"How dareyouquestionme?"NotinterestedinfeedbackDoes notbelieve ingettingregularlytestedDoes notrespectlimitsCommenting onsomeonepicture/writingabout a fantasythey have"I don’tbelieve thatDoms needafter care"Free!"I don’t careif you’reupset; justfolloworders.""You are thedom, youshould knowwhat I wantwithout metelling you"Going up to astranger in apublic place andtelling them theyrecognized themfrom FetLife.Does notbelieve ingettingregularlytestedFollowing astranger outof an event,to their car.Inability toeffectivelyapologize.Treating amunch like aspeed-datingevent.EmotionallymanipulativeNeglectingsafetyprecautions"I can havemultiplepartners, butyou cannot"Invadesprivacy oroverstepspersonalboundariesMakingjokes aboutlimits andboundariesAsking forintimatepics at thestartPhysicalaggressionConsentingUp during asceneSubtlepressuretactics topushboundariesLovebombingFrequentcriticismUsingsomeoneas a kinkdispenser"You are thedom, youshould knowwhat I wantwithout metelling you"Commenting onsomeonepicture/writingabout a fantasythey haveLack ofconcern foremotionalwell-beingWants tomeetsomewheresecluded inthe first meetTreating amunch like aspeed-datingevent.FrequentcriticismDM astranger asexualfantasyWeaponizedincompetence.Trying to invalidateanyone's personalexperience thatled to a personallimit.Little selfawarenessof owntriggers andlimitationsConstantlydeletestexthistoryRefusing toeducatingthemselveson safe kinkpracticesStalking"How dareyouquestionme?"NotinterestedinfeedbackDoes notbelieve ingettingregularlytestedDoes notrespectlimitsCommenting onsomeonepicture/writingabout a fantasythey have"I don’tbelieve thatDoms needafter care"Free!"I don’t careif you’reupset; justfolloworders.""You are thedom, youshould knowwhat I wantwithout metelling you"Going up to astranger in apublic place andtelling them theyrecognized themfrom FetLife.Does notbelieve ingettingregularlytestedFollowing astranger outof an event,to their car.Inability toeffectivelyapologize.Treating amunch like aspeed-datingevent.EmotionallymanipulativeNeglectingsafetyprecautions"I can havemultiplepartners, butyou cannot"Invadesprivacy oroverstepspersonalboundariesMakingjokes aboutlimits andboundariesAsking forintimatepics at thestartPhysicalaggressionConsentingUp during asceneSubtlepressuretactics topushboundariesLovebombingFrequentcriticismUsingsomeoneas a kinkdispenser"You are thedom, youshould knowwhat I wantwithout metelling you"Commenting onsomeonepicture/writingabout a fantasythey haveLack ofconcern foremotionalwell-beingWants tomeetsomewheresecluded inthe first meetTreating amunch like aspeed-datingevent.FrequentcriticismDM astranger asexualfantasyWeaponizedincompetence.Trying to invalidateanyone's personalexperience thatled to a personallimit.Little selfawarenessof owntriggers andlimitationsConstantlydeletestexthistoryRefusing toeducatingthemselveson safe kinkpracticesStalking

Red Flags - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. "How dare you question me?"
  2. Not interested in feedback
  3. Does not believe in getting regularly tested
  4. Does not respect limits
  5. Commenting on someone picture/writing about a fantasy they have
  6. "I don’t believe that Doms need after care"
  7. Free!
  8. "I don’t care if you’re upset; just follow orders."
  9. "You are the dom, you should know what I want without me telling you"
  10. Going up to a stranger in a public place and telling them they recognized them from FetLife.
  11. Does not believe in getting regularly tested
  12. Following a stranger out of an event, to their car.
  13. Inability to effectively apologize.
  14. Treating a munch like a speed-dating event.
  15. Emotionally manipulative
  16. Neglecting safety precautions
  17. "I can have multiple partners, but you cannot"
  18. Invades privacy or oversteps personal boundaries
  19. Making jokes about limits and boundaries
  20. Asking for intimate pics at the start
  21. Physical aggression
  22. Consenting Up during a scene
  23. Subtle pressure tactics to push boundaries
  24. Love bombing
  25. Frequent criticism
  26. Using someone as a kink dispenser
  27. "You are the dom, you should know what I want without me telling you"
  28. Commenting on someone picture/writing about a fantasy they have
  29. Lack of concern for emotional well-being
  30. Wants to meet somewhere secluded in the first meet
  31. Treating a munch like a speed-dating event.
  32. Frequent criticism
  33. DM a stranger a sexual fantasy
  34. Weaponized incompetence.
  35. Trying to invalidate anyone's personal experience that led to a personal limit.
  36. Little self awareness of own triggers and limitations
  37. Constantly deletes text history
  38. Refusing to educating themselves on safe kink practices
  39. Stalking