Asking yourpartner tochange his orher behaviorbecause youare jealousFeelingunable tocontrol yourown feelingsof angerUsing "guilttrip" to getyour partnerto dosomethingAsking yourpartner tochange his orher behaviorbecause youare jealousFeeling as ifyour date getstoo personal ortouches you inan unwantedwayNot beingallowed to, orbeing afraid to,make decisionsfor yourselfNot havingyour thoughtsor wishes forperson spacerespectedFeeling anervous or sickfeeling in yourstomach whenyour partnerisn’t happyBeingphysicallyhurtBeing afraidto expressyour ownfeelings ofangerPhysicallyassaultingyourpartnerFellingmanipulatedor controlledMaking yourpartnerafraid of youNoticing that yourpartner’s beliefsabout the positionof the oppositegender aredifferent from yourownFeelingisolated,maybeeven aloneBecomingangry if yourpartner isspending timewith otherpeopleBeingthreatenedFeelingafraid ofyourpartnerLosingyourFriendsChanging yourbehaviorbecause ofyour partner’sjealousyFelling a poundingor fluttering in yourchest when yourpartner isn't happyFeelingembarrassed,put down,ashamed, orguiltyNoticing that yourpartner has verytraditional(stereotypical)beliefs aboutwomen and menForcing yourpartner to dosexual thingsthat they arenot comfortabledoingAsking yourpartner tochange his orher behaviorbecause youare jealousFeelingunable tocontrol yourown feelingsof angerUsing "guilttrip" to getyour partnerto dosomethingAsking yourpartner tochange his orher behaviorbecause youare jealousFeeling as ifyour date getstoo personal ortouches you inan unwantedwayNot beingallowed to, orbeing afraid to,make decisionsfor yourselfNot havingyour thoughtsor wishes forperson spacerespectedFeeling anervous or sickfeeling in yourstomach whenyour partnerisn’t happyBeingphysicallyhurtBeing afraidto expressyour ownfeelings ofangerPhysicallyassaultingyourpartnerFellingmanipulatedor controlledMaking yourpartnerafraid of youNoticing that yourpartner’s beliefsabout the positionof the oppositegender aredifferent from yourownFeelingisolated,maybeeven aloneBecomingangry if yourpartner isspending timewith otherpeopleBeingthreatenedFeelingafraid ofyourpartnerLosingyourFriendsChanging yourbehaviorbecause ofyour partner’sjealousyFelling a poundingor fluttering in yourchest when yourpartner isn't happyFeelingembarrassed,put down,ashamed, orguiltyNoticing that yourpartner has verytraditional(stereotypical)beliefs aboutwomen and menForcing yourpartner to dosexual thingsthat they arenot comfortabledoing

Dating Abuse Red Flags Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Asking your partner to change his or her behavior because you are jealous
  2. Feeling unable to control your own feelings of anger
  3. Using "guilt trip" to get your partner to do something
  4. Asking your partner to change his or her behavior because you are jealous
  5. Feeling as if your date gets too personal or touches you in an unwanted way
  6. Not being allowed to, or being afraid to, make decisions for yourself
  7. Not having your thoughts or wishes for person space respected
  8. Feeling a nervous or sick feeling in your stomach when your partner isn’t happy
  9. Being physically hurt
  10. Being afraid to express your own feelings of anger
  11. Physically assaulting your partner
  12. Felling manipulated or controlled
  13. Making your partner afraid of you
  14. Noticing that your partner’s beliefs about the position of the opposite gender are different from your own
  15. Feeling isolated, maybe even alone
  16. Becoming angry if your partner is spending time with other people
  17. Being threatened
  18. Feeling afraid of your partner
  19. Losing your Friends
  20. Changing your behavior because of your partner’s jealousy
  21. Felling a pounding or fluttering in your chest when your partner isn't happy
  22. Feeling embarrassed, put down, ashamed, or guilty
  23. Noticing that your partner has very traditional (stereotypical) beliefs about women and men
  24. Forcing your partner to do sexual things that they are not comfortable doing