RequiresemotionalintelligencePerspectiveTakingGoal is toprovide wordsofencouragement"Thatsoundsreallychallenging""What hasthis beenlike foryou?"Telling astory aboutwhen youlost your cattoo""I'm sorryfor yourloss"Requiresyou to clarify,summarize,reflect, andparaphraseMaking anemotionalconnectionwith themRecognizingemotionsExperiencingwhat theyexperienceRequirestimePattingsomeone onthe shoulderat a funeralRequires thespeaker tolead theconversation"At leastyou canbring yourgrade up"Requiresself-controlSocialproximityFeeling bad forsomeonebecause ofwhat happenedto themOfferingadviceSpatialproximity"You seemto behaving atough time"Requirespatience"I'msorrybut"CommunicationUnderstandingother's painSending acard whensomeonedies"Atleast"Requiresyou to payattention tothe otherperson"I'm sorryto hearthat"Droppingyour tone ofvoice whenyou speak tothemRequirestrustworthiness"Tellmemore"Validatingsomeone'sfeelingsFeelingother'spain asyour ownThe otherpersonmust seemin needBeingpresent inthe momentwithsomeoneStayingout ofjudgement"I knowexactlyhow youfeel"Requiresself-awareness"I'mhere foryou"Puttingyourself intheirshoesRequiresemotionalintelligencePerspectiveTakingGoal is toprovide wordsofencouragement"Thatsoundsreallychallenging""What hasthis beenlike foryou?"Telling astory aboutwhen youlost your cattoo""I'm sorryfor yourloss"Requiresyou to clarify,summarize,reflect, andparaphraseMaking anemotionalconnectionwith themRecognizingemotionsExperiencingwhat theyexperienceRequirestimePattingsomeone onthe shoulderat a funeralRequires thespeaker tolead theconversation"At leastyou canbring yourgrade up"Requiresself-controlSocialproximityFeeling bad forsomeonebecause ofwhat happenedto themOfferingadviceSpatialproximity"You seemto behaving atough time"Requirespatience"I'msorrybut"CommunicationUnderstandingother's painSending acard whensomeonedies"Atleast"Requiresyou to payattention tothe otherperson"I'm sorryto hearthat"Droppingyour tone ofvoice whenyou speak tothemRequirestrustworthiness"Tellmemore"Validatingsomeone'sfeelingsFeelingother'spain asyour ownThe otherpersonmust seemin needBeingpresent inthe momentwithsomeoneStayingout ofjudgement"I knowexactlyhow youfeel"Requiresself-awareness"I'mhere foryou"Puttingyourself intheirshoes

Empathy - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. B-Requires emotional intelligence
  2. B-Perspective Taking
  3. O-Goal is to provide words of encouragement
  4. N-"That sounds really challenging"
  5. N-"What has this been like for you?"
  6. G-Telling a story about when you lost your cat too"
  7. G-"I'm sorry for your loss"
  8. O-Requires you to clarify, summarize, reflect, and paraphrase
  9. O-Making an emotional connection with them
  10. B-Recognizing emotions
  11. B-Experiencing what they experience
  12. O-Requires time
  13. G-Patting someone on the shoulder at a funeral
  14. O-Requires the speaker to lead the conversation
  15. G-"At least you can bring your grade up"
  16. O-Requires self-control
  17. I-Social proximity
  18. I-Feeling bad for someone because of what happened to them
  19. G-Offering advice
  20. I-Spatial proximity
  21. N-"You seem to be having a tough time"
  22. O-Requires patience
  23. I-"I'm sorry but"
  24. B-Communication
  25. G-Understanding other's pain
  26. G-Sending a card when someone dies
  27. I-"At least"
  28. I-Requires you to pay attention to the other person
  29. G-"I'm sorry to hear that"
  30. G-Dropping your tone of voice when you speak to them
  31. B-Requires trustworthiness
  32. N-"Tell me more"
  33. N-Validating someone's feelings
  34. N-Feeling other's pain as your own
  35. I-The other person must seem in need
  36. N-Being present in the moment with someone
  37. B-Staying out of judgement
  38. G-"I know exactly how you feel"
  39. O-Requires self-awareness
  40. N-"I'm here for you"
  41. O-Putting yourself in their shoes