(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
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everyone is good or bad, and they MUST be good
your boundary = attack on them
constructing elaborate narratives
performative activism and care – failing in reality
forgetting everything you ever did for them
mastered DARVO
"I feel bad. it must be your fault"
you have an emergency? be prepared to comfort *them*
strong emotions mistaken for empathy
discard when you struggle the most
3am trauma dumps
"you made me do it"
everything happens to them, never their fault
unable to celebrate your joys
weaponized therapy speech
everyone in their life was abusive, controlling or neglectful
"you make me feel unsafe"
emotional memory > documented facts
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projection
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"I didn't mean to hurt you, so you have no right to be upset"
suspicious of others' success
no conflict resolution, they declare the final verdict