RequirestrustworthinessRequiresyou to clarify,summarize,reflect, andparaphraseRequirespatienceCommunicationRequirestimeSocialproximityTelling astory aboutwhen youlost your cattoo"Validatingsomeone'sfeelingsRequires thespeaker tolead theconversationRequiresyou to payattention tothe otherpersonOfferingadviceMaking anemotionalconnectionwith them"What hasthis beenlike foryou?""I'msorrybut"The otherpersonmust seemin needFeelingother'spain asyour ownPuttingyourself intheirshoesRequiresself-awareness"Tellmemore"Requiresself-control"I'm sorryto hearthat"Pattingsomeone onthe shoulderat a funeralGoal is toprovide wordsofencouragementRequiresemotionalintelligence"Atleast""At leastyou canbring yourgrade up""I knowexactlyhow youfeel"Droppingyour tone ofvoice whenyou speak tothem"I'm sorryfor yourloss"PerspectiveTakingFeeling bad forsomeonebecause ofwhat happenedto them"Thatsoundsreallychallenging"Understandingother's painRecognizingemotions"You seemto behaving atough time"Sending acard whensomeonediesBeingpresent inthe momentwithsomeoneStayingout ofjudgement"I'mhere foryou"SpatialproximityExperiencingwhat theyexperienceRequirestrustworthinessRequiresyou to clarify,summarize,reflect, andparaphraseRequirespatienceCommunicationRequirestimeSocialproximityTelling astory aboutwhen youlost your cattoo"Validatingsomeone'sfeelingsRequires thespeaker tolead theconversationRequiresyou to payattention tothe otherpersonOfferingadviceMaking anemotionalconnectionwith them"What hasthis beenlike foryou?""I'msorrybut"The otherpersonmust seemin needFeelingother'spain asyour ownPuttingyourself intheirshoesRequiresself-awareness"Tellmemore"Requiresself-control"I'm sorryto hearthat"Pattingsomeone onthe shoulderat a funeralGoal is toprovide wordsofencouragementRequiresemotionalintelligence"Atleast""At leastyou canbring yourgrade up""I knowexactlyhow youfeel"Droppingyour tone ofvoice whenyou speak tothem"I'm sorryfor yourloss"PerspectiveTakingFeeling bad forsomeonebecause ofwhat happenedto them"Thatsoundsreallychallenging"Understandingother's painRecognizingemotions"You seemto behaving atough time"Sending acard whensomeonediesBeingpresent inthe momentwithsomeoneStayingout ofjudgement"I'mhere foryou"SpatialproximityExperiencingwhat theyexperience

Empathy - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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B
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O
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O
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B
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O
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I
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G
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N
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O
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I
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G
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O
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N
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I
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I
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N
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O
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O
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N
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O
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G
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G
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O
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B
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I
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G
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G
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G
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G
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B
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I
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N
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G
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B
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N
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G
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N
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B
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N
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I
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B
  1. B-Requires trustworthiness
  2. O-Requires you to clarify, summarize, reflect, and paraphrase
  3. O-Requires patience
  4. B-Communication
  5. O-Requires time
  6. I-Social proximity
  7. G-Telling a story about when you lost your cat too"
  8. N-Validating someone's feelings
  9. O-Requires the speaker to lead the conversation
  10. I-Requires you to pay attention to the other person
  11. G-Offering advice
  12. O-Making an emotional connection with them
  13. N-"What has this been like for you?"
  14. I-"I'm sorry but"
  15. I-The other person must seem in need
  16. N-Feeling other's pain as your own
  17. O-Putting yourself in their shoes
  18. O-Requires self-awareness
  19. N-"Tell me more"
  20. O-Requires self-control
  21. G-"I'm sorry to hear that"
  22. G-Patting someone on the shoulder at a funeral
  23. O-Goal is to provide words of encouragement
  24. B-Requires emotional intelligence
  25. I-"At least"
  26. G-"At least you can bring your grade up"
  27. G-"I know exactly how you feel"
  28. G-Dropping your tone of voice when you speak to them
  29. G-"I'm sorry for your loss"
  30. B-Perspective Taking
  31. I-Feeling bad for someone because of what happened to them
  32. N-"That sounds really challenging"
  33. G-Understanding other's pain
  34. B-Recognizing emotions
  35. N-"You seem to be having a tough time"
  36. G-Sending a card when someone dies
  37. N-Being present in the moment with someone
  38. B-Staying out of judgement
  39. N-"I'm here for you"
  40. I-Spatial proximity
  41. B-Experiencing what they experience