Not havingyour thoughtsor wishes forperson spacerespectedBeing afraidto expressyour ownfeelings ofangerMaking yourpartnerafraid of youLosingyourFriendsFeeling as ifyour date getstoo personal ortouches you inan unwantedwayPhysicallyassaultingyourpartnerAsking yourpartner tochange his orher behaviorbecause youare jealousNot beingallowed to, orbeing afraid to,make decisionsfor yourselfBeingthreatenedUsing "guilttrip" to getyour partnerto dosomethingFeeling anervous or sickfeeling in yourstomach whenyour partnerisn’t happyBecomingangry if yourpartner isspending timewith otherpeopleBeingphysicallyhurtAsking yourpartner tochange his orher behaviorbecause youare jealousFeelingisolated,maybeeven aloneChanging yourbehaviorbecause ofyour partner’sjealousyFeelingunable tocontrol yourown feelingsof angerNoticing that yourpartner’s beliefsabout the positionof the oppositegender aredifferent from yourownFeelingafraid ofyourpartnerFeelingembarrassed,put down,ashamed, orguiltyNoticing that yourpartner has verytraditional(stereotypical)beliefs aboutwomen and menFellingmanipulatedor controlledFelling a poundingor fluttering in yourchest when yourpartner isn't happyForcing yourpartner to dosexual thingsthat they arenot comfortabledoingNot havingyour thoughtsor wishes forperson spacerespectedBeing afraidto expressyour ownfeelings ofangerMaking yourpartnerafraid of youLosingyourFriendsFeeling as ifyour date getstoo personal ortouches you inan unwantedwayPhysicallyassaultingyourpartnerAsking yourpartner tochange his orher behaviorbecause youare jealousNot beingallowed to, orbeing afraid to,make decisionsfor yourselfBeingthreatenedUsing "guilttrip" to getyour partnerto dosomethingFeeling anervous or sickfeeling in yourstomach whenyour partnerisn’t happyBecomingangry if yourpartner isspending timewith otherpeopleBeingphysicallyhurtAsking yourpartner tochange his orher behaviorbecause youare jealousFeelingisolated,maybeeven aloneChanging yourbehaviorbecause ofyour partner’sjealousyFeelingunable tocontrol yourown feelingsof angerNoticing that yourpartner’s beliefsabout the positionof the oppositegender aredifferent from yourownFeelingafraid ofyourpartnerFeelingembarrassed,put down,ashamed, orguiltyNoticing that yourpartner has verytraditional(stereotypical)beliefs aboutwomen and menFellingmanipulatedor controlledFelling a poundingor fluttering in yourchest when yourpartner isn't happyForcing yourpartner to dosexual thingsthat they arenot comfortabledoing

Dating Abuse Red Flags Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Not having your thoughts or wishes for person space respected
  2. Being afraid to express your own feelings of anger
  3. Making your partner afraid of you
  4. Losing your Friends
  5. Feeling as if your date gets too personal or touches you in an unwanted way
  6. Physically assaulting your partner
  7. Asking your partner to change his or her behavior because you are jealous
  8. Not being allowed to, or being afraid to, make decisions for yourself
  9. Being threatened
  10. Using "guilt trip" to get your partner to do something
  11. Feeling a nervous or sick feeling in your stomach when your partner isn’t happy
  12. Becoming angry if your partner is spending time with other people
  13. Being physically hurt
  14. Asking your partner to change his or her behavior because you are jealous
  15. Feeling isolated, maybe even alone
  16. Changing your behavior because of your partner’s jealousy
  17. Feeling unable to control your own feelings of anger
  18. Noticing that your partner’s beliefs about the position of the opposite gender are different from your own
  19. Feeling afraid of your partner
  20. Feeling embarrassed, put down, ashamed, or guilty
  21. Noticing that your partner has very traditional (stereotypical) beliefs about women and men
  22. Felling manipulated or controlled
  23. Felling a pounding or fluttering in your chest when your partner isn't happy
  24. Forcing your partner to do sexual things that they are not comfortable doing