Lack ofconcern foremotionalwell-beingUsingsomeoneas a kinkdispenserTrying to invalidateanyone's personalexperience thatled to a personallimit.EmotionallymanipulativeGoing up to astranger in apublic place andtelling them theyrecognized themfrom FetLife.Weaponizedincompetence.Asking forintimatepics at thestartDM astranger asexualfantasyPhysicalaggressionConstantlydeletestexthistoryTreating amunch like aspeed-datingevent.Subtlepressuretactics topushboundariesStalkingConsentingUp during ascene"I don’t careif you’reupset; justfolloworders.""How dareyouquestionme?"Does notbelieve ingettingregularlytestedDoes notrespectlimitsRefusing toeducatingthemselveson safe kinkpracticesInvadesprivacy oroverstepspersonalboundariesNotinterestedinfeedbackLovebombingMakingjokes aboutlimits andboundariesCommenting onsomeonepicture/writingabout a fantasythey haveFree!Little selfawarenessof owntriggers andlimitationsFollowing astranger outof an event,to their car.Frequentcriticism"I don’tbelieve thatDoms needafter care""You are thedom, youshould knowwhat I wantwithout metelling you"Neglectingsafetyprecautions"I can havemultiplepartners, butyou cannot"Wants tomeetsomewheresecluded inthe first meetInability toeffectivelyapologize.Lack ofconcern foremotionalwell-beingUsingsomeoneas a kinkdispenserTrying to invalidateanyone's personalexperience thatled to a personallimit.EmotionallymanipulativeGoing up to astranger in apublic place andtelling them theyrecognized themfrom FetLife.Weaponizedincompetence.Asking forintimatepics at thestartDM astranger asexualfantasyPhysicalaggressionConstantlydeletestexthistoryTreating amunch like aspeed-datingevent.Subtlepressuretactics topushboundariesStalkingConsentingUp during ascene"I don’t careif you’reupset; justfolloworders.""How dareyouquestionme?"Does notbelieve ingettingregularlytestedDoes notrespectlimitsRefusing toeducatingthemselveson safe kinkpracticesInvadesprivacy oroverstepspersonalboundariesNotinterestedinfeedbackLovebombingMakingjokes aboutlimits andboundariesCommenting onsomeonepicture/writingabout a fantasythey haveFree!Little selfawarenessof owntriggers andlimitationsFollowing astranger outof an event,to their car.Frequentcriticism"I don’tbelieve thatDoms needafter care""You are thedom, youshould knowwhat I wantwithout metelling you"Neglectingsafetyprecautions"I can havemultiplepartners, butyou cannot"Wants tomeetsomewheresecluded inthe first meetInability toeffectivelyapologize.

Red Flags - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Lack of concern for emotional well-being
  2. Using someone as a kink dispenser
  3. Trying to invalidate anyone's personal experience that led to a personal limit.
  4. Emotionally manipulative
  5. Going up to a stranger in a public place and telling them they recognized them from FetLife.
  6. Weaponized incompetence.
  7. Asking for intimate pics at the start
  8. DM a stranger a sexual fantasy
  9. Physical aggression
  10. Constantly deletes text history
  11. Treating a munch like a speed-dating event.
  12. Subtle pressure tactics to push boundaries
  13. Stalking
  14. Consenting Up during a scene
  15. "I don’t care if you’re upset; just follow orders."
  16. "How dare you question me?"
  17. Does not believe in getting regularly tested
  18. Does not respect limits
  19. Refusing to educating themselves on safe kink practices
  20. Invades privacy or oversteps personal boundaries
  21. Not interested in feedback
  22. Love bombing
  23. Making jokes about limits and boundaries
  24. Commenting on someone picture/writing about a fantasy they have
  25. Free!
  26. Little self awareness of own triggers and limitations
  27. Following a stranger out of an event, to their car.
  28. Frequent criticism
  29. "I don’t believe that Doms need after care"
  30. "You are the dom, you should know what I want without me telling you"
  31. Neglecting safety precautions
  32. "I can have multiple partners, but you cannot"
  33. Wants to meet somewhere secluded in the first meet
  34. Inability to effectively apologize.