I ignored redflags inrelationshipsI neededexternalvalidationto feel OKI base myworth onwhat I dofor othersI try to"fix"someoneI fearedbeingsane as"selfish "FreespaceI'mGrowing!I feltdrainedaftersocializingI apologizewhen Iwasn't atfaultI avoidedsettingboundariesI struggledto identifywhat IwantI stayedsilent toavoidrejectionI took on toomuchresponsibilityI ignoredmy ownneedsI putsomeoneelse's needsahead of myownI fearedbeingaloneI avoidedconflict to"keep thepeace "I feltresponsiblefor someoneelse'sfeelingsI felt anxiouswhen otherswere upsetI avoidedaskingfor helpI said yes,when Iwanted tosay noI felt guiltyfor takingtime formyselfIoverexplainedmyselfI tried tocontroloutcomesI obsessedoversomeoneelse'sproblemsI ignored redflags inrelationshipsI neededexternalvalidationto feel OKI base myworth onwhat I dofor othersI try to"fix"someoneI fearedbeingsane as"selfish "FreespaceI'mGrowing!I feltdrainedaftersocializingI apologizewhen Iwasn't atfaultI avoidedsettingboundariesI struggledto identifywhat IwantI stayedsilent toavoidrejectionI took on toomuchresponsibilityI ignoredmy ownneedsI putsomeoneelse's needsahead of myownI fearedbeingaloneI avoidedconflict to"keep thepeace "I feltresponsiblefor someoneelse'sfeelingsI felt anxiouswhen otherswere upsetI avoidedaskingfor helpI said yes,when Iwanted tosay noI felt guiltyfor takingtime formyselfIoverexplainedmyselfI tried tocontroloutcomesI obsessedoversomeoneelse'sproblems

Codependency - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. I ignored red flags in relationships
  2. I needed external validation to feel OK
  3. I base my worth on what I do for others
  4. I try to "fix" someone
  5. I feared being sane as "selfish "
  6. Free space I'm Growing!
  7. I felt drained after socializing
  8. I apologize when I wasn't at fault
  9. I avoided setting boundaries
  10. I struggled to identify what I want
  11. I stayed silent to avoid rejection
  12. I took on too much responsibility
  13. I ignored my own needs
  14. I put someone else's needs ahead of my own
  15. I feared being alone
  16. I avoided conflict to "keep the peace "
  17. I felt responsible for someone else's feelings
  18. I felt anxious when others were upset
  19. I avoided asking for help
  20. I said yes, when I wanted to say no
  21. I felt guilty for taking time for myself
  22. I overexplained myself
  23. I tried to control outcomes
  24. I obsessed over someone else's problems