Feeling as ifyour date getstoo personal ortouches you inan unwantedwayFeelingisolated,maybeeven aloneBeingphysicallyhurtAsking yourpartner tochange his orher behaviorbecause youare jealousFeelingunable tocontrol yourown feelingsof angerFeeling anervous or sickfeeling in yourstomach whenyour partnerisn’t happyNot havingyour thoughtsor wishes forperson spacerespectedPhysicallyassaultingyourpartnerMaking yourpartnerafraid of youChanging yourbehaviorbecause ofyour partner’sjealousyNot beingallowed to, orbeing afraid to,make decisionsfor yourselfUsing "guilttrip" to getyour partnerto dosomethingAsking yourpartner tochange his orher behaviorbecause youare jealousFellingmanipulatedor controlledLosingyourFriendsNoticing that yourpartner’s beliefsabout the positionof the oppositegender aredifferent from yourownFeelingembarrassed,put down,ashamed, orguiltyFelling a poundingor fluttering in yourchest when yourpartner isn't happyNoticing that yourpartner has verytraditional(stereotypical)beliefs aboutwomen and menForcing yourpartner to dosexual thingsthat they arenot comfortabledoingFeelingafraid ofyourpartnerBeingthreatenedBecomingangry if yourpartner isspending timewith otherpeopleBeing afraidto expressyour ownfeelings ofangerFeeling as ifyour date getstoo personal ortouches you inan unwantedwayFeelingisolated,maybeeven aloneBeingphysicallyhurtAsking yourpartner tochange his orher behaviorbecause youare jealousFeelingunable tocontrol yourown feelingsof angerFeeling anervous or sickfeeling in yourstomach whenyour partnerisn’t happyNot havingyour thoughtsor wishes forperson spacerespectedPhysicallyassaultingyourpartnerMaking yourpartnerafraid of youChanging yourbehaviorbecause ofyour partner’sjealousyNot beingallowed to, orbeing afraid to,make decisionsfor yourselfUsing "guilttrip" to getyour partnerto dosomethingAsking yourpartner tochange his orher behaviorbecause youare jealousFellingmanipulatedor controlledLosingyourFriendsNoticing that yourpartner’s beliefsabout the positionof the oppositegender aredifferent from yourownFeelingembarrassed,put down,ashamed, orguiltyFelling a poundingor fluttering in yourchest when yourpartner isn't happyNoticing that yourpartner has verytraditional(stereotypical)beliefs aboutwomen and menForcing yourpartner to dosexual thingsthat they arenot comfortabledoingFeelingafraid ofyourpartnerBeingthreatenedBecomingangry if yourpartner isspending timewith otherpeopleBeing afraidto expressyour ownfeelings ofanger

Dating Abuse Red Flags Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Feeling as if your date gets too personal or touches you in an unwanted way
  2. Feeling isolated, maybe even alone
  3. Being physically hurt
  4. Asking your partner to change his or her behavior because you are jealous
  5. Feeling unable to control your own feelings of anger
  6. Feeling a nervous or sick feeling in your stomach when your partner isn’t happy
  7. Not having your thoughts or wishes for person space respected
  8. Physically assaulting your partner
  9. Making your partner afraid of you
  10. Changing your behavior because of your partner’s jealousy
  11. Not being allowed to, or being afraid to, make decisions for yourself
  12. Using "guilt trip" to get your partner to do something
  13. Asking your partner to change his or her behavior because you are jealous
  14. Felling manipulated or controlled
  15. Losing your Friends
  16. Noticing that your partner’s beliefs about the position of the opposite gender are different from your own
  17. Feeling embarrassed, put down, ashamed, or guilty
  18. Felling a pounding or fluttering in your chest when your partner isn't happy
  19. Noticing that your partner has very traditional (stereotypical) beliefs about women and men
  20. Forcing your partner to do sexual things that they are not comfortable doing
  21. Feeling afraid of your partner
  22. Being threatened
  23. Becoming angry if your partner is spending time with other people
  24. Being afraid to express your own feelings of anger