Spend timewith friendswho arekindWork onways to buildon your selfesteemTakescreenshotsWalkAwayTalk witha trustedadult"This is upsettingbut I don't have toput up with this. Iwill not makeanymoreattempts to talk"Walkaway fromthefriendshipDo notsharepasswordsFocus yourtime on yourhobbies andinterestsDo not agreeto do whatthe person isasking you"Don't roleyour eyesat me- it isrude".Be assertiveand speakup whenothers hurtyou.Don'tRespond .SometimesSilence isbest.Focus timeon what youdo well andget evenbetter at it."It is hurtful toknow that youonly want to befriends if I dostuff for you"Make 1 or 2attempts tospeak withthem thanstop.Ignore it.Don't givethemattention.Ask others tojoin their groupbut do not beganyone to beyour friend."Please don'ttalk about methat way. Thosethings aren't trueand could hurtmy reputation".Reportbullying"I feel sad foryou that youneed to putother peopledown""You arelooking at me ina way I'm notused to. Whyare you doingthat"?Block thepersonbullyingsave themessagesand showan adultDo NotRespond tocyberbullyingDo notrespondto insultsDo not talkbad about theperson hurtingyou with otherfriendsUse An IMessageSet asidetime for youand yourfriend to talkabout it.Spend timewith friendswho arekindWork onways to buildon your selfesteemTakescreenshotsWalkAwayTalk witha trustedadult"This is upsettingbut I don't have toput up with this. Iwill not makeanymoreattempts to talk"Walkaway fromthefriendshipDo notsharepasswordsFocus yourtime on yourhobbies andinterestsDo not agreeto do whatthe person isasking you"Don't roleyour eyesat me- it isrude".Be assertiveand speakup whenothers hurtyou.Don'tRespond .SometimesSilence isbest.Focus timeon what youdo well andget evenbetter at it."It is hurtful toknow that youonly want to befriends if I dostuff for you"Make 1 or 2attempts tospeak withthem thanstop.Ignore it.Don't givethemattention.Ask others tojoin their groupbut do not beganyone to beyour friend."Please don'ttalk about methat way. Thosethings aren't trueand could hurtmy reputation".Reportbullying"I feel sad foryou that youneed to putother peopledown""You arelooking at me ina way I'm notused to. Whyare you doingthat"?Block thepersonbullyingsave themessagesand showan adultDo NotRespond tocyberbullyingDo notrespondto insultsDo not talkbad about theperson hurtingyou with otherfriendsUse An IMessageSet asidetime for youand yourfriend to talkabout it.

Coping Strategies for Relational Aggression - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Spend time with friends who are kind
  2. Work on ways to build on your self esteem
  3. Take screen shots
  4. Walk Away
  5. Talk with a trusted adult
  6. "This is upsetting but I don't have to put up with this. I will not make anymore attempts to talk"
  7. Walk away from the friendship
  8. Do not share passwords
  9. Focus your time on your hobbies and interests
  10. Do not agree to do what the person is asking you
  11. "Don't role your eyes at me- it is rude".
  12. Be assertive and speak up when others hurt you.
  13. Don't Respond . Sometimes Silence is best.
  14. Focus time on what you do well and get even better at it.
  15. "It is hurtful to know that you only want to be friends if I do stuff for you"
  16. Make 1 or 2 attempts to speak with them than stop.
  17. Ignore it. Don't give them attention.
  18. Ask others to join their group but do not beg anyone to be your friend.
  19. "Please don't talk about me that way. Those things aren't true and could hurt my reputation".
  20. Report bullying
  21. "I feel sad for you that you need to put other people down"
  22. "You are looking at me in a way I'm not used to. Why are you doing that"?
  23. Block the person bullying
  24. save the messages and show an adult
  25. Do Not Respond to cyberbullying
  26. Do not respond to insults
  27. Do not talk bad about the person hurting you with other friends
  28. Use An I Message
  29. Set aside time for you and your friend to talk about it.