You get sad whenyou see posts byborderlines whoseFPs don't actuallyhate them becauseyou have irrefutableproof yours doesPraisesother peoplein yourpresenceTells you thatyour BPDsymptomsare "bad"Appears toforget you evenexist when theydon't needsomething fromyouTakesadvantageof your lovefor themNevertextsyou first"Have youtried notfeelinglike that?"Doesn'thang outwith you offthe Internet"I don't hateyou, but [thingthat basicallymeans theyhate you]"Doesn't interact withyou outside theclassroom/workplaceShames youforoversharing oracts creepedout by itGhostsyouCallsyouclingyisQuoutGives you all theattention, only tolater give younone of theattention forreasons youcannot determine"Active 1hour ago" butdidn't openyourmessageIs microaggressiveto marginalizedgroups you're a partof, and silences youwhen you call themoutAbandons you,but doesn't tellyou and insteadleaves youwaiting for theirnext messageYou're afraid toask if they hateyou becauseyou have ahunch they'llsay "yes"Uses yourfear ofabandonmentagainst youTells you to"tone down"your intenseemotionalresponsesSays "If I hatedyou, why would Ido [thingindicatingotherwise]?" andthen stops doingthatTalksabouttheir "bestfriends"Finds itannoyingwhen youask forvalidationYou get sad whenyou see posts byborderlines whoseFPs don't actuallyhate them becauseyou have irrefutableproof yours doesPraisesother peoplein yourpresenceTells you thatyour BPDsymptomsare "bad"Appears toforget you evenexist when theydon't needsomething fromyouTakesadvantageof your lovefor themNevertextsyou first"Have youtried notfeelinglike that?"Doesn'thang outwith you offthe Internet"I don't hateyou, but [thingthat basicallymeans theyhate you]"Doesn't interact withyou outside theclassroom/workplaceShames youforoversharing oracts creepedout by itGhostsyouCallsyouclingyisQuoutGives you all theattention, only tolater give younone of theattention forreasons youcannot determine"Active 1hour ago" butdidn't openyourmessageIs microaggressiveto marginalizedgroups you're a partof, and silences youwhen you call themoutAbandons you,but doesn't tellyou and insteadleaves youwaiting for theirnext messageYou're afraid toask if they hateyou becauseyou have ahunch they'llsay "yes"Uses yourfear ofabandonmentagainst youTells you to"tone down"your intenseemotionalresponsesSays "If I hatedyou, why would Ido [thingindicatingotherwise]?" andthen stops doingthatTalksabouttheir "bestfriends"Finds itannoyingwhen youask forvalidation

Terrible FP (Favorite Person) Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. You get sad when you see posts by borderlines whose FPs don't actually hate them because you have irrefutable proof yours does
  2. Praises other people in your presence
  3. Tells you that your BPD symptoms are "bad"
  4. Appears to forget you even exist when they don't need something from you
  5. Takes advantage of your love for them
  6. Never texts you first
  7. "Have you tried not feeling like that?"
  8. Doesn't hang out with you off the Internet
  9. "I don't hate you, but [thing that basically means they hate you]"
  10. Doesn't interact with you outside the classroom/workplace
  11. Shames you for oversharing or acts creeped out by it
  12. Ghosts you
  13. Calls you clingy
  14. is Quout
  15. Gives you all the attention, only to later give you none of the attention for reasons you cannot determine
  16. "Active 1 hour ago" but didn't open your message
  17. Is microaggressive to marginalized groups you're a part of, and silences you when you call them out
  18. Abandons you, but doesn't tell you and instead leaves you waiting for their next message
  19. You're afraid to ask if they hate you because you have a hunch they'll say "yes"
  20. Uses your fear of abandonment against you
  21. Tells you to "tone down" your intense emotional responses
  22. Says "If I hated you, why would I do [thing indicating otherwise]?" and then stops doing that
  23. Talks about their "best friends"
  24. Finds it annoying when you ask for validation