Going up to astranger in apublic place andtelling them theyrecognized themfrom FetLife.Little selfawarenessof owntriggers andlimitationsLack ofconcern foremotionalwell-beingFollowing astranger outof an event,to their car.EmotionallymanipulativeCommenting onsomeonepicture/writingabout a fantasythey haveDoes notbelieve ingettingregularlytestedLovebombingDoes notrespectlimitsConstantlydeletestexthistoryFrequentcriticismFree!Inability toeffectivelyapologize.Usingsomeoneas a kinkdispenserDoes notbelieve ingettingregularlytestedMakingjokes aboutlimits andboundariesFrequentcriticismWeaponizedincompetence."You are thedom, youshould knowwhat I wantwithout metelling you"Wants tomeetsomewheresecluded inthe first meetCommenting onsomeonepicture/writingabout a fantasythey haveTrying to invalidateanyone's personalexperience thatled to a personallimit.Invadesprivacy oroverstepspersonalboundaries"I can havemultiplepartners, butyou cannot"NotinterestedinfeedbackNeglectingsafetyprecautionsPhysicalaggressionTreating amunch like aspeed-datingevent.Refusing toeducatingthemselveson safe kinkpracticesStalkingDM astranger asexualfantasy"You are thedom, youshould knowwhat I wantwithout metelling you""I don’t careif you’reupset; justfolloworders."Asking forintimatepics at thestartSubtlepressuretactics topushboundariesConsentingUp during ascene"I don’tbelieve thatDoms needafter care""How dareyouquestionme?"Treating amunch like aspeed-datingevent.Going up to astranger in apublic place andtelling them theyrecognized themfrom FetLife.Little selfawarenessof owntriggers andlimitationsLack ofconcern foremotionalwell-beingFollowing astranger outof an event,to their car.EmotionallymanipulativeCommenting onsomeonepicture/writingabout a fantasythey haveDoes notbelieve ingettingregularlytestedLovebombingDoes notrespectlimitsConstantlydeletestexthistoryFrequentcriticismFree!Inability toeffectivelyapologize.Usingsomeoneas a kinkdispenserDoes notbelieve ingettingregularlytestedMakingjokes aboutlimits andboundariesFrequentcriticismWeaponizedincompetence."You are thedom, youshould knowwhat I wantwithout metelling you"Wants tomeetsomewheresecluded inthe first meetCommenting onsomeonepicture/writingabout a fantasythey haveTrying to invalidateanyone's personalexperience thatled to a personallimit.Invadesprivacy oroverstepspersonalboundaries"I can havemultiplepartners, butyou cannot"NotinterestedinfeedbackNeglectingsafetyprecautionsPhysicalaggressionTreating amunch like aspeed-datingevent.Refusing toeducatingthemselveson safe kinkpracticesStalkingDM astranger asexualfantasy"You are thedom, youshould knowwhat I wantwithout metelling you""I don’t careif you’reupset; justfolloworders."Asking forintimatepics at thestartSubtlepressuretactics topushboundariesConsentingUp during ascene"I don’tbelieve thatDoms needafter care""How dareyouquestionme?"Treating amunch like aspeed-datingevent.

Red Flags - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Going up to a stranger in a public place and telling them they recognized them from FetLife.
  2. Little self awareness of own triggers and limitations
  3. Lack of concern for emotional well-being
  4. Following a stranger out of an event, to their car.
  5. Emotionally manipulative
  6. Commenting on someone picture/writing about a fantasy they have
  7. Does not believe in getting regularly tested
  8. Love bombing
  9. Does not respect limits
  10. Constantly deletes text history
  11. Frequent criticism
  12. Free!
  13. Inability to effectively apologize.
  14. Using someone as a kink dispenser
  15. Does not believe in getting regularly tested
  16. Making jokes about limits and boundaries
  17. Frequent criticism
  18. Weaponized incompetence.
  19. "You are the dom, you should know what I want without me telling you"
  20. Wants to meet somewhere secluded in the first meet
  21. Commenting on someone picture/writing about a fantasy they have
  22. Trying to invalidate anyone's personal experience that led to a personal limit.
  23. Invades privacy or oversteps personal boundaries
  24. "I can have multiple partners, but you cannot"
  25. Not interested in feedback
  26. Neglecting safety precautions
  27. Physical aggression
  28. Treating a munch like a speed-dating event.
  29. Refusing to educating themselves on safe kink practices
  30. Stalking
  31. DM a stranger a sexual fantasy
  32. "You are the dom, you should know what I want without me telling you"
  33. "I don’t care if you’re upset; just follow orders."
  34. Asking for intimate pics at the start
  35. Subtle pressure tactics to push boundaries
  36. Consenting Up during a scene
  37. "I don’t believe that Doms need after care"
  38. "How dare you question me?"
  39. Treating a munch like a speed-dating event.