Is your family open with their feelings? Clearly state your thoughts & feelings Tell us a time you crossed a boundary Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs Clearly identify your boundary Use a support system Know your limits Ask what you need at this time Say a strong "NO!" Know your values Understand why you need the boundary Describe your personal bubble You are in charge of your choices RAFT Beware oversharing to everyone Have self- respect Prevent isolation from others who can help Don't absorb other's feelings Trust your intuition How do you establish boundaries Don't apologize for setting a boundary Tell us a time you agreed to disagree Don't say what is not true Address boundary violations early Is your family open with their feelings? Clearly state your thoughts & feelings Tell us a time you crossed a boundary Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs Clearly identify your boundary Use a support system Know your limits Ask what you need at this time Say a strong "NO!" Know your values Understand why you need the boundary Describe your personal bubble You are in charge of your choices RAFT Beware oversharing to everyone Have self- respect Prevent isolation from others who can help Don't absorb other's feelings Trust your intuition How do you establish boundaries Don't apologize for setting a boundary Tell us a time you agreed to disagree Don't say what is not true Address boundary violations early
(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
G-Is your family open with their feelings?
G-Clearly state your thoughts & feelings
N-Tell us a time you crossed a boundary
O-Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs
I-Clearly identify your boundary
O-Use a support system
O-Know your limits
I-Ask what you need at this time
I-Say a strong "NO!"
G-Know your values
N-Understand why you need the boundary
B-Describe your personal bubble
B-You are in charge of your choices
O-RAFT
B-Beware oversharing to everyone
N-Have self-respect
G-Prevent isolation from others who can help
O-Don't absorb other's feelings
G-Trust your intuition
I-How do you establish boundaries
I-Don't apologize for setting a boundary
B-Tell us a time you agreed to disagree
N-Don't say what is not true
B-Address boundary violations early