Does notbelieve ingettingregularlytestedFrequentcriticismFree!Commenting onsomeonepicture/writingabout a fantasythey haveConsentingUp during asceneMakingjokes aboutlimits andboundariesPhysicalaggressionFrequentcriticismTreating amunch like aspeed-datingevent.DM astranger asexualfantasyEmotionallymanipulativeNotinterestedinfeedbackInability toeffectivelyapologize."I don’tbelieve thatDoms needafter care"Asking forintimatepics at thestart"You are thedom, youshould knowwhat I wantwithout metelling you"Treating amunch like aspeed-datingevent.Weaponizedincompetence.Commenting onsomeonepicture/writingabout a fantasythey haveLovebombingSubtlepressuretactics topushboundariesNeglectingsafetyprecautions"I don’t careif you’reupset; justfolloworders."Refusing toeducatingthemselveson safe kinkpracticesWants tomeetsomewheresecluded inthe first meetTrying to invalidateanyone's personalexperience thatled to a personallimit."I can havemultiplepartners, butyou cannot""How dareyouquestionme?"Lack ofconcern foremotionalwell-beingConstantlydeletestexthistoryDoes notrespectlimitsDoes notbelieve ingettingregularlytestedGoing up to astranger in apublic place andtelling them theyrecognized themfrom FetLife.Following astranger outof an event,to their car.Little selfawarenessof owntriggers andlimitationsInvadesprivacy oroverstepspersonalboundariesUsingsomeoneas a kinkdispenser"You are thedom, youshould knowwhat I wantwithout metelling you"StalkingDoes notbelieve ingettingregularlytestedFrequentcriticismFree!Commenting onsomeonepicture/writingabout a fantasythey haveConsentingUp during asceneMakingjokes aboutlimits andboundariesPhysicalaggressionFrequentcriticismTreating amunch like aspeed-datingevent.DM astranger asexualfantasyEmotionallymanipulativeNotinterestedinfeedbackInability toeffectivelyapologize."I don’tbelieve thatDoms needafter care"Asking forintimatepics at thestart"You are thedom, youshould knowwhat I wantwithout metelling you"Treating amunch like aspeed-datingevent.Weaponizedincompetence.Commenting onsomeonepicture/writingabout a fantasythey haveLovebombingSubtlepressuretactics topushboundariesNeglectingsafetyprecautions"I don’t careif you’reupset; justfolloworders."Refusing toeducatingthemselveson safe kinkpracticesWants tomeetsomewheresecluded inthe first meetTrying to invalidateanyone's personalexperience thatled to a personallimit."I can havemultiplepartners, butyou cannot""How dareyouquestionme?"Lack ofconcern foremotionalwell-beingConstantlydeletestexthistoryDoes notrespectlimitsDoes notbelieve ingettingregularlytestedGoing up to astranger in apublic place andtelling them theyrecognized themfrom FetLife.Following astranger outof an event,to their car.Little selfawarenessof owntriggers andlimitationsInvadesprivacy oroverstepspersonalboundariesUsingsomeoneas a kinkdispenser"You are thedom, youshould knowwhat I wantwithout metelling you"Stalking

Red Flags - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Does not believe in getting regularly tested
  2. Frequent criticism
  3. Free!
  4. Commenting on someone picture/writing about a fantasy they have
  5. Consenting Up during a scene
  6. Making jokes about limits and boundaries
  7. Physical aggression
  8. Frequent criticism
  9. Treating a munch like a speed-dating event.
  10. DM a stranger a sexual fantasy
  11. Emotionally manipulative
  12. Not interested in feedback
  13. Inability to effectively apologize.
  14. "I don’t believe that Doms need after care"
  15. Asking for intimate pics at the start
  16. "You are the dom, you should know what I want without me telling you"
  17. Treating a munch like a speed-dating event.
  18. Weaponized incompetence.
  19. Commenting on someone picture/writing about a fantasy they have
  20. Love bombing
  21. Subtle pressure tactics to push boundaries
  22. Neglecting safety precautions
  23. "I don’t care if you’re upset; just follow orders."
  24. Refusing to educating themselves on safe kink practices
  25. Wants to meet somewhere secluded in the first meet
  26. Trying to invalidate anyone's personal experience that led to a personal limit.
  27. "I can have multiple partners, but you cannot"
  28. "How dare you question me?"
  29. Lack of concern for emotional well-being
  30. Constantly deletes text history
  31. Does not respect limits
  32. Does not believe in getting regularly tested
  33. Going up to a stranger in a public place and telling them they recognized them from FetLife.
  34. Following a stranger out of an event, to their car.
  35. Little self awareness of own triggers and limitations
  36. Invades privacy or oversteps personal boundaries
  37. Using someone as a kink dispenser
  38. "You are the dom, you should know what I want without me telling you"
  39. Stalking