ConstantlydeletestexthistoryDM astranger asexualfantasyInability toeffectivelyapologize.Following astranger outof an event,to their car."I don’t careif you’reupset; justfolloworders."Invadesprivacy oroverstepspersonalboundariesDoes notbelieve ingettingregularlytestedWeaponizedincompetence.Trying to invalidateanyone's personalexperience thatled to a personallimit.Free!PhysicalaggressionNeglectingsafetyprecautionsGoing up to astranger in apublic place andtelling them theyrecognized themfrom FetLife.Little selfawarenessof owntriggers andlimitationsDoes notrespectlimitsAsking forintimatepics at thestart"I don’tbelieve thatDoms needafter care""You are thedom, youshould knowwhat I wantwithout metelling you"Commenting onsomeonepicture/writingabout a fantasythey haveMakingjokes aboutlimits andboundaries"How dareyouquestionme?"Usingsomeoneas a kinkdispenser"I can havemultiplepartners, butyou cannot"EmotionallymanipulativeLovebombingLack ofconcern foremotionalwell-beingTreating amunch like aspeed-datingevent.Wants tomeetsomewheresecluded inthe first meetStalkingSubtlepressuretactics topushboundariesNotinterestedinfeedbackConsentingUp during asceneRefusing toeducatingthemselveson safe kinkpracticesFrequentcriticismConstantlydeletestexthistoryDM astranger asexualfantasyInability toeffectivelyapologize.Following astranger outof an event,to their car."I don’t careif you’reupset; justfolloworders."Invadesprivacy oroverstepspersonalboundariesDoes notbelieve ingettingregularlytestedWeaponizedincompetence.Trying to invalidateanyone's personalexperience thatled to a personallimit.Free!PhysicalaggressionNeglectingsafetyprecautionsGoing up to astranger in apublic place andtelling them theyrecognized themfrom FetLife.Little selfawarenessof owntriggers andlimitationsDoes notrespectlimitsAsking forintimatepics at thestart"I don’tbelieve thatDoms needafter care""You are thedom, youshould knowwhat I wantwithout metelling you"Commenting onsomeonepicture/writingabout a fantasythey haveMakingjokes aboutlimits andboundaries"How dareyouquestionme?"Usingsomeoneas a kinkdispenser"I can havemultiplepartners, butyou cannot"EmotionallymanipulativeLovebombingLack ofconcern foremotionalwell-beingTreating amunch like aspeed-datingevent.Wants tomeetsomewheresecluded inthe first meetStalkingSubtlepressuretactics topushboundariesNotinterestedinfeedbackConsentingUp during asceneRefusing toeducatingthemselveson safe kinkpracticesFrequentcriticism

Red Flags - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Constantly deletes text history
  2. DM a stranger a sexual fantasy
  3. Inability to effectively apologize.
  4. Following a stranger out of an event, to their car.
  5. "I don’t care if you’re upset; just follow orders."
  6. Invades privacy or oversteps personal boundaries
  7. Does not believe in getting regularly tested
  8. Weaponized incompetence.
  9. Trying to invalidate anyone's personal experience that led to a personal limit.
  10. Free!
  11. Physical aggression
  12. Neglecting safety precautions
  13. Going up to a stranger in a public place and telling them they recognized them from FetLife.
  14. Little self awareness of own triggers and limitations
  15. Does not respect limits
  16. Asking for intimate pics at the start
  17. "I don’t believe that Doms need after care"
  18. "You are the dom, you should know what I want without me telling you"
  19. Commenting on someone picture/writing about a fantasy they have
  20. Making jokes about limits and boundaries
  21. "How dare you question me?"
  22. Using someone as a kink dispenser
  23. "I can have multiple partners, but you cannot"
  24. Emotionally manipulative
  25. Love bombing
  26. Lack of concern for emotional well-being
  27. Treating a munch like a speed-dating event.
  28. Wants to meet somewhere secluded in the first meet
  29. Stalking
  30. Subtle pressure tactics to push boundaries
  31. Not interested in feedback
  32. Consenting Up during a scene
  33. Refusing to educating themselves on safe kink practices
  34. Frequent criticism