Following astranger outof an event,to their car.ConsentingUp during asceneNotinterestedinfeedbackDoes notbelieve ingettingregularlytestedFree!Does notbelieve ingettingregularlytested"You are thedom, youshould knowwhat I wantwithout metelling you"Physicalaggression"You are thedom, youshould knowwhat I wantwithout metelling you"Refusing toeducatingthemselveson safe kinkpracticesLack ofconcern foremotionalwell-beingConstantlydeletestexthistory"I don’t careif you’reupset; justfolloworders."FrequentcriticismTrying to invalidateanyone's personalexperience thatled to a personallimit."I can havemultiplepartners, butyou cannot"Inability toeffectivelyapologize.Little selfawarenessof owntriggers andlimitationsGoing up to astranger in apublic place andtelling them theyrecognized themfrom FetLife.Wants tomeetsomewheresecluded inthe first meetInvadesprivacy oroverstepspersonalboundariesDM astranger asexualfantasySubtlepressuretactics topushboundariesTreating amunch like aspeed-datingevent.NeglectingsafetyprecautionsTreating amunch like aspeed-datingevent.Makingjokes aboutlimits andboundariesStalkingCommenting onsomeonepicture/writingabout a fantasythey have"How dareyouquestionme?"EmotionallymanipulativeWeaponizedincompetence.FrequentcriticismUsingsomeoneas a kinkdispenserCommenting onsomeonepicture/writingabout a fantasythey haveDoes notrespectlimits"I don’tbelieve thatDoms needafter care"LovebombingAsking forintimatepics at thestartFollowing astranger outof an event,to their car.ConsentingUp during asceneNotinterestedinfeedbackDoes notbelieve ingettingregularlytestedFree!Does notbelieve ingettingregularlytested"You are thedom, youshould knowwhat I wantwithout metelling you"Physicalaggression"You are thedom, youshould knowwhat I wantwithout metelling you"Refusing toeducatingthemselveson safe kinkpracticesLack ofconcern foremotionalwell-beingConstantlydeletestexthistory"I don’t careif you’reupset; justfolloworders."FrequentcriticismTrying to invalidateanyone's personalexperience thatled to a personallimit."I can havemultiplepartners, butyou cannot"Inability toeffectivelyapologize.Little selfawarenessof owntriggers andlimitationsGoing up to astranger in apublic place andtelling them theyrecognized themfrom FetLife.Wants tomeetsomewheresecluded inthe first meetInvadesprivacy oroverstepspersonalboundariesDM astranger asexualfantasySubtlepressuretactics topushboundariesTreating amunch like aspeed-datingevent.NeglectingsafetyprecautionsTreating amunch like aspeed-datingevent.Makingjokes aboutlimits andboundariesStalkingCommenting onsomeonepicture/writingabout a fantasythey have"How dareyouquestionme?"EmotionallymanipulativeWeaponizedincompetence.FrequentcriticismUsingsomeoneas a kinkdispenserCommenting onsomeonepicture/writingabout a fantasythey haveDoes notrespectlimits"I don’tbelieve thatDoms needafter care"LovebombingAsking forintimatepics at thestart

Red Flags - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Following a stranger out of an event, to their car.
  2. Consenting Up during a scene
  3. Not interested in feedback
  4. Does not believe in getting regularly tested
  5. Free!
  6. Does not believe in getting regularly tested
  7. "You are the dom, you should know what I want without me telling you"
  8. Physical aggression
  9. "You are the dom, you should know what I want without me telling you"
  10. Refusing to educating themselves on safe kink practices
  11. Lack of concern for emotional well-being
  12. Constantly deletes text history
  13. "I don’t care if you’re upset; just follow orders."
  14. Frequent criticism
  15. Trying to invalidate anyone's personal experience that led to a personal limit.
  16. "I can have multiple partners, but you cannot"
  17. Inability to effectively apologize.
  18. Little self awareness of own triggers and limitations
  19. Going up to a stranger in a public place and telling them they recognized them from FetLife.
  20. Wants to meet somewhere secluded in the first meet
  21. Invades privacy or oversteps personal boundaries
  22. DM a stranger a sexual fantasy
  23. Subtle pressure tactics to push boundaries
  24. Treating a munch like a speed-dating event.
  25. Neglecting safety precautions
  26. Treating a munch like a speed-dating event.
  27. Making jokes about limits and boundaries
  28. Stalking
  29. Commenting on someone picture/writing about a fantasy they have
  30. "How dare you question me?"
  31. Emotionally manipulative
  32. Weaponized incompetence.
  33. Frequent criticism
  34. Using someone as a kink dispenser
  35. Commenting on someone picture/writing about a fantasy they have
  36. Does not respect limits
  37. "I don’t believe that Doms need after care"
  38. Love bombing
  39. Asking for intimate pics at the start