Wants tomeetsomewheresecluded inthe first meetMakingjokes aboutlimits andboundaries"How dareyouquestionme?"Commenting onsomeonepicture/writingabout a fantasythey have"I don’tbelieve thatDoms needafter care"Trying to invalidateanyone's personalexperience thatled to a personallimit.Asking forintimatepics at thestartDM astranger asexualfantasyNotinterestedinfeedbackWeaponizedincompetence.Little selfawarenessof owntriggers andlimitationsGoing up to astranger in apublic place andtelling them theyrecognized themfrom FetLife."I can havemultiplepartners, butyou cannot"FrequentcriticismPhysicalaggression"You are thedom, youshould knowwhat I wantwithout metelling you"NeglectingsafetyprecautionsTreating amunch like aspeed-datingevent.Free!StalkingDoes notrespectlimitsConstantlydeletestexthistoryLovebombingCommenting onsomeonepicture/writingabout a fantasythey haveInability toeffectivelyapologize.Usingsomeoneas a kinkdispenserSubtlepressuretactics topushboundariesFrequentcriticismConsentingUp during asceneDoes notbelieve ingettingregularlytestedEmotionallymanipulativeTreating amunch like aspeed-datingevent.Lack ofconcern foremotionalwell-being"You are thedom, youshould knowwhat I wantwithout metelling you"Following astranger outof an event,to their car.Does notbelieve ingettingregularlytestedInvadesprivacy oroverstepspersonalboundariesRefusing toeducatingthemselveson safe kinkpractices"I don’t careif you’reupset; justfolloworders."Wants tomeetsomewheresecluded inthe first meetMakingjokes aboutlimits andboundaries"How dareyouquestionme?"Commenting onsomeonepicture/writingabout a fantasythey have"I don’tbelieve thatDoms needafter care"Trying to invalidateanyone's personalexperience thatled to a personallimit.Asking forintimatepics at thestartDM astranger asexualfantasyNotinterestedinfeedbackWeaponizedincompetence.Little selfawarenessof owntriggers andlimitationsGoing up to astranger in apublic place andtelling them theyrecognized themfrom FetLife."I can havemultiplepartners, butyou cannot"FrequentcriticismPhysicalaggression"You are thedom, youshould knowwhat I wantwithout metelling you"NeglectingsafetyprecautionsTreating amunch like aspeed-datingevent.Free!StalkingDoes notrespectlimitsConstantlydeletestexthistoryLovebombingCommenting onsomeonepicture/writingabout a fantasythey haveInability toeffectivelyapologize.Usingsomeoneas a kinkdispenserSubtlepressuretactics topushboundariesFrequentcriticismConsentingUp during asceneDoes notbelieve ingettingregularlytestedEmotionallymanipulativeTreating amunch like aspeed-datingevent.Lack ofconcern foremotionalwell-being"You are thedom, youshould knowwhat I wantwithout metelling you"Following astranger outof an event,to their car.Does notbelieve ingettingregularlytestedInvadesprivacy oroverstepspersonalboundariesRefusing toeducatingthemselveson safe kinkpractices"I don’t careif you’reupset; justfolloworders."

Red Flags - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Wants to meet somewhere secluded in the first meet
  2. Making jokes about limits and boundaries
  3. "How dare you question me?"
  4. Commenting on someone picture/writing about a fantasy they have
  5. "I don’t believe that Doms need after care"
  6. Trying to invalidate anyone's personal experience that led to a personal limit.
  7. Asking for intimate pics at the start
  8. DM a stranger a sexual fantasy
  9. Not interested in feedback
  10. Weaponized incompetence.
  11. Little self awareness of own triggers and limitations
  12. Going up to a stranger in a public place and telling them they recognized them from FetLife.
  13. "I can have multiple partners, but you cannot"
  14. Frequent criticism
  15. Physical aggression
  16. "You are the dom, you should know what I want without me telling you"
  17. Neglecting safety precautions
  18. Treating a munch like a speed-dating event.
  19. Free!
  20. Stalking
  21. Does not respect limits
  22. Constantly deletes text history
  23. Love bombing
  24. Commenting on someone picture/writing about a fantasy they have
  25. Inability to effectively apologize.
  26. Using someone as a kink dispenser
  27. Subtle pressure tactics to push boundaries
  28. Frequent criticism
  29. Consenting Up during a scene
  30. Does not believe in getting regularly tested
  31. Emotionally manipulative
  32. Treating a munch like a speed-dating event.
  33. Lack of concern for emotional well-being
  34. "You are the dom, you should know what I want without me telling you"
  35. Following a stranger out of an event, to their car.
  36. Does not believe in getting regularly tested
  37. Invades privacy or oversteps personal boundaries
  38. Refusing to educating themselves on safe kink practices
  39. "I don’t care if you’re upset; just follow orders."