Using "guilttrip" to getyour partnerto dosomethingNot beingallowed to, orbeing afraid to,make decisionsfor yourselfFeelingafraid ofyourpartnerNoticing that yourpartner has verytraditional(stereotypical)beliefs aboutwomen and menBecomingangry if yourpartner isspending timewith otherpeopleNoticing that yourpartner’s beliefsabout the positionof the oppositegender aredifferent from yourownFeeling as ifyour date getstoo personal ortouches you inan unwantedwayAsking yourpartner tochange his orher behaviorbecause youare jealousFellingmanipulatedor controlledBeingthreatenedForcing yourpartner to dosexual thingsthat they arenot comfortabledoingFeelingisolated,maybeeven aloneFeeling anervous or sickfeeling in yourstomach whenyour partnerisn’t happyNot havingyour thoughtsor wishes forperson spacerespectedFeelingembarrassed,put down,ashamed, orguiltyBeing afraidto expressyour ownfeelings ofangerMaking yourpartnerafraid of youFeelingunable tocontrol yourown feelingsof angerBeingphysicallyhurtAsking yourpartner tochange his orher behaviorbecause youare jealousLosingyourFriendsFelling a poundingor fluttering in yourchest when yourpartner isn't happyPhysicallyassaultingyourpartnerChanging yourbehaviorbecause ofyour partner’sjealousyUsing "guilttrip" to getyour partnerto dosomethingNot beingallowed to, orbeing afraid to,make decisionsfor yourselfFeelingafraid ofyourpartnerNoticing that yourpartner has verytraditional(stereotypical)beliefs aboutwomen and menBecomingangry if yourpartner isspending timewith otherpeopleNoticing that yourpartner’s beliefsabout the positionof the oppositegender aredifferent from yourownFeeling as ifyour date getstoo personal ortouches you inan unwantedwayAsking yourpartner tochange his orher behaviorbecause youare jealousFellingmanipulatedor controlledBeingthreatenedForcing yourpartner to dosexual thingsthat they arenot comfortabledoingFeelingisolated,maybeeven aloneFeeling anervous or sickfeeling in yourstomach whenyour partnerisn’t happyNot havingyour thoughtsor wishes forperson spacerespectedFeelingembarrassed,put down,ashamed, orguiltyBeing afraidto expressyour ownfeelings ofangerMaking yourpartnerafraid of youFeelingunable tocontrol yourown feelingsof angerBeingphysicallyhurtAsking yourpartner tochange his orher behaviorbecause youare jealousLosingyourFriendsFelling a poundingor fluttering in yourchest when yourpartner isn't happyPhysicallyassaultingyourpartnerChanging yourbehaviorbecause ofyour partner’sjealousy

Dating Abuse Red Flags Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Using "guilt trip" to get your partner to do something
  2. Not being allowed to, or being afraid to, make decisions for yourself
  3. Feeling afraid of your partner
  4. Noticing that your partner has very traditional (stereotypical) beliefs about women and men
  5. Becoming angry if your partner is spending time with other people
  6. Noticing that your partner’s beliefs about the position of the opposite gender are different from your own
  7. Feeling as if your date gets too personal or touches you in an unwanted way
  8. Asking your partner to change his or her behavior because you are jealous
  9. Felling manipulated or controlled
  10. Being threatened
  11. Forcing your partner to do sexual things that they are not comfortable doing
  12. Feeling isolated, maybe even alone
  13. Feeling a nervous or sick feeling in your stomach when your partner isn’t happy
  14. Not having your thoughts or wishes for person space respected
  15. Feeling embarrassed, put down, ashamed, or guilty
  16. Being afraid to express your own feelings of anger
  17. Making your partner afraid of you
  18. Feeling unable to control your own feelings of anger
  19. Being physically hurt
  20. Asking your partner to change his or her behavior because you are jealous
  21. Losing your Friends
  22. Felling a pounding or fluttering in your chest when your partner isn't happy
  23. Physically assaulting your partner
  24. Changing your behavior because of your partner’s jealousy