Good-ol'-Boys Club /ganging up /male-sharedpowerEmotionaldomination/use of fearGaslighting:she's crazyEmotionalrollercoaster/ quick-changeemotionsCatfishing /fraud togain accessto herRejection byher = licensefor rage /retaliation /oth. bad bhvrWearingher downtosubmissionUncertainty /no logicalcause-and-effect to hisreactionsControlmasqueradingas"protection"Male-Male"Honor" orcompetition =license touse/abuse herCreatingsituationswhere she mustbe polite /placate to besafeName-calling, re-naming,creating heridentityRefusal tohonor herlimits &boundariesRewardinginternalizedmisogynyon her partInappropriatejealosyPhysicalintimidation(withouttouching) /body languageCreatingsituationswhere he isher saviorCreating /controllingherreputationDesire forher = licensefor violence /bad behaviorCreatingdependence/InfantilizationGaslighting:She's"overreacting"Hedefinesher rolesGaslighting:the abuseneverhappenedFalseromance /using "love"asmanipulationLack ofoptions forher createidentity as a"burden"Controllingmovement /preventingescapeGaslighting:his choicesare her fault/ projectionHumiliation& shamingHe wins overthe family (tosupport him /side againsther)SexualizationGaslighting:his fictionsare factsHypocrisy /the samerules andjudgementsdon't applyStalking /pursuitdespite clearrejectionLimiting,denyingher choice/ decisionsDivide andConquer /set womenagainstwomenGaslighting:the abusewas justjokingUnwantedtouching /physicalabuseHe is Kingof theCastleSilencing /interrupting/ negatingIsolationfromfriends/familyControllingfood,sleep,healthHecontrolsthemoneyThreatsIdealization/ puttingher on apedistalSubuingher bythreateningothersWomanas trophy/ object toobtainLove-bombingDemonization/ femaleagency asimmoralGood-ol'-Boys Club /ganging up /male-sharedpowerEmotionaldomination/use of fearGaslighting:she's crazyEmotionalrollercoaster/ quick-changeemotionsCatfishing /fraud togain accessto herRejection byher = licensefor rage /retaliation /oth. bad bhvrWearingher downtosubmissionUncertainty /no logicalcause-and-effect to hisreactionsControlmasqueradingas"protection"Male-Male"Honor" orcompetition =license touse/abuse herCreatingsituationswhere she mustbe polite /placate to besafeName-calling, re-naming,creating heridentityRefusal tohonor herlimits &boundariesRewardinginternalizedmisogynyon her partInappropriatejealosyPhysicalintimidation(withouttouching) /body languageCreatingsituationswhere he isher saviorCreating /controllingherreputationDesire forher = licensefor violence /bad behaviorCreatingdependence/InfantilizationGaslighting:She's"overreacting"Hedefinesher rolesGaslighting:the abuseneverhappenedFalseromance /using "love"asmanipulationLack ofoptions forher createidentity as a"burden"Controllingmovement /preventingescapeGaslighting:his choicesare her fault/ projectionHumiliation& shamingHe wins overthe family (tosupport him /side againsther)SexualizationGaslighting:his fictionsare factsHypocrisy /the samerules andjudgementsdon't applyStalking /pursuitdespite clearrejectionLimiting,denyingher choice/ decisionsDivide andConquer /set womenagainstwomenGaslighting:the abusewas justjokingUnwantedtouching /physicalabuseHe is Kingof theCastleSilencing /interrupting/ negatingIsolationfromfriends/familyControllingfood,sleep,healthHecontrolsthemoneyThreatsIdealization/ puttingher on apedistalSubuingher bythreateningothersWomanas trophy/ object toobtainLove-bombingDemonization/ femaleagency asimmoral

Taming of the Shrew Patriarchy/Coercion Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Good-ol'-Boys Club / ganging up / male-shared power
  2. Emotional domination/ use of fear
  3. Gaslighting: she's crazy
  4. Emotional rollercoaster / quick-change emotions
  5. Catfishing / fraud to gain access to her
  6. Rejection by her = license for rage / retaliation / oth. bad bhvr
  7. Wearing her down to submission
  8. Uncertainty / no logical cause-and-effect to his reactions
  9. Control masquerading as "protection"
  10. Male-Male "Honor" or competition = license to use/abuse her
  11. Creating situations where she must be polite / placate to be safe
  12. Name-calling, re-naming, creating her identity
  13. Refusal to honor her limits & boundaries
  14. Rewarding internalized misogyny on her part
  15. Inappropriate jealosy
  16. Physical intimidation (without touching) / body language
  17. Creating situations where he is her savior
  18. Creating / controlling her reputation
  19. Desire for her = license for violence / bad behavior
  20. Creating dependence / Infantilization
  21. Gaslighting: She's "overreacting"
  22. He defines her roles
  23. Gaslighting: the abuse never happened
  24. False romance / using "love" as manipulation
  25. Lack of options for her create identity as a "burden"
  26. Controlling movement / preventing escape
  27. Gaslighting: his choices are her fault / projection
  28. Humiliation & shaming
  29. He wins over the family (to support him / side against her)
  30. Sexualization
  31. Gaslighting: his fictions are facts
  32. Hypocrisy / the same rules and judgements don't apply
  33. Stalking / pursuit despite clear rejection
  34. Limiting, denying her choice / decisions
  35. Divide and Conquer / set women against women
  36. Gaslighting: the abuse was just joking
  37. Unwanted touching / physical abuse
  38. He is King of the Castle
  39. Silencing / interrupting / negating
  40. Isolation from friends/family
  41. Controlling food, sleep, health
  42. He controls the money
  43. Threats
  44. Idealization / putting her on a pedistal
  45. Subuing her by threatening others
  46. Woman as trophy / object to obtain
  47. Love-bombing
  48. Demonization / female agency as immoral