You ask afriend, “Do youwant to talk orjust chill insilence?”You tell yourfriend their jokecrossed a line—theyapologize andstopSomeonechecks inbefore sharingyour storywith othersYou offermultipleoptions insteadof pressuringoneYou makesure yourfriend isokay with agroup hugA friend asksbeforeborrowingyour stuff  You support afriend whowas in anuncomfortablesituationYour date says,“I’m not ready,”and you thankthem for beinghonest  Someonetells you theyneed a breakand yourespect itYou ask,“Can I ventto you rightnow?” beforeunloadingYou say “yes,”but laterchange yourmind—andthat’s okay  You askbeforeaddingsomeone toa group chatYour partnersays “Let’sslow down”and you say“Totally fine”Saying “Idon’t wantto” isenoughYou stop agame of playfighting whensomeonesays “Stop”You seesomeoneuncomfortableand help themexit thesituationA friendshares theirboundariesahead oftimeYou say “nothanks” andthe personwalks awayrespectfullyA personasks if acertainnickname isokaySomeone asks ifyou’re stillcomfortablehalfway throughphysicalexperience  You’re soberand your dateis not—youdon’t pursueanythingYou say “Nottoday” and yourpartnersuggests analternative planA partnerlistens whenyou ask forspaceUnderstandingthat being in arelationship ≠automaticconsentYou ask afriend, “Do youwant to talk orjust chill insilence?”You tell yourfriend their jokecrossed a line—theyapologize andstopSomeonechecks inbefore sharingyour storywith othersYou offermultipleoptions insteadof pressuringoneYou makesure yourfriend isokay with agroup hugA friend asksbeforeborrowingyour stuff  You support afriend whowas in anuncomfortablesituationYour date says,“I’m not ready,”and you thankthem for beinghonest  Someonetells you theyneed a breakand yourespect itYou ask,“Can I ventto you rightnow?” beforeunloadingYou say “yes,”but laterchange yourmind—andthat’s okay  You askbeforeaddingsomeone toa group chatYour partnersays “Let’sslow down”and you say“Totally fine”Saying “Idon’t wantto” isenoughYou stop agame of playfighting whensomeonesays “Stop”You seesomeoneuncomfortableand help themexit thesituationA friendshares theirboundariesahead oftimeYou say “nothanks” andthe personwalks awayrespectfullyA personasks if acertainnickname isokaySomeone asks ifyou’re stillcomfortablehalfway throughphysicalexperience  You’re soberand your dateis not—youdon’t pursueanythingYou say “Nottoday” and yourpartnersuggests analternative planA partnerlistens whenyou ask forspaceUnderstandingthat being in arelationship ≠automaticconsent

Consent Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. You ask a friend, “Do you want to talk or just chill in silence?”
  2. You tell your friend their joke crossed a line—they apologize and stop
  3. Someone checks in before sharing your story with others
  4. You offer multiple options instead of pressuring one
  5. You make sure your friend is okay with a group hug
  6. A friend asks before borrowing your stuff
  7. You support a friend who was in an uncomfortable situation
  8. Your date says, “I’m not ready,” and you thank them for being honest
  9. Someone tells you they need a break and you respect it
  10. You ask, “Can I vent to you right now?” before unloading
  11. You say “yes,” but later change your mind—and that’s okay
  12. You ask before adding someone to a group chat
  13. Your partner says “Let’s slow down” and you say “Totally fine”
  14. Saying “I don’t want to” is enough
  15. You stop a game of play fighting when someone says “Stop”
  16. You see someone uncomfortable and help them exit the situation
  17. A friend shares their boundaries ahead of time
  18. You say “no thanks” and the person walks away respectfully
  19. A person asks if a certain nickname is okay
  20. Someone asks if you’re still comfortable halfway through physical experience
  21. You’re sober and your date is not—you don’t pursue anything
  22. You say “Not today” and your partner suggests an alternative plan
  23. A partner listens when you ask for space
  24. Understanding that being in a relationship ≠ automatic consent