RAFT Clearly state your thoughts & feelings Understand why you need the boundary Don't say what is not true Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs Know your limits Beware oversharing to everyone Tell us a time you agreed to disagree Clearly identify your boundary Don't absorb other's feelings How do you establish boundaries Use a support system Tell us a time you crossed a boundary Ask what you need at this time Say a strong "NO!" Trust your intuition Know your values Address boundary violations early Describe your personal bubble Don't apologize for setting a boundary Have self- respect Is your family open with their feelings? You are in charge of your choices Prevent isolation from others who can help RAFT Clearly state your thoughts & feelings Understand why you need the boundary Don't say what is not true Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs Know your limits Beware oversharing to everyone Tell us a time you agreed to disagree Clearly identify your boundary Don't absorb other's feelings How do you establish boundaries Use a support system Tell us a time you crossed a boundary Ask what you need at this time Say a strong "NO!" Trust your intuition Know your values Address boundary violations early Describe your personal bubble Don't apologize for setting a boundary Have self- respect Is your family open with their feelings? You are in charge of your choices Prevent isolation from others who can help
(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
O-RAFT
G-Clearly state your thoughts & feelings
N-Understand why you need the boundary
N-Don't say what is not true
O-Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs
O-Know your limits
B-Beware oversharing to everyone
B-Tell us a time you agreed to disagree
I-Clearly identify your boundary
O-Don't absorb other's feelings
I-How do you establish boundaries
O-Use a support system
N-Tell us a time you crossed a boundary
I-Ask what you need at this time
I-Say a strong "NO!"
G-Trust your intuition
G-Know your values
B-Address boundary violations early
B-Describe your personal bubble
I-Don't apologize for setting a boundary
N-Have self-respect
G-Is your family open with their feelings?
B-You are in charge of your choices
G-Prevent isolation from others who can help