Understand why you need the boundary Don't apologize for setting a boundary Trust your intuition Tell us a time you crossed a boundary Say a strong "NO!" Beware oversharing to everyone Prevent isolation from others who can help Don't absorb other's feelings Don't say what is not true How do you establish boundaries Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs Address boundary violations early Use a support system Have self- respect Describe your personal bubble Clearly identify your boundary Tell us a time you agreed to disagree RAFT Know your values Ask what you need at this time Clearly state your thoughts & feelings You are in charge of your choices Know your limits Is your family open with their feelings? Understand why you need the boundary Don't apologize for setting a boundary Trust your intuition Tell us a time you crossed a boundary Say a strong "NO!" Beware oversharing to everyone Prevent isolation from others who can help Don't absorb other's feelings Don't say what is not true How do you establish boundaries Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs Address boundary violations early Use a support system Have self- respect Describe your personal bubble Clearly identify your boundary Tell us a time you agreed to disagree RAFT Know your values Ask what you need at this time Clearly state your thoughts & feelings You are in charge of your choices Know your limits Is your family open with their feelings?
(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
N-Understand why you need the boundary
I-Don't apologize for setting a boundary
G-Trust your intuition
N-Tell us a time you crossed a boundary
I-Say a strong "NO!"
B-Beware oversharing to everyone
G-Prevent isolation from others who can help
O-Don't absorb other's feelings
N-Don't say what is not true
I-How do you establish boundaries
O-Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs
B-Address boundary violations early
O-Use a support system
N-Have self-respect
B-Describe your personal bubble
I-Clearly identify your boundary
B-Tell us a time you agreed to disagree
O-RAFT
G-Know your values
I-Ask what you need at this time
G-Clearly state your thoughts & feelings
B-You are in charge of your choices
O-Know your limits
G-Is your family open with their feelings?