Surroundyourself withfriends thatmake goodchoicesI haveto walkmy dogI have a lot ofhomework/bigtest to studyforGo walkaroundtownChange thesubject-say,let's go get asnack, I'mhungryI have otherplans, Couldwe maybe hangout tomorrowinstead?Could wemaybe hangout tomorrowinstead?BePolitebut FirmTools forsayingNOeffectivelySay,maybeanothertime.StrengthinnumbersMakeanExcusea feeling thatI must do thesame thingsas myfriendsBeHonestMakea JokeSay "Thankyou forincluding mebut no thankyou"If one refusaldoesn't stopthem, try adifferent ideaBeconfidentIdentifyconsequencesSay, Idon't feellike it rightnowAvoidthesituationSay, nah,I'm goodright now.I can't IhaveotherplansJustsay NOLet's notharmourselves orothers.Not going toa party thatis servingalcoholrepeattherefusalPeerPressureNot a chance,I won't touch it.I don't evenwantit near me!Offer anAlternativeI have adoctorsappointmentSay, I needall thebrain cellsI can keepI reservetheright to notpartake.I wantto stayhealthysuggestanotheractivityUse "I"StatementsSay, if youwere a realfriend, youwouldn't askme to do thisSay"Thanks,but NoThanks"IgnoretheofferFind friendswho sharethe samevaluesIgnoreSay, if youwant to drinkso badly goget oneyourselfUseHumorNot anounce,I gottabounce!AssertivnessRepeat ifNecessarySay, no, itwill be hardto playbaseball ifI'm highWalkawaySurroundyourself withfriends thatmake goodchoicesI haveto walkmy dogI have a lot ofhomework/bigtest to studyforGo walkaroundtownChange thesubject-say,let's go get asnack, I'mhungryI have otherplans, Couldwe maybe hangout tomorrowinstead?Could wemaybe hangout tomorrowinstead?BePolitebut FirmTools forsayingNOeffectivelySay,maybeanothertime.StrengthinnumbersMakeanExcusea feeling thatI must do thesame thingsas myfriendsBeHonestMakea JokeSay "Thankyou forincluding mebut no thankyou"If one refusaldoesn't stopthem, try adifferent ideaBeconfidentIdentifyconsequencesSay, Idon't feellike it rightnowAvoidthesituationSay, nah,I'm goodright now.I can't IhaveotherplansJustsay NOLet's notharmourselves orothers.Not going toa party thatis servingalcoholrepeattherefusalPeerPressureNot a chance,I won't touch it.I don't evenwantit near me!Offer anAlternativeI have adoctorsappointmentSay, I needall thebrain cellsI can keepI reservetheright to notpartake.I wantto stayhealthysuggestanotheractivityUse "I"StatementsSay, if youwere a realfriend, youwouldn't askme to do thisSay"Thanks,but NoThanks"IgnoretheofferFind friendswho sharethe samevaluesIgnoreSay, if youwant to drinkso badly goget oneyourselfUseHumorNot anounce,I gottabounce!AssertivnessRepeat ifNecessarySay, no, itwill be hardto playbaseball ifI'm highWalkaway

Refusal Skills - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Surround yourself with friends that make good choices
  2. I have to walk my dog
  3. I have a lot of homework/big test to study for
  4. Go walk around town
  5. Change the subject-say, let's go get a snack, I'm hungry
  6. I have other plans, Could we maybe hang out tomorrow instead?
  7. Could we maybe hang out tomorrow instead?
  8. Be Polite but Firm
  9. Tools for saying NO effectively
  10. Say, maybe another time.
  11. Strength in numbers
  12. Make an Excuse
  13. a feeling that I must do the same things as my friends
  14. Be Honest
  15. Make a Joke
  16. Say "Thank you for including me but no thank you"
  17. If one refusal doesn't stop them, try a different idea
  18. Be confident
  19. Identify consequences
  20. Say, I don't feel like it right now
  21. Avoid the situation
  22. Say, nah, I'm good right now.
  23. I can't I have other plans
  24. Just say NO
  25. Let's not harm ourselves or others.
  26. Not going to a party that is serving alcohol
  27. repeat the refusal
  28. Peer Pressure
  29. Not a chance, I won't touch it. I don't even want it near me!
  30. Offer an Alternative
  31. I have a doctors appointment
  32. Say, I need all the brain cells I can keep
  33. I reserve the right to not partake.
  34. I want to stay healthy
  35. suggest another activity
  36. Use "I" Statements
  37. Say, if you were a real friend, you wouldn't ask me to do this
  38. Say "Thanks, but No Thanks"
  39. Ignore the offer
  40. Find friends who share the same values
  41. Ignore
  42. Say, if you want to drink so badly go get one yourself
  43. Use Humor
  44. Not an ounce, I gotta bounce!
  45. Assertivness
  46. Repeat if Necessary
  47. Say, no, it will be hard to play baseball if I'm high
  48. Walk away