BeingdefensiveBeingdistractedShiftingtheblameNegativetone ofvoicePreviousproblemsunresolvedUsingputdownsor insultsAvoidingtheproblemNotlistening/notbeing clearwith needsBeingdefensiveBeingdistractedShiftingtheblameNegativetone ofvoicePreviousproblemsunresolvedUsingputdownsor insultsAvoidingtheproblemNotlistening/notbeing clearwith needs

Examples of the Four Horsemen in "The Break Up" - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Being defensive
  2. Being distracted
  3. Shifting the blame
  4. Negative tone of voice
  5. Previous problems unresolved
  6. Using putdowns or insults
  7. Avoiding the problem
  8. Not listening/not being clear with needs