“Being treatedunfairly is notthe end of theworld.”ListentomusicTakedeepbreathsAngerMeditation“Getting angrydoesn’t helpme – it will justmake me feelbad.”Findsomewherequiet tocool downJump inthepool/ocean“When peopledon’t act the way Iwant them to, it’snot the worst thingthat could happento me.”Findsomethingfun to doScreaminto yourpillowTakea nap“I CAN stand itwhen I don’tget what Iwant. I cancope.”“Even though Idon’t like it, Ican put up withpeople whotreat meunfairly.”“Just becauseI feel angrydoesn’t meanI have to act inan angry way.”“I can behappy evenwhen peopletreat meunfairly.”“I accept everyone– everyone makesmistakes anddoes things I don’tlike sometimes.”Talk to thedog/takedog forwalk“Does it makesense to bevery angryabout this – orjust annoyed orfrustrated?”TimeoutTalk to anadult/friend“When peoplebehave badly or aredifferent from me orwhen I don’t reallyknow them, they arenot totally badpeople.”Ask forhelp“Is this reallythe worstthing thatcouldhappen?”“How big is myproblem? The size ofmy reaction shouldmatch the size of theproblem. How big doothers see theproblem? How bigshould my reaction be?”Have acooldrink“Do I haveto get veryangry aboutthis?”“Everyonedeserves to betreated the way Iwould like to betreated – fairly andkindly.”“Being treatedunfairly is notthe end of theworld.”ListentomusicTakedeepbreathsAngerMeditation“Getting angrydoesn’t helpme – it will justmake me feelbad.”Findsomewherequiet tocool downJump inthepool/ocean“When peopledon’t act the way Iwant them to, it’snot the worst thingthat could happento me.”Findsomethingfun to doScreaminto yourpillowTakea nap“I CAN stand itwhen I don’tget what Iwant. I cancope.”“Even though Idon’t like it, Ican put up withpeople whotreat meunfairly.”“Just becauseI feel angrydoesn’t meanI have to act inan angry way.”“I can behappy evenwhen peopletreat meunfairly.”“I accept everyone– everyone makesmistakes anddoes things I don’tlike sometimes.”Talk to thedog/takedog forwalk“Does it makesense to bevery angryabout this – orjust annoyed orfrustrated?”TimeoutTalk to anadult/friend“When peoplebehave badly or aredifferent from me orwhen I don’t reallyknow them, they arenot totally badpeople.”Ask forhelp“Is this reallythe worstthing thatcouldhappen?”“How big is myproblem? The size ofmy reaction shouldmatch the size of theproblem. How big doothers see theproblem? How bigshould my reaction be?”Have acooldrink“Do I haveto get veryangry aboutthis?”“Everyonedeserves to betreated the way Iwould like to betreated – fairly andkindly.”

Healthy Anger Actions/thoughts - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. “Being treated unfairly is not the end of the world.”
  2. Listen to music
  3. Take deep breaths
  4. Anger
  5. Meditation
  6. “Getting angry doesn’t help me – it will just make me feel bad.”
  7. Find somewhere quiet to cool down
  8. Jump in the pool/ocean
  9. “When people don’t act the way I want them to, it’s not the worst thing that could happen to me.”
  10. Find something fun to do
  11. Scream into your pillow
  12. Take a nap
  13. “I CAN stand it when I don’t get what I want. I can cope.”
  14. “Even though I don’t like it, I can put up with people who treat me unfairly.”
  15. “Just because I feel angry doesn’t mean I have to act in an angry way.”
  16. “I can be happy even when people treat me unfairly.”
  17. “I accept everyone – everyone makes mistakes and does things I don’t like sometimes.”
  18. Talk to the dog/take dog for walk
  19. “Does it make sense to be very angry about this – or just annoyed or frustrated?”
  20. Timeout
  21. Talk to an adult/friend
  22. “When people behave badly or are different from me or when I don’t really know them, they are not totally bad people.”
  23. Ask for help
  24. “Is this really the worst thing that could happen?”
  25. “How big is my problem? The size of my reaction should match the size of the problem. How big do others see the problem? How big should my reaction be?”
  26. Have a cool drink
  27. “Do I have to get very angry about this?”
  28. “Everyone deserves to be treated the way I would like to be treated – fairly and kindly.”