Has ahistory ofabusivebehaviorMakes majordecisionswithoutconsideringyour inputDoesn'trespectyourboundariesIsolates youfrom yoursupportnetworkDoesn't takeresponsibilityfor theiractionsIs unreliableandfrequentlybreakspromisesHas a historyof legal orcriminalproblemsHas a historyof cheatingin pastrelationshipsHas asubstanceabuseproblemAvoidsdiscussingthe future oftherelationshipDismissesyourfeelings orconcernsShows signsof excessivemood swingsor angerissuesDoesn't showinterest inmeeting yourfriends orfamilyPressures youinto sexualactivities you'reuncomfortablewithTries tocontrol whatyou wear orhow you lookIs overlyjealous orpossessiveDemonstratesa lack ofempathyDoesn't showinterest inmeeting yourfriends orfamilyOften lies orwithholdsimportantinformationExhibitscontrollingbehaviorDoesn'tcommunicateopenly orhonestlyShows signs ofpossessivenessor obsessionGaslights ormanipulatesyouMakes youfeel guilty forspending timewith friends orfamilyConstantlycriticizesyou or putsyou downHas ahistory ofabusivebehaviorMakes majordecisionswithoutconsideringyour inputDoesn'trespectyourboundariesIsolates youfrom yoursupportnetworkDoesn't takeresponsibilityfor theiractionsIs unreliableandfrequentlybreakspromisesHas a historyof legal orcriminalproblemsHas a historyof cheatingin pastrelationshipsHas asubstanceabuseproblemAvoidsdiscussingthe future oftherelationshipDismissesyourfeelings orconcernsShows signsof excessivemood swingsor angerissuesDoesn't showinterest inmeeting yourfriends orfamilyPressures youinto sexualactivities you'reuncomfortablewithTries tocontrol whatyou wear orhow you lookIs overlyjealous orpossessiveDemonstratesa lack ofempathyDoesn't showinterest inmeeting yourfriends orfamilyOften lies orwithholdsimportantinformationExhibitscontrollingbehaviorDoesn'tcommunicateopenly orhonestlyShows signs ofpossessivenessor obsessionGaslights ormanipulatesyouMakes youfeel guilty forspending timewith friends orfamilyConstantlycriticizesyou or putsyou down

Red Flags Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Has a history of abusive behavior
  2. Makes major decisions without considering your input
  3. Doesn't respect your boundaries
  4. Isolates you from your support network
  5. Doesn't take responsibility for their actions
  6. Is unreliable and frequently breaks promises
  7. Has a history of legal or criminal problems
  8. Has a history of cheating in past relationships
  9. Has a substance abuse problem
  10. Avoids discussing the future of the relationship
  11. Dismisses your feelings or concerns
  12. Shows signs of excessive mood swings or anger issues
  13. Doesn't show interest in meeting your friends or family
  14. Pressures you into sexual activities you're uncomfortable with
  15. Tries to control what you wear or how you look
  16. Is overly jealous or possessive
  17. Demonstrates a lack of empathy
  18. Doesn't show interest in meeting your friends or family
  19. Often lies or withholds important information
  20. Exhibits controlling behavior
  21. Doesn't communicate openly or honestly
  22. Shows signs of possessiveness or obsession
  23. Gaslights or manipulates you
  24. Makes you feel guilty for spending time with friends or family
  25. Constantly criticizes you or puts you down