Understandingthat being in arelationship ≠automaticconsentA friend asksbeforeborrowingyour stuff  You offermultipleoptions insteadof pressuringoneYou say “yes,”but laterchange yourmind—andthat’s okay  You say “nothanks” andthe personwalks awayrespectfullyA partnerlistens whenyou ask forspaceA friendshares theirboundariesahead oftimeYou stop agame of playfighting whensomeonesays “Stop”You makesure yourfriend isokay with agroup hugYou ask,“Can I ventto you rightnow?” beforeunloadingA personasks if acertainnickname isokayYou tell yourfriend their jokecrossed a line—theyapologize andstopSomeonechecks inbefore sharingyour storywith othersSomeone asks ifyou’re stillcomfortablehalfway throughphysicalexperience  You ask afriend, “Do youwant to talk orjust chill insilence?”Your date says,“I’m not ready,”and you thankthem for beinghonest  You askbeforeaddingsomeone toa group chatYou say “Nottoday” and yourpartnersuggests analternative planYour partnersays “Let’sslow down”and you say“Totally fine”Saying “Idon’t wantto” isenoughYou seesomeoneuncomfortableand help themexit thesituationYou support afriend whowas in anuncomfortablesituationSomeonetells you theyneed a breakand yourespect itYou’re soberand your dateis not—youdon’t pursueanythingUnderstandingthat being in arelationship ≠automaticconsentA friend asksbeforeborrowingyour stuff  You offermultipleoptions insteadof pressuringoneYou say “yes,”but laterchange yourmind—andthat’s okay  You say “nothanks” andthe personwalks awayrespectfullyA partnerlistens whenyou ask forspaceA friendshares theirboundariesahead oftimeYou stop agame of playfighting whensomeonesays “Stop”You makesure yourfriend isokay with agroup hugYou ask,“Can I ventto you rightnow?” beforeunloadingA personasks if acertainnickname isokayYou tell yourfriend their jokecrossed a line—theyapologize andstopSomeonechecks inbefore sharingyour storywith othersSomeone asks ifyou’re stillcomfortablehalfway throughphysicalexperience  You ask afriend, “Do youwant to talk orjust chill insilence?”Your date says,“I’m not ready,”and you thankthem for beinghonest  You askbeforeaddingsomeone toa group chatYou say “Nottoday” and yourpartnersuggests analternative planYour partnersays “Let’sslow down”and you say“Totally fine”Saying “Idon’t wantto” isenoughYou seesomeoneuncomfortableand help themexit thesituationYou support afriend whowas in anuncomfortablesituationSomeonetells you theyneed a breakand yourespect itYou’re soberand your dateis not—youdon’t pursueanything

Consent Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Understanding that being in a relationship ≠ automatic consent
  2. A friend asks before borrowing your stuff
  3. You offer multiple options instead of pressuring one
  4. You say “yes,” but later change your mind—and that’s okay
  5. You say “no thanks” and the person walks away respectfully
  6. A partner listens when you ask for space
  7. A friend shares their boundaries ahead of time
  8. You stop a game of play fighting when someone says “Stop”
  9. You make sure your friend is okay with a group hug
  10. You ask, “Can I vent to you right now?” before unloading
  11. A person asks if a certain nickname is okay
  12. You tell your friend their joke crossed a line—they apologize and stop
  13. Someone checks in before sharing your story with others
  14. Someone asks if you’re still comfortable halfway through physical experience
  15. You ask a friend, “Do you want to talk or just chill in silence?”
  16. Your date says, “I’m not ready,” and you thank them for being honest
  17. You ask before adding someone to a group chat
  18. You say “Not today” and your partner suggests an alternative plan
  19. Your partner says “Let’s slow down” and you say “Totally fine”
  20. Saying “I don’t want to” is enough
  21. You see someone uncomfortable and help them exit the situation
  22. You support a friend who was in an uncomfortable situation
  23. Someone tells you they need a break and you respect it
  24. You’re sober and your date is not—you don’t pursue anything