Requires thespeaker tolead theconversationStayingout ofjudgement"I'msorrybut"Validatingsomeone'sfeelings"At leastyou canbring yourgrade up"SpatialproximityUnderstandingother's painRequiresself-controlExperiencingwhat theyexperienceOfferingadvicePerspectiveTakingPuttingyourself intheirshoesRequiresemotionalintelligenceGoal is toprovide wordsofencouragementRequirespatienceRequiresyou to clarify,summarize,reflect, andparaphrase"Tellmemore"The otherpersonmust seemin need"What hasthis beenlike foryou?"Feeling bad forsomeonebecause ofwhat happenedto themRequirestimeCommunicationTelling astory aboutwhen youlost your cattoo"Sending acard whensomeonediesMaking anemotionalconnectionwith them"I'm sorryfor yourloss""I'm sorryto hearthat""I'mhere foryou"Pattingsomeone onthe shoulderat a funeralBeingpresent inthe momentwithsomeoneRequiresself-awarenessRecognizingemotionsRequirestrustworthiness"Atleast""You seemto behaving atough time""I knowexactlyhow youfeel"Droppingyour tone ofvoice whenyou speak tothem"Thatsoundsreallychallenging"Feelingother'spain asyour ownSocialproximityRequiresyou to payattention tothe otherpersonRequires thespeaker tolead theconversationStayingout ofjudgement"I'msorrybut"Validatingsomeone'sfeelings"At leastyou canbring yourgrade up"SpatialproximityUnderstandingother's painRequiresself-controlExperiencingwhat theyexperienceOfferingadvicePerspectiveTakingPuttingyourself intheirshoesRequiresemotionalintelligenceGoal is toprovide wordsofencouragementRequirespatienceRequiresyou to clarify,summarize,reflect, andparaphrase"Tellmemore"The otherpersonmust seemin need"What hasthis beenlike foryou?"Feeling bad forsomeonebecause ofwhat happenedto themRequirestimeCommunicationTelling astory aboutwhen youlost your cattoo"Sending acard whensomeonediesMaking anemotionalconnectionwith them"I'm sorryfor yourloss""I'm sorryto hearthat""I'mhere foryou"Pattingsomeone onthe shoulderat a funeralBeingpresent inthe momentwithsomeoneRequiresself-awarenessRecognizingemotionsRequirestrustworthiness"Atleast""You seemto behaving atough time""I knowexactlyhow youfeel"Droppingyour tone ofvoice whenyou speak tothem"Thatsoundsreallychallenging"Feelingother'spain asyour ownSocialproximityRequiresyou to payattention tothe otherperson

Empathy - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. O-Requires the speaker to lead the conversation
  2. B-Staying out of judgement
  3. I-"I'm sorry but"
  4. N-Validating someone's feelings
  5. G-"At least you can bring your grade up"
  6. I-Spatial proximity
  7. G-Understanding other's pain
  8. O-Requires self-control
  9. B-Experiencing what they experience
  10. G-Offering advice
  11. B-Perspective Taking
  12. O-Putting yourself in their shoes
  13. B-Requires emotional intelligence
  14. O-Goal is to provide words of encouragement
  15. O-Requires patience
  16. O-Requires you to clarify, summarize, reflect, and paraphrase
  17. N-"Tell me more"
  18. I-The other person must seem in need
  19. N-"What has this been like for you?"
  20. I-Feeling bad for someone because of what happened to them
  21. O-Requires time
  22. B-Communication
  23. G-Telling a story about when you lost your cat too"
  24. G-Sending a card when someone dies
  25. O-Making an emotional connection with them
  26. G-"I'm sorry for your loss"
  27. G-"I'm sorry to hear that"
  28. N-"I'm here for you"
  29. G-Patting someone on the shoulder at a funeral
  30. N-Being present in the moment with someone
  31. O-Requires self-awareness
  32. B-Recognizing emotions
  33. B-Requires trustworthiness
  34. I-"At least"
  35. N-"You seem to be having a tough time"
  36. G-"I know exactly how you feel"
  37. G-Dropping your tone of voice when you speak to them
  38. N-"That sounds really challenging"
  39. N-Feeling other's pain as your own
  40. I-Social proximity
  41. I-Requires you to pay attention to the other person