Takes advantage of you calls all their exes "crazy" follows you checks up on you Hides you from others in their life intolerant of opposing views feeling nervous or sick when your partner is upset makes you check in when out with friends reads your texts refuses to apologize afraid to express your feelings threatening Lack of compromise Immature you don't feel physically safe pressure you to do things you don't want to makes you doubt your sanity demands all of your time Cruel to others threatens to hurt people you love Secretive unreliable belittles/makes fun of you uses silent treatment as punishment ignores you has no other friends Fits of rage doesn't like your family Angry accuses you of flirting Can’t Forgive you don't feel emotionally safe makes all of the decisions manipulative you feel like you can't be you makes you feel afraid Denying their behavior blames you for everything Cheater constantly calling you doesn't care about your feelings makes feel like I'm walking on egg shells hurts you Guilt tripping throwing things Act “too perfect” in the beginning speaks poorly of you to their friends substance use or abuse witholds affection insulting tries to isolate you from your friends Easy to anger Unpredict- able Insult you or put you down makes you feel TRAPPED Interrogations about your day tells you how to dress hates your friends family & friends dislike this person Verbally Abusive calls you names does not treat you as an equal cheating Physically abusive Disrespectful criticizing lack of empathy doesn't care about your goals or dreams Extreme jealousy uses your past against you checks the history on your phone Controlling tells you no one else would want you Lack of trust Wants to change you hits you they only talk about themselves Never Apologize major mood swings from happy to angry accuses you of cheating Lies constantly texting you demands your passwords threatens to hurt themselves because of you Takes advantage of you calls all their exes "crazy" follows you checks up on you Hides you from others in their life intolerant of opposing views feeling nervous or sick when your partner is upset makes you check in when out with friends reads your texts refuses to apologize afraid to express your feelings threatening Lack of compromise Immature you don't feel physically safe pressure you to do things you don't want to makes you doubt your sanity demands all of your time Cruel to others threatens to hurt people you love Secretive unreliable belittles/makes fun of you uses silent treatment as punishment ignores you has no other friends Fits of rage doesn't like your family Angry accuses you of flirting Can’t Forgive you don't feel emotionally safe makes all of the decisions manipulative you feel like you can't be you makes you feel afraid Denying their behavior blames you for everything Cheater constantly calling you doesn't care about your feelings makes feel like I'm walking on egg shells hurts you Guilt tripping throwing things Act “too perfect” in the beginning speaks poorly of you to their friends substance use or abuse witholds affection insulting tries to isolate you from your friends Easy to anger Unpredict- able Insult you or put you down makes you feel TRAPPED Interrogations about your day tells you how to dress hates your friends family & friends dislike this person Verbally Abusive calls you names does not treat you as an equal cheating Physically abusive Disrespectful criticizing lack of empathy doesn't care about your goals or dreams Extreme jealousy uses your past against you checks the history on your phone Controlling tells you no one else would want you Lack of trust Wants to change you hits you they only talk about themselves Never Apologize major mood swings from happy to angry accuses you of cheating Lies constantly texting you demands your passwords threatens to hurt themselves because of you
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Takes advantage of you
calls all their exes "crazy"
follows you
checks up on you
Hides you from others in their life
intolerant of opposing views
feeling nervous or sick when your partner is upset
makes you check in when out with friends
reads your texts
refuses to apologize
afraid to express your feelings
threatening
Lack of compromise
Immature
you don't feel physically safe
pressure you to do things you don't want to
makes you doubt your sanity
demands all of your time
Cruel to others
threatens to hurt people you love
Secretive
unreliable
belittles/makes fun of you
uses silent treatment as punishment
ignores you
has no other friends
Fits of rage
doesn't like your family
Angry
accuses you of flirting
Can’t Forgive
you don't feel emotionally safe
makes all of the decisions
manipulative
you feel like you can't be you
makes you feel afraid
Denying their behavior
blames you for everything
Cheater
constantly calling you
doesn't care about your feelings
makes feel like I'm walking on egg shells
hurts you
Guilt tripping
throwing things
Act “too perfect” in the beginning
speaks poorly of you to their friends
substance use or abuse
witholds affection
insulting
tries to isolate you from your friends
Easy to anger
Unpredict-able
Insult you or put you down
makes you feel TRAPPED
Interrogations about your day
tells you how to dress
hates your friends
family & friends dislike this person
Verbally Abusive
calls you names
does not treat you as an equal
cheating
Physically abusive
Disrespectful
criticizing
lack of empathy
doesn't care about your goals or dreams
Extreme jealousy
uses your past against you
checks the history on your phone
Controlling
tells you no one else would want you
Lack of trust
Wants to change you
hits you
they only talk about themselves
Never Apologize
major mood swings from happy to angry
accuses you of cheating
Lies
constantly texting you
demands your passwords
threatens to hurt themselves because of you
