accusesyou offlirtingafraid toexpressyourfeelingsDenyingtheirbehaviorfollowsyoudoes nottreat youas anequalmakes youcheck inwhen outwith friendsmakesyou feelTRAPPEDintolerantofopposingviewsAct “tooperfect” inthebeginningmakes feellike I'mwalking onegg shellsEasy toangerdemandsyourpasswordsmakesyou feelafraidExtremejealousyCheaterspeakspoorly ofyou to theirfriendsFits ofrageLack ofcompromiserefusestoapologizeblamesyou foreverythingbelittles/makesfun of youreadsyourtextsHides youfromothers intheir lifeCrueltoothershitsyouthrowingthingsInsult youor putyou downyou don'tfeelphysicallysafeCan’tForgivehurtsyouconstantlycallingyouControllingchecksup onyoudoesn'tlike yourfamilyDisrespectfulwitholdsaffectionmakesyou doubtyoursanityuses yourpastagainstyoudoesn'tcare aboutyour goalsor dreamshatesyourfriendsNeverApologizeaccusesyou ofcheatingTakesadvantageof youtries toisolate youfrom yourfriendsdemandsall ofyour timetells youno oneelse wouldwant youWants tochangeyouthreatens tohurtthemselvesbecause ofyouPhysicallyabusiveGuilttrippingLackof trustSecretivetells youhow todressmakesall of thedecisionsUnpredict-ableignoresyoulack ofempathycheatingcallsyounamesdoesn'tcare aboutyourfeelingsthreateningVerballyAbusivethreatensto hurtpeopleyou lovethey onlytalk aboutthemselveshas nootherfriendsImmatureyou don'tfeelemotionallysafeAngrychecksthe historyon yourphonefeelingnervous orsick whenyour partneris upsetfamily &friendsdislike thispersonconstantlytextingyouuses silenttreatmentaspunishmentunreliablepressure youto do thingsyou don'twant tomajor moodswings fromhappy toangryinsultingsubstanceuse orabusecriticizingLiesyou feellike youcan't beyoumanipulativeInterrogationsabout yourdayaccusesyou offlirtingafraid toexpressyourfeelingsDenyingtheirbehaviorfollowsyoudoes nottreat youas anequalmakes youcheck inwhen outwith friendsmakesyou feelTRAPPEDintolerantofopposingviewsAct “tooperfect” inthebeginningmakes feellike I'mwalking onegg shellsEasy toangerdemandsyourpasswordsmakesyou feelafraidExtremejealousyCheaterspeakspoorly ofyou to theirfriendsFits ofrageLack ofcompromiserefusestoapologizeblamesyou foreverythingbelittles/makesfun of youreadsyourtextsHides youfromothers intheir lifeCrueltoothershitsyouthrowingthingsInsult youor putyou downyou don'tfeelphysicallysafeCan’tForgivehurtsyouconstantlycallingyouControllingchecksup onyoudoesn'tlike yourfamilyDisrespectfulwitholdsaffectionmakesyou doubtyoursanityuses yourpastagainstyoudoesn'tcare aboutyour goalsor dreamshatesyourfriendsNeverApologizeaccusesyou ofcheatingTakesadvantageof youtries toisolate youfrom yourfriendsdemandsall ofyour timetells youno oneelse wouldwant youWants tochangeyouthreatens tohurtthemselvesbecause ofyouPhysicallyabusiveGuilttrippingLackof trustSecretivetells youhow todressmakesall of thedecisionsUnpredict-ableignoresyoulack ofempathycheatingcallsyounamesdoesn'tcare aboutyourfeelingsthreateningVerballyAbusivethreatensto hurtpeopleyou lovethey onlytalk aboutthemselveshas nootherfriendsImmatureyou don'tfeelemotionallysafeAngrychecksthe historyon yourphonefeelingnervous orsick whenyour partneris upsetfamily &friendsdislike thispersonconstantlytextingyouuses silenttreatmentaspunishmentunreliablepressure youto do thingsyou don'twant tomajor moodswings fromhappy toangryinsultingsubstanceuse orabusecriticizingLiesyou feellike youcan't beyoumanipulativeInterrogationsabout yourday

Relationship Red Flags Bingo CSH - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. I-accuses you of flirting
  2. G-afraid to express your feelings
  3. N-Denying their behavior
  4. I-follows you
  5. B-does not treat you as an equal
  6. N-makes you check in when out with friends
  7. O-makes you feel TRAPPED
  8. O-intolerant of opposing views
  9. N-Act “too perfect” in the beginning
  10. I-makes feel like I'm walking on egg shells
  11. O-Easy to anger
  12. I-demands your passwords
  13. I-makes you feel afraid
  14. O-Extreme jealousy
  15. I-Cheater
  16. O-speaks poorly of you to their friends
  17. G-Fits of rage
  18. O-Lack of compromise
  19. B-refuses to apologize
  20. I-blames you for everything
  21. O-belittles/makes fun of you
  22. N-reads your texts
  23. G-Hides you from others in their life
  24. B-Cruel to others
  25. G-hits you
  26. N-throwing things
  27. N-Insult you or put you down
  28. O-you don't feel physically safe
  29. B-Can’t Forgive
  30. N-hurts you
  31. G-constantly calling you
  32. N-Controlling
  33. I-checks up on you
  34. I-doesn't like your family
  35. B-Disrespectful
  36. N-witholds affection
  37. N-makes you doubt your sanity
  38. N-uses your past against you
  39. N-doesn't care about your goals or dreams
  40. O-hates your friends
  41. I-Never Apologize
  42. N-accuses you of cheating
  43. B-Takes advantage of you
  44. B-tries to isolate you from your friends
  45. B-demands all of your time
  46. I-tells you no one else would want you
  47. I-Wants to change you
  48. B-threatens to hurt themselves because of you
  49. O-Physically abusive
  50. I-Guilt tripping
  51. G-Lack of trust
  52. G-Secretive
  53. B-tells you how to dress
  54. O-makes all of the decisions
  55. O-Unpredict-able
  56. O-ignores you
  57. G-lack of empathy
  58. B-cheating
  59. I-calls you names
  60. N-doesn't care about your feelings
  61. N-threatening
  62. B-Verbally Abusive
  63. G-threatens to hurt people you love
  64. G-they only talk about themselves
  65. B-has no other friends
  66. I-Immature
  67. G-you don't feel emotionally safe
  68. B-Angry
  69. G-checks the history on your phone
  70. O-feeling nervous or sick when your partner is upset
  71. G-family & friends dislike this person
  72. O-constantly texting you
  73. O-uses silent treatment as punishment
  74. G-unreliable
  75. N-pressure you to do things you don't want to
  76. G-major mood swings from happy to angry
  77. I-insulting
  78. I-substance use or abuse
  79. G-criticizing
  80. B-Lies
  81. B-you feel like you can't be you
  82. G-manipulative
  83. B-Interrogations about your day