I can learnand growfrom thisI feel Xwhen youX. I needyou to XNoteveryonehas to likemeCompassionatekindness is mymoral compassI am likedby someand I lovemyselfI amgrateful tobe aliveWrite downmy thoughtsand changeto helpfulPositiveself talkPainting/Drawing/ColoringProgressiveMuscleRelaxationBeattentiveto themomentLet itGoLaugh - notat others butat life - it canbe funnyIt wold beunfortunateif I'm wrong -and human!Do I holdontounrealistic"shoulds"?Instead of"can't stand"I don't careforI controlmy angerand I havemore funKnow yourvalues andconnect tothemTreat selfand otherswithrespectExerciseI find himdisrespectfulto meInstead of"I should""I could"I do notlike theway he isactingI won't lethim push mybuttons-Icontrol theway I thinkSay No toAggression,yelling,callingnamesWhat are thelong termeffects ofwhat I sayAm I moreinterested inbeing right orbeing kind?TakeseveraldeepbreathsInstead of"Never" I say"Infrequently"UrgeSurfingLife may notalways befair - but Imake themost of itI feelannoyedwhen he actsthat wayMusic/DanceIs my angerin my controlor out ofcontrolInstead of "Itis terrible""It isunfortunate"You canalwayscontrol yourbehavior -you chooseI practiceself-compassionand kindnessCount to100 beforerespondingGuidedMeditationI'm goingthrough ahard time butI'm worthyI accept Ican'tchangeothersA.C.T.Instead of"have to" Ichoose toTake atime-outI accept Ican'tchangethe PastIappreciatethecomplimentThings willget better,if I think inbetter waysStopandChooseKeep Calmand use "I"statementsI will focuson what IcancontrolIpracticegratitudeI wish shewere not thatway but I canhandle itI made amistake.Today, I willchoosebetter.Life ischallengingso I practiceself-careHelpingotherscreatesmeaning inmy lifeI would likeit if heacted morerespectfullyWalk insome oneelse'sshoesI do notlikehis/herbehaviorForgiveI think I I needto end ourrelationship -itis unhealthyMindfulness-focus onhere andnow-Act on myvalueseven whenI feel angryAccept yourangryfeelingswithoutviolenceCall afriend wholistensI can standeven whenI do notlikeWrite inmyjournalBeKindI change mythoughts tochange myfeelingsThere aresome waysI would liketo improveI can learnand growfrom thisI feel Xwhen youX. I needyou to XNoteveryonehas to likemeCompassionatekindness is mymoral compassI am likedby someand I lovemyselfI amgrateful tobe aliveWrite downmy thoughtsand changeto helpfulPositiveself talkPainting/Drawing/ColoringProgressiveMuscleRelaxationBeattentiveto themomentLet itGoLaugh - notat others butat life - it canbe funnyIt wold beunfortunateif I'm wrong -and human!Do I holdontounrealistic"shoulds"?Instead of"can't stand"I don't careforI controlmy angerand I havemore funKnow yourvalues andconnect tothemTreat selfand otherswithrespectExerciseI find himdisrespectfulto meInstead of"I should""I could"I do notlike theway he isactingI won't lethim push mybuttons-Icontrol theway I thinkSay No toAggression,yelling,callingnamesWhat are thelong termeffects ofwhat I sayAm I moreinterested inbeing right orbeing kind?TakeseveraldeepbreathsInstead of"Never" I say"Infrequently"UrgeSurfingLife may notalways befair - but Imake themost of itI feelannoyedwhen he actsthat wayMusic/DanceIs my angerin my controlor out ofcontrolInstead of "Itis terrible""It isunfortunate"You canalwayscontrol yourbehavior -you chooseI practiceself-compassionand kindnessCount to100 beforerespondingGuidedMeditationI'm goingthrough ahard time butI'm worthyI accept Ican'tchangeothersA.C.T.Instead of"have to" Ichoose toTake atime-outI accept Ican'tchangethe PastIappreciatethecomplimentThings willget better,if I think inbetter waysStopandChooseKeep Calmand use "I"statementsI will focuson what IcancontrolIpracticegratitudeI wish shewere not thatway but I canhandle itI made amistake.Today, I willchoosebetter.Life ischallengingso I practiceself-careHelpingotherscreatesmeaning inmy lifeI would likeit if heacted morerespectfullyWalk insome oneelse'sshoesI do notlikehis/herbehaviorForgiveI think I I needto end ourrelationship -itis unhealthyMindfulness-focus onhere andnow-Act on myvalueseven whenI feel angryAccept yourangryfeelingswithoutviolenceCall afriend wholistensI can standeven whenI do notlikeWrite inmyjournalBeKindI change mythoughts tochange myfeelingsThere aresome waysI would liketo improve

Managing My Anger - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. I can learn and grow from this
  2. I feel X when you X. I need you to X
  3. Not everyone has to like me
  4. Compassionate kindness is my moral compass
  5. I am liked by some and I love myself
  6. I am grateful to be alive
  7. Write down my thoughts and change to helpful
  8. Positive self talk
  9. Painting/Drawing/Coloring
  10. Progressive Muscle Relaxation
  11. Be attentive to the moment
  12. Let it Go
  13. Laugh - not at others but at life - it can be funny
  14. It wold be unfortunate if I'm wrong - and human!
  15. Do I hold onto unrealistic "shoulds"?
  16. Instead of "can't stand" I don't care for
  17. I control my anger and I have more fun
  18. Know your values and connect to them
  19. Treat self and others with respect
  20. Exercise
  21. I find him disrespectful to me
  22. Instead of "I should" "I could"
  23. I do not like the way he is acting
  24. I won't let him push my buttons-I control the way I think
  25. Say No to Aggression, yelling, calling names
  26. What are the long term effects of what I say
  27. Am I more interested in being right or being kind?
  28. Take several deep breaths
  29. Instead of "Never" I say "Infrequently"
  30. Urge Surfing
  31. Life may not always be fair - but I make the most of it
  32. I feel annoyed when he acts that way
  33. Music/Dance
  34. Is my anger in my control or out of control
  35. Instead of "It is terrible" "It is unfortunate"
  36. You can always control your behavior - you choose
  37. I practice self-compassion and kindness
  38. Count to 100 before responding
  39. Guided Meditation
  40. I'm going through a hard time but I'm worthy
  41. I accept I can't change others
  42. A.C.T.
  43. Instead of "have to" I choose to
  44. Take a time-out
  45. I accept I can't change the Past
  46. I appreciate the compliment
  47. Things will get better, if I think in better ways
  48. Stop and Choose
  49. Keep Calm and use "I" statements
  50. I will focus on what I can control
  51. I practice gratitude
  52. I wish she were not that way but I can handle it
  53. I made a mistake. Today, I will choose better.
  54. Life is challenging so I practice self-care
  55. Helping others creates meaning in my life
  56. I would like it if he acted more respectfully
  57. Walk in some one else's shoes
  58. I do not like his/her behavior
  59. Forgive
  60. I think I I need to end our relationship -it is unhealthy
  61. Mindfulness-focus on here and now-
  62. Act on my values even when I feel angry
  63. Accept your angry feelings without violence
  64. Call a friend who listens
  65. I can stand even when I do not like
  66. Write in my journal
  67. Be Kind
  68. I change my thoughts to change my feelings
  69. There are some ways I would like to improve