"I'm sorryfor yourloss"RequirestrustworthinessGoal is toprovide wordsofencouragementRecognizingemotionsSending acard whensomeonedies"You seemto behaving atough time"Requiresyou to clarify,summarize,reflect, andparaphraseMaking anemotionalconnectionwith themCommunicationRequirespatienceValidatingsomeone'sfeelings"Atleast"SocialproximityStayingout ofjudgement"At leastyou canbring yourgrade up""Thatsoundsreallychallenging"Puttingyourself intheirshoesFeelingother'spain asyour own"I'msorrybut"Offeringadvice"I knowexactlyhow youfeel"RequirestimeRequires thespeaker tolead theconversationTelling astory aboutwhen youlost your cattoo"Experiencingwhat theyexperience"I'mhere foryou"The otherpersonmust seemin needRequiresself-awarenessDroppingyour tone ofvoice whenyou speak tothemSpatialproximityPattingsomeone onthe shoulderat a funeralRequiresyou to payattention tothe otherperson"What hasthis beenlike foryou?"Understandingother's painRequiresself-control"Tellmemore"Requiresemotionalintelligence"I'm sorryto hearthat"Beingpresent inthe momentwithsomeonePerspectiveTakingFeeling bad forsomeonebecause ofwhat happenedto them"I'm sorryfor yourloss"RequirestrustworthinessGoal is toprovide wordsofencouragementRecognizingemotionsSending acard whensomeonedies"You seemto behaving atough time"Requiresyou to clarify,summarize,reflect, andparaphraseMaking anemotionalconnectionwith themCommunicationRequirespatienceValidatingsomeone'sfeelings"Atleast"SocialproximityStayingout ofjudgement"At leastyou canbring yourgrade up""Thatsoundsreallychallenging"Puttingyourself intheirshoesFeelingother'spain asyour own"I'msorrybut"Offeringadvice"I knowexactlyhow youfeel"RequirestimeRequires thespeaker tolead theconversationTelling astory aboutwhen youlost your cattoo"Experiencingwhat theyexperience"I'mhere foryou"The otherpersonmust seemin needRequiresself-awarenessDroppingyour tone ofvoice whenyou speak tothemSpatialproximityPattingsomeone onthe shoulderat a funeralRequiresyou to payattention tothe otherperson"What hasthis beenlike foryou?"Understandingother's painRequiresself-control"Tellmemore"Requiresemotionalintelligence"I'm sorryto hearthat"Beingpresent inthe momentwithsomeonePerspectiveTakingFeeling bad forsomeonebecause ofwhat happenedto them

Empathy - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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I
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I
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G
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O
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I
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G
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O
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O
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B
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I
  1. G-"I'm sorry for your loss"
  2. B-Requires trustworthiness
  3. O-Goal is to provide words of encouragement
  4. B-Recognizing emotions
  5. G-Sending a card when someone dies
  6. N-"You seem to be having a tough time"
  7. O-Requires you to clarify, summarize, reflect, and paraphrase
  8. O-Making an emotional connection with them
  9. B-Communication
  10. O-Requires patience
  11. N-Validating someone's feelings
  12. I-"At least"
  13. I-Social proximity
  14. B-Staying out of judgement
  15. G-"At least you can bring your grade up"
  16. N-"That sounds really challenging"
  17. O-Putting yourself in their shoes
  18. N-Feeling other's pain as your own
  19. I-"I'm sorry but"
  20. G-Offering advice
  21. G-"I know exactly how you feel"
  22. O-Requires time
  23. O-Requires the speaker to lead the conversation
  24. G-Telling a story about when you lost your cat too"
  25. B-Experiencing what they experience
  26. N-"I'm here for you"
  27. I-The other person must seem in need
  28. O-Requires self-awareness
  29. G-Dropping your tone of voice when you speak to them
  30. I-Spatial proximity
  31. G-Patting someone on the shoulder at a funeral
  32. I-Requires you to pay attention to the other person
  33. N-"What has this been like for you?"
  34. G-Understanding other's pain
  35. O-Requires self-control
  36. N-"Tell me more"
  37. B-Requires emotional intelligence
  38. G-"I'm sorry to hear that"
  39. N-Being present in the moment with someone
  40. B-Perspective Taking
  41. I-Feeling bad for someone because of what happened to them