Use a support system RAFT Understand why you need the boundary Have self- respect Tell us a time you agreed to disagree Describe your personal bubble Don't apologize for setting a boundary Trust your intuition Beware oversharing to everyone Know your values How do you establish boundaries Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs Ask what you need at this time Don't absorb other's feelings Clearly state your thoughts & feelings You are in charge of your choices Say a strong "NO!" Is your family open with their feelings? Know your limits Don't say what is not true Prevent isolation from others who can help Address boundary violations early Clearly identify your boundary Tell us a time you crossed a boundary Use a support system RAFT Understand why you need the boundary Have self- respect Tell us a time you agreed to disagree Describe your personal bubble Don't apologize for setting a boundary Trust your intuition Beware oversharing to everyone Know your values How do you establish boundaries Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs Ask what you need at this time Don't absorb other's feelings Clearly state your thoughts & feelings You are in charge of your choices Say a strong "NO!" Is your family open with their feelings? Know your limits Don't say what is not true Prevent isolation from others who can help Address boundary violations early Clearly identify your boundary Tell us a time you crossed a boundary
(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
O-Use a support system
O-RAFT
N-Understand why you need the boundary
N-Have self-respect
B-Tell us a time you agreed to disagree
B-Describe your personal bubble
I-Don't apologize for setting a boundary
G-Trust your intuition
B-Beware oversharing to everyone
G-Know your values
I-How do you establish boundaries
O-Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs
I-Ask what you need at this time
O-Don't absorb other's feelings
G-Clearly state your thoughts & feelings
B-You are in charge of your choices
I-Say a strong "NO!"
G-Is your family open with their feelings?
O-Know your limits
N-Don't say what is not true
G-Prevent isolation from others who can help
B-Address boundary violations early
I-Clearly identify your boundary
N-Tell us a time you crossed a boundary