I avoidedaskingfor helpI try to"fix"someoneI feltresponsiblefor someoneelse'sfeelingsI took on toomuchresponsibilityI neededexternalvalidationto feel OKI feltdrainedaftersocializingI avoidedconflict to"keep thepeace "I fearedbeingsane as"selfish "I obsessedoversomeoneelse'sproblemsI said yes,when Iwanted tosay noI fearedbeingaloneI stayedsilent toavoidrejectionI ignored redflags inrelationshipsI putsomeoneelse's needsahead of myownI tried tocontroloutcomesI felt guiltyfor takingtime formyselfI base myworth onwhat I dofor othersIoverexplainedmyselfFreespaceI'mGrowing!I avoidedsettingboundariesI felt anxiouswhen otherswere upsetI apologizewhen Iwasn't atfaultI ignoredmy ownneedsI struggledto identifywhat IwantI avoidedaskingfor helpI try to"fix"someoneI feltresponsiblefor someoneelse'sfeelingsI took on toomuchresponsibilityI neededexternalvalidationto feel OKI feltdrainedaftersocializingI avoidedconflict to"keep thepeace "I fearedbeingsane as"selfish "I obsessedoversomeoneelse'sproblemsI said yes,when Iwanted tosay noI fearedbeingaloneI stayedsilent toavoidrejectionI ignored redflags inrelationshipsI putsomeoneelse's needsahead of myownI tried tocontroloutcomesI felt guiltyfor takingtime formyselfI base myworth onwhat I dofor othersIoverexplainedmyselfFreespaceI'mGrowing!I avoidedsettingboundariesI felt anxiouswhen otherswere upsetI apologizewhen Iwasn't atfaultI ignoredmy ownneedsI struggledto identifywhat Iwant

Codependency - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. I avoided asking for help
  2. I try to "fix" someone
  3. I felt responsible for someone else's feelings
  4. I took on too much responsibility
  5. I needed external validation to feel OK
  6. I felt drained after socializing
  7. I avoided conflict to "keep the peace "
  8. I feared being sane as "selfish "
  9. I obsessed over someone else's problems
  10. I said yes, when I wanted to say no
  11. I feared being alone
  12. I stayed silent to avoid rejection
  13. I ignored red flags in relationships
  14. I put someone else's needs ahead of my own
  15. I tried to control outcomes
  16. I felt guilty for taking time for myself
  17. I base my worth on what I do for others
  18. I overexplained myself
  19. Free space I'm Growing!
  20. I avoided setting boundaries
  21. I felt anxious when others were upset
  22. I apologize when I wasn't at fault
  23. I ignored my own needs
  24. I struggled to identify what I want