Name-calling, re-naming,creating heridentitySubuingher bythreateningothersPhysicalintimidation(withouttouching) /body languageHe is Kingof theCastleCreatingdependence/InfantilizationSexualizationCreating /controllingherreputationGaslighting:the abusewas justjokingControllingmovement /preventingescapeMale-Male"Honor" orcompetition =license touse/abuse herLack ofoptions forher createidentity as a"burden"Emotionaldomination/use of fearRejection byher = licensefor rage /retaliation /oth. bad bhvrThreatsHumiliation& shamingCreatingsituationswhere he isher saviorRefusal tohonor herlimits &boundariesStalking /pursuitdespite clearrejectionLimiting,denyingher choice/ decisionsGood-ol'-Boys Club /ganging up /male-sharedpowerRewardinginternalizedmisogynyon her partHecontrolsthemoneyCatfishing /fraud togain accessto herGaslighting:his choicesare her fault/ projectionIdealization/ puttingher on apedistalIsolationfromfriends/familyWomanas trophy/ object toobtainCreatingsituationswhere she mustbe polite /placate to besafeDesire forher = licensefor violence /bad behaviorEmotionalrollercoaster/ quick-changeemotionsControllingfood,sleep,healthHe wins overthe family (tosupport him /side againsther)Silencing /interrupting/ negatingGaslighting:she's crazyControlmasqueradingas"protection"Divide andConquer /set womenagainstwomenUnwantedtouching /physicalabuseGaslighting:She's"overreacting"Wearingher downtosubmissionGaslighting:his fictionsare factsHedefinesher rolesGaslighting:the abuseneverhappenedDemonization/ femaleagency asimmoralLove-bombingHypocrisy /the samerules andjudgementsdon't applyUncertainty /no logicalcause-and-effect to hisreactionsInappropriatejealosyFalseromance /using "love"asmanipulationName-calling, re-naming,creating heridentitySubuingher bythreateningothersPhysicalintimidation(withouttouching) /body languageHe is Kingof theCastleCreatingdependence/InfantilizationSexualizationCreating /controllingherreputationGaslighting:the abusewas justjokingControllingmovement /preventingescapeMale-Male"Honor" orcompetition =license touse/abuse herLack ofoptions forher createidentity as a"burden"Emotionaldomination/use of fearRejection byher = licensefor rage /retaliation /oth. bad bhvrThreatsHumiliation& shamingCreatingsituationswhere he isher saviorRefusal tohonor herlimits &boundariesStalking /pursuitdespite clearrejectionLimiting,denyingher choice/ decisionsGood-ol'-Boys Club /ganging up /male-sharedpowerRewardinginternalizedmisogynyon her partHecontrolsthemoneyCatfishing /fraud togain accessto herGaslighting:his choicesare her fault/ projectionIdealization/ puttingher on apedistalIsolationfromfriends/familyWomanas trophy/ object toobtainCreatingsituationswhere she mustbe polite /placate to besafeDesire forher = licensefor violence /bad behaviorEmotionalrollercoaster/ quick-changeemotionsControllingfood,sleep,healthHe wins overthe family (tosupport him /side againsther)Silencing /interrupting/ negatingGaslighting:she's crazyControlmasqueradingas"protection"Divide andConquer /set womenagainstwomenUnwantedtouching /physicalabuseGaslighting:She's"overreacting"Wearingher downtosubmissionGaslighting:his fictionsare factsHedefinesher rolesGaslighting:the abuseneverhappenedDemonization/ femaleagency asimmoralLove-bombingHypocrisy /the samerules andjudgementsdon't applyUncertainty /no logicalcause-and-effect to hisreactionsInappropriatejealosyFalseromance /using "love"asmanipulation

Taming of the Shrew Patriarchy/Coercion Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Name-calling, re-naming, creating her identity
  2. Subuing her by threatening others
  3. Physical intimidation (without touching) / body language
  4. He is King of the Castle
  5. Creating dependence / Infantilization
  6. Sexualization
  7. Creating / controlling her reputation
  8. Gaslighting: the abuse was just joking
  9. Controlling movement / preventing escape
  10. Male-Male "Honor" or competition = license to use/abuse her
  11. Lack of options for her create identity as a "burden"
  12. Emotional domination/ use of fear
  13. Rejection by her = license for rage / retaliation / oth. bad bhvr
  14. Threats
  15. Humiliation & shaming
  16. Creating situations where he is her savior
  17. Refusal to honor her limits & boundaries
  18. Stalking / pursuit despite clear rejection
  19. Limiting, denying her choice / decisions
  20. Good-ol'-Boys Club / ganging up / male-shared power
  21. Rewarding internalized misogyny on her part
  22. He controls the money
  23. Catfishing / fraud to gain access to her
  24. Gaslighting: his choices are her fault / projection
  25. Idealization / putting her on a pedistal
  26. Isolation from friends/family
  27. Woman as trophy / object to obtain
  28. Creating situations where she must be polite / placate to be safe
  29. Desire for her = license for violence / bad behavior
  30. Emotional rollercoaster / quick-change emotions
  31. Controlling food, sleep, health
  32. He wins over the family (to support him / side against her)
  33. Silencing / interrupting / negating
  34. Gaslighting: she's crazy
  35. Control masquerading as "protection"
  36. Divide and Conquer / set women against women
  37. Unwanted touching / physical abuse
  38. Gaslighting: She's "overreacting"
  39. Wearing her down to submission
  40. Gaslighting: his fictions are facts
  41. He defines her roles
  42. Gaslighting: the abuse never happened
  43. Demonization / female agency as immoral
  44. Love-bombing
  45. Hypocrisy / the same rules and judgements don't apply
  46. Uncertainty / no logical cause-and-effect to his reactions
  47. Inappropriate jealosy
  48. False romance / using "love" as manipulation