I putsomeoneelse's needsahead of myownFreespaceI'mGrowing!I avoidedconflict to"keep thepeace "I fearedbeingsane as"selfish "I tried tocontroloutcomesI try to"fix"someoneI ignoredmy ownneedsI ignored redflags inrelationshipsI feltdrainedaftersocializingI struggledto identifywhat IwantI avoidedsettingboundariesI obsessedoversomeoneelse'sproblemsI felt guiltyfor takingtime formyselfI fearedbeingaloneI took on toomuchresponsibilityI said yes,when Iwanted tosay noI avoidedaskingfor helpI apologizewhen Iwasn't atfaultI stayedsilent toavoidrejectionI base myworth onwhat I dofor othersI feltresponsiblefor someoneelse'sfeelingsIoverexplainedmyselfI neededexternalvalidationto feel OKI felt anxiouswhen otherswere upsetI putsomeoneelse's needsahead of myownFreespaceI'mGrowing!I avoidedconflict to"keep thepeace "I fearedbeingsane as"selfish "I tried tocontroloutcomesI try to"fix"someoneI ignoredmy ownneedsI ignored redflags inrelationshipsI feltdrainedaftersocializingI struggledto identifywhat IwantI avoidedsettingboundariesI obsessedoversomeoneelse'sproblemsI felt guiltyfor takingtime formyselfI fearedbeingaloneI took on toomuchresponsibilityI said yes,when Iwanted tosay noI avoidedaskingfor helpI apologizewhen Iwasn't atfaultI stayedsilent toavoidrejectionI base myworth onwhat I dofor othersI feltresponsiblefor someoneelse'sfeelingsIoverexplainedmyselfI neededexternalvalidationto feel OKI felt anxiouswhen otherswere upset

Codependency - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. I put someone else's needs ahead of my own
  2. Free space I'm Growing!
  3. I avoided conflict to "keep the peace "
  4. I feared being sane as "selfish "
  5. I tried to control outcomes
  6. I try to "fix" someone
  7. I ignored my own needs
  8. I ignored red flags in relationships
  9. I felt drained after socializing
  10. I struggled to identify what I want
  11. I avoided setting boundaries
  12. I obsessed over someone else's problems
  13. I felt guilty for taking time for myself
  14. I feared being alone
  15. I took on too much responsibility
  16. I said yes, when I wanted to say no
  17. I avoided asking for help
  18. I apologize when I wasn't at fault
  19. I stayed silent to avoid rejection
  20. I base my worth on what I do for others
  21. I felt responsible for someone else's feelings
  22. I overexplained myself
  23. I needed external validation to feel OK
  24. I felt anxious when others were upset