"I can havemultiplepartners, butyou cannot"Does notrespectlimitsTrying to invalidateanyone's personalexperience thatled to a personallimit.Lack ofconcern foremotionalwell-beingFrequentcriticism"You are thedom, youshould knowwhat I wantwithout metelling you""How dareyouquestionme?"PhysicalaggressionStalkingLovebombingGoing up to astranger in apublic place andtelling them theyrecognized themfrom FetLife.Makingjokes aboutlimits andboundaries"I don’tbelieve thatDoms needafter care"Usingsomeoneas a kinkdispenserCommenting onsomeonepicture/writingabout a fantasythey haveDM astranger asexualfantasyEmotionallymanipulativeFree!Treating amunch like aspeed-datingevent.NeglectingsafetyprecautionsWeaponizedincompetence.Inability toeffectivelyapologize.Does notbelieve ingettingregularlytestedRefusing toeducatingthemselveson safe kinkpracticesInvadesprivacy oroverstepspersonalboundariesSubtlepressuretactics topushboundaries"You are thedom, youshould knowwhat I wantwithout metelling you"NotinterestedinfeedbackCommenting onsomeonepicture/writingabout a fantasythey haveConsentingUp during ascene"I don’t careif you’reupset; justfolloworders."FrequentcriticismWants tomeetsomewheresecluded inthe first meetDoes notbelieve ingettingregularlytestedConstantlydeletestexthistoryAsking forintimatepics at thestartFollowing astranger outof an event,to their car.Little selfawarenessof owntriggers andlimitationsTreating amunch like aspeed-datingevent."I can havemultiplepartners, butyou cannot"Does notrespectlimitsTrying to invalidateanyone's personalexperience thatled to a personallimit.Lack ofconcern foremotionalwell-beingFrequentcriticism"You are thedom, youshould knowwhat I wantwithout metelling you""How dareyouquestionme?"PhysicalaggressionStalkingLovebombingGoing up to astranger in apublic place andtelling them theyrecognized themfrom FetLife.Makingjokes aboutlimits andboundaries"I don’tbelieve thatDoms needafter care"Usingsomeoneas a kinkdispenserCommenting onsomeonepicture/writingabout a fantasythey haveDM astranger asexualfantasyEmotionallymanipulativeFree!Treating amunch like aspeed-datingevent.NeglectingsafetyprecautionsWeaponizedincompetence.Inability toeffectivelyapologize.Does notbelieve ingettingregularlytestedRefusing toeducatingthemselveson safe kinkpracticesInvadesprivacy oroverstepspersonalboundariesSubtlepressuretactics topushboundaries"You are thedom, youshould knowwhat I wantwithout metelling you"NotinterestedinfeedbackCommenting onsomeonepicture/writingabout a fantasythey haveConsentingUp during ascene"I don’t careif you’reupset; justfolloworders."FrequentcriticismWants tomeetsomewheresecluded inthe first meetDoes notbelieve ingettingregularlytestedConstantlydeletestexthistoryAsking forintimatepics at thestartFollowing astranger outof an event,to their car.Little selfawarenessof owntriggers andlimitationsTreating amunch like aspeed-datingevent.

Red Flags - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. "I can have multiple partners, but you cannot"
  2. Does not respect limits
  3. Trying to invalidate anyone's personal experience that led to a personal limit.
  4. Lack of concern for emotional well-being
  5. Frequent criticism
  6. "You are the dom, you should know what I want without me telling you"
  7. "How dare you question me?"
  8. Physical aggression
  9. Stalking
  10. Love bombing
  11. Going up to a stranger in a public place and telling them they recognized them from FetLife.
  12. Making jokes about limits and boundaries
  13. "I don’t believe that Doms need after care"
  14. Using someone as a kink dispenser
  15. Commenting on someone picture/writing about a fantasy they have
  16. DM a stranger a sexual fantasy
  17. Emotionally manipulative
  18. Free!
  19. Treating a munch like a speed-dating event.
  20. Neglecting safety precautions
  21. Weaponized incompetence.
  22. Inability to effectively apologize.
  23. Does not believe in getting regularly tested
  24. Refusing to educating themselves on safe kink practices
  25. Invades privacy or oversteps personal boundaries
  26. Subtle pressure tactics to push boundaries
  27. "You are the dom, you should know what I want without me telling you"
  28. Not interested in feedback
  29. Commenting on someone picture/writing about a fantasy they have
  30. Consenting Up during a scene
  31. "I don’t care if you’re upset; just follow orders."
  32. Frequent criticism
  33. Wants to meet somewhere secluded in the first meet
  34. Does not believe in getting regularly tested
  35. Constantly deletes text history
  36. Asking for intimate pics at the start
  37. Following a stranger out of an event, to their car.
  38. Little self awareness of own triggers and limitations
  39. Treating a munch like a speed-dating event.