Not knowing how to say no Not wanting to ask for help Fear of being left out Feeling selfish for saying no Feeling like you should handle everything alone Worrying that setting boundaries will make you stand out Not wanting to explain yourself Feeling like your needs don’t matter Wanting to avoid drama Worrying someone will be mad Feeling awkward speaking up Not wanting to disappoint someone Feeling awkward Low confidence Feeling responsible for others’ feelings Being afraid someone will stop talking to you Wanting to fit in Feeling guilty Not knowing what to say Fear of conflict Feeling responsible for others’ emotions Feeling unsure of yourself Not knowing what your boundaries are Being afraid of confrontation Not knowing how to say no Not wanting to ask for help Fear of being left out Feeling selfish for saying no Feeling like you should handle everything alone Worrying that setting boundaries will make you stand out Not wanting to explain yourself Feeling like your needs don’t matter Wanting to avoid drama Worrying someone will be mad Feeling awkward speaking up Not wanting to disappoint someone Feeling awkward Low confidence Feeling responsible for others’ feelings Being afraid someone will stop talking to you Wanting to fit in Feeling guilty Not knowing what to say Fear of conflict Feeling responsible for others’ emotions Feeling unsure of yourself Not knowing what your boundaries are Being afraid of confrontation
(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
I-Not knowing how to say no
O-Not wanting to ask for help
G-Fear of being left out
O-Feeling selfish for saying no
G-Feeling like you should handle everything alone
N-Worrying that setting boundaries will make you stand out
N-Not wanting to explain yourself
B-Feeling like your needs don’t matter
I-Wanting to avoid drama
O-Worrying someone will be mad
G-Feeling awkward speaking up
G-Not wanting to disappoint someone
N-Feeling awkward
O-Low confidence
O-Feeling responsible for others’ feelings
B-Being afraid someone will stop talking to you
I-Wanting to fit in
B-Feeling guilty
G-Not knowing what to say
N-Fear of conflict
B-Feeling responsible for others’ emotions
I-Feeling unsure of yourself
B-Not knowing what your boundaries are
I-Being afraid of confrontation