Noticing that yourpartner has verytraditional(stereotypical)beliefs aboutwomen and menNoticing that yourpartner’s beliefsabout the positionof the oppositegender aredifferent from yourownFelling a poundingor fluttering in yourchest when yourpartner isn't happyChanging yourbehaviorbecause ofyour partner’sjealousyNot beingallowed to, orbeing afraid to,make decisionsfor yourselfBecomingangry if yourpartner isspending timewith otherpeopleBeing afraidto expressyour ownfeelings ofangerAsking yourpartner tochange his orher behaviorbecause youare jealousFeeling as ifyour date getstoo personal ortouches you inan unwantedwayLosingyourFriendsFeelingembarrassed,put down,ashamed, orguiltyBeingphysicallyhurtNot havingyour thoughtsor wishes forperson spacerespectedBeingthreatenedFeelingafraid ofyourpartnerFeeling anervous or sickfeeling in yourstomach whenyour partnerisn’t happyUsing "guilttrip" to getyour partnerto dosomethingForcing yourpartner to dosexual thingsthat they arenot comfortabledoingFeelingunable tocontrol yourown feelingsof angerAsking yourpartner tochange his orher behaviorbecause youare jealousPhysicallyassaultingyourpartnerFeelingisolated,maybeeven aloneMaking yourpartnerafraid of youFellingmanipulatedor controlledNoticing that yourpartner has verytraditional(stereotypical)beliefs aboutwomen and menNoticing that yourpartner’s beliefsabout the positionof the oppositegender aredifferent from yourownFelling a poundingor fluttering in yourchest when yourpartner isn't happyChanging yourbehaviorbecause ofyour partner’sjealousyNot beingallowed to, orbeing afraid to,make decisionsfor yourselfBecomingangry if yourpartner isspending timewith otherpeopleBeing afraidto expressyour ownfeelings ofangerAsking yourpartner tochange his orher behaviorbecause youare jealousFeeling as ifyour date getstoo personal ortouches you inan unwantedwayLosingyourFriendsFeelingembarrassed,put down,ashamed, orguiltyBeingphysicallyhurtNot havingyour thoughtsor wishes forperson spacerespectedBeingthreatenedFeelingafraid ofyourpartnerFeeling anervous or sickfeeling in yourstomach whenyour partnerisn’t happyUsing "guilttrip" to getyour partnerto dosomethingForcing yourpartner to dosexual thingsthat they arenot comfortabledoingFeelingunable tocontrol yourown feelingsof angerAsking yourpartner tochange his orher behaviorbecause youare jealousPhysicallyassaultingyourpartnerFeelingisolated,maybeeven aloneMaking yourpartnerafraid of youFellingmanipulatedor controlled

Dating Abuse Red Flags Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Noticing that your partner has very traditional (stereotypical) beliefs about women and men
  2. Noticing that your partner’s beliefs about the position of the opposite gender are different from your own
  3. Felling a pounding or fluttering in your chest when your partner isn't happy
  4. Changing your behavior because of your partner’s jealousy
  5. Not being allowed to, or being afraid to, make decisions for yourself
  6. Becoming angry if your partner is spending time with other people
  7. Being afraid to express your own feelings of anger
  8. Asking your partner to change his or her behavior because you are jealous
  9. Feeling as if your date gets too personal or touches you in an unwanted way
  10. Losing your Friends
  11. Feeling embarrassed, put down, ashamed, or guilty
  12. Being physically hurt
  13. Not having your thoughts or wishes for person space respected
  14. Being threatened
  15. Feeling afraid of your partner
  16. Feeling a nervous or sick feeling in your stomach when your partner isn’t happy
  17. Using "guilt trip" to get your partner to do something
  18. Forcing your partner to do sexual things that they are not comfortable doing
  19. Feeling unable to control your own feelings of anger
  20. Asking your partner to change his or her behavior because you are jealous
  21. Physically assaulting your partner
  22. Feeling isolated, maybe even alone
  23. Making your partner afraid of you
  24. Felling manipulated or controlled