Gaslights ormanipulatesyouDemonstratesa lack ofempathyMakes majordecisionswithoutconsideringyour inputHas a historyof legal orcriminalproblemsTries tocontrol whatyou wear orhow you lookAvoidsdiscussingthe future oftherelationshipHas asubstanceabuseproblemOften lies orwithholdsimportantinformationIsolates youfrom yoursupportnetworkIs unreliableandfrequentlybreakspromisesDoesn'tcommunicateopenly orhonestlyShows signs ofpossessivenessor obsessionDoesn't showinterest inmeeting yourfriends orfamilyHas ahistory ofabusivebehaviorDoesn't takeresponsibilityfor theiractionsPressures youinto sexualactivities you'reuncomfortablewithConstantlycriticizesyou or putsyou downHas a historyof cheatingin pastrelationshipsDismissesyourfeelings orconcernsExhibitscontrollingbehaviorMakes youfeel guilty forspending timewith friends orfamilyIs overlyjealous orpossessiveDoesn'trespectyourboundariesShows signsof excessivemood swingsor angerissuesDoesn't showinterest inmeeting yourfriends orfamilyGaslights ormanipulatesyouDemonstratesa lack ofempathyMakes majordecisionswithoutconsideringyour inputHas a historyof legal orcriminalproblemsTries tocontrol whatyou wear orhow you lookAvoidsdiscussingthe future oftherelationshipHas asubstanceabuseproblemOften lies orwithholdsimportantinformationIsolates youfrom yoursupportnetworkIs unreliableandfrequentlybreakspromisesDoesn'tcommunicateopenly orhonestlyShows signs ofpossessivenessor obsessionDoesn't showinterest inmeeting yourfriends orfamilyHas ahistory ofabusivebehaviorDoesn't takeresponsibilityfor theiractionsPressures youinto sexualactivities you'reuncomfortablewithConstantlycriticizesyou or putsyou downHas a historyof cheatingin pastrelationshipsDismissesyourfeelings orconcernsExhibitscontrollingbehaviorMakes youfeel guilty forspending timewith friends orfamilyIs overlyjealous orpossessiveDoesn'trespectyourboundariesShows signsof excessivemood swingsor angerissuesDoesn't showinterest inmeeting yourfriends orfamily

Red Flags Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Gaslights or manipulates you
  2. Demonstrates a lack of empathy
  3. Makes major decisions without considering your input
  4. Has a history of legal or criminal problems
  5. Tries to control what you wear or how you look
  6. Avoids discussing the future of the relationship
  7. Has a substance abuse problem
  8. Often lies or withholds important information
  9. Isolates you from your support network
  10. Is unreliable and frequently breaks promises
  11. Doesn't communicate openly or honestly
  12. Shows signs of possessiveness or obsession
  13. Doesn't show interest in meeting your friends or family
  14. Has a history of abusive behavior
  15. Doesn't take responsibility for their actions
  16. Pressures you into sexual activities you're uncomfortable with
  17. Constantly criticizes you or puts you down
  18. Has a history of cheating in past relationships
  19. Dismisses your feelings or concerns
  20. Exhibits controlling behavior
  21. Makes you feel guilty for spending time with friends or family
  22. Is overly jealous or possessive
  23. Doesn't respect your boundaries
  24. Shows signs of excessive mood swings or anger issues
  25. Doesn't show interest in meeting your friends or family