DM astranger asexualfantasyLittle selfawarenessof owntriggers andlimitationsInability toeffectivelyapologize.EmotionallymanipulativeGoing up to astranger in apublic place andtelling them theyrecognized themfrom FetLife.Treating amunch like aspeed-datingevent.NotinterestedinfeedbackCommenting onsomeonepicture/writingabout a fantasythey haveFree!StalkingUsingsomeoneas a kinkdispenserLovebombingDoes notbelieve ingettingregularlytestedConstantlydeletestexthistoryConsentingUp during asceneFrequentcriticismAsking forintimatepics at thestartFollowing astranger outof an event,to their car.Makingjokes aboutlimits andboundariesWeaponizedincompetence.Physicalaggression"You are thedom, youshould knowwhat I wantwithout metelling you"Wants tomeetsomewheresecluded inthe first meet"I don’t careif you’reupset; justfolloworders."Does notrespectlimitsFrequentcriticism"You are thedom, youshould knowwhat I wantwithout metelling you"Commenting onsomeonepicture/writingabout a fantasythey haveTrying to invalidateanyone's personalexperience thatled to a personallimit.Refusing toeducatingthemselveson safe kinkpracticesSubtlepressuretactics topushboundaries"I don’tbelieve thatDoms needafter care""I can havemultiplepartners, butyou cannot"Invadesprivacy oroverstepspersonalboundariesLack ofconcern foremotionalwell-being"How dareyouquestionme?"Treating amunch like aspeed-datingevent.NeglectingsafetyprecautionsDoes notbelieve ingettingregularlytestedDM astranger asexualfantasyLittle selfawarenessof owntriggers andlimitationsInability toeffectivelyapologize.EmotionallymanipulativeGoing up to astranger in apublic place andtelling them theyrecognized themfrom FetLife.Treating amunch like aspeed-datingevent.NotinterestedinfeedbackCommenting onsomeonepicture/writingabout a fantasythey haveFree!StalkingUsingsomeoneas a kinkdispenserLovebombingDoes notbelieve ingettingregularlytestedConstantlydeletestexthistoryConsentingUp during asceneFrequentcriticismAsking forintimatepics at thestartFollowing astranger outof an event,to their car.Makingjokes aboutlimits andboundariesWeaponizedincompetence.Physicalaggression"You are thedom, youshould knowwhat I wantwithout metelling you"Wants tomeetsomewheresecluded inthe first meet"I don’t careif you’reupset; justfolloworders."Does notrespectlimitsFrequentcriticism"You are thedom, youshould knowwhat I wantwithout metelling you"Commenting onsomeonepicture/writingabout a fantasythey haveTrying to invalidateanyone's personalexperience thatled to a personallimit.Refusing toeducatingthemselveson safe kinkpracticesSubtlepressuretactics topushboundaries"I don’tbelieve thatDoms needafter care""I can havemultiplepartners, butyou cannot"Invadesprivacy oroverstepspersonalboundariesLack ofconcern foremotionalwell-being"How dareyouquestionme?"Treating amunch like aspeed-datingevent.NeglectingsafetyprecautionsDoes notbelieve ingettingregularlytested

Red Flags - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. DM a stranger a sexual fantasy
  2. Little self awareness of own triggers and limitations
  3. Inability to effectively apologize.
  4. Emotionally manipulative
  5. Going up to a stranger in a public place and telling them they recognized them from FetLife.
  6. Treating a munch like a speed-dating event.
  7. Not interested in feedback
  8. Commenting on someone picture/writing about a fantasy they have
  9. Free!
  10. Stalking
  11. Using someone as a kink dispenser
  12. Love bombing
  13. Does not believe in getting regularly tested
  14. Constantly deletes text history
  15. Consenting Up during a scene
  16. Frequent criticism
  17. Asking for intimate pics at the start
  18. Following a stranger out of an event, to their car.
  19. Making jokes about limits and boundaries
  20. Weaponized incompetence.
  21. Physical aggression
  22. "You are the dom, you should know what I want without me telling you"
  23. Wants to meet somewhere secluded in the first meet
  24. "I don’t care if you’re upset; just follow orders."
  25. Does not respect limits
  26. Frequent criticism
  27. "You are the dom, you should know what I want without me telling you"
  28. Commenting on someone picture/writing about a fantasy they have
  29. Trying to invalidate anyone's personal experience that led to a personal limit.
  30. Refusing to educating themselves on safe kink practices
  31. Subtle pressure tactics to push boundaries
  32. "I don’t believe that Doms need after care"
  33. "I can have multiple partners, but you cannot"
  34. Invades privacy or oversteps personal boundaries
  35. Lack of concern for emotional well-being
  36. "How dare you question me?"
  37. Treating a munch like a speed-dating event.
  38. Neglecting safety precautions
  39. Does not believe in getting regularly tested