MisgenderedSomeoneapologizes toyou and overlyexplains that it’shard for themRelativehesitatesbeforeaddressingyouA relative says“I neverwould’veguessed” likeit’s acomplimentNamespelledwrong ona cardA familymember over-enunciatesyour namelike it’s foreignRelativeavoids usingany name atall for youMom has todeflect aweirdcomment foryouDeadnamementionedYou laugh ata bad jokejust to avoidmaking it athingSomeonerefers toyour“lifestyle”Watchingthe timeGenderedcomplimentto youroutfitSomeonesays youhave a boldhaircutPronounsget correctedby someoneelseA pause aftersomeone says“niece” or“nephew” likethey caughtthemselvesSomeone says“It’s just hard tokeep up thesedays” to no onein particularYou notice afamily membertexting duringyourconversationSomeoneOvercompensatesA lingering look at yourtattoos/piercings/clotheswithout comment“You’resocreative”A family friendnervouslylaughs everytime youspeakYou get agenericholiday cardwith noname insideThe oneperson youexpected toget it wronggets it rightMisgenderedSomeoneapologizes toyou and overlyexplains that it’shard for themRelativehesitatesbeforeaddressingyouA relative says“I neverwould’veguessed” likeit’s acomplimentNamespelledwrong ona cardA familymember over-enunciatesyour namelike it’s foreignRelativeavoids usingany name atall for youMom has todeflect aweirdcomment foryouDeadnamementionedYou laugh ata bad jokejust to avoidmaking it athingSomeonerefers toyour“lifestyle”Watchingthe timeGenderedcomplimentto youroutfitSomeonesays youhave a boldhaircutPronounsget correctedby someoneelseA pause aftersomeone says“niece” or“nephew” likethey caughtthemselvesSomeone says“It’s just hard tokeep up thesedays” to no onein particularYou notice afamily membertexting duringyourconversationSomeoneOvercompensatesA lingering look at yourtattoos/piercings/clotheswithout comment“You’resocreative”A family friendnervouslylaughs everytime youspeakYou get agenericholiday cardwith noname insideThe oneperson youexpected toget it wronggets it right

Nonbinary at a Family Party - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Misgendered
  2. Someone apologizes to you and overly explains that it’s hard for them
  3. Relative hesitates before addressing you
  4. A relative says “I never would’ve guessed” like it’s a compliment
  5. Name spelled wrong on a card
  6. A family member over-enunciates your name like it’s foreign
  7. Relative avoids using any name at all for you
  8. Mom has to deflect a weird comment for you
  9. Deadname mentioned
  10. You laugh at a bad joke just to avoid making it a thing
  11. Someone refers to your “lifestyle”
  12. Watching the time
  13. Gendered compliment to your outfit
  14. Someone says you have a bold haircut
  15. Pronouns get corrected by someone else
  16. A pause after someone says “niece” or “nephew” like they caught themselves
  17. Someone says “It’s just hard to keep up these days” to no one in particular
  18. You notice a family member texting during your conversation
  19. Someone Overcompensates
  20. A lingering look at your tattoos/piercings/clothes without comment
  21. “You’re so creative”
  22. A family friend nervously laughs every time you speak
  23. You get a generic holiday card with no name inside
  24. The one person you expected to get it wrong gets it right