Validatingsomeone'sfeelings"Atleast"PerspectiveTakingSending acard whensomeonediesRequiresemotionalintelligence"What hasthis beenlike foryou?"Telling astory aboutwhen youlost your cattoo"Feelingother'spain asyour ownExperiencingwhat theyexperiencePuttingyourself intheirshoesSocialproximityGoal is toprovide wordsofencouragementRequiresyou to clarify,summarize,reflect, andparaphraseRequiresyou to payattention tothe otherpersonSpatialproximity"Thatsoundsreallychallenging""I'mhere foryou"Communication"I'm sorryto hearthat"Requiresself-controlMaking anemotionalconnectionwith them"I knowexactlyhow youfeel"Feeling bad forsomeonebecause ofwhat happenedto them"You seemto behaving atough time"RequirestimePattingsomeone onthe shoulderat a funeralStayingout ofjudgementRequiresself-awarenessOfferingadviceRequirestrustworthiness"Tellmemore"Requires thespeaker tolead theconversation"I'msorrybut"Requirespatience"At leastyou canbring yourgrade up"Beingpresent inthe momentwithsomeoneUnderstandingother's painDroppingyour tone ofvoice whenyou speak tothemRecognizingemotions"I'm sorryfor yourloss"The otherpersonmust seemin needValidatingsomeone'sfeelings"Atleast"PerspectiveTakingSending acard whensomeonediesRequiresemotionalintelligence"What hasthis beenlike foryou?"Telling astory aboutwhen youlost your cattoo"Feelingother'spain asyour ownExperiencingwhat theyexperiencePuttingyourself intheirshoesSocialproximityGoal is toprovide wordsofencouragementRequiresyou to clarify,summarize,reflect, andparaphraseRequiresyou to payattention tothe otherpersonSpatialproximity"Thatsoundsreallychallenging""I'mhere foryou"Communication"I'm sorryto hearthat"Requiresself-controlMaking anemotionalconnectionwith them"I knowexactlyhow youfeel"Feeling bad forsomeonebecause ofwhat happenedto them"You seemto behaving atough time"RequirestimePattingsomeone onthe shoulderat a funeralStayingout ofjudgementRequiresself-awarenessOfferingadviceRequirestrustworthiness"Tellmemore"Requires thespeaker tolead theconversation"I'msorrybut"Requirespatience"At leastyou canbring yourgrade up"Beingpresent inthe momentwithsomeoneUnderstandingother's painDroppingyour tone ofvoice whenyou speak tothemRecognizingemotions"I'm sorryfor yourloss"The otherpersonmust seemin need

Empathy - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. N-Validating someone's feelings
  2. I-"At least"
  3. B-Perspective Taking
  4. G-Sending a card when someone dies
  5. B-Requires emotional intelligence
  6. N-"What has this been like for you?"
  7. G-Telling a story about when you lost your cat too"
  8. N-Feeling other's pain as your own
  9. B-Experiencing what they experience
  10. O-Putting yourself in their shoes
  11. I-Social proximity
  12. O-Goal is to provide words of encouragement
  13. O-Requires you to clarify, summarize, reflect, and paraphrase
  14. I-Requires you to pay attention to the other person
  15. I-Spatial proximity
  16. N-"That sounds really challenging"
  17. N-"I'm here for you"
  18. B-Communication
  19. G-"I'm sorry to hear that"
  20. O-Requires self-control
  21. O-Making an emotional connection with them
  22. G-"I know exactly how you feel"
  23. I-Feeling bad for someone because of what happened to them
  24. N-"You seem to be having a tough time"
  25. O-Requires time
  26. G-Patting someone on the shoulder at a funeral
  27. B-Staying out of judgement
  28. O-Requires self-awareness
  29. G-Offering advice
  30. B-Requires trustworthiness
  31. N-"Tell me more"
  32. O-Requires the speaker to lead the conversation
  33. I-"I'm sorry but"
  34. O-Requires patience
  35. G-"At least you can bring your grade up"
  36. N-Being present in the moment with someone
  37. G-Understanding other's pain
  38. G-Dropping your tone of voice when you speak to them
  39. B-Recognizing emotions
  40. G-"I'm sorry for your loss"
  41. I-The other person must seem in need