insultingpressure youto do thingsyou don'twant tomakes feellike I'mwalking onegg shellsrefusestoapologizeNeverApologizeWants tochangeyoumakesyou feelafraidlack ofempathyLackof trustchecksthe historyon yourphonecalls alltheir exes"crazy"uses yourpastagainstyouAct “tooperfect” inthebeginningconstantlycallingyouHides youfromothers intheir lifeconstantlytextingyouSecretiveunreliableCan’tForgivefollowsyouImmatureyou don'tfeelphysicallysafethreatens tohurtthemselvesbecause ofyouignoresyoudemandsall ofyour timedemandsyourpasswordstells youhow todressdoesn'tcare aboutyourfeelingscheatingCheaterLiescallsyounamesmanipulativechecksup onyoumakesyou doubtyoursanityyou feellike youcan't beyouhitsyouhurtsyouhatesyourfriendsthreateningCrueltoothersthey onlytalk aboutthemselvesuses silenttreatmentaspunishmentaccusesyou ofcheatingwitholdsaffectionafraid toexpressyourfeelingsaccusesyou offlirtingLack ofcompromiseVerballyAbusivespeakspoorly ofyou to theirfriendsDenyingtheirbehaviorthrowingthingsbelittles/makesfun of youtries toisolate youfrom yourfriendsmakesall of thedecisionsInterrogationsabout yourdayUnpredict-ableControllingthreatensto hurtpeopleyou loveEasy toangerdoesn'tcare aboutyour goalsor dreamsGuilttrippingmajor moodswings fromhappy toangrytells youno oneelse wouldwant youPhysicallyabusivemakes youcheck inwhen outwith friendshas nootherfriendsreadsyourtextsmakesyou feelTRAPPEDsubstanceuse orabusedoes nottreat youas anequalAngryFits ofragefamily &friendsdislike thispersonfeelingnervous orsick whenyour partneris upsetExtremejealousyblamesyou foreverythingdoesn'tlike yourfamilycriticizingInsult youor putyou downDisrespectfulintolerantofopposingviewsTakesadvantageof youyou don'tfeelemotionallysafeinsultingpressure youto do thingsyou don'twant tomakes feellike I'mwalking onegg shellsrefusestoapologizeNeverApologizeWants tochangeyoumakesyou feelafraidlack ofempathyLackof trustchecksthe historyon yourphonecalls alltheir exes"crazy"uses yourpastagainstyouAct “tooperfect” inthebeginningconstantlycallingyouHides youfromothers intheir lifeconstantlytextingyouSecretiveunreliableCan’tForgivefollowsyouImmatureyou don'tfeelphysicallysafethreatens tohurtthemselvesbecause ofyouignoresyoudemandsall ofyour timedemandsyourpasswordstells youhow todressdoesn'tcare aboutyourfeelingscheatingCheaterLiescallsyounamesmanipulativechecksup onyoumakesyou doubtyoursanityyou feellike youcan't beyouhitsyouhurtsyouhatesyourfriendsthreateningCrueltoothersthey onlytalk aboutthemselvesuses silenttreatmentaspunishmentaccusesyou ofcheatingwitholdsaffectionafraid toexpressyourfeelingsaccusesyou offlirtingLack ofcompromiseVerballyAbusivespeakspoorly ofyou to theirfriendsDenyingtheirbehaviorthrowingthingsbelittles/makesfun of youtries toisolate youfrom yourfriendsmakesall of thedecisionsInterrogationsabout yourdayUnpredict-ableControllingthreatensto hurtpeopleyou loveEasy toangerdoesn'tcare aboutyour goalsor dreamsGuilttrippingmajor moodswings fromhappy toangrytells youno oneelse wouldwant youPhysicallyabusivemakes youcheck inwhen outwith friendshas nootherfriendsreadsyourtextsmakesyou feelTRAPPEDsubstanceuse orabusedoes nottreat youas anequalAngryFits ofragefamily &friendsdislike thispersonfeelingnervous orsick whenyour partneris upsetExtremejealousyblamesyou foreverythingdoesn'tlike yourfamilycriticizingInsult youor putyou downDisrespectfulintolerantofopposingviewsTakesadvantageof youyou don'tfeelemotionallysafe

Relationship Red Flags Bingo CSH - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. insulting
  2. pressure you to do things you don't want to
  3. makes feel like I'm walking on egg shells
  4. refuses to apologize
  5. Never Apologize
  6. Wants to change you
  7. makes you feel afraid
  8. lack of empathy
  9. Lack of trust
  10. checks the history on your phone
  11. calls all their exes "crazy"
  12. uses your past against you
  13. Act “too perfect” in the beginning
  14. constantly calling you
  15. Hides you from others in their life
  16. constantly texting you
  17. Secretive
  18. unreliable
  19. Can’t Forgive
  20. follows you
  21. Immature
  22. you don't feel physically safe
  23. threatens to hurt themselves because of you
  24. ignores you
  25. demands all of your time
  26. demands your passwords
  27. tells you how to dress
  28. doesn't care about your feelings
  29. cheating
  30. Cheater
  31. Lies
  32. calls you names
  33. manipulative
  34. checks up on you
  35. makes you doubt your sanity
  36. you feel like you can't be you
  37. hits you
  38. hurts you
  39. hates your friends
  40. threatening
  41. Cruel to others
  42. they only talk about themselves
  43. uses silent treatment as punishment
  44. accuses you of cheating
  45. witholds affection
  46. afraid to express your feelings
  47. accuses you of flirting
  48. Lack of compromise
  49. Verbally Abusive
  50. speaks poorly of you to their friends
  51. Denying their behavior
  52. throwing things
  53. belittles/makes fun of you
  54. tries to isolate you from your friends
  55. makes all of the decisions
  56. Interrogations about your day
  57. Unpredict-able
  58. Controlling
  59. threatens to hurt people you love
  60. Easy to anger
  61. doesn't care about your goals or dreams
  62. Guilt tripping
  63. major mood swings from happy to angry
  64. tells you no one else would want you
  65. Physically abusive
  66. makes you check in when out with friends
  67. has no other friends
  68. reads your texts
  69. makes you feel TRAPPED
  70. substance use or abuse
  71. does not treat you as an equal
  72. Angry
  73. Fits of rage
  74. family & friends dislike this person
  75. feeling nervous or sick when your partner is upset
  76. Extreme jealousy
  77. blames you for everything
  78. doesn't like your family
  79. criticizing
  80. Insult you or put you down
  81. Disrespectful
  82. intolerant of opposing views
  83. Takes advantage of you
  84. you don't feel emotionally safe