Theypressure youto movefaster thanyou want.They wantyourpasswords orto read yourmessages.They onlywant tohang outlate at night.They flirtwith otherpeople rightin front ofyou.They getmad if youdon’t replyfast enough.They makeyou feelguilty forneedingalone time.They makefun of yourhobbies orspecialinterests.They copyyourinterests toimpress you.Theyalwayshave to“be right.”Theyinterruptyou or talkover you.They tryto tell youwhat towear.They makefun of yourclothing,appearance,or voice.They talkway moreaboutthemselvesthan you.They actdifferentwhen otherpeople arearound.They neverwant to meetyour friendsor family.Theycomplainabouteverything.Theyneverapologize.They say “Ilove you”after thefirst date.They use petnames toosoon (“babe”after 10minutes!).They ignoreyourboundaries.They sayall theirexes are“crazy.”They “joke”aboutbreakingup.They textyouconstantly tosee whatyou’re doing.Theynever askhow you’refeeling.They getjealous whenyou spendtime withfriends.They say “I’mjust beinghonest” aftersayingsomethingmean.They say“You’reoverreacting”when you’reupset.They postvague,dramaticthings onlineabout you.They“forget”plans alot.Theypressure youto movefaster thanyou want.They wantyourpasswords orto read yourmessages.They onlywant tohang outlate at night.They flirtwith otherpeople rightin front ofyou.They getmad if youdon’t replyfast enough.They makeyou feelguilty forneedingalone time.They makefun of yourhobbies orspecialinterests.They copyyourinterests toimpress you.Theyalwayshave to“be right.”Theyinterruptyou or talkover you.They tryto tell youwhat towear.They makefun of yourclothing,appearance,or voice.They talkway moreaboutthemselvesthan you.They actdifferentwhen otherpeople arearound.They neverwant to meetyour friendsor family.Theycomplainabouteverything.Theyneverapologize.They say “Ilove you”after thefirst date.They use petnames toosoon (“babe”after 10minutes!).They ignoreyourboundaries.They sayall theirexes are“crazy.”They “joke”aboutbreakingup.They textyouconstantly tosee whatyou’re doing.Theynever askhow you’refeeling.They getjealous whenyou spendtime withfriends.They say “I’mjust beinghonest” aftersayingsomethingmean.They say“You’reoverreacting”when you’reupset.They postvague,dramaticthings onlineabout you.They“forget”plans alot.

Red Flag Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. They pressure you to move faster than you want.
  2. They want your passwords or to read your messages.
  3. They only want to hang out late at night.
  4. They flirt with other people right in front of you.
  5. They get mad if you don’t reply fast enough.
  6. They make you feel guilty for needing alone time.
  7. They make fun of your hobbies or special interests.
  8. They copy your interests to impress you.
  9. They always have to “be right.”
  10. They interrupt you or talk over you.
  11. They try to tell you what to wear.
  12. They make fun of your clothing, appearance, or voice.
  13. They talk way more about themselves than you.
  14. They act different when other people are around.
  15. They never want to meet your friends or family.
  16. They complain about everything.
  17. They never apologize.
  18. They say “I love you” after the first date.
  19. They use pet names too soon (“babe” after 10 minutes!).
  20. They ignore your boundaries.
  21. They say all their exes are “crazy.”
  22. They “joke” about breaking up.
  23. They text you constantly to see what you’re doing.
  24. They never ask how you’re feeling.
  25. They get jealous when you spend time with friends.
  26. They say “I’m just being honest” after saying something mean.
  27. They say “You’re overreacting” when you’re upset.
  28. They post vague, dramatic things online about you.
  29. They “forget” plans a lot.