Makes youfeel guilty forspending timewith friends orfamilyDoesn't showinterest inmeeting yourfriends orfamilyHas a historyof legal orcriminalproblemsDemonstratesa lack ofempathyHas ahistory ofabusivebehaviorGaslights ormanipulatesyouIs overlyjealous orpossessiveTries tocontrol whatyou wear orhow you lookDoesn't takeresponsibilityfor theiractionsConstantlycriticizesyou or putsyou downShows signs ofpossessivenessor obsessionOften lies orwithholdsimportantinformationShows signsof excessivemood swingsor angerissuesIs unreliableandfrequentlybreakspromisesIsolates youfrom yoursupportnetworkAvoidsdiscussingthe future oftherelationshipMakes majordecisionswithoutconsideringyour inputDoesn'trespectyourboundariesExhibitscontrollingbehaviorDoesn't showinterest inmeeting yourfriends orfamilyPressures youinto sexualactivities you'reuncomfortablewithHas a historyof cheatingin pastrelationshipsDismissesyourfeelings orconcernsDoesn'tcommunicateopenly orhonestlyHas asubstanceabuseproblemMakes youfeel guilty forspending timewith friends orfamilyDoesn't showinterest inmeeting yourfriends orfamilyHas a historyof legal orcriminalproblemsDemonstratesa lack ofempathyHas ahistory ofabusivebehaviorGaslights ormanipulatesyouIs overlyjealous orpossessiveTries tocontrol whatyou wear orhow you lookDoesn't takeresponsibilityfor theiractionsConstantlycriticizesyou or putsyou downShows signs ofpossessivenessor obsessionOften lies orwithholdsimportantinformationShows signsof excessivemood swingsor angerissuesIs unreliableandfrequentlybreakspromisesIsolates youfrom yoursupportnetworkAvoidsdiscussingthe future oftherelationshipMakes majordecisionswithoutconsideringyour inputDoesn'trespectyourboundariesExhibitscontrollingbehaviorDoesn't showinterest inmeeting yourfriends orfamilyPressures youinto sexualactivities you'reuncomfortablewithHas a historyof cheatingin pastrelationshipsDismissesyourfeelings orconcernsDoesn'tcommunicateopenly orhonestlyHas asubstanceabuseproblem

Red Flags Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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I
2
B
3
N
4
B
5
N
6
B
7
G
8
O
9
B
10
O
11
G
12
O
13
G
14
O
15
N
16
G
17
O
18
B
19
I
20
B
21
I
22
I
23
N
24
G
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I
  1. I-Makes you feel guilty for spending time with friends or family
  2. B-Doesn't show interest in meeting your friends or family
  3. N-Has a history of legal or criminal problems
  4. B-Demonstrates a lack of empathy
  5. N-Has a history of abusive behavior
  6. B-Gaslights or manipulates you
  7. G-Is overly jealous or possessive
  8. O-Tries to control what you wear or how you look
  9. B-Doesn't take responsibility for their actions
  10. O-Constantly criticizes you or puts you down
  11. G-Shows signs of possessiveness or obsession
  12. O-Often lies or withholds important information
  13. G-Shows signs of excessive mood swings or anger issues
  14. O-Is unreliable and frequently breaks promises
  15. N-Isolates you from your support network
  16. G-Avoids discussing the future of the relationship
  17. O-Makes major decisions without considering your input
  18. B-Doesn't respect your boundaries
  19. I-Exhibits controlling behavior
  20. B-Doesn't show interest in meeting your friends or family
  21. I-Pressures you into sexual activities you're uncomfortable with
  22. I-Has a history of cheating in past relationships
  23. N-Dismisses your feelings or concerns
  24. G-Doesn't communicate openly or honestly
  25. I-Has a substance abuse problem