Does notbelieve ingettingregularlytestedEmotionallymanipulativeSubtlepressuretactics topushboundariesCommenting onsomeonepicture/writingabout a fantasythey haveUsingsomeoneas a kinkdispenserFrequentcriticismCommenting onsomeonepicture/writingabout a fantasythey haveConsentingUp during ascene"How dareyouquestionme?"Weaponizedincompetence.Going up to astranger in apublic place andtelling them theyrecognized themfrom FetLife.Little selfawarenessof owntriggers andlimitations"You are thedom, youshould knowwhat I wantwithout metelling you"Does notbelieve ingettingregularlytestedDoes notrespectlimitsFree!Lack ofconcern foremotionalwell-beingAsking forintimatepics at thestartLovebombingMakingjokes aboutlimits andboundariesWants tomeetsomewheresecluded inthe first meetTreating amunch like aspeed-datingevent.Treating amunch like aspeed-datingevent.Following astranger outof an event,to their car.Invadesprivacy oroverstepspersonalboundariesNotinterestedinfeedbackRefusing toeducatingthemselveson safe kinkpractices"I can havemultiplepartners, butyou cannot""You are thedom, youshould knowwhat I wantwithout metelling you"Trying to invalidateanyone's personalexperience thatled to a personallimit."I don’t careif you’reupset; justfolloworders."DM astranger asexualfantasyInability toeffectivelyapologize.PhysicalaggressionNeglectingsafetyprecautionsFrequentcriticismConstantlydeletestexthistoryStalking"I don’tbelieve thatDoms needafter care"Does notbelieve ingettingregularlytestedEmotionallymanipulativeSubtlepressuretactics topushboundariesCommenting onsomeonepicture/writingabout a fantasythey haveUsingsomeoneas a kinkdispenserFrequentcriticismCommenting onsomeonepicture/writingabout a fantasythey haveConsentingUp during ascene"How dareyouquestionme?"Weaponizedincompetence.Going up to astranger in apublic place andtelling them theyrecognized themfrom FetLife.Little selfawarenessof owntriggers andlimitations"You are thedom, youshould knowwhat I wantwithout metelling you"Does notbelieve ingettingregularlytestedDoes notrespectlimitsFree!Lack ofconcern foremotionalwell-beingAsking forintimatepics at thestartLovebombingMakingjokes aboutlimits andboundariesWants tomeetsomewheresecluded inthe first meetTreating amunch like aspeed-datingevent.Treating amunch like aspeed-datingevent.Following astranger outof an event,to their car.Invadesprivacy oroverstepspersonalboundariesNotinterestedinfeedbackRefusing toeducatingthemselveson safe kinkpractices"I can havemultiplepartners, butyou cannot""You are thedom, youshould knowwhat I wantwithout metelling you"Trying to invalidateanyone's personalexperience thatled to a personallimit."I don’t careif you’reupset; justfolloworders."DM astranger asexualfantasyInability toeffectivelyapologize.PhysicalaggressionNeglectingsafetyprecautionsFrequentcriticismConstantlydeletestexthistoryStalking"I don’tbelieve thatDoms needafter care"

Red Flags - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Does not believe in getting regularly tested
  2. Emotionally manipulative
  3. Subtle pressure tactics to push boundaries
  4. Commenting on someone picture/writing about a fantasy they have
  5. Using someone as a kink dispenser
  6. Frequent criticism
  7. Commenting on someone picture/writing about a fantasy they have
  8. Consenting Up during a scene
  9. "How dare you question me?"
  10. Weaponized incompetence.
  11. Going up to a stranger in a public place and telling them they recognized them from FetLife.
  12. Little self awareness of own triggers and limitations
  13. "You are the dom, you should know what I want without me telling you"
  14. Does not believe in getting regularly tested
  15. Does not respect limits
  16. Free!
  17. Lack of concern for emotional well-being
  18. Asking for intimate pics at the start
  19. Love bombing
  20. Making jokes about limits and boundaries
  21. Wants to meet somewhere secluded in the first meet
  22. Treating a munch like a speed-dating event.
  23. Treating a munch like a speed-dating event.
  24. Following a stranger out of an event, to their car.
  25. Invades privacy or oversteps personal boundaries
  26. Not interested in feedback
  27. Refusing to educating themselves on safe kink practices
  28. "I can have multiple partners, but you cannot"
  29. "You are the dom, you should know what I want without me telling you"
  30. Trying to invalidate anyone's personal experience that led to a personal limit.
  31. "I don’t care if you’re upset; just follow orders."
  32. DM a stranger a sexual fantasy
  33. Inability to effectively apologize.
  34. Physical aggression
  35. Neglecting safety precautions
  36. Frequent criticism
  37. Constantly deletes text history
  38. Stalking
  39. "I don’t believe that Doms need after care"