Inability toeffectivelyapologize."I don’tbelieve thatDoms needafter care"Little selfawarenessof owntriggers andlimitationsConstantlydeletestexthistoryFree!Lack ofconcern foremotionalwell-beingDoes notbelieve ingettingregularlytestedCommenting onsomeonepicture/writingabout a fantasythey have"I can havemultiplepartners, butyou cannot"Invadesprivacy oroverstepspersonalboundariesTrying to invalidateanyone's personalexperience thatled to a personallimit.Does notrespectlimitsLovebombingWeaponizedincompetence.Wants tomeetsomewheresecluded inthe first meetGoing up to astranger in apublic place andtelling them theyrecognized themfrom FetLife.NotinterestedinfeedbackEmotionallymanipulativeRefusing toeducatingthemselveson safe kinkpracticesDM astranger asexualfantasyAsking forintimatepics at thestart"You are thedom, youshould knowwhat I wantwithout metelling you"Stalking"How dareyouquestionme?"ConsentingUp during asceneUsingsomeoneas a kinkdispenserMakingjokes aboutlimits andboundariesPhysicalaggressionNeglectingsafetyprecautionsFrequentcriticismSubtlepressuretactics topushboundariesFollowing astranger outof an event,to their car."I don’t careif you’reupset; justfolloworders."Treating amunch like aspeed-datingevent.Inability toeffectivelyapologize."I don’tbelieve thatDoms needafter care"Little selfawarenessof owntriggers andlimitationsConstantlydeletestexthistoryFree!Lack ofconcern foremotionalwell-beingDoes notbelieve ingettingregularlytestedCommenting onsomeonepicture/writingabout a fantasythey have"I can havemultiplepartners, butyou cannot"Invadesprivacy oroverstepspersonalboundariesTrying to invalidateanyone's personalexperience thatled to a personallimit.Does notrespectlimitsLovebombingWeaponizedincompetence.Wants tomeetsomewheresecluded inthe first meetGoing up to astranger in apublic place andtelling them theyrecognized themfrom FetLife.NotinterestedinfeedbackEmotionallymanipulativeRefusing toeducatingthemselveson safe kinkpracticesDM astranger asexualfantasyAsking forintimatepics at thestart"You are thedom, youshould knowwhat I wantwithout metelling you"Stalking"How dareyouquestionme?"ConsentingUp during asceneUsingsomeoneas a kinkdispenserMakingjokes aboutlimits andboundariesPhysicalaggressionNeglectingsafetyprecautionsFrequentcriticismSubtlepressuretactics topushboundariesFollowing astranger outof an event,to their car."I don’t careif you’reupset; justfolloworders."Treating amunch like aspeed-datingevent.

Red Flags - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Inability to effectively apologize.
  2. "I don’t believe that Doms need after care"
  3. Little self awareness of own triggers and limitations
  4. Constantly deletes text history
  5. Free!
  6. Lack of concern for emotional well-being
  7. Does not believe in getting regularly tested
  8. Commenting on someone picture/writing about a fantasy they have
  9. "I can have multiple partners, but you cannot"
  10. Invades privacy or oversteps personal boundaries
  11. Trying to invalidate anyone's personal experience that led to a personal limit.
  12. Does not respect limits
  13. Love bombing
  14. Weaponized incompetence.
  15. Wants to meet somewhere secluded in the first meet
  16. Going up to a stranger in a public place and telling them they recognized them from FetLife.
  17. Not interested in feedback
  18. Emotionally manipulative
  19. Refusing to educating themselves on safe kink practices
  20. DM a stranger a sexual fantasy
  21. Asking for intimate pics at the start
  22. "You are the dom, you should know what I want without me telling you"
  23. Stalking
  24. "How dare you question me?"
  25. Consenting Up during a scene
  26. Using someone as a kink dispenser
  27. Making jokes about limits and boundaries
  28. Physical aggression
  29. Neglecting safety precautions
  30. Frequent criticism
  31. Subtle pressure tactics to push boundaries
  32. Following a stranger out of an event, to their car.
  33. "I don’t care if you’re upset; just follow orders."
  34. Treating a munch like a speed-dating event.