Use a support system You are in charge of your choices Prevent isolation from others who can help Know your limits Don't absorb other's feelings Clearly state your thoughts & feelings Tell us a time you agreed to disagree Trust your intuition Beware oversharing to everyone Know your values Say a strong "NO!" Tell us a time you crossed a boundary Is your family open with their feelings? Address boundary violations early Don't say what is not true Ask what you need at this time Have self- respect Clearly identify your boundary Understand why you need the boundary Don't apologize for setting a boundary RAFT Describe your personal bubble Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs How do you establish boundaries Use a support system You are in charge of your choices Prevent isolation from others who can help Know your limits Don't absorb other's feelings Clearly state your thoughts & feelings Tell us a time you agreed to disagree Trust your intuition Beware oversharing to everyone Know your values Say a strong "NO!" Tell us a time you crossed a boundary Is your family open with their feelings? Address boundary violations early Don't say what is not true Ask what you need at this time Have self- respect Clearly identify your boundary Understand why you need the boundary Don't apologize for setting a boundary RAFT Describe your personal bubble Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs How do you establish boundaries
(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
O-Use a support system
B-You are in charge of your choices
G-Prevent isolation from others who can help
O-Know your limits
O-Don't absorb other's feelings
G-Clearly state your thoughts & feelings
B-Tell us a time you agreed to disagree
G-Trust your intuition
B-Beware oversharing to everyone
G-Know your values
I-Say a strong "NO!"
N-Tell us a time you crossed a boundary
G-Is your family open with their feelings?
B-Address boundary violations early
N-Don't say what is not true
I-Ask what you need at this time
N-Have self-respect
I-Clearly identify your boundary
N-Understand why you need the boundary
I-Don't apologize for setting a boundary
O-RAFT
B-Describe your personal bubble
O-Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs
I-How do you establish boundaries