Ask what you need at this time RAFT Don't apologize for setting a boundary Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs Don't say what is not true Tell us a time you agreed to disagree Prevent isolation from others who can help Address boundary violations early Have self- respect Describe your personal bubble Clearly identify your boundary Understand why you need the boundary Trust your intuition Clearly state your thoughts & feelings Use a support system How do you establish boundaries Tell us a time you crossed a boundary Say a strong "NO!" Is your family open with their feelings? Beware oversharing to everyone Know your limits Don't absorb other's feelings Know your values You are in charge of your choices Ask what you need at this time RAFT Don't apologize for setting a boundary Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs Don't say what is not true Tell us a time you agreed to disagree Prevent isolation from others who can help Address boundary violations early Have self- respect Describe your personal bubble Clearly identify your boundary Understand why you need the boundary Trust your intuition Clearly state your thoughts & feelings Use a support system How do you establish boundaries Tell us a time you crossed a boundary Say a strong "NO!" Is your family open with their feelings? Beware oversharing to everyone Know your limits Don't absorb other's feelings Know your values You are in charge of your choices
(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
I-Ask what you need at this time
O-RAFT
I-Don't apologize for setting a boundary
O-Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs
N-Don't say what is not true
B-Tell us a time you agreed to disagree
G-Prevent isolation from others who can help
B-Address boundary violations early
N-Have self-respect
B-Describe your personal bubble
I-Clearly identify your boundary
N-Understand why you need the boundary
G-Trust your intuition
G-Clearly state your thoughts & feelings
O-Use a support system
I-How do you establish boundaries
N-Tell us a time you crossed a boundary
I-Say a strong "NO!"
G-Is your family open with their feelings?
B-Beware oversharing to everyone
O-Know your limits
O-Don't absorb other's feelings
G-Know your values
B-You are in charge of your choices