Feeling as ifyour date getstoo personal ortouches you inan unwantedwayMaking yourpartnerafraid of youLosingyourFriendsFellingmanipulatedor controlledForcing yourpartner to dosexual thingsthat they arenot comfortabledoingNot havingyour thoughtsor wishes forperson spacerespectedFeelingisolated,maybeeven aloneUsing "guilttrip" to getyour partnerto dosomethingBecomingangry if yourpartner isspending timewith otherpeopleFeelingunable tocontrol yourown feelingsof angerFeelingafraid ofyourpartnerAsking yourpartner tochange his orher behaviorbecause youare jealousNoticing that yourpartner has verytraditional(stereotypical)beliefs aboutwomen and menBeingphysicallyhurtNot beingallowed to, orbeing afraid to,make decisionsfor yourselfNoticing that yourpartner’s beliefsabout the positionof the oppositegender aredifferent from yourownFeelingembarrassed,put down,ashamed, orguiltyFelling a poundingor fluttering in yourchest when yourpartner isn't happyChanging yourbehaviorbecause ofyour partner’sjealousyAsking yourpartner tochange his orher behaviorbecause youare jealousPhysicallyassaultingyourpartnerBeingthreatenedFeeling anervous or sickfeeling in yourstomach whenyour partnerisn’t happyBeing afraidto expressyour ownfeelings ofangerFeeling as ifyour date getstoo personal ortouches you inan unwantedwayMaking yourpartnerafraid of youLosingyourFriendsFellingmanipulatedor controlledForcing yourpartner to dosexual thingsthat they arenot comfortabledoingNot havingyour thoughtsor wishes forperson spacerespectedFeelingisolated,maybeeven aloneUsing "guilttrip" to getyour partnerto dosomethingBecomingangry if yourpartner isspending timewith otherpeopleFeelingunable tocontrol yourown feelingsof angerFeelingafraid ofyourpartnerAsking yourpartner tochange his orher behaviorbecause youare jealousNoticing that yourpartner has verytraditional(stereotypical)beliefs aboutwomen and menBeingphysicallyhurtNot beingallowed to, orbeing afraid to,make decisionsfor yourselfNoticing that yourpartner’s beliefsabout the positionof the oppositegender aredifferent from yourownFeelingembarrassed,put down,ashamed, orguiltyFelling a poundingor fluttering in yourchest when yourpartner isn't happyChanging yourbehaviorbecause ofyour partner’sjealousyAsking yourpartner tochange his orher behaviorbecause youare jealousPhysicallyassaultingyourpartnerBeingthreatenedFeeling anervous or sickfeeling in yourstomach whenyour partnerisn’t happyBeing afraidto expressyour ownfeelings ofanger

Dating Abuse Red Flags Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Feeling as if your date gets too personal or touches you in an unwanted way
  2. Making your partner afraid of you
  3. Losing your Friends
  4. Felling manipulated or controlled
  5. Forcing your partner to do sexual things that they are not comfortable doing
  6. Not having your thoughts or wishes for person space respected
  7. Feeling isolated, maybe even alone
  8. Using "guilt trip" to get your partner to do something
  9. Becoming angry if your partner is spending time with other people
  10. Feeling unable to control your own feelings of anger
  11. Feeling afraid of your partner
  12. Asking your partner to change his or her behavior because you are jealous
  13. Noticing that your partner has very traditional (stereotypical) beliefs about women and men
  14. Being physically hurt
  15. Not being allowed to, or being afraid to, make decisions for yourself
  16. Noticing that your partner’s beliefs about the position of the opposite gender are different from your own
  17. Feeling embarrassed, put down, ashamed, or guilty
  18. Felling a pounding or fluttering in your chest when your partner isn't happy
  19. Changing your behavior because of your partner’s jealousy
  20. Asking your partner to change his or her behavior because you are jealous
  21. Physically assaulting your partner
  22. Being threatened
  23. Feeling a nervous or sick feeling in your stomach when your partner isn’t happy
  24. Being afraid to express your own feelings of anger