communicateyour feelingsThreatenthe otherpersonRefuse tocompromiseMakeaccusationsRefuse tocompromiseBe aware ofyour owndefensivenesstrymediationwith atrusted adultImmediatelybecomedefensiveput yourselfin the otherpersonsshoesDirect theblame tosomeoneelsesetappropriateboundariesRefuse tolisten tothe otherpersondefine thesource ofconflictuse “I”statementsAvoid takingresponsibilitypracticeactivelisteningacknowledgecriticismMakeassumptionsabout theother person’sfeelingsTry to“win” theargumentStay onone topicat a timefocus onconflictresolutionrather than“winning”Yell andraise yourvoiceCriticize orattack theotherperson’scharacterOnly careaboutsharing yourpoint of viewbe opento otherspoint ofviewStayopenmindedpay attentionto your bodyand how youfeeltake deepbreathes ifyou start tofeel triggeredAvoid takingresponsibilitycommunicateyour feelingsThreatenthe otherpersonRefuse tocompromiseMakeaccusationsRefuse tocompromiseBe aware ofyour owndefensivenesstrymediationwith atrusted adultImmediatelybecomedefensiveput yourselfin the otherpersonsshoesDirect theblame tosomeoneelsesetappropriateboundariesRefuse tolisten tothe otherpersondefine thesource ofconflictuse “I”statementsAvoid takingresponsibilitypracticeactivelisteningacknowledgecriticismMakeassumptionsabout theother person’sfeelingsTry to“win” theargumentStay onone topicat a timefocus onconflictresolutionrather than“winning”Yell andraise yourvoiceCriticize orattack theotherperson’scharacterOnly careaboutsharing yourpoint of viewbe opento otherspoint ofviewStayopenmindedpay attentionto your bodyand how youfeeltake deepbreathes ifyou start tofeel triggeredAvoid takingresponsibility

Conflict Resolution Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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B
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G
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I
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O
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I
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G
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O
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  1. B-communicate your feelings
  2. O-Threaten the other person
  3. I-Refuse to compromise
  4. B-Make accusations
  5. O-Refuse to compromise
  6. N-Be aware of your own defensiveness
  7. I-try mediation with a trusted adult
  8. G-Immediately become defensive
  9. O-put yourself in the other persons shoes
  10. B-Direct the blame to someone else
  11. N-set appropriate boundaries
  12. B-Refuse to listen to the other person
  13. G-define the source of conflict
  14. I-use “I” statements
  15. O-Avoid taking responsibility
  16. I-practice active listening
  17. G-acknowledge criticism
  18. O-Make assumptions about the other person’s feelings
  19. B-Try to “win” the argument
  20. I-Stay on one topic at a time
  21. I-focus on conflict resolution rather than “winning”
  22. N-Yell and raise your voice
  23. O-Criticize or attack the other person’s character
  24. G-Only care about sharing your point of view
  25. G-be open to others point of view
  26. B-Stay open minded
  27. G-pay attention to your body and how you feel
  28. N-take deep breathes if you start to feel triggered
  29. N-Avoid taking responsibility