Wantto befriendlyRespectingour limitsHealthier,happierfuture forourselvesChange thesubject-say,let's go get asnack, I'mhungryMissing outonopportunities"How aboutinstead of medoing that, Ihelp you withsomethingelse?"Feelingsof stressandfatiguePrioritizingour ownneedsDon'twant tobe rudeDamagingourrelationshipsSay,maybeanothertime"Unfortunately, Ihave too muchto do today. Ican help youanother time."Say,maybeanothertimeLosingfriendshipsFREETakingcare ofourselvesNeglectingour needsReflecting"no"Conditionedto be politeIgnoreour ownneedsBreakingthe habitof peoplepleasing"That soundsso exciting,but we'll haveto wait foranother time."Reasoned“no”BekindRiskbecomingoverwhelmedInquiring“no”" Sorry, I havealreadycommitted tosomething else.I hope youunderstand."Protect ourtime,energy, andwell-being.Feelings ofresentmentRaincheck“no”BeclearUse ‘I’statementsDon'tberudeDirect‘no”EstablishboundariesBeempatheticLettingothersdownNonverbal-Be firm andconfidentwith bodylanguage"I know that'schallenging foryou, but I don'thave the capacityto help you at themoment.""I reallyshouldn't thistime, butthank you."ListenBrokenrecord“no”Wantto befriendlyRespectingour limitsHealthier,happierfuture forourselvesChange thesubject-say,let's go get asnack, I'mhungryMissing outonopportunities"How aboutinstead of medoing that, Ihelp you withsomethingelse?"Feelingsof stressandfatiguePrioritizingour ownneedsDon'twant tobe rudeDamagingourrelationshipsSay,maybeanothertime"Unfortunately, Ihave too muchto do today. Ican help youanother time."Say,maybeanothertimeLosingfriendshipsFREETakingcare ofourselvesNeglectingour needsReflecting"no"Conditionedto be politeIgnoreour ownneedsBreakingthe habitof peoplepleasing"That soundsso exciting,but we'll haveto wait foranother time."Reasoned“no”BekindRiskbecomingoverwhelmedInquiring“no”" Sorry, I havealreadycommitted tosomething else.I hope youunderstand."Protect ourtime,energy, andwell-being.Feelings ofresentmentRaincheck“no”BeclearUse ‘I’statementsDon'tberudeDirect‘no”EstablishboundariesBeempatheticLettingothersdownNonverbal-Be firm andconfidentwith bodylanguage"I know that'schallenging foryou, but I don'thave the capacityto help you at themoment.""I reallyshouldn't thistime, butthank you."ListenBrokenrecord“no”

Saying No (Adult version) - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Want to be friendly
  2. Respecting our limits
  3. Healthier, happier future for ourselves
  4. Change the subject-say, let's go get a snack, I'm hungry
  5. Missing out on opportunities
  6. "How about instead of me doing that, I help you with something else?"
  7. Feelings of stress and fatigue
  8. Prioritizing our own needs
  9. Don't want to be rude
  10. Damaging our relationships
  11. Say, maybe another time
  12. "Unfortunately, I have too much to do today. I can help you another time."
  13. Say, maybe another time
  14. Losing friendships
  15. FREE
  16. Taking care of ourselves
  17. Neglecting our needs
  18. Reflecting "no"
  19. Conditioned to be polite
  20. Ignore our own needs
  21. Breaking the habit of people pleasing
  22. "That sounds so exciting, but we'll have to wait for another time."
  23. Reasoned “no”
  24. Be kind
  25. Risk becoming overwhelmed
  26. Inquiring “no”
  27. " Sorry, I have already committed to something else. I hope you understand."
  28. Protect our time, energy, and well-being.
  29. Feelings of resentment
  30. Raincheck “no”
  31. Be clear
  32. Use ‘I’ statements
  33. Don't be rude
  34. Direct ‘no”
  35. Establish boundaries
  36. Be empathetic
  37. Letting others down
  38. Nonverbal- Be firm and confident with body language
  39. "I know that's challenging for you, but I don't have the capacity to help you at the moment."
  40. "I really shouldn't this time, but thank you."
  41. Listen
  42. Broken record “no”