BecomesphysicallyabusiveShoosmeawayMentions thathe finds medisappointingWhen I mention atime he has abusedme, he either says"sorry" sarcasticallyor says somethinglike "I don't believeyou."Brings up mymistakes or"wrongdoings"from weeks,months, oreven years agoSayssomething like"You're justsaying that tosatisfy me."Goesoff on atangentBerates mefor longerthan 30minutesAfter beingreproved orcritiqued, heasks, "What areyou going to doabout it?"Doesn't admitresponsibility for hisactions, blameseveryone but himself,or fails to recognizethat he could be thesource-of-conflictTries toappeal to mysympatheticside by guilt-tripping meMocks mycharacteror actionsBerates me fora while, goesaway, thencomes back toscold me againSaysthe r-slurWhen I try toaddress anissue, hecompletelymisses the pointof my argumentWhen I mention hisabusive behavior, hediminishes myexperience bydrawing comparisonsto those who suffermore [extensivelyfrom abuse]Sayssomething like,"You never try[(hardenough)]."When I make amistake, hecondescendinglyprovidesunconstructive criticismlike "Why didn't you doit differently? Youcould've handled thatbetter."After I finishspeaking, heresponds with,"That's all?" (toundermine thevalue of what I'vesaid)Says somethinglike, "I've beenholding thiscriticism for awhile, and now Ithink it's time forme to share it."Says somethinglike, "When you'reolder, you're goingto ask me for aplace to live, andI'll turn a deaf ear."Sayssomethinginsultingabout mymomDuring a heatedconversation, he triesto gain the upper handby spotlighting minordetails in my speechrather than addressingthe main points of myargumentMentionsthat IembarrasshimBecomesphysicallyabusiveShoosmeawayMentions thathe finds medisappointingWhen I mention atime he has abusedme, he either says"sorry" sarcasticallyor says somethinglike "I don't believeyou."Brings up mymistakes or"wrongdoings"from weeks,months, oreven years agoSayssomething like"You're justsaying that tosatisfy me."Goesoff on atangentBerates mefor longerthan 30minutesAfter beingreproved orcritiqued, heasks, "What areyou going to doabout it?"Doesn't admitresponsibility for hisactions, blameseveryone but himself,or fails to recognizethat he could be thesource-of-conflictTries toappeal to mysympatheticside by guilt-tripping meMocks mycharacteror actionsBerates me fora while, goesaway, thencomes back toscold me againSaysthe r-slurWhen I try toaddress anissue, hecompletelymisses the pointof my argumentWhen I mention hisabusive behavior, hediminishes myexperience bydrawing comparisonsto those who suffermore [extensivelyfrom abuse]Sayssomething like,"You never try[(hardenough)]."When I make amistake, hecondescendinglyprovidesunconstructive criticismlike "Why didn't you doit differently? Youcould've handled thatbetter."After I finishspeaking, heresponds with,"That's all?" (toundermine thevalue of what I'vesaid)Says somethinglike, "I've beenholding thiscriticism for awhile, and now Ithink it's time forme to share it."Says somethinglike, "When you'reolder, you're goingto ask me for aplace to live, andI'll turn a deaf ear."Sayssomethinginsultingabout mymomDuring a heatedconversation, he triesto gain the upper handby spotlighting minordetails in my speechrather than addressingthe main points of myargumentMentionsthat Iembarrasshim

Verbal Assault with Dad - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Becomes physically abusive
  2. Shoos me away
  3. Mentions that he finds me disappointing
  4. When I mention a time he has abused me, he either says "sorry" sarcastically or says something like "I don't believe you."
  5. Brings up my mistakes or "wrongdoings" from weeks, months, or even years ago
  6. Says something like "You're just saying that to satisfy me."
  7. Goes off on a tangent
  8. Berates me for longer than 30 minutes
  9. After being reproved or critiqued, he asks, "What are you going to do about it?"
  10. Doesn't admit responsibility for his actions, blames everyone but himself, or fails to recognize that he could be the source-of-conflict
  11. Tries to appeal to my sympathetic side by guilt-tripping me
  12. Mocks my character or actions
  13. Berates me for a while, goes away, then comes back to scold me again
  14. Says the r-slur
  15. When I try to address an issue, he completely misses the point of my argument
  16. When I mention his abusive behavior, he diminishes my experience by drawing comparisons to those who suffer more [extensively from abuse]
  17. Says something like, "You never try [(hard enough)]."
  18. When I make a mistake, he condescendingly provides unconstructive criticism like "Why didn't you do it differently? You could've handled that better."
  19. After I finish speaking, he responds with, "That's all?" (to undermine the value of what I've said)
  20. Says something like, "I've been holding this criticism for a while, and now I think it's time for me to share it."
  21. Says something like, "When you're older, you're going to ask me for a place to live, and I'll turn a deaf ear."
  22. Says something insulting about my mom
  23. During a heated conversation, he tries to gain the upper hand by spotlighting minor details in my speech rather than addressing the main points of my argument
  24. Mentions that I embarrass him