"Have youtried notfeelinglike that?"Shames youforoversharing oracts creepedout by itPraisesother peoplein yourpresenceNevertextsyou firstFinds itannoyingwhen youask forvalidation"I don't hateyou, but [thingthat basicallymeans theyhate you]"Tells you thatyour BPDsymptomsare "bad"Takesadvantageof your lovefor themDoesn't interact withyou outside theclassroom/workplaceisQuoutGives you all theattention, only tolater give younone of theattention forreasons youcannot determineDoesn'thang outwith you offthe InternetCallsyouclingyUses yourfear ofabandonmentagainst youYou get sad whenyou see posts byborderlines whoseFPs don't actuallyhate them becauseyou have irrefutableproof yours doesAppears toforget you evenexist when theydon't needsomething fromyouYou're afraid toask if they hateyou becauseyou have ahunch they'llsay "yes"Is microaggressiveto marginalizedgroups you're a partof, and silences youwhen you call themoutSays "If I hatedyou, why would Ido [thingindicatingotherwise]?" andthen stops doingthatGhostsyouTalksabouttheir "bestfriends"Tells you to"tone down"your intenseemotionalresponsesAbandons you,but doesn't tellyou and insteadleaves youwaiting for theirnext message"Active 1hour ago" butdidn't openyourmessage"Have youtried notfeelinglike that?"Shames youforoversharing oracts creepedout by itPraisesother peoplein yourpresenceNevertextsyou firstFinds itannoyingwhen youask forvalidation"I don't hateyou, but [thingthat basicallymeans theyhate you]"Tells you thatyour BPDsymptomsare "bad"Takesadvantageof your lovefor themDoesn't interact withyou outside theclassroom/workplaceisQuoutGives you all theattention, only tolater give younone of theattention forreasons youcannot determineDoesn'thang outwith you offthe InternetCallsyouclingyUses yourfear ofabandonmentagainst youYou get sad whenyou see posts byborderlines whoseFPs don't actuallyhate them becauseyou have irrefutableproof yours doesAppears toforget you evenexist when theydon't needsomething fromyouYou're afraid toask if they hateyou becauseyou have ahunch they'llsay "yes"Is microaggressiveto marginalizedgroups you're a partof, and silences youwhen you call themoutSays "If I hatedyou, why would Ido [thingindicatingotherwise]?" andthen stops doingthatGhostsyouTalksabouttheir "bestfriends"Tells you to"tone down"your intenseemotionalresponsesAbandons you,but doesn't tellyou and insteadleaves youwaiting for theirnext message"Active 1hour ago" butdidn't openyourmessage

Terrible FP (Favorite Person) Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. "Have you tried not feeling like that?"
  2. Shames you for oversharing or acts creeped out by it
  3. Praises other people in your presence
  4. Never texts you first
  5. Finds it annoying when you ask for validation
  6. "I don't hate you, but [thing that basically means they hate you]"
  7. Tells you that your BPD symptoms are "bad"
  8. Takes advantage of your love for them
  9. Doesn't interact with you outside the classroom/workplace
  10. is Quout
  11. Gives you all the attention, only to later give you none of the attention for reasons you cannot determine
  12. Doesn't hang out with you off the Internet
  13. Calls you clingy
  14. Uses your fear of abandonment against you
  15. You get sad when you see posts by borderlines whose FPs don't actually hate them because you have irrefutable proof yours does
  16. Appears to forget you even exist when they don't need something from you
  17. You're afraid to ask if they hate you because you have a hunch they'll say "yes"
  18. Is microaggressive to marginalized groups you're a part of, and silences you when you call them out
  19. Says "If I hated you, why would I do [thing indicating otherwise]?" and then stops doing that
  20. Ghosts you
  21. Talks about their "best friends"
  22. Tells you to "tone down" your intense emotional responses
  23. Abandons you, but doesn't tell you and instead leaves you waiting for their next message
  24. "Active 1 hour ago" but didn't open your message