Brings up mymistakes or"wrongdoings"from weeks,months, oreven years agoAfter beingreproved orcritiqued, heasks, "What areyou going to doabout it?"Mocks mycharacteror actionsSayssomethinginsultingabout mymomDoesn't admitresponsibility for hisactions, blameseveryone but himself,or fails to recognizethat he could be thesource-of-conflictMentions thathe finds medisappointingSayssomething like"You're justsaying that tosatisfy me."Goesoff on atangentSays somethinglike, "I've beenholding thiscriticism for awhile, and now Ithink it's time forme to share it."After I finishspeaking, heresponds with,"That's all?" (toundermine thevalue of what I'vesaid)During a heatedconversation, he triesto gain the upper handby spotlighting minordetails in my speechrather than addressingthe main points of myargumentBerates mefor longerthan 30minutesSayssomething like,"You never try[(hardenough)]."Saysthe r-slurWhen I make amistake, hecondescendinglyprovidesunconstructive criticismlike "Why didn't you doit differently? Youcould've handled thatbetter."Berates me fora while, goesaway, thencomes back toscold me againWhen I mention atime he has abusedme, he either says"sorry" sarcasticallyor says somethinglike "I don't believeyou."Mentionsthat IembarrasshimBecomesphysicallyabusiveShoosmeawayWhen I try toaddress anissue, hecompletelymisses the pointof my argumentTries toappeal to mysympatheticside by guilt-tripping meWhen I mention hisabusive behavior, hediminishes myexperience bydrawing comparisonsto those who suffermore [extensivelyfrom abuse]Says somethinglike, "When you'reolder, you're goingto ask me for aplace to live, andI'll turn a deaf ear."Brings up mymistakes or"wrongdoings"from weeks,months, oreven years agoAfter beingreproved orcritiqued, heasks, "What areyou going to doabout it?"Mocks mycharacteror actionsSayssomethinginsultingabout mymomDoesn't admitresponsibility for hisactions, blameseveryone but himself,or fails to recognizethat he could be thesource-of-conflictMentions thathe finds medisappointingSayssomething like"You're justsaying that tosatisfy me."Goesoff on atangentSays somethinglike, "I've beenholding thiscriticism for awhile, and now Ithink it's time forme to share it."After I finishspeaking, heresponds with,"That's all?" (toundermine thevalue of what I'vesaid)During a heatedconversation, he triesto gain the upper handby spotlighting minordetails in my speechrather than addressingthe main points of myargumentBerates mefor longerthan 30minutesSayssomething like,"You never try[(hardenough)]."Saysthe r-slurWhen I make amistake, hecondescendinglyprovidesunconstructive criticismlike "Why didn't you doit differently? Youcould've handled thatbetter."Berates me fora while, goesaway, thencomes back toscold me againWhen I mention atime he has abusedme, he either says"sorry" sarcasticallyor says somethinglike "I don't believeyou."Mentionsthat IembarrasshimBecomesphysicallyabusiveShoosmeawayWhen I try toaddress anissue, hecompletelymisses the pointof my argumentTries toappeal to mysympatheticside by guilt-tripping meWhen I mention hisabusive behavior, hediminishes myexperience bydrawing comparisonsto those who suffermore [extensivelyfrom abuse]Says somethinglike, "When you'reolder, you're goingto ask me for aplace to live, andI'll turn a deaf ear."

Verbal Assault with Dad - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Brings up my mistakes or "wrongdoings" from weeks, months, or even years ago
  2. After being reproved or critiqued, he asks, "What are you going to do about it?"
  3. Mocks my character or actions
  4. Says something insulting about my mom
  5. Doesn't admit responsibility for his actions, blames everyone but himself, or fails to recognize that he could be the source-of-conflict
  6. Mentions that he finds me disappointing
  7. Says something like "You're just saying that to satisfy me."
  8. Goes off on a tangent
  9. Says something like, "I've been holding this criticism for a while, and now I think it's time for me to share it."
  10. After I finish speaking, he responds with, "That's all?" (to undermine the value of what I've said)
  11. During a heated conversation, he tries to gain the upper hand by spotlighting minor details in my speech rather than addressing the main points of my argument
  12. Berates me for longer than 30 minutes
  13. Says something like, "You never try [(hard enough)]."
  14. Says the r-slur
  15. When I make a mistake, he condescendingly provides unconstructive criticism like "Why didn't you do it differently? You could've handled that better."
  16. Berates me for a while, goes away, then comes back to scold me again
  17. When I mention a time he has abused me, he either says "sorry" sarcastically or says something like "I don't believe you."
  18. Mentions that I embarrass him
  19. Becomes physically abusive
  20. Shoos me away
  21. When I try to address an issue, he completely misses the point of my argument
  22. Tries to appeal to my sympathetic side by guilt-tripping me
  23. When I mention his abusive behavior, he diminishes my experience by drawing comparisons to those who suffer more [extensively from abuse]
  24. Says something like, "When you're older, you're going to ask me for a place to live, and I'll turn a deaf ear."