Have self- respect Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs Use a support system Know your values Tell us a time you agreed to disagree Don't absorb other's feelings RAFT Clearly state your thoughts & feelings Say a strong "NO!" Clearly identify your boundary Trust your intuition Address boundary violations early Describe your personal bubble Don't say what is not true Know your limits Don't apologize for setting a boundary Ask what you need at this time You are in charge of your choices Is your family open with their feelings? How do you establish boundaries Understand why you need the boundary Beware oversharing to everyone Prevent isolation from others who can help Tell us a time you crossed a boundary Have self- respect Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs Use a support system Know your values Tell us a time you agreed to disagree Don't absorb other's feelings RAFT Clearly state your thoughts & feelings Say a strong "NO!" Clearly identify your boundary Trust your intuition Address boundary violations early Describe your personal bubble Don't say what is not true Know your limits Don't apologize for setting a boundary Ask what you need at this time You are in charge of your choices Is your family open with their feelings? How do you establish boundaries Understand why you need the boundary Beware oversharing to everyone Prevent isolation from others who can help Tell us a time you crossed a boundary
(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
N-Have self-respect
O-Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs
O-Use a support system
G-Know your values
B-Tell us a time you agreed to disagree
O-Don't absorb other's feelings
O-RAFT
G-Clearly state your thoughts & feelings
I-Say a strong "NO!"
I-Clearly identify your boundary
G-Trust your intuition
B-Address boundary violations early
B-Describe your personal bubble
N-Don't say what is not true
O-Know your limits
I-Don't apologize for setting a boundary
I-Ask what you need at this time
B-You are in charge of your choices
G-Is your family open with their feelings?
I-How do you establish boundaries
N-Understand why you need the boundary
B-Beware oversharing to everyone
G-Prevent isolation from others who can help
N-Tell us a time you crossed a boundary