Constantlydeletestexthistory"I don’tbelieve thatDoms needafter care"Lovebombing"How dareyouquestionme?"Does notbelieve ingettingregularlytested"You are thedom, youshould knowwhat I wantwithout metelling you"Inability toeffectivelyapologize.Lack ofconcern foremotionalwell-beingTrying to invalidateanyone's personalexperience thatled to a personallimit.Free!Usingsomeoneas a kinkdispenserLittle selfawarenessof owntriggers andlimitationsNeglectingsafetyprecautionsRefusing toeducatingthemselveson safe kinkpracticesFollowing astranger outof an event,to their car.EmotionallymanipulativeStalkingCommenting onsomeonepicture/writingabout a fantasythey havePhysicalaggressionGoing up to astranger in apublic place andtelling them theyrecognized themfrom FetLife."I don’t careif you’reupset; justfolloworders."FrequentcriticismMakingjokes aboutlimits andboundariesWants tomeetsomewheresecluded inthe first meetSubtlepressuretactics topushboundariesWeaponizedincompetence.Invadesprivacy oroverstepspersonalboundariesAsking forintimatepics at thestartDM astranger asexualfantasy"I can havemultiplepartners, butyou cannot"ConsentingUp during asceneTreating amunch like aspeed-datingevent.Does notrespectlimitsNotinterestedinfeedbackConstantlydeletestexthistory"I don’tbelieve thatDoms needafter care"Lovebombing"How dareyouquestionme?"Does notbelieve ingettingregularlytested"You are thedom, youshould knowwhat I wantwithout metelling you"Inability toeffectivelyapologize.Lack ofconcern foremotionalwell-beingTrying to invalidateanyone's personalexperience thatled to a personallimit.Free!Usingsomeoneas a kinkdispenserLittle selfawarenessof owntriggers andlimitationsNeglectingsafetyprecautionsRefusing toeducatingthemselveson safe kinkpracticesFollowing astranger outof an event,to their car.EmotionallymanipulativeStalkingCommenting onsomeonepicture/writingabout a fantasythey havePhysicalaggressionGoing up to astranger in apublic place andtelling them theyrecognized themfrom FetLife."I don’t careif you’reupset; justfolloworders."FrequentcriticismMakingjokes aboutlimits andboundariesWants tomeetsomewheresecluded inthe first meetSubtlepressuretactics topushboundariesWeaponizedincompetence.Invadesprivacy oroverstepspersonalboundariesAsking forintimatepics at thestartDM astranger asexualfantasy"I can havemultiplepartners, butyou cannot"ConsentingUp during asceneTreating amunch like aspeed-datingevent.Does notrespectlimitsNotinterestedinfeedback

Red Flags - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Constantly deletes text history
  2. "I don’t believe that Doms need after care"
  3. Love bombing
  4. "How dare you question me?"
  5. Does not believe in getting regularly tested
  6. "You are the dom, you should know what I want without me telling you"
  7. Inability to effectively apologize.
  8. Lack of concern for emotional well-being
  9. Trying to invalidate anyone's personal experience that led to a personal limit.
  10. Free!
  11. Using someone as a kink dispenser
  12. Little self awareness of own triggers and limitations
  13. Neglecting safety precautions
  14. Refusing to educating themselves on safe kink practices
  15. Following a stranger out of an event, to their car.
  16. Emotionally manipulative
  17. Stalking
  18. Commenting on someone picture/writing about a fantasy they have
  19. Physical aggression
  20. Going up to a stranger in a public place and telling them they recognized them from FetLife.
  21. "I don’t care if you’re upset; just follow orders."
  22. Frequent criticism
  23. Making jokes about limits and boundaries
  24. Wants to meet somewhere secluded in the first meet
  25. Subtle pressure tactics to push boundaries
  26. Weaponized incompetence.
  27. Invades privacy or oversteps personal boundaries
  28. Asking for intimate pics at the start
  29. DM a stranger a sexual fantasy
  30. "I can have multiple partners, but you cannot"
  31. Consenting Up during a scene
  32. Treating a munch like a speed-dating event.
  33. Does not respect limits
  34. Not interested in feedback