Pressures youinto sexualactivities you'reuncomfortablewithDoesn't showinterest inmeeting yourfriends orfamilyDoesn'tcommunicateopenly orhonestlyOften lies orwithholdsimportantinformationHas a historyof legal orcriminalproblemsAvoidsdiscussingthe future oftherelationshipDoesn'trespectyourboundariesExhibitscontrollingbehaviorTries tocontrol whatyou wear orhow you lookGaslights ormanipulatesyouHas asubstanceabuseproblemMakes majordecisionswithoutconsideringyour inputIs unreliableandfrequentlybreakspromisesShows signs ofpossessivenessor obsessionDoesn't showinterest inmeeting yourfriends orfamilyDemonstratesa lack ofempathyConstantlycriticizesyou or putsyou downMakes youfeel guilty forspending timewith friends orfamilyDismissesyourfeelings orconcernsShows signsof excessivemood swingsor angerissuesHas a historyof cheatingin pastrelationshipsIsolates youfrom yoursupportnetworkHas ahistory ofabusivebehaviorIs overlyjealous orpossessiveDoesn't takeresponsibilityfor theiractionsPressures youinto sexualactivities you'reuncomfortablewithDoesn't showinterest inmeeting yourfriends orfamilyDoesn'tcommunicateopenly orhonestlyOften lies orwithholdsimportantinformationHas a historyof legal orcriminalproblemsAvoidsdiscussingthe future oftherelationshipDoesn'trespectyourboundariesExhibitscontrollingbehaviorTries tocontrol whatyou wear orhow you lookGaslights ormanipulatesyouHas asubstanceabuseproblemMakes majordecisionswithoutconsideringyour inputIs unreliableandfrequentlybreakspromisesShows signs ofpossessivenessor obsessionDoesn't showinterest inmeeting yourfriends orfamilyDemonstratesa lack ofempathyConstantlycriticizesyou or putsyou downMakes youfeel guilty forspending timewith friends orfamilyDismissesyourfeelings orconcernsShows signsof excessivemood swingsor angerissuesHas a historyof cheatingin pastrelationshipsIsolates youfrom yoursupportnetworkHas ahistory ofabusivebehaviorIs overlyjealous orpossessiveDoesn't takeresponsibilityfor theiractions

Red Flags Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Pressures you into sexual activities you're uncomfortable with
  2. Doesn't show interest in meeting your friends or family
  3. Doesn't communicate openly or honestly
  4. Often lies or withholds important information
  5. Has a history of legal or criminal problems
  6. Avoids discussing the future of the relationship
  7. Doesn't respect your boundaries
  8. Exhibits controlling behavior
  9. Tries to control what you wear or how you look
  10. Gaslights or manipulates you
  11. Has a substance abuse problem
  12. Makes major decisions without considering your input
  13. Is unreliable and frequently breaks promises
  14. Shows signs of possessiveness or obsession
  15. Doesn't show interest in meeting your friends or family
  16. Demonstrates a lack of empathy
  17. Constantly criticizes you or puts you down
  18. Makes you feel guilty for spending time with friends or family
  19. Dismisses your feelings or concerns
  20. Shows signs of excessive mood swings or anger issues
  21. Has a history of cheating in past relationships
  22. Isolates you from your support network
  23. Has a history of abusive behavior
  24. Is overly jealous or possessive
  25. Doesn't take responsibility for their actions