Supporting them in making the decision best for them Pressure or force to do things you don’t want to do Spending time together & reminding them they aren’t alone Reminders that abuse is not their fault Telling someone what to wear or not wear Believing someone when they share they are being hurt or abused Being encouraging & supportive Not communicating Unwanted, pressured, or forced physical contact Inequality (one partner’s feelings, goals, and desires always come first) Stalking Not taking responsibility for abusive behavior Physical harm (hitting, pushing, throwing things) Put downs & insults Listening Apologizing for mistakes and hurtful behavior Threatening to spread rumors or actually spreading rumors Respecting boundaries (physical, emotional, digital, sexual) Limiting time with friends & family Moving at a comfortable pace Yelling & screaming Compromise Supportive adults & friends to talk to Valuing each other’s feelings Asking for consent Dishonesty Extreme jealousy Dismissing feelings or concerns Building each other up Taking responsibility Mutual respect Not being considerate of feelings or boundaries Mutual respect Trust Honesty Feeling unsafe or scared Using social media to track activities or friends Verbal or physical threats Feeling like you can be yourself Checking In Righttobe.org Communication that is hurtful or threatening Validate their feelings Only spending time with each other Learning each other’s boundaries Supporting one another Communication Happiness & fun Pushing boundaries Making time for yourself & self-care Safety & support Being yourself Asking what you can do to offer support Making decisions together Supporting interests & goals Patience & understanding Communicating about feelings or concerns Be patient Enjoying time together and apart Safety planning Pressure to share passwords & passcodes Looking through phone, social media, or email without consent Hcwc.org Fairness & equality Threatening to hurt themselves if you break up Pressure to change or feeling like you have to change to be accepted Respecting boundaries & everyone’s right to say no Loveisrespect.org Lack of trust Holding each other to the same standards Supporting them in making the decision best for them Pressure or force to do things you don’t want to do Spending time together & reminding them they aren’t alone Reminders that abuse is not their fault Telling someone what to wear or not wear Believing someone when they share they are being hurt or abused Being encouraging & supportive Not communicating Unwanted, pressured, or forced physical contact Inequality (one partner’s feelings, goals, and desires always come first) Stalking Not taking responsibility for abusive behavior Physical harm (hitting, pushing, throwing things) Put downs & insults Listening Apologizing for mistakes and hurtful behavior Threatening to spread rumors or actually spreading rumors Respecting boundaries (physical, emotional, digital, sexual) Limiting time with friends & family Moving at a comfortable pace Yelling & screaming Compromise Supportive adults & friends to talk to Valuing each other’s feelings Asking for consent Dishonesty Extreme jealousy Dismissing feelings or concerns Building each other up Taking responsibility Mutual respect Not being considerate of feelings or boundaries Mutual respect Trust Honesty Feeling unsafe or scared Using social media to track activities or friends Verbal or physical threats Feeling like you can be yourself Checking In Righttobe.org Communication that is hurtful or threatening Validate their feelings Only spending time with each other Learning each other’s boundaries Supporting one another Communication Happiness & fun Pushing boundaries Making time for yourself & self-care Safety & support Being yourself Asking what you can do to offer support Making decisions together Supporting interests & goals Patience & understanding Communicating about feelings or concerns Be patient Enjoying time together and apart Safety planning Pressure to share passwords & passcodes Looking through phone, social media, or email without consent Hcwc.org Fairness & equality Threatening to hurt themselves if you break up Pressure to change or feeling like you have to change to be accepted Respecting boundaries & everyone’s right to say no Loveisrespect.org Lack of trust Holding each other to the same standards
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G-Supporting them in making the decision best for them
N-Pressure or force to do things you don’t want to do
G-Spending time together & reminding them they aren’t alone
G-Reminders that abuse is not their fault
I-Telling someone what to wear or not wear
G-Believing someone when they share they are being hurt or abused
O-Being encouraging & supportive
I-Not communicating
N-Unwanted, pressured, or forced physical contact
I-Inequality (one partner’s feelings, goals, and desires always come first)
N-Stalking
N-Not taking responsibility for abusive behavior
N-Physical harm (hitting, pushing, throwing things)
N-Put downs & insults
G-Listening
O-Apologizing for mistakes and hurtful behavior
N-Threatening to spread rumors or actually spreading rumors
B-Respecting boundaries (physical, emotional, digital, sexual)
I-Limiting time with friends & family
B-Moving at a comfortable pace
N-Yelling & screaming
O-Compromise
G-Supportive adults & friends to talk to
O-Valuing each other’s feelings
B-Asking for consent
I-Dishonesty
I-Extreme jealousy
I-Dismissing feelings or concerns
O-Building each other up
O-Taking responsibility
I-Mutual respect Not being considerate of feelings or boundaries
B-Mutual respect
B-Trust
B-Honesty
I-Feeling unsafe or scared
N-Using social media to track activities or friends
N-Verbal or physical threats
B-Feeling like you can be yourself
G-Checking In
G-Righttobe.org
N-Communication that is hurtful or threatening
G-Validate their feelings
I-Only spending time with each other
O-Learning each other’s boundaries
B-Supporting one another
B-Communication
B-Happiness & fun
I-Pushing boundaries
O-Making time for yourself & self-care
B-Safety & support
O-Being yourself
G-Asking what you can do to offer support
O-Making decisions together
O-Supporting interests & goals
O-Patience & understanding
O-Communicating about feelings or concerns
G-Be patient
B-Enjoying time together and apart
G-Safety planning
I-Pressure to share passwords & passcodes
N-Looking through phone, social media, or email without consent
G-Hcwc.org
B-Fairness & equality
N-Threatening to hurt themselves if you break up
I-Pressure to change or feeling like you have to change to be accepted
O-Respecting boundaries & everyone’s right to say no
G-Loveisrespect.org
I-Lack of trust
B-Holding each other to the same standards
