StayopenmindedStay onone topicat a timeAvoid takingresponsibilitypracticeactivelisteningtrymediationwith atrusted adultbe opento otherspoint ofviewfocus onconflictresolutionrather than“winning”Be aware ofyour owndefensivenesspay attentionto your bodyand how youfeelOnly careaboutsharing yourpoint of viewRefuse tocompromisetake deepbreathes ifyou start tofeel triggereddefine thesource ofconflictput yourselfin the otherpersonsshoesCriticize orattack theotherperson’scharacterAvoid takingresponsibilityMakeassumptionsabout theother person’sfeelingscommunicateyour feelingsThreatenthe otherpersonImmediatelybecomedefensiveMakeaccusationsuse “I”statementsDirect theblame tosomeoneelseRefuse tolisten tothe otherpersonYell andraise yourvoiceRefuse tocompromiseTry to“win” theargumentacknowledgecriticismsetappropriateboundariesStayopenmindedStay onone topicat a timeAvoid takingresponsibilitypracticeactivelisteningtrymediationwith atrusted adultbe opento otherspoint ofviewfocus onconflictresolutionrather than“winning”Be aware ofyour owndefensivenesspay attentionto your bodyand how youfeelOnly careaboutsharing yourpoint of viewRefuse tocompromisetake deepbreathes ifyou start tofeel triggereddefine thesource ofconflictput yourselfin the otherpersonsshoesCriticize orattack theotherperson’scharacterAvoid takingresponsibilityMakeassumptionsabout theother person’sfeelingscommunicateyour feelingsThreatenthe otherpersonImmediatelybecomedefensiveMakeaccusationsuse “I”statementsDirect theblame tosomeoneelseRefuse tolisten tothe otherpersonYell andraise yourvoiceRefuse tocompromiseTry to“win” theargumentacknowledgecriticismsetappropriateboundaries

Conflict Resolution Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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I
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I
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I
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G
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G
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I
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N
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G
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O
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O
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O
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O
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B
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O
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G
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  1. B-Stay open minded
  2. I-Stay on one topic at a time
  3. N-Avoid taking responsibility
  4. I-practice active listening
  5. I-try mediation with a trusted adult
  6. G-be open to others point of view
  7. I-focus on conflict resolution rather than “winning”
  8. N-Be aware of your own defensiveness
  9. G-pay attention to your body and how you feel
  10. G-Only care about sharing your point of view
  11. I-Refuse to compromise
  12. N-take deep breathes if you start to feel triggered
  13. G-define the source of conflict
  14. O-put yourself in the other persons shoes
  15. O-Criticize or attack the other person’s character
  16. O-Avoid taking responsibility
  17. O-Make assumptions about the other person’s feelings
  18. B-communicate your feelings
  19. O-Threaten the other person
  20. G-Immediately become defensive
  21. B-Make accusations
  22. I-use “I” statements
  23. B-Direct the blame to someone else
  24. B-Refuse to listen to the other person
  25. N-Yell and raise your voice
  26. O-Refuse to compromise
  27. B-Try to “win” the argument
  28. G-acknowledge criticism
  29. N-set appropriate boundaries