WorkthematerialLet go ofdestructiverelationshipsDo the bestyou canwith whatyou haveMake adecisionTalkyourselfthrough itPracticedelayReach forcommunityresourcesNoticethecostLearn fromexperienceRethinkGetorganizedSet aboundaryNotice thechoicepointPrioritizehealingSelf-nurtureDetach fromemotional(GROUNDING)Focuson nowSetbacksare notfailuresMovetowardyouroppositeNoticewhat youcancontrolCompassionProtectyourselfPaceyourselfAsk forhelpReplaythesceneTakeresponsibilityIdentifya beliefCreatea newstoryRewardyourselfPersistTake goodcare ofyour body LinkPTSD andsubstanceabuseLeavea badsceneReplacedestructiveactivitiesTrusttheprocessCreateMeaningAskothersCreatea bufferFindrule tolive byHealingaboveallExaminetheevidenceListento yourneedsImangineDo therightthingPraiseyourselfInspireyourselfMake acommitmentSeekunderstanding,not blameFightthetriggerExpect growthto feeluncomfortableWatch fordangersignsNoticethesourceSet anactionplanAlone isbetter thana badrelationshipIf one waydoesn'twork, tryanotherHonestyAttendtreatmentObserverepeatingpatternsThink of theconsequenceListyouroptionsGet otherto supportyourrecoveryIntegratethe splitselfUsekinderlanguagePlanit outTrysomething,anythingCreatepositiveaddictionsSet adealineStructureyour dayStaysafeSay whatyou reallythinkChooseself-resepectWhen indoubt,don'tSolvetheproblemToleratethefeelingActionsfirst andfeelingswill followAvoidavoidablesufferingSoothingtalkCreatenew"tapes"When indoubt, dowhat'shardestWorkthematerialLet go ofdestructiverelationshipsDo the bestyou canwith whatyou haveMake adecisionTalkyourselfthrough itPracticedelayReach forcommunityresourcesNoticethecostLearn fromexperienceRethinkGetorganizedSet aboundaryNotice thechoicepointPrioritizehealingSelf-nurtureDetach fromemotional(GROUNDING)Focuson nowSetbacksare notfailuresMovetowardyouroppositeNoticewhat youcancontrolCompassionProtectyourselfPaceyourselfAsk forhelpReplaythesceneTakeresponsibilityIdentifya beliefCreatea newstoryRewardyourselfPersistTake goodcare ofyour body LinkPTSD andsubstanceabuseLeavea badsceneReplacedestructiveactivitiesTrusttheprocessCreateMeaningAskothersCreatea bufferFindrule tolive byHealingaboveallExaminetheevidenceListento yourneedsImangineDo therightthingPraiseyourselfInspireyourselfMake acommitmentSeekunderstanding,not blameFightthetriggerExpect growthto feeluncomfortableWatch fordangersignsNoticethesourceSet anactionplanAlone isbetter thana badrelationshipIf one waydoesn'twork, tryanotherHonestyAttendtreatmentObserverepeatingpatternsThink of theconsequenceListyouroptionsGet otherto supportyourrecoveryIntegratethe splitselfUsekinderlanguagePlanit outTrysomething,anythingCreatepositiveaddictionsSet adealineStructureyour dayStaysafeSay whatyou reallythinkChooseself-resepectWhen indoubt,don'tSolvetheproblemToleratethefeelingActionsfirst andfeelingswill followAvoidavoidablesufferingSoothingtalkCreatenew"tapes"When indoubt, dowhat'shardest

Safe Coping Skills - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Work the material
  2. Let go of destructive relationships
  3. Do the best you can with what you have
  4. Make a decision
  5. Talk yourself through it
  6. Practice delay
  7. Reach for community resources
  8. Notice the cost
  9. Learn from experience
  10. Rethink
  11. Get organized
  12. Set a boundary
  13. Notice the choice point
  14. Prioritize healing
  15. Self-nurture
  16. Detach from emotional (GROUNDING)
  17. Focus on now
  18. Setbacks are not failures
  19. Move toward your opposite
  20. Notice what you can control
  21. Compassion
  22. Protect yourself
  23. Pace yourself
  24. Ask for help
  25. Replay the scene
  26. Take responsibility
  27. Identify a belief
  28. Create a new story
  29. Reward yourself
  30. Persist
  31. Take good care of your body
  32. Link PTSD and substance abuse
  33. Leave a bad scene
  34. Replace destructive activities
  35. Trust the process
  36. Create Meaning
  37. Ask others
  38. Create a buffer
  39. Find rule to live by
  40. Healing above all
  41. Examine the evidence
  42. Listen to your needs
  43. Imangine
  44. Do the right thing
  45. Praise yourself
  46. Inspire yourself
  47. Make a commitment
  48. Seek understanding, not blame
  49. Fight the trigger
  50. Expect growth to feel uncomfortable
  51. Watch for danger signs
  52. Notice the source
  53. Set an action plan
  54. Alone is better than a bad relationship
  55. If one way doesn't work, try another
  56. Honesty
  57. Attend treatment
  58. Observe repeating patterns
  59. Think of the consequence
  60. List your options
  61. Get other to support your recovery
  62. Integrate the split self
  63. Use kinder language
  64. Plan it out
  65. Try something, anything
  66. Create positive addictions
  67. Set a dealine
  68. Structure your day
  69. Stay safe
  70. Say what you really think
  71. Choose self-resepect
  72. When in doubt, don't
  73. Solve the problem
  74. Tolerate the feeling
  75. Actions first and feelings will follow
  76. Avoid avoidable suffering
  77. Soothing talk
  78. Create new "tapes"
  79. When in doubt, do what's hardest