SocialproximityPerspectiveTaking"You seemto behaving atough time"Stayingout ofjudgementValidatingsomeone'sfeelingsOfferingadviceSending acard whensomeonediesDroppingyour tone ofvoice whenyou speak tothem"At leastyou canbring yourgrade up""I'msorrybut""I'm sorryfor yourloss"RequirespatienceRequirestimeBeingpresent inthe momentwithsomeoneExperiencingwhat theyexperience"Thatsoundsreallychallenging"Requires thespeaker tolead theconversationFeeling bad forsomeonebecause ofwhat happenedto themPuttingyourself intheirshoesGoal is toprovide wordsofencouragementRequiresself-awareness"Atleast"Understandingother's pain"Tellmemore"Telling astory aboutwhen youlost your cattoo""What hasthis beenlike foryou?"Making anemotionalconnectionwith themCommunicationRequiresyou to payattention tothe otherperson"I'm sorryto hearthat"The otherpersonmust seemin needSpatialproximityFeelingother'spain asyour own"I'mhere foryou"RequiresemotionalintelligenceRequiresself-control"I knowexactlyhow youfeel"RequirestrustworthinessRecognizingemotionsRequiresyou to clarify,summarize,reflect, andparaphrasePattingsomeone onthe shoulderat a funeralSocialproximityPerspectiveTaking"You seemto behaving atough time"Stayingout ofjudgementValidatingsomeone'sfeelingsOfferingadviceSending acard whensomeonediesDroppingyour tone ofvoice whenyou speak tothem"At leastyou canbring yourgrade up""I'msorrybut""I'm sorryfor yourloss"RequirespatienceRequirestimeBeingpresent inthe momentwithsomeoneExperiencingwhat theyexperience"Thatsoundsreallychallenging"Requires thespeaker tolead theconversationFeeling bad forsomeonebecause ofwhat happenedto themPuttingyourself intheirshoesGoal is toprovide wordsofencouragementRequiresself-awareness"Atleast"Understandingother's pain"Tellmemore"Telling astory aboutwhen youlost your cattoo""What hasthis beenlike foryou?"Making anemotionalconnectionwith themCommunicationRequiresyou to payattention tothe otherperson"I'm sorryto hearthat"The otherpersonmust seemin needSpatialproximityFeelingother'spain asyour own"I'mhere foryou"RequiresemotionalintelligenceRequiresself-control"I knowexactlyhow youfeel"RequirestrustworthinessRecognizingemotionsRequiresyou to clarify,summarize,reflect, andparaphrasePattingsomeone onthe shoulderat a funeral

Empathy - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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O
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O
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G
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  1. I-Social proximity
  2. B-Perspective Taking
  3. N-"You seem to be having a tough time"
  4. B-Staying out of judgement
  5. N-Validating someone's feelings
  6. G-Offering advice
  7. G-Sending a card when someone dies
  8. G-Dropping your tone of voice when you speak to them
  9. G-"At least you can bring your grade up"
  10. I-"I'm sorry but"
  11. G-"I'm sorry for your loss"
  12. O-Requires patience
  13. O-Requires time
  14. N-Being present in the moment with someone
  15. B-Experiencing what they experience
  16. N-"That sounds really challenging"
  17. O-Requires the speaker to lead the conversation
  18. I-Feeling bad for someone because of what happened to them
  19. O-Putting yourself in their shoes
  20. O-Goal is to provide words of encouragement
  21. O-Requires self-awareness
  22. I-"At least"
  23. G-Understanding other's pain
  24. N-"Tell me more"
  25. G-Telling a story about when you lost your cat too"
  26. N-"What has this been like for you?"
  27. O-Making an emotional connection with them
  28. B-Communication
  29. I-Requires you to pay attention to the other person
  30. G-"I'm sorry to hear that"
  31. I-The other person must seem in need
  32. I-Spatial proximity
  33. N-Feeling other's pain as your own
  34. N-"I'm here for you"
  35. B-Requires emotional intelligence
  36. O-Requires self-control
  37. G-"I know exactly how you feel"
  38. B-Requires trustworthiness
  39. B-Recognizing emotions
  40. O-Requires you to clarify, summarize, reflect, and paraphrase
  41. G-Patting someone on the shoulder at a funeral