"I don’tbelieve thatDoms needafter care"PhysicalaggressionUsingsomeoneas a kinkdispenserEmotionallymanipulativeStalkingFollowing astranger outof an event,to their car.Free!Makingjokes aboutlimits andboundariesTrying to invalidateanyone's personalexperience thatled to a personallimit.Commenting onsomeonepicture/writingabout a fantasythey haveConstantlydeletestexthistory"How dareyouquestionme?"NeglectingsafetyprecautionsWeaponizedincompetence.Little selfawarenessof owntriggers andlimitationsConsentingUp during asceneInability toeffectivelyapologize."I don’t careif you’reupset; justfolloworders."DM astranger asexualfantasyLovebombingGoing up to astranger in apublic place andtelling them theyrecognized themfrom FetLife."You are thedom, youshould knowwhat I wantwithout metelling you"Invadesprivacy oroverstepspersonalboundariesRefusing toeducatingthemselveson safe kinkpracticesDoes notbelieve ingettingregularlytested"I can havemultiplepartners, butyou cannot"FrequentcriticismDoes notrespectlimitsLack ofconcern foremotionalwell-beingAsking forintimatepics at thestartNotinterestedinfeedbackWants tomeetsomewheresecluded inthe first meetSubtlepressuretactics topushboundariesTreating amunch like aspeed-datingevent."I don’tbelieve thatDoms needafter care"PhysicalaggressionUsingsomeoneas a kinkdispenserEmotionallymanipulativeStalkingFollowing astranger outof an event,to their car.Free!Makingjokes aboutlimits andboundariesTrying to invalidateanyone's personalexperience thatled to a personallimit.Commenting onsomeonepicture/writingabout a fantasythey haveConstantlydeletestexthistory"How dareyouquestionme?"NeglectingsafetyprecautionsWeaponizedincompetence.Little selfawarenessof owntriggers andlimitationsConsentingUp during asceneInability toeffectivelyapologize."I don’t careif you’reupset; justfolloworders."DM astranger asexualfantasyLovebombingGoing up to astranger in apublic place andtelling them theyrecognized themfrom FetLife."You are thedom, youshould knowwhat I wantwithout metelling you"Invadesprivacy oroverstepspersonalboundariesRefusing toeducatingthemselveson safe kinkpracticesDoes notbelieve ingettingregularlytested"I can havemultiplepartners, butyou cannot"FrequentcriticismDoes notrespectlimitsLack ofconcern foremotionalwell-beingAsking forintimatepics at thestartNotinterestedinfeedbackWants tomeetsomewheresecluded inthe first meetSubtlepressuretactics topushboundariesTreating amunch like aspeed-datingevent.

Red Flags - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. "I don’t believe that Doms need after care"
  2. Physical aggression
  3. Using someone as a kink dispenser
  4. Emotionally manipulative
  5. Stalking
  6. Following a stranger out of an event, to their car.
  7. Free!
  8. Making jokes about limits and boundaries
  9. Trying to invalidate anyone's personal experience that led to a personal limit.
  10. Commenting on someone picture/writing about a fantasy they have
  11. Constantly deletes text history
  12. "How dare you question me?"
  13. Neglecting safety precautions
  14. Weaponized incompetence.
  15. Little self awareness of own triggers and limitations
  16. Consenting Up during a scene
  17. Inability to effectively apologize.
  18. "I don’t care if you’re upset; just follow orders."
  19. DM a stranger a sexual fantasy
  20. Love bombing
  21. Going up to a stranger in a public place and telling them they recognized them from FetLife.
  22. "You are the dom, you should know what I want without me telling you"
  23. Invades privacy or oversteps personal boundaries
  24. Refusing to educating themselves on safe kink practices
  25. Does not believe in getting regularly tested
  26. "I can have multiple partners, but you cannot"
  27. Frequent criticism
  28. Does not respect limits
  29. Lack of concern for emotional well-being
  30. Asking for intimate pics at the start
  31. Not interested in feedback
  32. Wants to meet somewhere secluded in the first meet
  33. Subtle pressure tactics to push boundaries
  34. Treating a munch like a speed-dating event.