isQuoutTalksabouttheir "bestfriends""I don't hateyou, but [thingthat basicallymeans theyhate you]""Active 1hour ago" butdidn't openyourmessagePraisesother peoplein yourpresenceYou get sad whenyou see posts byborderlines whoseFPs don't actuallyhate them becauseyou have irrefutableproof yours doesTells you to"tone down"your intenseemotionalresponsesDoesn't interact withyou outside theclassroom/workplaceShames youforoversharing oracts creepedout by itGives you all theattention, only tolater give younone of theattention forreasons youcannot determineGhostsyouAbandons you,but doesn't tellyou and insteadleaves youwaiting for theirnext messageAppears toforget you evenexist when theydon't needsomething fromyouYou're afraid toask if they hateyou becauseyou have ahunch they'llsay "yes"Nevertextsyou firstSays "If I hatedyou, why would Ido [thingindicatingotherwise]?" andthen stops doingthatUses yourfear ofabandonmentagainst you"Have youtried notfeelinglike that?"Takesadvantageof your lovefor themFinds itannoyingwhen youask forvalidationCallsyouclingyDoesn'thang outwith you offthe InternetIs microaggressiveto marginalizedgroups you're a partof, and silences youwhen you call themoutTells you thatyour BPDsymptomsare "bad"isQuoutTalksabouttheir "bestfriends""I don't hateyou, but [thingthat basicallymeans theyhate you]""Active 1hour ago" butdidn't openyourmessagePraisesother peoplein yourpresenceYou get sad whenyou see posts byborderlines whoseFPs don't actuallyhate them becauseyou have irrefutableproof yours doesTells you to"tone down"your intenseemotionalresponsesDoesn't interact withyou outside theclassroom/workplaceShames youforoversharing oracts creepedout by itGives you all theattention, only tolater give younone of theattention forreasons youcannot determineGhostsyouAbandons you,but doesn't tellyou and insteadleaves youwaiting for theirnext messageAppears toforget you evenexist when theydon't needsomething fromyouYou're afraid toask if they hateyou becauseyou have ahunch they'llsay "yes"Nevertextsyou firstSays "If I hatedyou, why would Ido [thingindicatingotherwise]?" andthen stops doingthatUses yourfear ofabandonmentagainst you"Have youtried notfeelinglike that?"Takesadvantageof your lovefor themFinds itannoyingwhen youask forvalidationCallsyouclingyDoesn'thang outwith you offthe InternetIs microaggressiveto marginalizedgroups you're a partof, and silences youwhen you call themoutTells you thatyour BPDsymptomsare "bad"

Terrible FP (Favorite Person) Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. is Quout
  2. Talks about their "best friends"
  3. "I don't hate you, but [thing that basically means they hate you]"
  4. "Active 1 hour ago" but didn't open your message
  5. Praises other people in your presence
  6. You get sad when you see posts by borderlines whose FPs don't actually hate them because you have irrefutable proof yours does
  7. Tells you to "tone down" your intense emotional responses
  8. Doesn't interact with you outside the classroom/workplace
  9. Shames you for oversharing or acts creeped out by it
  10. Gives you all the attention, only to later give you none of the attention for reasons you cannot determine
  11. Ghosts you
  12. Abandons you, but doesn't tell you and instead leaves you waiting for their next message
  13. Appears to forget you even exist when they don't need something from you
  14. You're afraid to ask if they hate you because you have a hunch they'll say "yes"
  15. Never texts you first
  16. Says "If I hated you, why would I do [thing indicating otherwise]?" and then stops doing that
  17. Uses your fear of abandonment against you
  18. "Have you tried not feeling like that?"
  19. Takes advantage of your love for them
  20. Finds it annoying when you ask for validation
  21. Calls you clingy
  22. Doesn't hang out with you off the Internet
  23. Is microaggressive to marginalized groups you're a part of, and silences you when you call them out
  24. Tells you that your BPD symptoms are "bad"