BOUNDARY:ASKING WHATYOUNEED/WANTFROMOTHERSHOW CANYOU TEACHPEOPLE TOSHOW UPFOR YOU?MAKE A LISTOF THINGSTHAT FILLYOU UP ANDDRAIN YOUIF YOUFEEL LOST,WHAT CANYOU DO?TYPE OFRELATIONSHIP:ABUSIVEGREENFLAG:ACCEPTINGSELF CARECAN BE ASSIMPLE ASTHISNAME APERSONALRED FLAGTYPE OFRELATIONSHIP:UNHEALTHYNAME APERSONALGREENFLAGTO LOOK FOR:BALANCES OFGIVING ANDRECEIVINGOBSTACLES:DEFENSIVEANAVOIDANTCOPINGSTRATEGYBOUNDARIESWHAT MUSTRELATIONSHIPSHAVE?RED FLAG:GETSJEALOUSWHEN YOUHAVE OTHERPLANSTYPE OFRELATIONSHIP:HEALTHYRED ORGREENFLAG: THEYASK YOUQUESTIONS.Free!RED FLAG:TELLSYOU WHATTO DOCONSENTTHIS IS ATYPE OFBOUNDARY.GREENFLAG:BEINGABLE TOAPOLOGIZEBOUNDARY:ASKING WHATYOUNEED/WANTFROMOTHERSHOW CANYOU TEACHPEOPLE TOSHOW UPFOR YOU?MAKE A LISTOF THINGSTHAT FILLYOU UP ANDDRAIN YOUIF YOUFEEL LOST,WHAT CANYOU DO?TYPE OFRELATIONSHIP:ABUSIVEGREENFLAG:ACCEPTINGSELF CARECAN BE ASSIMPLE ASTHISNAME APERSONALRED FLAGTYPE OFRELATIONSHIP:UNHEALTHYNAME APERSONALGREENFLAGTO LOOK FOR:BALANCES OFGIVING ANDRECEIVINGOBSTACLES:DEFENSIVEANAVOIDANTCOPINGSTRATEGYBOUNDARIESWHAT MUSTRELATIONSHIPSHAVE?RED FLAG:GETSJEALOUSWHEN YOUHAVE OTHERPLANSTYPE OFRELATIONSHIP:HEALTHYRED ORGREENFLAG: THEYASK YOUQUESTIONS.Free!RED FLAG:TELLSYOU WHATTO DOCONSENTTHIS IS ATYPE OFBOUNDARY.GREENFLAG:BEINGABLE TOAPOLOGIZE

RELATIONSHIPS! - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. N-HOW CAN YOU TEACH PEOPLE TO SHOW UP FOR YOU?
    N-BOUNDARY: ASKING WHAT YOU NEED/WANT FROM OTHERS
  2. I-IF YOU FEEL LOST, WHAT CAN YOU DO?
    I-MAKE A LIST OF THINGS THAT FILL YOU UP AND DRAIN YOU
  3. G-TYPE OF RELATIONSHIP: ABUSIVE
    G-
  4. B-
    B-GREEN FLAG: ACCEPTING
  5. B-SELF CARE CAN BE AS SIMPLE AS THIS
    B-
  6. G-
    G-NAME A PERSONAL RED FLAG
  7. B-TYPE OF RELATIONSHIP: UNHEALTHY
    B-
  8. N-
    N-NAME A PERSONAL GREEN FLAG
  9. G-
    G-TO LOOK FOR: BALANCES OF GIVING AND RECEIVING
  10. I-AN AVOIDANT COPING STRATEGY
    I-OBSTACLES: DEFENSIVE
  11. G-WHAT MUST RELATIONSHIPS HAVE?
    G-BOUNDARIES
  12. B-
    B-RED FLAG: GETS JEALOUS WHEN YOU HAVE OTHER PLANS
  13. N-TYPE OF RELATIONSHIP: HEALTHY
    N-
  14. N-
    N-RED OR GREEN FLAG: THEY ASK YOU QUESTIONS.
  15. B-Free!
  16. I-
    I-RED FLAG: TELLS YOU WHAT TO DO
  17. I-THIS IS A TYPE OF BOUNDARY.
    I-CONSENT
  18. G-
    G-GREEN FLAG: BEING ABLE TO APOLOGIZE