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Examples of the Four Horsemen in "The Break Up" - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Previous problems unresolved
  2. Being distracted
  3. Avoiding the problem
  4. Using putdowns or insults
  5. Negative tone of voice
  6. Not listening/not being clear with needs
  7. Shifting the blame
  8. Being defensive