Don't apologize for setting a boundary Don't absorb other's feelings Have self- respect Use a support system Trust your intuition Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs You are in charge of your choices Know your limits RAFT Don't say what is not true Clearly identify your boundary Tell us a time you agreed to disagree Address boundary violations early Say a strong "NO!" How do you establish boundaries Clearly state your thoughts & feelings Tell us a time you crossed a boundary Know your values Prevent isolation from others who can help Understand why you need the boundary Ask what you need at this time Beware oversharing to everyone Is your family open with their feelings? Describe your personal bubble Don't apologize for setting a boundary Don't absorb other's feelings Have self- respect Use a support system Trust your intuition Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs You are in charge of your choices Know your limits RAFT Don't say what is not true Clearly identify your boundary Tell us a time you agreed to disagree Address boundary violations early Say a strong "NO!" How do you establish boundaries Clearly state your thoughts & feelings Tell us a time you crossed a boundary Know your values Prevent isolation from others who can help Understand why you need the boundary Ask what you need at this time Beware oversharing to everyone Is your family open with their feelings? Describe your personal bubble
(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
I-Don't apologize for setting a boundary
O-Don't absorb other's feelings
N-Have self-respect
O-Use a support system
G-Trust your intuition
O-Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs
B-You are in charge of your choices
O-Know your limits
O-RAFT
N-Don't say what is not true
I-Clearly identify your boundary
B-Tell us a time you agreed to disagree
B-Address boundary violations early
I-Say a strong "NO!"
I-How do you establish boundaries
G-Clearly state your thoughts & feelings
N-Tell us a time you crossed a boundary
G-Know your values
G-Prevent isolation from others who can help
N-Understand why you need the boundary
I-Ask what you need at this time
B-Beware oversharing to everyone
G-Is your family open with their feelings?
B-Describe your personal bubble