Not havingyour thoughtsor wishes forperson spacerespectedFeelingunable tocontrol yourown feelingsof angerLosingyourFriendsFeeling anervous or sickfeeling in yourstomach whenyour partnerisn’t happyFelling a poundingor fluttering in yourchest when yourpartner isn't happyFeelingisolated,maybeeven aloneBeing afraidto expressyour ownfeelings ofangerNot beingallowed to, orbeing afraid to,make decisionsfor yourselfFellingmanipulatedor controlledFeelingafraid ofyourpartnerBeingphysicallyhurtChanging yourbehaviorbecause ofyour partner’sjealousyBecomingangry if yourpartner isspending timewith otherpeopleUsing "guilttrip" to getyour partnerto dosomethingBeingthreatenedFeelingembarrassed,put down,ashamed, orguiltyAsking yourpartner tochange his orher behaviorbecause youare jealousPhysicallyassaultingyourpartnerForcing yourpartner to dosexual thingsthat they arenot comfortabledoingAsking yourpartner tochange his orher behaviorbecause youare jealousNoticing that yourpartner’s beliefsabout the positionof the oppositegender aredifferent from yourownMaking yourpartnerafraid of youFeeling as ifyour date getstoo personal ortouches you inan unwantedwayNoticing that yourpartner has verytraditional(stereotypical)beliefs aboutwomen and menNot havingyour thoughtsor wishes forperson spacerespectedFeelingunable tocontrol yourown feelingsof angerLosingyourFriendsFeeling anervous or sickfeeling in yourstomach whenyour partnerisn’t happyFelling a poundingor fluttering in yourchest when yourpartner isn't happyFeelingisolated,maybeeven aloneBeing afraidto expressyour ownfeelings ofangerNot beingallowed to, orbeing afraid to,make decisionsfor yourselfFellingmanipulatedor controlledFeelingafraid ofyourpartnerBeingphysicallyhurtChanging yourbehaviorbecause ofyour partner’sjealousyBecomingangry if yourpartner isspending timewith otherpeopleUsing "guilttrip" to getyour partnerto dosomethingBeingthreatenedFeelingembarrassed,put down,ashamed, orguiltyAsking yourpartner tochange his orher behaviorbecause youare jealousPhysicallyassaultingyourpartnerForcing yourpartner to dosexual thingsthat they arenot comfortabledoingAsking yourpartner tochange his orher behaviorbecause youare jealousNoticing that yourpartner’s beliefsabout the positionof the oppositegender aredifferent from yourownMaking yourpartnerafraid of youFeeling as ifyour date getstoo personal ortouches you inan unwantedwayNoticing that yourpartner has verytraditional(stereotypical)beliefs aboutwomen and men

Dating Abuse Red Flags Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Not having your thoughts or wishes for person space respected
  2. Feeling unable to control your own feelings of anger
  3. Losing your Friends
  4. Feeling a nervous or sick feeling in your stomach when your partner isn’t happy
  5. Felling a pounding or fluttering in your chest when your partner isn't happy
  6. Feeling isolated, maybe even alone
  7. Being afraid to express your own feelings of anger
  8. Not being allowed to, or being afraid to, make decisions for yourself
  9. Felling manipulated or controlled
  10. Feeling afraid of your partner
  11. Being physically hurt
  12. Changing your behavior because of your partner’s jealousy
  13. Becoming angry if your partner is spending time with other people
  14. Using "guilt trip" to get your partner to do something
  15. Being threatened
  16. Feeling embarrassed, put down, ashamed, or guilty
  17. Asking your partner to change his or her behavior because you are jealous
  18. Physically assaulting your partner
  19. Forcing your partner to do sexual things that they are not comfortable doing
  20. Asking your partner to change his or her behavior because you are jealous
  21. Noticing that your partner’s beliefs about the position of the opposite gender are different from your own
  22. Making your partner afraid of you
  23. Feeling as if your date gets too personal or touches you in an unwanted way
  24. Noticing that your partner has very traditional (stereotypical) beliefs about women and men