They ignoreor dismissyourconcernThey showno sustainedchange overtimeYou consistentlyleaveinteractionsfeeling drained,unheard, orresponsibleThey showno sustainedchange overtimeThey guilt-trip,panic, oremotionallycollapse inresponse toyour boundaryThey escalateintimacy (petnames, “love,”exclusivity) afterbeing asked toslow downThey ignoreor dismissyourconcernThey centertheir insecurityinstead of yourstated needsThey ignoreor dismissyourconcernThey showno sustainedchange overtimeYou consistentlyleaveinteractionsfeeling drained,unheard, orresponsibleThey showno sustainedchange overtimeThey guilt-trip,panic, oremotionallycollapse inresponse toyour boundaryThey escalateintimacy (petnames, “love,”exclusivity) afterbeing asked toslow downThey ignoreor dismissyourconcernThey centertheir insecurityinstead of yourstated needs

Concerning Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. They ignore or dismiss your concern
  2. They show no sustained change over time
  3. You consistently leave interactions feeling drained, unheard, or responsible
  4. They show no sustained change over time
  5. They guilt-trip, panic, or emotionally collapse in response to your boundary
  6. They escalate intimacy (pet names, “love,” exclusivity) after being asked to slow down
  7. They ignore or dismiss your concern
  8. They center their insecurity instead of your stated needs