"Don't roleyour eyesat me- it isrude".Use An IMessage"This is upsettingbut I don't have toput up with this. Iwill not makeanymoreattempts to talk""Please don'ttalk about methat way. Thosethings aren't trueand could hurtmy reputation".Ask others tojoin their groupbut do not beganyone to beyour friend.save themessagesand showan adultReportbullyingSpend timewith friendswho arekindIgnore it.Don't givethemattention.Do not talkbad about theperson hurtingyou with otherfriendsFocus timeon what youdo well andget evenbetter at it.Make 1 or 2attempts tospeak withthem thanstop.Be assertiveand speakup whenothers hurtyou.Do NotRespond tocyberbullyingWalkaway fromthefriendship"It is hurtful toknow that youonly want to befriends if I dostuff for you"Do notsharepasswordsBlock thepersonbullyingTalk witha trustedadultWork onways to buildon your selfesteemSet asidetime for youand yourfriend to talkabout it.Do not agreeto do whatthe person isasking youDo notrespondto insultsWalkAway"You arelooking at me ina way I'm notused to. Whyare you doingthat"?Focus yourtime on yourhobbies andinterestsDon'tRespond .SometimesSilence isbest.Takescreenshots"I feel sad foryou that youneed to putother peopledown""Don't roleyour eyesat me- it isrude".Use An IMessage"This is upsettingbut I don't have toput up with this. Iwill not makeanymoreattempts to talk""Please don'ttalk about methat way. Thosethings aren't trueand could hurtmy reputation".Ask others tojoin their groupbut do not beganyone to beyour friend.save themessagesand showan adultReportbullyingSpend timewith friendswho arekindIgnore it.Don't givethemattention.Do not talkbad about theperson hurtingyou with otherfriendsFocus timeon what youdo well andget evenbetter at it.Make 1 or 2attempts tospeak withthem thanstop.Be assertiveand speakup whenothers hurtyou.Do NotRespond tocyberbullyingWalkaway fromthefriendship"It is hurtful toknow that youonly want to befriends if I dostuff for you"Do notsharepasswordsBlock thepersonbullyingTalk witha trustedadultWork onways to buildon your selfesteemSet asidetime for youand yourfriend to talkabout it.Do not agreeto do whatthe person isasking youDo notrespondto insultsWalkAway"You arelooking at me ina way I'm notused to. Whyare you doingthat"?Focus yourtime on yourhobbies andinterestsDon'tRespond .SometimesSilence isbest.Takescreenshots"I feel sad foryou that youneed to putother peopledown"

Coping Strategies for Relational Aggression - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. "Don't role your eyes at me- it is rude".
  2. Use An I Message
  3. "This is upsetting but I don't have to put up with this. I will not make anymore attempts to talk"
  4. "Please don't talk about me that way. Those things aren't true and could hurt my reputation".
  5. Ask others to join their group but do not beg anyone to be your friend.
  6. save the messages and show an adult
  7. Report bullying
  8. Spend time with friends who are kind
  9. Ignore it. Don't give them attention.
  10. Do not talk bad about the person hurting you with other friends
  11. Focus time on what you do well and get even better at it.
  12. Make 1 or 2 attempts to speak with them than stop.
  13. Be assertive and speak up when others hurt you.
  14. Do Not Respond to cyberbullying
  15. Walk away from the friendship
  16. "It is hurtful to know that you only want to be friends if I do stuff for you"
  17. Do not share passwords
  18. Block the person bullying
  19. Talk with a trusted adult
  20. Work on ways to build on your self esteem
  21. Set aside time for you and your friend to talk about it.
  22. Do not agree to do what the person is asking you
  23. Do not respond to insults
  24. Walk Away
  25. "You are looking at me in a way I'm not used to. Why are you doing that"?
  26. Focus your time on your hobbies and interests
  27. Don't Respond . Sometimes Silence is best.
  28. Take screen shots
  29. "I feel sad for you that you need to put other people down"