Relativeavoids usingany name atall for youSomeoneOvercompensatesA relative says“I neverwould’veguessed” likeit’s acomplimentDeadnamementionedYou get agenericholiday cardwith noname insideGenderedcomplimentto youroutfitThe oneperson youexpected toget it wronggets it rightNamespelledwrong ona cardSomeonerefers toyour“lifestyle”RelativehesitatesbeforeaddressingyouA family friendnervouslylaughs everytime youspeak“You’resocreative”A lingering look at yourtattoos/piercings/clotheswithout commentSomeonesays youhave a boldhaircutYou laugh ata bad jokejust to avoidmaking it athingSomeone says“It’s just hard tokeep up thesedays” to no onein particularA familymember over-enunciatesyour namelike it’s foreignYou notice afamily membertexting duringyourconversationPronounsget correctedby someoneelseWatchingthe timeSomeoneapologizes toyou and overlyexplains that it’shard for themMisgenderedA pause aftersomeone says“niece” or“nephew” likethey caughtthemselvesMom has todeflect aweirdcomment foryouRelativeavoids usingany name atall for youSomeoneOvercompensatesA relative says“I neverwould’veguessed” likeit’s acomplimentDeadnamementionedYou get agenericholiday cardwith noname insideGenderedcomplimentto youroutfitThe oneperson youexpected toget it wronggets it rightNamespelledwrong ona cardSomeonerefers toyour“lifestyle”RelativehesitatesbeforeaddressingyouA family friendnervouslylaughs everytime youspeak“You’resocreative”A lingering look at yourtattoos/piercings/clotheswithout commentSomeonesays youhave a boldhaircutYou laugh ata bad jokejust to avoidmaking it athingSomeone says“It’s just hard tokeep up thesedays” to no onein particularA familymember over-enunciatesyour namelike it’s foreignYou notice afamily membertexting duringyourconversationPronounsget correctedby someoneelseWatchingthe timeSomeoneapologizes toyou and overlyexplains that it’shard for themMisgenderedA pause aftersomeone says“niece” or“nephew” likethey caughtthemselvesMom has todeflect aweirdcomment foryou

Nonbinary at a Family Party - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Relative avoids using any name at all for you
  2. Someone Overcompensates
  3. A relative says “I never would’ve guessed” like it’s a compliment
  4. Deadname mentioned
  5. You get a generic holiday card with no name inside
  6. Gendered compliment to your outfit
  7. The one person you expected to get it wrong gets it right
  8. Name spelled wrong on a card
  9. Someone refers to your “lifestyle”
  10. Relative hesitates before addressing you
  11. A family friend nervously laughs every time you speak
  12. “You’re so creative”
  13. A lingering look at your tattoos/piercings/clothes without comment
  14. Someone says you have a bold haircut
  15. You laugh at a bad joke just to avoid making it a thing
  16. Someone says “It’s just hard to keep up these days” to no one in particular
  17. A family member over-enunciates your name like it’s foreign
  18. You notice a family member texting during your conversation
  19. Pronouns get corrected by someone else
  20. Watching the time
  21. Someone apologizes to you and overly explains that it’s hard for them
  22. Misgendered
  23. A pause after someone says “niece” or “nephew” like they caught themselves
  24. Mom has to deflect a weird comment for you