Is microaggressiveto marginalizedgroups you're a partof, and silences youwhen you call themoutFinds itannoyingwhen youask forvalidationUses yourfear ofabandonmentagainst youisQuoutSays "If I hatedyou, why would Ido [thingindicatingotherwise]?" andthen stops doingthatCallsyouclingyShames youforoversharing oracts creepedout by itDoesn'thang outwith you offthe InternetNevertextsyou firstYou're afraid toask if they hateyou becauseyou have ahunch they'llsay "yes"Abandons you,but doesn't tellyou and insteadleaves youwaiting for theirnext message"I don't hateyou, but [thingthat basicallymeans theyhate you]"Doesn't interact withyou outside theclassroom/workplaceGives you all theattention, only tolater give younone of theattention forreasons youcannot determinePraisesother peoplein yourpresenceGhostsyou"Active 1hour ago" butdidn't openyourmessage"Have youtried notfeelinglike that?"Tells you thatyour BPDsymptomsare "bad"Talksabouttheir "bestfriends"Takesadvantageof your lovefor themTells you to"tone down"your intenseemotionalresponsesYou get sad whenyou see posts byborderlines whoseFPs don't actuallyhate them becauseyou have irrefutableproof yours doesAppears toforget you evenexist when theydon't needsomething fromyouIs microaggressiveto marginalizedgroups you're a partof, and silences youwhen you call themoutFinds itannoyingwhen youask forvalidationUses yourfear ofabandonmentagainst youisQuoutSays "If I hatedyou, why would Ido [thingindicatingotherwise]?" andthen stops doingthatCallsyouclingyShames youforoversharing oracts creepedout by itDoesn'thang outwith you offthe InternetNevertextsyou firstYou're afraid toask if they hateyou becauseyou have ahunch they'llsay "yes"Abandons you,but doesn't tellyou and insteadleaves youwaiting for theirnext message"I don't hateyou, but [thingthat basicallymeans theyhate you]"Doesn't interact withyou outside theclassroom/workplaceGives you all theattention, only tolater give younone of theattention forreasons youcannot determinePraisesother peoplein yourpresenceGhostsyou"Active 1hour ago" butdidn't openyourmessage"Have youtried notfeelinglike that?"Tells you thatyour BPDsymptomsare "bad"Talksabouttheir "bestfriends"Takesadvantageof your lovefor themTells you to"tone down"your intenseemotionalresponsesYou get sad whenyou see posts byborderlines whoseFPs don't actuallyhate them becauseyou have irrefutableproof yours doesAppears toforget you evenexist when theydon't needsomething fromyou

Terrible FP (Favorite Person) Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Is microaggressive to marginalized groups you're a part of, and silences you when you call them out
  2. Finds it annoying when you ask for validation
  3. Uses your fear of abandonment against you
  4. is Quout
  5. Says "If I hated you, why would I do [thing indicating otherwise]?" and then stops doing that
  6. Calls you clingy
  7. Shames you for oversharing or acts creeped out by it
  8. Doesn't hang out with you off the Internet
  9. Never texts you first
  10. You're afraid to ask if they hate you because you have a hunch they'll say "yes"
  11. Abandons you, but doesn't tell you and instead leaves you waiting for their next message
  12. "I don't hate you, but [thing that basically means they hate you]"
  13. Doesn't interact with you outside the classroom/workplace
  14. Gives you all the attention, only to later give you none of the attention for reasons you cannot determine
  15. Praises other people in your presence
  16. Ghosts you
  17. "Active 1 hour ago" but didn't open your message
  18. "Have you tried not feeling like that?"
  19. Tells you that your BPD symptoms are "bad"
  20. Talks about their "best friends"
  21. Takes advantage of your love for them
  22. Tells you to "tone down" your intense emotional responses
  23. You get sad when you see posts by borderlines whose FPs don't actually hate them because you have irrefutable proof yours does
  24. Appears to forget you even exist when they don't need something from you