unreliable throwing things threatens to hurt people you love Cheater reads your texts substance use or abuse hits you you don't feel emotionally safe insulting feeling nervous or sick when your partner is upset Verbally Abusive you don't feel physically safe pressure you to do things you don't want to Guilt tripping hurts you has no other friends afraid to express your feelings makes all of the decisions Extreme jealousy makes you feel TRAPPED Lack of trust calls you names manipulative Interrogations about your day Immature makes you check in when out with friends uses your past against you threatening ignores you follows you constantly texting you accuses you of cheating accuses you of flirting doesn't care about your feelings Secretive hates your friends belittles/makes fun of you does not treat you as an equal demands your passwords Lies Insult you or put you down Takes advantage of you Hides you from others in their life Unpredict- able witholds affection demands all of your time makes you doubt your sanity cheating tells you how to dress Denying their behavior criticizing tries to isolate you from your friends Never Apologize blames you for everything lack of empathy Act “too perfect” in the beginning intolerant of opposing views Lack of compromise makes you feel afraid they only talk about themselves speaks poorly of you to their friends threatens to hurt themselves because of you Controlling major mood swings from happy to angry refuses to apologize Wants to change you Fits of rage Cruel to others Can’t Forgive constantly calling you Angry Easy to anger doesn't like your family family & friends dislike this person you feel like you can't be you tells you no one else would want you Physically abusive Disrespectful doesn't care about your goals or dreams uses silent treatment as punishment checks up on you checks the history on your phone unreliable throwing things threatens to hurt people you love Cheater reads your texts substance use or abuse hits you you don't feel emotionally safe insulting feeling nervous or sick when your partner is upset Verbally Abusive you don't feel physically safe pressure you to do things you don't want to Guilt tripping hurts you has no other friends afraid to express your feelings makes all of the decisions Extreme jealousy makes you feel TRAPPED Lack of trust calls you names manipulative Interrogations about your day Immature makes you check in when out with friends uses your past against you threatening ignores you follows you constantly texting you accuses you of cheating accuses you of flirting doesn't care about your feelings Secretive hates your friends belittles/makes fun of you does not treat you as an equal demands your passwords Lies Insult you or put you down Takes advantage of you Hides you from others in their life Unpredict- able witholds affection demands all of your time makes you doubt your sanity cheating tells you how to dress Denying their behavior criticizing tries to isolate you from your friends Never Apologize blames you for everything lack of empathy Act “too perfect” in the beginning intolerant of opposing views Lack of compromise makes you feel afraid they only talk about themselves speaks poorly of you to their friends threatens to hurt themselves because of you Controlling major mood swings from happy to angry refuses to apologize Wants to change you Fits of rage Cruel to others Can’t Forgive constantly calling you Angry Easy to anger doesn't like your family family & friends dislike this person you feel like you can't be you tells you no one else would want you Physically abusive Disrespectful doesn't care about your goals or dreams uses silent treatment as punishment checks up on you checks the history on your phone
(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
G-unreliable
N-throwing things
G-threatens to hurt people you love
I-Cheater
N-reads your texts
I-substance use or abuse
G-hits you
G-you don't feel emotionally safe
I-insulting
O-feeling nervous or sick when your partner is upset
B-Verbally Abusive
O-you don't feel physically safe
N-pressure you to do things you don't want to
I-Guilt tripping
N-hurts you
B-has no other friends
G-afraid to express your feelings
O-makes all of the decisions
O-Extreme jealousy
O-makes you feel TRAPPED
G-Lack of trust
I-calls you names
G-manipulative
B-Interrogations about your day
I-Immature
N-makes you check in when out with friends
N-uses your past against you
N-threatening
O-ignores you
I-follows you
O-constantly texting you
N-accuses you of cheating
I-accuses you of flirting
N-doesn't care about your feelings
G-Secretive
O-hates your friends
O-belittles/makes fun of you
B-does not treat you as an equal
I-demands your passwords
B-Lies
N-Insult you or put you down
B-Takes advantage of you
G-Hides you from others in their life
O-Unpredict-able
N-witholds affection
B-demands all of your time
N-makes you doubt your sanity
B-cheating
B-tells you how to dress
N-Denying their behavior
G-criticizing
B-tries to isolate you from your friends
I-Never Apologize
I-blames you for everything
G-lack of empathy
N-Act “too perfect” in the beginning
O-intolerant of opposing views
O-Lack of compromise
I-makes you feel afraid
G-they only talk about themselves
O-speaks poorly of you to their friends
B-threatens to hurt themselves because of you
N-Controlling
G-major mood swings from happy to angry
B-refuses to apologize
I-Wants to change you
G-Fits of rage
B-Cruel to others
B-Can’t Forgive
G-constantly calling you
B-Angry
O-Easy to anger
I-doesn't like your family
G-family & friends dislike this person
B-you feel like you can't be you
I-tells you no one else would want you
O-Physically abusive
B-Disrespectful
N-doesn't care about your goals or dreams
O-uses silent treatment as punishment
I-checks up on you
G-checks the history on your phone