Asking yourpartner tochange his orher behaviorbecause youare jealousFeelingunable tocontrol yourown feelingsof angerFeelingisolated,maybeeven aloneMaking yourpartnerafraid of youLosingyourFriendsNot beingallowed to, orbeing afraid to,make decisionsfor yourselfFeelingafraid ofyourpartnerUsing "guilttrip" to getyour partnerto dosomethingFeeling anervous or sickfeeling in yourstomach whenyour partnerisn’t happyBeingthreatenedNoticing that yourpartner’s beliefsabout the positionof the oppositegender aredifferent from yourownNoticing that yourpartner has verytraditional(stereotypical)beliefs aboutwomen and menBeing afraidto expressyour ownfeelings ofangerBecomingangry if yourpartner isspending timewith otherpeopleFelling a poundingor fluttering in yourchest when yourpartner isn't happyChanging yourbehaviorbecause ofyour partner’sjealousyFeelingembarrassed,put down,ashamed, orguiltyBeingphysicallyhurtNot havingyour thoughtsor wishes forperson spacerespectedFeeling as ifyour date getstoo personal ortouches you inan unwantedwayPhysicallyassaultingyourpartnerFellingmanipulatedor controlledForcing yourpartner to dosexual thingsthat they arenot comfortabledoingAsking yourpartner tochange his orher behaviorbecause youare jealousAsking yourpartner tochange his orher behaviorbecause youare jealousFeelingunable tocontrol yourown feelingsof angerFeelingisolated,maybeeven aloneMaking yourpartnerafraid of youLosingyourFriendsNot beingallowed to, orbeing afraid to,make decisionsfor yourselfFeelingafraid ofyourpartnerUsing "guilttrip" to getyour partnerto dosomethingFeeling anervous or sickfeeling in yourstomach whenyour partnerisn’t happyBeingthreatenedNoticing that yourpartner’s beliefsabout the positionof the oppositegender aredifferent from yourownNoticing that yourpartner has verytraditional(stereotypical)beliefs aboutwomen and menBeing afraidto expressyour ownfeelings ofangerBecomingangry if yourpartner isspending timewith otherpeopleFelling a poundingor fluttering in yourchest when yourpartner isn't happyChanging yourbehaviorbecause ofyour partner’sjealousyFeelingembarrassed,put down,ashamed, orguiltyBeingphysicallyhurtNot havingyour thoughtsor wishes forperson spacerespectedFeeling as ifyour date getstoo personal ortouches you inan unwantedwayPhysicallyassaultingyourpartnerFellingmanipulatedor controlledForcing yourpartner to dosexual thingsthat they arenot comfortabledoingAsking yourpartner tochange his orher behaviorbecause youare jealous

Dating Abuse Red Flags Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Asking your partner to change his or her behavior because you are jealous
  2. Feeling unable to control your own feelings of anger
  3. Feeling isolated, maybe even alone
  4. Making your partner afraid of you
  5. Losing your Friends
  6. Not being allowed to, or being afraid to, make decisions for yourself
  7. Feeling afraid of your partner
  8. Using "guilt trip" to get your partner to do something
  9. Feeling a nervous or sick feeling in your stomach when your partner isn’t happy
  10. Being threatened
  11. Noticing that your partner’s beliefs about the position of the opposite gender are different from your own
  12. Noticing that your partner has very traditional (stereotypical) beliefs about women and men
  13. Being afraid to express your own feelings of anger
  14. Becoming angry if your partner is spending time with other people
  15. Felling a pounding or fluttering in your chest when your partner isn't happy
  16. Changing your behavior because of your partner’s jealousy
  17. Feeling embarrassed, put down, ashamed, or guilty
  18. Being physically hurt
  19. Not having your thoughts or wishes for person space respected
  20. Feeling as if your date gets too personal or touches you in an unwanted way
  21. Physically assaulting your partner
  22. Felling manipulated or controlled
  23. Forcing your partner to do sexual things that they are not comfortable doing
  24. Asking your partner to change his or her behavior because you are jealous