I avoidedconflict to"keep thepeace "I neededexternalvalidationto feel OKI avoidedsettingboundariesI avoidedaskingfor helpI stayedsilent toavoidrejectionI said yes,when Iwanted tosay noI felt anxiouswhen otherswere upsetI struggledto identifywhat IwantI base myworth onwhat I dofor othersI obsessedoversomeoneelse'sproblemsI fearedbeingsane as"selfish "I felt guiltyfor takingtime formyselfI tried tocontroloutcomesI apologizewhen Iwasn't atfaultI took on toomuchresponsibilityI feltresponsiblefor someoneelse'sfeelingsI ignored redflags inrelationshipsI ignoredmy ownneedsFreespaceI'mGrowing!IoverexplainedmyselfI try to"fix"someoneI putsomeoneelse's needsahead of myownI feltdrainedaftersocializingI fearedbeingaloneI avoidedconflict to"keep thepeace "I neededexternalvalidationto feel OKI avoidedsettingboundariesI avoidedaskingfor helpI stayedsilent toavoidrejectionI said yes,when Iwanted tosay noI felt anxiouswhen otherswere upsetI struggledto identifywhat IwantI base myworth onwhat I dofor othersI obsessedoversomeoneelse'sproblemsI fearedbeingsane as"selfish "I felt guiltyfor takingtime formyselfI tried tocontroloutcomesI apologizewhen Iwasn't atfaultI took on toomuchresponsibilityI feltresponsiblefor someoneelse'sfeelingsI ignored redflags inrelationshipsI ignoredmy ownneedsFreespaceI'mGrowing!IoverexplainedmyselfI try to"fix"someoneI putsomeoneelse's needsahead of myownI feltdrainedaftersocializingI fearedbeingalone

Codependency - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. I avoided conflict to "keep the peace "
  2. I needed external validation to feel OK
  3. I avoided setting boundaries
  4. I avoided asking for help
  5. I stayed silent to avoid rejection
  6. I said yes, when I wanted to say no
  7. I felt anxious when others were upset
  8. I struggled to identify what I want
  9. I base my worth on what I do for others
  10. I obsessed over someone else's problems
  11. I feared being sane as "selfish "
  12. I felt guilty for taking time for myself
  13. I tried to control outcomes
  14. I apologize when I wasn't at fault
  15. I took on too much responsibility
  16. I felt responsible for someone else's feelings
  17. I ignored red flags in relationships
  18. I ignored my own needs
  19. Free space I'm Growing!
  20. I overexplained myself
  21. I try to "fix" someone
  22. I put someone else's needs ahead of my own
  23. I felt drained after socializing
  24. I feared being alone