does nottreat youas anequalthey onlytalk aboutthemselveshas nootherfriendsunreliablechecksthe historyon yourphonepressure youto do thingsyou don'twant tothreatensto hurtpeopleyou loveconstantlycallingyouWants tochangeyouLack ofcompromiseconstantlytextingyoublamesyou foreverythingfamily &friendsdislike thispersondoesn'tlike yourfamilychecksup onyouaccusesyou offlirtingCan’tForgivemakesall of thedecisionsrefusestoapologizeaccusesyou ofcheatingyou feellike youcan't beyouhatesyourfriendsImmatureLackof trustafraid toexpressyourfeelingsInterrogationsabout yourdayFits ofragedoesn'tcare aboutyourfeelingsdemandsall ofyour timedoesn'tcare aboutyour goalsor dreamsInsult youor putyou downuses yourpastagainstyouinsultingCrueltoothersreadsyourtextstries toisolate youfrom yourfriendsfollowsyouAngrymakesyou feelafraidtells youhow todressTakesadvantageof youmakesyou doubtyoursanityPhysicallyabusiveControllingmakesyou feelTRAPPEDhurtsyouintolerantofopposingviewsNeverApologizeEasy toangerlack ofempathyignoresyouUnpredict-ablecriticizingwitholdsaffectionspeakspoorly ofyou to theirfriendsmakes youcheck inwhen outwith friendsAct “tooperfect” inthebeginningthreateningDenyingtheirbehaviorSecretivecheatingbelittles/makesfun of youtells youno oneelse wouldwant youthrowingthingsdemandsyourpasswordsyou don'tfeelemotionallysafeDisrespectfulCheaterLiessubstanceuse orabuseuses silenttreatmentaspunishmentmajor moodswings fromhappy toangryVerballyAbusivecallsyounamesfeelingnervous orsick whenyour partneris upsethitsyouExtremejealousyGuilttrippingmanipulativeyou don'tfeelphysicallysafethreatens tohurtthemselvesbecause ofyouHides youfromothers intheir lifedoes nottreat youas anequalthey onlytalk aboutthemselveshas nootherfriendsunreliablechecksthe historyon yourphonepressure youto do thingsyou don'twant tothreatensto hurtpeopleyou loveconstantlycallingyouWants tochangeyouLack ofcompromiseconstantlytextingyoublamesyou foreverythingfamily &friendsdislike thispersondoesn'tlike yourfamilychecksup onyouaccusesyou offlirtingCan’tForgivemakesall of thedecisionsrefusestoapologizeaccusesyou ofcheatingyou feellike youcan't beyouhatesyourfriendsImmatureLackof trustafraid toexpressyourfeelingsInterrogationsabout yourdayFits ofragedoesn'tcare aboutyourfeelingsdemandsall ofyour timedoesn'tcare aboutyour goalsor dreamsInsult youor putyou downuses yourpastagainstyouinsultingCrueltoothersreadsyourtextstries toisolate youfrom yourfriendsfollowsyouAngrymakesyou feelafraidtells youhow todressTakesadvantageof youmakesyou doubtyoursanityPhysicallyabusiveControllingmakesyou feelTRAPPEDhurtsyouintolerantofopposingviewsNeverApologizeEasy toangerlack ofempathyignoresyouUnpredict-ablecriticizingwitholdsaffectionspeakspoorly ofyou to theirfriendsmakes youcheck inwhen outwith friendsAct “tooperfect” inthebeginningthreateningDenyingtheirbehaviorSecretivecheatingbelittles/makesfun of youtells youno oneelse wouldwant youthrowingthingsdemandsyourpasswordsyou don'tfeelemotionallysafeDisrespectfulCheaterLiessubstanceuse orabuseuses silenttreatmentaspunishmentmajor moodswings fromhappy toangryVerballyAbusivecallsyounamesfeelingnervous orsick whenyour partneris upsethitsyouExtremejealousyGuilttrippingmanipulativeyou don'tfeelphysicallysafethreatens tohurtthemselvesbecause ofyouHides youfromothers intheir life

Relationship Red Flags Bingo CSH - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. B-does not treat you as an equal
  2. G-they only talk about themselves
  3. B-has no other friends
  4. G-unreliable
  5. G-checks the history on your phone
  6. N-pressure you to do things you don't want to
  7. G-threatens to hurt people you love
  8. G-constantly calling you
  9. I-Wants to change you
  10. O-Lack of compromise
  11. O-constantly texting you
  12. I-blames you for everything
  13. G-family & friends dislike this person
  14. I-doesn't like your family
  15. I-checks up on you
  16. I-accuses you of flirting
  17. B-Can’t Forgive
  18. O-makes all of the decisions
  19. B-refuses to apologize
  20. N-accuses you of cheating
  21. B-you feel like you can't be you
  22. O-hates your friends
  23. I-Immature
  24. G-Lack of trust
  25. G-afraid to express your feelings
  26. B-Interrogations about your day
  27. G-Fits of rage
  28. N-doesn't care about your feelings
  29. B-demands all of your time
  30. N-doesn't care about your goals or dreams
  31. N-Insult you or put you down
  32. N-uses your past against you
  33. I-insulting
  34. B-Cruel to others
  35. N-reads your texts
  36. B-tries to isolate you from your friends
  37. I-follows you
  38. B-Angry
  39. I-makes you feel afraid
  40. B-tells you how to dress
  41. B-Takes advantage of you
  42. N-makes you doubt your sanity
  43. O-Physically abusive
  44. N-Controlling
  45. O-makes you feel TRAPPED
  46. N-hurts you
  47. O-intolerant of opposing views
  48. I-Never Apologize
  49. O-Easy to anger
  50. G-lack of empathy
  51. O-ignores you
  52. O-Unpredict-able
  53. G-criticizing
  54. N-witholds affection
  55. O-speaks poorly of you to their friends
  56. N-makes you check in when out with friends
  57. N-Act “too perfect” in the beginning
  58. N-threatening
  59. N-Denying their behavior
  60. G-Secretive
  61. B-cheating
  62. O-belittles/makes fun of you
  63. I-tells you no one else would want you
  64. N-throwing things
  65. I-demands your passwords
  66. G-you don't feel emotionally safe
  67. B-Disrespectful
  68. I-Cheater
  69. B-Lies
  70. I-substance use or abuse
  71. O-uses silent treatment as punishment
  72. G-major mood swings from happy to angry
  73. B-Verbally Abusive
  74. I-calls you names
  75. O-feeling nervous or sick when your partner is upset
  76. G-hits you
  77. O-Extreme jealousy
  78. I-Guilt tripping
  79. G-manipulative
  80. O-you don't feel physically safe
  81. B-threatens to hurt themselves because of you
  82. G-Hides you from others in their life