Abandons you,but doesn't tellyou and insteadleaves youwaiting for theirnext message"I don't hateyou, but [thingthat basicallymeans theyhate you]"You get sad whenyou see posts byborderlines whoseFPs don't actuallyhate them becauseyou have irrefutableproof yours doesCallsyouclingyShames youforoversharing oracts creepedout by itDoesn'thang outwith you offthe InternetTalksabouttheir "bestfriends"Finds itannoyingwhen youask forvalidationNevertextsyou firstYou're afraid toask if they hateyou becauseyou have ahunch they'llsay "yes""Active 1hour ago" butdidn't openyourmessageTakesadvantageof your lovefor themisQuoutSays "If I hatedyou, why would Ido [thingindicatingotherwise]?" andthen stops doingthatTells you thatyour BPDsymptomsare "bad"Doesn't interact withyou outside theclassroom/workplace"Have youtried notfeelinglike that?"Tells you to"tone down"your intenseemotionalresponsesAppears toforget you evenexist when theydon't needsomething fromyouGhostsyouPraisesother peoplein yourpresenceGives you all theattention, only tolater give younone of theattention forreasons youcannot determineIs microaggressiveto marginalizedgroups you're a partof, and silences youwhen you call themoutUses yourfear ofabandonmentagainst youAbandons you,but doesn't tellyou and insteadleaves youwaiting for theirnext message"I don't hateyou, but [thingthat basicallymeans theyhate you]"You get sad whenyou see posts byborderlines whoseFPs don't actuallyhate them becauseyou have irrefutableproof yours doesCallsyouclingyShames youforoversharing oracts creepedout by itDoesn'thang outwith you offthe InternetTalksabouttheir "bestfriends"Finds itannoyingwhen youask forvalidationNevertextsyou firstYou're afraid toask if they hateyou becauseyou have ahunch they'llsay "yes""Active 1hour ago" butdidn't openyourmessageTakesadvantageof your lovefor themisQuoutSays "If I hatedyou, why would Ido [thingindicatingotherwise]?" andthen stops doingthatTells you thatyour BPDsymptomsare "bad"Doesn't interact withyou outside theclassroom/workplace"Have youtried notfeelinglike that?"Tells you to"tone down"your intenseemotionalresponsesAppears toforget you evenexist when theydon't needsomething fromyouGhostsyouPraisesother peoplein yourpresenceGives you all theattention, only tolater give younone of theattention forreasons youcannot determineIs microaggressiveto marginalizedgroups you're a partof, and silences youwhen you call themoutUses yourfear ofabandonmentagainst you

Terrible FP (Favorite Person) Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Abandons you, but doesn't tell you and instead leaves you waiting for their next message
  2. "I don't hate you, but [thing that basically means they hate you]"
  3. You get sad when you see posts by borderlines whose FPs don't actually hate them because you have irrefutable proof yours does
  4. Calls you clingy
  5. Shames you for oversharing or acts creeped out by it
  6. Doesn't hang out with you off the Internet
  7. Talks about their "best friends"
  8. Finds it annoying when you ask for validation
  9. Never texts you first
  10. You're afraid to ask if they hate you because you have a hunch they'll say "yes"
  11. "Active 1 hour ago" but didn't open your message
  12. Takes advantage of your love for them
  13. is Quout
  14. Says "If I hated you, why would I do [thing indicating otherwise]?" and then stops doing that
  15. Tells you that your BPD symptoms are "bad"
  16. Doesn't interact with you outside the classroom/workplace
  17. "Have you tried not feeling like that?"
  18. Tells you to "tone down" your intense emotional responses
  19. Appears to forget you even exist when they don't need something from you
  20. Ghosts you
  21. Praises other people in your presence
  22. Gives you all the attention, only to later give you none of the attention for reasons you cannot determine
  23. Is microaggressive to marginalized groups you're a part of, and silences you when you call them out
  24. Uses your fear of abandonment against you