Is late forsomethingplanned inadvance!Playsthevictim!Denies thatthere was aconversationaboutsomething -Free topic!Packs yourbags for a guilttrip for notspendingenough timewith them!Mentionssomethingnegativeabout thetrip!Mentions somethingnegative about thefreeaccommodation!ORMentions we arestaying in Narooma!Complainsabout beingbroke ORindicates thatwe are ‘rich’!MentionsBaxter’sMedication!Tells us to‘leave himor heralone’!States ‘it isnone of mybusinessBUT … ’!Expects usto pay forsomething!Tells Mel tostop pickingher face! ORpoints atMel's scars!MentionsMel's nails.Can bepositive ornegative!Disrespectsourboundaries!LessOvertRacism!Complainsaboutanotheradult!Talks aboutspendingmoney on nonessentials butalso mentionsbeing broke!Asks about ‘yourfather’ meaningJack! ANDindicates that weare looking afterhim well!Asks aboutMel’s mentalhealth, in anaccusatory nothelpful way!Actively avoidsparenting ORgrandparenting!Complains aboutthe safety of thechildren during anactivity that theyare not activelyparticipating in, butrelying on us!Needs to beparented tocomplete asimple task!States‘I’m aterriblemother!’VeryOvertRacism!Is late forsomethingplanned inadvance!Playsthevictim!Denies thatthere was aconversationaboutsomething -Free topic!Packs yourbags for a guilttrip for notspendingenough timewith them!Mentionssomethingnegativeabout thetrip!Mentions somethingnegative about thefreeaccommodation!ORMentions we arestaying in Narooma!Complainsabout beingbroke ORindicates thatwe are ‘rich’!MentionsBaxter’sMedication!Tells us to‘leave himor heralone’!States ‘it isnone of mybusinessBUT … ’!Expects usto pay forsomething!Tells Mel tostop pickingher face! ORpoints atMel's scars!MentionsMel's nails.Can bepositive ornegative!Disrespectsourboundaries!LessOvertRacism!Complainsaboutanotheradult!Talks aboutspendingmoney on nonessentials butalso mentionsbeing broke!Asks about ‘yourfather’ meaningJack! ANDindicates that weare looking afterhim well!Asks aboutMel’s mentalhealth, in anaccusatory nothelpful way!Actively avoidsparenting ORgrandparenting!Complains aboutthe safety of thechildren during anactivity that theyare not activelyparticipating in, butrelying on us!Needs to beparented tocomplete asimple task!States‘I’m aterriblemother!’VeryOvertRacism!

TOXIC Family Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Is late for something planned in advance!
  2. Plays the victim!
  3. Denies that there was a conversation about something - Free topic!
  4. Packs your bags for a guilt trip for not spending enough time with them!
  5. Mentions something negative about the trip!
  6. Mentions something negative about the free accommodation! OR Mentions we are staying in Narooma!
  7. Complains about being broke OR indicates that we are ‘rich’!
  8. Mentions Baxter’s Medication!
  9. Tells us to ‘leave him or her alone’!
  10. States ‘it is none of my business BUT … ’!
  11. Expects us to pay for something!
  12. Tells Mel to stop picking her face! OR points at Mel's scars!
  13. Mentions Mel's nails. Can be positive or negative!
  14. Disrespects our boundaries!
  15. Less Overt Racism!
  16. Complains about another adult!
  17. Talks about spending money on non essentials but also mentions being broke!
  18. Asks about ‘your father’ meaning Jack! AND indicates that we are looking after him well!
  19. Asks about Mel’s mental health, in an accusatory not helpful way!
  20. Actively avoids parenting OR grandparenting!
  21. Complains about the safety of the children during an activity that they are not actively participating in, but relying on us!
  22. Needs to be parented to complete a simple task!
  23. States ‘I’m a terrible mother!’
  24. Very Overt Racism!