Says you'redoingsomething tointentionallyhurt hercomplainaboutyourbrotheryells at you todo somethingyou'realready doingBackhanded'apologies'Calls you aburden/liabilityClaims tobe thebestmotherclaimsyou'reoverreacting"As yourmother I canignore yourboundaries"Victimblaminggoes backonsomethingagreed uponlies aboutsomethingthat youwitnessed thesame dayResponds topanic attacksbyscreaminglouderCommandsyou to stoptrying toimprove asituationActually donesomething beyondthe baseline ofparenting (difficultyimpossible)yells atyou forthe dishesMakesup howyou feelSnickers (orsimilar) whensomethingbad happensto youyells at youfor 'notbeing readyin time'Tells you to'take theinitiative'(in someform)Insults yourclothing/accessories"Respectme!"(doesn'trespect you)Says thatshe'scorrect/betterbecause she'sthe adultConfidentlyincorrectimpliesnegativecomments, butdenies theyapply to you"You'regonna endup like yourbrother""You'reimmature" onsomethingthat hurts nooneSayseveryonewalks oneggshellsaround you"Y'all are soinconsiderate"or similarcausesyou tobe latechangesschedulewithoutwarninghomophobia/transphobiaSaysyou're justlying aboutsomethingSuddenswitch in/afterconvo toofferingsomethingSays you'redoingsomething tointentionallyhurt hercomplainaboutyourbrotheryells at you todo somethingyou'realready doingBackhanded'apologies'Calls you aburden/liabilityClaims tobe thebestmotherclaimsyou'reoverreacting"As yourmother I canignore yourboundaries"Victimblaminggoes backonsomethingagreed uponlies aboutsomethingthat youwitnessed thesame dayResponds topanic attacksbyscreaminglouderCommandsyou to stoptrying toimprove asituationActually donesomething beyondthe baseline ofparenting (difficultyimpossible)yells atyou forthe dishesMakesup howyou feelSnickers (orsimilar) whensomethingbad happensto youyells at youfor 'notbeing readyin time'Tells you to'take theinitiative'(in someform)Insults yourclothing/accessories"Respectme!"(doesn'trespect you)Says thatshe'scorrect/betterbecause she'sthe adultConfidentlyincorrectimpliesnegativecomments, butdenies theyapply to you"You'regonna endup like yourbrother""You'reimmature" onsomethingthat hurts nooneSayseveryonewalks oneggshellsaround you"Y'all are soinconsiderate"or similarcausesyou tobe latechangesschedulewithoutwarninghomophobia/transphobiaSaysyou're justlying aboutsomethingSuddenswitch in/afterconvo toofferingsomething

Emotionally Abusive Mother :3 - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Says you're doing something to intentionally hurt her
  2. complain about your brother
  3. yells at you to do something you're already doing
  4. Backhanded 'apologies'
  5. Calls you a burden/liability
  6. Claims to be the best mother
  7. claims you're overreacting
  8. "As your mother I can ignore your boundaries"
  9. Victim blaming
  10. goes back on something agreed upon
  11. lies about something that you witnessed the same day
  12. Responds to panic attacks by screaming louder
  13. Commands you to stop trying to improve a situation
  14. Actually done something beyond the baseline of parenting (difficulty impossible)
  15. yells at you for the dishes
  16. Makes up how you feel
  17. Snickers (or similar) when something bad happens to you
  18. yells at you for 'not being ready in time'
  19. Tells you to 'take the initiative' (in some form)
  20. Insults your clothing/ accessories
  21. "Respect me!" (doesn't respect you)
  22. Says that she's correct/better because she's the adult
  23. Confidently incorrect
  24. implies negative comments, but denies they apply to you
  25. "You're gonna end up like your brother"
  26. "You're immature" on something that hurts no one
  27. Says everyone walks on eggshells around you
  28. "Y'all are so inconsiderate" or similar
  29. causes you to be late
  30. changes schedule without warning
  31. homophobia/ transphobia
  32. Says you're just lying about something
  33. Sudden switch in/after convo to offering something