Asks aboutMel’s mentalhealth, in anaccusatory nothelpful way!Needs to beparented tocomplete asimple task!MentionsBaxter’sMedication!VeryOvertRacism!States‘I’m aterriblemother!’Expects usto pay forsomething!Tells Mel tostop pickingher face! ORpoints atMel's scars!Asks about ‘yourfather’ meaningJack! ANDindicates that weare looking afterhim well!LessOvertRacism!Disrespectsourboundaries!States ‘it isnone of mybusinessBUT … ’!Actively avoidsparenting ORgrandparenting!Packs yourbags for a guilttrip for notspendingenough timewith them!Denies thatthere was aconversationaboutsomething -Free topic!Is late forsomethingplanned inadvance!Talks aboutspendingmoney on nonessentials butalso mentionsbeing broke!Complains aboutthe safety of thechildren during anactivity that theyare not activelyparticipating in, butrelying on us!Complainsaboutanotheradult!Tells us to‘leave himor heralone’!Mentionssomethingnegativeabout thetrip!Mentions somethingnegative about thefreeaccommodation!ORMentions we arestaying in Narooma!Complainsabout beingbroke ORindicates thatwe are ‘rich’!MentionsMel's nails.Can bepositive ornegative!Playsthevictim!Asks aboutMel’s mentalhealth, in anaccusatory nothelpful way!Needs to beparented tocomplete asimple task!MentionsBaxter’sMedication!VeryOvertRacism!States‘I’m aterriblemother!’Expects usto pay forsomething!Tells Mel tostop pickingher face! ORpoints atMel's scars!Asks about ‘yourfather’ meaningJack! ANDindicates that weare looking afterhim well!LessOvertRacism!Disrespectsourboundaries!States ‘it isnone of mybusinessBUT … ’!Actively avoidsparenting ORgrandparenting!Packs yourbags for a guilttrip for notspendingenough timewith them!Denies thatthere was aconversationaboutsomething -Free topic!Is late forsomethingplanned inadvance!Talks aboutspendingmoney on nonessentials butalso mentionsbeing broke!Complains aboutthe safety of thechildren during anactivity that theyare not activelyparticipating in, butrelying on us!Complainsaboutanotheradult!Tells us to‘leave himor heralone’!Mentionssomethingnegativeabout thetrip!Mentions somethingnegative about thefreeaccommodation!ORMentions we arestaying in Narooma!Complainsabout beingbroke ORindicates thatwe are ‘rich’!MentionsMel's nails.Can bepositive ornegative!Playsthevictim!

TOXIC Family Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Asks about Mel’s mental health, in an accusatory not helpful way!
  2. Needs to be parented to complete a simple task!
  3. Mentions Baxter’s Medication!
  4. Very Overt Racism!
  5. States ‘I’m a terrible mother!’
  6. Expects us to pay for something!
  7. Tells Mel to stop picking her face! OR points at Mel's scars!
  8. Asks about ‘your father’ meaning Jack! AND indicates that we are looking after him well!
  9. Less Overt Racism!
  10. Disrespects our boundaries!
  11. States ‘it is none of my business BUT … ’!
  12. Actively avoids parenting OR grandparenting!
  13. Packs your bags for a guilt trip for not spending enough time with them!
  14. Denies that there was a conversation about something - Free topic!
  15. Is late for something planned in advance!
  16. Talks about spending money on non essentials but also mentions being broke!
  17. Complains about the safety of the children during an activity that they are not actively participating in, but relying on us!
  18. Complains about another adult!
  19. Tells us to ‘leave him or her alone’!
  20. Mentions something negative about the trip!
  21. Mentions something negative about the free accommodation! OR Mentions we are staying in Narooma!
  22. Complains about being broke OR indicates that we are ‘rich’!
  23. Mentions Mel's nails. Can be positive or negative!
  24. Plays the victim!