Emotionalrollercoaster/ quick-changeemotionsRewardinginternalizedmisogynyon her partSexualizationIsolationfromfriends/familyHe wins overthe family (tosupport him /side againsther)Refusal tohonor herlimits &boundariesInappropriatejealosyName-calling, re-naming,creating heridentityWomanas trophy/ object toobtainWearingher downtosubmissionIdealization/ puttingher on apedistalUncertainty /no logicalcause-and-effect to hisreactionsGaslighting:the abusewas justjokingCreatingsituationswhere he isher saviorLimiting,denyingher choice/ decisionsDemonization/ femaleagency asimmoralControllingfood,sleep,healthGaslighting:she's crazyGaslighting:his choicesare her fault/ projectionHecontrolsthemoneyCreatingsituationswhere she mustbe polite /placate to besafeHumiliation& shamingDivide andConquer /set womenagainstwomenSilencing /interrupting/ negatingFalseromance /using "love"asmanipulationGaslighting:his fictionsare factsPhysicalintimidation(withouttouching) /body languageHedefinesher rolesCatfishing /fraud togain accessto herStalking /pursuitdespite clearrejectionControllingmovement /preventingescapeMale-Male"Honor" orcompetition =license touse/abuse herGaslighting:She's"overreacting"Good-ol'-Boys Club /ganging up /male-sharedpowerDesire forher = licensefor violence /bad behaviorCreatingdependence/InfantilizationHypocrisy /the samerules andjudgementsdon't applyLack ofoptions forher createidentity as a"burden"Creating /controllingherreputationLove-bombingEmotionaldomination/use of fearThreatsRejection byher = licensefor rage /retaliation /oth. bad bhvrGaslighting:the abuseneverhappenedControlmasqueradingas"protection"Subuingher bythreateningothersUnwantedtouching /physicalabuseHe is Kingof theCastleEmotionalrollercoaster/ quick-changeemotionsRewardinginternalizedmisogynyon her partSexualizationIsolationfromfriends/familyHe wins overthe family (tosupport him /side againsther)Refusal tohonor herlimits &boundariesInappropriatejealosyName-calling, re-naming,creating heridentityWomanas trophy/ object toobtainWearingher downtosubmissionIdealization/ puttingher on apedistalUncertainty /no logicalcause-and-effect to hisreactionsGaslighting:the abusewas justjokingCreatingsituationswhere he isher saviorLimiting,denyingher choice/ decisionsDemonization/ femaleagency asimmoralControllingfood,sleep,healthGaslighting:she's crazyGaslighting:his choicesare her fault/ projectionHecontrolsthemoneyCreatingsituationswhere she mustbe polite /placate to besafeHumiliation& shamingDivide andConquer /set womenagainstwomenSilencing /interrupting/ negatingFalseromance /using "love"asmanipulationGaslighting:his fictionsare factsPhysicalintimidation(withouttouching) /body languageHedefinesher rolesCatfishing /fraud togain accessto herStalking /pursuitdespite clearrejectionControllingmovement /preventingescapeMale-Male"Honor" orcompetition =license touse/abuse herGaslighting:She's"overreacting"Good-ol'-Boys Club /ganging up /male-sharedpowerDesire forher = licensefor violence /bad behaviorCreatingdependence/InfantilizationHypocrisy /the samerules andjudgementsdon't applyLack ofoptions forher createidentity as a"burden"Creating /controllingherreputationLove-bombingEmotionaldomination/use of fearThreatsRejection byher = licensefor rage /retaliation /oth. bad bhvrGaslighting:the abuseneverhappenedControlmasqueradingas"protection"Subuingher bythreateningothersUnwantedtouching /physicalabuseHe is Kingof theCastle

Taming of the Shrew Patriarchy/Coercion Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Emotional rollercoaster / quick-change emotions
  2. Rewarding internalized misogyny on her part
  3. Sexualization
  4. Isolation from friends/family
  5. He wins over the family (to support him / side against her)
  6. Refusal to honor her limits & boundaries
  7. Inappropriate jealosy
  8. Name-calling, re-naming, creating her identity
  9. Woman as trophy / object to obtain
  10. Wearing her down to submission
  11. Idealization / putting her on a pedistal
  12. Uncertainty / no logical cause-and-effect to his reactions
  13. Gaslighting: the abuse was just joking
  14. Creating situations where he is her savior
  15. Limiting, denying her choice / decisions
  16. Demonization / female agency as immoral
  17. Controlling food, sleep, health
  18. Gaslighting: she's crazy
  19. Gaslighting: his choices are her fault / projection
  20. He controls the money
  21. Creating situations where she must be polite / placate to be safe
  22. Humiliation & shaming
  23. Divide and Conquer / set women against women
  24. Silencing / interrupting / negating
  25. False romance / using "love" as manipulation
  26. Gaslighting: his fictions are facts
  27. Physical intimidation (without touching) / body language
  28. He defines her roles
  29. Catfishing / fraud to gain access to her
  30. Stalking / pursuit despite clear rejection
  31. Controlling movement / preventing escape
  32. Male-Male "Honor" or competition = license to use/abuse her
  33. Gaslighting: She's "overreacting"
  34. Good-ol'-Boys Club / ganging up / male-shared power
  35. Desire for her = license for violence / bad behavior
  36. Creating dependence / Infantilization
  37. Hypocrisy / the same rules and judgements don't apply
  38. Lack of options for her create identity as a "burden"
  39. Creating / controlling her reputation
  40. Love-bombing
  41. Emotional domination/ use of fear
  42. Threats
  43. Rejection by her = license for rage / retaliation / oth. bad bhvr
  44. Gaslighting: the abuse never happened
  45. Control masquerading as "protection"
  46. Subuing her by threatening others
  47. Unwanted touching / physical abuse
  48. He is King of the Castle