NeverApologizeImmaturethrowingthingshitsyoumajor moodswings fromhappy toangrythreatensto hurtpeopleyou loveignoresyouhatesyourfriendsmakesyou feelafraidcriticizingyou feellike youcan't beyouintolerantofopposingviewsrefusestoapologizefollowsyouwitholdsaffectionCheaterinsultingthreateningsubstanceuse orabuseconstantlytextingyoutries toisolate youfrom yourfriendsthreatens tohurtthemselvesbecause ofyoublamesyou foreverythingaccusesyou ofcheatingmakesall of thedecisionsconstantlycallingyouAct “tooperfect” inthebeginningAngryafraid toexpressyourfeelingsdoesn'tlike yourfamilyVerballyAbusiveEasy toangerpressure youto do thingsyou don'twant todemandsyourpasswordsWants tochangeyouControllingUnpredict-ableCan’tForgiveFits ofragebelittles/makesfun of youLack ofcompromisetells youno oneelse wouldwant youHides youfromothers intheir lifedemandsall ofyour timemanipulativeSecretivechecksthe historyon yourphoneaccusesyou offlirtinglack ofempathyuses silenttreatmentaspunishmentunreliablespeakspoorly ofyou to theirfriendsLiesGuilttrippingcheatingExtremejealousyfeelingnervous orsick whenyour partneris upsetCrueltoothersfamily &friendsdislike thispersontells youhow todressmakesyou doubtyoursanityyou don'tfeelphysicallysafemakes feellike I'mwalking onegg shellshas nootherfriendsdoesn'tcare aboutyour goalsor dreamsthey onlytalk aboutthemselvesTakesadvantageof youmakes youcheck inwhen outwith friendsInsult youor putyou downyou don'tfeelemotionallysafeDenyingtheirbehaviorreadsyourtextscallsyounamesmakesyou feelTRAPPEDhurtsyoudoesn'tcare aboutyourfeelingsuses yourpastagainstyouDisrespectfulInterrogationsabout yourdaychecksup onyouPhysicallyabusiveLackof trustdoes nottreat youas anequalNeverApologizeImmaturethrowingthingshitsyoumajor moodswings fromhappy toangrythreatensto hurtpeopleyou loveignoresyouhatesyourfriendsmakesyou feelafraidcriticizingyou feellike youcan't beyouintolerantofopposingviewsrefusestoapologizefollowsyouwitholdsaffectionCheaterinsultingthreateningsubstanceuse orabuseconstantlytextingyoutries toisolate youfrom yourfriendsthreatens tohurtthemselvesbecause ofyoublamesyou foreverythingaccusesyou ofcheatingmakesall of thedecisionsconstantlycallingyouAct “tooperfect” inthebeginningAngryafraid toexpressyourfeelingsdoesn'tlike yourfamilyVerballyAbusiveEasy toangerpressure youto do thingsyou don'twant todemandsyourpasswordsWants tochangeyouControllingUnpredict-ableCan’tForgiveFits ofragebelittles/makesfun of youLack ofcompromisetells youno oneelse wouldwant youHides youfromothers intheir lifedemandsall ofyour timemanipulativeSecretivechecksthe historyon yourphoneaccusesyou offlirtinglack ofempathyuses silenttreatmentaspunishmentunreliablespeakspoorly ofyou to theirfriendsLiesGuilttrippingcheatingExtremejealousyfeelingnervous orsick whenyour partneris upsetCrueltoothersfamily &friendsdislike thispersontells youhow todressmakesyou doubtyoursanityyou don'tfeelphysicallysafemakes feellike I'mwalking onegg shellshas nootherfriendsdoesn'tcare aboutyour goalsor dreamsthey onlytalk aboutthemselvesTakesadvantageof youmakes youcheck inwhen outwith friendsInsult youor putyou downyou don'tfeelemotionallysafeDenyingtheirbehaviorreadsyourtextscallsyounamesmakesyou feelTRAPPEDhurtsyoudoesn'tcare aboutyourfeelingsuses yourpastagainstyouDisrespectfulInterrogationsabout yourdaychecksup onyouPhysicallyabusiveLackof trustdoes nottreat youas anequal

Relationship Red Flags Bingo CSH - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. I-Never Apologize
  2. I-Immature
  3. N-throwing things
  4. G-hits you
  5. G-major mood swings from happy to angry
  6. G-threatens to hurt people you love
  7. O-ignores you
  8. O-hates your friends
  9. I-makes you feel afraid
  10. G-criticizing
  11. B-you feel like you can't be you
  12. O-intolerant of opposing views
  13. B-refuses to apologize
  14. I-follows you
  15. N-witholds affection
  16. I-Cheater
  17. I-insulting
  18. N-threatening
  19. I-substance use or abuse
  20. O-constantly texting you
  21. B-tries to isolate you from your friends
  22. B-threatens to hurt themselves because of you
  23. I-blames you for everything
  24. N-accuses you of cheating
  25. O-makes all of the decisions
  26. G-constantly calling you
  27. N-Act “too perfect” in the beginning
  28. B-Angry
  29. G-afraid to express your feelings
  30. I-doesn't like your family
  31. B-Verbally Abusive
  32. O-Easy to anger
  33. N-pressure you to do things you don't want to
  34. I-demands your passwords
  35. I-Wants to change you
  36. N-Controlling
  37. O-Unpredict-able
  38. B-Can’t Forgive
  39. G-Fits of rage
  40. O-belittles/makes fun of you
  41. O-Lack of compromise
  42. I-tells you no one else would want you
  43. G-Hides you from others in their life
  44. B-demands all of your time
  45. G-manipulative
  46. G-Secretive
  47. G-checks the history on your phone
  48. I-accuses you of flirting
  49. G-lack of empathy
  50. O-uses silent treatment as punishment
  51. G-unreliable
  52. O-speaks poorly of you to their friends
  53. B-Lies
  54. I-Guilt tripping
  55. B-cheating
  56. O-Extreme jealousy
  57. O-feeling nervous or sick when your partner is upset
  58. B-Cruel to others
  59. G-family & friends dislike this person
  60. B-tells you how to dress
  61. N-makes you doubt your sanity
  62. O-you don't feel physically safe
  63. I-makes feel like I'm walking on egg shells
  64. B-has no other friends
  65. N-doesn't care about your goals or dreams
  66. G-they only talk about themselves
  67. B-Takes advantage of you
  68. N-makes you check in when out with friends
  69. N-Insult you or put you down
  70. G-you don't feel emotionally safe
  71. N-Denying their behavior
  72. N-reads your texts
  73. I-calls you names
  74. O-makes you feel TRAPPED
  75. N-hurts you
  76. N-doesn't care about your feelings
  77. N-uses your past against you
  78. B-Disrespectful
  79. B-Interrogations about your day
  80. I-checks up on you
  81. O-Physically abusive
  82. G-Lack of trust
  83. B-does not treat you as an equal