checksthe historyon yourphonedoesn'tcare aboutyourfeelingsInterrogationsabout yourdayintolerantofopposingviewsDisrespectfulyou feellike youcan't beyoucriticizingconstantlytextingyouImmatureLackof trustyou don'tfeelphysicallysafetries toisolate youfrom yourfriendsControllingAngryExtremejealousyinsultingchecksup onyouyou don'tfeelemotionallysafeSecretivethey onlytalk aboutthemselvesHides youfromothers intheir liferefusestoapologizespeakspoorly ofyou to theirfriendsEasy toangerthreateningthreatens tohurtthemselvesbecause ofyouInsult youor putyou downfamily &friendsdislike thispersonmajor moodswings fromhappy toangryuses yourpastagainstyouCan’tForgivedoes nottreat youas anequalUnpredict-ableunreliabledemandsyourpasswordshurtsyoudoesn'tcare aboutyour goalsor dreamsconstantlycallingyouNeverApologizeuses silenttreatmentaspunishmentbelittles/makesfun of youPhysicallyabusivepressure youto do thingsyou don'twant toTakesadvantageof youDenyingtheirbehaviorwitholdsaffectiondemandsall ofyour timefollowsyouthrowingthingsGuilttrippingFits ofrageAct “tooperfect” inthebeginningmakes youcheck inwhen outwith friendshatesyourfriendsaccusesyou offlirtingLack ofcompromisemakesyou feelTRAPPEDhas nootherfriendstells youno oneelse wouldwant youreadsyourtextshitsyouignoresyouCrueltootherslack ofempathycheatingmakesall of thedecisionstells youhow todressthreatensto hurtpeopleyou loveblamesyou foreverythingsubstanceuse orabuseLiesWants tochangeyouCheaterfeelingnervous orsick whenyour partneris upsetmanipulativedoesn'tlike yourfamilymakesyou doubtyoursanitymakesyou feelafraidVerballyAbusiveaccusesyou ofcheatingafraid toexpressyourfeelingscallsyounameschecksthe historyon yourphonedoesn'tcare aboutyourfeelingsInterrogationsabout yourdayintolerantofopposingviewsDisrespectfulyou feellike youcan't beyoucriticizingconstantlytextingyouImmatureLackof trustyou don'tfeelphysicallysafetries toisolate youfrom yourfriendsControllingAngryExtremejealousyinsultingchecksup onyouyou don'tfeelemotionallysafeSecretivethey onlytalk aboutthemselvesHides youfromothers intheir liferefusestoapologizespeakspoorly ofyou to theirfriendsEasy toangerthreateningthreatens tohurtthemselvesbecause ofyouInsult youor putyou downfamily &friendsdislike thispersonmajor moodswings fromhappy toangryuses yourpastagainstyouCan’tForgivedoes nottreat youas anequalUnpredict-ableunreliabledemandsyourpasswordshurtsyoudoesn'tcare aboutyour goalsor dreamsconstantlycallingyouNeverApologizeuses silenttreatmentaspunishmentbelittles/makesfun of youPhysicallyabusivepressure youto do thingsyou don'twant toTakesadvantageof youDenyingtheirbehaviorwitholdsaffectiondemandsall ofyour timefollowsyouthrowingthingsGuilttrippingFits ofrageAct “tooperfect” inthebeginningmakes youcheck inwhen outwith friendshatesyourfriendsaccusesyou offlirtingLack ofcompromisemakesyou feelTRAPPEDhas nootherfriendstells youno oneelse wouldwant youreadsyourtextshitsyouignoresyouCrueltootherslack ofempathycheatingmakesall of thedecisionstells youhow todressthreatensto hurtpeopleyou loveblamesyou foreverythingsubstanceuse orabuseLiesWants tochangeyouCheaterfeelingnervous orsick whenyour partneris upsetmanipulativedoesn'tlike yourfamilymakesyou doubtyoursanitymakesyou feelafraidVerballyAbusiveaccusesyou ofcheatingafraid toexpressyourfeelingscallsyounames

Relationship Red Flags Bingo CSH - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. G-checks the history on your phone
  2. N-doesn't care about your feelings
  3. B-Interrogations about your day
  4. O-intolerant of opposing views
  5. B-Disrespectful
  6. B-you feel like you can't be you
  7. G-criticizing
  8. O-constantly texting you
  9. I-Immature
  10. G-Lack of trust
  11. O-you don't feel physically safe
  12. B-tries to isolate you from your friends
  13. N-Controlling
  14. B-Angry
  15. O-Extreme jealousy
  16. I-insulting
  17. I-checks up on you
  18. G-you don't feel emotionally safe
  19. G-Secretive
  20. G-they only talk about themselves
  21. G-Hides you from others in their life
  22. B-refuses to apologize
  23. O-speaks poorly of you to their friends
  24. O-Easy to anger
  25. N-threatening
  26. B-threatens to hurt themselves because of you
  27. N-Insult you or put you down
  28. G-family & friends dislike this person
  29. G-major mood swings from happy to angry
  30. N-uses your past against you
  31. B-Can’t Forgive
  32. B-does not treat you as an equal
  33. O-Unpredict-able
  34. G-unreliable
  35. I-demands your passwords
  36. N-hurts you
  37. N-doesn't care about your goals or dreams
  38. G-constantly calling you
  39. I-Never Apologize
  40. O-uses silent treatment as punishment
  41. O-belittles/makes fun of you
  42. O-Physically abusive
  43. N-pressure you to do things you don't want to
  44. B-Takes advantage of you
  45. N-Denying their behavior
  46. N-witholds affection
  47. B-demands all of your time
  48. I-follows you
  49. N-throwing things
  50. I-Guilt tripping
  51. G-Fits of rage
  52. N-Act “too perfect” in the beginning
  53. N-makes you check in when out with friends
  54. O-hates your friends
  55. I-accuses you of flirting
  56. O-Lack of compromise
  57. O-makes you feel TRAPPED
  58. B-has no other friends
  59. I-tells you no one else would want you
  60. N-reads your texts
  61. G-hits you
  62. O-ignores you
  63. B-Cruel to others
  64. G-lack of empathy
  65. B-cheating
  66. O-makes all of the decisions
  67. B-tells you how to dress
  68. G-threatens to hurt people you love
  69. I-blames you for everything
  70. I-substance use or abuse
  71. B-Lies
  72. I-Wants to change you
  73. I-Cheater
  74. O-feeling nervous or sick when your partner is upset
  75. G-manipulative
  76. I-doesn't like your family
  77. N-makes you doubt your sanity
  78. I-makes you feel afraid
  79. B-Verbally Abusive
  80. N-accuses you of cheating
  81. G-afraid to express your feelings
  82. I-calls you names