You ask,“Can I ventto you rightnow?” beforeunloadingA partnerlistens whenyou ask forspaceSomeone asks ifyou’re stillcomfortablehalfway throughphysicalexperience  You stop agame of playfighting whensomeonesays “Stop”Someonechecks inbefore sharingyour storywith othersYou offermultipleoptions insteadof pressuringoneYou askbeforeaddingsomeone toa group chatA friend asksbeforeborrowingyour stuff  You seesomeoneuncomfortableand help themexit thesituationYou tell yourfriend their jokecrossed a line—theyapologize andstopYour date says,“I’m not ready,”and you thankthem for beinghonest  A friendshares theirboundariesahead oftimeYou say “yes,”but laterchange yourmind—andthat’s okay  Saying “Idon’t wantto” isenoughYou say “nothanks” andthe personwalks awayrespectfullyYou ask afriend, “Do youwant to talk orjust chill insilence?”You support afriend whowas in anuncomfortablesituationYou makesure yourfriend isokay with agroup hugYour partnersays “Let’sslow down”and you say“Totally fine”You say “Nottoday” and yourpartnersuggests analternative planSomeonetells you theyneed a breakand yourespect itA personasks if acertainnickname isokayYou’re soberand your dateis not—youdon’t pursueanythingUnderstandingthat being in arelationship ≠automaticconsentYou ask,“Can I ventto you rightnow?” beforeunloadingA partnerlistens whenyou ask forspaceSomeone asks ifyou’re stillcomfortablehalfway throughphysicalexperience  You stop agame of playfighting whensomeonesays “Stop”Someonechecks inbefore sharingyour storywith othersYou offermultipleoptions insteadof pressuringoneYou askbeforeaddingsomeone toa group chatA friend asksbeforeborrowingyour stuff  You seesomeoneuncomfortableand help themexit thesituationYou tell yourfriend their jokecrossed a line—theyapologize andstopYour date says,“I’m not ready,”and you thankthem for beinghonest  A friendshares theirboundariesahead oftimeYou say “yes,”but laterchange yourmind—andthat’s okay  Saying “Idon’t wantto” isenoughYou say “nothanks” andthe personwalks awayrespectfullyYou ask afriend, “Do youwant to talk orjust chill insilence?”You support afriend whowas in anuncomfortablesituationYou makesure yourfriend isokay with agroup hugYour partnersays “Let’sslow down”and you say“Totally fine”You say “Nottoday” and yourpartnersuggests analternative planSomeonetells you theyneed a breakand yourespect itA personasks if acertainnickname isokayYou’re soberand your dateis not—youdon’t pursueanythingUnderstandingthat being in arelationship ≠automaticconsent

Consent Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. You ask, “Can I vent to you right now?” before unloading
  2. A partner listens when you ask for space
  3. Someone asks if you’re still comfortable halfway through physical experience
  4. You stop a game of play fighting when someone says “Stop”
  5. Someone checks in before sharing your story with others
  6. You offer multiple options instead of pressuring one
  7. You ask before adding someone to a group chat
  8. A friend asks before borrowing your stuff
  9. You see someone uncomfortable and help them exit the situation
  10. You tell your friend their joke crossed a line—they apologize and stop
  11. Your date says, “I’m not ready,” and you thank them for being honest
  12. A friend shares their boundaries ahead of time
  13. You say “yes,” but later change your mind—and that’s okay
  14. Saying “I don’t want to” is enough
  15. You say “no thanks” and the person walks away respectfully
  16. You ask a friend, “Do you want to talk or just chill in silence?”
  17. You support a friend who was in an uncomfortable situation
  18. You make sure your friend is okay with a group hug
  19. Your partner says “Let’s slow down” and you say “Totally fine”
  20. You say “Not today” and your partner suggests an alternative plan
  21. Someone tells you they need a break and you respect it
  22. A person asks if a certain nickname is okay
  23. You’re sober and your date is not—you don’t pursue anything
  24. Understanding that being in a relationship ≠ automatic consent