Avoidsdiscussingthe future oftherelationshipTries tocontrol whatyou wear orhow you lookDismissesyourfeelings orconcernsDoesn't showinterest inmeeting yourfriends orfamilyConstantlycriticizesyou or putsyou downShows signs ofpossessivenessor obsessionDoesn'tcommunicateopenly orhonestlyDoesn'trespectyourboundariesPressures youinto sexualactivities you'reuncomfortablewithMakes majordecisionswithoutconsideringyour inputHas asubstanceabuseproblemHas a historyof legal orcriminalproblemsExhibitscontrollingbehaviorDoesn't showinterest inmeeting yourfriends orfamilyIsolates youfrom yoursupportnetworkGaslights ormanipulatesyouHas ahistory ofabusivebehaviorHas a historyof cheatingin pastrelationshipsMakes youfeel guilty forspending timewith friends orfamilyDoesn't takeresponsibilityfor theiractionsShows signsof excessivemood swingsor angerissuesIs unreliableandfrequentlybreakspromisesOften lies orwithholdsimportantinformationIs overlyjealous orpossessiveDemonstratesa lack ofempathyAvoidsdiscussingthe future oftherelationshipTries tocontrol whatyou wear orhow you lookDismissesyourfeelings orconcernsDoesn't showinterest inmeeting yourfriends orfamilyConstantlycriticizesyou or putsyou downShows signs ofpossessivenessor obsessionDoesn'tcommunicateopenly orhonestlyDoesn'trespectyourboundariesPressures youinto sexualactivities you'reuncomfortablewithMakes majordecisionswithoutconsideringyour inputHas asubstanceabuseproblemHas a historyof legal orcriminalproblemsExhibitscontrollingbehaviorDoesn't showinterest inmeeting yourfriends orfamilyIsolates youfrom yoursupportnetworkGaslights ormanipulatesyouHas ahistory ofabusivebehaviorHas a historyof cheatingin pastrelationshipsMakes youfeel guilty forspending timewith friends orfamilyDoesn't takeresponsibilityfor theiractionsShows signsof excessivemood swingsor angerissuesIs unreliableandfrequentlybreakspromisesOften lies orwithholdsimportantinformationIs overlyjealous orpossessiveDemonstratesa lack ofempathy

Red Flags Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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G
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O
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N
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B
5
O
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G
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G
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B
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I
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O
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I
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N
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I
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B
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N
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B
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N
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I
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I
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B
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G
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O
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O
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G
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B
  1. G-Avoids discussing the future of the relationship
  2. O-Tries to control what you wear or how you look
  3. N-Dismisses your feelings or concerns
  4. B-Doesn't show interest in meeting your friends or family
  5. O-Constantly criticizes you or puts you down
  6. G-Shows signs of possessiveness or obsession
  7. G-Doesn't communicate openly or honestly
  8. B-Doesn't respect your boundaries
  9. I-Pressures you into sexual activities you're uncomfortable with
  10. O-Makes major decisions without considering your input
  11. I-Has a substance abuse problem
  12. N-Has a history of legal or criminal problems
  13. I-Exhibits controlling behavior
  14. B-Doesn't show interest in meeting your friends or family
  15. N-Isolates you from your support network
  16. B-Gaslights or manipulates you
  17. N-Has a history of abusive behavior
  18. I-Has a history of cheating in past relationships
  19. I-Makes you feel guilty for spending time with friends or family
  20. B-Doesn't take responsibility for their actions
  21. G-Shows signs of excessive mood swings or anger issues
  22. O-Is unreliable and frequently breaks promises
  23. O-Often lies or withholds important information
  24. G-Is overly jealous or possessive
  25. B-Demonstrates a lack of empathy