Suddenswitch in/afterconvo toofferingsomethingActually donesomething beyondthe baseline ofparenting (difficultyimpossible)"You'reimmature" onsomethingthat hurts nooneCommandsyou to stoptrying toimprove asituation"Respectme!"(doesn'trespect you)homophobia/transphobiaimpliesnegativecomments, butdenies theyapply to youInsults yourclothing/accessoriesyells atyou forthe dishesSays thatshe'scorrect/betterbecause she'sthe adultSaysyou're justlying aboutsomethingyells at you todo somethingyou'realready doingTells you to'take theinitiative'(in someform)"Y'all are soinconsiderate"or similar"You'regonna endup like yourbrother"Snickers (orsimilar) whensomethingbad happensto youVictimblamingResponds topanic attacksbyscreamingloudergoes backonsomethingagreed uponyells at youfor 'notbeing readyin time'complainaboutyourbrotherMakesup howyou feelclaimsyou'reoverreactingClaims tobe thebestmotherCalls you aburden/liabilitylies aboutsomethingthat youwitnessed thesame daycausesyou tobe lateSayseveryonewalks oneggshellsaround youSays you'redoingsomething tointentionallyhurt her"As yourmother I canignore yourboundaries"ConfidentlyincorrectBackhanded'apologies'changesschedulewithoutwarningSuddenswitch in/afterconvo toofferingsomethingActually donesomething beyondthe baseline ofparenting (difficultyimpossible)"You'reimmature" onsomethingthat hurts nooneCommandsyou to stoptrying toimprove asituation"Respectme!"(doesn'trespect you)homophobia/transphobiaimpliesnegativecomments, butdenies theyapply to youInsults yourclothing/accessoriesyells atyou forthe dishesSays thatshe'scorrect/betterbecause she'sthe adultSaysyou're justlying aboutsomethingyells at you todo somethingyou'realready doingTells you to'take theinitiative'(in someform)"Y'all are soinconsiderate"or similar"You'regonna endup like yourbrother"Snickers (orsimilar) whensomethingbad happensto youVictimblamingResponds topanic attacksbyscreamingloudergoes backonsomethingagreed uponyells at youfor 'notbeing readyin time'complainaboutyourbrotherMakesup howyou feelclaimsyou'reoverreactingClaims tobe thebestmotherCalls you aburden/liabilitylies aboutsomethingthat youwitnessed thesame daycausesyou tobe lateSayseveryonewalks oneggshellsaround youSays you'redoingsomething tointentionallyhurt her"As yourmother I canignore yourboundaries"ConfidentlyincorrectBackhanded'apologies'changesschedulewithoutwarning

Emotionally Abusive Mother :3 - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Sudden switch in/after convo to offering something
  2. Actually done something beyond the baseline of parenting (difficulty impossible)
  3. "You're immature" on something that hurts no one
  4. Commands you to stop trying to improve a situation
  5. "Respect me!" (doesn't respect you)
  6. homophobia/ transphobia
  7. implies negative comments, but denies they apply to you
  8. Insults your clothing/ accessories
  9. yells at you for the dishes
  10. Says that she's correct/better because she's the adult
  11. Says you're just lying about something
  12. yells at you to do something you're already doing
  13. Tells you to 'take the initiative' (in some form)
  14. "Y'all are so inconsiderate" or similar
  15. "You're gonna end up like your brother"
  16. Snickers (or similar) when something bad happens to you
  17. Victim blaming
  18. Responds to panic attacks by screaming louder
  19. goes back on something agreed upon
  20. yells at you for 'not being ready in time'
  21. complain about your brother
  22. Makes up how you feel
  23. claims you're overreacting
  24. Claims to be the best mother
  25. Calls you a burden/liability
  26. lies about something that you witnessed the same day
  27. causes you to be late
  28. Says everyone walks on eggshells around you
  29. Says you're doing something to intentionally hurt her
  30. "As your mother I can ignore your boundaries"
  31. Confidently incorrect
  32. Backhanded 'apologies'
  33. changes schedule without warning