Not havingyour thoughtsor wishes forperson spacerespectedBecomingangry if yourpartner isspending timewith otherpeopleFeelingembarrassed,put down,ashamed, orguiltyLosingyourFriendsAsking yourpartner tochange his orher behaviorbecause youare jealousPhysicallyassaultingyourpartnerFelling a poundingor fluttering in yourchest when yourpartner isn't happyAsking yourpartner tochange his orher behaviorbecause youare jealousMaking yourpartnerafraid of youFellingmanipulatedor controlledFeeling anervous or sickfeeling in yourstomach whenyour partnerisn’t happyForcing yourpartner to dosexual thingsthat they arenot comfortabledoingChanging yourbehaviorbecause ofyour partner’sjealousyNoticing that yourpartner has verytraditional(stereotypical)beliefs aboutwomen and menBeingthreatenedBeing afraidto expressyour ownfeelings ofangerNoticing that yourpartner’s beliefsabout the positionof the oppositegender aredifferent from yourownNot beingallowed to, orbeing afraid to,make decisionsfor yourselfFeeling as ifyour date getstoo personal ortouches you inan unwantedwayFeelingisolated,maybeeven aloneUsing "guilttrip" to getyour partnerto dosomethingFeelingafraid ofyourpartnerFeelingunable tocontrol yourown feelingsof angerBeingphysicallyhurtNot havingyour thoughtsor wishes forperson spacerespectedBecomingangry if yourpartner isspending timewith otherpeopleFeelingembarrassed,put down,ashamed, orguiltyLosingyourFriendsAsking yourpartner tochange his orher behaviorbecause youare jealousPhysicallyassaultingyourpartnerFelling a poundingor fluttering in yourchest when yourpartner isn't happyAsking yourpartner tochange his orher behaviorbecause youare jealousMaking yourpartnerafraid of youFellingmanipulatedor controlledFeeling anervous or sickfeeling in yourstomach whenyour partnerisn’t happyForcing yourpartner to dosexual thingsthat they arenot comfortabledoingChanging yourbehaviorbecause ofyour partner’sjealousyNoticing that yourpartner has verytraditional(stereotypical)beliefs aboutwomen and menBeingthreatenedBeing afraidto expressyour ownfeelings ofangerNoticing that yourpartner’s beliefsabout the positionof the oppositegender aredifferent from yourownNot beingallowed to, orbeing afraid to,make decisionsfor yourselfFeeling as ifyour date getstoo personal ortouches you inan unwantedwayFeelingisolated,maybeeven aloneUsing "guilttrip" to getyour partnerto dosomethingFeelingafraid ofyourpartnerFeelingunable tocontrol yourown feelingsof angerBeingphysicallyhurt

Dating Abuse Red Flags Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Not having your thoughts or wishes for person space respected
  2. Becoming angry if your partner is spending time with other people
  3. Feeling embarrassed, put down, ashamed, or guilty
  4. Losing your Friends
  5. Asking your partner to change his or her behavior because you are jealous
  6. Physically assaulting your partner
  7. Felling a pounding or fluttering in your chest when your partner isn't happy
  8. Asking your partner to change his or her behavior because you are jealous
  9. Making your partner afraid of you
  10. Felling manipulated or controlled
  11. Feeling a nervous or sick feeling in your stomach when your partner isn’t happy
  12. Forcing your partner to do sexual things that they are not comfortable doing
  13. Changing your behavior because of your partner’s jealousy
  14. Noticing that your partner has very traditional (stereotypical) beliefs about women and men
  15. Being threatened
  16. Being afraid to express your own feelings of anger
  17. Noticing that your partner’s beliefs about the position of the opposite gender are different from your own
  18. Not being allowed to, or being afraid to, make decisions for yourself
  19. Feeling as if your date gets too personal or touches you in an unwanted way
  20. Feeling isolated, maybe even alone
  21. Using "guilt trip" to get your partner to do something
  22. Feeling afraid of your partner
  23. Feeling unable to control your own feelings of anger
  24. Being physically hurt