Tries tocontrol whatyou wear orhow you lookIsolates youfrom yoursupportnetworkDemonstratesa lack ofempathyMakes youfeel guilty forspending timewith friends orfamilyDoesn't showinterest inmeeting yourfriends orfamilyDoesn't showinterest inmeeting yourfriends orfamilyShows signs ofpossessivenessor obsessionDoesn't takeresponsibilityfor theiractionsShows signsof excessivemood swingsor angerissuesIs overlyjealous orpossessivePressures youinto sexualactivities you'reuncomfortablewithGaslights ormanipulatesyouHas a historyof cheatingin pastrelationshipsDismissesyourfeelings orconcernsAvoidsdiscussingthe future oftherelationshipExhibitscontrollingbehaviorHas asubstanceabuseproblemIs unreliableandfrequentlybreakspromisesOften lies orwithholdsimportantinformationConstantlycriticizesyou or putsyou downHas a historyof legal orcriminalproblemsMakes majordecisionswithoutconsideringyour inputDoesn'trespectyourboundariesDoesn'tcommunicateopenly orhonestlyHas ahistory ofabusivebehaviorTries tocontrol whatyou wear orhow you lookIsolates youfrom yoursupportnetworkDemonstratesa lack ofempathyMakes youfeel guilty forspending timewith friends orfamilyDoesn't showinterest inmeeting yourfriends orfamilyDoesn't showinterest inmeeting yourfriends orfamilyShows signs ofpossessivenessor obsessionDoesn't takeresponsibilityfor theiractionsShows signsof excessivemood swingsor angerissuesIs overlyjealous orpossessivePressures youinto sexualactivities you'reuncomfortablewithGaslights ormanipulatesyouHas a historyof cheatingin pastrelationshipsDismissesyourfeelings orconcernsAvoidsdiscussingthe future oftherelationshipExhibitscontrollingbehaviorHas asubstanceabuseproblemIs unreliableandfrequentlybreakspromisesOften lies orwithholdsimportantinformationConstantlycriticizesyou or putsyou downHas a historyof legal orcriminalproblemsMakes majordecisionswithoutconsideringyour inputDoesn'trespectyourboundariesDoesn'tcommunicateopenly orhonestlyHas ahistory ofabusivebehavior

Red Flags Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Tries to control what you wear or how you look
  2. Isolates you from your support network
  3. Demonstrates a lack of empathy
  4. Makes you feel guilty for spending time with friends or family
  5. Doesn't show interest in meeting your friends or family
  6. Doesn't show interest in meeting your friends or family
  7. Shows signs of possessiveness or obsession
  8. Doesn't take responsibility for their actions
  9. Shows signs of excessive mood swings or anger issues
  10. Is overly jealous or possessive
  11. Pressures you into sexual activities you're uncomfortable with
  12. Gaslights or manipulates you
  13. Has a history of cheating in past relationships
  14. Dismisses your feelings or concerns
  15. Avoids discussing the future of the relationship
  16. Exhibits controlling behavior
  17. Has a substance abuse problem
  18. Is unreliable and frequently breaks promises
  19. Often lies or withholds important information
  20. Constantly criticizes you or puts you down
  21. Has a history of legal or criminal problems
  22. Makes major decisions without considering your input
  23. Doesn't respect your boundaries
  24. Doesn't communicate openly or honestly
  25. Has a history of abusive behavior