(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
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"you make me feel unsafe"
everyone in their life was abusive, controlling or neglectful
forgetting everything you ever did for them
3am trauma dumps
your boundary = attack on them
unable to celebrate your joys
"I feel bad. it must be your fault"
no conflict resolution, they declare the final verdict
everyone is good or bad, and they MUST be good
putting you in their future visions like
a prop
suspicious of others' success
emotional memory > documented facts
everything happens to them, never their fault
strong emotions mistaken for empathy
discard when you struggle the most
you have an emergency? be prepared to comfort *them*
mastered DARVO
weaponized therapy speech
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projection
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"you made me do it"
"I didn't mean to hurt you, so you have no right to be upset"
performative activism and care – failing in reality
