OfferingadviceGoal is toprovide wordsofencouragement"I'm sorryto hearthat"RecognizingemotionsRequiresself-controlValidatingsomeone'sfeelingsFeeling bad forsomeonebecause ofwhat happenedto themExperiencingwhat theyexperienceRequirespatience"What hasthis beenlike foryou?"Feelingother'spain asyour own"I knowexactlyhow youfeel"PerspectiveTakingCommunicationRequirestimeRequiresyou to clarify,summarize,reflect, andparaphrase"I'msorrybut"The otherpersonmust seemin needStayingout ofjudgementRequires thespeaker tolead theconversationSending acard whensomeonediesPattingsomeone onthe shoulderat a funeralTelling astory aboutwhen youlost your cattoo""You seemto behaving atough time"Making anemotionalconnectionwith themSocialproximityRequiresyou to payattention tothe otherpersonPuttingyourself intheirshoes"I'mhere foryou""Thatsoundsreallychallenging""I'm sorryfor yourloss""Tellmemore"Understandingother's painRequiresemotionalintelligenceDroppingyour tone ofvoice whenyou speak tothem"Atleast"Requiresself-awarenessRequirestrustworthinessBeingpresent inthe momentwithsomeone"At leastyou canbring yourgrade up"SpatialproximityOfferingadviceGoal is toprovide wordsofencouragement"I'm sorryto hearthat"RecognizingemotionsRequiresself-controlValidatingsomeone'sfeelingsFeeling bad forsomeonebecause ofwhat happenedto themExperiencingwhat theyexperienceRequirespatience"What hasthis beenlike foryou?"Feelingother'spain asyour own"I knowexactlyhow youfeel"PerspectiveTakingCommunicationRequirestimeRequiresyou to clarify,summarize,reflect, andparaphrase"I'msorrybut"The otherpersonmust seemin needStayingout ofjudgementRequires thespeaker tolead theconversationSending acard whensomeonediesPattingsomeone onthe shoulderat a funeralTelling astory aboutwhen youlost your cattoo""You seemto behaving atough time"Making anemotionalconnectionwith themSocialproximityRequiresyou to payattention tothe otherpersonPuttingyourself intheirshoes"I'mhere foryou""Thatsoundsreallychallenging""I'm sorryfor yourloss""Tellmemore"Understandingother's painRequiresemotionalintelligenceDroppingyour tone ofvoice whenyou speak tothem"Atleast"Requiresself-awarenessRequirestrustworthinessBeingpresent inthe momentwithsomeone"At leastyou canbring yourgrade up"Spatialproximity

Empathy - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. G-Offering advice
  2. O-Goal is to provide words of encouragement
  3. G-"I'm sorry to hear that"
  4. B-Recognizing emotions
  5. O-Requires self-control
  6. N-Validating someone's feelings
  7. I-Feeling bad for someone because of what happened to them
  8. B-Experiencing what they experience
  9. O-Requires patience
  10. N-"What has this been like for you?"
  11. N-Feeling other's pain as your own
  12. G-"I know exactly how you feel"
  13. B-Perspective Taking
  14. B-Communication
  15. O-Requires time
  16. O-Requires you to clarify, summarize, reflect, and paraphrase
  17. I-"I'm sorry but"
  18. I-The other person must seem in need
  19. B-Staying out of judgement
  20. O-Requires the speaker to lead the conversation
  21. G-Sending a card when someone dies
  22. G-Patting someone on the shoulder at a funeral
  23. G-Telling a story about when you lost your cat too"
  24. N-"You seem to be having a tough time"
  25. O-Making an emotional connection with them
  26. I-Social proximity
  27. I-Requires you to pay attention to the other person
  28. O-Putting yourself in their shoes
  29. N-"I'm here for you"
  30. N-"That sounds really challenging"
  31. G-"I'm sorry for your loss"
  32. N-"Tell me more"
  33. G-Understanding other's pain
  34. B-Requires emotional intelligence
  35. G-Dropping your tone of voice when you speak to them
  36. I-"At least"
  37. O-Requires self-awareness
  38. B-Requires trustworthiness
  39. N-Being present in the moment with someone
  40. G-"At least you can bring your grade up"
  41. I-Spatial proximity