Does notbelieve ingettingregularlytestedLittle selfawarenessof owntriggers andlimitationsDM astranger asexualfantasyUsingsomeoneas a kinkdispenserInvadesprivacy oroverstepspersonalboundariesRefusing toeducatingthemselveson safe kinkpracticesFrequentcriticismEmotionallymanipulativeLovebombingNeglectingsafetyprecautionsLack ofconcern foremotionalwell-beingWeaponizedincompetence.Does notrespectlimitsMakingjokes aboutlimits andboundaries"I can havemultiplepartners, butyou cannot"Notinterestedinfeedback"I don’t careif you’reupset; justfolloworders."Following astranger outof an event,to their car.Subtlepressuretactics topushboundariesAsking forintimatepics at thestartCommenting onsomeonepicture/writingabout a fantasythey haveFree!Treating amunch like aspeed-datingevent.Going up to astranger in apublic place andtelling them theyrecognized themfrom FetLife.Trying to invalidateanyone's personalexperience thatled to a personallimit."You are thedom, youshould knowwhat I wantwithout metelling you"ConsentingUp during asceneConstantlydeletestexthistoryInability toeffectivelyapologize.Physicalaggression"How dareyouquestionme?"Wants tomeetsomewheresecluded inthe first meetStalking"I don’tbelieve thatDoms needafter care"Does notbelieve ingettingregularlytestedLittle selfawarenessof owntriggers andlimitationsDM astranger asexualfantasyUsingsomeoneas a kinkdispenserInvadesprivacy oroverstepspersonalboundariesRefusing toeducatingthemselveson safe kinkpracticesFrequentcriticismEmotionallymanipulativeLovebombingNeglectingsafetyprecautionsLack ofconcern foremotionalwell-beingWeaponizedincompetence.Does notrespectlimitsMakingjokes aboutlimits andboundaries"I can havemultiplepartners, butyou cannot"Notinterestedinfeedback"I don’t careif you’reupset; justfolloworders."Following astranger outof an event,to their car.Subtlepressuretactics topushboundariesAsking forintimatepics at thestartCommenting onsomeonepicture/writingabout a fantasythey haveFree!Treating amunch like aspeed-datingevent.Going up to astranger in apublic place andtelling them theyrecognized themfrom FetLife.Trying to invalidateanyone's personalexperience thatled to a personallimit."You are thedom, youshould knowwhat I wantwithout metelling you"ConsentingUp during asceneConstantlydeletestexthistoryInability toeffectivelyapologize.Physicalaggression"How dareyouquestionme?"Wants tomeetsomewheresecluded inthe first meetStalking"I don’tbelieve thatDoms needafter care"

Red Flags - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Does not believe in getting regularly tested
  2. Little self awareness of own triggers and limitations
  3. DM a stranger a sexual fantasy
  4. Using someone as a kink dispenser
  5. Invades privacy or oversteps personal boundaries
  6. Refusing to educating themselves on safe kink practices
  7. Frequent criticism
  8. Emotionally manipulative
  9. Love bombing
  10. Neglecting safety precautions
  11. Lack of concern for emotional well-being
  12. Weaponized incompetence.
  13. Does not respect limits
  14. Making jokes about limits and boundaries
  15. "I can have multiple partners, but you cannot"
  16. Not interested in feedback
  17. "I don’t care if you’re upset; just follow orders."
  18. Following a stranger out of an event, to their car.
  19. Subtle pressure tactics to push boundaries
  20. Asking for intimate pics at the start
  21. Commenting on someone picture/writing about a fantasy they have
  22. Free!
  23. Treating a munch like a speed-dating event.
  24. Going up to a stranger in a public place and telling them they recognized them from FetLife.
  25. Trying to invalidate anyone's personal experience that led to a personal limit.
  26. "You are the dom, you should know what I want without me telling you"
  27. Consenting Up during a scene
  28. Constantly deletes text history
  29. Inability to effectively apologize.
  30. Physical aggression
  31. "How dare you question me?"
  32. Wants to meet somewhere secluded in the first meet
  33. Stalking
  34. "I don’t believe that Doms need after care"