I controlmy angerand I havemore funThings willget better,if I think inbetter waysI change mythoughts tochange myfeelingsIt wold beunfortunateif I'm wrong -and human!I won't lethim push mybuttons-Icontrol theway I thinkI would likeit if heacted morerespectfullyAct on myvalueseven whenI feel angryI practiceself-compassionand kindnessA.C.T.Life ischallengingso I practiceself-careI wish shewere not thatway but I canhandle itLaugh - notat others butat life - it canbe funnyIappreciatethecomplimentI do notlikehis/herbehaviorWrite inmyjournalTreat selfand otherswithrespectLife may notalways befair - but Imake themost of itI feelannoyedwhen he actsthat wayTakeseveraldeepbreathsI will focuson what IcancontrolYou canalwayscontrol yourbehavior -you chooseDo I holdontounrealistic"shoulds"?I can standeven whenI do notlikeI'm goingthrough ahard time butI'm worthyInstead of"Never" I say"Infrequently"I do notlike theway he isactingI made amistake.Today, I willchoosebetter.Am I moreinterested inbeing right orbeing kind?BeKindWrite downmy thoughtsand changeto helpfulInstead of"have to" Ichoose toI accept Ican'tchangethe PastInstead of "Itis terrible""It isunfortunate"I am likedby someand I lovemyselfThere aresome waysI would liketo improveCompassionatekindness is mymoral compassWhat are thelong termeffects ofwhat I saySay No toAggression,yelling,callingnamesAccept yourangryfeelingswithoutviolenceI find himdisrespectfulto meCount to100 beforerespondingInstead of"I should""I could"Instead of"can't stand"I don't careforGuidedMeditationNoteveryonehas to likemeMindfulness-focus onhere andnow-Let itGoIs my angerin my controlor out ofcontrolForgiveHelpingotherscreatesmeaning inmy lifeCall afriend wholistensUrgeSurfingIpracticegratitudeI feel Xwhen youX. I needyou to XExerciseKeep Calmand use "I"statementsBeattentiveto themomentKnow yourvalues andconnect tothemI think I I needto end ourrelationship -itis unhealthyMusic/DanceStopandChooseI amgrateful tobe aliveTake atime-outPositiveself talkI can learnand growfrom thisProgressiveMuscleRelaxationI accept Ican'tchangeothersWalk insome oneelse'sshoesPainting/Drawing/ColoringI controlmy angerand I havemore funThings willget better,if I think inbetter waysI change mythoughts tochange myfeelingsIt wold beunfortunateif I'm wrong -and human!I won't lethim push mybuttons-Icontrol theway I thinkI would likeit if heacted morerespectfullyAct on myvalueseven whenI feel angryI practiceself-compassionand kindnessA.C.T.Life ischallengingso I practiceself-careI wish shewere not thatway but I canhandle itLaugh - notat others butat life - it canbe funnyIappreciatethecomplimentI do notlikehis/herbehaviorWrite inmyjournalTreat selfand otherswithrespectLife may notalways befair - but Imake themost of itI feelannoyedwhen he actsthat wayTakeseveraldeepbreathsI will focuson what IcancontrolYou canalwayscontrol yourbehavior -you chooseDo I holdontounrealistic"shoulds"?I can standeven whenI do notlikeI'm goingthrough ahard time butI'm worthyInstead of"Never" I say"Infrequently"I do notlike theway he isactingI made amistake.Today, I willchoosebetter.Am I moreinterested inbeing right orbeing kind?BeKindWrite downmy thoughtsand changeto helpfulInstead of"have to" Ichoose toI accept Ican'tchangethe PastInstead of "Itis terrible""It isunfortunate"I am likedby someand I lovemyselfThere aresome waysI would liketo improveCompassionatekindness is mymoral compassWhat are thelong termeffects ofwhat I saySay No toAggression,yelling,callingnamesAccept yourangryfeelingswithoutviolenceI find himdisrespectfulto meCount to100 beforerespondingInstead of"I should""I could"Instead of"can't stand"I don't careforGuidedMeditationNoteveryonehas to likemeMindfulness-focus onhere andnow-Let itGoIs my angerin my controlor out ofcontrolForgiveHelpingotherscreatesmeaning inmy lifeCall afriend wholistensUrgeSurfingIpracticegratitudeI feel Xwhen youX. I needyou to XExerciseKeep Calmand use "I"statementsBeattentiveto themomentKnow yourvalues andconnect tothemI think I I needto end ourrelationship -itis unhealthyMusic/DanceStopandChooseI amgrateful tobe aliveTake atime-outPositiveself talkI can learnand growfrom thisProgressiveMuscleRelaxationI accept Ican'tchangeothersWalk insome oneelse'sshoesPainting/Drawing/Coloring

Managing My Anger - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. I control my anger and I have more fun
  2. Things will get better, if I think in better ways
  3. I change my thoughts to change my feelings
  4. It wold be unfortunate if I'm wrong - and human!
  5. I won't let him push my buttons-I control the way I think
  6. I would like it if he acted more respectfully
  7. Act on my values even when I feel angry
  8. I practice self-compassion and kindness
  9. A.C.T.
  10. Life is challenging so I practice self-care
  11. I wish she were not that way but I can handle it
  12. Laugh - not at others but at life - it can be funny
  13. I appreciate the compliment
  14. I do not like his/her behavior
  15. Write in my journal
  16. Treat self and others with respect
  17. Life may not always be fair - but I make the most of it
  18. I feel annoyed when he acts that way
  19. Take several deep breaths
  20. I will focus on what I can control
  21. You can always control your behavior - you choose
  22. Do I hold onto unrealistic "shoulds"?
  23. I can stand even when I do not like
  24. I'm going through a hard time but I'm worthy
  25. Instead of "Never" I say "Infrequently"
  26. I do not like the way he is acting
  27. I made a mistake. Today, I will choose better.
  28. Am I more interested in being right or being kind?
  29. Be Kind
  30. Write down my thoughts and change to helpful
  31. Instead of "have to" I choose to
  32. I accept I can't change the Past
  33. Instead of "It is terrible" "It is unfortunate"
  34. I am liked by some and I love myself
  35. There are some ways I would like to improve
  36. Compassionate kindness is my moral compass
  37. What are the long term effects of what I say
  38. Say No to Aggression, yelling, calling names
  39. Accept your angry feelings without violence
  40. I find him disrespectful to me
  41. Count to 100 before responding
  42. Instead of "I should" "I could"
  43. Instead of "can't stand" I don't care for
  44. Guided Meditation
  45. Not everyone has to like me
  46. Mindfulness-focus on here and now-
  47. Let it Go
  48. Is my anger in my control or out of control
  49. Forgive
  50. Helping others creates meaning in my life
  51. Call a friend who listens
  52. Urge Surfing
  53. I practice gratitude
  54. I feel X when you X. I need you to X
  55. Exercise
  56. Keep Calm and use "I" statements
  57. Be attentive to the moment
  58. Know your values and connect to them
  59. I think I I need to end our relationship -it is unhealthy
  60. Music/Dance
  61. Stop and Choose
  62. I am grateful to be alive
  63. Take a time-out
  64. Positive self talk
  65. I can learn and grow from this
  66. Progressive Muscle Relaxation
  67. I accept I can't change others
  68. Walk in some one else's shoes
  69. Painting/Drawing/Coloring