"How dareyouquestionme?"Wants tomeetsomewheresecluded inthe first meetDM astranger asexualfantasy"I don’t careif you’reupset; justfolloworders."Trying to invalidateanyone's personalexperience thatled to a personallimit.FrequentcriticismMakingjokes aboutlimits andboundariesWeaponizedincompetence.Little selfawarenessof owntriggers andlimitationsDoes notbelieve ingettingregularlytestedAsking forintimatepics at thestart"You are thedom, youshould knowwhat I wantwithout metelling you"Treating amunch like aspeed-datingevent.StalkingCommenting onsomeonepicture/writingabout a fantasythey haveFree!"I don’tbelieve thatDoms needafter care"Refusing toeducatingthemselveson safe kinkpracticesPhysicalaggression"I can havemultiplepartners, butyou cannot"Following astranger outof an event,to their car.Inability toeffectivelyapologize.ConstantlydeletestexthistoryNeglectingsafetyprecautionsConsentingUp during asceneInvadesprivacy oroverstepspersonalboundariesNotinterestedinfeedbackLovebombingUsingsomeoneas a kinkdispenserDoes notrespectlimitsEmotionallymanipulativeLack ofconcern foremotionalwell-beingSubtlepressuretactics topushboundariesGoing up to astranger in apublic place andtelling them theyrecognized themfrom FetLife."How dareyouquestionme?"Wants tomeetsomewheresecluded inthe first meetDM astranger asexualfantasy"I don’t careif you’reupset; justfolloworders."Trying to invalidateanyone's personalexperience thatled to a personallimit.FrequentcriticismMakingjokes aboutlimits andboundariesWeaponizedincompetence.Little selfawarenessof owntriggers andlimitationsDoes notbelieve ingettingregularlytestedAsking forintimatepics at thestart"You are thedom, youshould knowwhat I wantwithout metelling you"Treating amunch like aspeed-datingevent.StalkingCommenting onsomeonepicture/writingabout a fantasythey haveFree!"I don’tbelieve thatDoms needafter care"Refusing toeducatingthemselveson safe kinkpracticesPhysicalaggression"I can havemultiplepartners, butyou cannot"Following astranger outof an event,to their car.Inability toeffectivelyapologize.ConstantlydeletestexthistoryNeglectingsafetyprecautionsConsentingUp during asceneInvadesprivacy oroverstepspersonalboundariesNotinterestedinfeedbackLovebombingUsingsomeoneas a kinkdispenserDoes notrespectlimitsEmotionallymanipulativeLack ofconcern foremotionalwell-beingSubtlepressuretactics topushboundariesGoing up to astranger in apublic place andtelling them theyrecognized themfrom FetLife.

Red Flags - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. "How dare you question me?"
  2. Wants to meet somewhere secluded in the first meet
  3. DM a stranger a sexual fantasy
  4. "I don’t care if you’re upset; just follow orders."
  5. Trying to invalidate anyone's personal experience that led to a personal limit.
  6. Frequent criticism
  7. Making jokes about limits and boundaries
  8. Weaponized incompetence.
  9. Little self awareness of own triggers and limitations
  10. Does not believe in getting regularly tested
  11. Asking for intimate pics at the start
  12. "You are the dom, you should know what I want without me telling you"
  13. Treating a munch like a speed-dating event.
  14. Stalking
  15. Commenting on someone picture/writing about a fantasy they have
  16. Free!
  17. "I don’t believe that Doms need after care"
  18. Refusing to educating themselves on safe kink practices
  19. Physical aggression
  20. "I can have multiple partners, but you cannot"
  21. Following a stranger out of an event, to their car.
  22. Inability to effectively apologize.
  23. Constantly deletes text history
  24. Neglecting safety precautions
  25. Consenting Up during a scene
  26. Invades privacy or oversteps personal boundaries
  27. Not interested in feedback
  28. Love bombing
  29. Using someone as a kink dispenser
  30. Does not respect limits
  31. Emotionally manipulative
  32. Lack of concern for emotional well-being
  33. Subtle pressure tactics to push boundaries
  34. Going up to a stranger in a public place and telling them they recognized them from FetLife.