Has ahistory ofabusivebehaviorConstantlycriticizesyou or putsyou downOften lies orwithholdsimportantinformationIs overlyjealous orpossessiveIsolates youfrom yoursupportnetworkDemonstratesa lack ofempathyGaslights ormanipulatesyouTries tocontrol whatyou wear orhow you lookIs unreliableandfrequentlybreakspromisesHas asubstanceabuseproblemAvoidsdiscussingthe future oftherelationshipShows signs ofpossessivenessor obsessionHas a historyof cheatingin pastrelationshipsShows signsof excessivemood swingsor angerissuesExhibitscontrollingbehaviorDismissesyourfeelings orconcernsHas a historyof legal orcriminalproblemsDoesn't showinterest inmeeting yourfriends orfamilyDoesn't showinterest inmeeting yourfriends orfamilyPressures youinto sexualactivities you'reuncomfortablewithMakes youfeel guilty forspending timewith friends orfamilyDoesn't takeresponsibilityfor theiractionsMakes majordecisionswithoutconsideringyour inputDoesn'trespectyourboundariesDoesn'tcommunicateopenly orhonestlyHas ahistory ofabusivebehaviorConstantlycriticizesyou or putsyou downOften lies orwithholdsimportantinformationIs overlyjealous orpossessiveIsolates youfrom yoursupportnetworkDemonstratesa lack ofempathyGaslights ormanipulatesyouTries tocontrol whatyou wear orhow you lookIs unreliableandfrequentlybreakspromisesHas asubstanceabuseproblemAvoidsdiscussingthe future oftherelationshipShows signs ofpossessivenessor obsessionHas a historyof cheatingin pastrelationshipsShows signsof excessivemood swingsor angerissuesExhibitscontrollingbehaviorDismissesyourfeelings orconcernsHas a historyof legal orcriminalproblemsDoesn't showinterest inmeeting yourfriends orfamilyDoesn't showinterest inmeeting yourfriends orfamilyPressures youinto sexualactivities you'reuncomfortablewithMakes youfeel guilty forspending timewith friends orfamilyDoesn't takeresponsibilityfor theiractionsMakes majordecisionswithoutconsideringyour inputDoesn'trespectyourboundariesDoesn'tcommunicateopenly orhonestly

Red Flags Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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N
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O
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O
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G
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N
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B
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B
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O
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O
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I
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G
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G
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I
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G
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I
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N
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N
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B
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B
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I
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I
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B
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O
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B
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G
  1. N-Has a history of abusive behavior
  2. O-Constantly criticizes you or puts you down
  3. O-Often lies or withholds important information
  4. G-Is overly jealous or possessive
  5. N-Isolates you from your support network
  6. B-Demonstrates a lack of empathy
  7. B-Gaslights or manipulates you
  8. O-Tries to control what you wear or how you look
  9. O-Is unreliable and frequently breaks promises
  10. I-Has a substance abuse problem
  11. G-Avoids discussing the future of the relationship
  12. G-Shows signs of possessiveness or obsession
  13. I-Has a history of cheating in past relationships
  14. G-Shows signs of excessive mood swings or anger issues
  15. I-Exhibits controlling behavior
  16. N-Dismisses your feelings or concerns
  17. N-Has a history of legal or criminal problems
  18. B-Doesn't show interest in meeting your friends or family
  19. B-Doesn't show interest in meeting your friends or family
  20. I-Pressures you into sexual activities you're uncomfortable with
  21. I-Makes you feel guilty for spending time with friends or family
  22. B-Doesn't take responsibility for their actions
  23. O-Makes major decisions without considering your input
  24. B-Doesn't respect your boundaries
  25. G-Doesn't communicate openly or honestly