Controllingintolerantofopposingviewsignoresyouuses yourpastagainstyoufeelingnervous orsick whenyour partneris upsethas nootherfriendsmakes youcheck inwhen outwith friendspressure youto do thingsyou don'twant toafraid toexpressyourfeelingstells youno oneelse wouldwant youmakesyou doubtyoursanitythey onlytalk aboutthemselvesInterrogationsabout yourdayImmatureLackof trustFits ofrageHides youfromothers intheir lifethrowingthingscallsyounamesyou feellike youcan't beyouWants tochangeyoudoes nottreat youas anequalthreateningchecksup onyouchecksthe historyon yourphoneLiesUnpredict-ableSecretivecriticizingmanipulativeyou don'tfeelemotionallysafelack ofempathyconstantlycallingyoutells youhow todressmakesall of thedecisionsthreatensto hurtpeopleyou lovePhysicallyabusiveconstantlytextingyoucheatingdoesn'tcare aboutyour goalsor dreamsfollowsyouunreliableaccusesyou offlirtinginsultingreadsyourtextsuses silenttreatmentaspunishmentCheaterhurtsyouspeakspoorly ofyou to theirfriendstries toisolate youfrom yourfriendsDenyingtheirbehaviorwitholdsaffectiondemandsall ofyour timehitsyouVerballyAbusivethreatens tohurtthemselvesbecause ofyouEasy toangermakesyou feelTRAPPEDsubstanceuse orabusefamily &friendsdislike thispersonAngryaccusesyou ofcheatingInsult youor putyou downGuilttrippingNeverApologizedemandsyourpasswordshatesyourfriendsCan’tForgiveCrueltoothersrefusestoapologizemakesyou feelafraidmajor moodswings fromhappy toangrybelittles/makesfun of youblamesyou foreverythingAct “tooperfect” inthebeginningTakesadvantageof youDisrespectfuldoesn'tcare aboutyourfeelingsLack ofcompromisedoesn'tlike yourfamilyExtremejealousyyou don'tfeelphysicallysafeControllingintolerantofopposingviewsignoresyouuses yourpastagainstyoufeelingnervous orsick whenyour partneris upsethas nootherfriendsmakes youcheck inwhen outwith friendspressure youto do thingsyou don'twant toafraid toexpressyourfeelingstells youno oneelse wouldwant youmakesyou doubtyoursanitythey onlytalk aboutthemselvesInterrogationsabout yourdayImmatureLackof trustFits ofrageHides youfromothers intheir lifethrowingthingscallsyounamesyou feellike youcan't beyouWants tochangeyoudoes nottreat youas anequalthreateningchecksup onyouchecksthe historyon yourphoneLiesUnpredict-ableSecretivecriticizingmanipulativeyou don'tfeelemotionallysafelack ofempathyconstantlycallingyoutells youhow todressmakesall of thedecisionsthreatensto hurtpeopleyou lovePhysicallyabusiveconstantlytextingyoucheatingdoesn'tcare aboutyour goalsor dreamsfollowsyouunreliableaccusesyou offlirtinginsultingreadsyourtextsuses silenttreatmentaspunishmentCheaterhurtsyouspeakspoorly ofyou to theirfriendstries toisolate youfrom yourfriendsDenyingtheirbehaviorwitholdsaffectiondemandsall ofyour timehitsyouVerballyAbusivethreatens tohurtthemselvesbecause ofyouEasy toangermakesyou feelTRAPPEDsubstanceuse orabusefamily &friendsdislike thispersonAngryaccusesyou ofcheatingInsult youor putyou downGuilttrippingNeverApologizedemandsyourpasswordshatesyourfriendsCan’tForgiveCrueltoothersrefusestoapologizemakesyou feelafraidmajor moodswings fromhappy toangrybelittles/makesfun of youblamesyou foreverythingAct “tooperfect” inthebeginningTakesadvantageof youDisrespectfuldoesn'tcare aboutyourfeelingsLack ofcompromisedoesn'tlike yourfamilyExtremejealousyyou don'tfeelphysicallysafe

Relationship Red Flags Bingo CSH - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. N-Controlling
  2. O-intolerant of opposing views
  3. O-ignores you
  4. N-uses your past against you
  5. O-feeling nervous or sick when your partner is upset
  6. B-has no other friends
  7. N-makes you check in when out with friends
  8. N-pressure you to do things you don't want to
  9. G-afraid to express your feelings
  10. I-tells you no one else would want you
  11. N-makes you doubt your sanity
  12. G-they only talk about themselves
  13. B-Interrogations about your day
  14. I-Immature
  15. G-Lack of trust
  16. G-Fits of rage
  17. G-Hides you from others in their life
  18. N-throwing things
  19. I-calls you names
  20. B-you feel like you can't be you
  21. I-Wants to change you
  22. B-does not treat you as an equal
  23. N-threatening
  24. I-checks up on you
  25. G-checks the history on your phone
  26. B-Lies
  27. O-Unpredict-able
  28. G-Secretive
  29. G-criticizing
  30. G-manipulative
  31. G-you don't feel emotionally safe
  32. G-lack of empathy
  33. G-constantly calling you
  34. B-tells you how to dress
  35. O-makes all of the decisions
  36. G-threatens to hurt people you love
  37. O-Physically abusive
  38. O-constantly texting you
  39. B-cheating
  40. N-doesn't care about your goals or dreams
  41. I-follows you
  42. G-unreliable
  43. I-accuses you of flirting
  44. I-insulting
  45. N-reads your texts
  46. O-uses silent treatment as punishment
  47. I-Cheater
  48. N-hurts you
  49. O-speaks poorly of you to their friends
  50. B-tries to isolate you from your friends
  51. N-Denying their behavior
  52. N-witholds affection
  53. B-demands all of your time
  54. G-hits you
  55. B-Verbally Abusive
  56. B-threatens to hurt themselves because of you
  57. O-Easy to anger
  58. O-makes you feel TRAPPED
  59. I-substance use or abuse
  60. G-family & friends dislike this person
  61. B-Angry
  62. N-accuses you of cheating
  63. N-Insult you or put you down
  64. I-Guilt tripping
  65. I-Never Apologize
  66. I-demands your passwords
  67. O-hates your friends
  68. B-Can’t Forgive
  69. B-Cruel to others
  70. B-refuses to apologize
  71. I-makes you feel afraid
  72. G-major mood swings from happy to angry
  73. O-belittles/makes fun of you
  74. I-blames you for everything
  75. N-Act “too perfect” in the beginning
  76. B-Takes advantage of you
  77. B-Disrespectful
  78. N-doesn't care about your feelings
  79. O-Lack of compromise
  80. I-doesn't like your family
  81. O-Extreme jealousy
  82. O-you don't feel physically safe