TYPE OFRELATIONSHIP:ABUSIVERED FLAG:GETSJEALOUSWHEN YOUHAVE OTHERPLANSTO LOOK FOR:BALANCES OFGIVING ANDRECEIVINGRED FLAG:TELLSYOU WHATTO DOTYPE OFRELATIONSHIP:HEALTHYFree!NAME APERSONALRED FLAGOBSTACLES:DEFENSIVEANAVOIDANTCOPINGSTRATEGYMAKE A LISTOF THINGSTHAT FILLYOU UP ANDDRAIN YOUIF YOUFEEL LOST,WHAT CANYOU DO?BOUNDARIESWHAT MUSTRELATIONSHIPSHAVE?CONSENTTHIS IS ATYPE OFBOUNDARY.TYPE OFRELATIONSHIP:UNHEALTHYNAME APERSONALGREENFLAGBOUNDARY:ASKING WHATYOUNEED/WANTFROMOTHERSHOW CANYOU TEACHPEOPLE TOSHOW UPFOR YOU?RED ORGREENFLAG: THEYASK YOUQUESTIONS.GREENFLAG:BEINGABLE TOAPOLOGIZEGREENFLAG:ACCEPTINGSELF CARECAN BE ASSIMPLE ASTHISTYPE OFRELATIONSHIP:ABUSIVERED FLAG:GETSJEALOUSWHEN YOUHAVE OTHERPLANSTO LOOK FOR:BALANCES OFGIVING ANDRECEIVINGRED FLAG:TELLSYOU WHATTO DOTYPE OFRELATIONSHIP:HEALTHYFree!NAME APERSONALRED FLAGOBSTACLES:DEFENSIVEANAVOIDANTCOPINGSTRATEGYMAKE A LISTOF THINGSTHAT FILLYOU UP ANDDRAIN YOUIF YOUFEEL LOST,WHAT CANYOU DO?BOUNDARIESWHAT MUSTRELATIONSHIPSHAVE?CONSENTTHIS IS ATYPE OFBOUNDARY.TYPE OFRELATIONSHIP:UNHEALTHYNAME APERSONALGREENFLAGBOUNDARY:ASKING WHATYOUNEED/WANTFROMOTHERSHOW CANYOU TEACHPEOPLE TOSHOW UPFOR YOU?RED ORGREENFLAG: THEYASK YOUQUESTIONS.GREENFLAG:BEINGABLE TOAPOLOGIZEGREENFLAG:ACCEPTINGSELF CARECAN BE ASSIMPLE ASTHIS

RELATIONSHIPS! - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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G G
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B B
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G G
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I I
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N N
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B
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G G
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I I
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I I
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G G
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I I
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B B
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N N
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G G
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B B
  1. G-TYPE OF RELATIONSHIP: ABUSIVE
    G-
  2. B-
    B-RED FLAG: GETS JEALOUS WHEN YOU HAVE OTHER PLANS
  3. G-
    G-TO LOOK FOR: BALANCES OF GIVING AND RECEIVING
  4. I-
    I-RED FLAG: TELLS YOU WHAT TO DO
  5. N-TYPE OF RELATIONSHIP: HEALTHY
    N-
  6. B-Free!
  7. G-
    G-NAME A PERSONAL RED FLAG
  8. I-AN AVOIDANT COPING STRATEGY
    I-OBSTACLES: DEFENSIVE
  9. I-IF YOU FEEL LOST, WHAT CAN YOU DO?
    I-MAKE A LIST OF THINGS THAT FILL YOU UP AND DRAIN YOU
  10. G-WHAT MUST RELATIONSHIPS HAVE?
    G-BOUNDARIES
  11. I-THIS IS A TYPE OF BOUNDARY.
    I-CONSENT
  12. B-TYPE OF RELATIONSHIP: UNHEALTHY
    B-
  13. N-
    N-NAME A PERSONAL GREEN FLAG
  14. N-HOW CAN YOU TEACH PEOPLE TO SHOW UP FOR YOU?
    N-BOUNDARY: ASKING WHAT YOU NEED/WANT FROM OTHERS
  15. N-
    N-RED OR GREEN FLAG: THEY ASK YOU QUESTIONS.
  16. G-
    G-GREEN FLAG: BEING ABLE TO APOLOGIZE
  17. B-
    B-GREEN FLAG: ACCEPTING
  18. B-SELF CARE CAN BE AS SIMPLE AS THIS
    B-