Inquiring“no”Brokenrecord“no”LosingfriendshipsConditionedto be politeListenMissing outonopportunitiesEstablishboundariesBeempathetic"Unfortunately, Ihave too muchto do today. Ican help youanother time."Nonverbal-Be firm andconfidentwith bodylanguagePrioritizingour ownneedsUse ‘I’statements"How aboutinstead of medoing that, Ihelp you withsomethingelse?"Say,maybeanothertimeRaincheck“no”DamagingourrelationshipsLettingothersdownSay,maybeanothertimeProtect ourtime,energy, andwell-being.Direct‘no”Respectingour limits"I know that'schallenging foryou, but I don'thave the capacityto help you at themoment."" Sorry, I havealreadycommitted tosomething else.I hope youunderstand."Wantto befriendlyBeclearRiskbecomingoverwhelmedFREE"That soundsso exciting,but we'll haveto wait foranother time."Reasoned“no”Bekind"I reallyshouldn't thistime, butthank you."Ignoreour ownneedsDon'tberudeDon'twant tobe rudeBreakingthe habitof peoplepleasingHealthier,happierfuture forourselvesChange thesubject-say,let's go get asnack, I'mhungryNeglectingour needsFeelings ofresentmentTakingcare ofourselvesReflecting"no"Feelingsof stressandfatigueInquiring“no”Brokenrecord“no”LosingfriendshipsConditionedto be politeListenMissing outonopportunitiesEstablishboundariesBeempathetic"Unfortunately, Ihave too muchto do today. Ican help youanother time."Nonverbal-Be firm andconfidentwith bodylanguagePrioritizingour ownneedsUse ‘I’statements"How aboutinstead of medoing that, Ihelp you withsomethingelse?"Say,maybeanothertimeRaincheck“no”DamagingourrelationshipsLettingothersdownSay,maybeanothertimeProtect ourtime,energy, andwell-being.Direct‘no”Respectingour limits"I know that'schallenging foryou, but I don'thave the capacityto help you at themoment."" Sorry, I havealreadycommitted tosomething else.I hope youunderstand."Wantto befriendlyBeclearRiskbecomingoverwhelmedFREE"That soundsso exciting,but we'll haveto wait foranother time."Reasoned“no”Bekind"I reallyshouldn't thistime, butthank you."Ignoreour ownneedsDon'tberudeDon'twant tobe rudeBreakingthe habitof peoplepleasingHealthier,happierfuture forourselvesChange thesubject-say,let's go get asnack, I'mhungryNeglectingour needsFeelings ofresentmentTakingcare ofourselvesReflecting"no"Feelingsof stressandfatigue

Saying No (Adult version) - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Inquiring “no”
  2. Broken record “no”
  3. Losing friendships
  4. Conditioned to be polite
  5. Listen
  6. Missing out on opportunities
  7. Establish boundaries
  8. Be empathetic
  9. "Unfortunately, I have too much to do today. I can help you another time."
  10. Nonverbal- Be firm and confident with body language
  11. Prioritizing our own needs
  12. Use ‘I’ statements
  13. "How about instead of me doing that, I help you with something else?"
  14. Say, maybe another time
  15. Raincheck “no”
  16. Damaging our relationships
  17. Letting others down
  18. Say, maybe another time
  19. Protect our time, energy, and well-being.
  20. Direct ‘no”
  21. Respecting our limits
  22. "I know that's challenging for you, but I don't have the capacity to help you at the moment."
  23. " Sorry, I have already committed to something else. I hope you understand."
  24. Want to be friendly
  25. Be clear
  26. Risk becoming overwhelmed
  27. FREE
  28. "That sounds so exciting, but we'll have to wait for another time."
  29. Reasoned “no”
  30. Be kind
  31. "I really shouldn't this time, but thank you."
  32. Ignore our own needs
  33. Don't be rude
  34. Don't want to be rude
  35. Breaking the habit of people pleasing
  36. Healthier, happier future for ourselves
  37. Change the subject-say, let's go get a snack, I'm hungry
  38. Neglecting our needs
  39. Feelings of resentment
  40. Taking care of ourselves
  41. Reflecting "no"
  42. Feelings of stress and fatigue