Stay onone topicat a timeBe aware ofyour owndefensivenesspay attentionto your bodyand how youfeelImmediatelybecomedefensivesetappropriateboundariesacknowledgecriticismbe opento otherspoint ofviewOnly careaboutsharing yourpoint of viewIntentionallyescalate theconflictput yourselfin the otherpersonsshoesuse “I”statementspracticeactivelisteningdefine thesource ofconflictcommunicateyour feelingsfocus onconflictresolutionrather than“winning”Makeassumptionsabout theother person’sfeelingsSpeakover theotherpersontake deepbreathes ifyou start tofeel triggeredCriticize orattack theotherperson’scharacterThreatenthe otherpersonYell andraise yourvoiceAvoid takingresponsibilityTry to“win” theargumentRefuse tocompromiseAvoid takingresponsibilityRefuse tolisten tothe otherpersontrymediationwith atrusted adultStayopenmindedMakeaccusationsStay onone topicat a timeBe aware ofyour owndefensivenesspay attentionto your bodyand how youfeelImmediatelybecomedefensivesetappropriateboundariesacknowledgecriticismbe opento otherspoint ofviewOnly careaboutsharing yourpoint of viewIntentionallyescalate theconflictput yourselfin the otherpersonsshoesuse “I”statementspracticeactivelisteningdefine thesource ofconflictcommunicateyour feelingsfocus onconflictresolutionrather than“winning”Makeassumptionsabout theother person’sfeelingsSpeakover theotherpersontake deepbreathes ifyou start tofeel triggeredCriticize orattack theotherperson’scharacterThreatenthe otherpersonYell andraise yourvoiceAvoid takingresponsibilityTry to“win” theargumentRefuse tocompromiseAvoid takingresponsibilityRefuse tolisten tothe otherpersontrymediationwith atrusted adultStayopenmindedMakeaccusations

Untitled Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Stay on one topic at a time
  2. Be aware of your own defensiveness
  3. pay attention to your body and how you feel
  4. Immediately become defensive
  5. set appropriate boundaries
  6. acknowledge criticism
  7. be open to others point of view
  8. Only care about sharing your point of view
  9. Intentionally escalate the conflict
  10. put yourself in the other persons shoes
  11. use “I” statements
  12. practice active listening
  13. define the source of conflict
  14. communicate your feelings
  15. focus on conflict resolution rather than “winning”
  16. Make assumptions about the other person’s feelings
  17. Speak over the other person
  18. take deep breathes if you start to feel triggered
  19. Criticize or attack the other person’s character
  20. Threaten the other person
  21. Yell and raise your voice
  22. Avoid taking responsibility
  23. Try to “win” the argument
  24. Refuse to compromise
  25. Avoid taking responsibility
  26. Refuse to listen to the other person
  27. try mediation with a trusted adult
  28. Stay open minded
  29. Make accusations