Making anemotionalconnectionwith themRequirestrustworthinessRequirespatienceRequiresemotionalintelligence"I knowexactlyhow youfeel""Tellmemore"Pattingsomeone onthe shoulderat a funeralPerspectiveTakingRecognizingemotions"I'msorrybut""I'm sorryfor yourloss"Requiresyou to payattention tothe otherperson"You seemto behaving atough time"Puttingyourself intheirshoesSocialproximityDroppingyour tone ofvoice whenyou speak tothemBeingpresent inthe momentwithsomeoneThe otherpersonmust seemin needValidatingsomeone'sfeelingsUnderstandingother's painRequires thespeaker tolead theconversationRequirestimeTelling astory aboutwhen youlost your cattoo"Stayingout ofjudgement"I'm sorryto hearthat""I'mhere foryou"Feeling bad forsomeonebecause ofwhat happenedto them"Atleast"Goal is toprovide wordsofencouragementCommunicationRequiresyou to clarify,summarize,reflect, andparaphrase"At leastyou canbring yourgrade up"Requiresself-awarenessSpatialproximity"Thatsoundsreallychallenging"Feelingother'spain asyour ownOfferingadviceExperiencingwhat theyexperience"What hasthis beenlike foryou?"Requiresself-controlSending acard whensomeonediesMaking anemotionalconnectionwith themRequirestrustworthinessRequirespatienceRequiresemotionalintelligence"I knowexactlyhow youfeel""Tellmemore"Pattingsomeone onthe shoulderat a funeralPerspectiveTakingRecognizingemotions"I'msorrybut""I'm sorryfor yourloss"Requiresyou to payattention tothe otherperson"You seemto behaving atough time"Puttingyourself intheirshoesSocialproximityDroppingyour tone ofvoice whenyou speak tothemBeingpresent inthe momentwithsomeoneThe otherpersonmust seemin needValidatingsomeone'sfeelingsUnderstandingother's painRequires thespeaker tolead theconversationRequirestimeTelling astory aboutwhen youlost your cattoo"Stayingout ofjudgement"I'm sorryto hearthat""I'mhere foryou"Feeling bad forsomeonebecause ofwhat happenedto them"Atleast"Goal is toprovide wordsofencouragementCommunicationRequiresyou to clarify,summarize,reflect, andparaphrase"At leastyou canbring yourgrade up"Requiresself-awarenessSpatialproximity"Thatsoundsreallychallenging"Feelingother'spain asyour ownOfferingadviceExperiencingwhat theyexperience"What hasthis beenlike foryou?"Requiresself-controlSending acard whensomeonedies

Empathy - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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O
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G
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  1. O-Making an emotional connection with them
  2. B-Requires trustworthiness
  3. O-Requires patience
  4. B-Requires emotional intelligence
  5. G-"I know exactly how you feel"
  6. N-"Tell me more"
  7. G-Patting someone on the shoulder at a funeral
  8. B-Perspective Taking
  9. B-Recognizing emotions
  10. I-"I'm sorry but"
  11. G-"I'm sorry for your loss"
  12. I-Requires you to pay attention to the other person
  13. N-"You seem to be having a tough time"
  14. O-Putting yourself in their shoes
  15. I-Social proximity
  16. G-Dropping your tone of voice when you speak to them
  17. N-Being present in the moment with someone
  18. I-The other person must seem in need
  19. N-Validating someone's feelings
  20. G-Understanding other's pain
  21. O-Requires the speaker to lead the conversation
  22. O-Requires time
  23. G-Telling a story about when you lost your cat too"
  24. B-Staying out of judgement
  25. G-"I'm sorry to hear that"
  26. N-"I'm here for you"
  27. I-Feeling bad for someone because of what happened to them
  28. I-"At least"
  29. O-Goal is to provide words of encouragement
  30. B-Communication
  31. O-Requires you to clarify, summarize, reflect, and paraphrase
  32. G-"At least you can bring your grade up"
  33. O-Requires self-awareness
  34. I-Spatial proximity
  35. N-"That sounds really challenging"
  36. N-Feeling other's pain as your own
  37. G-Offering advice
  38. B-Experiencing what they experience
  39. N-"What has this been like for you?"
  40. O-Requires self-control
  41. G-Sending a card when someone dies