accuses you of cheating feeling nervous or sick when your partner is upset unreliable lack of empathy Wants to change you makes you doubt your sanity calls all their exes "crazy" Immature Secretive Disrespectful checks up on you reads your texts major mood swings from happy to angry follows you makes you check in when out with friends makes all of the decisions substance use or abuse threatens to hurt themselves because of you ignores you Physically abusive checks the history on your phone afraid to express your feelings cheating Lack of compromise you don't feel physically safe you don't feel emotionally safe tries to isolate you from your friends Verbally Abusive does not treat you as an equal makes feel like I'm walking on egg shells Guilt tripping constantly texting you Fits of rage manipulative tells you no one else would want you insulting doesn't care about your goals or dreams hurts you Controlling Act “too perfect” in the beginning demands all of your time doesn't like your family makes you feel afraid calls you names throwing things they only talk about themselves tells you how to dress Denying their behavior family & friends dislike this person witholds affection demands your passwords speaks poorly of you to their friends makes you feel TRAPPED Lack of trust Insult you or put you down constantly calling you accuses you of flirting Easy to anger uses silent treatment as punishment Lies Hides you from others in their life hates your friends Interrogations about your day Can’t Forgive blames you for everything threatening Never Apologize hits you doesn't care about your feelings Angry Unpredict- able pressure you to do things you don't want to intolerant of opposing views threatens to hurt people you love uses your past against you you feel like you can't be you Cruel to others has no other friends criticizing Extreme jealousy refuses to apologize belittles/makes fun of you Takes advantage of you Cheater accuses you of cheating feeling nervous or sick when your partner is upset unreliable lack of empathy Wants to change you makes you doubt your sanity calls all their exes "crazy" Immature Secretive Disrespectful checks up on you reads your texts major mood swings from happy to angry follows you makes you check in when out with friends makes all of the decisions substance use or abuse threatens to hurt themselves because of you ignores you Physically abusive checks the history on your phone afraid to express your feelings cheating Lack of compromise you don't feel physically safe you don't feel emotionally safe tries to isolate you from your friends Verbally Abusive does not treat you as an equal makes feel like I'm walking on egg shells Guilt tripping constantly texting you Fits of rage manipulative tells you no one else would want you insulting doesn't care about your goals or dreams hurts you Controlling Act “too perfect” in the beginning demands all of your time doesn't like your family makes you feel afraid calls you names throwing things they only talk about themselves tells you how to dress Denying their behavior family & friends dislike this person witholds affection demands your passwords speaks poorly of you to their friends makes you feel TRAPPED Lack of trust Insult you or put you down constantly calling you accuses you of flirting Easy to anger uses silent treatment as punishment Lies Hides you from others in their life hates your friends Interrogations about your day Can’t Forgive blames you for everything threatening Never Apologize hits you doesn't care about your feelings Angry Unpredict- able pressure you to do things you don't want to intolerant of opposing views threatens to hurt people you love uses your past against you you feel like you can't be you Cruel to others has no other friends criticizing Extreme jealousy refuses to apologize belittles/makes fun of you Takes advantage of you Cheater
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accuses you of cheating
feeling nervous or sick when your partner is upset
unreliable
lack of empathy
Wants to change you
makes you doubt your sanity
calls all their exes "crazy"
Immature
Secretive
Disrespectful
checks up on you
reads your texts
major mood swings from happy to angry
follows you
makes you check in when out with friends
makes all of the decisions
substance use or abuse
threatens to hurt themselves because of you
ignores you
Physically abusive
checks the history on your phone
afraid to express your feelings
cheating
Lack of compromise
you don't feel physically safe
you don't feel emotionally safe
tries to isolate you from your friends
Verbally Abusive
does not treat you as an equal
makes feel like I'm walking on egg shells
Guilt tripping
constantly texting you
Fits of rage
manipulative
tells you no one else would want you
insulting
doesn't care about your goals or dreams
hurts you
Controlling
Act “too perfect” in the beginning
demands all of your time
doesn't like your family
makes you feel afraid
calls you names
throwing things
they only talk about themselves
tells you how to dress
Denying their behavior
family & friends dislike this person
witholds affection
demands your passwords
speaks poorly of you to their friends
makes you feel TRAPPED
Lack of trust
Insult you or put you down
constantly calling you
accuses you of flirting
Easy to anger
uses silent treatment as punishment
Lies
Hides you from others in their life
hates your friends
Interrogations about your day
Can’t Forgive
blames you for everything
threatening
Never Apologize
hits you
doesn't care about your feelings
Angry
Unpredict-able
pressure you to do things you don't want to
intolerant of opposing views
threatens to hurt people you love
uses your past against you
you feel like you can't be you
Cruel to others
has no other friends
criticizing
Extreme jealousy
refuses to apologize
belittles/makes fun of you
Takes advantage of you
Cheater
