Treating amunch like aspeed-datingevent.NotinterestedinfeedbackWants tomeetsomewheresecluded inthe first meetConstantlydeletestexthistoryUsingsomeoneas a kinkdispenserDoes notrespectlimits"I don’t careif you’reupset; justfolloworders."EmotionallymanipulativeInability toeffectivelyapologize.NeglectingsafetyprecautionsLack ofconcern foremotionalwell-beingFree!Does notbelieve ingettingregularlytestedLittle selfawarenessof owntriggers andlimitationsFollowing astranger outof an event,to their car."How dareyouquestionme?"Weaponizedincompetence.DM astranger asexualfantasyFrequentcriticismTrying to invalidateanyone's personalexperience thatled to a personallimit.LovebombingFrequentcriticismCommenting onsomeonepicture/writingabout a fantasythey have"You are thedom, youshould knowwhat I wantwithout metelling you"Refusing toeducatingthemselveson safe kinkpracticesInvadesprivacy oroverstepspersonalboundariesMakingjokes aboutlimits andboundariesGoing up to astranger in apublic place andtelling them theyrecognized themfrom FetLife."You are thedom, youshould knowwhat I wantwithout metelling you"Does notbelieve ingettingregularlytestedStalkingAsking forintimatepics at thestart"I can havemultiplepartners, butyou cannot"ConsentingUp during asceneSubtlepressuretactics topushboundariesCommenting onsomeonepicture/writingabout a fantasythey havePhysicalaggression"I don’tbelieve thatDoms needafter care"Treating amunch like aspeed-datingevent.Treating amunch like aspeed-datingevent.NotinterestedinfeedbackWants tomeetsomewheresecluded inthe first meetConstantlydeletestexthistoryUsingsomeoneas a kinkdispenserDoes notrespectlimits"I don’t careif you’reupset; justfolloworders."EmotionallymanipulativeInability toeffectivelyapologize.NeglectingsafetyprecautionsLack ofconcern foremotionalwell-beingFree!Does notbelieve ingettingregularlytestedLittle selfawarenessof owntriggers andlimitationsFollowing astranger outof an event,to their car."How dareyouquestionme?"Weaponizedincompetence.DM astranger asexualfantasyFrequentcriticismTrying to invalidateanyone's personalexperience thatled to a personallimit.LovebombingFrequentcriticismCommenting onsomeonepicture/writingabout a fantasythey have"You are thedom, youshould knowwhat I wantwithout metelling you"Refusing toeducatingthemselveson safe kinkpracticesInvadesprivacy oroverstepspersonalboundariesMakingjokes aboutlimits andboundariesGoing up to astranger in apublic place andtelling them theyrecognized themfrom FetLife."You are thedom, youshould knowwhat I wantwithout metelling you"Does notbelieve ingettingregularlytestedStalkingAsking forintimatepics at thestart"I can havemultiplepartners, butyou cannot"ConsentingUp during asceneSubtlepressuretactics topushboundariesCommenting onsomeonepicture/writingabout a fantasythey havePhysicalaggression"I don’tbelieve thatDoms needafter care"Treating amunch like aspeed-datingevent.

Red Flags - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Treating a munch like a speed-dating event.
  2. Not interested in feedback
  3. Wants to meet somewhere secluded in the first meet
  4. Constantly deletes text history
  5. Using someone as a kink dispenser
  6. Does not respect limits
  7. "I don’t care if you’re upset; just follow orders."
  8. Emotionally manipulative
  9. Inability to effectively apologize.
  10. Neglecting safety precautions
  11. Lack of concern for emotional well-being
  12. Free!
  13. Does not believe in getting regularly tested
  14. Little self awareness of own triggers and limitations
  15. Following a stranger out of an event, to their car.
  16. "How dare you question me?"
  17. Weaponized incompetence.
  18. DM a stranger a sexual fantasy
  19. Frequent criticism
  20. Trying to invalidate anyone's personal experience that led to a personal limit.
  21. Love bombing
  22. Frequent criticism
  23. Commenting on someone picture/writing about a fantasy they have
  24. "You are the dom, you should know what I want without me telling you"
  25. Refusing to educating themselves on safe kink practices
  26. Invades privacy or oversteps personal boundaries
  27. Making jokes about limits and boundaries
  28. Going up to a stranger in a public place and telling them they recognized them from FetLife.
  29. "You are the dom, you should know what I want without me telling you"
  30. Does not believe in getting regularly tested
  31. Stalking
  32. Asking for intimate pics at the start
  33. "I can have multiple partners, but you cannot"
  34. Consenting Up during a scene
  35. Subtle pressure tactics to push boundaries
  36. Commenting on someone picture/writing about a fantasy they have
  37. Physical aggression
  38. "I don’t believe that Doms need after care"
  39. Treating a munch like a speed-dating event.