Guilt tripped intogiving up yourresources orsacrificing yourwell-being to puttheir needs firstFeelingresponsible fortheir feelingsand uplifting themood whenthey get upsetGot labelled asrebellious/insistentfor wantingsomething foryourself or wantingindependenceGot falsely putdown or criticisedin front of others(“you’re terrible atsports!” whenyou’re not)Pretended tobe andperformed asthe perfectfamily in front ofothersGot your feelingsundermined andinvalidated(“you’reoverreacting”,“you’re just beingsensitive”)They talked aboutyou to either bragabout you to seekvalidation from othersthat they’re greatparents or to showthat they’re a victimbecause of you⁠Be a mediator toyour parents’arguments (bonuspoints if you werealso theirconfidanteafterwards)Be blamedfor thingsbeyondyour controlGot told youowe it to themfor bringing youup or sacrificingfor youGuilt tripped intogiving up yourresources orsacrificing yourwell-being to puttheir needs firstFeelingresponsible fortheir feelingsand uplifting themood whenthey get upsetGot labelled asrebellious/insistentfor wantingsomething foryourself or wantingindependenceGot falsely putdown or criticisedin front of others(“you’re terrible atsports!” whenyou’re not)Pretended tobe andperformed asthe perfectfamily in front ofothersGot your feelingsundermined andinvalidated(“you’reoverreacting”,“you’re just beingsensitive”)They talked aboutyou to either bragabout you to seekvalidation from othersthat they’re greatparents or to showthat they’re a victimbecause of you⁠Be a mediator toyour parents’arguments (bonuspoints if you werealso theirconfidanteafterwards)Be blamedfor thingsbeyondyour controlGot told youowe it to themfor bringing youup or sacrificingfor you

Narcissistic Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Guilt tripped into giving up your resources or sacrificing your well-being to put their needs first
  2. Feeling responsible for their feelings and uplifting the mood when they get upset
  3. Got labelled as rebellious/insistent for wanting something for yourself or wanting independence
  4. Got falsely put down or criticised in front of others (“you’re terrible at sports!” when you’re not)
  5. Pretended to be and performed as the perfect family in front of others
  6. Got your feelings undermined and invalidated (“you’re overreacting”, “you’re just being sensitive”)
  7. They talked about you to either brag about you to seek validation from others that they’re great parents or to show that they’re a victim because of you
  8. ⁠Be a mediator to your parents’ arguments (bonus points if you were also their confidante afterwards)
  9. Be blamed for things beyond your control
  10. Got told you owe it to them for bringing you up or sacrificing for you