"I don't hateyou, but [thingthat basicallymeans theyhate you]"CallsyouclingyYou get sad whenyou see posts byborderlines whoseFPs don't actuallyhate them becauseyou have irrefutableproof yours doesUses yourfear ofabandonmentagainst youPraisesother peoplein yourpresenceAbandons you,but doesn't tellyou and insteadleaves youwaiting for theirnext messageNevertextsyou firstSays "If I hatedyou, why would Ido [thingindicatingotherwise]?" andthen stops doingthatDoesn'thang outwith you offthe InternetAppears toforget you evenexist when theydon't needsomething fromyouTells you to"tone down"your intenseemotionalresponses"Active 1hour ago" butdidn't openyourmessageTalksabouttheir "bestfriends"Takesadvantageof your lovefor themTells you thatyour BPDsymptomsare "bad"Gives you all theattention, only tolater give younone of theattention forreasons youcannot determineisQuoutGhostsyou"Have youtried notfeelinglike that?"Is microaggressiveto marginalizedgroups you're a partof, and silences youwhen you call themoutFinds itannoyingwhen youask forvalidationShames youforoversharing oracts creepedout by itYou're afraid toask if they hateyou becauseyou have ahunch they'llsay "yes"Doesn't interact withyou outside theclassroom/workplace"I don't hateyou, but [thingthat basicallymeans theyhate you]"CallsyouclingyYou get sad whenyou see posts byborderlines whoseFPs don't actuallyhate them becauseyou have irrefutableproof yours doesUses yourfear ofabandonmentagainst youPraisesother peoplein yourpresenceAbandons you,but doesn't tellyou and insteadleaves youwaiting for theirnext messageNevertextsyou firstSays "If I hatedyou, why would Ido [thingindicatingotherwise]?" andthen stops doingthatDoesn'thang outwith you offthe InternetAppears toforget you evenexist when theydon't needsomething fromyouTells you to"tone down"your intenseemotionalresponses"Active 1hour ago" butdidn't openyourmessageTalksabouttheir "bestfriends"Takesadvantageof your lovefor themTells you thatyour BPDsymptomsare "bad"Gives you all theattention, only tolater give younone of theattention forreasons youcannot determineisQuoutGhostsyou"Have youtried notfeelinglike that?"Is microaggressiveto marginalizedgroups you're a partof, and silences youwhen you call themoutFinds itannoyingwhen youask forvalidationShames youforoversharing oracts creepedout by itYou're afraid toask if they hateyou becauseyou have ahunch they'llsay "yes"Doesn't interact withyou outside theclassroom/workplace

Terrible FP (Favorite Person) Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. "I don't hate you, but [thing that basically means they hate you]"
  2. Calls you clingy
  3. You get sad when you see posts by borderlines whose FPs don't actually hate them because you have irrefutable proof yours does
  4. Uses your fear of abandonment against you
  5. Praises other people in your presence
  6. Abandons you, but doesn't tell you and instead leaves you waiting for their next message
  7. Never texts you first
  8. Says "If I hated you, why would I do [thing indicating otherwise]?" and then stops doing that
  9. Doesn't hang out with you off the Internet
  10. Appears to forget you even exist when they don't need something from you
  11. Tells you to "tone down" your intense emotional responses
  12. "Active 1 hour ago" but didn't open your message
  13. Talks about their "best friends"
  14. Takes advantage of your love for them
  15. Tells you that your BPD symptoms are "bad"
  16. Gives you all the attention, only to later give you none of the attention for reasons you cannot determine
  17. is Quout
  18. Ghosts you
  19. "Have you tried not feeling like that?"
  20. Is microaggressive to marginalized groups you're a part of, and silences you when you call them out
  21. Finds it annoying when you ask for validation
  22. Shames you for oversharing or acts creeped out by it
  23. You're afraid to ask if they hate you because you have a hunch they'll say "yes"
  24. Doesn't interact with you outside the classroom/workplace