Takesadvantageof youaccusesyou offlirtingpressure youto do thingsyou don'twant toSecretivewitholdsaffectionhurtsyoutells youno oneelse wouldwant youcheatingyou don'tfeelemotionallysafesubstanceuse orabusemakesyou doubtyoursanityCrueltoothersyou feellike youcan't beyouthey onlytalk aboutthemselvesconstantlycallingyouInsult youor putyou downAngrylack ofempathyhitsyoubelittles/makesfun of youcriticizingmakes feellike I'mwalking onegg shellsdoesn'tcare aboutyour goalsor dreamsmakesyou feelTRAPPEDmakes youcheck inwhen outwith friendschecksthe historyon yourphoneuses yourpastagainstyouyou don'tfeelphysicallysafeImmatureCan’tForgivetries toisolate youfrom yourfriendsconstantlytextingyoufamily &friendsdislike thispersoninsultingmajor moodswings fromhappy toangrycallsyounamesVerballyAbusiveLackof trustreadsyourtextsfollowsyoumakesall of thedecisionsintolerantofopposingviewschecksup onyoutells youhow todressInterrogationsabout yourdayhas nootherfriendsdoes nottreat youas anequalignoresyoudoesn'tlike yourfamilydoesn'tcare aboutyourfeelingsspeakspoorly ofyou to theirfriendsCheaterunreliableFits ofragedemandsyourpasswordsControllinghatesyourfriendsWants tochangeyouLack ofcompromiseDisrespectfulExtremejealousyHides youfromothers intheir lifeuses silenttreatmentaspunishmentthreateningGuilttrippingPhysicallyabusivemanipulativeaccusesyou ofcheatingthreatensto hurtpeopleyou loverefusestoapologizefeelingnervous orsick whenyour partneris upsetUnpredict-ableafraid toexpressyourfeelingsAct “tooperfect” inthebeginningthrowingthingsdemandsall ofyour timeLiesEasy toangerthreatens tohurtthemselvesbecause ofyoublamesyou foreverythingNeverApologizeDenyingtheirbehaviormakesyou feelafraidTakesadvantageof youaccusesyou offlirtingpressure youto do thingsyou don'twant toSecretivewitholdsaffectionhurtsyoutells youno oneelse wouldwant youcheatingyou don'tfeelemotionallysafesubstanceuse orabusemakesyou doubtyoursanityCrueltoothersyou feellike youcan't beyouthey onlytalk aboutthemselvesconstantlycallingyouInsult youor putyou downAngrylack ofempathyhitsyoubelittles/makesfun of youcriticizingmakes feellike I'mwalking onegg shellsdoesn'tcare aboutyour goalsor dreamsmakesyou feelTRAPPEDmakes youcheck inwhen outwith friendschecksthe historyon yourphoneuses yourpastagainstyouyou don'tfeelphysicallysafeImmatureCan’tForgivetries toisolate youfrom yourfriendsconstantlytextingyoufamily &friendsdislike thispersoninsultingmajor moodswings fromhappy toangrycallsyounamesVerballyAbusiveLackof trustreadsyourtextsfollowsyoumakesall of thedecisionsintolerantofopposingviewschecksup onyoutells youhow todressInterrogationsabout yourdayhas nootherfriendsdoes nottreat youas anequalignoresyoudoesn'tlike yourfamilydoesn'tcare aboutyourfeelingsspeakspoorly ofyou to theirfriendsCheaterunreliableFits ofragedemandsyourpasswordsControllinghatesyourfriendsWants tochangeyouLack ofcompromiseDisrespectfulExtremejealousyHides youfromothers intheir lifeuses silenttreatmentaspunishmentthreateningGuilttrippingPhysicallyabusivemanipulativeaccusesyou ofcheatingthreatensto hurtpeopleyou loverefusestoapologizefeelingnervous orsick whenyour partneris upsetUnpredict-ableafraid toexpressyourfeelingsAct “tooperfect” inthebeginningthrowingthingsdemandsall ofyour timeLiesEasy toangerthreatens tohurtthemselvesbecause ofyoublamesyou foreverythingNeverApologizeDenyingtheirbehaviormakesyou feelafraid

Relationship Red Flags Bingo CSH - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. B-Takes advantage of you
  2. I-accuses you of flirting
  3. N-pressure you to do things you don't want to
  4. G-Secretive
  5. N-witholds affection
  6. N-hurts you
  7. I-tells you no one else would want you
  8. B-cheating
  9. G-you don't feel emotionally safe
  10. I-substance use or abuse
  11. N-makes you doubt your sanity
  12. B-Cruel to others
  13. B-you feel like you can't be you
  14. G-they only talk about themselves
  15. G-constantly calling you
  16. N-Insult you or put you down
  17. B-Angry
  18. G-lack of empathy
  19. G-hits you
  20. O-belittles/makes fun of you
  21. G-criticizing
  22. I-makes feel like I'm walking on egg shells
  23. N-doesn't care about your goals or dreams
  24. O-makes you feel TRAPPED
  25. N-makes you check in when out with friends
  26. G-checks the history on your phone
  27. N-uses your past against you
  28. O-you don't feel physically safe
  29. I-Immature
  30. B-Can’t Forgive
  31. B-tries to isolate you from your friends
  32. O-constantly texting you
  33. G-family & friends dislike this person
  34. I-insulting
  35. G-major mood swings from happy to angry
  36. I-calls you names
  37. B-Verbally Abusive
  38. G-Lack of trust
  39. N-reads your texts
  40. I-follows you
  41. O-makes all of the decisions
  42. O-intolerant of opposing views
  43. I-checks up on you
  44. B-tells you how to dress
  45. B-Interrogations about your day
  46. B-has no other friends
  47. B-does not treat you as an equal
  48. O-ignores you
  49. I-doesn't like your family
  50. N-doesn't care about your feelings
  51. O-speaks poorly of you to their friends
  52. I-Cheater
  53. G-unreliable
  54. G-Fits of rage
  55. I-demands your passwords
  56. N-Controlling
  57. O-hates your friends
  58. I-Wants to change you
  59. O-Lack of compromise
  60. B-Disrespectful
  61. O-Extreme jealousy
  62. G-Hides you from others in their life
  63. O-uses silent treatment as punishment
  64. N-threatening
  65. I-Guilt tripping
  66. O-Physically abusive
  67. G-manipulative
  68. N-accuses you of cheating
  69. G-threatens to hurt people you love
  70. B-refuses to apologize
  71. O-feeling nervous or sick when your partner is upset
  72. O-Unpredict-able
  73. G-afraid to express your feelings
  74. N-Act “too perfect” in the beginning
  75. N-throwing things
  76. B-demands all of your time
  77. B-Lies
  78. O-Easy to anger
  79. B-threatens to hurt themselves because of you
  80. I-blames you for everything
  81. I-Never Apologize
  82. N-Denying their behavior
  83. I-makes you feel afraid