Stay onone topicat a timepracticeactivelisteningsetappropriateboundariesAvoid takingresponsibilityRefuse tolisten tothe otherpersonImmediatelybecomedefensivetake deepbreathes ifyou start tofeel triggeredRefuse tocompromiseput yourselfin the otherpersonsshoesThreatenthe otherpersonStayopenmindedTry to“win” theargumentacknowledgecriticismCriticize orattack theotherperson’scharacterpay attentionto your bodyand how youfeelYell andraise yourvoicedefine thesource ofconflictcommunicateyour feelingsuse “I”statementsbe opento otherspoint ofviewOnly careaboutsharing yourpoint of viewBe aware ofyour owndefensivenessRefuse tocompromisetrymediationwith atrusted adultMakeassumptionsabout theother person’sfeelingsfocus onconflictresolutionrather than“winning”Direct theblame tosomeoneelseAvoid takingresponsibilityMakeaccusationsStay onone topicat a timepracticeactivelisteningsetappropriateboundariesAvoid takingresponsibilityRefuse tolisten tothe otherpersonImmediatelybecomedefensivetake deepbreathes ifyou start tofeel triggeredRefuse tocompromiseput yourselfin the otherpersonsshoesThreatenthe otherpersonStayopenmindedTry to“win” theargumentacknowledgecriticismCriticize orattack theotherperson’scharacterpay attentionto your bodyand how youfeelYell andraise yourvoicedefine thesource ofconflictcommunicateyour feelingsuse “I”statementsbe opento otherspoint ofviewOnly careaboutsharing yourpoint of viewBe aware ofyour owndefensivenessRefuse tocompromisetrymediationwith atrusted adultMakeassumptionsabout theother person’sfeelingsfocus onconflictresolutionrather than“winning”Direct theblame tosomeoneelseAvoid takingresponsibilityMakeaccusations

Conflict Resolution Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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G
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B
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G
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O
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G
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N
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G
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B
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B
  1. I-Stay on one topic at a time
  2. I-practice active listening
  3. N-set appropriate boundaries
  4. O-Avoid taking responsibility
  5. B-Refuse to listen to the other person
  6. G-Immediately become defensive
  7. N-take deep breathes if you start to feel triggered
  8. I-Refuse to compromise
  9. O-put yourself in the other persons shoes
  10. O-Threaten the other person
  11. B-Stay open minded
  12. B-Try to “win” the argument
  13. G-acknowledge criticism
  14. O-Criticize or attack the other person’s character
  15. G-pay attention to your body and how you feel
  16. N-Yell and raise your voice
  17. G-define the source of conflict
  18. B-communicate your feelings
  19. I-use “I” statements
  20. G-be open to others point of view
  21. G-Only care about sharing your point of view
  22. N-Be aware of your own defensiveness
  23. O-Refuse to compromise
  24. I-try mediation with a trusted adult
  25. O-Make assumptions about the other person’s feelings
  26. I-focus on conflict resolution rather than “winning”
  27. B-Direct the blame to someone else
  28. N-Avoid taking responsibility
  29. B-Make accusations