I apologizewhen Iwasn't atfaultI said yes,when Iwanted tosay noI stayedsilent toavoidrejectionI putsomeoneelse's needsahead of myownI struggledto identifywhat IwantI feltdrainedaftersocializingIoverexplainedmyselfI avoidedaskingfor helpI base myworth onwhat I dofor othersI ignoredmy ownneedsI took on toomuchresponsibilityI ignored redflags inrelationshipsI avoidedconflict to"keep thepeace "I felt anxiouswhen otherswere upsetI obsessedoversomeoneelse'sproblemsFreespaceI'mGrowing!I fearedbeingsane as"selfish "I fearedbeingaloneI try to"fix"someoneI avoidedsettingboundariesI felt guiltyfor takingtime formyselfI tried tocontroloutcomesI feltresponsiblefor someoneelse'sfeelingsI neededexternalvalidationto feel OKI apologizewhen Iwasn't atfaultI said yes,when Iwanted tosay noI stayedsilent toavoidrejectionI putsomeoneelse's needsahead of myownI struggledto identifywhat IwantI feltdrainedaftersocializingIoverexplainedmyselfI avoidedaskingfor helpI base myworth onwhat I dofor othersI ignoredmy ownneedsI took on toomuchresponsibilityI ignored redflags inrelationshipsI avoidedconflict to"keep thepeace "I felt anxiouswhen otherswere upsetI obsessedoversomeoneelse'sproblemsFreespaceI'mGrowing!I fearedbeingsane as"selfish "I fearedbeingaloneI try to"fix"someoneI avoidedsettingboundariesI felt guiltyfor takingtime formyselfI tried tocontroloutcomesI feltresponsiblefor someoneelse'sfeelingsI neededexternalvalidationto feel OK

Codependency - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. I apologize when I wasn't at fault
  2. I said yes, when I wanted to say no
  3. I stayed silent to avoid rejection
  4. I put someone else's needs ahead of my own
  5. I struggled to identify what I want
  6. I felt drained after socializing
  7. I overexplained myself
  8. I avoided asking for help
  9. I base my worth on what I do for others
  10. I ignored my own needs
  11. I took on too much responsibility
  12. I ignored red flags in relationships
  13. I avoided conflict to "keep the peace "
  14. I felt anxious when others were upset
  15. I obsessed over someone else's problems
  16. Free space I'm Growing!
  17. I feared being sane as "selfish "
  18. I feared being alone
  19. I try to "fix" someone
  20. I avoided setting boundaries
  21. I felt guilty for taking time for myself
  22. I tried to control outcomes
  23. I felt responsible for someone else's feelings
  24. I needed external validation to feel OK