Talksabouttheir "bestfriends"GhostsyouNevertextsyou firstYou get sad whenyou see posts byborderlines whoseFPs don't actuallyhate them becauseyou have irrefutableproof yours doesGives you all theattention, only tolater give younone of theattention forreasons youcannot determineTakesadvantageof your lovefor themIs microaggressiveto marginalizedgroups you're a partof, and silences youwhen you call themoutAbandons you,but doesn't tellyou and insteadleaves youwaiting for theirnext messageDoesn't interact withyou outside theclassroom/workplaceFinds itannoyingwhen youask forvalidationCallsyouclingyAppears toforget you evenexist when theydon't needsomething fromyouYou're afraid toask if they hateyou becauseyou have ahunch they'llsay "yes"Shames youforoversharing oracts creepedout by itTells you to"tone down"your intenseemotionalresponsesDoesn'thang outwith you offthe InternetPraisesother peoplein yourpresenceTells you thatyour BPDsymptomsare "bad"Says "If I hatedyou, why would Ido [thingindicatingotherwise]?" andthen stops doingthatUses yourfear ofabandonmentagainst you"Have youtried notfeelinglike that?"isQuout"I don't hateyou, but [thingthat basicallymeans theyhate you]""Active 1hour ago" butdidn't openyourmessageTalksabouttheir "bestfriends"GhostsyouNevertextsyou firstYou get sad whenyou see posts byborderlines whoseFPs don't actuallyhate them becauseyou have irrefutableproof yours doesGives you all theattention, only tolater give younone of theattention forreasons youcannot determineTakesadvantageof your lovefor themIs microaggressiveto marginalizedgroups you're a partof, and silences youwhen you call themoutAbandons you,but doesn't tellyou and insteadleaves youwaiting for theirnext messageDoesn't interact withyou outside theclassroom/workplaceFinds itannoyingwhen youask forvalidationCallsyouclingyAppears toforget you evenexist when theydon't needsomething fromyouYou're afraid toask if they hateyou becauseyou have ahunch they'llsay "yes"Shames youforoversharing oracts creepedout by itTells you to"tone down"your intenseemotionalresponsesDoesn'thang outwith you offthe InternetPraisesother peoplein yourpresenceTells you thatyour BPDsymptomsare "bad"Says "If I hatedyou, why would Ido [thingindicatingotherwise]?" andthen stops doingthatUses yourfear ofabandonmentagainst you"Have youtried notfeelinglike that?"isQuout"I don't hateyou, but [thingthat basicallymeans theyhate you]""Active 1hour ago" butdidn't openyourmessage

Terrible FP (Favorite Person) Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Talks about their "best friends"
  2. Ghosts you
  3. Never texts you first
  4. You get sad when you see posts by borderlines whose FPs don't actually hate them because you have irrefutable proof yours does
  5. Gives you all the attention, only to later give you none of the attention for reasons you cannot determine
  6. Takes advantage of your love for them
  7. Is microaggressive to marginalized groups you're a part of, and silences you when you call them out
  8. Abandons you, but doesn't tell you and instead leaves you waiting for their next message
  9. Doesn't interact with you outside the classroom/workplace
  10. Finds it annoying when you ask for validation
  11. Calls you clingy
  12. Appears to forget you even exist when they don't need something from you
  13. You're afraid to ask if they hate you because you have a hunch they'll say "yes"
  14. Shames you for oversharing or acts creeped out by it
  15. Tells you to "tone down" your intense emotional responses
  16. Doesn't hang out with you off the Internet
  17. Praises other people in your presence
  18. Tells you that your BPD symptoms are "bad"
  19. Says "If I hated you, why would I do [thing indicating otherwise]?" and then stops doing that
  20. Uses your fear of abandonment against you
  21. "Have you tried not feeling like that?"
  22. is Quout
  23. "I don't hate you, but [thing that basically means they hate you]"
  24. "Active 1 hour ago" but didn't open your message