Makes youlaugh andfeelcomfortableComplimentsyou sincerelyTries tocontrolyouEncouragesyour goalsBlamesyou fortheirfeelingsThreatensto leave orhurtthemselvesCommunicateshonestlyMakesyou feelsafeTries toisolateyouLies orhidesthingsPressuresyou to dothingsGives youthe silenttreatmentKeepspromisesSpreadsrumorsApologizeswhenwrongAccepts“no” withoutgettingupsetGets angrywhen youspend timewith othersCelebratesyoursuccessesGetsjealouseasilyChecksyour phonewithoutpermissionListenswhenyou talkMakesyou feelguiltyRespectsyourboundariesSupports yourindependenceMakes youlaugh andfeelcomfortableComplimentsyou sincerelyTries tocontrolyouEncouragesyour goalsBlamesyou fortheirfeelingsThreatensto leave orhurtthemselvesCommunicateshonestlyMakesyou feelsafeTries toisolateyouLies orhidesthingsPressuresyou to dothingsGives youthe silenttreatmentKeepspromisesSpreadsrumorsApologizeswhenwrongAccepts“no” withoutgettingupsetGets angrywhen youspend timewith othersCelebratesyoursuccessesGetsjealouseasilyChecksyour phonewithoutpermissionListenswhenyou talkMakesyou feelguiltyRespectsyourboundariesSupports yourindependence

Unhealthy v. Healthy Relationship - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Makes you laugh and feel comfortable
  2. Compliments you sincerely
  3. Tries to control you
  4. Encourages your goals
  5. Blames you for their feelings
  6. Threatens to leave or hurt themselves
  7. Communicates honestly
  8. Makes you feel safe
  9. Tries to isolate you
  10. Lies or hides things
  11. Pressures you to do things
  12. Gives you the silent treatment
  13. Keeps promises
  14. Spreads rumors
  15. Apologizes when wrong
  16. Accepts “no” without getting upset
  17. Gets angry when you spend time with others
  18. Celebrates your successes
  19. Gets jealous easily
  20. Checks your phone without permission
  21. Listens when you talk
  22. Makes you feel guilty
  23. Respects your boundaries
  24. Supports your independence