tells youhow todressyou don'tfeelphysicallysafeyou don'tfeelemotionallysafedemandsall ofyour timesubstanceuse orabuseControllingFits ofragemakes youcheck inwhen outwith friendsmakesyou feelafraidhurtsyouAct “tooperfect” inthebeginningPhysicallyabusivemajor moodswings fromhappy toangryEasy toangerSecretiveunreliableInsult youor putyou downdoesn'tcare aboutyour goalsor dreamsHides youfromothers intheir lifeCrueltoothersTakesadvantageof youmakesall of thedecisionschecksthe historyon yourphonemakesyou feelTRAPPEDfeelingnervous orsick whenyour partneris upsetdoesn'tcare aboutyourfeelingsaccusesyou ofcheatingDenyingtheirbehaviorImmaturemakesyou doubtyoursanityLack ofcompromiseaccusesyou offlirtingCheaterfamily &friendsdislike thispersonlack ofempathyspeakspoorly ofyou to theirfriendsdoesn'tlike yourfamilyyou feellike youcan't beyoublamesyou foreverythingdoes nottreat youas anequalconstantlycallingyouafraid toexpressyourfeelingscallsyounamesrefusestoapologizereadsyourtextschecksup onyoucriticizingInterrogationsabout yourdayUnpredict-ablehitsyouWants tochangeyoumanipulativedemandsyourpasswordsthreateningfollowsyouconstantlytextingyouCan’tForgiveintolerantofopposingviewsthreatensto hurtpeopleyou loveLiesAngryExtremejealousyuses yourpastagainstyouVerballyAbusivehas nootherfriendshatesyourfriendsmakes feellike I'mwalking onegg shellsthrowingthingsignoresyouthreatens tohurtthemselvesbecause ofyoubelittles/makesfun of youcheatingthey onlytalk aboutthemselvestells youno oneelse wouldwant youtries toisolate youfrom yourfriendsDisrespectfuluses silenttreatmentaspunishmentNeverApologizepressure youto do thingsyou don'twant towitholdsaffectioninsultingGuilttrippingLackof trusttells youhow todressyou don'tfeelphysicallysafeyou don'tfeelemotionallysafedemandsall ofyour timesubstanceuse orabuseControllingFits ofragemakes youcheck inwhen outwith friendsmakesyou feelafraidhurtsyouAct “tooperfect” inthebeginningPhysicallyabusivemajor moodswings fromhappy toangryEasy toangerSecretiveunreliableInsult youor putyou downdoesn'tcare aboutyour goalsor dreamsHides youfromothers intheir lifeCrueltoothersTakesadvantageof youmakesall of thedecisionschecksthe historyon yourphonemakesyou feelTRAPPEDfeelingnervous orsick whenyour partneris upsetdoesn'tcare aboutyourfeelingsaccusesyou ofcheatingDenyingtheirbehaviorImmaturemakesyou doubtyoursanityLack ofcompromiseaccusesyou offlirtingCheaterfamily &friendsdislike thispersonlack ofempathyspeakspoorly ofyou to theirfriendsdoesn'tlike yourfamilyyou feellike youcan't beyoublamesyou foreverythingdoes nottreat youas anequalconstantlycallingyouafraid toexpressyourfeelingscallsyounamesrefusestoapologizereadsyourtextschecksup onyoucriticizingInterrogationsabout yourdayUnpredict-ablehitsyouWants tochangeyoumanipulativedemandsyourpasswordsthreateningfollowsyouconstantlytextingyouCan’tForgiveintolerantofopposingviewsthreatensto hurtpeopleyou loveLiesAngryExtremejealousyuses yourpastagainstyouVerballyAbusivehas nootherfriendshatesyourfriendsmakes feellike I'mwalking onegg shellsthrowingthingsignoresyouthreatens tohurtthemselvesbecause ofyoubelittles/makesfun of youcheatingthey onlytalk aboutthemselvestells youno oneelse wouldwant youtries toisolate youfrom yourfriendsDisrespectfuluses silenttreatmentaspunishmentNeverApologizepressure youto do thingsyou don'twant towitholdsaffectioninsultingGuilttrippingLackof trust

Relationship Red Flags Bingo CSH - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. B-tells you how to dress
  2. O-you don't feel physically safe
  3. G-you don't feel emotionally safe
  4. B-demands all of your time
  5. I-substance use or abuse
  6. N-Controlling
  7. G-Fits of rage
  8. N-makes you check in when out with friends
  9. I-makes you feel afraid
  10. N-hurts you
  11. N-Act “too perfect” in the beginning
  12. O-Physically abusive
  13. G-major mood swings from happy to angry
  14. O-Easy to anger
  15. G-Secretive
  16. G-unreliable
  17. N-Insult you or put you down
  18. N-doesn't care about your goals or dreams
  19. G-Hides you from others in their life
  20. B-Cruel to others
  21. B-Takes advantage of you
  22. O-makes all of the decisions
  23. G-checks the history on your phone
  24. O-makes you feel TRAPPED
  25. O-feeling nervous or sick when your partner is upset
  26. N-doesn't care about your feelings
  27. N-accuses you of cheating
  28. N-Denying their behavior
  29. I-Immature
  30. N-makes you doubt your sanity
  31. O-Lack of compromise
  32. I-accuses you of flirting
  33. I-Cheater
  34. G-family & friends dislike this person
  35. G-lack of empathy
  36. O-speaks poorly of you to their friends
  37. I-doesn't like your family
  38. B-you feel like you can't be you
  39. I-blames you for everything
  40. B-does not treat you as an equal
  41. G-constantly calling you
  42. G-afraid to express your feelings
  43. I-calls you names
  44. B-refuses to apologize
  45. N-reads your texts
  46. I-checks up on you
  47. G-criticizing
  48. B-Interrogations about your day
  49. O-Unpredict-able
  50. G-hits you
  51. I-Wants to change you
  52. G-manipulative
  53. I-demands your passwords
  54. N-threatening
  55. I-follows you
  56. O-constantly texting you
  57. B-Can’t Forgive
  58. O-intolerant of opposing views
  59. G-threatens to hurt people you love
  60. B-Lies
  61. B-Angry
  62. O-Extreme jealousy
  63. N-uses your past against you
  64. B-Verbally Abusive
  65. B-has no other friends
  66. O-hates your friends
  67. I-makes feel like I'm walking on egg shells
  68. N-throwing things
  69. O-ignores you
  70. B-threatens to hurt themselves because of you
  71. O-belittles/makes fun of you
  72. B-cheating
  73. G-they only talk about themselves
  74. I-tells you no one else would want you
  75. B-tries to isolate you from your friends
  76. B-Disrespectful
  77. O-uses silent treatment as punishment
  78. I-Never Apologize
  79. N-pressure you to do things you don't want to
  80. N-witholds affection
  81. I-insulting
  82. I-Guilt tripping
  83. G-Lack of trust