I felt anxiouswhen otherswere upsetI feltresponsiblefor someoneelse'sfeelingsI neededexternalvalidationto feel OKI ignored redflags inrelationshipsI fearedbeingaloneI putsomeoneelse's needsahead of myownI felt guiltyfor takingtime formyselfI obsessedoversomeoneelse'sproblemsI feltdrainedaftersocializingI avoidedconflict to"keep thepeace "I stayedsilent toavoidrejectionI said yes,when Iwanted tosay noIoverexplainedmyselfI fearedbeingsane as"selfish "I try to"fix"someoneI avoidedsettingboundariesI apologizewhen Iwasn't atfaultI ignoredmy ownneedsI base myworth onwhat I dofor othersFreespaceI'mGrowing!I avoidedaskingfor helpI tried tocontroloutcomesI struggledto identifywhat IwantI took on toomuchresponsibilityI felt anxiouswhen otherswere upsetI feltresponsiblefor someoneelse'sfeelingsI neededexternalvalidationto feel OKI ignored redflags inrelationshipsI fearedbeingaloneI putsomeoneelse's needsahead of myownI felt guiltyfor takingtime formyselfI obsessedoversomeoneelse'sproblemsI feltdrainedaftersocializingI avoidedconflict to"keep thepeace "I stayedsilent toavoidrejectionI said yes,when Iwanted tosay noIoverexplainedmyselfI fearedbeingsane as"selfish "I try to"fix"someoneI avoidedsettingboundariesI apologizewhen Iwasn't atfaultI ignoredmy ownneedsI base myworth onwhat I dofor othersFreespaceI'mGrowing!I avoidedaskingfor helpI tried tocontroloutcomesI struggledto identifywhat IwantI took on toomuchresponsibility

Codependency - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. I felt anxious when others were upset
  2. I felt responsible for someone else's feelings
  3. I needed external validation to feel OK
  4. I ignored red flags in relationships
  5. I feared being alone
  6. I put someone else's needs ahead of my own
  7. I felt guilty for taking time for myself
  8. I obsessed over someone else's problems
  9. I felt drained after socializing
  10. I avoided conflict to "keep the peace "
  11. I stayed silent to avoid rejection
  12. I said yes, when I wanted to say no
  13. I overexplained myself
  14. I feared being sane as "selfish "
  15. I try to "fix" someone
  16. I avoided setting boundaries
  17. I apologize when I wasn't at fault
  18. I ignored my own needs
  19. I base my worth on what I do for others
  20. Free space I'm Growing!
  21. I avoided asking for help
  22. I tried to control outcomes
  23. I struggled to identify what I want
  24. I took on too much responsibility