Ask whattheyneedShakehandsafter anargumentUse acalmvoiceDon’tblame –explainExplainhowyou feelAsk tostartoverPausebeforerespondingChoosetoforgiveSay, 'Canwe tryagain?'Listento howthey feltAsk forhelp whenstuckName theproblemtogetherOffer apeacefulsolutionTaketurnstalkingUseproblem-solvingstepsOffer awin-winsolutionTake abreak tocalmdownAsk totry againlaterBe thepeacemakerSay, 'Ididn’tmean tohurt you'Use atalkingstickTry tosee theirsideSay 'I’msorry' andmean itTalk toateacherSharewhat youlearnedfrom itUse an 'I'statementSay whatyou needcalmlySay whatyou coulddodifferentlyStay calmwhenothers areangryAsk whatwouldhelp nexttimeListenwithoutinterruptingWalkaway andcool offFind a waytocompromiseSay howyou’llhandle itbetterUsekindwordsUse 'Whenyou... Ifeel...'formatMake apeaceplanSay, 'Let’swork itout'WriteaboutwhathappenedSaysomethingkind aftera conflictAsk whattheyneedShakehandsafter anargumentUse acalmvoiceDon’tblame –explainExplainhowyou feelAsk tostartoverPausebeforerespondingChoosetoforgiveSay, 'Canwe tryagain?'Listento howthey feltAsk forhelp whenstuckName theproblemtogetherOffer apeacefulsolutionTaketurnstalkingUseproblem-solvingstepsOffer awin-winsolutionTake abreak tocalmdownAsk totry againlaterBe thepeacemakerSay, 'Ididn’tmean tohurt you'Use atalkingstickTry tosee theirsideSay 'I’msorry' andmean itTalk toateacherSharewhat youlearnedfrom itUse an 'I'statementSay whatyou needcalmlySay whatyou coulddodifferentlyStay calmwhenothers areangryAsk whatwouldhelp nexttimeListenwithoutinterruptingWalkaway andcool offFind a waytocompromiseSay howyou’llhandle itbetterUsekindwordsUse 'Whenyou... Ifeel...'formatMake apeaceplanSay, 'Let’swork itout'WriteaboutwhathappenedSaysomethingkind aftera conflict

Conflict Resolution Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Ask what they need
  2. Shake hands after an argument
  3. Use a calm voice
  4. Don’t blame – explain
  5. Explain how you feel
  6. Ask to start over
  7. Pause before responding
  8. Choose to forgive
  9. Say, 'Can we try again?'
  10. Listen to how they felt
  11. Ask for help when stuck
  12. Name the problem together
  13. Offer a peaceful solution
  14. Take turns talking
  15. Use problem-solving steps
  16. Offer a win-win solution
  17. Take a break to calm down
  18. Ask to try again later
  19. Be the peacemaker
  20. Say, 'I didn’t mean to hurt you'
  21. Use a talking stick
  22. Try to see their side
  23. Say 'I’m sorry' and mean it
  24. Talk to a teacher
  25. Share what you learned from it
  26. Use an 'I' statement
  27. Say what you need calmly
  28. Say what you could do differently
  29. Stay calm when others are angry
  30. Ask what would help next time
  31. Listen without interrupting
  32. Walk away and cool off
  33. Find a way to compromise
  34. Say how you’ll handle it better
  35. Use kind words
  36. Use 'When you... I feel...' format
  37. Make a peace plan
  38. Say, 'Let’s work it out'
  39. Write about what happened
  40. Say something kind after a conflict