Lack ofcompromiseLackof trustcriticizinguses silenttreatmentaspunishmentPhysicallyabusiveyou don'tfeelemotionallysafethreatens tohurtthemselvesbecause ofyoubelittles/makesfun of youWants tochangeyoudemandsyourpasswordsdoesn'tcare aboutyour goalsor dreamsyou feellike youcan't beyoumakes youcheck inwhen outwith friendsmakesall of thedecisionstells youhow todressintolerantofopposingviewsaccusesyou offlirtingEasy toangermajor moodswings fromhappy toangryCheaterInsult youor putyou downControllingsubstanceuse orabuseUnpredict-ablemakesyou feelafraiddoesn'tcare aboutyourfeelingsImmatureDenyingtheirbehaviorreadsyourtextsNeverApologizeAngryExtremejealousythey onlytalk aboutthemselvesfamily &friendsdislike thispersonmanipulativeFits ofragefollowsyouHides youfromothers intheir lifewitholdsaffectionspeakspoorly ofyou to theirfriendscallsyounamesthrowingthingsCrueltoothersfeelingnervous orsick whenyour partneris upsetmakes feellike I'mwalking onegg shellsunreliableLiesmakesyou feelTRAPPEDhitsyouInterrogationsabout yourdayTakesadvantageof youdoes nottreat youas anequalCan’tForgivecheatingconstantlycallingyouAct “tooperfect” inthebeginningchecksthe historyon yourphonechecksup onyouuses yourpastagainstyouhas nootherfriendsblamesyou foreverythingthreatensto hurtpeopleyou loveDisrespectfultries toisolate youfrom yourfriendstells youno oneelse wouldwant youSecretivelack ofempathydoesn'tlike yourfamilyignoresyouaccusesyou ofcheatingconstantlytextingyouafraid toexpressyourfeelingsinsultingthreateningdemandsall ofyour timemakesyou doubtyoursanitypressure youto do thingsyou don'twant toyou don'tfeelphysicallysafeGuilttrippinghatesyourfriendshurtsyourefusestoapologizeVerballyAbusiveLack ofcompromiseLackof trustcriticizinguses silenttreatmentaspunishmentPhysicallyabusiveyou don'tfeelemotionallysafethreatens tohurtthemselvesbecause ofyoubelittles/makesfun of youWants tochangeyoudemandsyourpasswordsdoesn'tcare aboutyour goalsor dreamsyou feellike youcan't beyoumakes youcheck inwhen outwith friendsmakesall of thedecisionstells youhow todressintolerantofopposingviewsaccusesyou offlirtingEasy toangermajor moodswings fromhappy toangryCheaterInsult youor putyou downControllingsubstanceuse orabuseUnpredict-ablemakesyou feelafraiddoesn'tcare aboutyourfeelingsImmatureDenyingtheirbehaviorreadsyourtextsNeverApologizeAngryExtremejealousythey onlytalk aboutthemselvesfamily &friendsdislike thispersonmanipulativeFits ofragefollowsyouHides youfromothers intheir lifewitholdsaffectionspeakspoorly ofyou to theirfriendscallsyounamesthrowingthingsCrueltoothersfeelingnervous orsick whenyour partneris upsetmakes feellike I'mwalking onegg shellsunreliableLiesmakesyou feelTRAPPEDhitsyouInterrogationsabout yourdayTakesadvantageof youdoes nottreat youas anequalCan’tForgivecheatingconstantlycallingyouAct “tooperfect” inthebeginningchecksthe historyon yourphonechecksup onyouuses yourpastagainstyouhas nootherfriendsblamesyou foreverythingthreatensto hurtpeopleyou loveDisrespectfultries toisolate youfrom yourfriendstells youno oneelse wouldwant youSecretivelack ofempathydoesn'tlike yourfamilyignoresyouaccusesyou ofcheatingconstantlytextingyouafraid toexpressyourfeelingsinsultingthreateningdemandsall ofyour timemakesyou doubtyoursanitypressure youto do thingsyou don'twant toyou don'tfeelphysicallysafeGuilttrippinghatesyourfriendshurtsyourefusestoapologizeVerballyAbusive

Relationship Red Flags Bingo CSH - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


1
O
2
G
3
G
4
O
5
O
6
G
7
B
8
O
9
I
10
I
11
N
12
B
13
N
14
O
15
B
16
O
17
I
18
O
19
G
20
I
21
N
22
N
23
I
24
O
25
I
26
N
27
I
28
N
29
N
30
I
31
B
32
O
33
G
34
G
35
G
36
G
37
I
38
G
39
N
40
O
41
I
42
N
43
B
44
O
45
I
46
G
47
B
48
O
49
G
50
B
51
B
52
B
53
B
54
B
55
G
56
N
57
G
58
I
59
N
60
B
61
I
62
G
63
B
64
B
65
I
66
G
67
G
68
I
69
O
70
N
71
O
72
G
73
I
74
N
75
B
76
N
77
N
78
O
79
I
80
O
81
N
82
B
83
B
  1. O-Lack of compromise
  2. G-Lack of trust
  3. G-criticizing
  4. O-uses silent treatment as punishment
  5. O-Physically abusive
  6. G-you don't feel emotionally safe
  7. B-threatens to hurt themselves because of you
  8. O-belittles/makes fun of you
  9. I-Wants to change you
  10. I-demands your passwords
  11. N-doesn't care about your goals or dreams
  12. B-you feel like you can't be you
  13. N-makes you check in when out with friends
  14. O-makes all of the decisions
  15. B-tells you how to dress
  16. O-intolerant of opposing views
  17. I-accuses you of flirting
  18. O-Easy to anger
  19. G-major mood swings from happy to angry
  20. I-Cheater
  21. N-Insult you or put you down
  22. N-Controlling
  23. I-substance use or abuse
  24. O-Unpredict-able
  25. I-makes you feel afraid
  26. N-doesn't care about your feelings
  27. I-Immature
  28. N-Denying their behavior
  29. N-reads your texts
  30. I-Never Apologize
  31. B-Angry
  32. O-Extreme jealousy
  33. G-they only talk about themselves
  34. G-family & friends dislike this person
  35. G-manipulative
  36. G-Fits of rage
  37. I-follows you
  38. G-Hides you from others in their life
  39. N-witholds affection
  40. O-speaks poorly of you to their friends
  41. I-calls you names
  42. N-throwing things
  43. B-Cruel to others
  44. O-feeling nervous or sick when your partner is upset
  45. I-makes feel like I'm walking on egg shells
  46. G-unreliable
  47. B-Lies
  48. O-makes you feel TRAPPED
  49. G-hits you
  50. B-Interrogations about your day
  51. B-Takes advantage of you
  52. B-does not treat you as an equal
  53. B-Can’t Forgive
  54. B-cheating
  55. G-constantly calling you
  56. N-Act “too perfect” in the beginning
  57. G-checks the history on your phone
  58. I-checks up on you
  59. N-uses your past against you
  60. B-has no other friends
  61. I-blames you for everything
  62. G-threatens to hurt people you love
  63. B-Disrespectful
  64. B-tries to isolate you from your friends
  65. I-tells you no one else would want you
  66. G-Secretive
  67. G-lack of empathy
  68. I-doesn't like your family
  69. O-ignores you
  70. N-accuses you of cheating
  71. O-constantly texting you
  72. G-afraid to express your feelings
  73. I-insulting
  74. N-threatening
  75. B-demands all of your time
  76. N-makes you doubt your sanity
  77. N-pressure you to do things you don't want to
  78. O-you don't feel physically safe
  79. I-Guilt tripping
  80. O-hates your friends
  81. N-hurts you
  82. B-refuses to apologize
  83. B-Verbally Abusive