Got your feelingsundermined andinvalidated(“you’reoverreacting”,“you’re just beingsensitive”)Pretended tobe andperformed asthe perfectfamily in front ofothersFeelingresponsible fortheir feelingsand uplifting themood whenthey get upsetGot told youowe it to themfor bringing youup or sacrificingfor youGuilt tripped intogiving up yourresources orsacrificing yourwell-being to puttheir needs first⁠Be a mediator toyour parents’arguments (bonuspoints if you werealso theirconfidanteafterwards)Got falsely putdown or criticisedin front of others(“you’re terrible atsports!” whenyou’re not)Be blamedfor thingsbeyondyour controlThey talked aboutyou to either bragabout you to seekvalidation from othersthat they’re greatparents or to showthat they’re a victimbecause of youGot labelled asrebellious/insistentfor wantingsomething foryourself or wantingindependenceGot your feelingsundermined andinvalidated(“you’reoverreacting”,“you’re just beingsensitive”)Pretended tobe andperformed asthe perfectfamily in front ofothersFeelingresponsible fortheir feelingsand uplifting themood whenthey get upsetGot told youowe it to themfor bringing youup or sacrificingfor youGuilt tripped intogiving up yourresources orsacrificing yourwell-being to puttheir needs first⁠Be a mediator toyour parents’arguments (bonuspoints if you werealso theirconfidanteafterwards)Got falsely putdown or criticisedin front of others(“you’re terrible atsports!” whenyou’re not)Be blamedfor thingsbeyondyour controlThey talked aboutyou to either bragabout you to seekvalidation from othersthat they’re greatparents or to showthat they’re a victimbecause of youGot labelled asrebellious/insistentfor wantingsomething foryourself or wantingindependence

Narcissistic Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Got your feelings undermined and invalidated (“you’re overreacting”, “you’re just being sensitive”)
  2. Pretended to be and performed as the perfect family in front of others
  3. Feeling responsible for their feelings and uplifting the mood when they get upset
  4. Got told you owe it to them for bringing you up or sacrificing for you
  5. Guilt tripped into giving up your resources or sacrificing your well-being to put their needs first
  6. ⁠Be a mediator to your parents’ arguments (bonus points if you were also their confidante afterwards)
  7. Got falsely put down or criticised in front of others (“you’re terrible at sports!” when you’re not)
  8. Be blamed for things beyond your control
  9. They talked about you to either brag about you to seek validation from others that they’re great parents or to show that they’re a victim because of you
  10. Got labelled as rebellious/insistent for wanting something for yourself or wanting independence