Being afraidto expressyour ownfeelings ofangerFeelingisolated,maybeeven aloneFellingmanipulatedor controlledAsking yourpartner tochange his orher behaviorbecause youare jealousFelling a poundingor fluttering in yourchest when yourpartner isn't happyBecomingangry if yourpartner isspending timewith otherpeoplePhysicallyassaultingyourpartnerForcing yourpartner to dosexual thingsthat they arenot comfortabledoingMaking yourpartnerafraid of youFeeling anervous or sickfeeling in yourstomach whenyour partnerisn’t happyFeeling as ifyour date getstoo personal ortouches you inan unwantedwayUsing "guilttrip" to getyour partnerto dosomethingNoticing that yourpartner has verytraditional(stereotypical)beliefs aboutwomen and menNot beingallowed to, orbeing afraid to,make decisionsfor yourselfLosingyourFriendsChanging yourbehaviorbecause ofyour partner’sjealousyFeelingembarrassed,put down,ashamed, orguiltyNoticing that yourpartner’s beliefsabout the positionof the oppositegender aredifferent from yourownAsking yourpartner tochange his orher behaviorbecause youare jealousFeelingunable tocontrol yourown feelingsof angerBeingphysicallyhurtBeingthreatenedNot havingyour thoughtsor wishes forperson spacerespectedFeelingafraid ofyourpartnerBeing afraidto expressyour ownfeelings ofangerFeelingisolated,maybeeven aloneFellingmanipulatedor controlledAsking yourpartner tochange his orher behaviorbecause youare jealousFelling a poundingor fluttering in yourchest when yourpartner isn't happyBecomingangry if yourpartner isspending timewith otherpeoplePhysicallyassaultingyourpartnerForcing yourpartner to dosexual thingsthat they arenot comfortabledoingMaking yourpartnerafraid of youFeeling anervous or sickfeeling in yourstomach whenyour partnerisn’t happyFeeling as ifyour date getstoo personal ortouches you inan unwantedwayUsing "guilttrip" to getyour partnerto dosomethingNoticing that yourpartner has verytraditional(stereotypical)beliefs aboutwomen and menNot beingallowed to, orbeing afraid to,make decisionsfor yourselfLosingyourFriendsChanging yourbehaviorbecause ofyour partner’sjealousyFeelingembarrassed,put down,ashamed, orguiltyNoticing that yourpartner’s beliefsabout the positionof the oppositegender aredifferent from yourownAsking yourpartner tochange his orher behaviorbecause youare jealousFeelingunable tocontrol yourown feelingsof angerBeingphysicallyhurtBeingthreatenedNot havingyour thoughtsor wishes forperson spacerespectedFeelingafraid ofyourpartner

Dating Abuse Red Flags Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Being afraid to express your own feelings of anger
  2. Feeling isolated, maybe even alone
  3. Felling manipulated or controlled
  4. Asking your partner to change his or her behavior because you are jealous
  5. Felling a pounding or fluttering in your chest when your partner isn't happy
  6. Becoming angry if your partner is spending time with other people
  7. Physically assaulting your partner
  8. Forcing your partner to do sexual things that they are not comfortable doing
  9. Making your partner afraid of you
  10. Feeling a nervous or sick feeling in your stomach when your partner isn’t happy
  11. Feeling as if your date gets too personal or touches you in an unwanted way
  12. Using "guilt trip" to get your partner to do something
  13. Noticing that your partner has very traditional (stereotypical) beliefs about women and men
  14. Not being allowed to, or being afraid to, make decisions for yourself
  15. Losing your Friends
  16. Changing your behavior because of your partner’s jealousy
  17. Feeling embarrassed, put down, ashamed, or guilty
  18. Noticing that your partner’s beliefs about the position of the opposite gender are different from your own
  19. Asking your partner to change his or her behavior because you are jealous
  20. Feeling unable to control your own feelings of anger
  21. Being physically hurt
  22. Being threatened
  23. Not having your thoughts or wishes for person space respected
  24. Feeling afraid of your partner