Guilttrippingintolerantofopposingviewstells youno oneelse wouldwant youFits ofragechecksup onyoumakesall of thedecisionsuses yourpastagainstyouafraid toexpressyourfeelingsInterrogationsabout yourdayunreliabletells youhow todressmanipulativeTakesadvantageof youNeverApologizeUnpredict-ableignoresyoutries toisolate youfrom yourfriendsdemandsall ofyour timeVerballyAbusivespeakspoorly ofyou to theirfriendsCan’tForgiveblamesyou foreverythingImmatureaccusesyou offlirtingdoesn'tlike yourfamilyDisrespectfulreadsyourtextscallsyounamesdoesn'tcare aboutyour goalsor dreamsfamily &friendsdislike thispersonWants tochangeyouCrueltoothersLack ofcompromiseinsultingyou don'tfeelemotionallysafefollowsyouExtremejealousyCheatersubstanceuse orabusepressure youto do thingsyou don'twant toAct “tooperfect” inthebeginningInsult youor putyou downhatesyourfriendsSecretivedoes nottreat youas anequalLackof trustHides youfromothers intheir lifemakes youcheck inwhen outwith friendsmajor moodswings fromhappy toangryhitsyouPhysicallyabusivethreateninglack ofempathycheatingthreatens tohurtthemselvesbecause ofyoucriticizingEasy toangerwitholdsaffectionuses silenttreatmentaspunishmentmakesyou feelafraidhurtsyoubelittles/makesfun of youconstantlytextingyouhas nootherfriendsLiesmakesyou feelTRAPPEDthey onlytalk aboutthemselvesdoesn'tcare aboutyourfeelingsfeelingnervous orsick whenyour partneris upsetAngryaccusesyou ofcheatingControllingmakesyou doubtyoursanitydemandsyourpasswordsyou don'tfeelphysicallysafethreatensto hurtpeopleyou loverefusestoapologizethrowingthingsDenyingtheirbehavioryou feellike youcan't beyouchecksthe historyon yourphoneconstantlycallingyouGuilttrippingintolerantofopposingviewstells youno oneelse wouldwant youFits ofragechecksup onyoumakesall of thedecisionsuses yourpastagainstyouafraid toexpressyourfeelingsInterrogationsabout yourdayunreliabletells youhow todressmanipulativeTakesadvantageof youNeverApologizeUnpredict-ableignoresyoutries toisolate youfrom yourfriendsdemandsall ofyour timeVerballyAbusivespeakspoorly ofyou to theirfriendsCan’tForgiveblamesyou foreverythingImmatureaccusesyou offlirtingdoesn'tlike yourfamilyDisrespectfulreadsyourtextscallsyounamesdoesn'tcare aboutyour goalsor dreamsfamily &friendsdislike thispersonWants tochangeyouCrueltoothersLack ofcompromiseinsultingyou don'tfeelemotionallysafefollowsyouExtremejealousyCheatersubstanceuse orabusepressure youto do thingsyou don'twant toAct “tooperfect” inthebeginningInsult youor putyou downhatesyourfriendsSecretivedoes nottreat youas anequalLackof trustHides youfromothers intheir lifemakes youcheck inwhen outwith friendsmajor moodswings fromhappy toangryhitsyouPhysicallyabusivethreateninglack ofempathycheatingthreatens tohurtthemselvesbecause ofyoucriticizingEasy toangerwitholdsaffectionuses silenttreatmentaspunishmentmakesyou feelafraidhurtsyoubelittles/makesfun of youconstantlytextingyouhas nootherfriendsLiesmakesyou feelTRAPPEDthey onlytalk aboutthemselvesdoesn'tcare aboutyourfeelingsfeelingnervous orsick whenyour partneris upsetAngryaccusesyou ofcheatingControllingmakesyou doubtyoursanitydemandsyourpasswordsyou don'tfeelphysicallysafethreatensto hurtpeopleyou loverefusestoapologizethrowingthingsDenyingtheirbehavioryou feellike youcan't beyouchecksthe historyon yourphoneconstantlycallingyou

Relationship Red Flags Bingo CSH - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. I-Guilt tripping
  2. O-intolerant of opposing views
  3. I-tells you no one else would want you
  4. G-Fits of rage
  5. I-checks up on you
  6. O-makes all of the decisions
  7. N-uses your past against you
  8. G-afraid to express your feelings
  9. B-Interrogations about your day
  10. G-unreliable
  11. B-tells you how to dress
  12. G-manipulative
  13. B-Takes advantage of you
  14. I-Never Apologize
  15. O-Unpredict-able
  16. O-ignores you
  17. B-tries to isolate you from your friends
  18. B-demands all of your time
  19. B-Verbally Abusive
  20. O-speaks poorly of you to their friends
  21. B-Can’t Forgive
  22. I-blames you for everything
  23. I-Immature
  24. I-accuses you of flirting
  25. I-doesn't like your family
  26. B-Disrespectful
  27. N-reads your texts
  28. I-calls you names
  29. N-doesn't care about your goals or dreams
  30. G-family & friends dislike this person
  31. I-Wants to change you
  32. B-Cruel to others
  33. O-Lack of compromise
  34. I-insulting
  35. G-you don't feel emotionally safe
  36. I-follows you
  37. O-Extreme jealousy
  38. I-Cheater
  39. I-substance use or abuse
  40. N-pressure you to do things you don't want to
  41. N-Act “too perfect” in the beginning
  42. N-Insult you or put you down
  43. O-hates your friends
  44. G-Secretive
  45. B-does not treat you as an equal
  46. G-Lack of trust
  47. G-Hides you from others in their life
  48. N-makes you check in when out with friends
  49. G-major mood swings from happy to angry
  50. G-hits you
  51. O-Physically abusive
  52. N-threatening
  53. G-lack of empathy
  54. B-cheating
  55. B-threatens to hurt themselves because of you
  56. G-criticizing
  57. O-Easy to anger
  58. N-witholds affection
  59. O-uses silent treatment as punishment
  60. I-makes you feel afraid
  61. N-hurts you
  62. O-belittles/makes fun of you
  63. O-constantly texting you
  64. B-has no other friends
  65. B-Lies
  66. O-makes you feel TRAPPED
  67. G-they only talk about themselves
  68. N-doesn't care about your feelings
  69. O-feeling nervous or sick when your partner is upset
  70. B-Angry
  71. N-accuses you of cheating
  72. N-Controlling
  73. N-makes you doubt your sanity
  74. I-demands your passwords
  75. O-you don't feel physically safe
  76. G-threatens to hurt people you love
  77. B-refuses to apologize
  78. N-throwing things
  79. N-Denying their behavior
  80. B-you feel like you can't be you
  81. G-checks the history on your phone
  82. G-constantly calling you