Appears toforget you evenexist when theydon't needsomething fromyouNevertextsyou firstFinds itannoyingwhen youask forvalidationUses yourfear ofabandonmentagainst you"Have youtried notfeelinglike that?"CallsyouclingyIs microaggressiveto marginalizedgroups you're a partof, and silences youwhen you call themoutDoesn't interact withyou outside theclassroom/workplaceDoesn'thang outwith you offthe InternetGives you all theattention, only tolater give younone of theattention forreasons youcannot determineisQuoutGhostsyouYou're afraid toask if they hateyou becauseyou have ahunch they'llsay "yes""Active 1hour ago" butdidn't openyourmessagePraisesother peoplein yourpresenceYou get sad whenyou see posts byborderlines whoseFPs don't actuallyhate them becauseyou have irrefutableproof yours doesShames youforoversharing oracts creepedout by itTells you to"tone down"your intenseemotionalresponsesTakesadvantageof your lovefor themAbandons you,but doesn't tellyou and insteadleaves youwaiting for theirnext messageTalksabouttheir "bestfriends""I don't hateyou, but [thingthat basicallymeans theyhate you]"Tells you thatyour BPDsymptomsare "bad"Says "If I hatedyou, why would Ido [thingindicatingotherwise]?" andthen stops doingthatAppears toforget you evenexist when theydon't needsomething fromyouNevertextsyou firstFinds itannoyingwhen youask forvalidationUses yourfear ofabandonmentagainst you"Have youtried notfeelinglike that?"CallsyouclingyIs microaggressiveto marginalizedgroups you're a partof, and silences youwhen you call themoutDoesn't interact withyou outside theclassroom/workplaceDoesn'thang outwith you offthe InternetGives you all theattention, only tolater give younone of theattention forreasons youcannot determineisQuoutGhostsyouYou're afraid toask if they hateyou becauseyou have ahunch they'llsay "yes""Active 1hour ago" butdidn't openyourmessagePraisesother peoplein yourpresenceYou get sad whenyou see posts byborderlines whoseFPs don't actuallyhate them becauseyou have irrefutableproof yours doesShames youforoversharing oracts creepedout by itTells you to"tone down"your intenseemotionalresponsesTakesadvantageof your lovefor themAbandons you,but doesn't tellyou and insteadleaves youwaiting for theirnext messageTalksabouttheir "bestfriends""I don't hateyou, but [thingthat basicallymeans theyhate you]"Tells you thatyour BPDsymptomsare "bad"Says "If I hatedyou, why would Ido [thingindicatingotherwise]?" andthen stops doingthat

Terrible FP (Favorite Person) Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Appears to forget you even exist when they don't need something from you
  2. Never texts you first
  3. Finds it annoying when you ask for validation
  4. Uses your fear of abandonment against you
  5. "Have you tried not feeling like that?"
  6. Calls you clingy
  7. Is microaggressive to marginalized groups you're a part of, and silences you when you call them out
  8. Doesn't interact with you outside the classroom/workplace
  9. Doesn't hang out with you off the Internet
  10. Gives you all the attention, only to later give you none of the attention for reasons you cannot determine
  11. is Quout
  12. Ghosts you
  13. You're afraid to ask if they hate you because you have a hunch they'll say "yes"
  14. "Active 1 hour ago" but didn't open your message
  15. Praises other people in your presence
  16. You get sad when you see posts by borderlines whose FPs don't actually hate them because you have irrefutable proof yours does
  17. Shames you for oversharing or acts creeped out by it
  18. Tells you to "tone down" your intense emotional responses
  19. Takes advantage of your love for them
  20. Abandons you, but doesn't tell you and instead leaves you waiting for their next message
  21. Talks about their "best friends"
  22. "I don't hate you, but [thing that basically means they hate you]"
  23. Tells you that your BPD symptoms are "bad"
  24. Says "If I hated you, why would I do [thing indicating otherwise]?" and then stops doing that