Physicalaggression"I can havemultiplepartners, butyou cannot"Makingjokes aboutlimits andboundariesEmotionallymanipulativeLovebombingUsingsomeoneas a kinkdispenserDoes notbelieve ingettingregularlytestedCommenting onsomeonepicture/writingabout a fantasythey haveFrequentcriticism"I don’t careif you’reupset; justfolloworders."Invadesprivacy oroverstepspersonalboundariesFollowing astranger outof an event,to their car.Trying to invalidateanyone's personalexperience thatled to a personallimit.Stalking"How dareyouquestionme?"Wants tomeetsomewheresecluded inthe first meetNeglectingsafetyprecautionsNotinterestedinfeedbackDoes notrespectlimitsTreating amunch like aspeed-datingevent.Refusing toeducatingthemselveson safe kinkpracticesWeaponizedincompetence.Asking forintimatepics at thestart"You are thedom, youshould knowwhat I wantwithout metelling you"Little selfawarenessof owntriggers andlimitationsLack ofconcern foremotionalwell-beingConstantlydeletestexthistoryConsentingUp during asceneDM astranger asexualfantasyFree!Inability toeffectivelyapologize."I don’tbelieve thatDoms needafter care"Going up to astranger in apublic place andtelling them theyrecognized themfrom FetLife.Subtlepressuretactics topushboundariesPhysicalaggression"I can havemultiplepartners, butyou cannot"Makingjokes aboutlimits andboundariesEmotionallymanipulativeLovebombingUsingsomeoneas a kinkdispenserDoes notbelieve ingettingregularlytestedCommenting onsomeonepicture/writingabout a fantasythey haveFrequentcriticism"I don’t careif you’reupset; justfolloworders."Invadesprivacy oroverstepspersonalboundariesFollowing astranger outof an event,to their car.Trying to invalidateanyone's personalexperience thatled to a personallimit.Stalking"How dareyouquestionme?"Wants tomeetsomewheresecluded inthe first meetNeglectingsafetyprecautionsNotinterestedinfeedbackDoes notrespectlimitsTreating amunch like aspeed-datingevent.Refusing toeducatingthemselveson safe kinkpracticesWeaponizedincompetence.Asking forintimatepics at thestart"You are thedom, youshould knowwhat I wantwithout metelling you"Little selfawarenessof owntriggers andlimitationsLack ofconcern foremotionalwell-beingConstantlydeletestexthistoryConsentingUp during asceneDM astranger asexualfantasyFree!Inability toeffectivelyapologize."I don’tbelieve thatDoms needafter care"Going up to astranger in apublic place andtelling them theyrecognized themfrom FetLife.Subtlepressuretactics topushboundaries

Red Flags - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Physical aggression
  2. "I can have multiple partners, but you cannot"
  3. Making jokes about limits and boundaries
  4. Emotionally manipulative
  5. Love bombing
  6. Using someone as a kink dispenser
  7. Does not believe in getting regularly tested
  8. Commenting on someone picture/writing about a fantasy they have
  9. Frequent criticism
  10. "I don’t care if you’re upset; just follow orders."
  11. Invades privacy or oversteps personal boundaries
  12. Following a stranger out of an event, to their car.
  13. Trying to invalidate anyone's personal experience that led to a personal limit.
  14. Stalking
  15. "How dare you question me?"
  16. Wants to meet somewhere secluded in the first meet
  17. Neglecting safety precautions
  18. Not interested in feedback
  19. Does not respect limits
  20. Treating a munch like a speed-dating event.
  21. Refusing to educating themselves on safe kink practices
  22. Weaponized incompetence.
  23. Asking for intimate pics at the start
  24. "You are the dom, you should know what I want without me telling you"
  25. Little self awareness of own triggers and limitations
  26. Lack of concern for emotional well-being
  27. Constantly deletes text history
  28. Consenting Up during a scene
  29. DM a stranger a sexual fantasy
  30. Free!
  31. Inability to effectively apologize.
  32. "I don’t believe that Doms need after care"
  33. Going up to a stranger in a public place and telling them they recognized them from FetLife.
  34. Subtle pressure tactics to push boundaries