Step back when upset Controlling my reactions Ask how they feel Be honest kindly Show you care Interrupt talking Let them go first Breathe before reacting Encourage others Don’t listen Exclude on purpose Break promises Apologize sincerely Help each other No copying work Use kind words Celebrate success Include others No control Peer pressure Help clean up No secret pressure Ask before helping No apology given Take without asking Give compliments Build trust Say "Let’s talk" Hold the door Make fun Write a note Spread rumors Have fun together Stand up Accept apologies Respect choices Don't interrupt Talk, don’t yell Laugh & Play together Accept plan changes Refuse to share Use "I" statements Be yourself Feeling safe Respect belongings Say "I understand" Help a friend Give space Offer to share Ask how to help Safe to disagree Eye- rolling Respect feelings Support dreams Respect different opinions Gossiping Say "thank you" Ignore a friend Ask "What’s wrong?" Include everyone Ask before hugging Let friends choose Say "I don’t care" Listen first Say "I'm sorry" Listen to "no" Accepting of each other Check on friends Respect opinions Be patient Take turns Celebrate wins Listen patiently Express feelings calmly Laugh at mistakes Step back when upset Controlling my reactions Ask how they feel Be honest kindly Show you care Interrupt talking Let them go first Breathe before reacting Encourage others Don’t listen Exclude on purpose Break promises Apologize sincerely Help each other No copying work Use kind words Celebrate success Include others No control Peer pressure Help clean up No secret pressure Ask before helping No apology given Take without asking Give compliments Build trust Say "Let’s talk" Hold the door Make fun Write a note Spread rumors Have fun together Stand up Accept apologies Respect choices Don't interrupt Talk, don’t yell Laugh & Play together Accept plan changes Refuse to share Use "I" statements Be yourself Feeling safe Respect belongings Say "I understand" Help a friend Give space Offer to share Ask how to help Safe to disagree Eye- rolling Respect feelings Support dreams Respect different opinions Gossiping Say "thank you" Ignore a friend Ask "What’s wrong?" Include everyone Ask before hugging Let friends choose Say "I don’t care" Listen first Say "I'm sorry" Listen to "no" Accepting of each other Check on friends Respect opinions Be patient Take turns Celebrate wins Listen patiently Express feelings calmly Laugh at mistakes
(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
B-Step back when upset
O-Controlling my reactions
I-Ask how they feel
G-Be honest kindly
G-Show you care
N-Interrupt talking
I-Let them go first
G-Breathe before reacting
I-Encourage others
N-Don’t listen
N-Exclude on purpose
N-Break promises
O-Apologize sincerely
O-Help each other
B-No copying work
B-Use kind words
I-Celebrate success
I-Include others
O-No control
N-Peer pressure
I-Help clean up
B-No secret pressure
B-Ask before helping
N-No apology given
N-Take without asking
I-Give compliments
O-Build trust
G-Say "Let’s talk"
I-Hold the door
N-Make fun
I-Write a note
N-Spread rumors
O-Have fun together
I-Stand up
G-Accept apologies
O-Respect choices
B-Don't interrupt
G-Talk, don’t yell
O-Laugh & Play together
B-Accept plan changes
N-Refuse to share
G-Use "I" statements
O-Be yourself
O-Feeling safe
B-Respect belongings
B-Say "I understand"
I-Help a friend
B-Give space
I-Offer to share
G-Ask how to help
G-Safe to disagree
N-Eye-rolling
O-Respect feelings
O-Support dreams
G-Respect different opinions
N-Gossiping
I-Say "thank you"
N-Ignore a friend
G-Ask "What’s wrong?"
O-Include everyone
B-Ask before hugging
B-Let friends choose
N-Say "I don’t care"
G-Listen first
G-Say "I'm sorry"
B-Listen to "no"
O-Accepting of each other
I-Check on friends
B-Respect opinions
G-Be patient
B-Take turns
O-Celebrate wins
I-Listen patiently
G-Express feelings calmly
N-Laugh at mistakes