Becomingangry if yourpartner isspending timewith otherpeopleForcing yourpartner to dosexual thingsthat they arenot comfortabledoingFeeling anervous or sickfeeling in yourstomach whenyour partnerisn’t happyBeingthreatenedFeelingembarrassed,put down,ashamed, orguiltyFelling a poundingor fluttering in yourchest when yourpartner isn't happyPhysicallyassaultingyourpartnerBeingphysicallyhurtFeeling as ifyour date getstoo personal ortouches you inan unwantedwayMaking yourpartnerafraid of youBeing afraidto expressyour ownfeelings ofangerNoticing that yourpartner has verytraditional(stereotypical)beliefs aboutwomen and menFeelingunable tocontrol yourown feelingsof angerNot beingallowed to, orbeing afraid to,make decisionsfor yourselfFellingmanipulatedor controlledNoticing that yourpartner’s beliefsabout the positionof the oppositegender aredifferent from yourownChanging yourbehaviorbecause ofyour partner’sjealousyLosingyourFriendsAsking yourpartner tochange his orher behaviorbecause youare jealousFeelingisolated,maybeeven aloneFeelingafraid ofyourpartnerUsing "guilttrip" to getyour partnerto dosomethingAsking yourpartner tochange his orher behaviorbecause youare jealousNot havingyour thoughtsor wishes forperson spacerespectedBecomingangry if yourpartner isspending timewith otherpeopleForcing yourpartner to dosexual thingsthat they arenot comfortabledoingFeeling anervous or sickfeeling in yourstomach whenyour partnerisn’t happyBeingthreatenedFeelingembarrassed,put down,ashamed, orguiltyFelling a poundingor fluttering in yourchest when yourpartner isn't happyPhysicallyassaultingyourpartnerBeingphysicallyhurtFeeling as ifyour date getstoo personal ortouches you inan unwantedwayMaking yourpartnerafraid of youBeing afraidto expressyour ownfeelings ofangerNoticing that yourpartner has verytraditional(stereotypical)beliefs aboutwomen and menFeelingunable tocontrol yourown feelingsof angerNot beingallowed to, orbeing afraid to,make decisionsfor yourselfFellingmanipulatedor controlledNoticing that yourpartner’s beliefsabout the positionof the oppositegender aredifferent from yourownChanging yourbehaviorbecause ofyour partner’sjealousyLosingyourFriendsAsking yourpartner tochange his orher behaviorbecause youare jealousFeelingisolated,maybeeven aloneFeelingafraid ofyourpartnerUsing "guilttrip" to getyour partnerto dosomethingAsking yourpartner tochange his orher behaviorbecause youare jealousNot havingyour thoughtsor wishes forperson spacerespected

Dating Abuse Red Flags Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Becoming angry if your partner is spending time with other people
  2. Forcing your partner to do sexual things that they are not comfortable doing
  3. Feeling a nervous or sick feeling in your stomach when your partner isn’t happy
  4. Being threatened
  5. Feeling embarrassed, put down, ashamed, or guilty
  6. Felling a pounding or fluttering in your chest when your partner isn't happy
  7. Physically assaulting your partner
  8. Being physically hurt
  9. Feeling as if your date gets too personal or touches you in an unwanted way
  10. Making your partner afraid of you
  11. Being afraid to express your own feelings of anger
  12. Noticing that your partner has very traditional (stereotypical) beliefs about women and men
  13. Feeling unable to control your own feelings of anger
  14. Not being allowed to, or being afraid to, make decisions for yourself
  15. Felling manipulated or controlled
  16. Noticing that your partner’s beliefs about the position of the opposite gender are different from your own
  17. Changing your behavior because of your partner’s jealousy
  18. Losing your Friends
  19. Asking your partner to change his or her behavior because you are jealous
  20. Feeling isolated, maybe even alone
  21. Feeling afraid of your partner
  22. Using "guilt trip" to get your partner to do something
  23. Asking your partner to change his or her behavior because you are jealous
  24. Not having your thoughts or wishes for person space respected