Gives you all theattention, only tolater give younone of theattention forreasons youcannot determineDoesn'thang outwith you offthe InternetUses yourfear ofabandonmentagainst youTells you thatyour BPDsymptomsare "bad"You're afraid toask if they hateyou becauseyou have ahunch they'llsay "yes""I don't hateyou, but [thingthat basicallymeans theyhate you]"Shames youforoversharing oracts creepedout by itTalksabouttheir "bestfriends"Abandons you,but doesn't tellyou and insteadleaves youwaiting for theirnext messageGhostsyouSays "If I hatedyou, why would Ido [thingindicatingotherwise]?" andthen stops doingthatAppears toforget you evenexist when theydon't needsomething fromyouIs microaggressiveto marginalizedgroups you're a partof, and silences youwhen you call themoutTells you to"tone down"your intenseemotionalresponsesTakesadvantageof your lovefor themisQuoutDoesn't interact withyou outside theclassroom/workplaceYou get sad whenyou see posts byborderlines whoseFPs don't actuallyhate them becauseyou have irrefutableproof yours does"Active 1hour ago" butdidn't openyourmessage"Have youtried notfeelinglike that?"Praisesother peoplein yourpresenceFinds itannoyingwhen youask forvalidationCallsyouclingyNevertextsyou firstGives you all theattention, only tolater give younone of theattention forreasons youcannot determineDoesn'thang outwith you offthe InternetUses yourfear ofabandonmentagainst youTells you thatyour BPDsymptomsare "bad"You're afraid toask if they hateyou becauseyou have ahunch they'llsay "yes""I don't hateyou, but [thingthat basicallymeans theyhate you]"Shames youforoversharing oracts creepedout by itTalksabouttheir "bestfriends"Abandons you,but doesn't tellyou and insteadleaves youwaiting for theirnext messageGhostsyouSays "If I hatedyou, why would Ido [thingindicatingotherwise]?" andthen stops doingthatAppears toforget you evenexist when theydon't needsomething fromyouIs microaggressiveto marginalizedgroups you're a partof, and silences youwhen you call themoutTells you to"tone down"your intenseemotionalresponsesTakesadvantageof your lovefor themisQuoutDoesn't interact withyou outside theclassroom/workplaceYou get sad whenyou see posts byborderlines whoseFPs don't actuallyhate them becauseyou have irrefutableproof yours does"Active 1hour ago" butdidn't openyourmessage"Have youtried notfeelinglike that?"Praisesother peoplein yourpresenceFinds itannoyingwhen youask forvalidationCallsyouclingyNevertextsyou first

Terrible FP (Favorite Person) Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Gives you all the attention, only to later give you none of the attention for reasons you cannot determine
  2. Doesn't hang out with you off the Internet
  3. Uses your fear of abandonment against you
  4. Tells you that your BPD symptoms are "bad"
  5. You're afraid to ask if they hate you because you have a hunch they'll say "yes"
  6. "I don't hate you, but [thing that basically means they hate you]"
  7. Shames you for oversharing or acts creeped out by it
  8. Talks about their "best friends"
  9. Abandons you, but doesn't tell you and instead leaves you waiting for their next message
  10. Ghosts you
  11. Says "If I hated you, why would I do [thing indicating otherwise]?" and then stops doing that
  12. Appears to forget you even exist when they don't need something from you
  13. Is microaggressive to marginalized groups you're a part of, and silences you when you call them out
  14. Tells you to "tone down" your intense emotional responses
  15. Takes advantage of your love for them
  16. is Quout
  17. Doesn't interact with you outside the classroom/workplace
  18. You get sad when you see posts by borderlines whose FPs don't actually hate them because you have irrefutable proof yours does
  19. "Active 1 hour ago" but didn't open your message
  20. "Have you tried not feeling like that?"
  21. Praises other people in your presence
  22. Finds it annoying when you ask for validation
  23. Calls you clingy
  24. Never texts you first