no conflictresolution,they declarethe finalverdicteveryone intheir life wasabusive,controlling orneglectfuleverythinghappens tothem, nevertheir fault"youmake mefeelunsafe""youmademe do it"everyone isgood or bad,and theyMUST begoodputting youin their futurevisions likea propforgettingeverythingyou everdid for themyou have anemergency?be preparedto comfort*them*weaponizedtherapyspeech✨projection✨3amtraumadumpsstrongemotionsmistakenfor empathymasteredDARVOsuspiciousof others'successunable tocelebrateyour joysyourboundary= attackon them"I feelbad. itmust beyour fault"constructingelaboratenarrativesemotionalmemory >documentedfactsperformativeactivism andcare – failingin realityholdinggrudges"I didn'tmean to hurtyou, so youhave no rightto be upset"discardwhen youstrugglethe mostno conflictresolution,they declarethe finalverdicteveryone intheir life wasabusive,controlling orneglectfuleverythinghappens tothem, nevertheir fault"youmake mefeelunsafe""youmademe do it"everyone isgood or bad,and theyMUST begoodputting youin their futurevisions likea propforgettingeverythingyou everdid for themyou have anemergency?be preparedto comfort*them*weaponizedtherapyspeech✨projection✨3amtraumadumpsstrongemotionsmistakenfor empathymasteredDARVOsuspiciousof others'successunable tocelebrateyour joysyourboundary= attackon them"I feelbad. itmust beyour fault"constructingelaboratenarrativesemotionalmemory >documentedfactsperformativeactivism andcare – failingin realityholdinggrudges"I didn'tmean to hurtyou, so youhave no rightto be upset"discardwhen youstrugglethe most

bpd friend - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. no conflict resolution, they declare the final verdict
  2. everyone in their life was abusive, controlling or neglectful
  3. everything happens to them, never their fault
  4. "you make me feel unsafe"
  5. "you made me do it"
  6. everyone is good or bad, and they MUST be good
  7. putting you in their future visions like a prop
  8. forgetting everything you ever did for them
  9. you have an emergency? be prepared to comfort *them*
  10. weaponized therapy speech
  11. ✨ projection ✨
  12. 3am trauma dumps
  13. strong emotions mistaken for empathy
  14. mastered DARVO
  15. suspicious of others' success
  16. unable to celebrate your joys
  17. your boundary = attack on them
  18. "I feel bad. it must be your fault"
  19. constructing elaborate narratives
  20. emotional memory > documented facts
  21. performative activism and care – failing in reality
  22. holding grudges
  23. "I didn't mean to hurt you, so you have no right to be upset"
  24. discard when you struggle the most