Noticing that yourpartner has verytraditional(stereotypical)beliefs aboutwomen and menBeingthreatenedFeelingafraid ofyourpartnerNot beingallowed to, orbeing afraid to,make decisionsfor yourselfAsking yourpartner tochange his orher behaviorbecause youare jealousLosingyourFriendsUsing "guilttrip" to getyour partnerto dosomethingFeelingisolated,maybeeven aloneFeelingunable tocontrol yourown feelingsof angerPhysicallyassaultingyourpartnerFelling a poundingor fluttering in yourchest when yourpartner isn't happyFeeling anervous or sickfeeling in yourstomach whenyour partnerisn’t happyBecomingangry if yourpartner isspending timewith otherpeopleFellingmanipulatedor controlledChanging yourbehaviorbecause ofyour partner’sjealousyNot havingyour thoughtsor wishes forperson spacerespectedBeingphysicallyhurtFeeling as ifyour date getstoo personal ortouches you inan unwantedwayForcing yourpartner to dosexual thingsthat they arenot comfortabledoingNoticing that yourpartner’s beliefsabout the positionof the oppositegender aredifferent from yourownAsking yourpartner tochange his orher behaviorbecause youare jealousBeing afraidto expressyour ownfeelings ofangerFeelingembarrassed,put down,ashamed, orguiltyMaking yourpartnerafraid of youNoticing that yourpartner has verytraditional(stereotypical)beliefs aboutwomen and menBeingthreatenedFeelingafraid ofyourpartnerNot beingallowed to, orbeing afraid to,make decisionsfor yourselfAsking yourpartner tochange his orher behaviorbecause youare jealousLosingyourFriendsUsing "guilttrip" to getyour partnerto dosomethingFeelingisolated,maybeeven aloneFeelingunable tocontrol yourown feelingsof angerPhysicallyassaultingyourpartnerFelling a poundingor fluttering in yourchest when yourpartner isn't happyFeeling anervous or sickfeeling in yourstomach whenyour partnerisn’t happyBecomingangry if yourpartner isspending timewith otherpeopleFellingmanipulatedor controlledChanging yourbehaviorbecause ofyour partner’sjealousyNot havingyour thoughtsor wishes forperson spacerespectedBeingphysicallyhurtFeeling as ifyour date getstoo personal ortouches you inan unwantedwayForcing yourpartner to dosexual thingsthat they arenot comfortabledoingNoticing that yourpartner’s beliefsabout the positionof the oppositegender aredifferent from yourownAsking yourpartner tochange his orher behaviorbecause youare jealousBeing afraidto expressyour ownfeelings ofangerFeelingembarrassed,put down,ashamed, orguiltyMaking yourpartnerafraid of you

Dating Abuse Red Flags Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Noticing that your partner has very traditional (stereotypical) beliefs about women and men
  2. Being threatened
  3. Feeling afraid of your partner
  4. Not being allowed to, or being afraid to, make decisions for yourself
  5. Asking your partner to change his or her behavior because you are jealous
  6. Losing your Friends
  7. Using "guilt trip" to get your partner to do something
  8. Feeling isolated, maybe even alone
  9. Feeling unable to control your own feelings of anger
  10. Physically assaulting your partner
  11. Felling a pounding or fluttering in your chest when your partner isn't happy
  12. Feeling a nervous or sick feeling in your stomach when your partner isn’t happy
  13. Becoming angry if your partner is spending time with other people
  14. Felling manipulated or controlled
  15. Changing your behavior because of your partner’s jealousy
  16. Not having your thoughts or wishes for person space respected
  17. Being physically hurt
  18. Feeling as if your date gets too personal or touches you in an unwanted way
  19. Forcing your partner to do sexual things that they are not comfortable doing
  20. Noticing that your partner’s beliefs about the position of the opposite gender are different from your own
  21. Asking your partner to change his or her behavior because you are jealous
  22. Being afraid to express your own feelings of anger
  23. Feeling embarrassed, put down, ashamed, or guilty
  24. Making your partner afraid of you