insultingyou don'tfeelemotionallysafeFits ofragemakesyou doubtyoursanitydoesn'tcare aboutyour goalsor dreamsCheateraccusesyou ofcheatingmanipulativeunreliablemakes feellike I'mwalking onegg shellsmakesyou feelafraidExtremejealousywitholdsaffectioncheatingdoes nottreat youas anequalignoresyouconstantlytextingyoudoesn'tlike yourfamilyHides youfromothers intheir lifemakesall of thedecisionsreadsyourtextsthreatens tohurtthemselvesbecause ofyoupressure youto do thingsyou don'twant toEasy toangerblamesyou foreverythingAngrysubstanceuse orabuserefusestoapologizeAct “tooperfect” inthebeginningmajor moodswings fromhappy toangryUnpredict-ablemakes youcheck inwhen outwith friendsafraid toexpressyourfeelingshitsyoufamily &friendsdislike thispersonchecksup onyouhatesyourfriendsaccusesyou offlirtinghas nootherfriendsthreateninguses silenttreatmentaspunishmentdoesn'tcare aboutyourfeelingsintolerantofopposingviewsControllingLackof trustInsult youor putyou downuses yourpastagainstyoufollowsyouCrueltoothersthreatensto hurtpeopleyou lovemakesyou feelTRAPPEDhurtsyouVerballyAbusiveyou don'tfeelphysicallysafeLack ofcompromiseInterrogationsabout yourdaythrowingthingsdemandsall ofyour timePhysicallyabusivetells youhow todressfeelingnervous orsick whenyour partneris upsetcallsyounamesLiesDenyingtheirbehaviorCan’tForgivetells youno oneelse wouldwant youWants tochangeyouspeakspoorly ofyou to theirfriendsTakesadvantageof youNeverApologizethey onlytalk aboutthemselvescriticizingDisrespectfulchecksthe historyon yourphonedemandsyourpasswordsyou feellike youcan't beyouGuilttrippingImmaturebelittles/makesfun of youlack ofempathySecretivetries toisolate youfrom yourfriendsconstantlycallingyouinsultingyou don'tfeelemotionallysafeFits ofragemakesyou doubtyoursanitydoesn'tcare aboutyour goalsor dreamsCheateraccusesyou ofcheatingmanipulativeunreliablemakes feellike I'mwalking onegg shellsmakesyou feelafraidExtremejealousywitholdsaffectioncheatingdoes nottreat youas anequalignoresyouconstantlytextingyoudoesn'tlike yourfamilyHides youfromothers intheir lifemakesall of thedecisionsreadsyourtextsthreatens tohurtthemselvesbecause ofyoupressure youto do thingsyou don'twant toEasy toangerblamesyou foreverythingAngrysubstanceuse orabuserefusestoapologizeAct “tooperfect” inthebeginningmajor moodswings fromhappy toangryUnpredict-ablemakes youcheck inwhen outwith friendsafraid toexpressyourfeelingshitsyoufamily &friendsdislike thispersonchecksup onyouhatesyourfriendsaccusesyou offlirtinghas nootherfriendsthreateninguses silenttreatmentaspunishmentdoesn'tcare aboutyourfeelingsintolerantofopposingviewsControllingLackof trustInsult youor putyou downuses yourpastagainstyoufollowsyouCrueltoothersthreatensto hurtpeopleyou lovemakesyou feelTRAPPEDhurtsyouVerballyAbusiveyou don'tfeelphysicallysafeLack ofcompromiseInterrogationsabout yourdaythrowingthingsdemandsall ofyour timePhysicallyabusivetells youhow todressfeelingnervous orsick whenyour partneris upsetcallsyounamesLiesDenyingtheirbehaviorCan’tForgivetells youno oneelse wouldwant youWants tochangeyouspeakspoorly ofyou to theirfriendsTakesadvantageof youNeverApologizethey onlytalk aboutthemselvescriticizingDisrespectfulchecksthe historyon yourphonedemandsyourpasswordsyou feellike youcan't beyouGuilttrippingImmaturebelittles/makesfun of youlack ofempathySecretivetries toisolate youfrom yourfriendsconstantlycallingyou

Relationship Red Flags Bingo CSH - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. I-insulting
  2. G-you don't feel emotionally safe
  3. G-Fits of rage
  4. N-makes you doubt your sanity
  5. N-doesn't care about your goals or dreams
  6. I-Cheater
  7. N-accuses you of cheating
  8. G-manipulative
  9. G-unreliable
  10. I-makes feel like I'm walking on egg shells
  11. I-makes you feel afraid
  12. O-Extreme jealousy
  13. N-witholds affection
  14. B-cheating
  15. B-does not treat you as an equal
  16. O-ignores you
  17. O-constantly texting you
  18. I-doesn't like your family
  19. G-Hides you from others in their life
  20. O-makes all of the decisions
  21. N-reads your texts
  22. B-threatens to hurt themselves because of you
  23. N-pressure you to do things you don't want to
  24. O-Easy to anger
  25. I-blames you for everything
  26. B-Angry
  27. I-substance use or abuse
  28. B-refuses to apologize
  29. N-Act “too perfect” in the beginning
  30. G-major mood swings from happy to angry
  31. O-Unpredict-able
  32. N-makes you check in when out with friends
  33. G-afraid to express your feelings
  34. G-hits you
  35. G-family & friends dislike this person
  36. I-checks up on you
  37. O-hates your friends
  38. I-accuses you of flirting
  39. B-has no other friends
  40. N-threatening
  41. O-uses silent treatment as punishment
  42. N-doesn't care about your feelings
  43. O-intolerant of opposing views
  44. N-Controlling
  45. G-Lack of trust
  46. N-Insult you or put you down
  47. N-uses your past against you
  48. I-follows you
  49. B-Cruel to others
  50. G-threatens to hurt people you love
  51. O-makes you feel TRAPPED
  52. N-hurts you
  53. B-Verbally Abusive
  54. O-you don't feel physically safe
  55. O-Lack of compromise
  56. B-Interrogations about your day
  57. N-throwing things
  58. B-demands all of your time
  59. O-Physically abusive
  60. B-tells you how to dress
  61. O-feeling nervous or sick when your partner is upset
  62. I-calls you names
  63. B-Lies
  64. N-Denying their behavior
  65. B-Can’t Forgive
  66. I-tells you no one else would want you
  67. I-Wants to change you
  68. O-speaks poorly of you to their friends
  69. B-Takes advantage of you
  70. I-Never Apologize
  71. G-they only talk about themselves
  72. G-criticizing
  73. B-Disrespectful
  74. G-checks the history on your phone
  75. I-demands your passwords
  76. B-you feel like you can't be you
  77. I-Guilt tripping
  78. I-Immature
  79. O-belittles/makes fun of you
  80. G-lack of empathy
  81. G-Secretive
  82. B-tries to isolate you from your friends
  83. G-constantly calling you