Liesuses silenttreatmentaspunishmentCheaterrefusestoapologizecheatingfollowsyouwitholdsaffectionHides youfromothers intheir lifereadsyourtextsmakesyou feelTRAPPEDignoresyouLackof trustyou feellike youcan't beyoumakes youcheck inwhen outwith friendstells youhow todressDenyingtheirbehaviormanipulativemakesall of thedecisionsUnpredict-abledoesn'tcare aboutyour goalsor dreamshas nootherfriendsspeakspoorly ofyou to theirfriendsblamesyou foreverythingthrowingthingsafraid toexpressyourfeelingscallsyounamesthreatens tohurtthemselvesbecause ofyouWants tochangeyouLack ofcompromisehurtsyoupressure youto do thingsyou don'twant todoesn'tlike yourfamilyhatesyourfriendsCan’tForgivecriticizingInterrogationsabout yourdayuses yourpastagainstyouImmatureunreliablePhysicallyabusiveintolerantofopposingviewsdoes nottreat youas anequalinsultingconstantlycallingyoudemandsyourpasswordsmajor moodswings fromhappy toangryNeverApologizeVerballyAbusiveSecretiveAct “tooperfect” inthebeginningthreatensto hurtpeopleyou loveEasy toangerGuilttrippinghitsyouthey onlytalk aboutthemselvesAngryfamily &friendsdislike thispersonInsult youor putyou downtells youno oneelse wouldwant youmakesyou feelafraidTakesadvantageof youdemandsall ofyour timeyou don'tfeelemotionallysafeCrueltootherssubstanceuse orabusemakesyou doubtyoursanityFits ofragelack ofempathyControllingDisrespectfulconstantlytextingyouchecksthe historyon yourphonechecksup onyouaccusesyou offlirtingyou don'tfeelphysicallysafebelittles/makesfun of youdoesn'tcare aboutyourfeelingsaccusesyou ofcheatingExtremejealousytries toisolate youfrom yourfriendsthreateningfeelingnervous orsick whenyour partneris upsetLiesuses silenttreatmentaspunishmentCheaterrefusestoapologizecheatingfollowsyouwitholdsaffectionHides youfromothers intheir lifereadsyourtextsmakesyou feelTRAPPEDignoresyouLackof trustyou feellike youcan't beyoumakes youcheck inwhen outwith friendstells youhow todressDenyingtheirbehaviormanipulativemakesall of thedecisionsUnpredict-abledoesn'tcare aboutyour goalsor dreamshas nootherfriendsspeakspoorly ofyou to theirfriendsblamesyou foreverythingthrowingthingsafraid toexpressyourfeelingscallsyounamesthreatens tohurtthemselvesbecause ofyouWants tochangeyouLack ofcompromisehurtsyoupressure youto do thingsyou don'twant todoesn'tlike yourfamilyhatesyourfriendsCan’tForgivecriticizingInterrogationsabout yourdayuses yourpastagainstyouImmatureunreliablePhysicallyabusiveintolerantofopposingviewsdoes nottreat youas anequalinsultingconstantlycallingyoudemandsyourpasswordsmajor moodswings fromhappy toangryNeverApologizeVerballyAbusiveSecretiveAct “tooperfect” inthebeginningthreatensto hurtpeopleyou loveEasy toangerGuilttrippinghitsyouthey onlytalk aboutthemselvesAngryfamily &friendsdislike thispersonInsult youor putyou downtells youno oneelse wouldwant youmakesyou feelafraidTakesadvantageof youdemandsall ofyour timeyou don'tfeelemotionallysafeCrueltootherssubstanceuse orabusemakesyou doubtyoursanityFits ofragelack ofempathyControllingDisrespectfulconstantlytextingyouchecksthe historyon yourphonechecksup onyouaccusesyou offlirtingyou don'tfeelphysicallysafebelittles/makesfun of youdoesn'tcare aboutyourfeelingsaccusesyou ofcheatingExtremejealousytries toisolate youfrom yourfriendsthreateningfeelingnervous orsick whenyour partneris upset

Relationship Red Flags Bingo CSH - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. B-Lies
  2. O-uses silent treatment as punishment
  3. I-Cheater
  4. B-refuses to apologize
  5. B-cheating
  6. I-follows you
  7. N-witholds affection
  8. G-Hides you from others in their life
  9. N-reads your texts
  10. O-makes you feel TRAPPED
  11. O-ignores you
  12. G-Lack of trust
  13. B-you feel like you can't be you
  14. N-makes you check in when out with friends
  15. B-tells you how to dress
  16. N-Denying their behavior
  17. G-manipulative
  18. O-makes all of the decisions
  19. O-Unpredict-able
  20. N-doesn't care about your goals or dreams
  21. B-has no other friends
  22. O-speaks poorly of you to their friends
  23. I-blames you for everything
  24. N-throwing things
  25. G-afraid to express your feelings
  26. I-calls you names
  27. B-threatens to hurt themselves because of you
  28. I-Wants to change you
  29. O-Lack of compromise
  30. N-hurts you
  31. N-pressure you to do things you don't want to
  32. I-doesn't like your family
  33. O-hates your friends
  34. B-Can’t Forgive
  35. G-criticizing
  36. B-Interrogations about your day
  37. N-uses your past against you
  38. I-Immature
  39. G-unreliable
  40. O-Physically abusive
  41. O-intolerant of opposing views
  42. B-does not treat you as an equal
  43. I-insulting
  44. G-constantly calling you
  45. I-demands your passwords
  46. G-major mood swings from happy to angry
  47. I-Never Apologize
  48. B-Verbally Abusive
  49. G-Secretive
  50. N-Act “too perfect” in the beginning
  51. G-threatens to hurt people you love
  52. O-Easy to anger
  53. I-Guilt tripping
  54. G-hits you
  55. G-they only talk about themselves
  56. B-Angry
  57. G-family & friends dislike this person
  58. N-Insult you or put you down
  59. I-tells you no one else would want you
  60. I-makes you feel afraid
  61. B-Takes advantage of you
  62. B-demands all of your time
  63. G-you don't feel emotionally safe
  64. B-Cruel to others
  65. I-substance use or abuse
  66. N-makes you doubt your sanity
  67. G-Fits of rage
  68. G-lack of empathy
  69. N-Controlling
  70. B-Disrespectful
  71. O-constantly texting you
  72. G-checks the history on your phone
  73. I-checks up on you
  74. I-accuses you of flirting
  75. O-you don't feel physically safe
  76. O-belittles/makes fun of you
  77. N-doesn't care about your feelings
  78. N-accuses you of cheating
  79. O-Extreme jealousy
  80. B-tries to isolate you from your friends
  81. N-threatening
  82. O-feeling nervous or sick when your partner is upset