constantlytextingyouaccusesyou ofcheatingAct “tooperfect” inthebeginningControllingaccusesyou offlirtingblamesyou foreverythingHides youfromothers intheir lifePhysicallyabusivehas nootherfriendsCheaterinsultingfollowsyouhurtsyoudemandsyourpasswordsmajor moodswings fromhappy toangryconstantlycallingyouuses yourpastagainstyoulack ofempathywitholdsaffectionrefusestoapologizeyou feellike youcan't beyoucheatingbelittles/makesfun of youthreateningunreliableInterrogationsabout yourdaythrowingthingsthreatensto hurtpeopleyou lovetells youno oneelse wouldwant youtells youhow todresscallsyounamesWants tochangeyouCan’tForgivefeelingnervous orsick whenyour partneris upsetUnpredict-abledoesn'tcare aboutyour goalsor dreamschecksup onyouthey onlytalk aboutthemselvesdoesn'tcare aboutyourfeelingsignoresyouFits ofrageExtremejealousyImmaturecriticizingreadsyourtextsdoes nottreat youas anequalthreatens tohurtthemselvesbecause ofyouuses silenttreatmentaspunishmentCrueltoothersNeverApologizemakes youcheck inwhen outwith friendschecksthe historyon yourphoneintolerantofopposingviewsDisrespectfulmakesall of thedecisionsmakesyou feelafraidInsult youor putyou downyou don'tfeelemotionallysafetries toisolate youfrom yourfriendsVerballyAbusiveGuilttrippingmakesyou feelTRAPPEDLieshatesyourfriendspressure youto do thingsyou don'twant toLack ofcompromiseyou don'tfeelphysicallysafeEasy toangerafraid toexpressyourfeelingsAngryDenyingtheirbehaviorfamily &friendsdislike thispersonspeakspoorly ofyou to theirfriendsTakesadvantageof youdoesn'tlike yourfamilydemandsall ofyour timemanipulativemakesyou doubtyoursanitySecretivehitsyouLackof trustsubstanceuse orabuseconstantlytextingyouaccusesyou ofcheatingAct “tooperfect” inthebeginningControllingaccusesyou offlirtingblamesyou foreverythingHides youfromothers intheir lifePhysicallyabusivehas nootherfriendsCheaterinsultingfollowsyouhurtsyoudemandsyourpasswordsmajor moodswings fromhappy toangryconstantlycallingyouuses yourpastagainstyoulack ofempathywitholdsaffectionrefusestoapologizeyou feellike youcan't beyoucheatingbelittles/makesfun of youthreateningunreliableInterrogationsabout yourdaythrowingthingsthreatensto hurtpeopleyou lovetells youno oneelse wouldwant youtells youhow todresscallsyounamesWants tochangeyouCan’tForgivefeelingnervous orsick whenyour partneris upsetUnpredict-abledoesn'tcare aboutyour goalsor dreamschecksup onyouthey onlytalk aboutthemselvesdoesn'tcare aboutyourfeelingsignoresyouFits ofrageExtremejealousyImmaturecriticizingreadsyourtextsdoes nottreat youas anequalthreatens tohurtthemselvesbecause ofyouuses silenttreatmentaspunishmentCrueltoothersNeverApologizemakes youcheck inwhen outwith friendschecksthe historyon yourphoneintolerantofopposingviewsDisrespectfulmakesall of thedecisionsmakesyou feelafraidInsult youor putyou downyou don'tfeelemotionallysafetries toisolate youfrom yourfriendsVerballyAbusiveGuilttrippingmakesyou feelTRAPPEDLieshatesyourfriendspressure youto do thingsyou don'twant toLack ofcompromiseyou don'tfeelphysicallysafeEasy toangerafraid toexpressyourfeelingsAngryDenyingtheirbehaviorfamily &friendsdislike thispersonspeakspoorly ofyou to theirfriendsTakesadvantageof youdoesn'tlike yourfamilydemandsall ofyour timemanipulativemakesyou doubtyoursanitySecretivehitsyouLackof trustsubstanceuse orabuse

Relationship Red Flags Bingo CSH - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. O-constantly texting you
  2. N-accuses you of cheating
  3. N-Act “too perfect” in the beginning
  4. N-Controlling
  5. I-accuses you of flirting
  6. I-blames you for everything
  7. G-Hides you from others in their life
  8. O-Physically abusive
  9. B-has no other friends
  10. I-Cheater
  11. I-insulting
  12. I-follows you
  13. N-hurts you
  14. I-demands your passwords
  15. G-major mood swings from happy to angry
  16. G-constantly calling you
  17. N-uses your past against you
  18. G-lack of empathy
  19. N-witholds affection
  20. B-refuses to apologize
  21. B-you feel like you can't be you
  22. B-cheating
  23. O-belittles/makes fun of you
  24. N-threatening
  25. G-unreliable
  26. B-Interrogations about your day
  27. N-throwing things
  28. G-threatens to hurt people you love
  29. I-tells you no one else would want you
  30. B-tells you how to dress
  31. I-calls you names
  32. I-Wants to change you
  33. B-Can’t Forgive
  34. O-feeling nervous or sick when your partner is upset
  35. O-Unpredict-able
  36. N-doesn't care about your goals or dreams
  37. I-checks up on you
  38. G-they only talk about themselves
  39. N-doesn't care about your feelings
  40. O-ignores you
  41. G-Fits of rage
  42. O-Extreme jealousy
  43. I-Immature
  44. G-criticizing
  45. N-reads your texts
  46. B-does not treat you as an equal
  47. B-threatens to hurt themselves because of you
  48. O-uses silent treatment as punishment
  49. B-Cruel to others
  50. I-Never Apologize
  51. N-makes you check in when out with friends
  52. G-checks the history on your phone
  53. O-intolerant of opposing views
  54. B-Disrespectful
  55. O-makes all of the decisions
  56. I-makes you feel afraid
  57. N-Insult you or put you down
  58. G-you don't feel emotionally safe
  59. B-tries to isolate you from your friends
  60. B-Verbally Abusive
  61. I-Guilt tripping
  62. O-makes you feel TRAPPED
  63. B-Lies
  64. O-hates your friends
  65. N-pressure you to do things you don't want to
  66. O-Lack of compromise
  67. O-you don't feel physically safe
  68. O-Easy to anger
  69. G-afraid to express your feelings
  70. B-Angry
  71. N-Denying their behavior
  72. G-family & friends dislike this person
  73. O-speaks poorly of you to their friends
  74. B-Takes advantage of you
  75. I-doesn't like your family
  76. B-demands all of your time
  77. G-manipulative
  78. N-makes you doubt your sanity
  79. G-Secretive
  80. G-hits you
  81. G-Lack of trust
  82. I-substance use or abuse