FrequentcriticismTreating amunch like aspeed-datingevent.ConsentingUp during asceneFree!Weaponizedincompetence.Commenting onsomeonepicture/writingabout a fantasythey haveDoes notbelieve ingettingregularlytestedRefusing toeducatingthemselveson safe kinkpracticesFollowing astranger outof an event,to their car."I don’t careif you’reupset; justfolloworders."Commenting onsomeonepicture/writingabout a fantasythey haveAsking forintimatepics at thestartConstantlydeletestexthistoryInability toeffectivelyapologize.Notinterestedinfeedback"I don’tbelieve thatDoms needafter care"Going up to astranger in apublic place andtelling them theyrecognized themfrom FetLife.Trying to invalidateanyone's personalexperience thatled to a personallimit.Makingjokes aboutlimits andboundaries"I can havemultiplepartners, butyou cannot"Usingsomeoneas a kinkdispenser"How dareyouquestionme?"EmotionallymanipulativeLittle selfawarenessof owntriggers andlimitationsDoes notbelieve ingettingregularlytestedNeglectingsafetyprecautions"You are thedom, youshould knowwhat I wantwithout metelling you"Invadesprivacy oroverstepspersonalboundariesDoes notrespectlimitsLack ofconcern foremotionalwell-beingWants tomeetsomewheresecluded inthe first meetFrequentcriticismSubtlepressuretactics topushboundaries"You are thedom, youshould knowwhat I wantwithout metelling you"LovebombingTreating amunch like aspeed-datingevent.DM astranger asexualfantasyPhysicalaggressionStalkingFrequentcriticismTreating amunch like aspeed-datingevent.ConsentingUp during asceneFree!Weaponizedincompetence.Commenting onsomeonepicture/writingabout a fantasythey haveDoes notbelieve ingettingregularlytestedRefusing toeducatingthemselveson safe kinkpracticesFollowing astranger outof an event,to their car."I don’t careif you’reupset; justfolloworders."Commenting onsomeonepicture/writingabout a fantasythey haveAsking forintimatepics at thestartConstantlydeletestexthistoryInability toeffectivelyapologize.Notinterestedinfeedback"I don’tbelieve thatDoms needafter care"Going up to astranger in apublic place andtelling them theyrecognized themfrom FetLife.Trying to invalidateanyone's personalexperience thatled to a personallimit.Makingjokes aboutlimits andboundaries"I can havemultiplepartners, butyou cannot"Usingsomeoneas a kinkdispenser"How dareyouquestionme?"EmotionallymanipulativeLittle selfawarenessof owntriggers andlimitationsDoes notbelieve ingettingregularlytestedNeglectingsafetyprecautions"You are thedom, youshould knowwhat I wantwithout metelling you"Invadesprivacy oroverstepspersonalboundariesDoes notrespectlimitsLack ofconcern foremotionalwell-beingWants tomeetsomewheresecluded inthe first meetFrequentcriticismSubtlepressuretactics topushboundaries"You are thedom, youshould knowwhat I wantwithout metelling you"LovebombingTreating amunch like aspeed-datingevent.DM astranger asexualfantasyPhysicalaggressionStalking

Red Flags - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Frequent criticism
  2. Treating a munch like a speed-dating event.
  3. Consenting Up during a scene
  4. Free!
  5. Weaponized incompetence.
  6. Commenting on someone picture/writing about a fantasy they have
  7. Does not believe in getting regularly tested
  8. Refusing to educating themselves on safe kink practices
  9. Following a stranger out of an event, to their car.
  10. "I don’t care if you’re upset; just follow orders."
  11. Commenting on someone picture/writing about a fantasy they have
  12. Asking for intimate pics at the start
  13. Constantly deletes text history
  14. Inability to effectively apologize.
  15. Not interested in feedback
  16. "I don’t believe that Doms need after care"
  17. Going up to a stranger in a public place and telling them they recognized them from FetLife.
  18. Trying to invalidate anyone's personal experience that led to a personal limit.
  19. Making jokes about limits and boundaries
  20. "I can have multiple partners, but you cannot"
  21. Using someone as a kink dispenser
  22. "How dare you question me?"
  23. Emotionally manipulative
  24. Little self awareness of own triggers and limitations
  25. Does not believe in getting regularly tested
  26. Neglecting safety precautions
  27. "You are the dom, you should know what I want without me telling you"
  28. Invades privacy or oversteps personal boundaries
  29. Does not respect limits
  30. Lack of concern for emotional well-being
  31. Wants to meet somewhere secluded in the first meet
  32. Frequent criticism
  33. Subtle pressure tactics to push boundaries
  34. "You are the dom, you should know what I want without me telling you"
  35. Love bombing
  36. Treating a munch like a speed-dating event.
  37. DM a stranger a sexual fantasy
  38. Physical aggression
  39. Stalking