(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
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Mentions that I embarrass him
Says something like, "You never try [(hard enough)]."
Says the r-slur
Says something insulting about my mom
Mocks my character or actions
Tries to appeal to my sympathetic side by guilt-tripping me
Berates me for longer than 30 minutes
Becomes physically abusive
During a heated conversation, he tries to gain the upper hand by spotlighting minor details in my speech rather than addressing the main points of my argument
Goes off on a tangent
After I finish speaking, he responds with, "That's all?" (to undermine the value of what I've said)
When I mention a time he has abused me, he either says "sorry" sarcastically or says something like "I don't believe you."
When I make a mistake, he condescendingly provides unconstructive criticism like "Why didn't you do it differently? You could've handled that better."
After being reproved or critiqued, he asks, "What are you going to do about it?"
Brings up my mistakes or "wrongdoings" from weeks, months, or even years ago
Says something like, "I've been holding this criticism for a while, and now I think it's time for me to share it."
Mentions that he finds me disappointing
Berates me for a while, goes away, then comes back to scold me again
Says something like "You're just saying that to satisfy me."
Says something like, "When you're older, you're going to ask me for a place to live, and I'll turn a deaf ear."
When I mention his abusive behavior, he diminishes my experience by drawing comparisons to those who suffer more [extensively from abuse]
Shoos me away
Doesn't admit responsibility for his actions, blames everyone but himself, or fails to recognize that he could be the source-of-conflict
When I try to address an issue, he completely misses the point of my argument