Lack ofoptions forher createidentity as a"burden"Womanas trophy/ object toobtainGaslighting:the abuseneverhappenedControllingmovement /preventingescapeCreatingdependence/InfantilizationSilencing /interrupting/ negatingHypocrisy /the samerules andjudgementsdon't applyGaslighting:she's crazySubuingher bythreateningothersLimiting,denyingher choice/ decisionsThreatsCreatingsituationswhere he isher saviorDemonization/ femaleagency asimmoralCatfishing /fraud togain accessto herGaslighting:his fictionsare factsCreating /controllingherreputationRejection byher = licensefor rage /retaliation /oth. bad bhvrHe is Kingof theCastleIdealization/ puttingher on apedistalMale-Male"Honor" orcompetition =license touse/abuse herControlmasqueradingas"protection"Unwantedtouching /physicalabuseEmotionalrollercoaster/ quick-changeemotionsIsolationfromfriends/familySexualizationUncertainty /no logicalcause-and-effect to hisreactionsDesire forher = licensefor violence /bad behaviorCreatingsituationswhere she mustbe polite /placate to besafeEmotionaldomination/use of fearDivide andConquer /set womenagainstwomenHe wins overthe family (tosupport him /side againsther)Wearingher downtosubmissionLove-bombingGood-ol'-Boys Club /ganging up /male-sharedpowerRewardinginternalizedmisogynyon her partName-calling, re-naming,creating heridentityControllingfood,sleep,healthGaslighting:the abusewas justjokingHedefinesher rolesStalking /pursuitdespite clearrejectionPhysicalintimidation(withouttouching) /body languageRefusal tohonor herlimits &boundariesHumiliation& shamingGaslighting:She's"overreacting"InappropriatejealosyFalseromance /using "love"asmanipulationGaslighting:his choicesare her fault/ projectionHecontrolsthemoneyLack ofoptions forher createidentity as a"burden"Womanas trophy/ object toobtainGaslighting:the abuseneverhappenedControllingmovement /preventingescapeCreatingdependence/InfantilizationSilencing /interrupting/ negatingHypocrisy /the samerules andjudgementsdon't applyGaslighting:she's crazySubuingher bythreateningothersLimiting,denyingher choice/ decisionsThreatsCreatingsituationswhere he isher saviorDemonization/ femaleagency asimmoralCatfishing /fraud togain accessto herGaslighting:his fictionsare factsCreating /controllingherreputationRejection byher = licensefor rage /retaliation /oth. bad bhvrHe is Kingof theCastleIdealization/ puttingher on apedistalMale-Male"Honor" orcompetition =license touse/abuse herControlmasqueradingas"protection"Unwantedtouching /physicalabuseEmotionalrollercoaster/ quick-changeemotionsIsolationfromfriends/familySexualizationUncertainty /no logicalcause-and-effect to hisreactionsDesire forher = licensefor violence /bad behaviorCreatingsituationswhere she mustbe polite /placate to besafeEmotionaldomination/use of fearDivide andConquer /set womenagainstwomenHe wins overthe family (tosupport him /side againsther)Wearingher downtosubmissionLove-bombingGood-ol'-Boys Club /ganging up /male-sharedpowerRewardinginternalizedmisogynyon her partName-calling, re-naming,creating heridentityControllingfood,sleep,healthGaslighting:the abusewas justjokingHedefinesher rolesStalking /pursuitdespite clearrejectionPhysicalintimidation(withouttouching) /body languageRefusal tohonor herlimits &boundariesHumiliation& shamingGaslighting:She's"overreacting"InappropriatejealosyFalseromance /using "love"asmanipulationGaslighting:his choicesare her fault/ projectionHecontrolsthemoney

Taming of the Shrew Patriarchy/Coercion Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Lack of options for her create identity as a "burden"
  2. Woman as trophy / object to obtain
  3. Gaslighting: the abuse never happened
  4. Controlling movement / preventing escape
  5. Creating dependence / Infantilization
  6. Silencing / interrupting / negating
  7. Hypocrisy / the same rules and judgements don't apply
  8. Gaslighting: she's crazy
  9. Subuing her by threatening others
  10. Limiting, denying her choice / decisions
  11. Threats
  12. Creating situations where he is her savior
  13. Demonization / female agency as immoral
  14. Catfishing / fraud to gain access to her
  15. Gaslighting: his fictions are facts
  16. Creating / controlling her reputation
  17. Rejection by her = license for rage / retaliation / oth. bad bhvr
  18. He is King of the Castle
  19. Idealization / putting her on a pedistal
  20. Male-Male "Honor" or competition = license to use/abuse her
  21. Control masquerading as "protection"
  22. Unwanted touching / physical abuse
  23. Emotional rollercoaster / quick-change emotions
  24. Isolation from friends/family
  25. Sexualization
  26. Uncertainty / no logical cause-and-effect to his reactions
  27. Desire for her = license for violence / bad behavior
  28. Creating situations where she must be polite / placate to be safe
  29. Emotional domination/ use of fear
  30. Divide and Conquer / set women against women
  31. He wins over the family (to support him / side against her)
  32. Wearing her down to submission
  33. Love-bombing
  34. Good-ol'-Boys Club / ganging up / male-shared power
  35. Rewarding internalized misogyny on her part
  36. Name-calling, re-naming, creating her identity
  37. Controlling food, sleep, health
  38. Gaslighting: the abuse was just joking
  39. He defines her roles
  40. Stalking / pursuit despite clear rejection
  41. Physical intimidation (without touching) / body language
  42. Refusal to honor her limits & boundaries
  43. Humiliation & shaming
  44. Gaslighting: She's "overreacting"
  45. Inappropriate jealosy
  46. False romance / using "love" as manipulation
  47. Gaslighting: his choices are her fault / projection
  48. He controls the money