demandsall ofyour timerefusestoapologizemakesyou doubtyoursanityyou don'tfeelphysicallysafecheatingreadsyourtextsmajor moodswings fromhappy toangrymakes youcheck inwhen outwith friendsExtremejealousyLiesUnpredict-ableAct “tooperfect” inthebeginningDenyingtheirbehaviorhurtsyouyou feellike youcan't beyoupressure youto do thingsyou don'twant toconstantlytextingyouCheaterwitholdsaffectionthey onlytalk aboutthemselvestells youhow todressfollowsyouTakesadvantageof youCan’tForgivechecksthe historyon yourphoneinsultingthreatens tohurtthemselvesbecause ofyouuses yourpastagainstyouthrowingthingsCrueltoothersconstantlycallingyouhitsyoufeelingnervous orsick whenyour partneris upsetImmaturePhysicallyabusiveintolerantofopposingviewsdoesn'tlike yourfamilytries toisolate youfrom yourfriendsVerballyAbusiveInsult youor putyou downDisrespectfulafraid toexpressyourfeelingshas nootherfriendsSecretivecallsyounamesInterrogationsabout yourdayaccusesyou offlirtingLackof trustthreateningmakesyou feelTRAPPEDdoes nottreat youas anequalchecksup onyouthreatensto hurtpeopleyou loveEasy toangerLack ofcompromisehatesyourfriendsmakesyou feelafraidaccusesyou ofcheatingNeverApologizetells youno oneelse wouldwant youunreliabledoesn'tcare aboutyour goalsor dreamsHides youfromothers intheir lifebelittles/makesfun of youdemandsyourpasswordsAngrydoesn'tcare aboutyourfeelingslack ofempathyblamesyou foreverythingmanipulativeyou don'tfeelemotionallysafeignoresyouspeakspoorly ofyou to theirfriendsGuilttrippingfamily &friendsdislike thispersonuses silenttreatmentaspunishmentmakesall of thedecisionssubstanceuse orabusecriticizingWants tochangeyouFits ofrageControllingdemandsall ofyour timerefusestoapologizemakesyou doubtyoursanityyou don'tfeelphysicallysafecheatingreadsyourtextsmajor moodswings fromhappy toangrymakes youcheck inwhen outwith friendsExtremejealousyLiesUnpredict-ableAct “tooperfect” inthebeginningDenyingtheirbehaviorhurtsyouyou feellike youcan't beyoupressure youto do thingsyou don'twant toconstantlytextingyouCheaterwitholdsaffectionthey onlytalk aboutthemselvestells youhow todressfollowsyouTakesadvantageof youCan’tForgivechecksthe historyon yourphoneinsultingthreatens tohurtthemselvesbecause ofyouuses yourpastagainstyouthrowingthingsCrueltoothersconstantlycallingyouhitsyoufeelingnervous orsick whenyour partneris upsetImmaturePhysicallyabusiveintolerantofopposingviewsdoesn'tlike yourfamilytries toisolate youfrom yourfriendsVerballyAbusiveInsult youor putyou downDisrespectfulafraid toexpressyourfeelingshas nootherfriendsSecretivecallsyounamesInterrogationsabout yourdayaccusesyou offlirtingLackof trustthreateningmakesyou feelTRAPPEDdoes nottreat youas anequalchecksup onyouthreatensto hurtpeopleyou loveEasy toangerLack ofcompromisehatesyourfriendsmakesyou feelafraidaccusesyou ofcheatingNeverApologizetells youno oneelse wouldwant youunreliabledoesn'tcare aboutyour goalsor dreamsHides youfromothers intheir lifebelittles/makesfun of youdemandsyourpasswordsAngrydoesn'tcare aboutyourfeelingslack ofempathyblamesyou foreverythingmanipulativeyou don'tfeelemotionallysafeignoresyouspeakspoorly ofyou to theirfriendsGuilttrippingfamily &friendsdislike thispersonuses silenttreatmentaspunishmentmakesall of thedecisionssubstanceuse orabusecriticizingWants tochangeyouFits ofrageControlling

Relationship Red Flags Bingo CSH - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. B-demands all of your time
  2. B-refuses to apologize
  3. N-makes you doubt your sanity
  4. O-you don't feel physically safe
  5. B-cheating
  6. N-reads your texts
  7. G-major mood swings from happy to angry
  8. N-makes you check in when out with friends
  9. O-Extreme jealousy
  10. B-Lies
  11. O-Unpredict-able
  12. N-Act “too perfect” in the beginning
  13. N-Denying their behavior
  14. N-hurts you
  15. B-you feel like you can't be you
  16. N-pressure you to do things you don't want to
  17. O-constantly texting you
  18. I-Cheater
  19. N-witholds affection
  20. G-they only talk about themselves
  21. B-tells you how to dress
  22. I-follows you
  23. B-Takes advantage of you
  24. B-Can’t Forgive
  25. G-checks the history on your phone
  26. I-insulting
  27. B-threatens to hurt themselves because of you
  28. N-uses your past against you
  29. N-throwing things
  30. B-Cruel to others
  31. G-constantly calling you
  32. G-hits you
  33. O-feeling nervous or sick when your partner is upset
  34. I-Immature
  35. O-Physically abusive
  36. O-intolerant of opposing views
  37. I-doesn't like your family
  38. B-tries to isolate you from your friends
  39. B-Verbally Abusive
  40. N-Insult you or put you down
  41. B-Disrespectful
  42. G-afraid to express your feelings
  43. B-has no other friends
  44. G-Secretive
  45. I-calls you names
  46. B-Interrogations about your day
  47. I-accuses you of flirting
  48. G-Lack of trust
  49. N-threatening
  50. O-makes you feel TRAPPED
  51. B-does not treat you as an equal
  52. I-checks up on you
  53. G-threatens to hurt people you love
  54. O-Easy to anger
  55. O-Lack of compromise
  56. O-hates your friends
  57. I-makes you feel afraid
  58. N-accuses you of cheating
  59. I-Never Apologize
  60. I-tells you no one else would want you
  61. G-unreliable
  62. N-doesn't care about your goals or dreams
  63. G-Hides you from others in their life
  64. O-belittles/makes fun of you
  65. I-demands your passwords
  66. B-Angry
  67. N-doesn't care about your feelings
  68. G-lack of empathy
  69. I-blames you for everything
  70. G-manipulative
  71. G-you don't feel emotionally safe
  72. O-ignores you
  73. O-speaks poorly of you to their friends
  74. I-Guilt tripping
  75. G-family & friends dislike this person
  76. O-uses silent treatment as punishment
  77. O-makes all of the decisions
  78. I-substance use or abuse
  79. G-criticizing
  80. I-Wants to change you
  81. G-Fits of rage
  82. N-Controlling