StayopenmindedYell andraise yourvoiceDirect theblame tosomeoneelseStay onone topicat a timeAvoid takingresponsibilityMakeaccusationsput yourselfin the otherpersonsshoesfocus onconflictresolutionrather than“winning”practiceactivelisteningcommunicateyour feelingstrymediationwith atrusted adultsetappropriateboundariespay attentionto your bodyand how youfeelacknowledgecriticismBe aware ofyour owndefensivenessImmediatelybecomedefensivebe opento otherspoint ofviewTry to“win” theargumentCriticize orattack theotherperson’scharacterThreatenthe otherpersonMakeassumptionsabout theother person’sfeelingsAvoid takingresponsibilityuse “I”statementstake deepbreathes ifyou start tofeel triggeredRefuse tocompromiseRefuse tocompromisedefine thesource ofconflictRefuse tolisten tothe otherpersonOnly careaboutsharing yourpoint of viewStayopenmindedYell andraise yourvoiceDirect theblame tosomeoneelseStay onone topicat a timeAvoid takingresponsibilityMakeaccusationsput yourselfin the otherpersonsshoesfocus onconflictresolutionrather than“winning”practiceactivelisteningcommunicateyour feelingstrymediationwith atrusted adultsetappropriateboundariespay attentionto your bodyand how youfeelacknowledgecriticismBe aware ofyour owndefensivenessImmediatelybecomedefensivebe opento otherspoint ofviewTry to“win” theargumentCriticize orattack theotherperson’scharacterThreatenthe otherpersonMakeassumptionsabout theother person’sfeelingsAvoid takingresponsibilityuse “I”statementstake deepbreathes ifyou start tofeel triggeredRefuse tocompromiseRefuse tocompromisedefine thesource ofconflictRefuse tolisten tothe otherpersonOnly careaboutsharing yourpoint of view

Conflict Resolution Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. B-Stay open minded
  2. N-Yell and raise your voice
  3. B-Direct the blame to someone else
  4. I-Stay on one topic at a time
  5. N-Avoid taking responsibility
  6. B-Make accusations
  7. O-put yourself in the other persons shoes
  8. I-focus on conflict resolution rather than “winning”
  9. I-practice active listening
  10. B-communicate your feelings
  11. I-try mediation with a trusted adult
  12. N-set appropriate boundaries
  13. G-pay attention to your body and how you feel
  14. G-acknowledge criticism
  15. N-Be aware of your own defensiveness
  16. G-Immediately become defensive
  17. G-be open to others point of view
  18. B-Try to “win” the argument
  19. O-Criticize or attack the other person’s character
  20. O-Threaten the other person
  21. O-Make assumptions about the other person’s feelings
  22. O-Avoid taking responsibility
  23. I-use “I” statements
  24. N-take deep breathes if you start to feel triggered
  25. O-Refuse to compromise
  26. I-Refuse to compromise
  27. G-define the source of conflict
  28. B-Refuse to listen to the other person
  29. G-Only care about sharing your point of view