Understandingthat being in arelationship ≠automaticconsentYou support afriend whowas in anuncomfortablesituationYour date says,“I’m not ready,”and you thankthem for beinghonest  Someone asks ifyou’re stillcomfortablehalfway throughphysicalexperience  A partnerlistens whenyou ask forspaceYour partnersays “Let’sslow down”and you say“Totally fine”You seesomeoneuncomfortableand help themexit thesituationYou askbeforeaddingsomeone toa group chatA personasks if acertainnickname isokayYou’re soberand your dateis not—youdon’t pursueanythingYou ask,“Can I ventto you rightnow?” beforeunloadingSomeonechecks inbefore sharingyour storywith othersA friend asksbeforeborrowingyour stuff  You say “yes,”but laterchange yourmind—andthat’s okay  You tell yourfriend their jokecrossed a line—theyapologize andstopYou say “nothanks” andthe personwalks awayrespectfullyYou say “Nottoday” and yourpartnersuggests analternative planYou offermultipleoptions insteadof pressuringoneSomeonetells you theyneed a breakand yourespect itA friendshares theirboundariesahead oftimeYou makesure yourfriend isokay with agroup hugSaying “Idon’t wantto” isenoughYou ask afriend, “Do youwant to talk orjust chill insilence?”You stop agame of playfighting whensomeonesays “Stop”Understandingthat being in arelationship ≠automaticconsentYou support afriend whowas in anuncomfortablesituationYour date says,“I’m not ready,”and you thankthem for beinghonest  Someone asks ifyou’re stillcomfortablehalfway throughphysicalexperience  A partnerlistens whenyou ask forspaceYour partnersays “Let’sslow down”and you say“Totally fine”You seesomeoneuncomfortableand help themexit thesituationYou askbeforeaddingsomeone toa group chatA personasks if acertainnickname isokayYou’re soberand your dateis not—youdon’t pursueanythingYou ask,“Can I ventto you rightnow?” beforeunloadingSomeonechecks inbefore sharingyour storywith othersA friend asksbeforeborrowingyour stuff  You say “yes,”but laterchange yourmind—andthat’s okay  You tell yourfriend their jokecrossed a line—theyapologize andstopYou say “nothanks” andthe personwalks awayrespectfullyYou say “Nottoday” and yourpartnersuggests analternative planYou offermultipleoptions insteadof pressuringoneSomeonetells you theyneed a breakand yourespect itA friendshares theirboundariesahead oftimeYou makesure yourfriend isokay with agroup hugSaying “Idon’t wantto” isenoughYou ask afriend, “Do youwant to talk orjust chill insilence?”You stop agame of playfighting whensomeonesays “Stop”

Consent Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Understanding that being in a relationship ≠ automatic consent
  2. You support a friend who was in an uncomfortable situation
  3. Your date says, “I’m not ready,” and you thank them for being honest
  4. Someone asks if you’re still comfortable halfway through physical experience
  5. A partner listens when you ask for space
  6. Your partner says “Let’s slow down” and you say “Totally fine”
  7. You see someone uncomfortable and help them exit the situation
  8. You ask before adding someone to a group chat
  9. A person asks if a certain nickname is okay
  10. You’re sober and your date is not—you don’t pursue anything
  11. You ask, “Can I vent to you right now?” before unloading
  12. Someone checks in before sharing your story with others
  13. A friend asks before borrowing your stuff
  14. You say “yes,” but later change your mind—and that’s okay
  15. You tell your friend their joke crossed a line—they apologize and stop
  16. You say “no thanks” and the person walks away respectfully
  17. You say “Not today” and your partner suggests an alternative plan
  18. You offer multiple options instead of pressuring one
  19. Someone tells you they need a break and you respect it
  20. A friend shares their boundaries ahead of time
  21. You make sure your friend is okay with a group hug
  22. Saying “I don’t want to” is enough
  23. You ask a friend, “Do you want to talk or just chill in silence?”
  24. You stop a game of play fighting when someone says “Stop”