Refuse tolisten tothe otherpersontrymediationwith atrusted adultThreatenthe otherpersontake deepbreathes ifyou start tofeel triggeredYell andraise yourvoicesetappropriateboundariesRefuse tocompromiseRefuse tocompromiseacknowledgecriticismAvoid takingresponsibilitypay attentionto your bodyand how youfeelMakeaccusationsMakeassumptionsabout theother person’sfeelingsStay onone topicat a timeDirect theblame tosomeoneelsebe opento otherspoint ofviewput yourselfin the otherpersonsshoesStayopenmindeddefine thesource ofconflictCriticize orattack theotherperson’scharacterImmediatelybecomedefensivefocus onconflictresolutionrather than“winning”Try to“win” theargumentpracticeactivelisteningcommunicateyour feelingsOnly careaboutsharing yourpoint of viewBe aware ofyour owndefensivenessuse “I”statementsAvoid takingresponsibilityRefuse tolisten tothe otherpersontrymediationwith atrusted adultThreatenthe otherpersontake deepbreathes ifyou start tofeel triggeredYell andraise yourvoicesetappropriateboundariesRefuse tocompromiseRefuse tocompromiseacknowledgecriticismAvoid takingresponsibilitypay attentionto your bodyand how youfeelMakeaccusationsMakeassumptionsabout theother person’sfeelingsStay onone topicat a timeDirect theblame tosomeoneelsebe opento otherspoint ofviewput yourselfin the otherpersonsshoesStayopenmindeddefine thesource ofconflictCriticize orattack theotherperson’scharacterImmediatelybecomedefensivefocus onconflictresolutionrather than“winning”Try to“win” theargumentpracticeactivelisteningcommunicateyour feelingsOnly careaboutsharing yourpoint of viewBe aware ofyour owndefensivenessuse “I”statementsAvoid takingresponsibility

Conflict Resolution Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. B-Refuse to listen to the other person
  2. I-try mediation with a trusted adult
  3. O-Threaten the other person
  4. N-take deep breathes if you start to feel triggered
  5. N-Yell and raise your voice
  6. N-set appropriate boundaries
  7. I-Refuse to compromise
  8. O-Refuse to compromise
  9. G-acknowledge criticism
  10. N-Avoid taking responsibility
  11. G-pay attention to your body and how you feel
  12. B-Make accusations
  13. O-Make assumptions about the other person’s feelings
  14. I-Stay on one topic at a time
  15. B-Direct the blame to someone else
  16. G-be open to others point of view
  17. O-put yourself in the other persons shoes
  18. B-Stay open minded
  19. G-define the source of conflict
  20. O-Criticize or attack the other person’s character
  21. G-Immediately become defensive
  22. I-focus on conflict resolution rather than “winning”
  23. B-Try to “win” the argument
  24. I-practice active listening
  25. B-communicate your feelings
  26. G-Only care about sharing your point of view
  27. N-Be aware of your own defensiveness
  28. I-use “I” statements
  29. O-Avoid taking responsibility