Usingsomeoneas a kinkdispenserPhysicalaggressionStalkingWeaponizedincompetence.NeglectingsafetyprecautionsRefusing toeducatingthemselveson safe kinkpracticesGoing up to astranger in apublic place andtelling them theyrecognized themfrom FetLife."How dareyouquestionme?"Free!"I don’t careif you’reupset; justfolloworders."Wants tomeetsomewheresecluded inthe first meetInvadesprivacy oroverstepspersonalboundariesInability toeffectivelyapologize.Little selfawarenessof owntriggers andlimitationsConstantlydeletestexthistoryLack ofconcern foremotionalwell-beingSubtlepressuretactics topushboundariesDM astranger asexualfantasyAsking forintimatepics at thestartFollowing astranger outof an event,to their car.Trying to invalidateanyone's personalexperience thatled to a personallimit.Makingjokes aboutlimits andboundariesTreating amunch like aspeed-datingevent.Emotionallymanipulative"I don’tbelieve thatDoms needafter care""You are thedom, youshould knowwhat I wantwithout metelling you"Does notrespectlimitsFrequentcriticismDoes notbelieve ingettingregularlytestedNotinterestedinfeedbackCommenting onsomeonepicture/writingabout a fantasythey haveLovebombingConsentingUp during ascene"I can havemultiplepartners, butyou cannot"Usingsomeoneas a kinkdispenserPhysicalaggressionStalkingWeaponizedincompetence.NeglectingsafetyprecautionsRefusing toeducatingthemselveson safe kinkpracticesGoing up to astranger in apublic place andtelling them theyrecognized themfrom FetLife."How dareyouquestionme?"Free!"I don’t careif you’reupset; justfolloworders."Wants tomeetsomewheresecluded inthe first meetInvadesprivacy oroverstepspersonalboundariesInability toeffectivelyapologize.Little selfawarenessof owntriggers andlimitationsConstantlydeletestexthistoryLack ofconcern foremotionalwell-beingSubtlepressuretactics topushboundariesDM astranger asexualfantasyAsking forintimatepics at thestartFollowing astranger outof an event,to their car.Trying to invalidateanyone's personalexperience thatled to a personallimit.Makingjokes aboutlimits andboundariesTreating amunch like aspeed-datingevent.Emotionallymanipulative"I don’tbelieve thatDoms needafter care""You are thedom, youshould knowwhat I wantwithout metelling you"Does notrespectlimitsFrequentcriticismDoes notbelieve ingettingregularlytestedNotinterestedinfeedbackCommenting onsomeonepicture/writingabout a fantasythey haveLovebombingConsentingUp during ascene"I can havemultiplepartners, butyou cannot"

Red Flags - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Using someone as a kink dispenser
  2. Physical aggression
  3. Stalking
  4. Weaponized incompetence.
  5. Neglecting safety precautions
  6. Refusing to educating themselves on safe kink practices
  7. Going up to a stranger in a public place and telling them they recognized them from FetLife.
  8. "How dare you question me?"
  9. Free!
  10. "I don’t care if you’re upset; just follow orders."
  11. Wants to meet somewhere secluded in the first meet
  12. Invades privacy or oversteps personal boundaries
  13. Inability to effectively apologize.
  14. Little self awareness of own triggers and limitations
  15. Constantly deletes text history
  16. Lack of concern for emotional well-being
  17. Subtle pressure tactics to push boundaries
  18. DM a stranger a sexual fantasy
  19. Asking for intimate pics at the start
  20. Following a stranger out of an event, to their car.
  21. Trying to invalidate anyone's personal experience that led to a personal limit.
  22. Making jokes about limits and boundaries
  23. Treating a munch like a speed-dating event.
  24. Emotionally manipulative
  25. "I don’t believe that Doms need after care"
  26. "You are the dom, you should know what I want without me telling you"
  27. Does not respect limits
  28. Frequent criticism
  29. Does not believe in getting regularly tested
  30. Not interested in feedback
  31. Commenting on someone picture/writing about a fantasy they have
  32. Love bombing
  33. Consenting Up during a scene
  34. "I can have multiple partners, but you cannot"