“I CAN stand itwhen I don’tget what Iwant. I cancope.”Takedeepbreaths“Does it makesense to bevery angryabout this – orjust annoyed orfrustrated?”“Just becauseI feel angrydoesn’t meanI have to act inan angry way.”Jump inthepool/ocean“When peoplebehave badly or aredifferent from me orwhen I don’t reallyknow them, they arenot totally badpeople.”Ask forhelp“Even though Idon’t like it, Ican put up withpeople whotreat meunfairly.”“Getting angrydoesn’t helpme – it will justmake me feelbad.”Screaminto yourpillow“When peopledon’t act the way Iwant them to, it’snot the worst thingthat could happento me.”Talk to thedog/takedog forwalkFindsomethingfun to do“Being treatedunfairly is notthe end of theworld.”Takea nap“Do I haveto get veryangry aboutthis?”“I accept everyone– everyone makesmistakes anddoes things I don’tlike sometimes.”“Everyonedeserves to betreated the way Iwould like to betreated – fairly andkindly.”ListentomusicFindsomewherequiet tocool downHave acooldrink“I can behappy evenwhen peopletreat meunfairly.”Timeout“How big is myproblem? The size ofmy reaction shouldmatch the size of theproblem. How big doothers see theproblem? How bigshould my reaction be?”Anger“Is this reallythe worstthing thatcouldhappen?”Talk to anadult/friendMeditation“I CAN stand itwhen I don’tget what Iwant. I cancope.”Takedeepbreaths“Does it makesense to bevery angryabout this – orjust annoyed orfrustrated?”“Just becauseI feel angrydoesn’t meanI have to act inan angry way.”Jump inthepool/ocean“When peoplebehave badly or aredifferent from me orwhen I don’t reallyknow them, they arenot totally badpeople.”Ask forhelp“Even though Idon’t like it, Ican put up withpeople whotreat meunfairly.”“Getting angrydoesn’t helpme – it will justmake me feelbad.”Screaminto yourpillow“When peopledon’t act the way Iwant them to, it’snot the worst thingthat could happento me.”Talk to thedog/takedog forwalkFindsomethingfun to do“Being treatedunfairly is notthe end of theworld.”Takea nap“Do I haveto get veryangry aboutthis?”“I accept everyone– everyone makesmistakes anddoes things I don’tlike sometimes.”“Everyonedeserves to betreated the way Iwould like to betreated – fairly andkindly.”ListentomusicFindsomewherequiet tocool downHave acooldrink“I can behappy evenwhen peopletreat meunfairly.”Timeout“How big is myproblem? The size ofmy reaction shouldmatch the size of theproblem. How big doothers see theproblem? How bigshould my reaction be?”Anger“Is this reallythe worstthing thatcouldhappen?”Talk to anadult/friendMeditation

Healthy Anger Actions/thoughts - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. “I CAN stand it when I don’t get what I want. I can cope.”
  2. Take deep breaths
  3. “Does it make sense to be very angry about this – or just annoyed or frustrated?”
  4. “Just because I feel angry doesn’t mean I have to act in an angry way.”
  5. Jump in the pool/ocean
  6. “When people behave badly or are different from me or when I don’t really know them, they are not totally bad people.”
  7. Ask for help
  8. “Even though I don’t like it, I can put up with people who treat me unfairly.”
  9. “Getting angry doesn’t help me – it will just make me feel bad.”
  10. Scream into your pillow
  11. “When people don’t act the way I want them to, it’s not the worst thing that could happen to me.”
  12. Talk to the dog/take dog for walk
  13. Find something fun to do
  14. “Being treated unfairly is not the end of the world.”
  15. Take a nap
  16. “Do I have to get very angry about this?”
  17. “I accept everyone – everyone makes mistakes and does things I don’t like sometimes.”
  18. “Everyone deserves to be treated the way I would like to be treated – fairly and kindly.”
  19. Listen to music
  20. Find somewhere quiet to cool down
  21. Have a cool drink
  22. “I can be happy even when people treat me unfairly.”
  23. Timeout
  24. “How big is my problem? The size of my reaction should match the size of the problem. How big do others see the problem? How big should my reaction be?”
  25. Anger
  26. “Is this really the worst thing that could happen?”
  27. Talk to an adult/friend
  28. Meditation