"Tellmemore"RequirestrustworthinessSocialproximity"What hasthis beenlike foryou?"Goal is toprovide wordsofencouragementBeingpresent inthe momentwithsomeone"I knowexactlyhow youfeel""Atleast"Validatingsomeone'sfeelingsRequiresyou to clarify,summarize,reflect, andparaphraseUnderstandingother's painOfferingadviceCommunication"I'm sorryto hearthat"Requiresself-awarenessRecognizingemotionsPuttingyourself intheirshoes"Thatsoundsreallychallenging"Requiresemotionalintelligence"I'm sorryfor yourloss""You seemto behaving atough time"RequirespatienceRequiresyou to payattention tothe otherpersonRequirestimePattingsomeone onthe shoulderat a funeralMaking anemotionalconnectionwith themSpatialproximityFeelingother'spain asyour ownThe otherpersonmust seemin needSending acard whensomeonedies"I'mhere foryou"Requires thespeaker tolead theconversationExperiencingwhat theyexperience"I'msorrybut"Stayingout ofjudgementRequiresself-controlFeeling bad forsomeonebecause ofwhat happenedto themTelling astory aboutwhen youlost your cattoo""At leastyou canbring yourgrade up"Droppingyour tone ofvoice whenyou speak tothemPerspectiveTaking"Tellmemore"RequirestrustworthinessSocialproximity"What hasthis beenlike foryou?"Goal is toprovide wordsofencouragementBeingpresent inthe momentwithsomeone"I knowexactlyhow youfeel""Atleast"Validatingsomeone'sfeelingsRequiresyou to clarify,summarize,reflect, andparaphraseUnderstandingother's painOfferingadviceCommunication"I'm sorryto hearthat"Requiresself-awarenessRecognizingemotionsPuttingyourself intheirshoes"Thatsoundsreallychallenging"Requiresemotionalintelligence"I'm sorryfor yourloss""You seemto behaving atough time"RequirespatienceRequiresyou to payattention tothe otherpersonRequirestimePattingsomeone onthe shoulderat a funeralMaking anemotionalconnectionwith themSpatialproximityFeelingother'spain asyour ownThe otherpersonmust seemin needSending acard whensomeonedies"I'mhere foryou"Requires thespeaker tolead theconversationExperiencingwhat theyexperience"I'msorrybut"Stayingout ofjudgementRequiresself-controlFeeling bad forsomeonebecause ofwhat happenedto themTelling astory aboutwhen youlost your cattoo""At leastyou canbring yourgrade up"Droppingyour tone ofvoice whenyou speak tothemPerspectiveTaking

Empathy - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. N-"Tell me more"
  2. B-Requires trustworthiness
  3. I-Social proximity
  4. N-"What has this been like for you?"
  5. O-Goal is to provide words of encouragement
  6. N-Being present in the moment with someone
  7. G-"I know exactly how you feel"
  8. I-"At least"
  9. N-Validating someone's feelings
  10. O-Requires you to clarify, summarize, reflect, and paraphrase
  11. G-Understanding other's pain
  12. G-Offering advice
  13. B-Communication
  14. G-"I'm sorry to hear that"
  15. O-Requires self-awareness
  16. B-Recognizing emotions
  17. O-Putting yourself in their shoes
  18. N-"That sounds really challenging"
  19. B-Requires emotional intelligence
  20. G-"I'm sorry for your loss"
  21. N-"You seem to be having a tough time"
  22. O-Requires patience
  23. I-Requires you to pay attention to the other person
  24. O-Requires time
  25. G-Patting someone on the shoulder at a funeral
  26. O-Making an emotional connection with them
  27. I-Spatial proximity
  28. N-Feeling other's pain as your own
  29. I-The other person must seem in need
  30. G-Sending a card when someone dies
  31. N-"I'm here for you"
  32. O-Requires the speaker to lead the conversation
  33. B-Experiencing what they experience
  34. I-"I'm sorry but"
  35. B-Staying out of judgement
  36. O-Requires self-control
  37. I-Feeling bad for someone because of what happened to them
  38. G-Telling a story about when you lost your cat too"
  39. G-"At least you can bring your grade up"
  40. G-Dropping your tone of voice when you speak to them
  41. B-Perspective Taking