uses yourpastagainstyoumakesyou doubtyoursanitydoes nottreat youas anequalVerballyAbusiveyou don'tfeelemotionallysafecriticizingconstantlycallingyouControllingyou don'tfeelphysicallysafethreatensto hurtpeopleyou loveInterrogationsabout yourdaymanipulativedoesn'tlike yourfamilySecretivemakesyou feelafraiddoesn'tcare aboutyour goalsor dreamsmakesall of thedecisionsUnpredict-ableyou feellike youcan't beyouintolerantofopposingviewsunreliableuses silenttreatmentaspunishmentinsultingwitholdsaffectionafraid toexpressyourfeelingsDisrespectfuldemandsall ofyour timetries toisolate youfrom yourfriendsconstantlytextingyoumakes youcheck inwhen outwith friendsignoresyouCrueltootherssubstanceuse orabusecheatingCheaterhatesyourfriendsEasy toangerchecksup onyouDenyingtheirbehaviorPhysicallyabusiveCan’tForgiveLackof trusttells youno oneelse wouldwant youTakesadvantageof youtells youhow todressWants tochangeyouAngrycallsyounamesNeverApologizemakesyou feelTRAPPEDInsult youor putyou downthreateningHides youfromothers intheir lifefeelingnervous orsick whenyour partneris upsetblamesyou foreverythingAct “tooperfect” inthebeginningpressure youto do thingsyou don'twant toImmaturerefusestoapologizechecksthe historyon yourphonemakes feellike I'mwalking onegg shellsreadsyourtextsLiesaccusesyou offlirtingExtremejealousyaccusesyou ofcheatinglack ofempathyspeakspoorly ofyou to theirfriendsfamily &friendsdislike thispersonfollowsyouhitsyouGuilttrippingdemandsyourpasswordsmajor moodswings fromhappy toangrybelittles/makesfun of youthrowingthingshurtsyouhas nootherfriendsLack ofcompromisethey onlytalk aboutthemselvesFits ofragedoesn'tcare aboutyourfeelingsthreatens tohurtthemselvesbecause ofyouuses yourpastagainstyoumakesyou doubtyoursanitydoes nottreat youas anequalVerballyAbusiveyou don'tfeelemotionallysafecriticizingconstantlycallingyouControllingyou don'tfeelphysicallysafethreatensto hurtpeopleyou loveInterrogationsabout yourdaymanipulativedoesn'tlike yourfamilySecretivemakesyou feelafraiddoesn'tcare aboutyour goalsor dreamsmakesall of thedecisionsUnpredict-ableyou feellike youcan't beyouintolerantofopposingviewsunreliableuses silenttreatmentaspunishmentinsultingwitholdsaffectionafraid toexpressyourfeelingsDisrespectfuldemandsall ofyour timetries toisolate youfrom yourfriendsconstantlytextingyoumakes youcheck inwhen outwith friendsignoresyouCrueltootherssubstanceuse orabusecheatingCheaterhatesyourfriendsEasy toangerchecksup onyouDenyingtheirbehaviorPhysicallyabusiveCan’tForgiveLackof trusttells youno oneelse wouldwant youTakesadvantageof youtells youhow todressWants tochangeyouAngrycallsyounamesNeverApologizemakesyou feelTRAPPEDInsult youor putyou downthreateningHides youfromothers intheir lifefeelingnervous orsick whenyour partneris upsetblamesyou foreverythingAct “tooperfect” inthebeginningpressure youto do thingsyou don'twant toImmaturerefusestoapologizechecksthe historyon yourphonemakes feellike I'mwalking onegg shellsreadsyourtextsLiesaccusesyou offlirtingExtremejealousyaccusesyou ofcheatinglack ofempathyspeakspoorly ofyou to theirfriendsfamily &friendsdislike thispersonfollowsyouhitsyouGuilttrippingdemandsyourpasswordsmajor moodswings fromhappy toangrybelittles/makesfun of youthrowingthingshurtsyouhas nootherfriendsLack ofcompromisethey onlytalk aboutthemselvesFits ofragedoesn'tcare aboutyourfeelingsthreatens tohurtthemselvesbecause ofyou

Relationship Red Flags Bingo CSH - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. N-uses your past against you
  2. N-makes you doubt your sanity
  3. B-does not treat you as an equal
  4. B-Verbally Abusive
  5. G-you don't feel emotionally safe
  6. G-criticizing
  7. G-constantly calling you
  8. N-Controlling
  9. O-you don't feel physically safe
  10. G-threatens to hurt people you love
  11. B-Interrogations about your day
  12. G-manipulative
  13. I-doesn't like your family
  14. G-Secretive
  15. I-makes you feel afraid
  16. N-doesn't care about your goals or dreams
  17. O-makes all of the decisions
  18. O-Unpredict-able
  19. B-you feel like you can't be you
  20. O-intolerant of opposing views
  21. G-unreliable
  22. O-uses silent treatment as punishment
  23. I-insulting
  24. N-witholds affection
  25. G-afraid to express your feelings
  26. B-Disrespectful
  27. B-demands all of your time
  28. B-tries to isolate you from your friends
  29. O-constantly texting you
  30. N-makes you check in when out with friends
  31. O-ignores you
  32. B-Cruel to others
  33. I-substance use or abuse
  34. B-cheating
  35. I-Cheater
  36. O-hates your friends
  37. O-Easy to anger
  38. I-checks up on you
  39. N-Denying their behavior
  40. O-Physically abusive
  41. B-Can’t Forgive
  42. G-Lack of trust
  43. I-tells you no one else would want you
  44. B-Takes advantage of you
  45. B-tells you how to dress
  46. I-Wants to change you
  47. B-Angry
  48. I-calls you names
  49. I-Never Apologize
  50. O-makes you feel TRAPPED
  51. N-Insult you or put you down
  52. N-threatening
  53. G-Hides you from others in their life
  54. O-feeling nervous or sick when your partner is upset
  55. I-blames you for everything
  56. N-Act “too perfect” in the beginning
  57. N-pressure you to do things you don't want to
  58. I-Immature
  59. B-refuses to apologize
  60. G-checks the history on your phone
  61. I-makes feel like I'm walking on egg shells
  62. N-reads your texts
  63. B-Lies
  64. I-accuses you of flirting
  65. O-Extreme jealousy
  66. N-accuses you of cheating
  67. G-lack of empathy
  68. O-speaks poorly of you to their friends
  69. G-family & friends dislike this person
  70. I-follows you
  71. G-hits you
  72. I-Guilt tripping
  73. I-demands your passwords
  74. G-major mood swings from happy to angry
  75. O-belittles/makes fun of you
  76. N-throwing things
  77. N-hurts you
  78. B-has no other friends
  79. O-Lack of compromise
  80. G-they only talk about themselves
  81. G-Fits of rage
  82. N-doesn't care about your feelings
  83. B-threatens to hurt themselves because of you