you don't feel emotionally safe tells you how to dress Wants to change you belittles/makes fun of you Physically abusive makes all of the decisions Unpredict- able Verbally Abusive Lack of trust has no other friends threatening Immature manipulative Disrespectful Act “too perfect” in the beginning makes you doubt your sanity calls you names doesn't care about your feelings makes you feel TRAPPED Hides you from others in their life doesn't like your family insulting they only talk about themselves Denying their behavior constantly texting you Cruel to others Angry feeling nervous or sick when your partner is upset criticizing intolerant of opposing views speaks poorly of you to their friends tries to isolate you from your friends doesn't care about your goals or dreams Interrogations about your day checks the history on your phone hurts you accuses you of cheating demands your passwords makes you feel afraid Guilt tripping threatens to hurt themselves because of you family & friends dislike this person ignores you calls all their exes "crazy" Fits of rage demands all of your time Never Apologize Secretive threatens to hurt people you love reads your texts makes you check in when out with friends pressure you to do things you don't want to follows you substance use or abuse unreliable hates your friends Easy to anger witholds affection throwing things Insult you or put you down constantly calling you Lies makes feel like I'm walking on egg shells tells you no one else would want you Extreme jealousy checks up on you does not treat you as an equal blames you for everything Takes advantage of you Lack of compromise lack of empathy major mood swings from happy to angry uses your past against you Can’t Forgive Cheater you don't feel physically safe refuses to apologize you feel like you can't be you uses silent treatment as punishment afraid to express your feelings cheating hits you Controlling accuses you of flirting you don't feel emotionally safe tells you how to dress Wants to change you belittles/makes fun of you Physically abusive makes all of the decisions Unpredict- able Verbally Abusive Lack of trust has no other friends threatening Immature manipulative Disrespectful Act “too perfect” in the beginning makes you doubt your sanity calls you names doesn't care about your feelings makes you feel TRAPPED Hides you from others in their life doesn't like your family insulting they only talk about themselves Denying their behavior constantly texting you Cruel to others Angry feeling nervous or sick when your partner is upset criticizing intolerant of opposing views speaks poorly of you to their friends tries to isolate you from your friends doesn't care about your goals or dreams Interrogations about your day checks the history on your phone hurts you accuses you of cheating demands your passwords makes you feel afraid Guilt tripping threatens to hurt themselves because of you family & friends dislike this person ignores you calls all their exes "crazy" Fits of rage demands all of your time Never Apologize Secretive threatens to hurt people you love reads your texts makes you check in when out with friends pressure you to do things you don't want to follows you substance use or abuse unreliable hates your friends Easy to anger witholds affection throwing things Insult you or put you down constantly calling you Lies makes feel like I'm walking on egg shells tells you no one else would want you Extreme jealousy checks up on you does not treat you as an equal blames you for everything Takes advantage of you Lack of compromise lack of empathy major mood swings from happy to angry uses your past against you Can’t Forgive Cheater you don't feel physically safe refuses to apologize you feel like you can't be you uses silent treatment as punishment afraid to express your feelings cheating hits you Controlling accuses you of flirting
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you don't feel emotionally safe
tells you how to dress
Wants to change you
belittles/makes fun of you
Physically abusive
makes all of the decisions
Unpredict-able
Verbally Abusive
Lack of trust
has no other friends
threatening
Immature
manipulative
Disrespectful
Act “too perfect” in the beginning
makes you doubt your sanity
calls you names
doesn't care about your feelings
makes you feel TRAPPED
Hides you from others in their life
doesn't like your family
insulting
they only talk about themselves
Denying their behavior
constantly texting you
Cruel to others
Angry
feeling nervous or sick when your partner is upset
criticizing
intolerant of opposing views
speaks poorly of you to their friends
tries to isolate you from your friends
doesn't care about your goals or dreams
Interrogations about your day
checks the history on your phone
hurts you
accuses you of cheating
demands your passwords
makes you feel afraid
Guilt tripping
threatens to hurt themselves because of you
family & friends dislike this person
ignores you
calls all their exes "crazy"
Fits of rage
demands all of your time
Never Apologize
Secretive
threatens to hurt people you love
reads your texts
makes you check in when out with friends
pressure you to do things you don't want to
follows you
substance use or abuse
unreliable
hates your friends
Easy to anger
witholds affection
throwing things
Insult you or put you down
constantly calling you
Lies
makes feel like I'm walking on egg shells
tells you no one else would want you
Extreme jealousy
checks up on you
does not treat you as an equal
blames you for everything
Takes advantage of you
Lack of compromise
lack of empathy
major mood swings from happy to angry
uses your past against you
Can’t Forgive
Cheater
you don't feel physically safe
refuses to apologize
you feel like you can't be you
uses silent treatment as punishment
afraid to express your feelings
cheating
hits you
Controlling
accuses you of flirting
