Not beingallowed to, orbeing afraid to,make decisionsfor yourselfForcing yourpartner to dosexual thingsthat they arenot comfortabledoingNoticing that yourpartner has verytraditional(stereotypical)beliefs aboutwomen and menFeelingafraid ofyourpartnerBeing afraidto expressyour ownfeelings ofangerMaking yourpartnerafraid of youAsking yourpartner tochange his orher behaviorbecause youare jealousNoticing that yourpartner’s beliefsabout the positionof the oppositegender aredifferent from yourownFeeling as ifyour date getstoo personal ortouches you inan unwantedwayUsing "guilttrip" to getyour partnerto dosomethingBecomingangry if yourpartner isspending timewith otherpeopleFeelingisolated,maybeeven aloneFeelingunable tocontrol yourown feelingsof angerFellingmanipulatedor controlledLosingyourFriendsFeelingembarrassed,put down,ashamed, orguiltyFelling a poundingor fluttering in yourchest when yourpartner isn't happyFeeling anervous or sickfeeling in yourstomach whenyour partnerisn’t happyPhysicallyassaultingyourpartnerBeingphysicallyhurtNot havingyour thoughtsor wishes forperson spacerespectedBeingthreatenedAsking yourpartner tochange his orher behaviorbecause youare jealousChanging yourbehaviorbecause ofyour partner’sjealousyNot beingallowed to, orbeing afraid to,make decisionsfor yourselfForcing yourpartner to dosexual thingsthat they arenot comfortabledoingNoticing that yourpartner has verytraditional(stereotypical)beliefs aboutwomen and menFeelingafraid ofyourpartnerBeing afraidto expressyour ownfeelings ofangerMaking yourpartnerafraid of youAsking yourpartner tochange his orher behaviorbecause youare jealousNoticing that yourpartner’s beliefsabout the positionof the oppositegender aredifferent from yourownFeeling as ifyour date getstoo personal ortouches you inan unwantedwayUsing "guilttrip" to getyour partnerto dosomethingBecomingangry if yourpartner isspending timewith otherpeopleFeelingisolated,maybeeven aloneFeelingunable tocontrol yourown feelingsof angerFellingmanipulatedor controlledLosingyourFriendsFeelingembarrassed,put down,ashamed, orguiltyFelling a poundingor fluttering in yourchest when yourpartner isn't happyFeeling anervous or sickfeeling in yourstomach whenyour partnerisn’t happyPhysicallyassaultingyourpartnerBeingphysicallyhurtNot havingyour thoughtsor wishes forperson spacerespectedBeingthreatenedAsking yourpartner tochange his orher behaviorbecause youare jealousChanging yourbehaviorbecause ofyour partner’sjealousy

Dating Abuse Red Flags Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Not being allowed to, or being afraid to, make decisions for yourself
  2. Forcing your partner to do sexual things that they are not comfortable doing
  3. Noticing that your partner has very traditional (stereotypical) beliefs about women and men
  4. Feeling afraid of your partner
  5. Being afraid to express your own feelings of anger
  6. Making your partner afraid of you
  7. Asking your partner to change his or her behavior because you are jealous
  8. Noticing that your partner’s beliefs about the position of the opposite gender are different from your own
  9. Feeling as if your date gets too personal or touches you in an unwanted way
  10. Using "guilt trip" to get your partner to do something
  11. Becoming angry if your partner is spending time with other people
  12. Feeling isolated, maybe even alone
  13. Feeling unable to control your own feelings of anger
  14. Felling manipulated or controlled
  15. Losing your Friends
  16. Feeling embarrassed, put down, ashamed, or guilty
  17. Felling a pounding or fluttering in your chest when your partner isn't happy
  18. Feeling a nervous or sick feeling in your stomach when your partner isn’t happy
  19. Physically assaulting your partner
  20. Being physically hurt
  21. Not having your thoughts or wishes for person space respected
  22. Being threatened
  23. Asking your partner to change his or her behavior because you are jealous
  24. Changing your behavior because of your partner’s jealousy