DenyingtheirbehaviorfollowsyouAngrymakesyou feelafraidPhysicallyabusivefeelingnervous orsick whenyour partneris upsetGuilttrippingmakesyou doubtyoursanityyou don'tfeelphysicallysafetells youhow todressunreliableHides youfromothers intheir lifeinsultingaccusesyou offlirtingmakes youcheck inwhen outwith friendswitholdsaffectionreadsyourtextschecksup onyoucalls alltheir exes"crazy"Immaturepressure youto do thingsyou don'twant toCrueltoothersWants tochangeyouFits ofrageUnpredict-ableCheatercheatingLiesthreatensto hurtpeopleyou loveuses yourpastagainstyouyou don'tfeelemotionallysafeconstantlycallingyoumakesyou feelTRAPPEDNeverApologizetells youno oneelse wouldwant youyou feellike youcan't beyourefusestoapologizedemandsall ofyour timecallsyounamesDisrespectfulthrowingthingshas nootherfriendscriticizingthreateningControllingExtremejealousyInsult youor putyou downbelittles/makesfun of youdoesn'tcare aboutyour goalsor dreamsuses silenttreatmentaspunishmenthitsyoudemandsyourpasswordsAct “tooperfect” inthebeginningmakesall of thedecisionssubstanceuse orabusedoes nottreat youas anequalintolerantofopposingviewsSecretiveaccusesyou ofcheatingfamily &friendsdislike thispersonlack ofempathymakes feellike I'mwalking onegg shellschecksthe historyon yourphonedoesn'tlike yourfamilymajor moodswings fromhappy toangryTakesadvantageof youafraid toexpressyourfeelingsInterrogationsabout yourdayignoresyoublamesyou foreverythingLackof trustthreatens tohurtthemselvesbecause ofyoutries toisolate youfrom yourfriendsVerballyAbusiveLack ofcompromisedoesn'tcare aboutyourfeelingshatesyourfriendsconstantlytextingyoumanipulativehurtsyouthey onlytalk aboutthemselvesEasy toangerCan’tForgivespeakspoorly ofyou to theirfriendsDenyingtheirbehaviorfollowsyouAngrymakesyou feelafraidPhysicallyabusivefeelingnervous orsick whenyour partneris upsetGuilttrippingmakesyou doubtyoursanityyou don'tfeelphysicallysafetells youhow todressunreliableHides youfromothers intheir lifeinsultingaccusesyou offlirtingmakes youcheck inwhen outwith friendswitholdsaffectionreadsyourtextschecksup onyoucalls alltheir exes"crazy"Immaturepressure youto do thingsyou don'twant toCrueltoothersWants tochangeyouFits ofrageUnpredict-ableCheatercheatingLiesthreatensto hurtpeopleyou loveuses yourpastagainstyouyou don'tfeelemotionallysafeconstantlycallingyoumakesyou feelTRAPPEDNeverApologizetells youno oneelse wouldwant youyou feellike youcan't beyourefusestoapologizedemandsall ofyour timecallsyounamesDisrespectfulthrowingthingshas nootherfriendscriticizingthreateningControllingExtremejealousyInsult youor putyou downbelittles/makesfun of youdoesn'tcare aboutyour goalsor dreamsuses silenttreatmentaspunishmenthitsyoudemandsyourpasswordsAct “tooperfect” inthebeginningmakesall of thedecisionssubstanceuse orabusedoes nottreat youas anequalintolerantofopposingviewsSecretiveaccusesyou ofcheatingfamily &friendsdislike thispersonlack ofempathymakes feellike I'mwalking onegg shellschecksthe historyon yourphonedoesn'tlike yourfamilymajor moodswings fromhappy toangryTakesadvantageof youafraid toexpressyourfeelingsInterrogationsabout yourdayignoresyoublamesyou foreverythingLackof trustthreatens tohurtthemselvesbecause ofyoutries toisolate youfrom yourfriendsVerballyAbusiveLack ofcompromisedoesn'tcare aboutyourfeelingshatesyourfriendsconstantlytextingyoumanipulativehurtsyouthey onlytalk aboutthemselvesEasy toangerCan’tForgivespeakspoorly ofyou to theirfriends

Relationship Red Flags Bingo CSH - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Denying their behavior
  2. follows you
  3. Angry
  4. makes you feel afraid
  5. Physically abusive
  6. feeling nervous or sick when your partner is upset
  7. Guilt tripping
  8. makes you doubt your sanity
  9. you don't feel physically safe
  10. tells you how to dress
  11. unreliable
  12. Hides you from others in their life
  13. insulting
  14. accuses you of flirting
  15. makes you check in when out with friends
  16. witholds affection
  17. reads your texts
  18. checks up on you
  19. calls all their exes "crazy"
  20. Immature
  21. pressure you to do things you don't want to
  22. Cruel to others
  23. Wants to change you
  24. Fits of rage
  25. Unpredict-able
  26. Cheater
  27. cheating
  28. Lies
  29. threatens to hurt people you love
  30. uses your past against you
  31. you don't feel emotionally safe
  32. constantly calling you
  33. makes you feel TRAPPED
  34. Never Apologize
  35. tells you no one else would want you
  36. you feel like you can't be you
  37. refuses to apologize
  38. demands all of your time
  39. calls you names
  40. Disrespectful
  41. throwing things
  42. has no other friends
  43. criticizing
  44. threatening
  45. Controlling
  46. Extreme jealousy
  47. Insult you or put you down
  48. belittles/makes fun of you
  49. doesn't care about your goals or dreams
  50. uses silent treatment as punishment
  51. hits you
  52. demands your passwords
  53. Act “too perfect” in the beginning
  54. makes all of the decisions
  55. substance use or abuse
  56. does not treat you as an equal
  57. intolerant of opposing views
  58. Secretive
  59. accuses you of cheating
  60. family & friends dislike this person
  61. lack of empathy
  62. makes feel like I'm walking on egg shells
  63. checks the history on your phone
  64. doesn't like your family
  65. major mood swings from happy to angry
  66. Takes advantage of you
  67. afraid to express your feelings
  68. Interrogations about your day
  69. ignores you
  70. blames you for everything
  71. Lack of trust
  72. threatens to hurt themselves because of you
  73. tries to isolate you from your friends
  74. Verbally Abusive
  75. Lack of compromise
  76. doesn't care about your feelings
  77. hates your friends
  78. constantly texting you
  79. manipulative
  80. hurts you
  81. they only talk about themselves
  82. Easy to anger
  83. Can’t Forgive
  84. speaks poorly of you to their friends