ask howtheyfeelask whythey feelthat wayaskquestionseyecontact let themknowyou careempathizewith theirsituationsmilehandshakethink throughconsequenceshelp themthinkthroughtheir actionsvalidatetheirfeelingslistencommiseratelightenit up urgewisechoicesUse acomfortingvoicereassurethat theirfeelingsare normalsay whatyou mightdo in theirpositionask whatthey needfrom youLet themknow theyhavechoicesfist-bumpgive them anewperspectivemakepositivesuggestionsLet themknowyou'll bethereask howtheyfeelask whythey feelthat wayaskquestionseyecontact let themknowyou careempathizewith theirsituationsmilehandshakethink throughconsequenceshelp themthinkthroughtheir actionsvalidatetheirfeelingslistencommiseratelightenit up urgewisechoicesUse acomfortingvoicereassurethat theirfeelingsare normalsay whatyou mightdo in theirpositionask whatthey needfrom youLet themknow theyhavechoicesfist-bumpgive them anewperspectivemakepositivesuggestionsLet themknowyou'll bethere

Restorative Conversations - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. ask how they feel
  2. ask why they feel that way
  3. ask questions
  4. eye contact
  5. let them know you care
  6. empathize with their situation
  7. smile
  8. handshake
  9. think through consequences
  10. help them think through their actions
  11. validate their feelings
  12. listen
  13. commiserate
  14. lighten it up
  15. urge wise choices
  16. Use a comforting voice
  17. reassure that their feelings are normal
  18. say what you might do in their position
  19. ask what they need from you
  20. Let them know they have choices
  21. fist-bump
  22. give them a new perspective
  23. make positive suggestions
  24. Let them know you'll be there