tries to isolate you from your friends cheating lack of empathy speaks poorly of you to their friends Controlling blames you for everything does not treat you as an equal hits you makes feel like I'm walking on egg shells refuses to apologize threatens to hurt people you love major mood swings from happy to angry throwing things belittles/makes fun of you demands all of your time doesn't like your family you don't feel physically safe intolerant of opposing views Easy to anger insulting feeling nervous or sick when your partner is upset they only talk about themselves Hides you from others in their life hates your friends Act “too perfect” in the beginning demands your passwords accuses you of flirting reads your texts uses silent treatment as punishment Takes advantage of you Physically abusive Can’t Forgive criticizing constantly calling you constantly texting you Extreme jealousy Guilt tripping makes you check in when out with friends ignores you you feel like you can't be you Angry Interrogations about your day Immature Insult you or put you down doesn't care about your goals or dreams Unpredict- able Secretive Cheater witholds affection threatening doesn't care about your feelings substance use or abuse family & friends dislike this person Verbally Abusive manipulative accuses you of cheating Lies calls you names uses your past against you afraid to express your feelings Never Apologize checks up on you has no other friends unreliable Disrespectful threatens to hurt themselves because of you tells you how to dress tells you no one else would want you calls all their exes "crazy" Denying their behavior hurts you Fits of rage Lack of compromise makes all of the decisions makes you feel TRAPPED makes you feel afraid you don't feel emotionally safe Wants to change you Lack of trust Cruel to others checks the history on your phone makes you doubt your sanity follows you pressure you to do things you don't want to tries to isolate you from your friends cheating lack of empathy speaks poorly of you to their friends Controlling blames you for everything does not treat you as an equal hits you makes feel like I'm walking on egg shells refuses to apologize threatens to hurt people you love major mood swings from happy to angry throwing things belittles/makes fun of you demands all of your time doesn't like your family you don't feel physically safe intolerant of opposing views Easy to anger insulting feeling nervous or sick when your partner is upset they only talk about themselves Hides you from others in their life hates your friends Act “too perfect” in the beginning demands your passwords accuses you of flirting reads your texts uses silent treatment as punishment Takes advantage of you Physically abusive Can’t Forgive criticizing constantly calling you constantly texting you Extreme jealousy Guilt tripping makes you check in when out with friends ignores you you feel like you can't be you Angry Interrogations about your day Immature Insult you or put you down doesn't care about your goals or dreams Unpredict- able Secretive Cheater witholds affection threatening doesn't care about your feelings substance use or abuse family & friends dislike this person Verbally Abusive manipulative accuses you of cheating Lies calls you names uses your past against you afraid to express your feelings Never Apologize checks up on you has no other friends unreliable Disrespectful threatens to hurt themselves because of you tells you how to dress tells you no one else would want you calls all their exes "crazy" Denying their behavior hurts you Fits of rage Lack of compromise makes all of the decisions makes you feel TRAPPED makes you feel afraid you don't feel emotionally safe Wants to change you Lack of trust Cruel to others checks the history on your phone makes you doubt your sanity follows you pressure you to do things you don't want to
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tries to isolate you from your friends
cheating
lack of empathy
speaks poorly of you to their friends
Controlling
blames you for everything
does not treat you as an equal
hits you
makes feel like I'm walking on egg shells
refuses to apologize
threatens to hurt people you love
major mood swings from happy to angry
throwing things
belittles/makes fun of you
demands all of your time
doesn't like your family
you don't feel physically safe
intolerant of opposing views
Easy to anger
insulting
feeling nervous or sick when your partner is upset
they only talk about themselves
Hides you from others in their life
hates your friends
Act “too perfect” in the beginning
demands your passwords
accuses you of flirting
reads your texts
uses silent treatment as punishment
Takes advantage of you
Physically abusive
Can’t Forgive
criticizing
constantly calling you
constantly texting you
Extreme jealousy
Guilt tripping
makes you check in when out with friends
ignores you
you feel like you can't be you
Angry
Interrogations about your day
Immature
Insult you or put you down
doesn't care about your goals or dreams
Unpredict-able
Secretive
Cheater
witholds affection
threatening
doesn't care about your feelings
substance use or abuse
family & friends dislike this person
Verbally Abusive
manipulative
accuses you of cheating
Lies
calls you names
uses your past against you
afraid to express your feelings
Never Apologize
checks up on you
has no other friends
unreliable
Disrespectful
threatens to hurt themselves because of you
tells you how to dress
tells you no one else would want you
calls all their exes "crazy"
Denying their behavior
hurts you
Fits of rage
Lack of compromise
makes all of the decisions
makes you feel TRAPPED
makes you feel afraid
you don't feel emotionally safe
Wants to change you
Lack of trust
Cruel to others
checks the history on your phone
makes you doubt your sanity
follows you
pressure you to do things you don't want to
