Shames youforoversharing oracts creepedout by itAbandons you,but doesn't tellyou and insteadleaves youwaiting for theirnext messageYou get sad whenyou see posts byborderlines whoseFPs don't actuallyhate them becauseyou have irrefutableproof yours doesTells you thatyour BPDsymptomsare "bad"Praisesother peoplein yourpresence"Have youtried notfeelinglike that?"Says "If I hatedyou, why would Ido [thingindicatingotherwise]?" andthen stops doingthatIs microaggressiveto marginalizedgroups you're a partof, and silences youwhen you call themout"I don't hateyou, but [thingthat basicallymeans theyhate you]""Active 1hour ago" butdidn't openyourmessageYou're afraid toask if they hateyou becauseyou have ahunch they'llsay "yes"CallsyouclingyGives you all theattention, only tolater give younone of theattention forreasons youcannot determineDoesn'thang outwith you offthe InternetNevertextsyou firstUses yourfear ofabandonmentagainst youAppears toforget you evenexist when theydon't needsomething fromyouTakesadvantageof your lovefor themTells you to"tone down"your intenseemotionalresponsesFinds itannoyingwhen youask forvalidationTalksabouttheir "bestfriends"GhostsyouDoesn't interact withyou outside theclassroom/workplaceisQuoutShames youforoversharing oracts creepedout by itAbandons you,but doesn't tellyou and insteadleaves youwaiting for theirnext messageYou get sad whenyou see posts byborderlines whoseFPs don't actuallyhate them becauseyou have irrefutableproof yours doesTells you thatyour BPDsymptomsare "bad"Praisesother peoplein yourpresence"Have youtried notfeelinglike that?"Says "If I hatedyou, why would Ido [thingindicatingotherwise]?" andthen stops doingthatIs microaggressiveto marginalizedgroups you're a partof, and silences youwhen you call themout"I don't hateyou, but [thingthat basicallymeans theyhate you]""Active 1hour ago" butdidn't openyourmessageYou're afraid toask if they hateyou becauseyou have ahunch they'llsay "yes"CallsyouclingyGives you all theattention, only tolater give younone of theattention forreasons youcannot determineDoesn'thang outwith you offthe InternetNevertextsyou firstUses yourfear ofabandonmentagainst youAppears toforget you evenexist when theydon't needsomething fromyouTakesadvantageof your lovefor themTells you to"tone down"your intenseemotionalresponsesFinds itannoyingwhen youask forvalidationTalksabouttheir "bestfriends"GhostsyouDoesn't interact withyou outside theclassroom/workplaceisQuout

Terrible FP (Favorite Person) Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Shames you for oversharing or acts creeped out by it
  2. Abandons you, but doesn't tell you and instead leaves you waiting for their next message
  3. You get sad when you see posts by borderlines whose FPs don't actually hate them because you have irrefutable proof yours does
  4. Tells you that your BPD symptoms are "bad"
  5. Praises other people in your presence
  6. "Have you tried not feeling like that?"
  7. Says "If I hated you, why would I do [thing indicating otherwise]?" and then stops doing that
  8. Is microaggressive to marginalized groups you're a part of, and silences you when you call them out
  9. "I don't hate you, but [thing that basically means they hate you]"
  10. "Active 1 hour ago" but didn't open your message
  11. You're afraid to ask if they hate you because you have a hunch they'll say "yes"
  12. Calls you clingy
  13. Gives you all the attention, only to later give you none of the attention for reasons you cannot determine
  14. Doesn't hang out with you off the Internet
  15. Never texts you first
  16. Uses your fear of abandonment against you
  17. Appears to forget you even exist when they don't need something from you
  18. Takes advantage of your love for them
  19. Tells you to "tone down" your intense emotional responses
  20. Finds it annoying when you ask for validation
  21. Talks about their "best friends"
  22. Ghosts you
  23. Doesn't interact with you outside the classroom/workplace
  24. is Quout