Becomingangry if yourpartner isspending timewith otherpeopleBeingphysicallyhurtBeing afraidto expressyour ownfeelings ofangerAsking yourpartner tochange his orher behaviorbecause youare jealousUsing "guilttrip" to getyour partnerto dosomethingFellingmanipulatedor controlledMaking yourpartnerafraid of youNot havingyour thoughtsor wishes forperson spacerespectedBeingthreatenedFelling a poundingor fluttering in yourchest when yourpartner isn't happyLosingyourFriendsNot beingallowed to, orbeing afraid to,make decisionsfor yourselfNoticing that yourpartner has verytraditional(stereotypical)beliefs aboutwomen and menNoticing that yourpartner’s beliefsabout the positionof the oppositegender aredifferent from yourownForcing yourpartner to dosexual thingsthat they arenot comfortabledoingPhysicallyassaultingyourpartnerFeelingisolated,maybeeven aloneFeeling anervous or sickfeeling in yourstomach whenyour partnerisn’t happyChanging yourbehaviorbecause ofyour partner’sjealousyFeeling as ifyour date getstoo personal ortouches you inan unwantedwayFeelingembarrassed,put down,ashamed, orguiltyFeelingunable tocontrol yourown feelingsof angerAsking yourpartner tochange his orher behaviorbecause youare jealousFeelingafraid ofyourpartnerBecomingangry if yourpartner isspending timewith otherpeopleBeingphysicallyhurtBeing afraidto expressyour ownfeelings ofangerAsking yourpartner tochange his orher behaviorbecause youare jealousUsing "guilttrip" to getyour partnerto dosomethingFellingmanipulatedor controlledMaking yourpartnerafraid of youNot havingyour thoughtsor wishes forperson spacerespectedBeingthreatenedFelling a poundingor fluttering in yourchest when yourpartner isn't happyLosingyourFriendsNot beingallowed to, orbeing afraid to,make decisionsfor yourselfNoticing that yourpartner has verytraditional(stereotypical)beliefs aboutwomen and menNoticing that yourpartner’s beliefsabout the positionof the oppositegender aredifferent from yourownForcing yourpartner to dosexual thingsthat they arenot comfortabledoingPhysicallyassaultingyourpartnerFeelingisolated,maybeeven aloneFeeling anervous or sickfeeling in yourstomach whenyour partnerisn’t happyChanging yourbehaviorbecause ofyour partner’sjealousyFeeling as ifyour date getstoo personal ortouches you inan unwantedwayFeelingembarrassed,put down,ashamed, orguiltyFeelingunable tocontrol yourown feelingsof angerAsking yourpartner tochange his orher behaviorbecause youare jealousFeelingafraid ofyourpartner

Dating Abuse Red Flags Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Becoming angry if your partner is spending time with other people
  2. Being physically hurt
  3. Being afraid to express your own feelings of anger
  4. Asking your partner to change his or her behavior because you are jealous
  5. Using "guilt trip" to get your partner to do something
  6. Felling manipulated or controlled
  7. Making your partner afraid of you
  8. Not having your thoughts or wishes for person space respected
  9. Being threatened
  10. Felling a pounding or fluttering in your chest when your partner isn't happy
  11. Losing your Friends
  12. Not being allowed to, or being afraid to, make decisions for yourself
  13. Noticing that your partner has very traditional (stereotypical) beliefs about women and men
  14. Noticing that your partner’s beliefs about the position of the opposite gender are different from your own
  15. Forcing your partner to do sexual things that they are not comfortable doing
  16. Physically assaulting your partner
  17. Feeling isolated, maybe even alone
  18. Feeling a nervous or sick feeling in your stomach when your partner isn’t happy
  19. Changing your behavior because of your partner’s jealousy
  20. Feeling as if your date gets too personal or touches you in an unwanted way
  21. Feeling embarrassed, put down, ashamed, or guilty
  22. Feeling unable to control your own feelings of anger
  23. Asking your partner to change his or her behavior because you are jealous
  24. Feeling afraid of your partner