Uses yourfear ofabandonmentagainst youTells you to"tone down"your intenseemotionalresponsesFinds itannoyingwhen youask forvalidation"Have youtried notfeelinglike that?"isQuout"Active 1hour ago" butdidn't openyourmessageGhostsyouTells you thatyour BPDsymptomsare "bad"Doesn'thang outwith you offthe InternetPraisesother peoplein yourpresenceAppears toforget you evenexist when theydon't needsomething fromyouAbandons you,but doesn't tellyou and insteadleaves youwaiting for theirnext messageIs microaggressiveto marginalizedgroups you're a partof, and silences youwhen you call themout"I don't hateyou, but [thingthat basicallymeans theyhate you]"You get sad whenyou see posts byborderlines whoseFPs don't actuallyhate them becauseyou have irrefutableproof yours doesTalksabouttheir "bestfriends"Takesadvantageof your lovefor themYou're afraid toask if they hateyou becauseyou have ahunch they'llsay "yes"Nevertextsyou firstSays "If I hatedyou, why would Ido [thingindicatingotherwise]?" andthen stops doingthatGives you all theattention, only tolater give younone of theattention forreasons youcannot determineCallsyouclingyShames youforoversharing oracts creepedout by itDoesn't interact withyou outside theclassroom/workplaceUses yourfear ofabandonmentagainst youTells you to"tone down"your intenseemotionalresponsesFinds itannoyingwhen youask forvalidation"Have youtried notfeelinglike that?"isQuout"Active 1hour ago" butdidn't openyourmessageGhostsyouTells you thatyour BPDsymptomsare "bad"Doesn'thang outwith you offthe InternetPraisesother peoplein yourpresenceAppears toforget you evenexist when theydon't needsomething fromyouAbandons you,but doesn't tellyou and insteadleaves youwaiting for theirnext messageIs microaggressiveto marginalizedgroups you're a partof, and silences youwhen you call themout"I don't hateyou, but [thingthat basicallymeans theyhate you]"You get sad whenyou see posts byborderlines whoseFPs don't actuallyhate them becauseyou have irrefutableproof yours doesTalksabouttheir "bestfriends"Takesadvantageof your lovefor themYou're afraid toask if they hateyou becauseyou have ahunch they'llsay "yes"Nevertextsyou firstSays "If I hatedyou, why would Ido [thingindicatingotherwise]?" andthen stops doingthatGives you all theattention, only tolater give younone of theattention forreasons youcannot determineCallsyouclingyShames youforoversharing oracts creepedout by itDoesn't interact withyou outside theclassroom/workplace

Terrible FP (Favorite Person) Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Uses your fear of abandonment against you
  2. Tells you to "tone down" your intense emotional responses
  3. Finds it annoying when you ask for validation
  4. "Have you tried not feeling like that?"
  5. is Quout
  6. "Active 1 hour ago" but didn't open your message
  7. Ghosts you
  8. Tells you that your BPD symptoms are "bad"
  9. Doesn't hang out with you off the Internet
  10. Praises other people in your presence
  11. Appears to forget you even exist when they don't need something from you
  12. Abandons you, but doesn't tell you and instead leaves you waiting for their next message
  13. Is microaggressive to marginalized groups you're a part of, and silences you when you call them out
  14. "I don't hate you, but [thing that basically means they hate you]"
  15. You get sad when you see posts by borderlines whose FPs don't actually hate them because you have irrefutable proof yours does
  16. Talks about their "best friends"
  17. Takes advantage of your love for them
  18. You're afraid to ask if they hate you because you have a hunch they'll say "yes"
  19. Never texts you first
  20. Says "If I hated you, why would I do [thing indicating otherwise]?" and then stops doing that
  21. Gives you all the attention, only to later give you none of the attention for reasons you cannot determine
  22. Calls you clingy
  23. Shames you for oversharing or acts creeped out by it
  24. Doesn't interact with you outside the classroom/workplace