ApologizeswhennecessaryIntimidatesyouControlling Makesyou feelsafeEncouragementSupportsgoalsOpencommunicationGuilttripsMakestime foryouGivesyouspaceJealousyLying orkeepssecretsThreatensto leaveor hurtyouIskindDoesn't takeresponsibilityIsolationTries tochange youor youchange forthemTrustSharespowerequallyHonestListensto yourfeelingsPossessiveGasightingIntimidationRespectCelebratessuccessConstantcriticismPutsyoudownStandsup foryouValuesyouropinionApologizeswhennecessaryIntimidatesyouControlling Makesyou feelsafeEncouragementSupportsgoalsOpencommunicationGuilttripsMakestime foryouGivesyouspaceJealousyLying orkeepssecretsThreatensto leaveor hurtyouIskindDoesn't takeresponsibilityIsolationTries tochange youor youchange forthemTrustSharespowerequallyHonestListensto yourfeelingsPossessiveGasightingIntimidationRespectCelebratessuccessConstantcriticismPutsyoudownStandsup foryouValuesyouropinion

Relationship Red and Green Flags - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Apologizes when necessary
  2. Intimidates you
  3. Controlling
  4. Makes you feel safe
  5. Encouragement
  6. Supports goals
  7. Open communication
  8. Guilt trips
  9. Makes time for you
  10. Gives you space
  11. Jealousy
  12. Lying or keeps secrets
  13. Threatens to leave or hurt you
  14. Is kind
  15. Doesn't take responsibility
  16. Isolation
  17. Tries to change you or you change for them
  18. Trust
  19. Shares power equally
  20. Honest
  21. Listens to your feelings
  22. Possessive
  23. Gasighting
  24. Intimidation
  25. Respect
  26. Celebrates success
  27. Constant criticism
  28. Puts you down
  29. Stands up for you
  30. Values your opinion