You ask afriend, “Do youwant to talk orjust chill insilence?”Saying “Idon’t wantto” isenoughYou say “yes,”but laterchange yourmind—andthat’s okay  You say “Nottoday” and yourpartnersuggests analternative planA friend asksbeforeborrowingyour stuff  A partnerlistens whenyou ask forspaceYou’re soberand your dateis not—youdon’t pursueanythingYou say “nothanks” andthe personwalks awayrespectfullyA friendshares theirboundariesahead oftimeYour date says,“I’m not ready,”and you thankthem for beinghonest  You askbeforeaddingsomeone toa group chatUnderstandingthat being in arelationship ≠automaticconsentYou seesomeoneuncomfortableand help themexit thesituationYou tell yourfriend their jokecrossed a line—theyapologize andstopSomeonetells you theyneed a breakand yourespect itYou ask,“Can I ventto you rightnow?” beforeunloadingYou makesure yourfriend isokay with agroup hugYou support afriend whowas in anuncomfortablesituationYou stop agame of playfighting whensomeonesays “Stop”Someonechecks inbefore sharingyour storywith othersYou offermultipleoptions insteadof pressuringoneA personasks if acertainnickname isokayYour partnersays “Let’sslow down”and you say“Totally fine”Someone asks ifyou’re stillcomfortablehalfway throughphysicalexperience  You ask afriend, “Do youwant to talk orjust chill insilence?”Saying “Idon’t wantto” isenoughYou say “yes,”but laterchange yourmind—andthat’s okay  You say “Nottoday” and yourpartnersuggests analternative planA friend asksbeforeborrowingyour stuff  A partnerlistens whenyou ask forspaceYou’re soberand your dateis not—youdon’t pursueanythingYou say “nothanks” andthe personwalks awayrespectfullyA friendshares theirboundariesahead oftimeYour date says,“I’m not ready,”and you thankthem for beinghonest  You askbeforeaddingsomeone toa group chatUnderstandingthat being in arelationship ≠automaticconsentYou seesomeoneuncomfortableand help themexit thesituationYou tell yourfriend their jokecrossed a line—theyapologize andstopSomeonetells you theyneed a breakand yourespect itYou ask,“Can I ventto you rightnow?” beforeunloadingYou makesure yourfriend isokay with agroup hugYou support afriend whowas in anuncomfortablesituationYou stop agame of playfighting whensomeonesays “Stop”Someonechecks inbefore sharingyour storywith othersYou offermultipleoptions insteadof pressuringoneA personasks if acertainnickname isokayYour partnersays “Let’sslow down”and you say“Totally fine”Someone asks ifyou’re stillcomfortablehalfway throughphysicalexperience  

Consent Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. You ask a friend, “Do you want to talk or just chill in silence?”
  2. Saying “I don’t want to” is enough
  3. You say “yes,” but later change your mind—and that’s okay
  4. You say “Not today” and your partner suggests an alternative plan
  5. A friend asks before borrowing your stuff
  6. A partner listens when you ask for space
  7. You’re sober and your date is not—you don’t pursue anything
  8. You say “no thanks” and the person walks away respectfully
  9. A friend shares their boundaries ahead of time
  10. Your date says, “I’m not ready,” and you thank them for being honest
  11. You ask before adding someone to a group chat
  12. Understanding that being in a relationship ≠ automatic consent
  13. You see someone uncomfortable and help them exit the situation
  14. You tell your friend their joke crossed a line—they apologize and stop
  15. Someone tells you they need a break and you respect it
  16. You ask, “Can I vent to you right now?” before unloading
  17. You make sure your friend is okay with a group hug
  18. You support a friend who was in an uncomfortable situation
  19. You stop a game of play fighting when someone says “Stop”
  20. Someone checks in before sharing your story with others
  21. You offer multiple options instead of pressuring one
  22. A person asks if a certain nickname is okay
  23. Your partner says “Let’s slow down” and you say “Totally fine”
  24. Someone asks if you’re still comfortable halfway through physical experience