDoesn'trespectyourboundaries

Red Flags Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Dismisses your feelings or concerns
  2. Tries to control what you wear or how you look
  3. Doesn't show interest in meeting your friends or family
  4. Is overly jealous or possessive
  5. Makes you feel guilty for spending time with friends or family
  6. Doesn't show interest in meeting your friends or family
  7. Demonstrates a lack of empathy
  8. Is unreliable and frequently breaks promises
  9. Doesn't communicate openly or honestly
  10. Avoids discussing the future of the relationship
  11. Shows signs of possessiveness or obsession
  12. Constantly criticizes you or puts you down
  13. Pressures you into sexual activities you're uncomfortable with
  14. Makes major decisions without considering your input
  15. Has a history of legal or criminal problems
  16. Shows signs of excessive mood swings or anger issues
  17. Gaslights or manipulates you
  18. Has a substance abuse problem
  19. Often lies or withholds important information
  20. Has a history of cheating in past relationships
  21. Doesn't take responsibility for their actions
  22. Has a history of abusive behavior
  23. Isolates you from your support network
  24. Exhibits controlling behavior
  25. Doesn't respect your boundaries