Shames youforoversharing oracts creepedout by itGives you all theattention, only tolater give younone of theattention forreasons youcannot determineAppears toforget you evenexist when theydon't needsomething fromyouTells you to"tone down"your intenseemotionalresponses"Active 1hour ago" butdidn't openyourmessageSays "If I hatedyou, why would Ido [thingindicatingotherwise]?" andthen stops doingthatTalksabouttheir "bestfriends"Doesn'thang outwith you offthe InternetTells you thatyour BPDsymptomsare "bad""I don't hateyou, but [thingthat basicallymeans theyhate you]"Takesadvantageof your lovefor themPraisesother peoplein yourpresenceDoesn't interact withyou outside theclassroom/workplaceAbandons you,but doesn't tellyou and insteadleaves youwaiting for theirnext messageFinds itannoyingwhen youask forvalidationGhostsyouUses yourfear ofabandonmentagainst youYou get sad whenyou see posts byborderlines whoseFPs don't actuallyhate them becauseyou have irrefutableproof yours doesYou're afraid toask if they hateyou becauseyou have ahunch they'llsay "yes"Is microaggressiveto marginalizedgroups you're a partof, and silences youwhen you call themoutCallsyouclingyNevertextsyou firstisQuout"Have youtried notfeelinglike that?"Shames youforoversharing oracts creepedout by itGives you all theattention, only tolater give younone of theattention forreasons youcannot determineAppears toforget you evenexist when theydon't needsomething fromyouTells you to"tone down"your intenseemotionalresponses"Active 1hour ago" butdidn't openyourmessageSays "If I hatedyou, why would Ido [thingindicatingotherwise]?" andthen stops doingthatTalksabouttheir "bestfriends"Doesn'thang outwith you offthe InternetTells you thatyour BPDsymptomsare "bad""I don't hateyou, but [thingthat basicallymeans theyhate you]"Takesadvantageof your lovefor themPraisesother peoplein yourpresenceDoesn't interact withyou outside theclassroom/workplaceAbandons you,but doesn't tellyou and insteadleaves youwaiting for theirnext messageFinds itannoyingwhen youask forvalidationGhostsyouUses yourfear ofabandonmentagainst youYou get sad whenyou see posts byborderlines whoseFPs don't actuallyhate them becauseyou have irrefutableproof yours doesYou're afraid toask if they hateyou becauseyou have ahunch they'llsay "yes"Is microaggressiveto marginalizedgroups you're a partof, and silences youwhen you call themoutCallsyouclingyNevertextsyou firstisQuout"Have youtried notfeelinglike that?"

Terrible FP (Favorite Person) Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Shames you for oversharing or acts creeped out by it
  2. Gives you all the attention, only to later give you none of the attention for reasons you cannot determine
  3. Appears to forget you even exist when they don't need something from you
  4. Tells you to "tone down" your intense emotional responses
  5. "Active 1 hour ago" but didn't open your message
  6. Says "If I hated you, why would I do [thing indicating otherwise]?" and then stops doing that
  7. Talks about their "best friends"
  8. Doesn't hang out with you off the Internet
  9. Tells you that your BPD symptoms are "bad"
  10. "I don't hate you, but [thing that basically means they hate you]"
  11. Takes advantage of your love for them
  12. Praises other people in your presence
  13. Doesn't interact with you outside the classroom/workplace
  14. Abandons you, but doesn't tell you and instead leaves you waiting for their next message
  15. Finds it annoying when you ask for validation
  16. Ghosts you
  17. Uses your fear of abandonment against you
  18. You get sad when you see posts by borderlines whose FPs don't actually hate them because you have irrefutable proof yours does
  19. You're afraid to ask if they hate you because you have a hunch they'll say "yes"
  20. Is microaggressive to marginalized groups you're a part of, and silences you when you call them out
  21. Calls you clingy
  22. Never texts you first
  23. is Quout
  24. "Have you tried not feeling like that?"