IappreciatethecomplimentYou canalwayscontrol yourbehavior -you chooseLife ischallengingso I practiceself-careCall afriend wholistensThings willget better,if I think inbetter waysI do notlike theway he isactingI do notlikehis/herbehaviorAccept yourangryfeelingswithoutviolenceMusic/DanceIs my angerin my controlor out ofcontrolI can standeven whenI do notlikeInstead of"have to" Ichoose toProgressiveMuscleRelaxationHelpingotherscreatesmeaning inmy lifeBeattentiveto themomentA.C.T.I controlmy angerand I havemore funKeep Calmand use "I"statementsMindfulness-focus onhere andnow-Instead of"I should""I could"Painting/Drawing/ColoringI feel Xwhen youX. I needyou to XI am likedby someand I lovemyselfThere aresome waysI would liketo improveSay No toAggression,yelling,callingnamesLife may notalways befair - but Imake themost of itI accept Ican'tchangeothersI would likeit if heacted morerespectfullyI find himdisrespectfulto meIpracticegratitudeTreat selfand otherswithrespectExerciseI wish shewere not thatway but I canhandle itUrgeSurfingInstead of "Itis terrible""It isunfortunate"I change mythoughts tochange myfeelingsWrite downmy thoughtsand changeto helpfulI practiceself-compassionand kindnessLaugh - notat others butat life - it canbe funnyPositiveself talkWalk insome oneelse'sshoesI'm goingthrough ahard time butI'm worthyGuidedMeditationTakeseveraldeepbreathsAm I moreinterested inbeing right orbeing kind?BeKindWrite inmyjournalTake atime-outWhat are thelong termeffects ofwhat I sayI accept Ican'tchangethe PastStopandChooseIt wold beunfortunateif I'm wrong -and human!I feelannoyedwhen he actsthat wayI won't lethim push mybuttons-Icontrol theway I thinkInstead of"Never" I say"Infrequently"Noteveryonehas to likemeDo I holdontounrealistic"shoulds"?I think I I needto end ourrelationship -itis unhealthyAct on myvalueseven whenI feel angryI made amistake.Today, I willchoosebetter.Compassionatekindness is mymoral compassI can learnand growfrom thisI will focuson what IcancontrolForgiveI amgrateful tobe aliveInstead of"can't stand"I don't careforCount to100 beforerespondingKnow yourvalues andconnect tothemLet itGoIappreciatethecomplimentYou canalwayscontrol yourbehavior -you chooseLife ischallengingso I practiceself-careCall afriend wholistensThings willget better,if I think inbetter waysI do notlike theway he isactingI do notlikehis/herbehaviorAccept yourangryfeelingswithoutviolenceMusic/DanceIs my angerin my controlor out ofcontrolI can standeven whenI do notlikeInstead of"have to" Ichoose toProgressiveMuscleRelaxationHelpingotherscreatesmeaning inmy lifeBeattentiveto themomentA.C.T.I controlmy angerand I havemore funKeep Calmand use "I"statementsMindfulness-focus onhere andnow-Instead of"I should""I could"Painting/Drawing/ColoringI feel Xwhen youX. I needyou to XI am likedby someand I lovemyselfThere aresome waysI would liketo improveSay No toAggression,yelling,callingnamesLife may notalways befair - but Imake themost of itI accept Ican'tchangeothersI would likeit if heacted morerespectfullyI find himdisrespectfulto meIpracticegratitudeTreat selfand otherswithrespectExerciseI wish shewere not thatway but I canhandle itUrgeSurfingInstead of "Itis terrible""It isunfortunate"I change mythoughts tochange myfeelingsWrite downmy thoughtsand changeto helpfulI practiceself-compassionand kindnessLaugh - notat others butat life - it canbe funnyPositiveself talkWalk insome oneelse'sshoesI'm goingthrough ahard time butI'm worthyGuidedMeditationTakeseveraldeepbreathsAm I moreinterested inbeing right orbeing kind?BeKindWrite inmyjournalTake atime-outWhat are thelong termeffects ofwhat I sayI accept Ican'tchangethe PastStopandChooseIt wold beunfortunateif I'm wrong -and human!I feelannoyedwhen he actsthat wayI won't lethim push mybuttons-Icontrol theway I thinkInstead of"Never" I say"Infrequently"Noteveryonehas to likemeDo I holdontounrealistic"shoulds"?I think I I needto end ourrelationship -itis unhealthyAct on myvalueseven whenI feel angryI made amistake.Today, I willchoosebetter.Compassionatekindness is mymoral compassI can learnand growfrom thisI will focuson what IcancontrolForgiveI amgrateful tobe aliveInstead of"can't stand"I don't careforCount to100 beforerespondingKnow yourvalues andconnect tothemLet itGo

Managing My Anger - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. I appreciate the compliment
  2. You can always control your behavior - you choose
  3. Life is challenging so I practice self-care
  4. Call a friend who listens
  5. Things will get better, if I think in better ways
  6. I do not like the way he is acting
  7. I do not like his/her behavior
  8. Accept your angry feelings without violence
  9. Music/Dance
  10. Is my anger in my control or out of control
  11. I can stand even when I do not like
  12. Instead of "have to" I choose to
  13. Progressive Muscle Relaxation
  14. Helping others creates meaning in my life
  15. Be attentive to the moment
  16. A.C.T.
  17. I control my anger and I have more fun
  18. Keep Calm and use "I" statements
  19. Mindfulness-focus on here and now-
  20. Instead of "I should" "I could"
  21. Painting/Drawing/Coloring
  22. I feel X when you X. I need you to X
  23. I am liked by some and I love myself
  24. There are some ways I would like to improve
  25. Say No to Aggression, yelling, calling names
  26. Life may not always be fair - but I make the most of it
  27. I accept I can't change others
  28. I would like it if he acted more respectfully
  29. I find him disrespectful to me
  30. I practice gratitude
  31. Treat self and others with respect
  32. Exercise
  33. I wish she were not that way but I can handle it
  34. Urge Surfing
  35. Instead of "It is terrible" "It is unfortunate"
  36. I change my thoughts to change my feelings
  37. Write down my thoughts and change to helpful
  38. I practice self-compassion and kindness
  39. Laugh - not at others but at life - it can be funny
  40. Positive self talk
  41. Walk in some one else's shoes
  42. I'm going through a hard time but I'm worthy
  43. Guided Meditation
  44. Take several deep breaths
  45. Am I more interested in being right or being kind?
  46. Be Kind
  47. Write in my journal
  48. Take a time-out
  49. What are the long term effects of what I say
  50. I accept I can't change the Past
  51. Stop and Choose
  52. It wold be unfortunate if I'm wrong - and human!
  53. I feel annoyed when he acts that way
  54. I won't let him push my buttons-I control the way I think
  55. Instead of "Never" I say "Infrequently"
  56. Not everyone has to like me
  57. Do I hold onto unrealistic "shoulds"?
  58. I think I I need to end our relationship -it is unhealthy
  59. Act on my values even when I feel angry
  60. I made a mistake. Today, I will choose better.
  61. Compassionate kindness is my moral compass
  62. I can learn and grow from this
  63. I will focus on what I can control
  64. Forgive
  65. I am grateful to be alive
  66. Instead of "can't stand" I don't care for
  67. Count to 100 before responding
  68. Know your values and connect to them
  69. Let it Go