I will notslam doorsor shoutduringargumentsI don't haveto anticipatethe needsof othersI can onlystay for anhour (TimeBoundary)Avoidengagingin familygossipYou don'tneed othersto agreewith youIdentifysituationswhereboundariesare neededIt is not myjob to takeresponsibilityfor othersRecognizewhen youare crossingboundariesSaying "yes"because youwant to, not outof obligation orto pleaseothersI feel embarrassedwhen you joke aboutme to your friends. Idon't find them funnyand I want you tostop (emotionalboundary)Please ask mefirst before youborrow mystuff (Materialboundary)Behavingaccording toyour ownvalues andbeliefsAvoidunhealthyconfrontationUtilizingthe word"no"Useempathy, trytounderstandothersPut yourneedsfirstKnowingwhen toagree withothersUtilizeself-awarenessAbility tochangeyour mindListen toyouremotions!Knowingwhen todisagreeBeware ofoversharingto everyone(privacyboundary)learn towalkawayPlease donot speakto me thatwayI will answermessageswhen I havetime andspaceI will notslam doorsor shoutduringargumentsI don't haveto anticipatethe needsof othersI can onlystay for anhour (TimeBoundary)Avoidengagingin familygossipYou don'tneed othersto agreewith youIdentifysituationswhereboundariesare neededIt is not myjob to takeresponsibilityfor othersRecognizewhen youare crossingboundariesSaying "yes"because youwant to, not outof obligation orto pleaseothersI feel embarrassedwhen you joke aboutme to your friends. Idon't find them funnyand I want you tostop (emotionalboundary)Please ask mefirst before youborrow mystuff (Materialboundary)Behavingaccording toyour ownvalues andbeliefsAvoidunhealthyconfrontationUtilizingthe word"no"Useempathy, trytounderstandothersPut yourneedsfirstKnowingwhen toagree withothersUtilizeself-awarenessAbility tochangeyour mindListen toyouremotions!Knowingwhen todisagreeBeware ofoversharingto everyone(privacyboundary)learn towalkawayPlease donot speakto me thatwayI will answermessageswhen I havetime andspace

Signs of Healthy Boundaries BINGO - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. I-I will not slam doors or shout during arguments
  2. G-I don't have to anticipate the needs of others
  3. B-I can only stay for an hour (Time Boundary)
  4. I-Avoid engaging in family gossip
  5. G-You don't need others to agree with you
  6. G-Identify situations where boundaries are needed
  7. I-It is not my job to take responsibility for others
  8. O-Recognize when you are crossing boundaries
  9. G-Saying "yes" because you want to, not out of obligation or to please others
  10. N-I feel embarrassed when you joke about me to your friends. I don't find them funny and I want you to stop (emotional boundary)
  11. B-Please ask me first before you borrow my stuff (Material boundary)
  12. O-Behaving according to your own values and beliefs
  13. N-Avoid unhealthy confrontation
  14. I-Utilizing the word "no"
  15. I-Use empathy, try to understand others
  16. O-Put your needs first
  17. O-Knowing when to agree with others
  18. B-Utilize self-awareness
  19. G-Ability to change your mind
  20. O-Listen to your emotions!
  21. B-Knowing when to disagree
  22. B-Beware of oversharing to everyone (privacy boundary)
  23. N-learn to walk away
  24. N-Please do not speak to me that way
  25. N-I will answer messages when I have time and space