constantlycallingyouthey onlytalk aboutthemselvesafraid toexpressyourfeelingsmakesyou feelTRAPPEDWants tochangeyoutries toisolate youfrom yourfriendsmakesall of thedecisionsyou don'tfeelemotionallysafeignoresyouEasy toangerunreliablehas nootherfriendsUnpredict-ablereadsyourtextsLackof trustchecksthe historyon yourphonefamily &friendsdislike thispersonNeverApologizefollowsyouCrueltoothersSecretivebelittles/makesfun of youTakesadvantageof youcheatinghurtsyouthreatensto hurtpeopleyou lovedoesn'tcare aboutyour goalsor dreamsthreatens tohurtthemselvesbecause ofyouchecksup onyoudoesn'tlike yourfamilyGuilttrippingpressure youto do thingsyou don'twant tolack ofempathyinsultingVerballyAbusiveyou feellike youcan't beyouHides youfromothers intheir lifeuses silenttreatmentaspunishmentmakes feellike I'mwalking onegg shellsuses yourpastagainstyouPhysicallyabusivemajor moodswings fromhappy toangryAct “tooperfect” inthebeginningInsult youor putyou downCheaterdemandsall ofyour timedoes nottreat youas anequalExtremejealousymakesyou doubtyoursanityintolerantofopposingviewsCan’tForgivetells youno oneelse wouldwant youmakesyou feelafraidcallsyounamesspeakspoorly ofyou to theirfriendssubstanceuse orabusedoesn'tcare aboutyourfeelingsAngrymakes youcheck inwhen outwith friendstells youhow todressfeelingnervous orsick whenyour partneris upsetwitholdsaffectionhatesyourfriendsmanipulativehitsyouconstantlytextingyouLiesDisrespectfulcalls alltheir exes"crazy"Lack ofcompromisethrowingthingsaccusesyou offlirtingControllingrefusestoapologizeblamesyou foreverythingInterrogationsabout yourdaycriticizingdemandsyourpasswordsthreateningFits ofrageImmatureaccusesyou ofcheatingyou don'tfeelphysicallysafeDenyingtheirbehaviorconstantlycallingyouthey onlytalk aboutthemselvesafraid toexpressyourfeelingsmakesyou feelTRAPPEDWants tochangeyoutries toisolate youfrom yourfriendsmakesall of thedecisionsyou don'tfeelemotionallysafeignoresyouEasy toangerunreliablehas nootherfriendsUnpredict-ablereadsyourtextsLackof trustchecksthe historyon yourphonefamily &friendsdislike thispersonNeverApologizefollowsyouCrueltoothersSecretivebelittles/makesfun of youTakesadvantageof youcheatinghurtsyouthreatensto hurtpeopleyou lovedoesn'tcare aboutyour goalsor dreamsthreatens tohurtthemselvesbecause ofyouchecksup onyoudoesn'tlike yourfamilyGuilttrippingpressure youto do thingsyou don'twant tolack ofempathyinsultingVerballyAbusiveyou feellike youcan't beyouHides youfromothers intheir lifeuses silenttreatmentaspunishmentmakes feellike I'mwalking onegg shellsuses yourpastagainstyouPhysicallyabusivemajor moodswings fromhappy toangryAct “tooperfect” inthebeginningInsult youor putyou downCheaterdemandsall ofyour timedoes nottreat youas anequalExtremejealousymakesyou doubtyoursanityintolerantofopposingviewsCan’tForgivetells youno oneelse wouldwant youmakesyou feelafraidcallsyounamesspeakspoorly ofyou to theirfriendssubstanceuse orabusedoesn'tcare aboutyourfeelingsAngrymakes youcheck inwhen outwith friendstells youhow todressfeelingnervous orsick whenyour partneris upsetwitholdsaffectionhatesyourfriendsmanipulativehitsyouconstantlytextingyouLiesDisrespectfulcalls alltheir exes"crazy"Lack ofcompromisethrowingthingsaccusesyou offlirtingControllingrefusestoapologizeblamesyou foreverythingInterrogationsabout yourdaycriticizingdemandsyourpasswordsthreateningFits ofrageImmatureaccusesyou ofcheatingyou don'tfeelphysicallysafeDenyingtheirbehavior

Relationship Red Flags Bingo CSH - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. constantly calling you
  2. they only talk about themselves
  3. afraid to express your feelings
  4. makes you feel TRAPPED
  5. Wants to change you
  6. tries to isolate you from your friends
  7. makes all of the decisions
  8. you don't feel emotionally safe
  9. ignores you
  10. Easy to anger
  11. unreliable
  12. has no other friends
  13. Unpredict-able
  14. reads your texts
  15. Lack of trust
  16. checks the history on your phone
  17. family & friends dislike this person
  18. Never Apologize
  19. follows you
  20. Cruel to others
  21. Secretive
  22. belittles/makes fun of you
  23. Takes advantage of you
  24. cheating
  25. hurts you
  26. threatens to hurt people you love
  27. doesn't care about your goals or dreams
  28. threatens to hurt themselves because of you
  29. checks up on you
  30. doesn't like your family
  31. Guilt tripping
  32. pressure you to do things you don't want to
  33. lack of empathy
  34. insulting
  35. Verbally Abusive
  36. you feel like you can't be you
  37. Hides you from others in their life
  38. uses silent treatment as punishment
  39. makes feel like I'm walking on egg shells
  40. uses your past against you
  41. Physically abusive
  42. major mood swings from happy to angry
  43. Act “too perfect” in the beginning
  44. Insult you or put you down
  45. Cheater
  46. demands all of your time
  47. does not treat you as an equal
  48. Extreme jealousy
  49. makes you doubt your sanity
  50. intolerant of opposing views
  51. Can’t Forgive
  52. tells you no one else would want you
  53. makes you feel afraid
  54. calls you names
  55. speaks poorly of you to their friends
  56. substance use or abuse
  57. doesn't care about your feelings
  58. Angry
  59. makes you check in when out with friends
  60. tells you how to dress
  61. feeling nervous or sick when your partner is upset
  62. witholds affection
  63. hates your friends
  64. manipulative
  65. hits you
  66. constantly texting you
  67. Lies
  68. Disrespectful
  69. calls all their exes "crazy"
  70. Lack of compromise
  71. throwing things
  72. accuses you of flirting
  73. Controlling
  74. refuses to apologize
  75. blames you for everything
  76. Interrogations about your day
  77. criticizing
  78. demands your passwords
  79. threatening
  80. Fits of rage
  81. Immature
  82. accuses you of cheating
  83. you don't feel physically safe
  84. Denying their behavior