Unpredict-ablethey onlytalk aboutthemselvesyou don'tfeelphysicallysafeaccusesyou ofcheatingdoesn'tcare aboutyour goalsor dreamsVerballyAbusiveInsult youor putyou downPhysicallyabusiveuses silenttreatmentaspunishmentcheatingthreatensto hurtpeopleyou lovethreateningchecksup onyouhurtsyoufamily &friendsdislike thispersonWants tochangeyoudemandsyourpasswordsGuilttrippingHides youfromothers intheir lifethreatens tohurtthemselvesbecause ofyoulack ofempathyAngryblamesyou foreverythingFits ofrageintolerantofopposingviewsmakes youcheck inwhen outwith friendsthrowingthingsLiessubstanceuse orabuseAct “tooperfect” inthebeginningaccusesyou offlirtingCheatermakesyou doubtyoursanityTakesadvantageof youControllingLack ofcompromisepressure youto do thingsyou don'twant toImmatureconstantlytextingyouyou feellike youcan't beyouignoresyoutries toisolate youfrom yourfriendsafraid toexpressyourfeelingsinsultingmakesall of thedecisionsbelittles/makesfun of youtells youno oneelse wouldwant youmanipulativechecksthe historyon yourphoneLackof trustmajor moodswings fromhappy toangryDisrespectfuldoesn'tcare aboutyourfeelingshitsyoumakesyou feelafraidcriticizingyou don'tfeelemotionallysafewitholdsaffectionreadsyourtextsDenyingtheirbehaviorfeelingnervous orsick whenyour partneris upsetSecretivehas nootherfriendsdoes nottreat youas anequalNeverApologizeCan’tForgiveunreliabletells youhow todressspeakspoorly ofyou to theirfriendsdemandsall ofyour timerefusestoapologizedoesn'tlike yourfamilyInterrogationsabout yourdayExtremejealousyuses yourpastagainstyouconstantlycallingyoucallsyounamesCrueltoothersmakesyou feelTRAPPEDEasy toangerhatesyourfriendsfollowsyouUnpredict-ablethey onlytalk aboutthemselvesyou don'tfeelphysicallysafeaccusesyou ofcheatingdoesn'tcare aboutyour goalsor dreamsVerballyAbusiveInsult youor putyou downPhysicallyabusiveuses silenttreatmentaspunishmentcheatingthreatensto hurtpeopleyou lovethreateningchecksup onyouhurtsyoufamily &friendsdislike thispersonWants tochangeyoudemandsyourpasswordsGuilttrippingHides youfromothers intheir lifethreatens tohurtthemselvesbecause ofyoulack ofempathyAngryblamesyou foreverythingFits ofrageintolerantofopposingviewsmakes youcheck inwhen outwith friendsthrowingthingsLiessubstanceuse orabuseAct “tooperfect” inthebeginningaccusesyou offlirtingCheatermakesyou doubtyoursanityTakesadvantageof youControllingLack ofcompromisepressure youto do thingsyou don'twant toImmatureconstantlytextingyouyou feellike youcan't beyouignoresyoutries toisolate youfrom yourfriendsafraid toexpressyourfeelingsinsultingmakesall of thedecisionsbelittles/makesfun of youtells youno oneelse wouldwant youmanipulativechecksthe historyon yourphoneLackof trustmajor moodswings fromhappy toangryDisrespectfuldoesn'tcare aboutyourfeelingshitsyoumakesyou feelafraidcriticizingyou don'tfeelemotionallysafewitholdsaffectionreadsyourtextsDenyingtheirbehaviorfeelingnervous orsick whenyour partneris upsetSecretivehas nootherfriendsdoes nottreat youas anequalNeverApologizeCan’tForgiveunreliabletells youhow todressspeakspoorly ofyou to theirfriendsdemandsall ofyour timerefusestoapologizedoesn'tlike yourfamilyInterrogationsabout yourdayExtremejealousyuses yourpastagainstyouconstantlycallingyoucallsyounamesCrueltoothersmakesyou feelTRAPPEDEasy toangerhatesyourfriendsfollowsyou

Relationship Red Flags Bingo CSH - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. O-Unpredict-able
  2. G-they only talk about themselves
  3. O-you don't feel physically safe
  4. N-accuses you of cheating
  5. N-doesn't care about your goals or dreams
  6. B-Verbally Abusive
  7. N-Insult you or put you down
  8. O-Physically abusive
  9. O-uses silent treatment as punishment
  10. B-cheating
  11. G-threatens to hurt people you love
  12. N-threatening
  13. I-checks up on you
  14. N-hurts you
  15. G-family & friends dislike this person
  16. I-Wants to change you
  17. I-demands your passwords
  18. I-Guilt tripping
  19. G-Hides you from others in their life
  20. B-threatens to hurt themselves because of you
  21. G-lack of empathy
  22. B-Angry
  23. I-blames you for everything
  24. G-Fits of rage
  25. O-intolerant of opposing views
  26. N-makes you check in when out with friends
  27. N-throwing things
  28. B-Lies
  29. I-substance use or abuse
  30. N-Act “too perfect” in the beginning
  31. I-accuses you of flirting
  32. I-Cheater
  33. N-makes you doubt your sanity
  34. B-Takes advantage of you
  35. N-Controlling
  36. O-Lack of compromise
  37. N-pressure you to do things you don't want to
  38. I-Immature
  39. O-constantly texting you
  40. B-you feel like you can't be you
  41. O-ignores you
  42. B-tries to isolate you from your friends
  43. G-afraid to express your feelings
  44. I-insulting
  45. O-makes all of the decisions
  46. O-belittles/makes fun of you
  47. I-tells you no one else would want you
  48. G-manipulative
  49. G-checks the history on your phone
  50. G-Lack of trust
  51. G-major mood swings from happy to angry
  52. B-Disrespectful
  53. N-doesn't care about your feelings
  54. G-hits you
  55. I-makes you feel afraid
  56. G-criticizing
  57. G-you don't feel emotionally safe
  58. N-witholds affection
  59. N-reads your texts
  60. N-Denying their behavior
  61. O-feeling nervous or sick when your partner is upset
  62. G-Secretive
  63. B-has no other friends
  64. B-does not treat you as an equal
  65. I-Never Apologize
  66. B-Can’t Forgive
  67. G-unreliable
  68. B-tells you how to dress
  69. O-speaks poorly of you to their friends
  70. B-demands all of your time
  71. B-refuses to apologize
  72. I-doesn't like your family
  73. B-Interrogations about your day
  74. O-Extreme jealousy
  75. N-uses your past against you
  76. G-constantly calling you
  77. I-calls you names
  78. B-Cruel to others
  79. O-makes you feel TRAPPED
  80. O-Easy to anger
  81. O-hates your friends
  82. I-follows you