askquestionssmilethink throughconsequencesLet themknowyou'll betherereassurethat theirfeelingsare normalLet themknow theyhavechoicessay whatyou mightdo in theirpositionhandshakehelp themthinkthroughtheir actionslightenit up makepositivesuggestionsurgewisechoiceslet themknowyou carefist-bumpask howtheyfeelUse acomfortingvoiceask whythey feelthat waylistenempathizewith theirsituationcommiserategive them anewperspectiveeyecontact validatetheirfeelingsask whatthey needfrom youaskquestionssmilethink throughconsequencesLet themknowyou'll betherereassurethat theirfeelingsare normalLet themknow theyhavechoicessay whatyou mightdo in theirpositionhandshakehelp themthinkthroughtheir actionslightenit up makepositivesuggestionsurgewisechoiceslet themknowyou carefist-bumpask howtheyfeelUse acomfortingvoiceask whythey feelthat waylistenempathizewith theirsituationcommiserategive them anewperspectiveeyecontact validatetheirfeelingsask whatthey needfrom you

Restorative Conversations - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. ask questions
  2. smile
  3. think through consequences
  4. Let them know you'll be there
  5. reassure that their feelings are normal
  6. Let them know they have choices
  7. say what you might do in their position
  8. handshake
  9. help them think through their actions
  10. lighten it up
  11. make positive suggestions
  12. urge wise choices
  13. let them know you care
  14. fist-bump
  15. ask how they feel
  16. Use a comforting voice
  17. ask why they feel that way
  18. listen
  19. empathize with their situation
  20. commiserate
  21. give them a new perspective
  22. eye contact
  23. validate their feelings
  24. ask what they need from you