Neglectingsafetyprecautions"You are thedom, youshould knowwhat I wantwithout metelling you"Does notrespectlimitsCommenting onsomeonepicture/writingabout a fantasythey haveConsentingUp during asceneInability toeffectivelyapologize.Does notbelieve ingettingregularlytestedCommenting onsomeonepicture/writingabout a fantasythey have"I don’tbelieve thatDoms needafter care"Asking forintimatepics at thestartTreating amunch like aspeed-datingevent.FrequentcriticismLack ofconcern foremotionalwell-beingLovebombingSubtlepressuretactics topushboundaries"I can havemultiplepartners, butyou cannot"FrequentcriticismPhysicalaggressionTreating amunch like aspeed-datingevent.Usingsomeoneas a kinkdispenserWeaponizedincompetence."I don’t careif you’reupset; justfolloworders."Little selfawarenessof owntriggers andlimitationsFollowing astranger outof an event,to their car."How dareyouquestionme?"Trying to invalidateanyone's personalexperience thatled to a personallimit.Invadesprivacy oroverstepspersonalboundariesMakingjokes aboutlimits andboundariesGoing up to astranger in apublic place andtelling them theyrecognized themfrom FetLife."You are thedom, youshould knowwhat I wantwithout metelling you"StalkingNotinterestedinfeedbackEmotionallymanipulativeConstantlydeletestexthistoryDM astranger asexualfantasyDoes notbelieve ingettingregularlytestedFree!Wants tomeetsomewheresecluded inthe first meetRefusing toeducatingthemselveson safe kinkpracticesNeglectingsafetyprecautions"You are thedom, youshould knowwhat I wantwithout metelling you"Does notrespectlimitsCommenting onsomeonepicture/writingabout a fantasythey haveConsentingUp during asceneInability toeffectivelyapologize.Does notbelieve ingettingregularlytestedCommenting onsomeonepicture/writingabout a fantasythey have"I don’tbelieve thatDoms needafter care"Asking forintimatepics at thestartTreating amunch like aspeed-datingevent.FrequentcriticismLack ofconcern foremotionalwell-beingLovebombingSubtlepressuretactics topushboundaries"I can havemultiplepartners, butyou cannot"FrequentcriticismPhysicalaggressionTreating amunch like aspeed-datingevent.Usingsomeoneas a kinkdispenserWeaponizedincompetence."I don’t careif you’reupset; justfolloworders."Little selfawarenessof owntriggers andlimitationsFollowing astranger outof an event,to their car."How dareyouquestionme?"Trying to invalidateanyone's personalexperience thatled to a personallimit.Invadesprivacy oroverstepspersonalboundariesMakingjokes aboutlimits andboundariesGoing up to astranger in apublic place andtelling them theyrecognized themfrom FetLife."You are thedom, youshould knowwhat I wantwithout metelling you"StalkingNotinterestedinfeedbackEmotionallymanipulativeConstantlydeletestexthistoryDM astranger asexualfantasyDoes notbelieve ingettingregularlytestedFree!Wants tomeetsomewheresecluded inthe first meetRefusing toeducatingthemselveson safe kinkpractices

Red Flags - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Neglecting safety precautions
  2. "You are the dom, you should know what I want without me telling you"
  3. Does not respect limits
  4. Commenting on someone picture/writing about a fantasy they have
  5. Consenting Up during a scene
  6. Inability to effectively apologize.
  7. Does not believe in getting regularly tested
  8. Commenting on someone picture/writing about a fantasy they have
  9. "I don’t believe that Doms need after care"
  10. Asking for intimate pics at the start
  11. Treating a munch like a speed-dating event.
  12. Frequent criticism
  13. Lack of concern for emotional well-being
  14. Love bombing
  15. Subtle pressure tactics to push boundaries
  16. "I can have multiple partners, but you cannot"
  17. Frequent criticism
  18. Physical aggression
  19. Treating a munch like a speed-dating event.
  20. Using someone as a kink dispenser
  21. Weaponized incompetence.
  22. "I don’t care if you’re upset; just follow orders."
  23. Little self awareness of own triggers and limitations
  24. Following a stranger out of an event, to their car.
  25. "How dare you question me?"
  26. Trying to invalidate anyone's personal experience that led to a personal limit.
  27. Invades privacy or oversteps personal boundaries
  28. Making jokes about limits and boundaries
  29. Going up to a stranger in a public place and telling them they recognized them from FetLife.
  30. "You are the dom, you should know what I want without me telling you"
  31. Stalking
  32. Not interested in feedback
  33. Emotionally manipulative
  34. Constantly deletes text history
  35. DM a stranger a sexual fantasy
  36. Does not believe in getting regularly tested
  37. Free!
  38. Wants to meet somewhere secluded in the first meet
  39. Refusing to educating themselves on safe kink practices