Is unreliableandfrequentlybreakspromisesExhibitscontrollingbehaviorDemonstratesa lack ofempathyDoesn'trespectyourboundariesHas a historyof cheatingin pastrelationshipsDoesn't showinterest inmeeting yourfriends orfamilyHas asubstanceabuseproblemHas a historyof legal orcriminalproblemsAvoidsdiscussingthe future oftherelationshipHas ahistory ofabusivebehaviorShows signsof excessivemood swingsor angerissuesGaslights ormanipulatesyouMakes youfeel guilty forspending timewith friends orfamilyOften lies orwithholdsimportantinformationShows signs ofpossessivenessor obsessionMakes majordecisionswithoutconsideringyour inputTries tocontrol whatyou wear orhow you lookDismissesyourfeelings orconcernsIs overlyjealous orpossessiveDoesn't showinterest inmeeting yourfriends orfamilyDoesn't takeresponsibilityfor theiractionsPressures youinto sexualactivities you'reuncomfortablewithIsolates youfrom yoursupportnetworkConstantlycriticizesyou or putsyou downDoesn'tcommunicateopenly orhonestlyIs unreliableandfrequentlybreakspromisesExhibitscontrollingbehaviorDemonstratesa lack ofempathyDoesn'trespectyourboundariesHas a historyof cheatingin pastrelationshipsDoesn't showinterest inmeeting yourfriends orfamilyHas asubstanceabuseproblemHas a historyof legal orcriminalproblemsAvoidsdiscussingthe future oftherelationshipHas ahistory ofabusivebehaviorShows signsof excessivemood swingsor angerissuesGaslights ormanipulatesyouMakes youfeel guilty forspending timewith friends orfamilyOften lies orwithholdsimportantinformationShows signs ofpossessivenessor obsessionMakes majordecisionswithoutconsideringyour inputTries tocontrol whatyou wear orhow you lookDismissesyourfeelings orconcernsIs overlyjealous orpossessiveDoesn't showinterest inmeeting yourfriends orfamilyDoesn't takeresponsibilityfor theiractionsPressures youinto sexualactivities you'reuncomfortablewithIsolates youfrom yoursupportnetworkConstantlycriticizesyou or putsyou downDoesn'tcommunicateopenly orhonestly

Red Flags Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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O
2
I
3
B
4
B
5
I
6
B
7
I
8
N
9
G
10
N
11
G
12
B
13
I
14
O
15
G
16
O
17
O
18
N
19
G
20
B
21
B
22
I
23
N
24
O
25
G
  1. O-Is unreliable and frequently breaks promises
  2. I-Exhibits controlling behavior
  3. B-Demonstrates a lack of empathy
  4. B-Doesn't respect your boundaries
  5. I-Has a history of cheating in past relationships
  6. B-Doesn't show interest in meeting your friends or family
  7. I-Has a substance abuse problem
  8. N-Has a history of legal or criminal problems
  9. G-Avoids discussing the future of the relationship
  10. N-Has a history of abusive behavior
  11. G-Shows signs of excessive mood swings or anger issues
  12. B-Gaslights or manipulates you
  13. I-Makes you feel guilty for spending time with friends or family
  14. O-Often lies or withholds important information
  15. G-Shows signs of possessiveness or obsession
  16. O-Makes major decisions without considering your input
  17. O-Tries to control what you wear or how you look
  18. N-Dismisses your feelings or concerns
  19. G-Is overly jealous or possessive
  20. B-Doesn't show interest in meeting your friends or family
  21. B-Doesn't take responsibility for their actions
  22. I-Pressures you into sexual activities you're uncomfortable with
  23. N-Isolates you from your support network
  24. O-Constantly criticizes you or puts you down
  25. G-Doesn't communicate openly or honestly