Understand why you need the boundary Don't say what is not true Say a strong "NO!" Know your limits Know your values Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs Beware oversharing to everyone Trust your intuition Address boundary violations early Prevent isolation from others who can help How do you establish boundaries You are in charge of your choices RAFT Clearly state your thoughts & feelings Tell us a time you agreed to disagree Describe your personal bubble Don't apologize for setting a boundary Ask what you need at this time Is your family open with their feelings? Use a support system Don't absorb other's feelings Have self- respect Clearly identify your boundary Tell us a time you crossed a boundary Understand why you need the boundary Don't say what is not true Say a strong "NO!" Know your limits Know your values Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs Beware oversharing to everyone Trust your intuition Address boundary violations early Prevent isolation from others who can help How do you establish boundaries You are in charge of your choices RAFT Clearly state your thoughts & feelings Tell us a time you agreed to disagree Describe your personal bubble Don't apologize for setting a boundary Ask what you need at this time Is your family open with their feelings? Use a support system Don't absorb other's feelings Have self- respect Clearly identify your boundary Tell us a time you crossed a boundary
(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
N-Understand why you need the boundary
N-Don't say what is not true
I-Say a strong "NO!"
O-Know your limits
G-Know your values
O-Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs
B-Beware oversharing to everyone
G-Trust your intuition
B-Address boundary violations early
G-Prevent isolation from others who can help
I-How do you establish boundaries
B-You are in charge of your choices
O-RAFT
G-Clearly state your thoughts & feelings
B-Tell us a time you agreed to disagree
B-Describe your personal bubble
I-Don't apologize for setting a boundary
I-Ask what you need at this time
G-Is your family open with their feelings?
O-Use a support system
O-Don't absorb other's feelings
N-Have self-respect
I-Clearly identify your boundary
N-Tell us a time you crossed a boundary