you don'tfeelemotionallysafefamily &friendsdislike thispersonUnpredict-abledoes nottreat youas anequalchecksthe historyon yourphonepressure youto do thingsyou don'twant toControllinghitsyouuses silenttreatmentaspunishmentdoesn'tlike yourfamilydemandsyourpasswordsmakesyou feelafraidInterrogationsabout yourdaylack ofempathyPhysicallyabusivemakesyou doubtyoursanityblamesyou foreverythingtells youno oneelse wouldwant youDisrespectfulunreliableafraid toexpressyourfeelingsCrueltoothersspeakspoorly ofyou to theirfriendsDenyingtheirbehavioraccusesyou offlirtingmakesall of thedecisionsSecretiveyou don'tfeelphysicallysafeLackof trustmakesyou feelTRAPPEDrefusestoapologizeconstantlytextingyoumajor moodswings fromhappy toangrybelittles/makesfun of youcheatinguses yourpastagainstyoureadsyourtextsAct “tooperfect” inthebeginningVerballyAbusiveLiesNeverApologizemakes youcheck inwhen outwith friendsinsultingchecksup onyouEasy toangerfeelingnervous orsick whenyour partneris upsetInsult youor putyou downAngryTakesadvantageof youthreateningImmaturehurtsyouthrowingthingsthreatens tohurtthemselvesbecause ofyouconstantlycallingyouCheaterCan’tForgivethey onlytalk aboutthemselvesLack ofcompromiseFits ofragehas nootherfriendsignoresyousubstanceuse orabusetells youhow todressdoesn'tcare aboutyour goalsor dreamsdoesn'tcare aboutyourfeelingscriticizingintolerantofopposingviewsaccusesyou ofcheatingwitholdsaffectionthreatensto hurtpeopleyou lovemanipulativecallsyounamesfollowsyouHides youfromothers intheir lifeGuilttrippingyou feellike youcan't beyouExtremejealousydemandsall ofyour timemakes feellike I'mwalking onegg shellstries toisolate youfrom yourfriendshatesyourfriendsWants tochangeyouyou don'tfeelemotionallysafefamily &friendsdislike thispersonUnpredict-abledoes nottreat youas anequalchecksthe historyon yourphonepressure youto do thingsyou don'twant toControllinghitsyouuses silenttreatmentaspunishmentdoesn'tlike yourfamilydemandsyourpasswordsmakesyou feelafraidInterrogationsabout yourdaylack ofempathyPhysicallyabusivemakesyou doubtyoursanityblamesyou foreverythingtells youno oneelse wouldwant youDisrespectfulunreliableafraid toexpressyourfeelingsCrueltoothersspeakspoorly ofyou to theirfriendsDenyingtheirbehavioraccusesyou offlirtingmakesall of thedecisionsSecretiveyou don'tfeelphysicallysafeLackof trustmakesyou feelTRAPPEDrefusestoapologizeconstantlytextingyoumajor moodswings fromhappy toangrybelittles/makesfun of youcheatinguses yourpastagainstyoureadsyourtextsAct “tooperfect” inthebeginningVerballyAbusiveLiesNeverApologizemakes youcheck inwhen outwith friendsinsultingchecksup onyouEasy toangerfeelingnervous orsick whenyour partneris upsetInsult youor putyou downAngryTakesadvantageof youthreateningImmaturehurtsyouthrowingthingsthreatens tohurtthemselvesbecause ofyouconstantlycallingyouCheaterCan’tForgivethey onlytalk aboutthemselvesLack ofcompromiseFits ofragehas nootherfriendsignoresyousubstanceuse orabusetells youhow todressdoesn'tcare aboutyour goalsor dreamsdoesn'tcare aboutyourfeelingscriticizingintolerantofopposingviewsaccusesyou ofcheatingwitholdsaffectionthreatensto hurtpeopleyou lovemanipulativecallsyounamesfollowsyouHides youfromothers intheir lifeGuilttrippingyou feellike youcan't beyouExtremejealousydemandsall ofyour timemakes feellike I'mwalking onegg shellstries toisolate youfrom yourfriendshatesyourfriendsWants tochangeyou

Relationship Red Flags Bingo CSH - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. G-you don't feel emotionally safe
  2. G-family & friends dislike this person
  3. O-Unpredict-able
  4. B-does not treat you as an equal
  5. G-checks the history on your phone
  6. N-pressure you to do things you don't want to
  7. N-Controlling
  8. G-hits you
  9. O-uses silent treatment as punishment
  10. I-doesn't like your family
  11. I-demands your passwords
  12. I-makes you feel afraid
  13. B-Interrogations about your day
  14. G-lack of empathy
  15. O-Physically abusive
  16. N-makes you doubt your sanity
  17. I-blames you for everything
  18. I-tells you no one else would want you
  19. B-Disrespectful
  20. G-unreliable
  21. G-afraid to express your feelings
  22. B-Cruel to others
  23. O-speaks poorly of you to their friends
  24. N-Denying their behavior
  25. I-accuses you of flirting
  26. O-makes all of the decisions
  27. G-Secretive
  28. O-you don't feel physically safe
  29. G-Lack of trust
  30. O-makes you feel TRAPPED
  31. B-refuses to apologize
  32. O-constantly texting you
  33. G-major mood swings from happy to angry
  34. O-belittles/makes fun of you
  35. B-cheating
  36. N-uses your past against you
  37. N-reads your texts
  38. N-Act “too perfect” in the beginning
  39. B-Verbally Abusive
  40. B-Lies
  41. I-Never Apologize
  42. N-makes you check in when out with friends
  43. I-insulting
  44. I-checks up on you
  45. O-Easy to anger
  46. O-feeling nervous or sick when your partner is upset
  47. N-Insult you or put you down
  48. B-Angry
  49. B-Takes advantage of you
  50. N-threatening
  51. I-Immature
  52. N-hurts you
  53. N-throwing things
  54. B-threatens to hurt themselves because of you
  55. G-constantly calling you
  56. I-Cheater
  57. B-Can’t Forgive
  58. G-they only talk about themselves
  59. O-Lack of compromise
  60. G-Fits of rage
  61. B-has no other friends
  62. O-ignores you
  63. I-substance use or abuse
  64. B-tells you how to dress
  65. N-doesn't care about your goals or dreams
  66. N-doesn't care about your feelings
  67. G-criticizing
  68. O-intolerant of opposing views
  69. N-accuses you of cheating
  70. N-witholds affection
  71. G-threatens to hurt people you love
  72. G-manipulative
  73. I-calls you names
  74. I-follows you
  75. G-Hides you from others in their life
  76. I-Guilt tripping
  77. B-you feel like you can't be you
  78. O-Extreme jealousy
  79. B-demands all of your time
  80. I-makes feel like I'm walking on egg shells
  81. B-tries to isolate you from your friends
  82. O-hates your friends
  83. I-Wants to change you