Fellingmanipulatedor controlledNot havingyour thoughtsor wishes forperson spacerespectedChanging yourbehaviorbecause ofyour partner’sjealousyFeelingisolated,maybeeven aloneFelling a poundingor fluttering in yourchest when yourpartner isn't happyAsking yourpartner tochange his orher behaviorbecause youare jealousLosingyourFriendsAsking yourpartner tochange his orher behaviorbecause youare jealousNoticing that yourpartner’s beliefsabout the positionof the oppositegender aredifferent from yourownFeeling anervous or sickfeeling in yourstomach whenyour partnerisn’t happyNot beingallowed to, orbeing afraid to,make decisionsfor yourselfNoticing that yourpartner has verytraditional(stereotypical)beliefs aboutwomen and menPhysicallyassaultingyourpartnerFeelingembarrassed,put down,ashamed, orguiltyMaking yourpartnerafraid of youUsing "guilttrip" to getyour partnerto dosomethingBeingphysicallyhurtBeing afraidto expressyour ownfeelings ofangerBeingthreatenedBecomingangry if yourpartner isspending timewith otherpeopleFeelingafraid ofyourpartnerFeelingunable tocontrol yourown feelingsof angerForcing yourpartner to dosexual thingsthat they arenot comfortabledoingFeeling as ifyour date getstoo personal ortouches you inan unwantedwayFellingmanipulatedor controlledNot havingyour thoughtsor wishes forperson spacerespectedChanging yourbehaviorbecause ofyour partner’sjealousyFeelingisolated,maybeeven aloneFelling a poundingor fluttering in yourchest when yourpartner isn't happyAsking yourpartner tochange his orher behaviorbecause youare jealousLosingyourFriendsAsking yourpartner tochange his orher behaviorbecause youare jealousNoticing that yourpartner’s beliefsabout the positionof the oppositegender aredifferent from yourownFeeling anervous or sickfeeling in yourstomach whenyour partnerisn’t happyNot beingallowed to, orbeing afraid to,make decisionsfor yourselfNoticing that yourpartner has verytraditional(stereotypical)beliefs aboutwomen and menPhysicallyassaultingyourpartnerFeelingembarrassed,put down,ashamed, orguiltyMaking yourpartnerafraid of youUsing "guilttrip" to getyour partnerto dosomethingBeingphysicallyhurtBeing afraidto expressyour ownfeelings ofangerBeingthreatenedBecomingangry if yourpartner isspending timewith otherpeopleFeelingafraid ofyourpartnerFeelingunable tocontrol yourown feelingsof angerForcing yourpartner to dosexual thingsthat they arenot comfortabledoingFeeling as ifyour date getstoo personal ortouches you inan unwantedway

Dating Abuse Red Flags Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Felling manipulated or controlled
  2. Not having your thoughts or wishes for person space respected
  3. Changing your behavior because of your partner’s jealousy
  4. Feeling isolated, maybe even alone
  5. Felling a pounding or fluttering in your chest when your partner isn't happy
  6. Asking your partner to change his or her behavior because you are jealous
  7. Losing your Friends
  8. Asking your partner to change his or her behavior because you are jealous
  9. Noticing that your partner’s beliefs about the position of the opposite gender are different from your own
  10. Feeling a nervous or sick feeling in your stomach when your partner isn’t happy
  11. Not being allowed to, or being afraid to, make decisions for yourself
  12. Noticing that your partner has very traditional (stereotypical) beliefs about women and men
  13. Physically assaulting your partner
  14. Feeling embarrassed, put down, ashamed, or guilty
  15. Making your partner afraid of you
  16. Using "guilt trip" to get your partner to do something
  17. Being physically hurt
  18. Being afraid to express your own feelings of anger
  19. Being threatened
  20. Becoming angry if your partner is spending time with other people
  21. Feeling afraid of your partner
  22. Feeling unable to control your own feelings of anger
  23. Forcing your partner to do sexual things that they are not comfortable doing
  24. Feeling as if your date gets too personal or touches you in an unwanted way