"Unfortunately, Ihave too muchto do today. Ican help youanother time."Healthier,happierfuture forourselvesReasoned“no”Establishboundaries"How aboutinstead of medoing that, Ihelp you withsomethingelse?"Nonverbal-Be firm andconfidentwith bodylanguageProtect ourtime,energy, andwell-being.Respectingour limits"I know that'schallenging foryou, but I don'thave the capacityto help you at themoment."Feelingsof stressandfatigueSay,maybeanothertimeBreakingthe habitof peoplepleasingConditionedto be politeWantto befriendlyFREEBeempatheticDamagingourrelationshipsInquiring“no”Bekind"That soundsso exciting,but we'll haveto wait foranother time."LettingothersdownDon'tberudeIgnoreour ownneedsDon'twant tobe rudeRaincheck“no”Direct‘no”Missing outonopportunitiesBrokenrecord“no”RiskbecomingoverwhelmedTakingcare ofourselvesFeelings ofresentmentChange thesubject-say,let's go get asnack, I'mhungryBeclearListenSay,maybeanothertimeNeglectingour needsLosingfriendshipsReflecting"no"" Sorry, I havealreadycommitted tosomething else.I hope youunderstand."Prioritizingour ownneeds"I reallyshouldn't thistime, butthank you."Use ‘I’statements"Unfortunately, Ihave too muchto do today. Ican help youanother time."Healthier,happierfuture forourselvesReasoned“no”Establishboundaries"How aboutinstead of medoing that, Ihelp you withsomethingelse?"Nonverbal-Be firm andconfidentwith bodylanguageProtect ourtime,energy, andwell-being.Respectingour limits"I know that'schallenging foryou, but I don'thave the capacityto help you at themoment."Feelingsof stressandfatigueSay,maybeanothertimeBreakingthe habitof peoplepleasingConditionedto be politeWantto befriendlyFREEBeempatheticDamagingourrelationshipsInquiring“no”Bekind"That soundsso exciting,but we'll haveto wait foranother time."LettingothersdownDon'tberudeIgnoreour ownneedsDon'twant tobe rudeRaincheck“no”Direct‘no”Missing outonopportunitiesBrokenrecord“no”RiskbecomingoverwhelmedTakingcare ofourselvesFeelings ofresentmentChange thesubject-say,let's go get asnack, I'mhungryBeclearListenSay,maybeanothertimeNeglectingour needsLosingfriendshipsReflecting"no"" Sorry, I havealreadycommitted tosomething else.I hope youunderstand."Prioritizingour ownneeds"I reallyshouldn't thistime, butthank you."Use ‘I’statements

Saying No (Adult version) - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. "Unfortunately, I have too much to do today. I can help you another time."
  2. Healthier, happier future for ourselves
  3. Reasoned “no”
  4. Establish boundaries
  5. "How about instead of me doing that, I help you with something else?"
  6. Nonverbal- Be firm and confident with body language
  7. Protect our time, energy, and well-being.
  8. Respecting our limits
  9. "I know that's challenging for you, but I don't have the capacity to help you at the moment."
  10. Feelings of stress and fatigue
  11. Say, maybe another time
  12. Breaking the habit of people pleasing
  13. Conditioned to be polite
  14. Want to be friendly
  15. FREE
  16. Be empathetic
  17. Damaging our relationships
  18. Inquiring “no”
  19. Be kind
  20. "That sounds so exciting, but we'll have to wait for another time."
  21. Letting others down
  22. Don't be rude
  23. Ignore our own needs
  24. Don't want to be rude
  25. Raincheck “no”
  26. Direct ‘no”
  27. Missing out on opportunities
  28. Broken record “no”
  29. Risk becoming overwhelmed
  30. Taking care of ourselves
  31. Feelings of resentment
  32. Change the subject-say, let's go get a snack, I'm hungry
  33. Be clear
  34. Listen
  35. Say, maybe another time
  36. Neglecting our needs
  37. Losing friendships
  38. Reflecting "no"
  39. " Sorry, I have already committed to something else. I hope you understand."
  40. Prioritizing our own needs
  41. "I really shouldn't this time, but thank you."
  42. Use ‘I’ statements