BePolitebut FirmIf one refusaldoesn't stopthem, try adifferent ideaa feeling thatI must do thesame thingsas myfriendsMakeanExcuseSay, nah,I'm goodright now.StrengthinnumbersMakea JokeChange thesubject-say,let's go get asnack, I'mhungryLet's notharmourselves orothers.Find friendswho sharethe samevaluesI reservetheright to notpartake.IdentifyconsequencesSay, I needall thebrain cellsI can keepGo walkaroundtownWalkawayI haveto walkmy dogAvoidthesituationI have adoctorsappointmentSay"Thanks,but NoThanks"Justsay NOBeHonestAssertivnessrepeattherefusalIgnoreSay, no, itwill be hardto playbaseball ifI'm highNot going toa party thatis servingalcoholOffer anAlternativesuggestanotheractivityIgnoretheofferSurroundyourself withfriends thatmake goodchoicesBeconfidentSay, Idon't feellike it rightnowNot a chance,I won't touch it.I don't evenwantit near me!Say "Thankyou forincluding mebut no thankyou"Say, if youwant to drinkso badly goget oneyourselfNot anounce,I gottabounce!Tools forsayingNOeffectivelyUseHumorI wantto stayhealthySay, if youwere a realfriend, youwouldn't askme to do thisI have a lot ofhomework/bigtest to studyforCould wemaybe hangout tomorrowinstead?PeerPressureUse "I"StatementsSay,maybeanothertime.Repeat ifNecessaryI have otherplans, Couldwe maybe hangout tomorrowinstead?I can't IhaveotherplansBePolitebut FirmIf one refusaldoesn't stopthem, try adifferent ideaa feeling thatI must do thesame thingsas myfriendsMakeanExcuseSay, nah,I'm goodright now.StrengthinnumbersMakea JokeChange thesubject-say,let's go get asnack, I'mhungryLet's notharmourselves orothers.Find friendswho sharethe samevaluesI reservetheright to notpartake.IdentifyconsequencesSay, I needall thebrain cellsI can keepGo walkaroundtownWalkawayI haveto walkmy dogAvoidthesituationI have adoctorsappointmentSay"Thanks,but NoThanks"Justsay NOBeHonestAssertivnessrepeattherefusalIgnoreSay, no, itwill be hardto playbaseball ifI'm highNot going toa party thatis servingalcoholOffer anAlternativesuggestanotheractivityIgnoretheofferSurroundyourself withfriends thatmake goodchoicesBeconfidentSay, Idon't feellike it rightnowNot a chance,I won't touch it.I don't evenwantit near me!Say "Thankyou forincluding mebut no thankyou"Say, if youwant to drinkso badly goget oneyourselfNot anounce,I gottabounce!Tools forsayingNOeffectivelyUseHumorI wantto stayhealthySay, if youwere a realfriend, youwouldn't askme to do thisI have a lot ofhomework/bigtest to studyforCould wemaybe hangout tomorrowinstead?PeerPressureUse "I"StatementsSay,maybeanothertime.Repeat ifNecessaryI have otherplans, Couldwe maybe hangout tomorrowinstead?I can't Ihaveotherplans

Refusal Skills - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Be Polite but Firm
  2. If one refusal doesn't stop them, try a different idea
  3. a feeling that I must do the same things as my friends
  4. Make an Excuse
  5. Say, nah, I'm good right now.
  6. Strength in numbers
  7. Make a Joke
  8. Change the subject-say, let's go get a snack, I'm hungry
  9. Let's not harm ourselves or others.
  10. Find friends who share the same values
  11. I reserve the right to not partake.
  12. Identify consequences
  13. Say, I need all the brain cells I can keep
  14. Go walk around town
  15. Walk away
  16. I have to walk my dog
  17. Avoid the situation
  18. I have a doctors appointment
  19. Say "Thanks, but No Thanks"
  20. Just say NO
  21. Be Honest
  22. Assertivness
  23. repeat the refusal
  24. Ignore
  25. Say, no, it will be hard to play baseball if I'm high
  26. Not going to a party that is serving alcohol
  27. Offer an Alternative
  28. suggest another activity
  29. Ignore the offer
  30. Surround yourself with friends that make good choices
  31. Be confident
  32. Say, I don't feel like it right now
  33. Not a chance, I won't touch it. I don't even want it near me!
  34. Say "Thank you for including me but no thank you"
  35. Say, if you want to drink so badly go get one yourself
  36. Not an ounce, I gotta bounce!
  37. Tools for saying NO effectively
  38. Use Humor
  39. I want to stay healthy
  40. Say, if you were a real friend, you wouldn't ask me to do this
  41. I have a lot of homework/big test to study for
  42. Could we maybe hang out tomorrow instead?
  43. Peer Pressure
  44. Use "I" Statements
  45. Say, maybe another time.
  46. Repeat if Necessary
  47. I have other plans, Could we maybe hang out tomorrow instead?
  48. I can't I have other plans