Nevertextsyou firstUses yourfear ofabandonmentagainst youFinds itannoyingwhen youask forvalidationAppears toforget you evenexist when theydon't needsomething fromyouisQuoutCallsyouclingyYou get sad whenyou see posts byborderlines whoseFPs don't actuallyhate them becauseyou have irrefutableproof yours doesAbandons you,but doesn't tellyou and insteadleaves youwaiting for theirnext message"Active 1hour ago" butdidn't openyourmessagePraisesother peoplein yourpresenceDoesn't interact withyou outside theclassroom/workplaceIs microaggressiveto marginalizedgroups you're a partof, and silences youwhen you call themoutShames youforoversharing oracts creepedout by itTalksabouttheir "bestfriends"GhostsyouTells you to"tone down"your intenseemotionalresponsesDoesn'thang outwith you offthe InternetTakesadvantageof your lovefor them"I don't hateyou, but [thingthat basicallymeans theyhate you]"Says "If I hatedyou, why would Ido [thingindicatingotherwise]?" andthen stops doingthatYou're afraid toask if they hateyou becauseyou have ahunch they'llsay "yes""Have youtried notfeelinglike that?"Tells you thatyour BPDsymptomsare "bad"Gives you all theattention, only tolater give younone of theattention forreasons youcannot determineNevertextsyou firstUses yourfear ofabandonmentagainst youFinds itannoyingwhen youask forvalidationAppears toforget you evenexist when theydon't needsomething fromyouisQuoutCallsyouclingyYou get sad whenyou see posts byborderlines whoseFPs don't actuallyhate them becauseyou have irrefutableproof yours doesAbandons you,but doesn't tellyou and insteadleaves youwaiting for theirnext message"Active 1hour ago" butdidn't openyourmessagePraisesother peoplein yourpresenceDoesn't interact withyou outside theclassroom/workplaceIs microaggressiveto marginalizedgroups you're a partof, and silences youwhen you call themoutShames youforoversharing oracts creepedout by itTalksabouttheir "bestfriends"GhostsyouTells you to"tone down"your intenseemotionalresponsesDoesn'thang outwith you offthe InternetTakesadvantageof your lovefor them"I don't hateyou, but [thingthat basicallymeans theyhate you]"Says "If I hatedyou, why would Ido [thingindicatingotherwise]?" andthen stops doingthatYou're afraid toask if they hateyou becauseyou have ahunch they'llsay "yes""Have youtried notfeelinglike that?"Tells you thatyour BPDsymptomsare "bad"Gives you all theattention, only tolater give younone of theattention forreasons youcannot determine

Terrible FP (Favorite Person) Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Never texts you first
  2. Uses your fear of abandonment against you
  3. Finds it annoying when you ask for validation
  4. Appears to forget you even exist when they don't need something from you
  5. is Quout
  6. Calls you clingy
  7. You get sad when you see posts by borderlines whose FPs don't actually hate them because you have irrefutable proof yours does
  8. Abandons you, but doesn't tell you and instead leaves you waiting for their next message
  9. "Active 1 hour ago" but didn't open your message
  10. Praises other people in your presence
  11. Doesn't interact with you outside the classroom/workplace
  12. Is microaggressive to marginalized groups you're a part of, and silences you when you call them out
  13. Shames you for oversharing or acts creeped out by it
  14. Talks about their "best friends"
  15. Ghosts you
  16. Tells you to "tone down" your intense emotional responses
  17. Doesn't hang out with you off the Internet
  18. Takes advantage of your love for them
  19. "I don't hate you, but [thing that basically means they hate you]"
  20. Says "If I hated you, why would I do [thing indicating otherwise]?" and then stops doing that
  21. You're afraid to ask if they hate you because you have a hunch they'll say "yes"
  22. "Have you tried not feeling like that?"
  23. Tells you that your BPD symptoms are "bad"
  24. Gives you all the attention, only to later give you none of the attention for reasons you cannot determine