(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
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mastered DARVO
emotional memory > documented facts
everything happens to them, never their fault
everyone in their life was abusive, controlling or neglectful
you have an emergency? be prepared to comfort *them*
discard when you struggle the most
weaponized therapy speech
holding grudges
no conflict resolution, they declare the final verdict
unable to celebrate your joys
"you make me feel unsafe"
constructing elaborate narratives
your boundary = attack on them
putting you in their future visions like
a prop
"you made me do it"
"I didn't mean to hurt you, so you have no right to be upset"
"I feel bad. it must be your fault"
forgetting everything you ever did for them
suspicious of others' success
performative activism and care – failing in reality
