Physicallyabusiveaccusesyou offlirtingreadsyourtextsDenyingtheirbehaviordemandsyourpasswordsLack ofcompromisechecksup onyoutells youhow todressdoesn'tlike yourfamilyNeverApologizeinsultingcheatinghatesyourfriendsaccusesyou ofcheatingdoesn'tcare aboutyourfeelingssubstanceuse orabusecriticizingGuilttrippinghitsyouunreliableuses yourpastagainstyoudoesn'tcare aboutyour goalsor dreamsyou don'tfeelphysicallysafelack ofempathymakes feellike I'mwalking onegg shellsfamily &friendsdislike thispersonmajor moodswings fromhappy toangrythreatens tohurtthemselvesbecause ofyoublamesyou foreverythingfollowsyouSecretivecallsyounamesthrowingthingsmakesyou feelafraidbelittles/makesfun of youspeakspoorly ofyou to theirfriendshurtsyouFits ofrageafraid toexpressyourfeelingsmakesyou doubtyoursanitythey onlytalk aboutthemselvesInsult youor putyou downchecksthe historyon yourphonehas nootherfriendsVerballyAbusiveEasy toangerAngryHides youfromothers intheir lifeignoresyouCrueltootherspressure youto do thingsyou don'twant toControllingDisrespectfulUnpredict-ablerefusestoapologizetries toisolate youfrom yourfriendsconstantlycallingyouwitholdsaffectionAct “tooperfect” inthebeginningmakes youcheck inwhen outwith friendsuses silenttreatmentaspunishmentCan’tForgiveTakesadvantageof youImmatureInterrogationsabout yourdayintolerantofopposingviewsLackof trustmakesyou feelTRAPPEDconstantlytextingyouLiesthreateningmanipulativemakesall of thedecisionsCheatertells youno oneelse wouldwant youfeelingnervous orsick whenyour partneris upsetExtremejealousyWants tochangeyoudemandsall ofyour timethreatensto hurtpeopleyou lovedoes nottreat youas anequalyou feellike youcan't beyouyou don'tfeelemotionallysafePhysicallyabusiveaccusesyou offlirtingreadsyourtextsDenyingtheirbehaviordemandsyourpasswordsLack ofcompromisechecksup onyoutells youhow todressdoesn'tlike yourfamilyNeverApologizeinsultingcheatinghatesyourfriendsaccusesyou ofcheatingdoesn'tcare aboutyourfeelingssubstanceuse orabusecriticizingGuilttrippinghitsyouunreliableuses yourpastagainstyoudoesn'tcare aboutyour goalsor dreamsyou don'tfeelphysicallysafelack ofempathymakes feellike I'mwalking onegg shellsfamily &friendsdislike thispersonmajor moodswings fromhappy toangrythreatens tohurtthemselvesbecause ofyoublamesyou foreverythingfollowsyouSecretivecallsyounamesthrowingthingsmakesyou feelafraidbelittles/makesfun of youspeakspoorly ofyou to theirfriendshurtsyouFits ofrageafraid toexpressyourfeelingsmakesyou doubtyoursanitythey onlytalk aboutthemselvesInsult youor putyou downchecksthe historyon yourphonehas nootherfriendsVerballyAbusiveEasy toangerAngryHides youfromothers intheir lifeignoresyouCrueltootherspressure youto do thingsyou don'twant toControllingDisrespectfulUnpredict-ablerefusestoapologizetries toisolate youfrom yourfriendsconstantlycallingyouwitholdsaffectionAct “tooperfect” inthebeginningmakes youcheck inwhen outwith friendsuses silenttreatmentaspunishmentCan’tForgiveTakesadvantageof youImmatureInterrogationsabout yourdayintolerantofopposingviewsLackof trustmakesyou feelTRAPPEDconstantlytextingyouLiesthreateningmanipulativemakesall of thedecisionsCheatertells youno oneelse wouldwant youfeelingnervous orsick whenyour partneris upsetExtremejealousyWants tochangeyoudemandsall ofyour timethreatensto hurtpeopleyou lovedoes nottreat youas anequalyou feellike youcan't beyouyou don'tfeelemotionallysafe

Relationship Red Flags Bingo CSH - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. O-Physically abusive
  2. I-accuses you of flirting
  3. N-reads your texts
  4. N-Denying their behavior
  5. I-demands your passwords
  6. O-Lack of compromise
  7. I-checks up on you
  8. B-tells you how to dress
  9. I-doesn't like your family
  10. I-Never Apologize
  11. I-insulting
  12. B-cheating
  13. O-hates your friends
  14. N-accuses you of cheating
  15. N-doesn't care about your feelings
  16. I-substance use or abuse
  17. G-criticizing
  18. I-Guilt tripping
  19. G-hits you
  20. G-unreliable
  21. N-uses your past against you
  22. N-doesn't care about your goals or dreams
  23. O-you don't feel physically safe
  24. G-lack of empathy
  25. I-makes feel like I'm walking on egg shells
  26. G-family & friends dislike this person
  27. G-major mood swings from happy to angry
  28. B-threatens to hurt themselves because of you
  29. I-blames you for everything
  30. I-follows you
  31. G-Secretive
  32. I-calls you names
  33. N-throwing things
  34. I-makes you feel afraid
  35. O-belittles/makes fun of you
  36. O-speaks poorly of you to their friends
  37. N-hurts you
  38. G-Fits of rage
  39. G-afraid to express your feelings
  40. N-makes you doubt your sanity
  41. G-they only talk about themselves
  42. N-Insult you or put you down
  43. G-checks the history on your phone
  44. B-has no other friends
  45. B-Verbally Abusive
  46. O-Easy to anger
  47. B-Angry
  48. G-Hides you from others in their life
  49. O-ignores you
  50. B-Cruel to others
  51. N-pressure you to do things you don't want to
  52. N-Controlling
  53. B-Disrespectful
  54. O-Unpredict-able
  55. B-refuses to apologize
  56. B-tries to isolate you from your friends
  57. G-constantly calling you
  58. N-witholds affection
  59. N-Act “too perfect” in the beginning
  60. N-makes you check in when out with friends
  61. O-uses silent treatment as punishment
  62. B-Can’t Forgive
  63. B-Takes advantage of you
  64. I-Immature
  65. B-Interrogations about your day
  66. O-intolerant of opposing views
  67. G-Lack of trust
  68. O-makes you feel TRAPPED
  69. O-constantly texting you
  70. B-Lies
  71. N-threatening
  72. G-manipulative
  73. O-makes all of the decisions
  74. I-Cheater
  75. I-tells you no one else would want you
  76. O-feeling nervous or sick when your partner is upset
  77. O-Extreme jealousy
  78. I-Wants to change you
  79. B-demands all of your time
  80. G-threatens to hurt people you love
  81. B-does not treat you as an equal
  82. B-you feel like you can't be you
  83. G-you don't feel emotionally safe