demands all of your time makes you feel TRAPPED uses silent treatment as punishment witholds affection intolerant of opposing views Fits of rage lack of empathy Denying their behavior has no other friends substance use or abuse Cruel to others feeling nervous or sick when your partner is upset Lack of trust Act “too perfect” in the beginning Guilt tripping hits you uses your past against you hates your friends constantly texting you Takes advantage of you tells you how to dress speaks poorly of you to their friends you feel like you can't be you follows you makes you check in when out with friends demands your passwords accuses you of flirting Wants to change you belittles/makes fun of you refuses to apologize Unpredict- able Physically abusive afraid to express your feelings Insult you or put you down doesn't like your family Immature Extreme jealousy doesn't care about your feelings tries to isolate you from your friends pressure you to do things you don't want to Hides you from others in their life hurts you Lies calls you names ignores you you don't feel physically safe makes you feel afraid reads your texts they only talk about themselves you don't feel emotionally safe cheating makes you doubt your sanity major mood swings from happy to angry checks the history on your phone unreliable threatens to hurt people you love threatens to hurt themselves because of you does not treat you as an equal Easy to anger tells you no one else would want you makes all of the decisions accuses you of cheating manipulative throwing things threatening Secretive makes feel like I'm walking on egg shells Never Apologize family & friends dislike this person Controlling calls all their exes "crazy" constantly calling you Can’t Forgive Verbally Abusive criticizing insulting doesn't care about your goals or dreams Angry Disrespectful blames you for everything Interrogations about your day Lack of compromise Cheater checks up on you demands all of your time makes you feel TRAPPED uses silent treatment as punishment witholds affection intolerant of opposing views Fits of rage lack of empathy Denying their behavior has no other friends substance use or abuse Cruel to others feeling nervous or sick when your partner is upset Lack of trust Act “too perfect” in the beginning Guilt tripping hits you uses your past against you hates your friends constantly texting you Takes advantage of you tells you how to dress speaks poorly of you to their friends you feel like you can't be you follows you makes you check in when out with friends demands your passwords accuses you of flirting Wants to change you belittles/makes fun of you refuses to apologize Unpredict- able Physically abusive afraid to express your feelings Insult you or put you down doesn't like your family Immature Extreme jealousy doesn't care about your feelings tries to isolate you from your friends pressure you to do things you don't want to Hides you from others in their life hurts you Lies calls you names ignores you you don't feel physically safe makes you feel afraid reads your texts they only talk about themselves you don't feel emotionally safe cheating makes you doubt your sanity major mood swings from happy to angry checks the history on your phone unreliable threatens to hurt people you love threatens to hurt themselves because of you does not treat you as an equal Easy to anger tells you no one else would want you makes all of the decisions accuses you of cheating manipulative throwing things threatening Secretive makes feel like I'm walking on egg shells Never Apologize family & friends dislike this person Controlling calls all their exes "crazy" constantly calling you Can’t Forgive Verbally Abusive criticizing insulting doesn't care about your goals or dreams Angry Disrespectful blames you for everything Interrogations about your day Lack of compromise Cheater checks up on you
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demands all of your time
makes you feel TRAPPED
uses silent treatment as punishment
witholds affection
intolerant of opposing views
Fits of rage
lack of empathy
Denying their behavior
has no other friends
substance use or abuse
Cruel to others
feeling nervous or sick when your partner is upset
Lack of trust
Act “too perfect” in the beginning
Guilt tripping
hits you
uses your past against you
hates your friends
constantly texting you
Takes advantage of you
tells you how to dress
speaks poorly of you to their friends
you feel like you can't be you
follows you
makes you check in when out with friends
demands your passwords
accuses you of flirting
Wants to change you
belittles/makes fun of you
refuses to apologize
Unpredict-able
Physically abusive
afraid to express your feelings
Insult you or put you down
doesn't like your family
Immature
Extreme jealousy
doesn't care about your feelings
tries to isolate you from your friends
pressure you to do things you don't want to
Hides you from others in their life
hurts you
Lies
calls you names
ignores you
you don't feel physically safe
makes you feel afraid
reads your texts
they only talk about themselves
you don't feel emotionally safe
cheating
makes you doubt your sanity
major mood swings from happy to angry
checks the history on your phone
unreliable
threatens to hurt people you love
threatens to hurt themselves because of you
does not treat you as an equal
Easy to anger
tells you no one else would want you
makes all of the decisions
accuses you of cheating
manipulative
throwing things
threatening
Secretive
makes feel like I'm walking on egg shells
Never Apologize
family & friends dislike this person
Controlling
calls all their exes "crazy"
constantly calling you
Can’t Forgive
Verbally Abusive
criticizing
insulting
doesn't care about your goals or dreams
Angry
Disrespectful
blames you for everything
Interrogations about your day
Lack of compromise
Cheater
checks up on you
