You laugh ata bad jokejust to avoidmaking it athingPronounsget correctedby someoneelseSomeone says“It’s just hard tokeep up thesedays” to no onein particularNamespelledwrong ona cardDeadnamementionedA pause aftersomeone says“niece” or“nephew” likethey caughtthemselvesMom has todeflect aweirdcomment foryouYou get agenericholiday cardwith noname insideA familymember over-enunciatesyour namelike it’s foreignThe oneperson youexpected toget it wronggets it rightSomeoneOvercompensatesRelativeavoids usingany name atall for youSomeoneapologizes toyou and overlyexplains that it’shard for themGenderedcomplimentto youroutfitA lingering look at yourtattoos/piercings/clotheswithout commentSomeonesays youhave a boldhaircutA family friendnervouslylaughs everytime youspeakMisgenderedA relative says“I neverwould’veguessed” likeit’s acomplimentWatchingthe timeRelativehesitatesbeforeaddressingyouYou notice afamily membertexting duringyourconversationSomeonerefers toyour“lifestyle”“You’resocreative”You laugh ata bad jokejust to avoidmaking it athingPronounsget correctedby someoneelseSomeone says“It’s just hard tokeep up thesedays” to no onein particularNamespelledwrong ona cardDeadnamementionedA pause aftersomeone says“niece” or“nephew” likethey caughtthemselvesMom has todeflect aweirdcomment foryouYou get agenericholiday cardwith noname insideA familymember over-enunciatesyour namelike it’s foreignThe oneperson youexpected toget it wronggets it rightSomeoneOvercompensatesRelativeavoids usingany name atall for youSomeoneapologizes toyou and overlyexplains that it’shard for themGenderedcomplimentto youroutfitA lingering look at yourtattoos/piercings/clotheswithout commentSomeonesays youhave a boldhaircutA family friendnervouslylaughs everytime youspeakMisgenderedA relative says“I neverwould’veguessed” likeit’s acomplimentWatchingthe timeRelativehesitatesbeforeaddressingyouYou notice afamily membertexting duringyourconversationSomeonerefers toyour“lifestyle”“You’resocreative”

Nonbinary at a Family Party - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. You laugh at a bad joke just to avoid making it a thing
  2. Pronouns get corrected by someone else
  3. Someone says “It’s just hard to keep up these days” to no one in particular
  4. Name spelled wrong on a card
  5. Deadname mentioned
  6. A pause after someone says “niece” or “nephew” like they caught themselves
  7. Mom has to deflect a weird comment for you
  8. You get a generic holiday card with no name inside
  9. A family member over-enunciates your name like it’s foreign
  10. The one person you expected to get it wrong gets it right
  11. Someone Overcompensates
  12. Relative avoids using any name at all for you
  13. Someone apologizes to you and overly explains that it’s hard for them
  14. Gendered compliment to your outfit
  15. A lingering look at your tattoos/piercings/clothes without comment
  16. Someone says you have a bold haircut
  17. A family friend nervously laughs every time you speak
  18. Misgendered
  19. A relative says “I never would’ve guessed” like it’s a compliment
  20. Watching the time
  21. Relative hesitates before addressing you
  22. You notice a family member texting during your conversation
  23. Someone refers to your “lifestyle”
  24. “You’re so creative”