hurts you manipulative Cheater doesn't care about your feelings blames you for everything threatens to hurt people you love Extreme jealousy Lies reads your texts pressure you to do things you don't want to makes you check in when out with friends Disrespectful demands all of your time Lack of trust makes you feel afraid threatening hates your friends Wants to change you lack of empathy threatens to hurt themselves because of you cheating makes all of the decisions afraid to express your feelings demands your passwords Interrogations about your day Lack of compromise uses your past against you belittles/makes fun of you does not treat you as an equal ignores you Can’t Forgive feeling nervous or sick when your partner is upset constantly texting you accuses you of cheating Hides you from others in their life tells you no one else would want you Secretive tries to isolate you from your friends you feel like you can't be you you don't feel emotionally safe hits you substance use or abuse speaks poorly of you to their friends Verbally Abusive makes feel like I'm walking on egg shells calls all their exes "crazy" Angry witholds affection you don't feel physically safe Act “too perfect” in the beginning Easy to anger Cruel to others doesn't care about your goals or dreams they only talk about themselves family & friends dislike this person Insult you or put you down follows you Guilt tripping checks the history on your phone Unpredict- able calls you names major mood swings from happy to angry has no other friends makes you doubt your sanity Controlling constantly calling you Takes advantage of you tells you how to dress refuses to apologize Never Apologize doesn't like your family Fits of rage criticizing unreliable checks up on you makes you feel TRAPPED throwing things insulting Denying their behavior uses silent treatment as punishment Physically abusive Immature accuses you of flirting intolerant of opposing views hurts you manipulative Cheater doesn't care about your feelings blames you for everything threatens to hurt people you love Extreme jealousy Lies reads your texts pressure you to do things you don't want to makes you check in when out with friends Disrespectful demands all of your time Lack of trust makes you feel afraid threatening hates your friends Wants to change you lack of empathy threatens to hurt themselves because of you cheating makes all of the decisions afraid to express your feelings demands your passwords Interrogations about your day Lack of compromise uses your past against you belittles/makes fun of you does not treat you as an equal ignores you Can’t Forgive feeling nervous or sick when your partner is upset constantly texting you accuses you of cheating Hides you from others in their life tells you no one else would want you Secretive tries to isolate you from your friends you feel like you can't be you you don't feel emotionally safe hits you substance use or abuse speaks poorly of you to their friends Verbally Abusive makes feel like I'm walking on egg shells calls all their exes "crazy" Angry witholds affection you don't feel physically safe Act “too perfect” in the beginning Easy to anger Cruel to others doesn't care about your goals or dreams they only talk about themselves family & friends dislike this person Insult you or put you down follows you Guilt tripping checks the history on your phone Unpredict- able calls you names major mood swings from happy to angry has no other friends makes you doubt your sanity Controlling constantly calling you Takes advantage of you tells you how to dress refuses to apologize Never Apologize doesn't like your family Fits of rage criticizing unreliable checks up on you makes you feel TRAPPED throwing things insulting Denying their behavior uses silent treatment as punishment Physically abusive Immature accuses you of flirting intolerant of opposing views
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hurts you
manipulative
Cheater
doesn't care about your feelings
blames you for everything
threatens to hurt people you love
Extreme jealousy
Lies
reads your texts
pressure you to do things you don't want to
makes you check in when out with friends
Disrespectful
demands all of your time
Lack of trust
makes you feel afraid
threatening
hates your friends
Wants to change you
lack of empathy
threatens to hurt themselves because of you
cheating
makes all of the decisions
afraid to express your feelings
demands your passwords
Interrogations about your day
Lack of compromise
uses your past against you
belittles/makes fun of you
does not treat you as an equal
ignores you
Can’t Forgive
feeling nervous or sick when your partner is upset
constantly texting you
accuses you of cheating
Hides you from others in their life
tells you no one else would want you
Secretive
tries to isolate you from your friends
you feel like you can't be you
you don't feel emotionally safe
hits you
substance use or abuse
speaks poorly of you to their friends
Verbally Abusive
makes feel like I'm walking on egg shells
calls all their exes "crazy"
Angry
witholds affection
you don't feel physically safe
Act “too perfect” in the beginning
Easy to anger
Cruel to others
doesn't care about your goals or dreams
they only talk about themselves
family & friends dislike this person
Insult you or put you down
follows you
Guilt tripping
checks the history on your phone
Unpredict-able
calls you names
major mood swings from happy to angry
has no other friends
makes you doubt your sanity
Controlling
constantly calling you
Takes advantage of you
tells you how to dress
refuses to apologize
Never Apologize
doesn't like your family
Fits of rage
criticizing
unreliable
checks up on you
makes you feel TRAPPED
throwing things
insulting
Denying their behavior
uses silent treatment as punishment
Physically abusive
Immature
accuses you of flirting
intolerant of opposing views
