"I can havemultiplepartners, butyou cannot"Commenting onsomeonepicture/writingabout a fantasythey haveMakingjokes aboutlimits andboundariesNotinterestedinfeedbackGoing up to astranger in apublic place andtelling them theyrecognized themfrom FetLife.Treating amunch like aspeed-datingevent.Usingsomeoneas a kinkdispenserWants tomeetsomewheresecluded inthe first meetEmotionallymanipulativeWeaponizedincompetence."You are thedom, youshould knowwhat I wantwithout metelling you"Does notbelieve ingettingregularlytestedFollowing astranger outof an event,to their car."How dareyouquestionme?"Invadesprivacy oroverstepspersonalboundariesAsking forintimatepics at thestartFrequentcriticismPhysicalaggression"I don’tbelieve thatDoms needafter care"Trying to invalidateanyone's personalexperience thatled to a personallimit.Treating amunch like aspeed-datingevent.Refusing toeducatingthemselveson safe kinkpracticesLovebombingDoes notbelieve ingettingregularlytestedInability toeffectivelyapologize.Does notrespectlimitsFrequentcriticismCommenting onsomeonepicture/writingabout a fantasythey haveLack ofconcern foremotionalwell-being"You are thedom, youshould knowwhat I wantwithout metelling you"StalkingDM astranger asexualfantasyConsentingUp during asceneConstantlydeletestexthistoryNeglectingsafetyprecautionsSubtlepressuretactics topushboundariesFree!Little selfawarenessof owntriggers andlimitations"I don’t careif you’reupset; justfolloworders.""I can havemultiplepartners, butyou cannot"Commenting onsomeonepicture/writingabout a fantasythey haveMakingjokes aboutlimits andboundariesNotinterestedinfeedbackGoing up to astranger in apublic place andtelling them theyrecognized themfrom FetLife.Treating amunch like aspeed-datingevent.Usingsomeoneas a kinkdispenserWants tomeetsomewheresecluded inthe first meetEmotionallymanipulativeWeaponizedincompetence."You are thedom, youshould knowwhat I wantwithout metelling you"Does notbelieve ingettingregularlytestedFollowing astranger outof an event,to their car."How dareyouquestionme?"Invadesprivacy oroverstepspersonalboundariesAsking forintimatepics at thestartFrequentcriticismPhysicalaggression"I don’tbelieve thatDoms needafter care"Trying to invalidateanyone's personalexperience thatled to a personallimit.Treating amunch like aspeed-datingevent.Refusing toeducatingthemselveson safe kinkpracticesLovebombingDoes notbelieve ingettingregularlytestedInability toeffectivelyapologize.Does notrespectlimitsFrequentcriticismCommenting onsomeonepicture/writingabout a fantasythey haveLack ofconcern foremotionalwell-being"You are thedom, youshould knowwhat I wantwithout metelling you"StalkingDM astranger asexualfantasyConsentingUp during asceneConstantlydeletestexthistoryNeglectingsafetyprecautionsSubtlepressuretactics topushboundariesFree!Little selfawarenessof owntriggers andlimitations"I don’t careif you’reupset; justfolloworders."

Red Flags - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. "I can have multiple partners, but you cannot"
  2. Commenting on someone picture/writing about a fantasy they have
  3. Making jokes about limits and boundaries
  4. Not interested in feedback
  5. Going up to a stranger in a public place and telling them they recognized them from FetLife.
  6. Treating a munch like a speed-dating event.
  7. Using someone as a kink dispenser
  8. Wants to meet somewhere secluded in the first meet
  9. Emotionally manipulative
  10. Weaponized incompetence.
  11. "You are the dom, you should know what I want without me telling you"
  12. Does not believe in getting regularly tested
  13. Following a stranger out of an event, to their car.
  14. "How dare you question me?"
  15. Invades privacy or oversteps personal boundaries
  16. Asking for intimate pics at the start
  17. Frequent criticism
  18. Physical aggression
  19. "I don’t believe that Doms need after care"
  20. Trying to invalidate anyone's personal experience that led to a personal limit.
  21. Treating a munch like a speed-dating event.
  22. Refusing to educating themselves on safe kink practices
  23. Love bombing
  24. Does not believe in getting regularly tested
  25. Inability to effectively apologize.
  26. Does not respect limits
  27. Frequent criticism
  28. Commenting on someone picture/writing about a fantasy they have
  29. Lack of concern for emotional well-being
  30. "You are the dom, you should know what I want without me telling you"
  31. Stalking
  32. DM a stranger a sexual fantasy
  33. Consenting Up during a scene
  34. Constantly deletes text history
  35. Neglecting safety precautions
  36. Subtle pressure tactics to push boundaries
  37. Free!
  38. Little self awareness of own triggers and limitations
  39. "I don’t care if you’re upset; just follow orders."