"It is hurtful toknow that youonly want to befriends if I dostuff for you"Set asidetime for youand yourfriend to talkabout it."This is upsettingbut I don't have toput up with this. Iwill not makeanymoreattempts to talk"Do NotRespond tocyberbullying"I feel sad foryou that youneed to putother peopledown""You arelooking at me ina way I'm notused to. Whyare you doingthat"?Don'tRespond .SometimesSilence isbest."Don't roleyour eyesat me- it isrude".save themessagesand showan adultIgnore it.Don't givethemattention.Talk witha trustedadult"Please don'ttalk about methat way. Thosethings aren't trueand could hurtmy reputation".Walkaway fromthefriendshipDo notrespondto insultsReportbullyingBe assertiveand speakup whenothers hurtyou.Do not talkbad about theperson hurtingyou with otherfriendsFocus yourtime on yourhobbies andinterestsMake 1 or 2attempts tospeak withthem thanstop.Use An IMessageAsk others tojoin their groupbut do not beganyone to beyour friend.WalkAwaySpend timewith friendswho arekindDo notsharepasswordsWork onways to buildon your selfesteemTakescreenshotsFocus timeon what youdo well andget evenbetter at it.Block thepersonbullyingDo not agreeto do whatthe person isasking you"It is hurtful toknow that youonly want to befriends if I dostuff for you"Set asidetime for youand yourfriend to talkabout it."This is upsettingbut I don't have toput up with this. Iwill not makeanymoreattempts to talk"Do NotRespond tocyberbullying"I feel sad foryou that youneed to putother peopledown""You arelooking at me ina way I'm notused to. Whyare you doingthat"?Don'tRespond .SometimesSilence isbest."Don't roleyour eyesat me- it isrude".save themessagesand showan adultIgnore it.Don't givethemattention.Talk witha trustedadult"Please don'ttalk about methat way. Thosethings aren't trueand could hurtmy reputation".Walkaway fromthefriendshipDo notrespondto insultsReportbullyingBe assertiveand speakup whenothers hurtyou.Do not talkbad about theperson hurtingyou with otherfriendsFocus yourtime on yourhobbies andinterestsMake 1 or 2attempts tospeak withthem thanstop.Use An IMessageAsk others tojoin their groupbut do not beganyone to beyour friend.WalkAwaySpend timewith friendswho arekindDo notsharepasswordsWork onways to buildon your selfesteemTakescreenshotsFocus timeon what youdo well andget evenbetter at it.Block thepersonbullyingDo not agreeto do whatthe person isasking you

Coping Strategies for Relational Aggression - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. "It is hurtful to know that you only want to be friends if I do stuff for you"
  2. Set aside time for you and your friend to talk about it.
  3. "This is upsetting but I don't have to put up with this. I will not make anymore attempts to talk"
  4. Do Not Respond to cyberbullying
  5. "I feel sad for you that you need to put other people down"
  6. "You are looking at me in a way I'm not used to. Why are you doing that"?
  7. Don't Respond . Sometimes Silence is best.
  8. "Don't role your eyes at me- it is rude".
  9. save the messages and show an adult
  10. Ignore it. Don't give them attention.
  11. Talk with a trusted adult
  12. "Please don't talk about me that way. Those things aren't true and could hurt my reputation".
  13. Walk away from the friendship
  14. Do not respond to insults
  15. Report bullying
  16. Be assertive and speak up when others hurt you.
  17. Do not talk bad about the person hurting you with other friends
  18. Focus your time on your hobbies and interests
  19. Make 1 or 2 attempts to speak with them than stop.
  20. Use An I Message
  21. Ask others to join their group but do not beg anyone to be your friend.
  22. Walk Away
  23. Spend time with friends who are kind
  24. Do not share passwords
  25. Work on ways to build on your self esteem
  26. Take screen shots
  27. Focus time on what you do well and get even better at it.
  28. Block the person bullying
  29. Do not agree to do what the person is asking you