Makesyou feelsafeTries tocontrolyouBlamesyou fortheirfeelingsAccepts“no” withoutgettingupsetComplimentsyou sincerelyGets angrywhen youspend timewith othersSupports yourindependenceListenswhenyou talkLies orhidesthingsTries toisolateyouCelebratesyoursuccessesThreatensto leave orhurtthemselvesGetsjealouseasilyGives youthe silenttreatmentMakesyou feelguiltyEncouragesyour goalsPressuresyou to dothingsChecksyour phonewithoutpermissionCommunicateshonestlyRespectsyourboundariesSpreadsrumorsApologizeswhenwrongMakes youlaugh andfeelcomfortableKeepspromisesMakesyou feelsafeTries tocontrolyouBlamesyou fortheirfeelingsAccepts“no” withoutgettingupsetComplimentsyou sincerelyGets angrywhen youspend timewith othersSupports yourindependenceListenswhenyou talkLies orhidesthingsTries toisolateyouCelebratesyoursuccessesThreatensto leave orhurtthemselvesGetsjealouseasilyGives youthe silenttreatmentMakesyou feelguiltyEncouragesyour goalsPressuresyou to dothingsChecksyour phonewithoutpermissionCommunicateshonestlyRespectsyourboundariesSpreadsrumorsApologizeswhenwrongMakes youlaugh andfeelcomfortableKeepspromises

Unhealthy v. Healthy Relationship - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Makes you feel safe
  2. Tries to control you
  3. Blames you for their feelings
  4. Accepts “no” without getting upset
  5. Compliments you sincerely
  6. Gets angry when you spend time with others
  7. Supports your independence
  8. Listens when you talk
  9. Lies or hides things
  10. Tries to isolate you
  11. Celebrates your successes
  12. Threatens to leave or hurt themselves
  13. Gets jealous easily
  14. Gives you the silent treatment
  15. Makes you feel guilty
  16. Encourages your goals
  17. Pressures you to do things
  18. Checks your phone without permission
  19. Communicates honestly
  20. Respects your boundaries
  21. Spreads rumors
  22. Apologizes when wrong
  23. Makes you laugh and feel comfortable
  24. Keeps promises