they onlytalk aboutthemselvesImmatureEasy toangerExtremejealousyyou feellike youcan't beyouSecretiveCheatermakesall of thedecisionsControllingintolerantofopposingviewsmakesyou feelTRAPPEDinsultingAngrymanipulativemakesyou feelafraiddoesn'tcare aboutyour goalsor dreamsyou don'tfeelemotionallysafetries toisolate youfrom yourfriendsdemandsall ofyour timeblamesyou foreverythingrefusestoapologizeCrueltoothersconstantlycallingyouTakesadvantageof youbelittles/makesfun of youtells youhow todressUnpredict-ablecriticizingFits ofrageyou don'tfeelphysicallysafedemandsyourpasswordsfollowsyoumakesyou doubtyoursanityfeelingnervous orsick whenyour partneris upsetCan’tForgivecheatingthreateningNeverApologizeLieshitsyouDisrespectfulGuilttrippingAct “tooperfect” inthebeginningcallsyounamesignoresyouhurtsyousubstanceuse orabusepressure youto do thingsyou don'twant tofamily &friendsdislike thispersontells youno oneelse wouldwant youchecksthe historyon yourphoneHides youfromothers intheir lifeaccusesyou ofcheatingspeakspoorly ofyou to theirfriendsPhysicallyabusiveuses silenttreatmentaspunishmentdoesn'tlike yourfamilyDenyingtheirbehaviorWants tochangeyoudoes nottreat youas anequalInsult youor putyou downmajor moodswings fromhappy toangrythreatens tohurtthemselvesbecause ofyouVerballyAbusivemakes youcheck inwhen outwith friendsreadsyourtextshas nootherfriendslack ofempathychecksup onyouthrowingthingswitholdsaffectionuses yourpastagainstyouLackof trustconstantlytextingyouunreliableaccusesyou offlirtingLack ofcompromiseInterrogationsabout yourdayafraid toexpressyourfeelingshatesyourfriendsthreatensto hurtpeopleyou lovedoesn'tcare aboutyourfeelingsthey onlytalk aboutthemselvesImmatureEasy toangerExtremejealousyyou feellike youcan't beyouSecretiveCheatermakesall of thedecisionsControllingintolerantofopposingviewsmakesyou feelTRAPPEDinsultingAngrymanipulativemakesyou feelafraiddoesn'tcare aboutyour goalsor dreamsyou don'tfeelemotionallysafetries toisolate youfrom yourfriendsdemandsall ofyour timeblamesyou foreverythingrefusestoapologizeCrueltoothersconstantlycallingyouTakesadvantageof youbelittles/makesfun of youtells youhow todressUnpredict-ablecriticizingFits ofrageyou don'tfeelphysicallysafedemandsyourpasswordsfollowsyoumakesyou doubtyoursanityfeelingnervous orsick whenyour partneris upsetCan’tForgivecheatingthreateningNeverApologizeLieshitsyouDisrespectfulGuilttrippingAct “tooperfect” inthebeginningcallsyounamesignoresyouhurtsyousubstanceuse orabusepressure youto do thingsyou don'twant tofamily &friendsdislike thispersontells youno oneelse wouldwant youchecksthe historyon yourphoneHides youfromothers intheir lifeaccusesyou ofcheatingspeakspoorly ofyou to theirfriendsPhysicallyabusiveuses silenttreatmentaspunishmentdoesn'tlike yourfamilyDenyingtheirbehaviorWants tochangeyoudoes nottreat youas anequalInsult youor putyou downmajor moodswings fromhappy toangrythreatens tohurtthemselvesbecause ofyouVerballyAbusivemakes youcheck inwhen outwith friendsreadsyourtextshas nootherfriendslack ofempathychecksup onyouthrowingthingswitholdsaffectionuses yourpastagainstyouLackof trustconstantlytextingyouunreliableaccusesyou offlirtingLack ofcompromiseInterrogationsabout yourdayafraid toexpressyourfeelingshatesyourfriendsthreatensto hurtpeopleyou lovedoesn'tcare aboutyourfeelings

Relationship Red Flags Bingo CSH - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. G-they only talk about themselves
  2. I-Immature
  3. O-Easy to anger
  4. O-Extreme jealousy
  5. B-you feel like you can't be you
  6. G-Secretive
  7. I-Cheater
  8. O-makes all of the decisions
  9. N-Controlling
  10. O-intolerant of opposing views
  11. O-makes you feel TRAPPED
  12. I-insulting
  13. B-Angry
  14. G-manipulative
  15. I-makes you feel afraid
  16. N-doesn't care about your goals or dreams
  17. G-you don't feel emotionally safe
  18. B-tries to isolate you from your friends
  19. B-demands all of your time
  20. I-blames you for everything
  21. B-refuses to apologize
  22. B-Cruel to others
  23. G-constantly calling you
  24. B-Takes advantage of you
  25. O-belittles/makes fun of you
  26. B-tells you how to dress
  27. O-Unpredict-able
  28. G-criticizing
  29. G-Fits of rage
  30. O-you don't feel physically safe
  31. I-demands your passwords
  32. I-follows you
  33. N-makes you doubt your sanity
  34. O-feeling nervous or sick when your partner is upset
  35. B-Can’t Forgive
  36. B-cheating
  37. N-threatening
  38. I-Never Apologize
  39. B-Lies
  40. G-hits you
  41. B-Disrespectful
  42. I-Guilt tripping
  43. N-Act “too perfect” in the beginning
  44. I-calls you names
  45. O-ignores you
  46. N-hurts you
  47. I-substance use or abuse
  48. N-pressure you to do things you don't want to
  49. G-family & friends dislike this person
  50. I-tells you no one else would want you
  51. G-checks the history on your phone
  52. G-Hides you from others in their life
  53. N-accuses you of cheating
  54. O-speaks poorly of you to their friends
  55. O-Physically abusive
  56. O-uses silent treatment as punishment
  57. I-doesn't like your family
  58. N-Denying their behavior
  59. I-Wants to change you
  60. B-does not treat you as an equal
  61. N-Insult you or put you down
  62. G-major mood swings from happy to angry
  63. B-threatens to hurt themselves because of you
  64. B-Verbally Abusive
  65. N-makes you check in when out with friends
  66. N-reads your texts
  67. B-has no other friends
  68. G-lack of empathy
  69. I-checks up on you
  70. N-throwing things
  71. N-witholds affection
  72. N-uses your past against you
  73. G-Lack of trust
  74. O-constantly texting you
  75. G-unreliable
  76. I-accuses you of flirting
  77. O-Lack of compromise
  78. B-Interrogations about your day
  79. G-afraid to express your feelings
  80. O-hates your friends
  81. G-threatens to hurt people you love
  82. N-doesn't care about your feelings