"Have youtried notfeelinglike that?"You're afraid toask if they hateyou becauseyou have ahunch they'llsay "yes""I don't hateyou, but [thingthat basicallymeans theyhate you]"Doesn'thang outwith you offthe InternetIs microaggressiveto marginalizedgroups you're a partof, and silences youwhen you call themoutFinds itannoyingwhen youask forvalidationTalksabouttheir "bestfriends"GhostsyouCallsyouclingyDoesn't interact withyou outside theclassroom/workplaceShames youforoversharing oracts creepedout by itSays "If I hatedyou, why would Ido [thingindicatingotherwise]?" andthen stops doingthatPraisesother peoplein yourpresenceisQuoutTells you thatyour BPDsymptomsare "bad"Abandons you,but doesn't tellyou and insteadleaves youwaiting for theirnext messageTakesadvantageof your lovefor them"Active 1hour ago" butdidn't openyourmessageUses yourfear ofabandonmentagainst youTells you to"tone down"your intenseemotionalresponsesNevertextsyou firstGives you all theattention, only tolater give younone of theattention forreasons youcannot determineAppears toforget you evenexist when theydon't needsomething fromyouYou get sad whenyou see posts byborderlines whoseFPs don't actuallyhate them becauseyou have irrefutableproof yours does"Have youtried notfeelinglike that?"You're afraid toask if they hateyou becauseyou have ahunch they'llsay "yes""I don't hateyou, but [thingthat basicallymeans theyhate you]"Doesn'thang outwith you offthe InternetIs microaggressiveto marginalizedgroups you're a partof, and silences youwhen you call themoutFinds itannoyingwhen youask forvalidationTalksabouttheir "bestfriends"GhostsyouCallsyouclingyDoesn't interact withyou outside theclassroom/workplaceShames youforoversharing oracts creepedout by itSays "If I hatedyou, why would Ido [thingindicatingotherwise]?" andthen stops doingthatPraisesother peoplein yourpresenceisQuoutTells you thatyour BPDsymptomsare "bad"Abandons you,but doesn't tellyou and insteadleaves youwaiting for theirnext messageTakesadvantageof your lovefor them"Active 1hour ago" butdidn't openyourmessageUses yourfear ofabandonmentagainst youTells you to"tone down"your intenseemotionalresponsesNevertextsyou firstGives you all theattention, only tolater give younone of theattention forreasons youcannot determineAppears toforget you evenexist when theydon't needsomething fromyouYou get sad whenyou see posts byborderlines whoseFPs don't actuallyhate them becauseyou have irrefutableproof yours does

Terrible FP (Favorite Person) Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. "Have you tried not feeling like that?"
  2. You're afraid to ask if they hate you because you have a hunch they'll say "yes"
  3. "I don't hate you, but [thing that basically means they hate you]"
  4. Doesn't hang out with you off the Internet
  5. Is microaggressive to marginalized groups you're a part of, and silences you when you call them out
  6. Finds it annoying when you ask for validation
  7. Talks about their "best friends"
  8. Ghosts you
  9. Calls you clingy
  10. Doesn't interact with you outside the classroom/workplace
  11. Shames you for oversharing or acts creeped out by it
  12. Says "If I hated you, why would I do [thing indicating otherwise]?" and then stops doing that
  13. Praises other people in your presence
  14. is Quout
  15. Tells you that your BPD symptoms are "bad"
  16. Abandons you, but doesn't tell you and instead leaves you waiting for their next message
  17. Takes advantage of your love for them
  18. "Active 1 hour ago" but didn't open your message
  19. Uses your fear of abandonment against you
  20. Tells you to "tone down" your intense emotional responses
  21. Never texts you first
  22. Gives you all the attention, only to later give you none of the attention for reasons you cannot determine
  23. Appears to forget you even exist when they don't need something from you
  24. You get sad when you see posts by borderlines whose FPs don't actually hate them because you have irrefutable proof yours does