They talked aboutyou to either bragabout you to seekvalidation from othersthat they’re greatparents or to showthat they’re a victimbecause of youGot told youowe it to themfor bringing youup or sacrificingfor youFeelingresponsible fortheir feelingsand uplifting themood whenthey get upsetGot your feelingsundermined andinvalidated(“you’reoverreacting”,“you’re just beingsensitive”)Guilt tripped intogiving up yourresources orsacrificing yourwell-being to puttheir needs firstBe blamedfor thingsbeyondyour controlGot labelled asrebellious/insistentfor wantingsomething foryourself or wantingindependenceGot falsely putdown or criticisedin front of others(“you’re terrible atsports!” whenyou’re not)⁠Be a mediator toyour parents’arguments (bonuspoints if you werealso theirconfidanteafterwards)Pretended tobe andperformed asthe perfectfamily in front ofothersThey talked aboutyou to either bragabout you to seekvalidation from othersthat they’re greatparents or to showthat they’re a victimbecause of youGot told youowe it to themfor bringing youup or sacrificingfor youFeelingresponsible fortheir feelingsand uplifting themood whenthey get upsetGot your feelingsundermined andinvalidated(“you’reoverreacting”,“you’re just beingsensitive”)Guilt tripped intogiving up yourresources orsacrificing yourwell-being to puttheir needs firstBe blamedfor thingsbeyondyour controlGot labelled asrebellious/insistentfor wantingsomething foryourself or wantingindependenceGot falsely putdown or criticisedin front of others(“you’re terrible atsports!” whenyou’re not)⁠Be a mediator toyour parents’arguments (bonuspoints if you werealso theirconfidanteafterwards)Pretended tobe andperformed asthe perfectfamily in front ofothers

Narcissistic Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. They talked about you to either brag about you to seek validation from others that they’re great parents or to show that they’re a victim because of you
  2. Got told you owe it to them for bringing you up or sacrificing for you
  3. Feeling responsible for their feelings and uplifting the mood when they get upset
  4. Got your feelings undermined and invalidated (“you’re overreacting”, “you’re just being sensitive”)
  5. Guilt tripped into giving up your resources or sacrificing your well-being to put their needs first
  6. Be blamed for things beyond your control
  7. Got labelled as rebellious/insistent for wanting something for yourself or wanting independence
  8. Got falsely put down or criticised in front of others (“you’re terrible at sports!” when you’re not)
  9. ⁠Be a mediator to your parents’ arguments (bonus points if you were also their confidante afterwards)
  10. Pretended to be and performed as the perfect family in front of others