StayopenmindedMakeaccusationssetappropriateboundariestrymediationwith atrusted adultOnly careaboutsharing yourpoint of viewDirect theblame tosomeoneelseRefuse tolisten tothe otherpersonYell andraise yourvoiceRefuse tocompromisecommunicateyour feelingspracticeactivelisteningpay attentionto your bodyand how youfeelAvoid takingresponsibilityMakeassumptionsabout theother person’sfeelingsCriticize orattack theotherperson’scharactertake deepbreathes ifyou start tofeel triggeredAvoid takingresponsibilityBe aware ofyour owndefensivenessdefine thesource ofconflictacknowledgecriticismStay onone topicat a timeImmediatelybecomedefensiveThreatenthe otherpersonbe opento otherspoint ofviewuse “I”statementsTry to“win” theargumentput yourselfin the otherpersonsshoesfocus onconflictresolutionrather than“winning”Refuse tocompromiseStayopenmindedMakeaccusationssetappropriateboundariestrymediationwith atrusted adultOnly careaboutsharing yourpoint of viewDirect theblame tosomeoneelseRefuse tolisten tothe otherpersonYell andraise yourvoiceRefuse tocompromisecommunicateyour feelingspracticeactivelisteningpay attentionto your bodyand how youfeelAvoid takingresponsibilityMakeassumptionsabout theother person’sfeelingsCriticize orattack theotherperson’scharactertake deepbreathes ifyou start tofeel triggeredAvoid takingresponsibilityBe aware ofyour owndefensivenessdefine thesource ofconflictacknowledgecriticismStay onone topicat a timeImmediatelybecomedefensiveThreatenthe otherpersonbe opento otherspoint ofviewuse “I”statementsTry to“win” theargumentput yourselfin the otherpersonsshoesfocus onconflictresolutionrather than“winning”Refuse tocompromise

Conflict Resolution Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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I
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G
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O
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O
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O
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N
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  1. B-Stay open minded
  2. B-Make accusations
  3. N-set appropriate boundaries
  4. I-try mediation with a trusted adult
  5. G-Only care about sharing your point of view
  6. B-Direct the blame to someone else
  7. B-Refuse to listen to the other person
  8. N-Yell and raise your voice
  9. O-Refuse to compromise
  10. B-communicate your feelings
  11. I-practice active listening
  12. G-pay attention to your body and how you feel
  13. N-Avoid taking responsibility
  14. O-Make assumptions about the other person’s feelings
  15. O-Criticize or attack the other person’s character
  16. N-take deep breathes if you start to feel triggered
  17. O-Avoid taking responsibility
  18. N-Be aware of your own defensiveness
  19. G-define the source of conflict
  20. G-acknowledge criticism
  21. I-Stay on one topic at a time
  22. G-Immediately become defensive
  23. O-Threaten the other person
  24. G-be open to others point of view
  25. I-use “I” statements
  26. B-Try to “win” the argument
  27. O-put yourself in the other persons shoes
  28. I-focus on conflict resolution rather than “winning”
  29. I-Refuse to compromise