belittles/makesfun of youAngryVerballyAbusiveControllingmajor moodswings fromhappy toangryintolerantofopposingviewsNeverApologizeignoresyouthrowingthingsblamesyou foreverythingImmaturedoesn'tcare aboutyourfeelingsHides youfromothers intheir lifeGuilttrippingthreateningspeakspoorly ofyou to theirfriendscheatinghitsyoudoesn'tlike yourfamilydoesn'tcare aboutyour goalsor dreamsFits ofragemakesyou feelafraidyou feellike youcan't beyouuses yourpastagainstyouaccusesyou ofcheatingmakesall of thedecisionsuses silenttreatmentaspunishmentrefusestoapologizeInsult youor putyou downpressure youto do thingsyou don'twant toUnpredict-abledoes nottreat youas anequalLiesthey onlytalk aboutthemselvesthreatens tohurtthemselvesbecause ofyouLackof trustmakesyou feelTRAPPEDCheaterInterrogationsabout yourdayTakesadvantageof youWants tochangeyouyou don'tfeelemotionallysafeunreliableyou don'tfeelphysicallysafeafraid toexpressyourfeelingstries toisolate youfrom yourfriendschecksthe historyon yourphonesubstanceuse orabusetells youhow todresswitholdsaffectioninsultingreadsyourtextsfollowsyoudemandsyourpasswordsPhysicallyabusivemanipulativeCrueltootherschecksup onyoufeelingnervous orsick whenyour partneris upsetconstantlytextingyouCan’tForgiveLack ofcompromisehatesyourfriendsmakesyou doubtyoursanityconstantlycallingyouthreatensto hurtpeopleyou loveDenyingtheirbehaviorfamily &friendsdislike thispersonlack ofempathyDisrespectfulExtremejealousycriticizingdemandsall ofyour timetells youno oneelse wouldwant youhurtsyoumakes youcheck inwhen outwith friendsaccusesyou offlirtingEasy toangercallsyounameshas nootherfriendsAct “tooperfect” inthebeginningSecretivebelittles/makesfun of youAngryVerballyAbusiveControllingmajor moodswings fromhappy toangryintolerantofopposingviewsNeverApologizeignoresyouthrowingthingsblamesyou foreverythingImmaturedoesn'tcare aboutyourfeelingsHides youfromothers intheir lifeGuilttrippingthreateningspeakspoorly ofyou to theirfriendscheatinghitsyoudoesn'tlike yourfamilydoesn'tcare aboutyour goalsor dreamsFits ofragemakesyou feelafraidyou feellike youcan't beyouuses yourpastagainstyouaccusesyou ofcheatingmakesall of thedecisionsuses silenttreatmentaspunishmentrefusestoapologizeInsult youor putyou downpressure youto do thingsyou don'twant toUnpredict-abledoes nottreat youas anequalLiesthey onlytalk aboutthemselvesthreatens tohurtthemselvesbecause ofyouLackof trustmakesyou feelTRAPPEDCheaterInterrogationsabout yourdayTakesadvantageof youWants tochangeyouyou don'tfeelemotionallysafeunreliableyou don'tfeelphysicallysafeafraid toexpressyourfeelingstries toisolate youfrom yourfriendschecksthe historyon yourphonesubstanceuse orabusetells youhow todresswitholdsaffectioninsultingreadsyourtextsfollowsyoudemandsyourpasswordsPhysicallyabusivemanipulativeCrueltootherschecksup onyoufeelingnervous orsick whenyour partneris upsetconstantlytextingyouCan’tForgiveLack ofcompromisehatesyourfriendsmakesyou doubtyoursanityconstantlycallingyouthreatensto hurtpeopleyou loveDenyingtheirbehaviorfamily &friendsdislike thispersonlack ofempathyDisrespectfulExtremejealousycriticizingdemandsall ofyour timetells youno oneelse wouldwant youhurtsyoumakes youcheck inwhen outwith friendsaccusesyou offlirtingEasy toangercallsyounameshas nootherfriendsAct “tooperfect” inthebeginningSecretive

Relationship Red Flags Bingo CSH - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. O-belittles/makes fun of you
  2. B-Angry
  3. B-Verbally Abusive
  4. N-Controlling
  5. G-major mood swings from happy to angry
  6. O-intolerant of opposing views
  7. I-Never Apologize
  8. O-ignores you
  9. N-throwing things
  10. I-blames you for everything
  11. I-Immature
  12. N-doesn't care about your feelings
  13. G-Hides you from others in their life
  14. I-Guilt tripping
  15. N-threatening
  16. O-speaks poorly of you to their friends
  17. B-cheating
  18. G-hits you
  19. I-doesn't like your family
  20. N-doesn't care about your goals or dreams
  21. G-Fits of rage
  22. I-makes you feel afraid
  23. B-you feel like you can't be you
  24. N-uses your past against you
  25. N-accuses you of cheating
  26. O-makes all of the decisions
  27. O-uses silent treatment as punishment
  28. B-refuses to apologize
  29. N-Insult you or put you down
  30. N-pressure you to do things you don't want to
  31. O-Unpredict-able
  32. B-does not treat you as an equal
  33. B-Lies
  34. G-they only talk about themselves
  35. B-threatens to hurt themselves because of you
  36. G-Lack of trust
  37. O-makes you feel TRAPPED
  38. I-Cheater
  39. B-Interrogations about your day
  40. B-Takes advantage of you
  41. I-Wants to change you
  42. G-you don't feel emotionally safe
  43. G-unreliable
  44. O-you don't feel physically safe
  45. G-afraid to express your feelings
  46. B-tries to isolate you from your friends
  47. G-checks the history on your phone
  48. I-substance use or abuse
  49. B-tells you how to dress
  50. N-witholds affection
  51. I-insulting
  52. N-reads your texts
  53. I-follows you
  54. I-demands your passwords
  55. O-Physically abusive
  56. G-manipulative
  57. B-Cruel to others
  58. I-checks up on you
  59. O-feeling nervous or sick when your partner is upset
  60. O-constantly texting you
  61. B-Can’t Forgive
  62. O-Lack of compromise
  63. O-hates your friends
  64. N-makes you doubt your sanity
  65. G-constantly calling you
  66. G-threatens to hurt people you love
  67. N-Denying their behavior
  68. G-family & friends dislike this person
  69. G-lack of empathy
  70. B-Disrespectful
  71. O-Extreme jealousy
  72. G-criticizing
  73. B-demands all of your time
  74. I-tells you no one else would want you
  75. N-hurts you
  76. N-makes you check in when out with friends
  77. I-accuses you of flirting
  78. O-Easy to anger
  79. I-calls you names
  80. B-has no other friends
  81. N-Act “too perfect” in the beginning
  82. G-Secretive