Say,maybeanothertimeSay,maybeanothertimeNonverbal-Be firm andconfidentwith bodylanguageRaincheck“no”Use ‘I’statementsReflecting"no"Change thesubject-say,let's go get asnack, I'mhungryBrokenrecord“no”Feelings ofresentment"Unfortunately, Ihave too muchto do today. Ican help youanother time."Wantto befriendly" Sorry, I havealreadycommitted tosomething else.I hope youunderstand."Ignoreour ownneedsDon'twant tobe rudeBreakingthe habitof peoplepleasingRiskbecomingoverwhelmedFeelingsof stressandfatigue"How aboutinstead of medoing that, Ihelp you withsomethingelse?"Takingcare ofourselvesBeclear"I reallyshouldn't thistime, butthank you."FREEPrioritizingour ownneedsInquiring“no”Direct‘no”Missing outonopportunitiesReasoned“no”Respectingour limitsHealthier,happierfuture forourselvesEstablishboundaries"That soundsso exciting,but we'll haveto wait foranother time."Neglectingour needsListenDamagingourrelationships"I know that'schallenging foryou, but I don'thave the capacityto help you at themoment."BekindDon'tberudeBeempatheticLosingfriendshipsConditionedto be politeProtect ourtime,energy, andwell-being.LettingothersdownSay,maybeanothertimeSay,maybeanothertimeNonverbal-Be firm andconfidentwith bodylanguageRaincheck“no”Use ‘I’statementsReflecting"no"Change thesubject-say,let's go get asnack, I'mhungryBrokenrecord“no”Feelings ofresentment"Unfortunately, Ihave too muchto do today. Ican help youanother time."Wantto befriendly" Sorry, I havealreadycommitted tosomething else.I hope youunderstand."Ignoreour ownneedsDon'twant tobe rudeBreakingthe habitof peoplepleasingRiskbecomingoverwhelmedFeelingsof stressandfatigue"How aboutinstead of medoing that, Ihelp you withsomethingelse?"Takingcare ofourselvesBeclear"I reallyshouldn't thistime, butthank you."FREEPrioritizingour ownneedsInquiring“no”Direct‘no”Missing outonopportunitiesReasoned“no”Respectingour limitsHealthier,happierfuture forourselvesEstablishboundaries"That soundsso exciting,but we'll haveto wait foranother time."Neglectingour needsListenDamagingourrelationships"I know that'schallenging foryou, but I don'thave the capacityto help you at themoment."BekindDon'tberudeBeempatheticLosingfriendshipsConditionedto be politeProtect ourtime,energy, andwell-being.Lettingothersdown

Saying No (Adult version) - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Say, maybe another time
  2. Say, maybe another time
  3. Nonverbal- Be firm and confident with body language
  4. Raincheck “no”
  5. Use ‘I’ statements
  6. Reflecting "no"
  7. Change the subject-say, let's go get a snack, I'm hungry
  8. Broken record “no”
  9. Feelings of resentment
  10. "Unfortunately, I have too much to do today. I can help you another time."
  11. Want to be friendly
  12. " Sorry, I have already committed to something else. I hope you understand."
  13. Ignore our own needs
  14. Don't want to be rude
  15. Breaking the habit of people pleasing
  16. Risk becoming overwhelmed
  17. Feelings of stress and fatigue
  18. "How about instead of me doing that, I help you with something else?"
  19. Taking care of ourselves
  20. Be clear
  21. "I really shouldn't this time, but thank you."
  22. FREE
  23. Prioritizing our own needs
  24. Inquiring “no”
  25. Direct ‘no”
  26. Missing out on opportunities
  27. Reasoned “no”
  28. Respecting our limits
  29. Healthier, happier future for ourselves
  30. Establish boundaries
  31. "That sounds so exciting, but we'll have to wait for another time."
  32. Neglecting our needs
  33. Listen
  34. Damaging our relationships
  35. "I know that's challenging for you, but I don't have the capacity to help you at the moment."
  36. Be kind
  37. Don't be rude
  38. Be empathetic
  39. Losing friendships
  40. Conditioned to be polite
  41. Protect our time, energy, and well-being.
  42. Letting others down