Actively avoidsparenting ORgrandparenting!Asks aboutMel’s mentalhealth, in anaccusatory nothelpful way!Talks aboutspendingmoney on nonessentials butalso mentionsbeing broke!Mentionssomethingnegativeabout thetrip!Needs to beparented tocomplete asimple task!MentionsMel's nails.Can bepositive ornegative!Denies thatthere was aconversationaboutsomething -Free topic!Tells us to‘leave himor heralone’!Tells Mel tostop pickingher face! ORpoints atMel's scars!MentionsBaxter’sMedication!Playsthevictim!VeryOvertRacism!Packs yourbags for a guilttrip for notspendingenough timewith them!States‘I’m aterriblemother!’LessOvertRacism!Disrespectsourboundaries!Mentions somethingnegative about thefreeaccommodation!ORMentions we arestaying in Narooma!States ‘it isnone of mybusinessBUT … ’!Is late forsomethingplanned inadvance!Asks about ‘yourfather’ meaningJack! ANDindicates that weare looking afterhim well!Expects usto pay forsomething!Complainsabout beingbroke ORindicates thatwe are ‘rich’!Complainsaboutanotheradult!Complains aboutthe safety of thechildren during anactivity that theyare not activelyparticipating in, butrelying on us!Actively avoidsparenting ORgrandparenting!Asks aboutMel’s mentalhealth, in anaccusatory nothelpful way!Talks aboutspendingmoney on nonessentials butalso mentionsbeing broke!Mentionssomethingnegativeabout thetrip!Needs to beparented tocomplete asimple task!MentionsMel's nails.Can bepositive ornegative!Denies thatthere was aconversationaboutsomething -Free topic!Tells us to‘leave himor heralone’!Tells Mel tostop pickingher face! ORpoints atMel's scars!MentionsBaxter’sMedication!Playsthevictim!VeryOvertRacism!Packs yourbags for a guilttrip for notspendingenough timewith them!States‘I’m aterriblemother!’LessOvertRacism!Disrespectsourboundaries!Mentions somethingnegative about thefreeaccommodation!ORMentions we arestaying in Narooma!States ‘it isnone of mybusinessBUT … ’!Is late forsomethingplanned inadvance!Asks about ‘yourfather’ meaningJack! ANDindicates that weare looking afterhim well!Expects usto pay forsomething!Complainsabout beingbroke ORindicates thatwe are ‘rich’!Complainsaboutanotheradult!Complains aboutthe safety of thechildren during anactivity that theyare not activelyparticipating in, butrelying on us!

TOXIC Family Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Actively avoids parenting OR grandparenting!
  2. Asks about Mel’s mental health, in an accusatory not helpful way!
  3. Talks about spending money on non essentials but also mentions being broke!
  4. Mentions something negative about the trip!
  5. Needs to be parented to complete a simple task!
  6. Mentions Mel's nails. Can be positive or negative!
  7. Denies that there was a conversation about something - Free topic!
  8. Tells us to ‘leave him or her alone’!
  9. Tells Mel to stop picking her face! OR points at Mel's scars!
  10. Mentions Baxter’s Medication!
  11. Plays the victim!
  12. Very Overt Racism!
  13. Packs your bags for a guilt trip for not spending enough time with them!
  14. States ‘I’m a terrible mother!’
  15. Less Overt Racism!
  16. Disrespects our boundaries!
  17. Mentions something negative about the free accommodation! OR Mentions we are staying in Narooma!
  18. States ‘it is none of my business BUT … ’!
  19. Is late for something planned in advance!
  20. Asks about ‘your father’ meaning Jack! AND indicates that we are looking after him well!
  21. Expects us to pay for something!
  22. Complains about being broke OR indicates that we are ‘rich’!
  23. Complains about another adult!
  24. Complains about the safety of the children during an activity that they are not actively participating in, but relying on us!