lack ofempathyuses silenttreatmentaspunishmentthreatens tohurtthemselvesbecause ofyouthreatensto hurtpeopleyou loveaccusesyou offlirtingmakes youcheck inwhen outwith friendsbelittles/makesfun of youthreateningfamily &friendsdislike thispersontells youno oneelse wouldwant youyou don'tfeelphysicallysafedoesn'tlike yourfamilymakesyou feelafraiddemandsyourpasswordsspeakspoorly ofyou to theirfriendsLiesControllingrefusestoapologizeVerballyAbusivemakesyou doubtyoursanitysubstanceuse orabusepressure youto do thingsyou don'twant toUnpredict-ableDisrespectfulTakesadvantageof youPhysicallyabusivemakes feellike I'mwalking onegg shellsdoesn'tcare aboutyour goalsor dreamsreadsyourtextsdemandsall ofyour timedoes nottreat youas anequaluses yourpastagainstyouFits ofrageImmatureconstantlycallingyouconstantlytextingyouLack ofcompromiseaccusesyou ofcheatingthey onlytalk aboutthemselvesEasy toangerintolerantofopposingviewsCrueltoothersdoesn'tcare aboutyourfeelingsInterrogationsabout yourdaycallsyounamesCan’tForgiveyou feellike youcan't beyouWants tochangeyouCheaterLackof trustthrowingthingshitsyouinsultingmakesall of thedecisionsGuilttrippingyou don'tfeelemotionallysafeInsult youor putyou downNeverApologizetells youhow todressDenyingtheirbehaviorcheatinghurtsyoutries toisolate youfrom yourfriendschecksup onyoucriticizingignoresyouAct “tooperfect” inthebeginninghas nootherfriendsmakesyou feelTRAPPEDAngrymanipulativeSecretivewitholdsaffectionExtremejealousyfollowsyoublamesyou foreverythingchecksthe historyon yourphonemajor moodswings fromhappy toangryhatesyourfriendsunreliableafraid toexpressyourfeelingsHides youfromothers intheir lifefeelingnervous orsick whenyour partneris upsetlack ofempathyuses silenttreatmentaspunishmentthreatens tohurtthemselvesbecause ofyouthreatensto hurtpeopleyou loveaccusesyou offlirtingmakes youcheck inwhen outwith friendsbelittles/makesfun of youthreateningfamily &friendsdislike thispersontells youno oneelse wouldwant youyou don'tfeelphysicallysafedoesn'tlike yourfamilymakesyou feelafraiddemandsyourpasswordsspeakspoorly ofyou to theirfriendsLiesControllingrefusestoapologizeVerballyAbusivemakesyou doubtyoursanitysubstanceuse orabusepressure youto do thingsyou don'twant toUnpredict-ableDisrespectfulTakesadvantageof youPhysicallyabusivemakes feellike I'mwalking onegg shellsdoesn'tcare aboutyour goalsor dreamsreadsyourtextsdemandsall ofyour timedoes nottreat youas anequaluses yourpastagainstyouFits ofrageImmatureconstantlycallingyouconstantlytextingyouLack ofcompromiseaccusesyou ofcheatingthey onlytalk aboutthemselvesEasy toangerintolerantofopposingviewsCrueltoothersdoesn'tcare aboutyourfeelingsInterrogationsabout yourdaycallsyounamesCan’tForgiveyou feellike youcan't beyouWants tochangeyouCheaterLackof trustthrowingthingshitsyouinsultingmakesall of thedecisionsGuilttrippingyou don'tfeelemotionallysafeInsult youor putyou downNeverApologizetells youhow todressDenyingtheirbehaviorcheatinghurtsyoutries toisolate youfrom yourfriendschecksup onyoucriticizingignoresyouAct “tooperfect” inthebeginninghas nootherfriendsmakesyou feelTRAPPEDAngrymanipulativeSecretivewitholdsaffectionExtremejealousyfollowsyoublamesyou foreverythingchecksthe historyon yourphonemajor moodswings fromhappy toangryhatesyourfriendsunreliableafraid toexpressyourfeelingsHides youfromothers intheir lifefeelingnervous orsick whenyour partneris upset

Relationship Red Flags Bingo CSH - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. G-lack of empathy
  2. O-uses silent treatment as punishment
  3. B-threatens to hurt themselves because of you
  4. G-threatens to hurt people you love
  5. I-accuses you of flirting
  6. N-makes you check in when out with friends
  7. O-belittles/makes fun of you
  8. N-threatening
  9. G-family & friends dislike this person
  10. I-tells you no one else would want you
  11. O-you don't feel physically safe
  12. I-doesn't like your family
  13. I-makes you feel afraid
  14. I-demands your passwords
  15. O-speaks poorly of you to their friends
  16. B-Lies
  17. N-Controlling
  18. B-refuses to apologize
  19. B-Verbally Abusive
  20. N-makes you doubt your sanity
  21. I-substance use or abuse
  22. N-pressure you to do things you don't want to
  23. O-Unpredict-able
  24. B-Disrespectful
  25. B-Takes advantage of you
  26. O-Physically abusive
  27. I-makes feel like I'm walking on egg shells
  28. N-doesn't care about your goals or dreams
  29. N-reads your texts
  30. B-demands all of your time
  31. B-does not treat you as an equal
  32. N-uses your past against you
  33. G-Fits of rage
  34. I-Immature
  35. G-constantly calling you
  36. O-constantly texting you
  37. O-Lack of compromise
  38. N-accuses you of cheating
  39. G-they only talk about themselves
  40. O-Easy to anger
  41. O-intolerant of opposing views
  42. B-Cruel to others
  43. N-doesn't care about your feelings
  44. B-Interrogations about your day
  45. I-calls you names
  46. B-Can’t Forgive
  47. B-you feel like you can't be you
  48. I-Wants to change you
  49. I-Cheater
  50. G-Lack of trust
  51. N-throwing things
  52. G-hits you
  53. I-insulting
  54. O-makes all of the decisions
  55. I-Guilt tripping
  56. G-you don't feel emotionally safe
  57. N-Insult you or put you down
  58. I-Never Apologize
  59. B-tells you how to dress
  60. N-Denying their behavior
  61. B-cheating
  62. N-hurts you
  63. B-tries to isolate you from your friends
  64. I-checks up on you
  65. G-criticizing
  66. O-ignores you
  67. N-Act “too perfect” in the beginning
  68. B-has no other friends
  69. O-makes you feel TRAPPED
  70. B-Angry
  71. G-manipulative
  72. G-Secretive
  73. N-witholds affection
  74. O-Extreme jealousy
  75. I-follows you
  76. I-blames you for everything
  77. G-checks the history on your phone
  78. G-major mood swings from happy to angry
  79. O-hates your friends
  80. G-unreliable
  81. G-afraid to express your feelings
  82. G-Hides you from others in their life
  83. O-feeling nervous or sick when your partner is upset