Say, nah,I'm goodright now.AssertivnessTools forsayingNOeffectivelyBeconfidentIgnorePeerPressureJustsay NOI can't IhaveotherplansI have otherplans, Couldwe maybe hangout tomorrowinstead?I have a lot ofhomework/bigtest to studyforWalkawayAvoidthesituationMakeanExcuseStrengthinnumbersSay, if youwere a realfriend, youwouldn't askme to do thisrepeattherefusalNot anounce,I gottabounce!Say, if youwant to drinkso badly goget oneyourselfSurroundyourself withfriends thatmake goodchoicesNot going toa party thatis servingalcoholSay, Idon't feellike it rightnowNot a chance,I won't touch it.I don't evenwantit near me!suggestanotheractivityMakea JokeIf one refusaldoesn't stopthem, try adifferent ideaI wantto stayhealthyUse "I"StatementsSay "Thankyou forincluding mebut no thankyou"BeHonestRepeat ifNecessaryBePolitebut FirmCould wemaybe hangout tomorrowinstead?Let's notharmourselves orothers.Say"Thanks,but NoThanks"Say, I needall thebrain cellsI can keepI haveto walkmy dogSay,maybeanothertime.IgnoretheofferGo walkaroundtownChange thesubject-say,let's go get asnack, I'mhungryI reservetheright to notpartake.Say, no, itwill be hardto playbaseball ifI'm highUseHumora feeling thatI must do thesame thingsas myfriendsI have adoctorsappointmentOffer anAlternativeIdentifyconsequencesFind friendswho sharethe samevaluesSay, nah,I'm goodright now.AssertivnessTools forsayingNOeffectivelyBeconfidentIgnorePeerPressureJustsay NOI can't IhaveotherplansI have otherplans, Couldwe maybe hangout tomorrowinstead?I have a lot ofhomework/bigtest to studyforWalkawayAvoidthesituationMakeanExcuseStrengthinnumbersSay, if youwere a realfriend, youwouldn't askme to do thisrepeattherefusalNot anounce,I gottabounce!Say, if youwant to drinkso badly goget oneyourselfSurroundyourself withfriends thatmake goodchoicesNot going toa party thatis servingalcoholSay, Idon't feellike it rightnowNot a chance,I won't touch it.I don't evenwantit near me!suggestanotheractivityMakea JokeIf one refusaldoesn't stopthem, try adifferent ideaI wantto stayhealthyUse "I"StatementsSay "Thankyou forincluding mebut no thankyou"BeHonestRepeat ifNecessaryBePolitebut FirmCould wemaybe hangout tomorrowinstead?Let's notharmourselves orothers.Say"Thanks,but NoThanks"Say, I needall thebrain cellsI can keepI haveto walkmy dogSay,maybeanothertime.IgnoretheofferGo walkaroundtownChange thesubject-say,let's go get asnack, I'mhungryI reservetheright to notpartake.Say, no, itwill be hardto playbaseball ifI'm highUseHumora feeling thatI must do thesame thingsas myfriendsI have adoctorsappointmentOffer anAlternativeIdentifyconsequencesFind friendswho sharethe samevalues

Refusal Skills - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Say, nah, I'm good right now.
  2. Assertivness
  3. Tools for saying NO effectively
  4. Be confident
  5. Ignore
  6. Peer Pressure
  7. Just say NO
  8. I can't I have other plans
  9. I have other plans, Could we maybe hang out tomorrow instead?
  10. I have a lot of homework/big test to study for
  11. Walk away
  12. Avoid the situation
  13. Make an Excuse
  14. Strength in numbers
  15. Say, if you were a real friend, you wouldn't ask me to do this
  16. repeat the refusal
  17. Not an ounce, I gotta bounce!
  18. Say, if you want to drink so badly go get one yourself
  19. Surround yourself with friends that make good choices
  20. Not going to a party that is serving alcohol
  21. Say, I don't feel like it right now
  22. Not a chance, I won't touch it. I don't even want it near me!
  23. suggest another activity
  24. Make a Joke
  25. If one refusal doesn't stop them, try a different idea
  26. I want to stay healthy
  27. Use "I" Statements
  28. Say "Thank you for including me but no thank you"
  29. Be Honest
  30. Repeat if Necessary
  31. Be Polite but Firm
  32. Could we maybe hang out tomorrow instead?
  33. Let's not harm ourselves or others.
  34. Say "Thanks, but No Thanks"
  35. Say, I need all the brain cells I can keep
  36. I have to walk my dog
  37. Say, maybe another time.
  38. Ignore the offer
  39. Go walk around town
  40. Change the subject-say, let's go get a snack, I'm hungry
  41. I reserve the right to not partake.
  42. Say, no, it will be hard to play baseball if I'm high
  43. Use Humor
  44. a feeling that I must do the same things as my friends
  45. I have a doctors appointment
  46. Offer an Alternative
  47. Identify consequences
  48. Find friends who share the same values