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YourBoyfriend Abuse Tactics - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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O
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I
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N
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B
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B
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O
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N
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O
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B
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I
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O
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I
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G
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I
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B
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I
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N
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G
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N
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O
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G
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G
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G
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B
  1. O-self deprecation
  2. I-Mind games
  3. N-degredation
  4. B-One sided power games
  5. B-Denial or gaslighting
  6. O-Privacy violations
  7. N-love bombing
  8. O-Economic Abuse
  9. B-constant questioning
  10. I-Breaking trust
  11. O-Using Social Insitutions
  12. I-Symbolic aggression
  13. G-Separation abuse
  14. I-sleep deprevation
  15. B-Sexual Abuse
  16. I-minimizing fault
  17. N-Inappropriate Restrictions
  18. G-Isolation
  19. N-Domestic slavery
  20. O-Over-protection and "caring"
  21. G-Blaming
  22. G-Physical violence
  23. G-Cold shouldering
  24. B-Emotional unkindness