Trying to invalidateanyone's personalexperience thatled to a personallimit.ConstantlydeletestexthistoryWants tomeetsomewheresecluded inthe first meet"I can havemultiplepartners, butyou cannot"Commenting onsomeonepicture/writingabout a fantasythey haveLittle selfawarenessof owntriggers andlimitationsStalkingConsentingUp during ascene"How dareyouquestionme?""I don’tbelieve thatDoms needafter care"Usingsomeoneas a kinkdispenserDoes notrespectlimitsInvadesprivacy oroverstepspersonalboundariesNotinterestedinfeedbackDoes notbelieve ingettingregularlytested"I don’t careif you’reupset; justfolloworders."Weaponizedincompetence.LovebombingFree!PhysicalaggressionEmotionallymanipulativeSubtlepressuretactics topushboundariesDM astranger asexualfantasyNeglectingsafetyprecautionsRefusing toeducatingthemselveson safe kinkpracticesTreating amunch like aspeed-datingevent.Makingjokes aboutlimits andboundariesInability toeffectivelyapologize."You are thedom, youshould knowwhat I wantwithout metelling you"Lack ofconcern foremotionalwell-beingFrequentcriticismFollowing astranger outof an event,to their car.Asking forintimatepics at thestartGoing up to astranger in apublic place andtelling them theyrecognized themfrom FetLife.Trying to invalidateanyone's personalexperience thatled to a personallimit.ConstantlydeletestexthistoryWants tomeetsomewheresecluded inthe first meet"I can havemultiplepartners, butyou cannot"Commenting onsomeonepicture/writingabout a fantasythey haveLittle selfawarenessof owntriggers andlimitationsStalkingConsentingUp during ascene"How dareyouquestionme?""I don’tbelieve thatDoms needafter care"Usingsomeoneas a kinkdispenserDoes notrespectlimitsInvadesprivacy oroverstepspersonalboundariesNotinterestedinfeedbackDoes notbelieve ingettingregularlytested"I don’t careif you’reupset; justfolloworders."Weaponizedincompetence.LovebombingFree!PhysicalaggressionEmotionallymanipulativeSubtlepressuretactics topushboundariesDM astranger asexualfantasyNeglectingsafetyprecautionsRefusing toeducatingthemselveson safe kinkpracticesTreating amunch like aspeed-datingevent.Makingjokes aboutlimits andboundariesInability toeffectivelyapologize."You are thedom, youshould knowwhat I wantwithout metelling you"Lack ofconcern foremotionalwell-beingFrequentcriticismFollowing astranger outof an event,to their car.Asking forintimatepics at thestartGoing up to astranger in apublic place andtelling them theyrecognized themfrom FetLife.

Red Flags - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Trying to invalidate anyone's personal experience that led to a personal limit.
  2. Constantly deletes text history
  3. Wants to meet somewhere secluded in the first meet
  4. "I can have multiple partners, but you cannot"
  5. Commenting on someone picture/writing about a fantasy they have
  6. Little self awareness of own triggers and limitations
  7. Stalking
  8. Consenting Up during a scene
  9. "How dare you question me?"
  10. "I don’t believe that Doms need after care"
  11. Using someone as a kink dispenser
  12. Does not respect limits
  13. Invades privacy or oversteps personal boundaries
  14. Not interested in feedback
  15. Does not believe in getting regularly tested
  16. "I don’t care if you’re upset; just follow orders."
  17. Weaponized incompetence.
  18. Love bombing
  19. Free!
  20. Physical aggression
  21. Emotionally manipulative
  22. Subtle pressure tactics to push boundaries
  23. DM a stranger a sexual fantasy
  24. Neglecting safety precautions
  25. Refusing to educating themselves on safe kink practices
  26. Treating a munch like a speed-dating event.
  27. Making jokes about limits and boundaries
  28. Inability to effectively apologize.
  29. "You are the dom, you should know what I want without me telling you"
  30. Lack of concern for emotional well-being
  31. Frequent criticism
  32. Following a stranger out of an event, to their car.
  33. Asking for intimate pics at the start
  34. Going up to a stranger in a public place and telling them they recognized them from FetLife.