You notice afamily membertexting duringyourconversationSomeoneapologizes toyou and overlyexplains that it’shard for themMisgenderedThe oneperson youexpected toget it wronggets it rightSomeoneOvercompensates“You’resocreative”You laugh ata bad jokejust to avoidmaking it athingWatchingthe timeYou get agenericholiday cardwith noname insideA familymember over-enunciatesyour namelike it’s foreignGenderedcomplimentto youroutfitRelativeavoids usingany name atall for youA family friendnervouslylaughs everytime youspeakA pause aftersomeone says“niece” or“nephew” likethey caughtthemselvesA relative says“I neverwould’veguessed” likeit’s acomplimentMom has todeflect aweirdcomment foryouSomeonerefers toyour“lifestyle”Someonesays youhave a boldhaircutSomeone says“It’s just hard tokeep up thesedays” to no onein particularRelativehesitatesbeforeaddressingyouA lingering look at yourtattoos/piercings/clotheswithout commentDeadnamementionedNamespelledwrong ona cardPronounsget correctedby someoneelseYou notice afamily membertexting duringyourconversationSomeoneapologizes toyou and overlyexplains that it’shard for themMisgenderedThe oneperson youexpected toget it wronggets it rightSomeoneOvercompensates“You’resocreative”You laugh ata bad jokejust to avoidmaking it athingWatchingthe timeYou get agenericholiday cardwith noname insideA familymember over-enunciatesyour namelike it’s foreignGenderedcomplimentto youroutfitRelativeavoids usingany name atall for youA family friendnervouslylaughs everytime youspeakA pause aftersomeone says“niece” or“nephew” likethey caughtthemselvesA relative says“I neverwould’veguessed” likeit’s acomplimentMom has todeflect aweirdcomment foryouSomeonerefers toyour“lifestyle”Someonesays youhave a boldhaircutSomeone says“It’s just hard tokeep up thesedays” to no onein particularRelativehesitatesbeforeaddressingyouA lingering look at yourtattoos/piercings/clotheswithout commentDeadnamementionedNamespelledwrong ona cardPronounsget correctedby someoneelse

Nonbinary at a Family Party - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. You notice a family member texting during your conversation
  2. Someone apologizes to you and overly explains that it’s hard for them
  3. Misgendered
  4. The one person you expected to get it wrong gets it right
  5. Someone Overcompensates
  6. “You’re so creative”
  7. You laugh at a bad joke just to avoid making it a thing
  8. Watching the time
  9. You get a generic holiday card with no name inside
  10. A family member over-enunciates your name like it’s foreign
  11. Gendered compliment to your outfit
  12. Relative avoids using any name at all for you
  13. A family friend nervously laughs every time you speak
  14. A pause after someone says “niece” or “nephew” like they caught themselves
  15. A relative says “I never would’ve guessed” like it’s a compliment
  16. Mom has to deflect a weird comment for you
  17. Someone refers to your “lifestyle”
  18. Someone says you have a bold haircut
  19. Someone says “It’s just hard to keep up these days” to no one in particular
  20. Relative hesitates before addressing you
  21. A lingering look at your tattoos/piercings/clothes without comment
  22. Deadname mentioned
  23. Name spelled wrong on a card
  24. Pronouns get corrected by someone else