You get agenericholiday cardwith noname insideSomeonerefers toyour“lifestyle”Relativeavoids usingany name atall for youGenderedcomplimentto youroutfitA relative says“I neverwould’veguessed” likeit’s acomplimentA familymember over-enunciatesyour namelike it’s foreignWatchingthe timeRelativehesitatesbeforeaddressingyouMom has todeflect aweirdcomment foryouSomeoneOvercompensatesA family friendnervouslylaughs everytime youspeakA lingering look at yourtattoos/piercings/clotheswithout commentDeadnamementionedPronounsget correctedby someoneelseYou notice afamily membertexting duringyourconversationSomeonesays youhave a boldhaircutMisgenderedSomeoneapologizes toyou and overlyexplains that it’shard for themNamespelledwrong ona cardSomeone says“It’s just hard tokeep up thesedays” to no onein particularA pause aftersomeone says“niece” or“nephew” likethey caughtthemselvesYou laugh ata bad jokejust to avoidmaking it athingThe oneperson youexpected toget it wronggets it right“You’resocreative”You get agenericholiday cardwith noname insideSomeonerefers toyour“lifestyle”Relativeavoids usingany name atall for youGenderedcomplimentto youroutfitA relative says“I neverwould’veguessed” likeit’s acomplimentA familymember over-enunciatesyour namelike it’s foreignWatchingthe timeRelativehesitatesbeforeaddressingyouMom has todeflect aweirdcomment foryouSomeoneOvercompensatesA family friendnervouslylaughs everytime youspeakA lingering look at yourtattoos/piercings/clotheswithout commentDeadnamementionedPronounsget correctedby someoneelseYou notice afamily membertexting duringyourconversationSomeonesays youhave a boldhaircutMisgenderedSomeoneapologizes toyou and overlyexplains that it’shard for themNamespelledwrong ona cardSomeone says“It’s just hard tokeep up thesedays” to no onein particularA pause aftersomeone says“niece” or“nephew” likethey caughtthemselvesYou laugh ata bad jokejust to avoidmaking it athingThe oneperson youexpected toget it wronggets it right“You’resocreative”

Nonbinary at a Family Party - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. You get a generic holiday card with no name inside
  2. Someone refers to your “lifestyle”
  3. Relative avoids using any name at all for you
  4. Gendered compliment to your outfit
  5. A relative says “I never would’ve guessed” like it’s a compliment
  6. A family member over-enunciates your name like it’s foreign
  7. Watching the time
  8. Relative hesitates before addressing you
  9. Mom has to deflect a weird comment for you
  10. Someone Overcompensates
  11. A family friend nervously laughs every time you speak
  12. A lingering look at your tattoos/piercings/clothes without comment
  13. Deadname mentioned
  14. Pronouns get corrected by someone else
  15. You notice a family member texting during your conversation
  16. Someone says you have a bold haircut
  17. Misgendered
  18. Someone apologizes to you and overly explains that it’s hard for them
  19. Name spelled wrong on a card
  20. Someone says “It’s just hard to keep up these days” to no one in particular
  21. A pause after someone says “niece” or “nephew” like they caught themselves
  22. You laugh at a bad joke just to avoid making it a thing
  23. The one person you expected to get it wrong gets it right
  24. “You’re so creative”