You are in charge of your choices Have self- respect Understand why you need the boundary RAFT Know your values Tell us a time you crossed a boundary Say a strong "NO!" Describe your personal bubble Use a support system Don't absorb other's feelings Address boundary violations early Ask what you need at this time Clearly state your thoughts & feelings Is your family open with their feelings? Don't apologize for setting a boundary Don't say what is not true Prevent isolation from others who can help Trust your intuition Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs Clearly identify your boundary How do you establish boundaries Beware oversharing to everyone Tell us a time you agreed to disagree Know your limits You are in charge of your choices Have self- respect Understand why you need the boundary RAFT Know your values Tell us a time you crossed a boundary Say a strong "NO!" Describe your personal bubble Use a support system Don't absorb other's feelings Address boundary violations early Ask what you need at this time Clearly state your thoughts & feelings Is your family open with their feelings? Don't apologize for setting a boundary Don't say what is not true Prevent isolation from others who can help Trust your intuition Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs Clearly identify your boundary How do you establish boundaries Beware oversharing to everyone Tell us a time you agreed to disagree Know your limits
(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
B-You are in charge of your choices
N-Have self-respect
N-Understand why you need the boundary
O-RAFT
G-Know your values
N-Tell us a time you crossed a boundary
I-Say a strong "NO!"
B-Describe your personal bubble
O-Use a support system
O-Don't absorb other's feelings
B-Address boundary violations early
I-Ask what you need at this time
G-Clearly state your thoughts & feelings
G-Is your family open with their feelings?
I-Don't apologize for setting a boundary
N-Don't say what is not true
G-Prevent isolation from others who can help
G-Trust your intuition
O-Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs
I-Clearly identify your boundary
I-How do you establish boundaries
B-Beware oversharing to everyone
B-Tell us a time you agreed to disagree
O-Know your limits