Controlling ApologizeswhennecessaryStandsup foryouLying orkeepssecretsSharespowerequallyConstantcriticismTries tochange youor youchange forthemIskindListensto yourfeelingsPossessiveMakestime foryouThreatensto leaveor hurtyouIntimidatesyouSupportsgoalsMakesyou feelsafeIsolationGuilttripsEncouragementHonestGasightingDoesn't takeresponsibilityOpencommunicationPutsyoudownValuesyouropinionGivesyouspaceIntimidationCelebratessuccessTrustJealousyRespectControlling ApologizeswhennecessaryStandsup foryouLying orkeepssecretsSharespowerequallyConstantcriticismTries tochange youor youchange forthemIskindListensto yourfeelingsPossessiveMakestime foryouThreatensto leaveor hurtyouIntimidatesyouSupportsgoalsMakesyou feelsafeIsolationGuilttripsEncouragementHonestGasightingDoesn't takeresponsibilityOpencommunicationPutsyoudownValuesyouropinionGivesyouspaceIntimidationCelebratessuccessTrustJealousyRespect

Relationship Red and Green Flags - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Controlling
  2. Apologizes when necessary
  3. Stands up for you
  4. Lying or keeps secrets
  5. Shares power equally
  6. Constant criticism
  7. Tries to change you or you change for them
  8. Is kind
  9. Listens to your feelings
  10. Possessive
  11. Makes time for you
  12. Threatens to leave or hurt you
  13. Intimidates you
  14. Supports goals
  15. Makes you feel safe
  16. Isolation
  17. Guilt trips
  18. Encouragement
  19. Honest
  20. Gasighting
  21. Doesn't take responsibility
  22. Open communication
  23. Puts you down
  24. Values your opinion
  25. Gives you space
  26. Intimidation
  27. Celebrates success
  28. Trust
  29. Jealousy
  30. Respect