Beingpresent inthe momentwithsomeoneMaking anemotionalconnectionwith them"Tellmemore"Requires thespeaker tolead theconversationRequiresself-control"I'm sorryto hearthat""You seemto behaving atough time""What hasthis beenlike foryou?"PerspectiveTaking"At leastyou canbring yourgrade up"RecognizingemotionsExperiencingwhat theyexperiencePattingsomeone onthe shoulderat a funeralRequirespatienceRequirestrustworthiness"I'mhere foryou""I knowexactlyhow youfeel"Communication"Thatsoundsreallychallenging"Stayingout ofjudgementSocialproximity"I'msorrybut"SpatialproximityUnderstandingother's pain"I'm sorryfor yourloss"Feelingother'spain asyour ownOfferingadviceFeeling bad forsomeonebecause ofwhat happenedto themSending acard whensomeonediesTelling astory aboutwhen youlost your cattoo"Requiresyou to payattention tothe otherpersonPuttingyourself intheirshoesRequirestimeThe otherpersonmust seemin needRequiresemotionalintelligenceDroppingyour tone ofvoice whenyou speak tothemValidatingsomeone'sfeelingsGoal is toprovide wordsofencouragement"Atleast"Requiresyou to clarify,summarize,reflect, andparaphraseRequiresself-awarenessBeingpresent inthe momentwithsomeoneMaking anemotionalconnectionwith them"Tellmemore"Requires thespeaker tolead theconversationRequiresself-control"I'm sorryto hearthat""You seemto behaving atough time""What hasthis beenlike foryou?"PerspectiveTaking"At leastyou canbring yourgrade up"RecognizingemotionsExperiencingwhat theyexperiencePattingsomeone onthe shoulderat a funeralRequirespatienceRequirestrustworthiness"I'mhere foryou""I knowexactlyhow youfeel"Communication"Thatsoundsreallychallenging"Stayingout ofjudgementSocialproximity"I'msorrybut"SpatialproximityUnderstandingother's pain"I'm sorryfor yourloss"Feelingother'spain asyour ownOfferingadviceFeeling bad forsomeonebecause ofwhat happenedto themSending acard whensomeonediesTelling astory aboutwhen youlost your cattoo"Requiresyou to payattention tothe otherpersonPuttingyourself intheirshoesRequirestimeThe otherpersonmust seemin needRequiresemotionalintelligenceDroppingyour tone ofvoice whenyou speak tothemValidatingsomeone'sfeelingsGoal is toprovide wordsofencouragement"Atleast"Requiresyou to clarify,summarize,reflect, andparaphraseRequiresself-awareness

Empathy - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. N-Being present in the moment with someone
  2. O-Making an emotional connection with them
  3. N-"Tell me more"
  4. O-Requires the speaker to lead the conversation
  5. O-Requires self-control
  6. G-"I'm sorry to hear that"
  7. N-"You seem to be having a tough time"
  8. N-"What has this been like for you?"
  9. B-Perspective Taking
  10. G-"At least you can bring your grade up"
  11. B-Recognizing emotions
  12. B-Experiencing what they experience
  13. G-Patting someone on the shoulder at a funeral
  14. O-Requires patience
  15. B-Requires trustworthiness
  16. N-"I'm here for you"
  17. G-"I know exactly how you feel"
  18. B-Communication
  19. N-"That sounds really challenging"
  20. B-Staying out of judgement
  21. I-Social proximity
  22. I-"I'm sorry but"
  23. I-Spatial proximity
  24. G-Understanding other's pain
  25. G-"I'm sorry for your loss"
  26. N-Feeling other's pain as your own
  27. G-Offering advice
  28. I-Feeling bad for someone because of what happened to them
  29. G-Sending a card when someone dies
  30. G-Telling a story about when you lost your cat too"
  31. I-Requires you to pay attention to the other person
  32. O-Putting yourself in their shoes
  33. O-Requires time
  34. I-The other person must seem in need
  35. B-Requires emotional intelligence
  36. G-Dropping your tone of voice when you speak to them
  37. N-Validating someone's feelings
  38. O-Goal is to provide words of encouragement
  39. I-"At least"
  40. O-Requires you to clarify, summarize, reflect, and paraphrase
  41. O-Requires self-awareness