Guilttrippingmajor moodswings fromhappy toangrysubstanceuse orabusespeakspoorly ofyou to theirfriendsintolerantofopposingviewsfeelingnervous orsick whenyour partneris upsetAngryignoresyoumakesyou feelafraidInsult youor putyou downAct “tooperfect” inthebeginningSecretiveWants tochangeyouLackof trusthitsyoufamily &friendsdislike thispersonafraid toexpressyourfeelingsCheatertells youhow todressmakes youcheck inwhen outwith friendsthrowingthingsthey onlytalk aboutthemselvesunreliableTakesadvantageof youEasy toangerthreatens tohurtthemselvesbecause ofyouPhysicallyabusiveyou don'tfeelphysicallysafelack ofempathywitholdsaffectionVerballyAbusiveInterrogationsabout yourdaythreatensto hurtpeopleyou lovecheatingLiesuses yourpastagainstyouDisrespectfulhas nootherfriendscallsyounamesdoesn'tcare aboutyour goalsor dreamsdoesn'tlike yourfamilydemandsyourpasswordsmakesyou doubtyoursanityImmatureaccusesyou offlirtingcriticizingtries toisolate youfrom yourfriendsUnpredict-ablemakes feellike I'mwalking onegg shellsmanipulativedemandsall ofyour timeControllinguses silenttreatmentaspunishmentNeverApologizeFits ofragehatesyourfriendsconstantlytextingyoumakesyou feelTRAPPEDconstantlycallingyoupressure youto do thingsyou don'twant tofollowsyoubelittles/makesfun of youtells youno oneelse wouldwant youchecksthe historyon yourphoneyou feellike youcan't beyouCrueltoothersdoesn'tcare aboutyourfeelingschecksup onyoublamesyou foreverythingdoes nottreat youas anequalCan’tForgivehurtsyouHides youfromothers intheir lifeDenyingtheirbehaviorthreateningreadsyourtextsmakesall of thedecisionsLack ofcompromiseaccusesyou ofcheatingExtremejealousyyou don'tfeelemotionallysaferefusestoapologizeinsultingGuilttrippingmajor moodswings fromhappy toangrysubstanceuse orabusespeakspoorly ofyou to theirfriendsintolerantofopposingviewsfeelingnervous orsick whenyour partneris upsetAngryignoresyoumakesyou feelafraidInsult youor putyou downAct “tooperfect” inthebeginningSecretiveWants tochangeyouLackof trusthitsyoufamily &friendsdislike thispersonafraid toexpressyourfeelingsCheatertells youhow todressmakes youcheck inwhen outwith friendsthrowingthingsthey onlytalk aboutthemselvesunreliableTakesadvantageof youEasy toangerthreatens tohurtthemselvesbecause ofyouPhysicallyabusiveyou don'tfeelphysicallysafelack ofempathywitholdsaffectionVerballyAbusiveInterrogationsabout yourdaythreatensto hurtpeopleyou lovecheatingLiesuses yourpastagainstyouDisrespectfulhas nootherfriendscallsyounamesdoesn'tcare aboutyour goalsor dreamsdoesn'tlike yourfamilydemandsyourpasswordsmakesyou doubtyoursanityImmatureaccusesyou offlirtingcriticizingtries toisolate youfrom yourfriendsUnpredict-ablemakes feellike I'mwalking onegg shellsmanipulativedemandsall ofyour timeControllinguses silenttreatmentaspunishmentNeverApologizeFits ofragehatesyourfriendsconstantlytextingyoumakesyou feelTRAPPEDconstantlycallingyoupressure youto do thingsyou don'twant tofollowsyoubelittles/makesfun of youtells youno oneelse wouldwant youchecksthe historyon yourphoneyou feellike youcan't beyouCrueltoothersdoesn'tcare aboutyourfeelingschecksup onyoublamesyou foreverythingdoes nottreat youas anequalCan’tForgivehurtsyouHides youfromothers intheir lifeDenyingtheirbehaviorthreateningreadsyourtextsmakesall of thedecisionsLack ofcompromiseaccusesyou ofcheatingExtremejealousyyou don'tfeelemotionallysaferefusestoapologizeinsulting

Relationship Red Flags Bingo CSH - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. I-Guilt tripping
  2. G-major mood swings from happy to angry
  3. I-substance use or abuse
  4. O-speaks poorly of you to their friends
  5. O-intolerant of opposing views
  6. O-feeling nervous or sick when your partner is upset
  7. B-Angry
  8. O-ignores you
  9. I-makes you feel afraid
  10. N-Insult you or put you down
  11. N-Act “too perfect” in the beginning
  12. G-Secretive
  13. I-Wants to change you
  14. G-Lack of trust
  15. G-hits you
  16. G-family & friends dislike this person
  17. G-afraid to express your feelings
  18. I-Cheater
  19. B-tells you how to dress
  20. N-makes you check in when out with friends
  21. N-throwing things
  22. G-they only talk about themselves
  23. G-unreliable
  24. B-Takes advantage of you
  25. O-Easy to anger
  26. B-threatens to hurt themselves because of you
  27. O-Physically abusive
  28. O-you don't feel physically safe
  29. G-lack of empathy
  30. N-witholds affection
  31. B-Verbally Abusive
  32. B-Interrogations about your day
  33. G-threatens to hurt people you love
  34. B-cheating
  35. B-Lies
  36. N-uses your past against you
  37. B-Disrespectful
  38. B-has no other friends
  39. I-calls you names
  40. N-doesn't care about your goals or dreams
  41. I-doesn't like your family
  42. I-demands your passwords
  43. N-makes you doubt your sanity
  44. I-Immature
  45. I-accuses you of flirting
  46. G-criticizing
  47. B-tries to isolate you from your friends
  48. O-Unpredict-able
  49. I-makes feel like I'm walking on egg shells
  50. G-manipulative
  51. B-demands all of your time
  52. N-Controlling
  53. O-uses silent treatment as punishment
  54. I-Never Apologize
  55. G-Fits of rage
  56. O-hates your friends
  57. O-constantly texting you
  58. O-makes you feel TRAPPED
  59. G-constantly calling you
  60. N-pressure you to do things you don't want to
  61. I-follows you
  62. O-belittles/makes fun of you
  63. I-tells you no one else would want you
  64. G-checks the history on your phone
  65. B-you feel like you can't be you
  66. B-Cruel to others
  67. N-doesn't care about your feelings
  68. I-checks up on you
  69. I-blames you for everything
  70. B-does not treat you as an equal
  71. B-Can’t Forgive
  72. N-hurts you
  73. G-Hides you from others in their life
  74. N-Denying their behavior
  75. N-threatening
  76. N-reads your texts
  77. O-makes all of the decisions
  78. O-Lack of compromise
  79. N-accuses you of cheating
  80. O-Extreme jealousy
  81. G-you don't feel emotionally safe
  82. B-refuses to apologize
  83. I-insulting